Marriage Tips You Have To Know! - “Men Like That Cheat Every Way!” - Towards Eternity

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[@nadiasafiswe]

The first man that didnt put the blame on the women for her husbands cheating. It is so simple the mans heart is evil when he cheats, not the women nags to much, not the woman doesnt pay attention enough to her appearance, not the women doesnt clean the house perfect. May Allah reward this man with jannat al firdaus for his clever words and spreading a fair message. Im so happy to finally see this.

[@Hahahaha-7]

Wrong. There is a difference between men and women. Yes that’s wrong to morally cheat but men are different to women biologically and physically. Men are physically attracted. They want a beautiful loyal women. They don’t want a wife that continuously refuses them sex either. Yes some most women can nag too much and be bad wives causing men to cheat. Cheating isn’t morally good. Firstly I would put blame on the women for not taking care of herself the house and relationship despite the man trying to cooperate. Then I would blame the man for having sex be hind his wife’s back with another woman he should rather divorce her upfront. If he’s just talking and looking forward to getting married that’s not cheating. Also this actually very unrealistic Muslims men don’t cheat on their wives. Not really that’s doesn’t happen.

[@Farah-i8d4q]

I agree first man to not blame the wife . I normally hear if only the wife lost some weight or she looked after herself better. This man is a breath of fresh air!

[@Hahahaha-7]

@@Farah-i8d4q if u and a severely fat or obese wife who constantly refused sex a]didn’t pay attention to her looks or hygiene and saw a better woman u could make u R wife. U should leave. If ur wife doesn’t wanna change herself for the better and proves she cannot be wife material. Divorce her. I’ll find someone better

[@meherasim2657]

Ameen

[@mariamcd8370]

Me to, Amin❤Alhamdulillah

[@pa2359]

I have been married 26 years, came to know cheating, confront him, he did not took responsibility. After one year file divorce. I faced and still facing challenges. Allah with me, I donot need anything else.

[@AB-lp8jd]

May Allah give you strength. Betrayal in whatever form is one of the hardest things to be tested with. You didn't deserve such trash

[@ummua5006]

Me same. 18 years of marriage. Ex is 56 now getting married again with another woman 25 years old. His life is going on as if nothing happened. Iam the bad one for wanting divorce.

[@AnisKhan-rt9np]

​@@ummua5006hey don't be upset all praise to allah he planned someone better than him 😢 don't forget to say Alhamdulillah❤

[@MissAynneK]

I saw a clip from this video on KZbin and had to come watch the whole video even though I am not a Muslim. This is such wise teaching and I am grateful that I got to hear the message 🙏🏾

[@samz7196]

100% truth. He gets it. Cheating is a character problem, and no one else is to blame. A lot of people in our community blame the victim, the spouse. Divorce is always an option. No excuses for deception, lies and manipulation.

[@leratomotsau695]

The truth in what you're saying Wallahi. I wish many people understood their respective worth especially in Islam👌💯🔥

[@wafiqessop4034]

I have heard a guy say his cheating was justified as "his wife did not do her duty". can you you imagine. So I asked why he did not divorce and he said nothing

[@ÄãbirIslam98]

Cheating is a choice. It's not a fault by being unintentional. Characteristic problem 🤮

[@fizzy4266]

The most beautiful video I’ve seen about marriage. Love how the sheikh used hadith & positive examples to convey his message.

[@jasminbegum3335]

I know a beautiful sister whose husband cheated on her with his work colleague. After 4 years, it was finally exposed. BUT his family, instead of holding him to account, they all blamed his wife, that she nagged, that she was a terrible wife. They were married for 15 years with 3 beautiful children. With his families support, he moved his mistress into his mum's house, his family patted him on the back. His family aided him to live life with his mistress. May Allah grant mutual love, respect, honour and loyalty between husband and wife.

[@itsallabouttheanimal]

May ALLAH grant the sister who was cheated on justice and provide her with infinitely better 🤲

[@مارية-ك8ن]

I respect this man for saying it how it is. Whoever is going to cheat will cheat no matter what, you cannot blame their partner for it.

[@sainaboujattasanneh1987]

Assalamu alaikum. Do u know that my eyes are full of tears as I am watching this video, and I can't speak out . May Ya Allah always be there for us, ameen...

