toxic boy mums 4

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[@Cal-fb7we]

they also like call themselves boy moms even when they also have girls which is weird. Some of them will be like “I’m such a boy mom! I love my boy!!” And also have like two daughters

[@rhi963]

good point i always thought of that phrase as being used when they have children of only one gender but now its like have any boy and you can be a boy mom. like no youre just a weird mom

[@t3hwaddledee]

Ah, yeah. Girls are ~drama and dress up and dolls and dance and emotions~ and like UGH amiright? But being a #boymom is so much different and better 😌 (being sarcastic of course. just. groooooooss)

[@pineapplepapercrafts]

That's called just being a mom haha. Like I have one of each as well. And I would never say I'm just a boy mom. I. Am a mom. Full stop haha

[@thesimplelifeofjenn5349]

Right??? I have a boy and a girl and I could never

[@stephaniewubben8266]

I only have boys and will never call my self a boy mom I am there mom. And yes I love them but that would be no different if they where girls.

[@user-ec7uw1lx1w]

Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid

[@Harmony270]

To add onto that every kid deserves a good parent at the very least

[@nat1659]

Every kid deserves a parent, but nobody deserves the parents some kids get

[@Zuxverbemnn]

These comments are so weird lol, this is so true! Made me think of a youtuber who says this.

[@person80]

why do yall say this every time as if we dint know this already

[@Hypnos132]

@@person80because not everyone agrees clearly

[@ardenchaplin5389]

I recently had a baby boy. I have thought about the future and his future. You know what I’ve thought about? His firsts: crawling, walking, smiling, laughing, games we’ll play and songs we’ll sing. I’ve had lots of people make jokes about him getting girls or breaking hearts and I find it creepy. I love my baby. But he is my child and not a replacement partner. My partner is an amazing partner and father.

[@ttintagel]

Yeah, the first thing I think when I see these women is, OK, what is wrong in their actual relationship with the child's father?

[@lovely_lizzi3]

@@ttintageland why not talk to your husband about it?? Why project onto a son who didn’t even ask to be born??

[@iFartMagic89]

I've thought about both my boy's futures too. Mainly, I'm worried about how I can act towards them that is going to make them be the most respectful and well adjusted men I possibly can. And these "boy moms" ain't it 😆

[@WhiteWolf496]

Congratulations on your baby!! Hope he's happy and healthy!

[@ttintagel]

@@lovely_lizzi3 I'm not a marriage counselor. Just because I notice a problem doesn't mean I have the solution.

[@lemonygem4274]

The story of Oedipus isn't an instruction manual

[@winchesterfamilyforever]

Damn 😂😂😂😂

[@cloudyskyz2237]

The fact that the mom killed herself at the end…

[@endiecutie06]

@@cloudyskyz2237 wasn’t it the guy who offed himself once he’d realized what he’d done?

[@winchesterfamilyforever]

@endiecutie06 She killed herself and he pocked his eyes out to punish himself and so he doesn't have to face his father's eyes when he dies

[@jadedbelle4788]

😂😂😂

[@Eviloohoo]

13:53 HELP??? THE SINGING??? IS SO GOOD???

[@Your_mums_boobs]

MY THOUGHT EXACTLY

[@degrassiedits]

i was looking for this comment

[@blueberry-fox]

Ikr her singing is amazing

[@Kraboobee]

The way she just dropped it in mid-sentence lmao She's actually recorded some songs, and she's quite a musician

[@rattiesunderstars]

@UTTP-142how many times are you going to say this dude

[@commandercorl1544]

Parents calling their relationships with their kids "dating" will never stop grossing me out. That's your child. You have (hopefully) been an adult for their entire life, that is supposed to be a very different type of love.

[@allysontousignant591]

I’ll tell you now if a dad did this emotional incest crap on their daughter then police would be called, this is so weird wtf

[@Cal-fb7we]

dads actually do it all the time and nobody cares because they’re seen as protective. lots of dads do things like make toddler girls sign “no dating” pledges, get really freakishly obsessed about their daughters virginities and “jokingly” threaten their daughters boyfriends by like standing at the door when he comes over holding a shotgun.

[@FortuitousOwl]

People would definitely be more openly wary but this kind of creepy stuff does unfortunately happen with dads to daughters. Like legit pledging your “purity” to your fathers is something a lot of Christian communities do.

