PREPARING FOR MOTHERHOOD | TOSIN ALABI

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[@YemiAyodeji]

Everything about this video is so powerful but the biggest take for me is the spiritual part, those prayer points are really powerful. You also didn't ignore the mental and financial implications of raising a powerful child for God's kingdom. I am so conscious about the parenting God's children that he has given me the responsibility to raise, may God continue to strengthen every parent out there.

[@YemiAyodeji]

I voted for this video, I can't believe it came early. Welldone Tosin for doing this quickly,I know it's not easy filming with everything else.

[@angelfortunee]

Yes, I recommended it to. So glad she made it ASAP. Thanks to our sweet baby for allowing her the leisure

[@julietambali]

This is the video that if someone asks, "Juliet, what are some of the ways to prepare for motherhood?" I'll send the link without blinking twice.

[@GloreeyahOnuh]

Thank you Tosin for this video. Mental preparation is key. As my family is back in Nigeria, I’m always nervous and scared about bringing up a child here in the UK. I don’t feel I know enough 😀. Let you said so many anxieties. But yeah this video has really put me at ease as I’m planning to start a family soon. Congratulations on your bundle of joy ❤️ , pls pray for me too😇New subscriber too😘

[@idarapeter]

“You have nothing to loose by preparing “

[@Lifeoft0lu_]

Thank you ma,I am not married yet but I learnt a whole lot watching this video Prayers can't be overemphasized God bless you, Arire and your family

[@jbmeloveable]

Nuggets from video: Parenting Preparation - Trust God completely for His timing - Proverbs 19:21 - many are the plans of man but it's God purpose that prevails - Mental preparation for the transition - reading about parenting, etc. - gain knowledge - imagine yourself as a mom and what life would be like - Educating yourself extensively - determine the kind of parent do you want to be, core values, etc. - Guard your heart - especially as you're reading and hearing about things from people (the negative ones especially that will contribute to anxiety) - Financial preparation - save!!! Plan for them financially - even open separate account for that and put money in there consistently - Staying fit - being healthy - Spiritual - PRAY about everything - specific prayers for child, general prayers, everything that crosses your mind Safe pregnancy journey and delivery Destiny of child - role in Kingdom agenda Name and Health of child Thank you Tosin 💃🏾💃🏾

[@itsfoda]

I bless the day I found out about your channel mama love you!!!

[@tolulopeola6414]

Your videos are motivating are and reassuring. Thank you so much for all you’re doing. God bless your family. You’re indeed a light that cannot be hidden.

[@BrendaKimbi]

TOSIN...you are the Pinnacle when it comes to giving insightful content. This was a Master class. As a newly wedded this was so timely for me especially with the 1st point on Proverbs 19:21.

[@ExtraStepsCeo]

Arire is surely growing up in divine knowledge and wisdom. I like the part that you say as parents we are contributory factors to what our children become, not just because we have prayed alone, God bless you for this. This is good for my monday morning and I have also shared it.

[@MrsCubsDen]

Thank you for sharing this video with me sis as it's first time hearing of the channel

[@angelfortunee]

You have nothing to lose by preparing!

[@FunmiVille]

This is one packed video mehn! Chai this took me back memory lane when I was pregnant with my son. This is beautiful and powerful!

[@funtyangel]

Parenting is such a big ministry that one cant just go in without adequate knowledge and wisdom. Loved that you shared this for those who are on this parenting journey. Guarding your heart is so personal for me because i went through pregnancy and i have sickle cell. I plan to talk about that on my channel as well. God be with those going through this journey.

[@angelfortunee]

Oh, like Journaling. I'm trying to build this habit too, making notes as I grow in life, so I can reflect and recount exactly how I felt at each point

[@abisola2606]

Once I saw the title, I knew I had to watch it on TV so I can take notes on my phone. Thank you for the many gems shared in this video - I am definitely borrowing your excel spreadsheet advice!

[@angelfortunee]

They fact that she's hearing all these sweet things you talked about in the video! 😊 Your generation is blessed indeed Aunty Tosin! A truly informative video. Thank you

[@topealade7270]

Tosin thank you ! You keep dishing out tips on different situations, I have a baby boy who is going to be a month old in few days and you have given me hints on how to pray n take care of him💃🏼😊

[@judithevaaretom_md]

You are just an amazing motivation for me 🥰🥰. Keep glowing mama 💖.

[@idarapeter]

You’re so prudent! My God, how do you do it??????? So put together

[@LusandaTh]

Hey Tosin. Congratulations to you and Bayo. I know baby Ari is still young but you might be interested in reading Loving YOur Kids on Purpose by Danny Silk. He has profound, godly views 👏🏾

[@LusandaTh]

There's also Raising Giant Slayers by Bill Johnson

[@HealthyBeliever]

Hmmmm, babies have no business making babies👌👌

[@Mosiwomeka]

Babies have no business making babies, absolutely!

