WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE MARRIAGE // *emotional* Q&A //

Funny and emotional "what we wish we knew before marriage q&A", lord. lol I honestly can't believe we got two videos up this week...Perfection is the enemy of Progress. I think that quote (and God's help) is what helped is get this video up on time! We realized we were spending 80% of our time, on 20% of the details and it was taking up way way way too much time...And our desire to make everything perfect was actually killing our joy of creating for you all which lead to us not creating content... so not only were Tori and I being discouraged but we were eliminating our ability to encourage you all and two negatives don't always make a positive. So we are letting go of that desire for "perfection" and just allow progress to tell a special story and testimony... if you're still reading this let me explain why that is important. It's important because we are constantly being perfected in Christ. But if we allow the judgement of others, or who we "think" we're supposed to be to cancel what Jesus is doing inside of us then we are missing a great opportunity. There is NOTHING wrong with admitting that we are a work in progress. WE ALL ARE. Don't let that be a negative reality in your life. Be thrilled that you are growing! Tori and I are growing with you and cannot wait to see who we all are in a few years, but in the mean time let's just focus on being who we are right where we are!
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[@ToriAndChad]

If you want a part 2, make sure to comment below and let us now your questions!

[@rhearachelstephen7516]

yesssss i would love as many videos as possible you guys, can't get enough of what God speaks to me through y'all!

[@ToriAndChad]

awww hahah that's so sweet! Wish we could do daily videos but that would be so much

[@kaileyb767]

Hi, yes I would love a part two, once I finish the video I'll comment with any questions I have.

[@ToriAndChad]

Sweet! Can't wait!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

Please do a part 2 to this video! 💛 I enjoy all your videos, but advice videos have a special place in my heart!

[@sephoraaime1003]

I love that quote Tori "if you tried to use my past against me it is like robbing a house that I don't live in anymore" Loveee this

[@aliciaprescod3570]

A married person once told me that marriage was created by God to make you holy not happy which ultimately makes you happy. Super helpful perspective

[@ToriAndChad]

yeah I love that!!! So good!

[@annabellex3559]

Ideal world: it's happy, and it's also holy so you're even happier ❤️ make sure it's a healthy relationship before you take the marriage commitment stage cos it shouldn't be unhappy and you have to battle through it to your own detriment xx Chad and Tori seem to have it right 😍❤️

[@gracesuh3296]

I never really understood what honoring your wife look like until Chad explained it. I cried with you guys, thank you for the vulnerability and honesty!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww dang that is so sweet!

[@jennie_gossi04]

“You don’t marry someone for the way they make you feel, you marry someone for the way you want to make them feel” You guys give the best advice ❤️📝taking notes for when I get married

[@giftedintrovert]

Facts love is about serving others , Jesus is the prime example of Perfect Love

[@jazpatuzzo4721]

I agree, that is something I needed to hear.

[@Nokuthaba_M]

Really hit home 💯

[@paperplains7285]

Bad advice.

[@lugm1034]

Actually, that´s more of a male´s perspective, bc it has to do with giving.. THe female side, which is in the receiving end regarding men (regarding children it´s the opposite, just watch nature), is more about the way they make you feel.

[@anmolnayak6533]

'Perfection is the enemy of progess' got to me.🙃

[@ToriAndChad]

Got to me too!

[@elanakotze6092]

Omw yes!!

[@ToriAndChad]

is omw "oh my word?" because for me it was always "on my way" lol

[@elanakotze6092]

@@ToriAndChad definitely oh my word!! 😂😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah I've been living a lie

[@sydneykorte517]

I absolutely agree with what Chad said regarding "hanging out." Man up and ask her on a real date, don't be the guy who just "hangs out"

[@andrewma9975]

“There is nothing more important than honoring my spouse.” -Chad Masters I guess when I grow I will make sure to do that! Great advice! Even before dealing with the IRS and paperwork. Family is so important 🥲😊

[@ToriAndChad]

Thanks for seeing the important of that!

[@jessbrown24]

wooo i cried. didn't see that coming.