[@07Flash11MRC]

unfortunately this is not the case, @ally. There are plenty of horrible girldads(TM).

[@commandercorl1544]

Something similar to that is integrated into human society at this point, dads not letting their daughters be "given away".

[@aduckofsomesort]

Oh you sweet summer child

[@skrahnha]

"bitches come and go, but you know I'll stay" is a fucking weird thing to say maybe just go with "I'll love you no matter what"(?).pretty reasonable thing to say and not creepy

[@samtinkle9076]

Why can't they just say "You'll always be baby to me"? *Why?*

[@technicolorbarf6734]

If you're saying this shit about your son, it's ironically super likely he's gonna have you blocked on all platforms by the time he's 19

[@user-si9go7bt1o]

Bro really flexed the angelic voice and didn’t think we’d notice

[@akibakitaki]

My mum is a toxic boy mum lol. I'm her younger child (AFAB), and OH BOY does it suck LMFAO. My older brother has started to call her out for this, i'm so grateful

[@3zra._.]

I’m so sorry that your birth giver is a dick 🙁 I’m glad she’s being called out on her bs, I hope you can heal from her 🫶

[@catsinspaceyt9184]

Oof

[@akibakitaki]

@@catsinspaceyt9184 Oof is right LMAO

[@SherlocksLeftNipple]

Good on your brother for not letting that get to his head, at least. I hope the two of you make safer, saner homes for yourselves than the one your mom gave you.

[@zakuraRabbit]

"A son is his mother's last love"...what does that mean about my mom, who got remarried to another man after having her first son? So did my aunt.

[@jams1070]

Obviously they’re cheating on their sons 😂😂💀

[@B.Harper7]

We call the fcking police, that's what!! 🚔 🚓 😆😆😆 How dare they, think about the childrennnnnnnnn!

[@CharlesPayet]

If I shared videos like that of me with either of our daughters with the hashtag “girldad,” people would rightly be suspicious of something inappropriate going on.

[@screamingbegins4688]

that tag exists-

[@CharlesPayet]

@@screamingbegins4688 I refuse to look it up and lose even more faith in humanity (and my gender).

[@screamingbegins4688]

@@CharlesPayet yeahh dont

[@projectmicky1226]

The girl dad term is usually equated to dads who have to learn to do hair, and get their nails painted, play tea party. I was a raised by a single dad and he had to do puzzles with me, and did my hair, let me do his hair, I made him fake dinners when I pretended to be a chef. My mom who left us, now she was always talking about how we all needed her and but she got remarried and left us. And how my brother had mother wounds and why he needed a woman ‘just like her.’ She prides herself heavily on being just like her dad, and his favorite (her dad was a terrible person), and how men love her. She once tracked my older brother (in his mid 20’s at the time), down because he didn’t respond after a date. She called the cops and they went door to door at a college dorm…🤦🏽‍♀️

[@CharlesPayet]

@@projectmicky1226 that does sound a lot more wholesome!

[@arai_thegirlinatrance]

The whole issue I have with this is the sheltering. By all means, protect your kids. Absolutely. Do NOT tell them they can't have friends and they can't do things they want ( within reason )

[@3zra._.]

Your pfp is great lmfao /gen

[@messycrybaby]

The assumption that their kids are going to one day have a girlfriend or wife is also just wild to me; the heteronormativity is off the charts.

[@kayleighdriessen]

Indeed and like some people can feel little to no romantic or sexual attraction and/or they just want to take a more unconventional path in life that does not nessecarily have to include parenthood.

[@Montesama314]

Mom: "My son won't be marrying any woman who loves him better than I do!" Son: "Well, she's right... This is my HUSBAND."

[@elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes2806]

It is incredibly creepy to act like you are your kids' first partner, and being jealous of the partners to come and acting like they cannot get a partner until they're well into their adulthood years. I had a long term relationship with a guy that had a boy mom and it was so annoying. The only 'dating' that is acceptable is when you show your kid what they deserve by having a little parent/child day treating them to what they enjoy. That can be good to give them standards but in those instances no one thinks they are ACTUALLY dating.

[@thelittlestpika]

Parents like this creep me out so much. You should love your kids but you can't compare them or choose a favorite without messing up your kids mentally.

