Totally normal day in Black Widower Challenge - Part 5

[@LizzieNya]

The whole "it's a ghost, it doesn't count!" gives Ross and Rachel's "We were on a break" vibes and I absolutely love it 🤣

[@mireryn9877]

Woo-hooing your ex wife's ghost on your wedding night instead of your new husband? That divorce was DESERVED XD

[@alexdelaloire8739]

FR!!! This let's play is so chaotic🤣

[@SillyKatt69]

"Dude why don't you just JOIN" absolutely SENT me xDDD

[@mossyrocks3967]

ikr

[@brookem1928]

The edgiest I’ve ever seen his videos 😂

[@jmity6470]

"She's just a ghost, it doesn't count! I did it only once, why divorce?! Why you sad? YOU should apologize for divorcing me!" - the words of a typical cheater 😂😂😂 the gaslaghting is hilarious 😂

[@hiebie1]

LMAO fr. gave me flashbacks of my ex🤠

[@tigerprincess1109]

I'm glad he's not like that in rl or Deli would have a lot to say about it 😂😂

[@BananaJeansG]

Yeah, also blaming Mother multiple times! 😅😅

[@_lady_melz]

I love Sandalwood but that divorce was deserved. Maybe after ten marriages he’ll eventually learn how to be a good husband.

[@nad_bell_]

Yeah, he had that one coming. 😅

[@calistosun]

The fact that James didn't notice Sandelwood woohooed with Mother twice by accident is sending me! 😂 And he kept insisting it was only once, the GASLIGHTING! 😅 No wonder James divorced him! Toxic relationship. 😂😂😂

[@SupergirlUK]

I saw them get out of bed and hop right back in 😂 i wonder if it was autonomous

[@calistosun]

I watched it back and it looks like Real James thought they never finished the woohoo interaction when he was messing with the likes and dislikes and meant to click on WooHoo with Sims James Conrad to cheer him up and was still selecting Mother to woohoo with again a second time​@@SupergirlUK

[@Kate09090]

I THOUGHT it happened twice! 🤣 That’s so funny.

[@darrylwhitefeather207]

Ghostlighting

[@andyandbee]

Right!!!! 😂😂😂

[@shannaandersonzongo8128]

The idea that a ghost wouldn’t count considering they’re full fledged playable occults is hilarious! Also I vote when this kind of natural chaos ensues you just roll with it. Nobody said the spouses had to stay married before dying…

[@NicoleElliot]

yep, I second that. It makes the gameplay more enjoyable to watch

[@shannaandersonzongo8128]

@ definitely! This type of chaos is my favorite part about James’ lets plays.

[@SEHayes]

Plus if the storyline is the mental anguish of Sandalwood not knowing what he's doing in his werewolf form and then his spouses wind up dead, the whole horrible relationship and divorce storyline actually works really well!

[@TheKweenBee]

This episode has everything a romantic drama needs: 1. A wedding 2. The return of the previous spouse 3. A scandalous afair 4. Divorce 5. An attempt at reconciling with current spouse 6. A questionably toxic relationship 7. And 'Murder' - Eventually

[@Teenyrini]

Right! This episode was hilarious! 😂

[@MoniqueDamphousse73]

😂😂😂

[@jamourns9587]

you should decorate that little bedroom for your daughter so she could stay the night :) even if you don't ever actually do that it would be a nice little storytelling detail

[@alittle-vixieeedusttt]

I’ve just realised how chaotic this series is going to make the already chaotic Bigwallet family tree 😂

[@skystygian]

At least they're not all having kids 😅

[@VeeBeeXx]

​@@skystygianImagine

[@anska7475]

If the story is that Sandlewood fears he harms his loved ones while rampaging, he could pin pictures of them on the walls of his rampage room to motivate him to do better - and to really drive home that feeling of guilt. XD

[@sarahcoleman5269]

Technically, he did get the frog at work. I don't think $10,000 is too much, especially when the challenge is to build a whole new section of his house with every new partner. $10K can disappear like that.