[@creationsoffarzid1154]

The volume of married men (including Muslim married men) who have approached me for relationships was a shocking discovery that made me paranoid about the unsafety or unreliability of the modern era man for marriage. The portion of good men who prioritize loyalty in marriage is very tiny percentage. Muslim men are not being raised to read the meaning of the Quran , so they do not have the right character by the time they reached marriageable age. But Muslim women are raised to be submissive to her husband irrespective of needing to read the Quran for a character development, so it is not women who need to be lectured for good conduct towards her husband as it is already within her nature to want all the domestic things like looking after the home and stability and safety for child raising as these require loyalty from the husband. And lets not forget, that the same modern Muslim man no longer likes being the financial provider because he has become so accustomed to the Western way of thinking.

[@Maryambest1]

EXACTLY 💯💯💯

[@lalo6442]

Truth has been spoken! 👏

[@bato4531]

YAAAASSS

[@TheOrganics01]

Yeah

[@doukoure3468]

Why in the first place m’en approche you?😳

[@everseeking60]

MashaAllah loved listening to this. I wish he would do more lectures...so knowledgable, so wise.

[@iluvhoba]

😊😅

[@Nahide.akdag65]

I am tring to learn this religion I am studying english language and literature. Belive or not belive I have learnt english speaking thanks to this channel. At the beginning my intention wasnt to learn this language instead my intention was to learn this religion . I have listened millions videos for 9 years to learn english speaking but I lose my hope for speaking until I discovered this channel . After following you I dont know what happened to my tongue . I can speak without thinking . After realizing this miracle, my belife increased in a way that you cant imagine .Thanks a lot beautiful paople. I belive that I will be a perfect english teacher and I will recommend this channel to them . As a result İf you step to god ; God will run to you. I have learnt this🎉❤

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English + Islam ❤

[@Nahide.akdag65]

All the time islam . Because if you can feel the infinite peace in your heart , you will all the time zikr to God so as not to lose this peace. And this means that you will research about islam all the time for feeling the peace. May god mercy upon us all the time .

[@shaniceokubena4975]

You and your story inspire me ❤my Allah guide you Always ameen.

[@AyeshaNoor-tc9me]

@@Nahide.akdag65 may ALLAH guide you sister. Islam gives you proofs. if you have any doubt in sha Allah i will answer you sister. i will pray for you.

[@sabr9790]

In sha Allah, Allah helps you to come to our community Islam

[@TheEpicChikidii]

Mashallah this is the best marriage advice video I have ever come across from Islamic context; it really soothes the heart and feels like positive advice mashallah may Allah forgive the brother for his sins and raise his ranks to highest Junnah

[@Affanaman21]

Ya Allah, please let us apply all of this Prophet (SAW) teachings towards our spouse to stay healthy and long living in our marriage. Ameen

[@noor-azizahnurudeen5686]

Allahuma Aamen

[@colorme6536]

Cheating sounds so simple like a mistake but the actually word is called adultery which you go to hell for that’s how big of a sin it is but we treat it like a mistake

[@lvrrain]

جزاك الله خير الجزاء يا شيخ المقطع كله فايده و نصايح من ذهب شخصيا استفدت كثيرا و حببتني الى ديننا و السنة اكثر بحديثك الله يحفظك و يجزاك الجنة

[@knisayusuf]

Amin

[@mumtahinaparvin7668]

I was praying to Allah to give me some advices related to my problems and this video has come to me. Alhamdulillah . We cannot end praising in the name of Allah. He is the One who can relieve us from our pain.

[@petal21]

Every married and to be married person should refer to the sunnah of rasoolullah صلى الله عليه وسلّم to live peacefully. اللهم ارزقنا حبك وحب من يحبك وحب كل عمل يقربنا الى حبك

[@latinalife2458]

Ohhhh Alhamdullilah this video came up on my feed. I suffer in an empty marriage and mentally and morally abusive !!! I didn’t know what was the problem until 18 years later, I try and I try to have a happy marriage for years . Called me ugly all the time made me feel insignificant so he was unhappy for making me unhappy, his solution ? Find someone and marry her behind my back. There is a lot of narcissistic man in the Muslim community, extremely abusive and at the mosque holy !!! I’ll show this video to my kids because they are learning his ways.

