Topping Ain't Easy

[@glamslamcam]

This video helped me out more than you’ll ever know. I like topping but I’ve also had problems doing it in the past and wondered why I couldn’t stay hard & thanks to you, I’m seeing how much the mind and the mood play such a huge role in being able to do the deed. I’m seeing where I’ve had a disconnect with the act and this right here has already given me confidence to be able to do the act again and be able to really rock it out the way I want to so I thank you so much for doing this.

[@jwkelley]

Not sure I can agree as long as possible, My partner loves it long which I try to accommodate but it becomes a choir for me after a while. Like all preferences meet in the middle, sometimes their way, sometimes your way. Sometimes in the middle.

[@BobbNaef]

I was actually afraid of topping or bottoming for a period of time I’ve bottomed 2x in 30 years and glad I did so i can be the best for my partner. I’ve only been in 3 relationships my whole life. I just happened on your vid’s last night and like what you’ve said this far

[@john.premose]

There's nothing wrong with that. Not everyone can be a complete slot like Richie is.

[@RobertJones-kv3cx]

Great video. Everything you’ve said hits the nail on the head. I’m a senior adult, but at any age it’s good to be clean, understanding, and safe! Thanks Richie❤

[@andrewfoster4359]

Great Video and appreciate you being so open. I do agree that communication is always key as is hygiene nothing worse than anyone who is not fully clean. I think a lot of bottom guys especially younger ones have watched too much porn though as they literally expect the bottom guy to do everything and can just lay there - i like it how you explained that both involved should be sweaty, that the bottom should be working too - people forget that as the top the expectation is for you to be hard, stay hard and have lots of stamina - that is hard work (literally) and means a good top has to be reasonably fit. So many bottom guys aren't though. Too many bottom guys also just want to be used, again too much porn probably, and want to be treated badly - as a top i want a fully invested mutual experience and want the guy i'm with to verbalise and tell me what works, or even take control at times. Overall though as with all things it is about mutuality, for a really good sex session you have to both be looking for and want the same from it otherwise expectations can never be met?

[@George-y8s1u]

Versatile guys are the best tops 😊❤

[@tarchul5]

Yaaaaasssssssss Loves this! Versatile Rulezzzzz

[@bobbond6365]

I love topping much better now .. People just remember your hygiene. Always be clean and trimmed .

[@tevman09]

I use to always be the top until about a few years ago when I met a guy for a hook up and he decided after a while that he wanted to top. I did tell him that I hadn't bottomed for many years so he went easy at first until I was comfortable with it again. From then on I started versing again and then just became super comfortable with bottoming that I became a vers/bottom and have been for quite some time now.

[@lelandhurtjr6308]

Great info and well delivered!! Thanks👅

[@jockstrap6179]

You're very considerate. Empathetic. Thoughtful as well as hhhhhooooot!🌞 Don't understand why you don't have a boyfiend. What's wrong with people? Huh?😕

[@auntmissedperiod]

why would he need one

[@janispenka]

If you hook up without an app, how do you decide if you're going to be top or bottom. How do versatiles decide it? Can there be some awkward moments around this?

[@larsedik]

For me, it becomes a wrestling match, and whoever is stronger ends up on top. I've also met guys who would say that they wanted to top, but when they saw the size of my penis, they would want to bottom. One even said to me, "The one with the larger cock gets to top." I guess that was his rule, but it was not my rule since I do not like excessively large cocks. Anyway, I almost always prefer to top, but I've met some other tops that could be very persuasive.

[@zacktong8105]

Not surprising, because you seem kind, gentle, and caring about who you are with. I simply can't imagine you being an abusive person the way many not so subtily want to portray themselves: really roughing up and "pounding". A lot of hair in the bottom is repulsive, remove it or don't do it.

[@jerryfat7498]

love your hair

[@christopherevon2659]

Love you Richie 🌈💋💋🌈

[@richardhayward2800]

Good video. I believe every top should bottom, it gives you a better understanding of how to pleasure your bottom.