[@SassyGirl822006]

The reason it bothers you that they call out being a boy mom specifically is so awesome, is the weird incest vibes. If it's creepy when it's a "girl-dad", than it's just as creepy when it's a "boy-mom".

[@luc716]

My mother was this “boy-mom”. She fixed on me and my brother. She touched us, she talked to us about sex and she acted more like our girlfriend and not our mother, in front of others. And people just accepted and were not questioning it because she was our mother and a woman, but when no one was around, she abused us sexually since I was about 4 years old until i was 15. From showing p0rn to incestuous sex. And now I'm gay and she was absolutely angry about it because she really thought I wanted and belonged to her. I heard a lot of strange reactions to my abuse (most people still don't know, but some) around me, even in professional field. They asked me if I liked it, or that I was lucky because my mother was 'h0t', or they had more empathy for her because my mother would never have done it if she hadn't been provoked in some way.... We enjoyed it so much that my brother kjilled himself and I have cptbs. Sorry for bringing it up, but that came up after the video and your comment.It makes me so angry that people miss all the possible signs of abuse when it comes to women (of course I'm not saying that every woman who behaves like this is abusing her children).

[@SassyGirl822006]

@@luc716 I'm so sorry that happened to you. The victim blaming need to end. I hope things are better for you now.

[@AnnaAlexandra_]

Whenever I see one of these boy mum videos, I always wonder how they'd respond if their kid were to ever come out as trans/genderfluid/non binary etc. They're so obsessed with having a boy as a child that I can't imagine them responding well, which would be so incredibly sad

[@magicnz0420]

I will never understand the parents who say that their child can only start dating at the certain age, unless it was the age that they themselves started dating at otherwise it’s so hypocritical.

[@CharlesPayet]

I said those things about our daughters years ago and STILL cringe when I think of it. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@Heyden_Weid]

@@CharlesPayetat least you’re self aware. So props to you. That’s more than most.

[@_moonbeammagic_]

​@UTTP-142 you clearly. You commented 5 different times.

[@CharlesPayet]

@@Heyden_Weid I’ve tried hard to become better and learn from my mistakes. I’ve even changed my mind on some topics during the course of online discussions!

[@munchycrunchybread]

​@@CharlesPayet thats great to hear!! i know im just an online stranger, but im proud of u for that. it can be hard to learn from mistakes (especially when the embarrassment kicks in) and your determination to get better w/ discussion and education is incredible!! good luck to u and ur family in all ur future endeavors

[@evanyla]

my mother suffered from her mother treating my aunt better than her, resulting in a slight grudge against her sister -- My mothers biggest wish is that my siblings and I never feel like someone's the favourite and that we're friendly with one another. She gets happy and excited when she hears I'm hanging out with either of my siblings and having a good time

[@xg2513]

I really appreciate you reading out loud the posts and describing the videos because not only does it help those who are disabled, it also allows me to listening to your videos like they’re a podcast! I listen to your content on my walks every day.

[@baileyb123bb]

My ex fiances mom TOLD me that im jealous of her because she cooks and cleans better than me and that im not a real woman because i couldn't take care of her son as well as she did..... theres reasons hes my ex

[@twyla7053]

he can go marry his mommy 🤣👏🏽

[@meganjensen2239]

I love cuddling with my 6 year old (she loves physical affection), and I check in from time to time to let her know that she can always let me know if she wants space. I know that she will want space one day, and I want her to feel comfortable telling me when that starts to happen. I am going to miss our frequent cuddles, but I also know she's a growing person who will want independence and autonomy. That is how parenting goes. I just can't with how these mothers smother their sons.

[@Nolek15]

13:51 WOW I didn't know you could hit those high notes

[@MakeupBySonya444]

i had kids really young, a few years ago my adult son took me out to olive garden for my birthday and the waiter asked if we were a couple. we weren't doing anything that would look like a couple would do it was entirely because my son looks older than he is and i look younger than i am. we both laughed about it and were quick to point out that actually we were mother and son. i find it very very weird these oddball "boy moms" that talk about their sons as if they are their boyfriends. it's creepy.

[@JoltYourLife]

at the store the other day i saw a mom and her toddler DAUGHTER getting cute matching outfits for a “date” that the mom was excited to have. THAT’S healthy. Smother Mothers of little boys are why women end up suffering !