[@BrokenMom]

Tis is xactly the issue in my marriage…everytimr made to feel worthless n always eyes on othr women….n wen thought life was better n secured when kids grew up thn hehad a relationship n secretly married bhnd my bac .. n no guts to acknowledge it openly … the pain is really traumatizing n so the abuse of mny yrs

[@Sskim-ue6]

A cheat does not change. They destroy you and you will end up resenting them. Giving them chances is like "Hey you missed the first time, it only injured me, here's another bullet"

[@Assia131]

A guy pretended to like me (ofc no relationship) and I believed him then saw him following multiple girl accounts, and that hurt me let alone being married to one, may allah swt give them sabr

[@Sskim-ue6]

@@Assia131 That's a red flag. Red flags are important. Save your heart

[@Assia131]

@@Sskim-ue6 yeah al hamdullilah I'm over him

[@idajma_habibti]

Cheating is a choice 😢 they know what they are exactly doing😢

[@Texas_Cuh]

I appreciate your time for this, truly blessed to have older brothers help those younger.

[@azizaali6113]

Alhamdulillah I took a brave decision to divorce my Husband of 30 years no regret at all. He has deseased heart evil intentions towards women, very corrupt with dirty mind. Cheating was the biggest problem and recently Allah exposed his shame inside his house Alhamdulillah I straight away requested my Divorce without thinking twice. I thank Allah everyday. Alhamdulillah

[@azizaali6113]

@ronaq756 Cannot complain my dear sister. I am the happiest woman it was a brave decision I wish I left him long time ago.

[@noormuzamil9850]

@@azizaali6113 why left your husband do you have kids

[@azizaali6113]

@noormuzamil9850 Please read again why I left him, its on the comments section. Yes Alhamdulillah i have children.

[@noormuzamil9850]

@@azizaali6113 where are you from is your husband is a deadbeat dad who is not working or taking care of children and you.

[@asmaaslam3345]

You're lucky that he respected your right to divorce. Usually, such men use it to control their wives. You demand divorce and they just keep you hanging so that you suffer.

[@sophiaisabelle027]

We appreciate this channel. They're giving us great insights.

[@siddiquenaim]

i can listen to him all day, he explains everything so beautifully! may Allah bless him with the best rewards!

[@naazimahmed9781]

What's his namem

[@naziazaffar8732]

Sheikh Yahya Adel Ibrahim

[@abdikadirabdullahi1385]

Our Somali parents, men ,women, and youth should watch this and learn more

[@basrinosirat9522]

Can i like this video more than once? Masha Allah ❤

[@hadithoftheday3858]

at-Tirmidhi 747 Abu Hurairah narrated that: the Messenger of Allah said: "Deeds are presented on Monday and Thursday, and I love that my deeds be presented while I am fasting."

[@yellowmint5]

Such a lovely lecture with not only talking about what's right and wrong but solutions to overcome it.

[@jamieh9100]

Salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu-this was beautiful!! I pray that Allah rewards you immensely, Allahumma, ameen.❤

[@MichelleMao-fd6xh]

Thanks for not blaming the wife or making her responsible for "fixing" the husband's zina problem. Also, for acknowledging that sometimes the heart is just evil. The only things I would add would be, regarding the mother relationship, sometimes mothers don't get enough attention from their own spouse & try to get it from their son(s). Also, mother's are human & may have their own faults such as, being overly needy, jealous, or having unhealthy needs or demands themselves. Also, just like other videos, the majority of this video emphasizes on how a wife can make the husband happy, what changes she should make, etc. Just a small amount discusses how a husband can help with chores. Videos should focus on how husband’s should BUILD in his wive’s heart trust, respect and the desire to be connected with him as well on how he should treat her like a queen. And, if husbands were trustworthy, open, & able to communicate with their wives, then they would not feel the need to turn to another person to discuss their problem.

[@Aissa_gilly975]

I didn’t want this to end 😢. I’m glad I watched this video, I’m not married but inshallah when I get married in the future I will use the advice.

[@User77587]

As a man, this video made me smile. Yes, this is exactly the husband I aspire to be.

[@imankhan6981]

Jazākumullāhu Khāyr soo so much!! Absolutely loved this Alhamdulilāh!! May Allāh ta'āla accept from you all and bless every marriage with the Sunan of our Habeeb (s), āmīn!

[@NTHTVal]

MasyaAllah, such an insightful interview. Barakallah

[@leviackerman9718]

I deeply love this brother , I want to be a better version of myself but sometimes I’m lazy . Thanks for sharing this

[@TheAJKahn]

Subhan-Allah, beautiful video. Very well explained. Saving it for future reference. Thanks for doing this Towards Eternity.

[@hanifahadam302]

Am not married but am PRAYING to, may ALLAH bless me with the right person. But this message is good. From part 1 to this. Masha ALLAH. Thanks

[@ayaguzel4878]

Amen

[@naziazaffar8732]

Subhan Allah. Beautifully explained with Ahadees and living examples. Jazak Allah khair. Pray that Allah Guides us to live a better life following the footsteps of our Prophet Muhammad SAWW. Aameen.