[@CynthiaNotG]

Wtf

[@JeffreyJohnston724]

good points I made my jack rabbit spouse listen to it LOL

[@jerryfat7498]

Hi, great channel, can you do a vid on cleaning out , you had said it takes you an hour, can you explain more and how you feel afterwards, Love you

[@ilandboi78]

Love it

[@GCGC-bigG]

Wow such a stud....!!!! 😍 We'd defo be a good pair to model with hehe. Which studio do you do adult entertainment with?

[@williamqueen8790]

I love being vers,

[@thomaswilke6312]

I think I’m exclusively a bottom even though I haven’t really done it before

[@MyAul]

good video

[@Trecesolotienesdos]

the bottom should also say what is working for him too. goes both ways. good advice though.

[@paulkerz4783]

bottoms r best tops really no way. most bottoms r lazy tops give up after a while . just enjoy what u like if your a bottom enjoy it if your a top then u have to plessure the bottom its not all about the top.

[@123ykraps]

Richie, love your work on BSB, alway rate you a five. The ones were your the top are most amazing. You are 🔥

[@TymoteuszGr]

I am older and ugly . Chciałbym być w Twoim wieku i z Twoją urodą :)

[@alanwindeknecht5606]

I got richie west only fans

[@jimmyjohn837]

Richie I am sure any bottom would love to have you for a top. This is great information and looking at you giving these tips is a turn on. Richie you are simply beautiful and super sweet sounding and acting. Thanks for your videos. You are great so take care.

[@thisthatotherfunthings4532]

Richie why are so many of your comments not showing up? It seems that my main channel has been shadow banned for some reason. I've never said anything bad on your videos.🤔

[@RichieWest]

I am not sure.

[@carlchamberlain713]

@@RichieWest , It's showing up now Richie. idk what happened either. Thanks for replying.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

Maybe because most of KZbin is tired of hearing about y’all talk about booty pounding. We gave y’all equal rights, can y’all stop being gross now?

[@asiimwemuwanguzi1719]

😅😅

[@rextrek]

4th..in my years of experience -coughg,cough- as an older gay man of 62 ...I preferred Bottom....but Topping I have to be in the mood for.....I appreciate your openness...wish I coulda been when I was your age....in the mid 80's ...different times

[@DannyLTerry]

GREAT VID. FOUND IT TO BE VERY INFORMATIVE. LOVE THE OPENING! SENDING YOU POSITIVE VIBE'S AND ENERGY.

[@RichieWest]

Thank you!

[@jacobholland3370]

Where can I go to find all of the studios you've worked with so I can go to their web sites and buy videos with you in them?

[@johniii8147]

Google it

[@dlaurel10]

Excellent presentation!!'

[@dlaurel10]

Love your work!!! Thanks for the information

[@mariom6884]

I am loving these kind of videos,Richie. You’re a perfect teacher to this matter.Thank you.Love from Brazil.

[@russhenry1628]

Loved this video 🙂

[@Idric-w5l]

I am gay bottom in 2024 my frist time fell in love I love tops I am turn on the most by white guys

[@dlaurel10]

Your video is so educational!! You descriptions are better than watching. I saw you turning so red when you were bottoming do you really were enjoying it so much !

[@dlaurel10]

The are a great sex instructor!

[@ollylevesque3404]

Educational lmao

[@sho942000]

I've always been a top but have tried very hard to bottom. I understand it, I understand the challenges and effort that goes into bottoming. I absolutely get the facial expression thing and being intune with the bottom. That is a real thing and such a great point.

[@raphaelszok8561]

bottom isnt easy either.

[@jamesfauren3994]

I'd like to add that if a bottome wants a good top they also need to communicate with sounds and words! A quiet bottom is like , how doese the top know if your enjoying it! Have no idea how a bottom can be quiet but I have been with some so I know it happens lol

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

Not me. If I'm gettin' pounded hard you might have to gag me.

[@bonkerss2073]

Hmm, I have to disagree that bottoms are the best stop because there has yet to be a bottom that wants to top. the way I know my bottom is enjoying it is if they maintain a hard on through the fucking session.

[@RobinHood70]

You may be projecting top energy, so the other guy is responding to that. Try projecting a little verse/bottom energy yourself, if you're able, and see what happens. If you're mostly/exclusively top, that's fine, so am I, but then why would you expect a bottom/verse to be say they want to top in that case? Also, don't get too cocky. Just cuz a bottom stays hard throughout doesn't mean they're enjoying the encounter as much as they could be. At the same time, some bottoms stay flaccid throughout, so then how do you judge? You need to have more than just that to rely on.