[@KiboSanti]

Calling a scheduled bonding activity a "date" is adorable. Referring to these recurring events as "dateING" is quite icky...

[@alyj6398]

Seems to me that these boy moms aren't getting their romantic/emotional needs met from a partner, and so are instead transferring these feelings onto the closest emotional bond they have outside of their partner.

[@humanTrahs2012]

Is weird how a lot of parents thinks about the future relationship of their kids but if they grow up being ace or aro? Or aroace? Or gay? Or even not being interesting in being with someone else because they don't want to? It's bothering me how adults are so worried about gf or bf or whatever of their kids... Society only think about relationships and romance????

[@user-ub5kw8yj2x]

I will suggest society obsessed with social acceptable breeding.

[@freckledandred]

I'm a girl mom and queer and if I talked about my daughter the way these boy moms talk I would be sent to prison

[@gcheftjgfba2655]

The Edipus complex in reverse😂. Really creepy n weird

[@DarkBangle]

Oedipus mother's name was Jocasta, so at least on the reddit forums, they refer to them as being a Jocasta or having Jocasta syndrome. Not sure if it's an official diagnostic term though.

[@gcheftjgfba2655]

@@DarkBangle 💯 appreciate the spelling clarification too😎💯

[@DarkBangle]

@@gcheftjgfba2655 sure thing. 👍 Greek names are hard lol. Mythology just happens to be an interest of mine.

[@cloudyskyz2237]

@@DarkBangleidk this doesn’t scream of Jocasta and Oedipus’s relationship to me. Jocasta thought her son had died as an infant. They were married together via an arranged marriage. She didn’t know he was her son. And she fricken killed herself when she found out. Doesn’t really scream the story of Oedipus to me.

[@DarkBangle]

@@cloudyskyz2237 while I understand that, Dr. Sigmund Freud is the one that termed the complex of a man wanting to sleep with his mother the Oedipus complex - despite the fact that Oedipus didn't want to sleep with his mother and didn't know she was his mother - and the term has now entered the common parlance. The use of the term Jocasta is derived from this already accepted term. Also, I am not creating or advocating the use of either term, merely relaying the already common use of the terms in communities where these mentalities are discussed. I have often found that where multiple disciplines intersect, one will take from the other with little regard as to the use of what they took in its home discipline. Like Freud's loose mapping of what he saw as a psychological complex onto the Oedipus myth or how the field of literature has in turn run rampant with the ideas of Freud and Jung despite those theories being largely out of favor in modern psychology. As someone who has studied mythology and the occult in literature and who has an interest in psychology and has endeavored to apply psychological research to my papers, this is a phenomenon I have run into on multiple occasions and which honestly sometimes frustrates me greatly. But I also understand that English is a living language and this is how languages evolve and new words are created and adapted from the old.

[@patriciaholbrook6152]

My little girl is so affectionate because i was so present and affectionate with her as a baby. Boy moms make me so mad shaming baby girls

[@JamieLBW]

Me, a mom with a son: Oh no, what if I see my own behavior in these toxic boy mom videos? After watching: nevermind, I'm good. These "boy moms" are next level

[@twyla7053]

all boy moms are moms of boys, but not all moms of boys are boy moms. thankfully there are plenty of moms of boys who have some sense.

[@FortuitousOwl]

I hope somebody is able and willing to pay for the therapy these poor boys are gonna need to be able to be functioning normal adults after being raised by someone like that

[@KiboSanti]

(*Looks around at the general state of things*) uhhh... 😰😫

[@karlketamine8172]

Thanks for clarifying the date vs dating cause my mom isn't one of those boy moms (and if she was it would be to bad for her since I'm trans) and I go on platonic dates with both my parents and sister (I consider it a date when its 1 on 1) Which we should raise kids gender neutral until they can choose what they wear and how they want to identify. Also also my mom told me if I wanted to bring a cute boy over to let her know so my dad and her can get out the house so I can have alone time with him

[@Anonymous-54545]

I don't think most ppl would call that a date, be careful w that language bc it's very uncommon.

[@Princessbuttercupish]

my son is 13 and I just don't get boy mums calling themselves their child's girlfriend. is... is the implied incest or implied pedophelia the cute part because I am baffled.

[@sabrina1759]

Came for the content, stayed for the skz merch in the background!(and for the premium content of course)

[@meaganpinkard6039]

Stray kids?