[@yellowmellow4753]

BEST thing I’ve heard on the topic of cheating.

[@zeenatFarooq-bw8vu]

It was such a pleasure listening to Sheikh. May Allah bless you brother.

[@shazanakhan9807]

If my husband cheated i will leave him to it. I wouldnt sit there and make him a better person, he'd do it again, i aint cheap.

[@Maryambest1]

🙌👏💓

[@mahahoque7279]

This is one of the most beautiful videos I have seen - Allahuakbar!!!

[@markaurelius3119]

Thank you, dear brothers! May Allah protect you ☝️

[@sumaaami925]

Assalamualikum. Love our Brother Yahya Ibrahim. I can always turn to his lectures and have a peaceful feeling.

[@aleyaamin5068]

Thanks!

[@khushbu1409]

Mash’Allah tabarakAllah he is so kind and compassionate in speech. Not to mention golden nuggets of wisdom and knowledge he shares!

[@FearR4F43L]

May Allah bless this man and his family, also the guy that was taking this interview. That was a very touching message that I couldn’t even hold my tears. Thank you for this lesson 🙏🏻

[@bbhexolove157]

He is so good at explaining all of these. Ma sha Allah

[@Sturg_872]

Surah 2 Ayat 152 Remember Me, and I will remember you. Thank Me and don't be ungrateful to Me

[@meenakhilji8029]

May Allah grant me a husband who thinks same like this Seikh Yahya Amin Suma Amin 🤲🤲🤲

[@Muslimaonly]

Amazing talk mashallah. Blessed to have this Iman in our country of Australia. May Allah continue to provide him with hikma (wisdom).

[@dilnoza3536]

Assalamu alaykum, What is the name of this imam, could u tell me?

[@naziazaffar8732]

Imam Yahya Adel Ibrahim

[@dilnoza3536]

@@naziazaffar8732 thank u

[@jehanhakim2434]

The shaykh made many good points MashAllah. But I think the part where he may lose some credibility, is, #1 it's never easy to leave and get a divorce for women, even when we are wronged. It's VERY difficult, not easy at all. #2: the shaykh said, "how to help eachother in obeying Allah", this puts the burden on the victim, which isn't fair. The cheater solely must change their behavior and make tangible steps to repair the damage done to the family, not their victim.

[@Sturg_872]

Surah 49 Ayat 10 Truly, believers are brothers. Therefore, reconcile your brothers and fear Allah, so that you may be pardoned.

[@LALA-fy8ng]

thank you for this,mashALLAH such a helpful conversation, beautiful words. May ALLAH bless us

[@leoissac657]

Very inspirational, much to revise my approach in daily life.

[@Immjoo]

May Allah give Zaja e khair to the whole team of this channel.

[@Md_sadiq_Md]

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

[@MaryamAli-tv3dg]

Jami` at-Tirmidhi 747 Abu Hurairah narrated that: The Messenger of Allah said: "Deeds are presented on Monday and Thursday, and I love that my deeds be presented while I am fasting"

[@foodtravelbyayat6382]

Oh Allah..i am really surprised that theses kind of islamic scholars exist...May Allah bless you brother and help you to tell islam like this.....May Allah give you strength and power to spread Islam.....allot of prayers for you Brother.

[@jklmnoqr]

What a very wise man!!!! Everything he says is true and wise!

[@Sana7716-tm8ig]

Please do more videos on such topics with Imam Yahya Ibrahim, he speaks so well and we love hearing from him 😭

[@iremfeyza_luna14]

I needed this video for a long time, thank you so much 💐

[@bushrarahman6278]

One of the best suggestion ❤ Alhamdulillah

[@Sturg_872]

Surah 20 Ayat 132 And enjoin prayer upon your family [and people] and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness.

[@designerndeso]

MasyaAllah.., Thank you Brother... Barakallah

[@whoevenknowss]

this is really good, didn’t think about things like this

[@Done-1613]

I tried everything but you can not change a narcissist. At the end he will cheat regardless

[@aizzamoque5569]

Yes! Narcs rarely change.

[@zd1306]

This video is beautiful, it touches on so much in such a concise way

[@tahsinasyed-rs6wu]

SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah MashaAllah, I heard words of wisdom in the light of Quran and Sunnah,May Allah Subhana Hu wa Tala bless all the married couples with Peace Piety Prosperity Khair Barkath and Afiya ❤ AMEEN ❤

[@airafali]

The way he. Explained love at last... You can not like each other but you have to love each other.....