[@shirareinhold7578]

When you cheat on your husband with your dead wife on your wedding day and he ask you to get divorce… what a mood

[@tarsha]

James scrolling past “Change Relationship” when looking for Ask To Be Just Friends 😭

[@twentysevenswans]

lmao i cant even be mad because it took me forever too

[@jennw6809]

James directing Sandalwood to consummate his new marriage with the ghost of his ex wife instead of his new husband -- and then being surprised at the divorce... classic James 🤣 "It doesn't count if it's a ghost!" LOL

[@MyDionte]

Bigwallet fact 1583, sandalwood is the only bigwallet to woohoo someone back to life

[@sabrinaloizides-merideth9874]

OMG! I am loving this "totally normal day." By the way, "Ask to be Just Friends" is under Relationships now and then "Change Relationship."

[@mauratyson9580]

I swear he checked under there but maybe he just missed it like he always does when he's looking in the social menu lol maybe he just needs to get that searchable social menu mod again

[@sabrinaloizides-merideth9874]

@@mauratyson9580 could be. That mod is very useful.

[@DoveJS]

​ @mauratyson9580 If that was updated for the DirectX 11 boost (I think, probably 11.) Fingers crossed because I haven't double-checked myself! I just know immediately after that went live there was a list of what was still working, what wasn't confirmed, and what had been repaired already but I've been procrastinating since I figured it'd take a little time to find out for everything important to me and that was months ago lol. If that creator isn't active anymore then RIP. And it's such a pain hunting through all of those menu categories without being able to search... I haven't played Sims 4 that much but it's annoying finding anything; it's hard to tell if I've just overlooked it, I'm in the wrong area, or it's not an option yet. I didn't realize how bad it had gotten until I started playing the Reaper Event and I actually haven't gotten any new packs in the past couple of years because I've been strapped and couldn't justify it even on sale (plus all of the bugs, especially with For Rent.) I'm sure the menu is even more bloated with the 10+ packs we've gotten since then! I have almost everything up to High School and Werewolves (latter of which I was super excited for and would've gotten on release if I could've.) I thought I'd do better because I'm not as hasty, but I still ended up struggling and eventually just stopped socializing with intent lol. My most recent Sim is mostly just socializing with her chickens now. So I can relate better to what James is going through when he can't find something. I'll bet he cuts out some of the hunting process as well or he gives up sooner because he knows it's something he'll have to edit down if he doesn't.

[@mimipcy]

this is genuinely one of the funniest episodes of the bigwallets i've ever watched, i've NEVER laughed this hard at a series of unfortunate events in my whole life hahahahah

[@jaqsre]

it’s up there with the death party 😭

[@SILVER_SHADOW_GYT]

That was funny. All dying like that. 😂😂

[@AriaLouisa]

Please give Sandalwood a bit of a make-over with Life and Death CAS!

[@berg_ahorn]

yes! his makeup should be more emo and dramatic instead of bright and cute -- he lived through so much drama, it makes sense!

[@SignificantUnicorn]

​@@berg_ahorn Yesss!!!!

[@misspink69]

Their bedroom bathroom doesn't have a bathroom door 😂 can't wait to see how long it takes James to notice

[@shayweave]

THIS I was waiting for a door to be placed for the last 10 minutes😂

[@misspink69]

@shayweave I hope he figures it out because of Mother breaking the toilet 😂

[@Akiina_]

Yay! I've missed these series ❤ James: cheats on his wedding night Also James: WHAT DO YOU MEAN DIVORCE?! Classic 🤣

[@HopeIsNotaCOA]

I am not sure if this has been suggested yet, but, since you only need three activities in the date creator to make a date I think you should be allowed at least one veto when you randomize since you get five. then you can remove fishing or gardening or something when you clearly need to dance and eat.

[@skyechimes658]

Lovestruck patch moved “ask to just be friends” from friendly, deep thoughts to relationship, change relationship

[@selkiefluff]

I love that whenever James comes back from a break he immediately but unknowingly does the things viewers asked for, cleans things up, buys upgrades, removes all the things he previously imposed on himself as a challenge or to be a joke 😂😂

[@jennw6809]

According to Carl, cloudgazing now auto-stops increasing relationship when you reach "friends" and you have to restart it at that point to go on (say, to become "good friends.")

[@LauraP.]