[@hannahforys4730]

I was born a girl in 1997 and my sister was born a girl in 2001. When my brother was born a boy in 2011 people would come up to my dad in front of my sister and I and ask him “aren’t you so glad you finally have a boy now?” like my sister and I didn’t have ears. My dad was always like, first of all, my second daughter plays in the mud and never stops running so I feel like I already had a son. And second I’m just happy to have a healthy baby, I would’ve been just as excited to have a third daughter

[@sketchiscribblr8285]

24:06 I get what youre saying, but I feel like this 'brownie points' thing is somewhat a step in the right direction towards breaking through the bare minimum being more common. we are watching them actually _look_ for the bar instead of completely ignoring it and face planting when it catches their foot and complaining that it was there to begin with.

[@miriamwamsley8873]

Yeah I also feel like because of the conversation around weaponized incompetence and men not contributing to household chores, the mom might just be trying to make it a point to teach her sons that as a preventative measure

[@sophiahenderson3680]

Okay but you KILLED THAT "please don't be in love with someone else" girl what a voice 😍 ❤

[@claritybadb]

My mom told me that my dad wanted a boy when she was pregnant with me. I was 9. It's really crappy to know that you're a disappointment just by body parts and DNA. 😔 I feel so sorry for the other children in those homes.

[@briannaobrien4419]

This is why gender selective ivf terrifies me.

[@lulolie]

😦

[@Nova_is_silly_goofy]

13:53 Woah I know it’s off topic but you are REALLY good a singing :3

[@commandercorl1544]

The outro at the end of every video is her song!

[@Nova_is_silly_goofy]

@@commandercorl1544 didn't know it was her! don''t watch this channel too often

[@m-maufm2181]

What’s breaking my heart is the fact that (someone else said it) they keep calling themselves boys mom even while having daughters and it’s clearly stating that for them having a boy holds more value than having a girl. What does it teaches their daughters ? That they are less valuable than men, the internalized misogyny is horrible.

[@stellablake6200]

It's absolutely wild me that mothers would frame spending one-on-one time with their sons as literal dates, like with the implication that other people actually think they're dating. Like sure when I was little my parents would call things "mommy/daughter dates" or "daddy/daughter dates" but I was lucky enough to get to spend a lot of one-on-one time with both my mom and my dad as a teen and it was always just "hanging out with Mom/Dad". Saying you're actually *dating* your child/have been dating them since they were a baby is just so beyond weird

[@kaylapounds1359]

I know how you feel. I got a random public FB post with a picture of a car bumper sticker saying something like, "if you follow my wife or daughter into a bathroom, I'll beat the crap out of you." I realized right away this was meant to be a transphobic thing and it ticked me off. I spoke my mind and went at some of these folks talking crap. Most comments were like "halleluja" and "where can I get one" but I'm so glad there were several folks going at them and making comments about how it wasn't cool.

[@Anonymous-54545]

Can you imagine these guys thinking they're so tough for threatening to beat up women 🙄 luckily they probably won't recognize over half of trans women

[@user-vf1wy9pu6t]

13:51 off topic but her voice slays

[@Hana_H]

It does

[@thedeathbird]

i am a little scared to know how boy moms react to gay sons

[@LinkDropsRupees]

The answer is they react badly

[@Queenxily]

13:54 I was t expecting to hear some PIPES omg you sound amazing

[@CharlesPayet]

14:04 ok - wow! I saw the other people commenting about your singing, and they were right! Beautiful!

[@strawberry_fields16]

13:51 just casually flexing her singing, that would be a great moment to promote her music hahaha

[@briannawalker4793]

12:00 they were so grossed out by the emotional incest that they yeeted themselves into the void 😭😭

[@Doodlesoak]

i see sav, I click video

[@hexonyou]

i definitely had 'date nights' with my kiddo when he was little, but I would never have said "we're dating" wtf?. Also the idea that you look at your infant and the scenario you come up with is "he's going to one day call me a bitch for not letting his girlfriend sleep over" that just.... sounds like you're planning to raise them to be a dick? Like I don't know why this would be the expectation. Now, mind you- my kiddo may very well be ace, so it may not be something that comes up with us. But I have a feeling based on the relationship we have and... I dunno, respect and trust? we have... I can't imagine my kid reacting that way to a reasonable boundary. It also isn't lost on me that 100% of these women assume their children will be straight; like hey mom, maybe one day you'll be 'competing' with his... boyfriend, actually. What then? You have the opportunity to be double boy mom but my guess is you'd be homophobic about it

[@Po.the.penguin.Creates]

I love how the teddies have lots of different outfits ❤

[@PokhrajRoy.]