[@lugm1034]

10:10 "Trying to use my past against me is like robbing a house I no longer live in" Gold

[@keepinitkawaii]

As a Christian i also cant stand the "we're just talking" culture. I feel like people do that to have the benefits and fluffy romantic feelings of dating but without actually putting any commitment or seriousness forward. I feel like it cheapens the whole process of getting to know someone. Thats just an outsiders opinion though. Maybe there is another reason as to why so many young people now a days prefer to "talk" for long periods of time versus actually committing to a relationship

[@sugardaddy9992001]

True true true!

[@SamFrial]

This just raised my standard for my future relationship. Thank you for this 🥺❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww dang that is powerful!

[@montanabuck]

Immediately cracking up in the beginning as Chad holds his tiny coffee cup with his tiny hand 😂😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah behind the scenes i almost dropped the cup

[@andreealupoaie]

And when we thought Chad couldn't surprise us more😂 here it comes

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah I have so many things up my tiny sleeves

[@karaurbaniak5997]

Omg love you 🥰🥰❤️❤️

[@montanabuck]

@@karaurbaniak5997 Hey girl lol!!!! 😍😘💜🥳🙌🏻🎉

[@JaclynBrooke]

This is so great!! Thank you for being so bold in the Lord🙌🏻🤍

[@aes4467]

Chad on people who want to define relationships: "That's them just protecting their mental health." BOOM. Exactly! Noncommital, wishy-washy, boundary-less romantic relationships really aren't mentally healthy.

[@ToriAndChad]

TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL ANNA! hahah thanks for seeing where I was coming from!

[@aes4467]

@@ToriAndChad LOL, You were throwing around wisdom, and I was catching it!

[@christinawatkinsyoutube]

i totally agree!! with the last guy i 'dated' we decided to be casual and it messed my head up sooo bad bc i was kissing him but we were friends, sooo hard to deal

[@Bo7bbsie]

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 😭

[@Nokuthaba_M]

Without defining the relationship you’ll be dragged down a path of confusion and anxiety cos you’ll always be wondering🤞🏼

[@jademondia6537]

"Using my past against me, is like robbing a house I don't live in, anymore." 😍💪🏼💞🏆 couldn't agree with that more. Thank you for sharing that, Toriiiiii! 💜

[@sitimaarof6089]

I love how you guys talk about logical boundaries for people who have religious values and how you prioritise the importance of the marriage. Alot of people in this day and age downplay 'friends with ex' and the hanging out with a member of the opposite ex. All back to genuine intention and honouring your spouse. I'm a Muslim and what you've shared are aligned with our general values too. May God bless your marriage lovingly and sharing for goodness.

[@erika1235]

Things/RED FLAGS to know you are NOT ready for a relationship?

[@ToriAndChad]

That is a great one to answer!

[@erika1235]

@@ToriAndChad Thank you for your response! I would love to hear y'all perspective on that how it looked for you:) I am trying to be intentionally single and have a couple of goals set for myself to really grow in but I want the motivation to not just be to eventually date but to honor God. That motivation has been so much more healthier for me!

[@ToriAndChad]

In the mean time check out a book called "boundaries in dating" or watch our boundaries video on dating!

[@erika1235]

@@ToriAndChad Right on! Will do :)

[@sietskebrouwer7682]

Really good question! I'm trying to figure out which things I have to work on personally before I'm ready to enter into a relationship

[@tealinesophiia5805]

"there's like distresso, espresso, and lungo" 😂😂😂 Thanks for being so vulnerable, love you guys!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah happy to be vulnerable about my espresso order lolol

[@maccosmeticsfan5973]

Nothing wrong with a good cry from Tori or Chad. Or me... 🥲

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah pass the tissues

[@andreealupoaie]

Or the entire fam lol

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah need to buy more tissues!

[@anaberthasoto3015]

QUESTION: So this is a little out of the normal relationship question but I’m wondering how a friend/best friend should be, act, and think once their friend gets married? Like what’s the new role of the friend, how should the friend adjust to the new boundary, what IS the boundary? Would love to hear your insight on this! Also, any advice for the friend during this transition? Hope this makes sense😅

[@alannaskai]

!!