36:48 not it saying "congratulate on marriage" when divorce had just happened 😂

[@teacherChristina2024]

James: I wonder what will happen if we woohoo with our ex immediately after getting married. Also James: What happened with our relationship???

[@rebelkallus]

lmao james being an elder is quite fitting to sandlewood's old aesthetic pre this series tbh

[@AKA_Studios]

At 36:19 did Sandalwood…woohoo the life back into Mother? 😂

[@kimt36]

Like the opposite of a "little death"

[@Caprice_H]

I love how James made everything so much more difficult for himself 😂😂😂😂

[@itsJessicaJean]

at 28:38 i almost had coffee squirt out of my nose from losing it when james just goes “YEEHAW!” out of nowhere 🤣🤣

[@charleelakebean]

😂 and the move to go along with it!

[@MsSims2Fan1983]

The woohoo game helps with the relationship as well, like with both friendship and romance bars. Also the mixiing station you got was just for the media prodution skill, the actual dj making skill uses the one from get together.

[@kapsican]

can't believe he didn't even consider a romantic repair date, I mean it's in the name lmao. also more wheels!

[@l.josino]

oh my god this was so funny 😂😂😂 the way it ended with sandalwood vaccuming while james played the piano was hilarious

[@AKA_Studios]

Maybe Sandalwood was thinking of Mother when he reserved the venue 👀

[@l.josino]

@AKA_Studios sandalwood and mother forever 🙆🏽💖

[@legendarymudkip2096]

Omg the drama! 48:02 i mean, the whole thing was toxic from the start lol this was always gonna end in murder lol

[@tealduckduckgoose]

16:15 if your sim rampages while at work, they just leave early, and make it your problem

[@grayhatjen5924]

I didn't realize how much I missed this series until I said, "Oh, thank god" when it popped up. 😂

[@magav7961]

I've got to say, I love when episodes are this chaotic lol

[@ItsAlannaBanana]

Same. Like the iconic Death party

[@Xaiyou]

Sandalwood being poly with his dead exes is giving me life

[@xSarahNicole]

Been promoted to "rest"ceptionist 🤣🤣🤣 The wedding green house venue would've been perfect when he married Mother. "I wonder what would happen if I woohoo with a ghost?" "okay lets do it" and end up double hurt LOL this relationship went from good to horrible LOL

[@friendlyxfire6783]

It would be so funny if every wedding he picks a venue that would be perfect for the previous spouse like the next one happens at a ranch or music hall.

[@tarsha]

Gift the frog to Sandalwood’s baby momma as child support 🙌🏽

[@DoveJS]

Or give a couple thousand as a gift for child support and maybe visit the kid properly at some point to reassure her daddy's not that scary lol.

[@lolabugge]

Swinging works great for relationships! (On a swing set of course)

[@Pickledwitch]

"SHE'S A GHOST IT DOESN'T COUNT!"

[@crystaljewell9356]

I started watching your sims videos about 5 months ago & I'm totally obsessed with Sims 4 now. I blame you & Deli for that... lol. I don't do good around the holidays & watching ya'lls videos has helped me this year. I really just wanted to say Thank You both (so so so so much) for the Great videos & I hope Life is doing ya'll great.

[@skyechimes658]

To order a bunch of drinks, I form a group and then “order for group” is an option.

[@xjbgforeverx]

You should have sandalwood make a ring to propose for each of his spouses using crystal creations!!

[@VereskVeil]

Yes!

[@bootercup001]

Before James is killed, should have him go to Tiny Town and write Vivian’s Book of Life!! Level 10 writing skill shouldn’t go to waste ayy 🎉

[@Bastonikov]

They are in different save games

[@sofiayacopino2427]

Sim James is a very complex and accomplished sim judging by all those skills... Sadly, his days are numbered 😢😂

[@teve8601]

I was just thinking the same!! He's extremely accomplished!! I don't recognize him as a townie... so having all of those skills is even more impressive. 😮

[@threeheadedmountaindew]

@@teve8601 he's a gallery sim made by a member! based on his age, whoever uploaded him probably played with him a bunch. he's clearly well-loved :) ❤

[@teve8601]

@@Kabotynka Ohhh! That makes more sense! I missed that part in the beginning of the series. Thank you!