[@ToyinOlusanya]

Well done Tosin, another video up at such a short time. The spiritual aspect is so important as it helps you speak into existence according to God's will.

[@natashachitika5313]

I loved watching this video.How you talked about guarding our hearts is so timely for me!🙌🏾🙌🏾Thank you 🥰

[@antonettewambani805]

That point on praying before you even concieve that is so me ....i agree there is no harm in early preparation.keep this videos coming missed you tosin. Congratulations on the new journey. All love from Kenya

[@deeomoore]

I just stumbled on your channel some days back and I want to let you know that I love you and everything you stand for /represent. You're such a delight to watch. Yet to see all the videos, but hey! One step at a time. People who are Christ centered is everything for me! Congratulations on your bundle of joy. Nations will call you blessed 💕

[@ojongmyriambecky9214]

Amen

[@MrsCubsDen]

"You've got nothing to lose by preparing" "Determine the kind of parent you want to be".....I agree 100% When I am on "unknown" grounds I get very picky with what and who I listen to and what I also read especially from family members that have good intentions. Continue to follow God's lead as you both raise your bundle and remember that no one can be a better mom/dad to your child that is why God chose you guys. God bless your new bundle and your family. Enjoyed watching this

[@Fashstyleliv]

This was an insightful video and well done for bravely filming this and sharing. Just to add to the Amniocentesis testing. They don’t just give you the Amniocentesis test, you do a blood test at 12-13 weeks called NT screening which screens for Edwards, Patau’s and Down Syndrome. If the risk comes back as high risk, that’s only when they offer Amniocentesis which as you described involves inserting a needle into the abdomen to extract some cells. And you are so right sometimes it could lead to miscarriage or there is a risk. And I concur with what you said sometimes they may tell you one thing and the baby turns out completely fine. ❤️❤️❤️

[@TosinAlabi]

Thanks so much for the insight . Strangely they didn’t offer me the screening at all, just the amniocentesis test. But this is great to know.

[@toyosiadedigba4880]

Thank you so much Tosin. I'm not married yet and I get that the best time to start preparing is now, just like you always say. Much love to you, Uncle B and Arire.

[@abayomiemuraishe8551]

Thank you Tosin for this video. I pray and believe God will answer all your prayers over you, your family and Arire.

[@Omotokeo]

Enjoyed the video as always. So many lessons that are applicable to other areas of life as well.

[@oluwakemioluwole5240]

Hello Tosin... I found out about your channel today and i've really learnt a lot from you today. Thank you so much ma and we expect more from you

[@thatmumof5]

The multitasking yummy mum, this is the way to go about it.

[@TosinAlabi]

Thank you ma !! Off to subscribe to your channel

[@thatmumof5]

@@TosinAlabi thank you much appreciated 💞💞

[@ogongare]

@@thatmumof5 subscribed too!

[@thatmumof5]

@@ogongare thanks much appreciated

[@modupeakinwamide5529]

I don't know you but I love you so much for this video and the meat pie video. I made my first meat pie yesterday and it was delicious. I am learning alot from you. God bless you. May you increase in wisdom and knowledge in Jesus name. AMEN

[@isokenIgbineweka]

Beautiful! The word for a married and yet to have a baby is "trying to conceive or ttc" - my life right now.

[@ogongare]

God's plans are perfect. You will testify soon

[@isokenIgbineweka]

@@ogongare Amen!

[@Peace_adeola]

Notification geng. 💃💃💃 so excited

[@KadimaBelle]

When you said "do you understand what I'm saying". I nodded my head. Your videos always minister to me. More grace, Tosin

[@queencoolgamer7670]

Organisation Mummy... Thumbs up aburo

[@joyfatoye490]

Thanks so much for this enlightening video. God bless you, your husband and adorable Baby Arire

[@damisho]

We asked and you gave us. God bless you. 💖

[@m2naija145]

This has blessed me soooo much. This bus the definition of intentionality. Thank you! May God bless you with more grace and wisdom from heaven

[@chimdinmauko7062]

I am number 158 to view

[@taiwomayokun3685]

I love this woman of God. God bless you Ma for being an inspiration

[@edoolotukaren4950]

I love you too much Tosin😘😘😘God bless your family and your lovely self❤

[@Mosiwomeka]

Yessss, you can do things when you have kids however, it's easier when you don't have kids yet.

[@Winnie-te9mj]

Just look at the glow😍😍😍😍😍

[@josephine3738]

Thanks soo much for this. God bless your family. I have learnt a lot.