[@sashagalemcfarlane3320]

I really hope you get an answer soon! But I'm just going to say, once you get married, your spouse is supposed to be your best friend. Your closest person. The person who gets to know you best and learn about you the things you wouldn't intentionally share. I'd say as a best friend with a friend getting married, to respect that space between your friend and their spouse. Be there when you're called upon and respect that the spouse will at times be "the best friend" your friend needs. Doesn't make you less of friends.

[@CoachTee.]

Such a GREAT question!!!!!! I really hope they answer this. I never knew how to deal with this scenario. 🤔

[@krobz2334]

The description 😭guys Thanks for speaking what few people feel ashamed to speak and I would like to let you guys know that you're healing so many hearts Jesus is using you in a way God bless your souls 💞💞

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww wow this was so powerful for us to read... woweowow... thanks for saying all of that!

[@jessebarnard2633]

Quote: If you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who didn't cut you...

[@ReinaBRamos]

Thirsty doesn't mean having interest to date someone, thirsty means that someone is so desperate that would be after a bunch of people and date anyone, instead of being selective

[@nanmasterson3525]

Such wonderful advice for young couples after being married for 39 years. It's obvious God is in the center of your lives and in your marriage!! Thank you for your authenticity!!

[@renf5246]

Had to watch twice because it was THAT good and I wanted to really soak in what y’all shared.. especially around idolizing marriage, that hit home hard. God bless you both, THANK YOU for sharing your light with us 🙏🏼🤍

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for helping us get the views up!!! hahah We love you!

[@whitneywilliams6168]

After having time to watch any KZbin videos for months, this video really have me some good perspective as most of your videos do!! As a single person, you constantly impart little nuggets into my life!! Chad and Tori, your hearts inspire me!! The love you have for Jesus and each other is so amazing, your wisdom blesses me!! About to watch all the videos I missed from last year and I know I am about to receive some good perspective and guidance from all those videos!! Bless you guys!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for being here sweet Whitney! You are beyond kind! Hope you enjoy all the videos!!!

[@Ceeeerrrrmmmeeeennn]

Something that happened in this video I feel really called to point out to you guys. In scripture over and over it talks about loving others. Taking our eyes off of ourselves and helping those around us. You guys seemed to have been dealing with an issue before filming. Chad touched on it. Then while on camera you were vulnerable enough to open up about it and there seemed to be this necessary moment of healing for you two. Bonding. It was beautiful to witness. Gives me hope for my own marriage one day. :) My point is that week after week you both take the time to help others navigate so many aspects of their lives. You have purposely helped me see my worth through Christ. But I see how our Father still works in YOUR lives too- because in aiming to help others you both are being slowly united stronger too. Its beautiful how He works. I pray for every single beautiful soul watching this video. ❤

[@andreader2825]

I love your vulnerability and silliness. The whispering scene was so funny 😆

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah we laughed so hard at that!

[@carolwilliamsblog]

Well. Wow! It's a definite yes to a part two from me, and I've been intentionally single since 2014 as I needed to work on trauma from my past. So much wisdom here to help me in the future should I get into a new relationship. Love you guys!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww yay! We love you too!!!

[@emilyford5881]

can I just say you are the most wholesome people! I'm literally tearing up at what Chad said about hugging Tori 😭😭

[@Grace-ue4lz]

Never been this early!!! wow! Thank you for the rawness and vulnerability but also the diversity with the videos!!! :)))

[@ToriAndChad]

Love that you are here so early! And also for the love on the different style of content!

[@simeone.betancourt5683]

Yes please do a part two!!! This was so encouraging and God is using you guys in a mighty way!! You both have impacted me so much already and Chad, man I have been really able to relate to you a lot and you have helped and encouraged me so much for my future! Love you guys!

[@ToriAndChad]

Wow you're so encouraging! Thanks for saying all of this!! We appreciate it! We appreciate you and all the love!