[@bonkerss2073]

@@RobinHood70 I wasn’t being cocky…I appreciate my bottoms. they have to prep a lot and that’s a lot of work so I want them to enjoy every second. Speaking for myself and my experiences, a flaccid cock to me means they are not enjoying it. I used to just focus only on myself in my teens/early twenties cause I didn’t care as long as I got what I wanted but now it’s different. Now I make sure my bottom has the best time and I know they are cause they stay hard and keep coming back for more.

[@USA_BL_Fans]

I think a good bottom CAN be a great top, but they need the experience and confidence which takes more than one time.

[@williamgunter6802]

Good video. Are you giving Dan Savage a run for his money 😎?

[@lewislindsey1946]

Richie, what happened to Lucky?

[@RichieWest]

Lucky is doing great!

[@roywirick9854]

lucky is more camera shy…unlike his dad who is a natural at this! 🦩🏳️‍🌈😘

[@b.s.g.1586]

Good video & subject. I've been topping for decades, & uncountable numbers of men. I also bottom when I feel like it. My experience has been that 99.99% of men have no idea how to have sex & top a person, male or female. We don't teach ppl how to have sex & give pleasure to their sexual partners in our christian & religious based oppressive dehumanizing societies. Luckily I had some excellent mentors when I was young & starting my sexual life. Similarly, we don't teach ppl how to bottom, receive, & give pleasures to their partners. Many bottoms are comatose, I have to check for a pulse. I've walked away from guys that can't interact with me as the top. I try to teach them, coach them, but they refuse to learn. I'm simply not into necrophilia. The bottoms that do learn what I teach them, become excellent bottoms. So Richie, a video to tune up all the dead bottoms is also in order!!

[@_John_Tyree_]

Congrats on the sponsorship!! 🎉🥳🎊

[@RichieWest]

Thank you 😊😊

[@michaelmatherne5086]

Sorry, but bottoms aren't the best tops. I'm a top and LOVE a hairy ass. Never had an issue with this irritation thing you mentioned. Sounds like you were just not into topping, that's why the guy had to flip you over. Just don't blame hot, hairy men for you not being able to top.

[@jonclassical2024]

More good advice Richie, thanks for helping teach the newbies.....at 67, its a good refresher for an old timer too! 💖

[@kakoozamartie4222]

Why are u rushing through it 🤣🤣🤣 Ask him for me 😂

[@lorenfay7010]

hot opening model moves Richie... good points on top and bottom both creating an action scene... great for Val Day actions too! xoxo

[@KAILLANCE69THEGAMER1]

Great video thanks for all the tips

[@mickwelch8515]

A sure way to double your subscribers quickly will be to post more content of you showing off clothes, swimwear, jogging wear, etc…..

[@PatricenotPatrick]

Those same subscribers later: the gay community is soooo sthuper fithcial and not tubbo inclusive. we need to do better, queens. Y’all constantly whine about what you propagate 😩

[@marquese1960]

Thanks for all that great information in this vid and the last one... love it when you down to the nitty- gritty! Wish I knew about all these things when I was younger, but who's gonna tell you all this stuff we need to know. Tks Richie xxx💖🏳️‍🌈🤭

[@donpM.A.D.4412]

U are a truly genuine 💗 person. From Connecticut!!!.

[@dudleyhall5217]

Your moves in the beginning were fun to see. Also, I noticed your chest is getting bigger and more defined. It looks good. 😉

[@jokester5812]

Eat something.

[@ezelldaniels6064]

I love the advice man. Lol you actually got personality too. This video made my night.

[@walnesblanc]

Hello richie west and how your day going and do you like tiktok videos and asmr videos and kpop music / squid game show as well

[@davidt3296]

You can top or bottom. So adorable who wouldn't enjoy shooting a scene with you richie. I know I would. 😊

[@robertsamuel-wd9tj]

I’m a damn good top

[@_John_Tyree_]

Topping is easy...with COOL-WHIP Non-Dairy Whipped Topping!! 🤣🤣 😆 😁 🧡

[@jameskantor0459]

Richie do what you enjoy.