[@MissNintendique]

a ghost definitely counts also in the future you could try couple's counseling in cupid's corner app

[@VarietiesOfBlue]

Visiting your child you had with your past affair partner from a previous marriage while werewolf rampaging is exactly why I watch you, never change.

[@notreallymagical]

This reminds me of the Winchester House, maybe in the later spouses we can add some more crazy stuff, like stairs to nowhere and rooms without doors to represent Sandalwoods mental state?

[@1880317]

I love this idea and hope he sees it!

[@FeralButtercup]

I just did the survey yesterday! Always excited to see that project come together every year. You do such a fantastic job. Website was looking tight! Reno updates are looking awesome and I'm so happy for you and Deli and Bowser and Frani (THE MOST IMPORTANT)

[@FeralButtercup]

suggestion for future "fissure finds" maybe randomly generate (another wheel?) options like Sell (free cash? yes please), Keep (pay bills on it, decorate the house), Gift it to someone, Oh No it's a fraud (cheat away money). Since you'll definitely be having more of that kind of event with this career.

[@miamcgreavy]

I'm only a few minutes in and this is such a minor point - but thank you for your transparency with the sponsor/promotion segment of the video. I know some creators use that progression bar and have it move quickly at the start only to move at a snail's pace towards the "end" of the sponsorship section, but yours was consistent. It's really refreshing to see honest and transparent creators!

[@NoDecaf7]

Icky, I've never noticed creators slow down the progress bar... now I'll be on the lookout. I don't mind ad spots, we've all got bills, but please be honest about them ❤

[@threeheadedmountaindew]

for the next time: "ask to be just friends" always shows up under relationship > change relationship!

[@CringeArchon]

An HOUR long episode?? We're feasting today!

[@hugo_dummy]

finally had time to finish this video, and the CHAOS. absolutely amazing. the end with the piano, the vacuuming, and the outro music, just plain chaos. I love it.

[@Skyler-cj7np]

I’m pretty sure it goes relationship -> change relationship -> ask to be just friends

[@mvs0806]

I love the idea that the Bigwallet family has to attend yet another one of Sandalwood’s weddings and that they do so about once or twice a week. At some point you’d expect they would grow suspicious and stop attending. And imagining that Sandalwood is making a new wedding registry everytime

[@lisabrown8889]

I say you legitimately earned that frog - sell it and build a basement rage room!

[@NicoleLaurenEsq]

The first thing I ever pulled out of a fissure was that Jungle Adventure frog. It gave me OG freegan dumpster diving flashbacks. lol

[@iPeanuthead]

I thought you didn’t want a rampage room or the “regain control”trait because the storyline is that he accidentally kills his partners while rampaging. Maybe in those moments he was just unable to get in the room quick enough/wasn’t strong enough to prevent the fury taking over.

[@Incurtus]

I think it's that he thinks that he is the one killing them while rampaging, not that that is actually what is happening. Makes sense for him to want to learn to control his powers as he thinks that's how his loved ones keep getting hurt

[@syelive]

James seeing Sandelwood's house and immediatley asking him to move in to get him out of that lmao so sweet

[@sofiayacopino2427]

35:21 just join! What's the problem here? 😂😂😂😂

[@ZachPizazz]

The best part 😂

[@kittyclawed580]

I am laughing so hard during this video. The woohooing chaos is wild

[@TheXephyr33]

This may be the most chaotic LP you've ever done. I love it.

[@amyyycakes]

38:45 I didn’t think that was gonna happen! Really James? Someone pulled a Gluon 😂

[@thundercookie3214]

OMG I love it when the James Turner YT Survey sponsors creators! I have been diligently participating since the first year and I must say, the survey has come a long way. I was kind of disappointed when I was done with it. Anyway, congrats on the sponsorship and amazingly chaotic video. I loved it!

[@cafffy]

The beginning of the video is just me yelling at my screen: RELATIONSHIPS > CHANGE RELATIONSHIP, JAMES!