[@dinahanorh2092]

True Gods timing is always the best

[@gabrielmotunrayo5384]

Thanks for the video. Really educative

[@damisho]

You are glowing o. Omg thank you Arire

[@angelfortunee]

But first, Iyanu ti shele ooooi 😂

[@chimdiorji]

I’m not married yet but you shared so many valuable points. Preparing mentally and financially is very important even for people planning to get married. Blocking out negativity is also key. The part of prayers is another major part on it’s own. Thank you

[@omojuibukunoluwa]

Thanks for sharing this topic. God bless you and your family. I really enjoyed this video

[@chidinmaeokpara]

Ehhhhhhhhh. *Babies have no business making babies, you have nothing to loose in preparing, answered prayers bring joy, you can never pray enough* 🙆🙆🙆🙆 Nuggets from Tosin's come back. God bless you Mummy Arire. Your videos are always a blessing. Thank you.

[@damisho]

Mummy Arire of the Most High 💖💖💖

[@monisolaoluwaakin-egbedeyi9661]

Loved this video. Really made me conscious to begin to cut out my excesses. Honestly doesn't seem like much now, because I just have myself to think about it, but I will borrow sense now and pay it back to the younger generation. Thank you, Tosin!

[@funmi_mat]

Thank you so much ma for this video. Although I'm single, I learnt so much from this video. Your home is blessed ma!

[@africanbarbie_bukola1022]

This is a whole lot I love love it ....What your Instagram handle

[@theladyheritage]

instagram.com/lynnjaphet This is her handle

[@zeea6507]

Great video thanks for sharing. Please share how to protect your energy , guard your heart. Mindset, peace etc would like to hear your perspective. Guarding ones heart is so important especially with covid19 pandemic etc

[@abiolaa333]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@uduakiee]

First here💃💃

[@TosinAlabi]

Thank you 😅😅💃🏽

[@asigoldenitza8288]

Woow,just woow. Very great video,I pray God continually gives you the grace you need.

[@mwendenjatha6611]

You rock too. Blessings

[@zainabmt4110]

Very insightful, truly we have nothing to lose but so much to gain in preparing for parenthood. You're glowing yummy mummy😍

[@olufunmiephoebe516]

👍🏻💯

[@bimothy3]

Love this video. How much did your friend say it cost for the baby on a monthly basis? Thanks

[@v.chioma]

Thank you for honoring our request Tosin. This video is filled with great lessons and takeaways. Please send my love to baby Arire🙏💖

[@obianujuchinonyelum]

Thank you so much tosin! This is soooooo good to watch.

[@pribodunke]

Aunty Tosin.... Ever efficient mehn

[@toluwanimib6409]

This video truly blessed me.

[@TemitopeOgwu]

YASSSSSSS

[@mudiasokoya8347]

Well done very well organised detailed

[@Lindygracie]

Love your videos ❤️

[@Oluwatofunmi]

Another video already 💃🏽

[@oyinotetubi6174]

The point about guarding your heart cannot be over emphasized because as the Bible says, out of it flows life issues.

[@Mosiwomeka]

PERSONALLY, Amniocentesis is not worth it, personally ooo....

[@Winnie-te9mj]

First 💃

[@TosinAlabi]

Yes you are!!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@taimysheehama9221]

Please make a routine day or vlog with the baby video♥️👏

[@Mosiwomeka]

God knows the best for us.

[@uchechipeace3155]

This video is so insightful....thanks for sharing, regards to your family.

[@LusandaTh]

You look sooooo beautiful 😭😍

[@jemimahdauda404]

Wow I have learnt a lot ; being discipline and intentional. More grace ma

[@temitopeevelyn69]

We’re here 🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉

[@oseofmat]

You've said the WHOLE truth.

[@annahildaarmah]

"Pray for the destiny of your child"

[@dami_ooh]

I love this video. Thanks for sharing

[@dami_ooh]

I love this video, what is the name of the pregnancy app you used ?Thanks for sharing

[@TosinAlabi]

Hello! It’s called pregnancy+ Don’t forget to add the plus sign.

[@ChineyEka]

I absolutely love this video. God bless you.

[@TrendingbyTennie]

This was so informative!

[@bukkybelgore]

Thanks so much 🙏🏾

[@TemitopeOgwu]

I loved this!!! Please lets have the baby name!

[@gabrielmotunrayo5384]

Please do you know if babies born In England gets the baby box or it's just for babies born in Scotland. Not heard of it in England. Thank you

[@TosinAlabi]

Hello, Just Scotland .

[@gabrielmotunrayo5384]

@@TosinAlabi ok thank you. Regards to Arire🥰

[@listen2lynda]

Nicely said sis! This glow 💜💜

[@victorynwachukwu1160]

I loved these advices!

[@TheTaiwoQueen]

Thank you Tosin🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉

[@titilayooluwatosin5891]

Thank you ma! ❤️❤️

[@clementinakuku5683]

Congrats Tosin!!

[@madeidanimo8963]

Great one🙌🙌