[@kimarhaj7664]

yals love is sooo deep and vast and wide, I can just tell from that cry 😭🤍 (made me realize never to settle)

[@victoriajerke5736]

I’ve been married for almost five years now. This video brought so many important things to my attention. Thank you very much. If there’s one advice I could give to singles out there is PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE. Prepare for the hard times by protecting your relationship before the hard times arrive

[@Jesus.saved.me.]

This is the first video of yours that I’ve seen and I absolutely loved it. Such wise words! Lately I’ve been truly learning to surrender my desire of marriage to Christ because I found myself idolizing marriage. The advice Chad gave regarding this topic really resonated with me so thank you for that! Christ is enough 🙌🏽🙏🏽 I just subscribed. Looking forward to future vids!

[@0722ruthy]

Same

[@primaverabelverde2882]

Thank you for this video. I’m having a rough time in my relationship with God and you guys encouraged me to stop procrastinating and get back on it. So yea, thank you. God bless you and your ministry!

[@autumxxleaves4186]

Keep the faith sis✨💕 you might like to draw inspiration from the early fathers

[@rheathomas1853]

I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. Y’all are so inspiring and makes us value Christ and relationship so much in the right way. Lots of support and prayers to you guys 💛

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww sending our love to you too! Thanks for being here with us!

[@mrdarrenn]

Just wanted to say I've been watching y'all's videos for a few months and it's given me a whole new perspective on life in general. Y'all have brought up a lot of things that I probably wouldn't have thought about if I haven't seen y'all's videos. So thank you for that! Keep up these great videos!

[@ToriAndChad]

Oh wow that is huge... thanks for sharing that man! Really appreciate it!

[@jf3542]

You guys have an amazing relationship and it’s not obvious to see how much you guys love each other and dedicate yourself to one another by communicating and being humble when it comes to even little conflicts or mistakes. As a 17 year old who hasn’t had many great examples of marriage and loving a future partner you guys help me see what it looks like to love and abide by God in a relationship and how strong that is. May God bless you and your ever growing family

[@jennamoser4471]

Please do a video about things you wish you knew before marriage. That is a great topic and would be helpful. Thanks!

[@ToriAndChad]

That is going to be an entire series!!!

[@stellaanderson6054]

Yes!! I’m 7 months into marriage and have used so much advice from y’all, thank you 🥰

[@graciajanovivallecillo5863]

First of all, I will always love the honesty and vulnerability you guys have. I felt like I was having a conversation with friends and drinking coffee (or matcha). Thank you for sharing your perspective on things and experiences. It requires a level of confidence and freedom in God and I think knowing your identity and you guys do that. I definitely cried. I was very emotional. I wish I knew a lot of things. Definitely learned a lot. I can’t wait for part 2. Also praying for you guys. I was listening to your podcast and I felt this heaviness that I don’t know if you are feeling it. But praying that God can show you and remind you He is in control of your storm and He is right there with you. Love you guys from Honduras 💕

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww we love you! So cool to see you are from Honduras! Also Tori loves Matcha!!! and thank you for sharing that you have learned a lot and like the podcast... there is definitely heaviness having your prayers means so much and it definitely ministered to us!

[@janetsantoss]

Hi Chad and Tori! I grew up Catholic and I’m currently 17 and haven’t felt that close to god lately, you guys have inspired me so much!! Thank you for being so brave and inspirational about your faith!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww wow that is powerful! thanks for sharing that with us!

[@janetsantoss]

@@ToriAndChad I’m currently debating on restarting my KZbin channel, I want to help other teens who aren’t that close to god and just grow together, any thoughts ?

[@ToriAndChad]

Yes! Just make sure you're doing it to bless others and God and not to worry too much on the "success" of the channel!

[@katieneri7664]

Thank you so much for being real and compassionate about these subjects, to us and to each other. It’s really wonderful to see a real and beautiful relationship like yours - wish you all the best!

[@ToriAndChad]

aww thank you for sharing that you felt like we were compassionate! That is so sweet!