[@donpM.A.D.4412]

How about just hugging more? All top and bottoms aside!

[@mark5368]

Wow Richie. I just loved your video. If you and I were out somewhere having dinner and you discussed this topic in the same way as you did in this video, I’d grab your hand and drag you off to bed for a gold medal workout. Your future husband will be very lucky and I hope you are appreciated for your incredible passion. Mark

[@geraldgoyette2676]

I was so into this video that my eyes were glued to the screen even after it was over hoping there was more!!!!!👍👍😜😜😍😍loved it.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

“You have to unlock a new part of your mind” - gay who has no personality outside of butt sex. Okay….

[@yun-pg8cr]

He aint gay tho, he is bi and you’re not even remotely funny

[@liveforyou818]

Three cheers for making it last and communicating. Silent sex is sooo boring.

[@jerryfrizzell6631]

62 years old and never been top and I'm a bottom

[@davids6898]

As the top in a relationship of over 11 years I really appreciate your tips. Making love to the same person for so long you sometimes can loose those things that made sex exciting when the relationship was young. Your tips are definitely food for thought and are some things I need to think about as admittedly our sex life does need some sprucing up.

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

I don't like topping. I think I'm a hopeless total bottom.🙂(hairy butts are gross)

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

@@andybhoy2922 , Absolutely correct. We'd be in trouble if we were all bottoms!

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

@@andybhoy2922 , Awkward in what way? I'm naturally kind of quiet but quiet doesn't cut it when first meeting with a guy. Make a point to smile, laugh, sit next to him, touch him, keep conversation going, offer or ask for a drink. Awkward silence will kill the moment and is no good. Ask questions. Most people like to tell about themselves. Stand up to do something and show off your (hopefully) sexy body. I was slutty for a few years and hooked up with a lot of guys. Only one didn't result in sex. Also I like to establish an understanding that if either of you isn't comfortable moving forward that you can just say so and no hard feels. That helps take pressure off. Good luck, Babi, and have fun.

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

@@andybhoy2922 yw

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

@@andybhoy2922 , Good. Those are things that worked for me. Also chat for awhile before meeting and avoid anyone who wants to met "right now."

[@ChrisPBacon-ok7ir]

@@andybhoy2922 , I didn't mind. It would make a good video topic!

[@themagickalmermaid]

If you're a taurus... you will have some aspects/energies of your opposing sign... Scorpio... hmmm :)

[@BoardroomBuddha]

Topping is entirely a mental exercise. Entirely like bottoming. You explain it well. We unleash our inner animal.

[@Maihquel]

Hi Richie, last week I "accidently" came across your youtube channel. I loved the first video and started to look for your "professional" videos. Since than I'm hooked. On KZbin you are very sweet, consierate, acurate abouy stuf with a sense of sweetness and understandiing And in your professional videos I see the same, but also the arousing things that are required. ;-)

[@nbk9td]

Wow Thanks for the great info I have done both top and bottom and enjoy both. No one that I have topped has complained, and I have never complained about being a bottom.

[@chriscoleman5242]

I love to be a bottom but one time I was the top and I loved it

[@ellv8969]

I mean, woah! a good well seasoned top is still a good top hahahaha can we get our flowers 🤣😂

[@tonyanderson6235]

I know exactly what you mean Ritchie.

[@LauderdaleJoeM]

As a top, I tend to draw the bottoms to me. But if we go back to my place and he's a top, I learned to bottom pretty early on, so with alcohol my body relaxes. Body hair....I'm prefer a hairless guy ideally. Ive been lucky with guys that were clean before a hook up. I love new Olympic Gold Medalist 23yo CHRIS LILLIS, oh God is he cute, despite his ski gear. They wear masks like crazy in China, tough to see the faces, but his was adorable. My gaydar is fickle at times, so gay clubs & bars are best.

[@boomer666ize]

Everything you said is so true... You can top me anytime 😉

[@Maranatha-t9d]

God wants you to repent and live in His love.

[@henrymiller3663]

If he bottoms for me, sure.