[@itschelseakay]

James! How dare you break James’s heart on his wedding night by sleeping with the ghost of Mother 😠

[@BrightEyesEm]

I would've sold the frog, the job pay is pretty bad! And with the additions of each partners section the bills are gonna be painful 😂

[@MelissaB724]

ask to just be friends is in relationship-change relationship

[@BattyBigSister]

Use the remaining money from the frog to 'buy' Claire a decent bedroom with toys etc and a single bed for when she ages up. Be less of a deadbeat dad for once.

[@fionacalou11303]

I think Sandalwood should take in Clare. She could have the Macabre trait and befriend Edith

[@MartiBelo]

I think you could make the bedroom, living and kitchen based on Sandalwood likes and then add a specific room/space for the new spouse (like the balcony for mother).

[@purrrfectkat]

Thank you for all the awesome videos especially with all renovations going on!! We appreciate you James!

[@lypreila7913]

James after making Sandalwood cheat on his brand new husband, causing said husband to divorce him - "I feel like I've messed up here" . I've gotten like 5 $8000 gold frogs from those fissures too lol, I'm convinced they pull from the same loot pool as the dust bunnies.

[@Cookie-mv5gt]

It took me a year and some months but I’m finally caught up with the Bigwallet family. It’s been a long journey. 😅 704 videos including the build videos.

[@VioletGreen-v5s]

James, I remember the house from parenthood lets play and I think similar vibe would be perfect here!! Adding rooms or parts of house on top of exising ones to make a patchowrk of a house ;) it is going this way! please continue!

[@LeireFB]

36:45 When the woohoo is so good that it brings you back to life

[@clairerockwell4165]

Really curious to know if Deli would think a ghost counted 😂😂😂 amazing

[@Everythingofmusic]

Man the divorcing, the double heart break, the sadness…. Was too funny! I was like 😂. Jealousy is real lol.

[@the_nikster1]

all of the relationship stuff (like break-up, ask to be Best friends, ask to just be friends, etc...) is now under: Relationship > Change Relationship. also: don't forget to at least let James blow out his candles or he'll be sad!

[@thatauthorchick]

I laughed so hard I cried when the woohoo the ex on the wedding night happened. This episode was fantastic!

[@saraheastman217]

Not the ensuite bathroom door missing

[@furaances]

Love that both weddings now have had someone who Sandalwood dated and broke it off with arrive to the wedding and cause a scene 😂 also love how chaotic this episode was lmao

[@lauriartysimmer]

This greenhouse wedding venue would have been perfect for the wedding with Mother surely! 🌱

[@charleelakebean]

I dont know why, but the guy on the dance for at 28:30 had me dying of laughter 😂😂

[@ChengYiXB]

4:59 IMAGINE SOMEONE SENT YOU THIS PICTURE I'D BE TERRIFIED🤣🤣

[@CrystalClear5617]

1:13 shocker, truly unexpected that James won 😂

[@purpledragonfly4]

*Dude, you did James dirty! Savage!* 😂

[@rivermoon4825]

😂 that frog is a work hazard pay.

[@kazzolijake2651]

If you ever feel like you are getting too many golden frogs the extra money could be for Claire, either to give her a space at Sandallwood's or to make her own home nicer. ya know. child support

[@Skylar.McGinley]

This relationship has surpassed the toxicity of Reginald and Sidney which is...impressive 😂

[@ngnrdgrl]

I kept hoping James would send them to romance counseling. I haven't explored this feature yet. Would it have helped save the relationship? Making the game table an heirloom is fantastic. Don't forget a will to designate who receives it!

[@iknownothingx-y2d]

Sooo, clowncore is back?! 😂 LOVE this episode. It’s so unhinged…! ❤

[@Jamon1916]

Sandelwood now has a special ability: Woohoo the life back into ghosts. Lol

[@trishq6882]

Love how chaotic each episode is! 😂 Also nice to wake up on my birthday to see one of my favourite KZbinrs has uploaded a Let’s Play!🎉

[@nancy.padawan]

I have a werewolf in the undertaker career and when they were rampaging they left work and came back home. I'm really curious about what they do during an active workday.

[@ysharros]

I'm going to have to dust off my werewolf sim and play at ultra speed just to hear that little "meh" howl for myself 😄

[@emiliavarneslahti]

Wow, I have to leave a comment just for that wedding venue!!!! Not kidding, one of the most beautiful builds I've ever seen. 😍