[@julianna.3852]

Hey, chad and tori! Thank you so much for this video. As I am currently in a dating relationship, the advice you gave in this video opened up some things that have been on my heart for my while, and just being able to find myself within Christ and not someone else either that be a partner, friend or family. I really feel God has been using you two to speak so much wisdom and I seriously appreciate it ☺️🤍 YES to part 2!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

oh wow! Thanks for sharing that!!! We can't wait to make you a part two!

[@isabellalugada8939]

Awww y’all got me tearing up with y’all 🥺🥺 chad made a great point about honouring your loved ones, such a great reminder☺️ love these type of sit down videos, we want a part 2!! God bless y’all ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

awww that's so sweet lol God bless you too Isabella! let us know any questions for part 2!

[@isabellalugada8939]

@@ToriAndChad how much talk is too much talk during the "talking stage"? a lot of talk in there hahah

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah there is so much talking!

[@israeliana]

If you try using my past against me. That's like robbing a house i no longer live in. Yaas. I love this. My second favorite quote after *"if we've ever had romantic relations you're not my ex, you're a sin and I rebuke you IJN 😂"* It's a joke but for real.

[@faithwithvivian]

This video was so good. I love that Chad said to meditate that in Christ alone we are perfect. Love your videos ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for saying that! Happy you love the videos!!

[@rachelsparks8550]

You two crying about the moment 20 mins before filming was so beautiful. Thanks for always being so vulnerable and open. It's inspiring. ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for being here with us Rachel!

[@TreasureLovely]

Chad: "Its about protecting yourself. I don't anticipate ever getting into a wreck, whenever we're driving, but I put on my seatbelt. You guys should do the same for your relationship." 🔥🔥 That. Is. A. Word. I loved the vulnerability in this video. Y'all are always vulnerable, which I appreciate. But for some reason, when your tears flowed, mine did also and I felt like it was just me sitting there and talking with you both. What a special thing ❤ Interesting thought: I've been lit up about Michael Todd's sermons lately. 🔥 But ive found it cool that in your last video, Chad said "what a time to be alive"... which was a recent sermon Pastor Mike preached. Then in this video, Chad said "I wish someone would've told me", which was another title to a sermon Pastor Mike preached a couple years ago, but I had just come across yesterday. Things im watching are being repeated and oddly aligned 🤔 (God is good)

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww wow! Thanks for sharing all of that and encouraging our vulnerability! Also thanks for sharing in that vulnerability! And that is wild that that is repeated! hahah God is confirming things!

[@TreasureLovely]

@@ToriAndChad Your channel is seriously one of the greatest out there. I see the Lord in what you're both creating and its where I want to be. Also, yes! I love when God confirms things, especially unexpectedly and it catches you by surprise.

[@ToriAndChad]

dang you're gonna make me tear up again!

[@TreasureLovely]

@@ToriAndChad haha! Not the intention, but as you know, tears are cleansing. Maybe you need to have a good cry. I always feel better when I do, especially while inviting God into it. Oh! And can I request a prayer video? I love when you both pray on camera. The intentionality in your guys' words, is always so beautiful.

[@ranilyncuayzon6335]

"Receive vertically, share horizontally" 💞

[@blakemcmahan3960]

I’m in this place Chad, of even if God doesn’t offer me a spouse I’m okay. My purpose is in Him. My peace and life is in him. Love it

[@Hanna-jb1wx]

Questions for Part 2: What books/podcasts/Bible verses helped your understand relationships?

[@ToriAndChad]

That would be a great series in itself!!!

[@ernestab1697]

I love 'Apply God's Word' youtube channel:)

[@HeartOfGodChurch.]

We love you guys, love what you’re doing❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

We appreciate you so much! thanks for being here with us!!

[@KatieVision.]

Thank you for sharing!!! As a newlywed this was so helpful for me to listen to and really encouraged me to reflect on my own marriage and recenter my heart in Christ 💖

[@averylake5974]

i absolutely love your faith and your wisdom BUT i don't think you're wholesome, genuine, and never forced humor is appreciated and talked about enough 🤩 seriously feels like i'm hanging with friends!!! you're so funny :D

[@ondeanelourens]

You two are so blessed to have such a wonderful, Godly partner. Someone that is standing so strong in God. I love watching your videos.