[@simplymersah]

Thanks for share this! May allah met us with a spouse who understand this 🥰

[@happysoulpeace-Grace]

masyaallah this video sharing from starting to whole sharing is bringing a contented 100% I'm impressed

[@yaseminarslan7190]

One of the best lectures.

[@fatimasayed2459]

MashaAllah We really need such more Sessions

[@UU-vl2kn]

Thank you! Ive heard prominent scholars say ok utube its because she didnt attend to his neeeds enough. Thats why he cheats. It really saddens and angers me

[@Madiana-r2q]

That can be both sides, if the husband won't give the wife attention she well look for that attention else were, so they should say about that. Most forget the way how Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, treated his wives and alot of men are more cultural how they treat their wives they forget the deen when it comes to treatment of women.

[@HebrewHeartsHomestead]

Incredible presentation 🙏🏼🙌🏻 May the most high bless you

[@leratomotsau695]

Wow! Wallahi the insight on so many marital and familial issues are being shed light upon in this video and the key aspect goes back to our level of Taqwa and discipline. Subhanallah! May Allah increase us all in knowledge. Allahumma Ameen🤲

[@yasminkamilia]

May Allah ease us to be the best version of ourselves for the people around us, throughout our lifetime, ameen

[@lvrrain]

Ma sha allah this video is so precious

[@Idowu_Balogun]

Ma Shaa Allah This was beautiful and well needed...

[@arshiyashaik9909]

Masha Allah, I surely follow your advice while choosing My life partner. Thank you for your acknowledgement.

[@monaeeekattii6923]

This is gold jazakallah for your honesty and wisdom. The love between Aisha and the Prophet is sooo beautiful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@M.Manique]

Excellent video the best I have come across so informative and full of good advice Jazakallah for this video

[@brendayaqub8042]

Alhumdullah!! Thank you for this video.

[@strictlyonvacation8860]

Masya Allah, the best marriage and dating advice on the internet! 🎉

[@misschowmeiin8858]

Really enjoyed listening to this brother ❤

[@shamsasgarzada]

Sheikh Yahya must be a relationship therapist :) What a nice speech, this video made me fall in love with my future husband more, even though I haven't met him yet

[@muhammadjazil763]

Thank almighty he doesn't validate men cheating by blaming women or advising them to adjust for financial needs and or for kids.

[@mdsimone7615]

What a great video

[@deadpoolshaikh8199]

asSalaamu alaikum waRahmatuLLAH waBarakatuhu mashaALLAH mashaALLAH! jazakumALLAHu Khaiyran and a very big thanks to Sheikh, the Interviewer and the entire team behind this channel. May *ALLAH Sub'hanahu wa ta'ala* bless you all with the very best in this life and hereafter, *Aameeen Aameeen..* 🤲🏼🤲🏼 Also, I will request everyone to pray for me & my family Once again, Thank you so much. Shukran Fi amaan ALLAH

[@quranchannal5893]

Mashallah,, what an amazing speech,, thank you soo much may allah grant you jannah,, first time listning to you and i didn't want the vedio to end,, may allah bless you,,

[@kalsoumkhan6648]

6:57 what should a person do when he’s stuck between mother and wife? Good response👌

[@Saravibz]

MASHALLAH he has information from experience msA❤❤

[@bilkisbegum2715]

Loved this conversation Alhamdulillah may allah bless shekh ameen 🤲

[@DeryckMohamed]

This brother needs to make his appearance often mashaa allah❤

[@jamil5522]

قال رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم -: ((كلمتان خفيفتان على اللسان، ثقيلتان في الميزان، حبيبتان إلى الرحمن: سبحان الله وبحمده، سبحان الله العظيم))؛ متفق عليه

[@b8sh]

This was an EXCELLENT EXCELLENT video

[@aqadri7250]

Salaam! SubhanAllah such beautiful words of advice / guidance from Sh Yahya with supporting evidence from sunnah of the Prophet SAW. MashaAllah great questions from the interviewer as well. May Allah SWT reward them both. Ameen!

[@naziazaffar8732]

Walekum Asalam wr wb. Aameen..

[@learnbasicarabic7989]

Alhamdulillah, beautiful explanation.May Allah bless the team

[@Emal789]

Beautiful MashaaAllah ! I will be using it as a material for the coaching we do to help singles get married 😃