[@tafusmurielle298]

You are just a powerful couple, the way you complete each other and God is just the icing in you.God bless your union ❤️.

[@sabrinanickel3812]

This was so good and so helpful!!! I would love a part 2 to this!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Let us know if you have any specific questions!!!

[@willowt4000]

WHYYYYYYY are y'all so sweet?! Omg. The part when you were both crying about the hug. 😭 So sweet and precious! 💖💖💖. I love your channel so much. You both have so much wisdom to give to others and you can see the fruit.

[@JulesLyn96]

I would love a part 2! Also "holding our timeline with open palms" was so convicting. honestly I need to hold more aspects of my life with open palms, not just relationships.

[@heatherschraedel8390]

SOO many golden nuggets of truth in this video🤩

[@marianaburns3320]

You guys are really out here speaking the true word of God and changing lives. I walk away both convicted and filled with wisdom after every video. You both are a blessing. And that podcast is 🔥. Whoever hasn’t checked it out yet is MISSING OUT!!

[@joannegaribay4802]

Tori and Chad - Love your honesty, faith based and vulnerable streams.. God has you two in the palm of his hand.. never doubt and continue to shine His light as you do! Blessings! Jo

[@erika1235]

Question for part 2! How to not find your identity in the relationship (not get too invested/too quickly) if that makes sense!

[@ToriAndChad]

This also needs to be an entire series or a separate video lol it def does make sense!

[@erika1235]

​@@ToriAndChad Thank you for understanding. It's something I have worried about but not sure if anyone else has!

[@ToriAndChad]

Yes many people worry about it!!!

[@conniek1039]

@@erika1235 hey Erika, you're not alone! I also worry about it 🥴

[@anjinteal7614]

Omg I saw that quote too and was talking to my family about it and my mom was like “WOAHHHH.” yeah that quotes something I constantly remind myself

[@sadhanas6340]

I just wanted to let you know that I was so badly hoping I find someone who can give me the right advice when it comes to these questions. I just open my KZbin and I find this! You have no idea how happy I was! And I'm so glad you guys spoke about this! I love your guys so much!!!!❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

NO WAY! I Love that!!!

[@alysestone1162]

I’m sure many do, but I just want both you, Chad and Tori to know how impactful, inspiring and encouraging you both are. Thank you for following Gods heart and encouraging others through this channel. It may seem at times that it’s hard to Truly know the positive impact your making in individual lives, but truly Gods heart and purpose is being displayed through you both. Thank you for being his vessels and a light in this world that is too filled with darkness.

[@elanakotze6092]

Dang, you guys have me in the feels. Love how open you guys are. The impact it makes is huge! Thank you for just staying, real, raw and true!! Ps: You guys have such a gift, and you are such a gift to me / us.😁 Love you guys so much! 🔥❤🤗

[@ToriAndChad]

We hit ourselves in the feels lolol thanks for being here with us, Elana... We love you!

[@JGTFAMILY]

God is the perfect match maker...He literally placed y'all together and look at y'all now, imperfect yes but beautiful, absolutely ❤ I love y'all, keep on inspiring and helping us with the videos you release ❤

[@yoshimar9548]

first time ive stumbled upon your page and I LOOOOOVE YOU GUYS. Such a down to earth real Christian couple

[@PS-df2gt]

I want a part 2 and part 3 and part 4, 5,6,7...with you I learn how to love our God more and at the same time being an active godly woman!! Please don't stop being soo deep and honest and real!! Let me share my little dream with you : one day I want to come to USA (I'm living in Austria, Vienna) and together with my godly boyfriend has a double date with you both-and I mean it🙈❤️I think I didn't learn so muuuch useful stuff from someone in this short time (2 years) then with you! And yess praying for you like almost every day! Thank you and Thank GOD❤️🤍Soli Deo Gloria! Polli

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha you are awesome! Wow! Thanks so much for encouraging us! We want to come to Austria!!! One of my favorite countries! You are beyond amazing and so sweet! Hope that double date comes true!

[@adelebeaucicot7342]

Thank you for posting this video! Also, make a part 2, please.

[@ToriAndChad]

Awesome! We will do it! Let us know your questions!

[@SarahLouUK]

You are perfect in Christ alone - that phrase has spoke to me so much since I heard Chad say it! What a challenge!

[@jessbrown24]

8:25 Chad's reaction to being reminded of the friendzone - hahaha.

[@celinagonzalez2859]

😂

[@iuliaturcas4348]

So happy to see your new video! 💛 I had a ,,not so great day”, but seeing you definitely helped me feel a lot better! No matter how I feel, you two somehow manage to lift up my mood and make me smile like no other!Thank you for all you invest in the Masters fam! Love you so much!

[@ToriAndChad]

We're sorry you had an off day :( That makes us happy that you feel a little better but know we are praying over you right now because having not great days happen and having people there with us means a lot... Love you!

[@kaileyb767]

Hope you feel better. I feel the same way, their videos always cheer me up if I'm having a bad day.

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww that's kind of you Kailey!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@ToriAndChad Thank you very much, Tori and Chad!!! 💛 You are too nice! 🤗

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@kaileyb767 Thank you! Hope you feel better soon! Be blessed! 💛

[@briannenicoleerman]

I seriously felt the Holy Spirit throughout the entirety of this video. 💜 You two are such beautiful, pure examples of Christ, I am continually sooo blessed by each of your videos! THANK YOU for all that you have sacrificed to put up your content. I love you guys!

[@karishughes8306]

I just got to the part in the video where y'all shared about things you wish you knew before marriage. This is more for Chad but Tori too I want you both to know that the things you had to learn on your own and may possibly feel like you could have done better the past two years just made an eternal impact on so many relationships that are not even in the picture yet. HOW COOL IS THAT?! Praise God that he redeems our story and uses it to impact others! Ok I'm gonna go back to watching the rest of the video now haha

[@eliceiam_]

aww the rawness and authenticity you guys offer is truly a gift that we all get to learn from. Thank you and God bless you abundantly

[@cassiegibb1419]

ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS!!! Such great advice. Honestly 100% relate to all of the feelings in the description. I have been feeling discouraged about all I was not doing "right" that it discouraged me from doing anything. But I am slowly working on that and taking small steps! I love that I am not alone in this journey.

[@shazzles123]

You guys are another level of real. Thank you for being role models for us and being such lights 💥 love you both!

[@ToriAndChad]

awww thanks sweet Sarah!!!

[@martinward4474]

Thank you for these wonderful videos. You advice Chad as a husband really helps me a lot. I am in a long distance relationship and have not seen my partner in more than a full year. 😢 I have been struggling, but have joined bible study at my local church and I am putting all my trust on the lord and trying to be more intentional. God has a destiny for us and knows what is right for my partner and I. I learn to accept, stay present and enjoy this moment as God would want. 🙏😌

[@Nokuthaba_M]

Thank you guys so much💞🙌🏻🙌🏻This really brings changes in our lives and Tori when you spoke about”having a personal relationship with God then being full enough to pour out onto the other person”🙌🏻🙌🏻💯that hit home....and what Chad spoke about was so true...I’ve seen this changing my relationships,when I think about the other person more and how I can be the best for them and they do the same...changes the whole relationship🙌🏻

[@brittanyjung1100]

for the question about going on trips, I would also suggest that you can invite other friends to come along! Girls in one room, guys in another!

[@sarahd.8080]

I just have to say I am SO thankful for you guys!! The Lord is definitely speaking through you and it is so so encouraging. I know y'all are very humble and I know God gets all the glory, but Chad, the depth of your relationship with Jesus and the passion you have for him shows, and it definitely has raised my standards when looking for a man who loves Jesus. Thank you both for the way you share Christ in everything you do!!

[@abbyswainson1288]

Loved this so much!! I recently went through a breakup and we’ve both had different ideas of what friendship after a breakup looks like so I loved hearing y’all’s take on that! Definitely do a part 2🙌

[@juniaestola3684]

You guys should do a video on advice for being an intentional friend with those living near you and those that live far away!! Love you guys 💗

[@shwetav]

Wow... what an amazing video! The topic was so good. Made me recollect this quote - 'Just because I carry it all so well doesnt mean that its not heavy.' My respect for you two just rises manifold every week! Such kind of rawness and the secure comfort to share your experiences with the world post dealing it with Him is the bestest sharing ever! There's always a touch of a strong conviction and aplomb when I hear you two speak. :) Thank you for choosing such difficult questions and making us wiser day by day 🙂 P.S - Tuesday isn't very far these days as I get to hear you two daily!! ♥

[@ToriAndChad]

YOU ARE CRUSHING THE QUOTE GAME!!! I love it!!! Thanks for watching and encouraging us in the tough questions we answer hahah...

[@shwetav]

@@ToriAndChad 🙃!

[@alenaannmathews5323]

That was so awesome. You guys make me me believe more in Christ. God bless youu ❤️❤️

[@WordsPictures997]

Yes please, to PART 2 😁 QUESTIONS How to be safe when dating. How to have a healthy investment without forgetting to consider your safety. How to discuss the unfortunate reality of divorce some marriages face. How to be intentional about keeping your marriage from getting to that even as Christians considering a lot of Christians unfortunately experience divorce. Did you guys do premarital counselling? Some gems you could share? Have you done any marriage counselling so far?

[@sydneycouch7334]

Y'ALL ARE PRECIOUS! I appreciate the vulnerability each of you bring to your content. So thankful for Christian influencers who are real and authentic about life's struggles. Your channel is impacting the kingdom of God one view at a time.

[@mj_9450]

The tiny coffee cup gave me the laugh I didn't know I needed 😂 These videos are absolutely amazing, I need this insight and perspective - it is so appreciated & you guys are doing so well in reaching those of us who really need to hear these nuggets of wisdom 🙏 Part 2, 3, 4 and 5, PLEASE?!

[@WordsPictures997]

Thank you Chad for calling out the mess going around of some people hiding behind " just hanging out " and refusing to define things while acting suggestive 😳. It's so encouraging to hear a man call this out. Loooool! Thank you Tori for mentioning you had been friends for 4 years. I definitely agree that it's important to mention because 7 months really is fast if you are with someone you know zero about that can actually be dangerous. Dating absolute strangers and getting married in months seems to be really romanticized. Unfortunately I had a friend who fell into the rushing things with someone. They " dated " 6 months ... got " married " and by month 9 things had turned abusive. Thankfully she's out of that situation. All that to say, thank you for giving context to your situation. Financial pressure!!! Yo! Thank you so much for sharing that. I think it's a topic that really is assumed a lot. Definitely something I've had to beginning to genuinely consider and gain sober knowledge in.

[@yiwentan3731]

So so good! Personally I’m not a Christian but these resonated with me so much 💘 Have the best day ahead yall!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww that is really sweet of you to say! Thanks and we hope you have a great day as well!

[@hellerupsgard2040]

so so good! I'm speechless! I really needed to hear this, and especially "I'm perfect in Christ alone" Keep going with what you are doing, because this world can't miss you two!

[@xprettynpinkx911]

So beautiful the way y’all both love each other 🥺 I hope it always stays that way ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

we hope so too! hahah

[@xprettynpinkx911]

Haha it will, just keep filling each other’s love tank like you are right now 🙂

[@jordansanguino4532]

part 2 would be great!!!! you guys have changed my perspective on relationships, love etc. So glad God showed me you guys !!

[@vinciacloete2764]

I love this love. The way Chad is so Godly and how Tori submits graciously ❤️

[@belightjenn3057]

This video is so good. Thank you both for being vulnerable & honest. I’m currently single, but am very encouraged watching you two live out what you share. I love this channel! 🤍

[@Blanimausi]

Love you guys thank you for being so honest and vulnerable 😊 Could listen to you for hours.. much love from Germany 🥰

[@ToriAndChad]

awww hallo and gute nacht! We love you too!