2:10 It’s like patriarchy bingo out here

[@kylief03]

To preface, I agree that boy mom culture is weird and there's a lot of messed up emotional incest happening. BUT in the case of the mom and son where she's like "lets go on a date" and he says "no way Jose" and she says "I fought for these dates," the context changes it a bit. The mom is in remission from leukemia, and for a long time, she was pretty much unable to do anything with her boys due to the cancer. Thats her oldest son, and mother-son dates are something she fought to be able to keep doing when she was fighting cancer. I would say that its weird to call them "dates", but I dont think theres really anything wrong with the activity outside of the mental framing. Mother-child days where a mom is able to spend one-on-one time with her child, son or daughter, are important and valuable. Just.. dont think of them as dates or say youre dating your child.

[@Anonymous-54545]

But kiwi isn't talking abt the cancer part, she's talking abt the dates part

[@garlicbutter8733]

i think "dates" are ehh, like i get saying "oh im going on a friend date" or smth, and i apply that to this since - its when the mom describes it as "me and my child are practically dating" when it gets weird

[@londonhughes5986]

Another note: assumption that their son will date only cis women in the future. What if he’s not fully straight or even transgender and not a “he”?

[@lulolie]

Don't tell them that >_> these people are the types to disown the kids or smother them

[@FrIoSrHy]

The singing in the middle was a welcome and cool surprise

[@skribble-]

13:53 just casually became taylor swift for 5 seconds, oml ur singing is amazing o:

[@sunshinesaccharine]

Toxic boy mums need to stop proving Freud right I'm actually sobbing...

[@KB-lt5fg]

I'm new here but I love that the SKZOOs change around every episode 😭❤️

[@MC-sp1rr]

OK BUT THE SINGING??!! LOVE IT

[@jinn8339]

13:53 not you outsinging everyone

[@MagnoliaPantherWoman]

10:50 ⚠️ Toxic is right. She's also ignoring him saying no. My bio-dad's mom was verbally SA to him and he grew up to do similar.

[@ctobolsk]

My ex had a terrible abusive mom, and while I definitely empathize with his feelings, he ended up taking them out on me. He just got divorced for a third time. I wish he believed in therapy, it would do wonders for his relationships with women

[@queenbe420]

I will say it again and I will say it forever: I may have a son but I am *NOT* a boy mom.

[@SLYKM]

Notice how the first mom says she was a tomboy growing up but is clearly not anymore. But is still so much happier with a boy. I swear, boy moms are just pick me teens who didn't grow out of it.

[@ashleybough7114]

I’m a mom of 2 boys and 2 girls. I’m straight and been married to the same guy for 19 years so I’m pretty “traditional” and I find this “boy mom” stuff to be really creepy and weird! My oldest son got his first girlfriend about a year ago and I was so happy for him, and then when she dumped him my heart broke for him! I love seeing my kids grow and change and experience life I can’t imagine trying to stop them from having relationships or anything like that, it’s really crazy. I’m not sure how I ended up on your channel but I’ve watched several of your videos and I love your messaging. Keep up the good work!

[@schmumlauf]

Favoritism damages the favorite kid so much. Parents can teach their children how to be loved without being overbearing. That's what parenting is. David Sedaris thought my mom was my girlfriend but that's just because she looks younger

[@silverquillfangirl03]

Ayyyy cool rainbow lady is back with another banger!

[@SLYKM]

I don't have as a son as a afab, but I'll never in 1000 years refer to myself as my son's first girlfriend. All parents feel the pain of a kid getting more independent and yes it's a reality that their chosen relationships will be deeper than the ship they have with us as a child and parent, but it's different love. I don't want my kids having romantic love or being emotionally dependant on as a partner might be. Children are people and they'll go out into the world. I messed up a lot as a parent but I hope I get to repair it enough where my children share their milestones and introduce their friends and partners to me. Seeing a child grow is bittersweet because they change so much even tho you love who they are, but who they become is also an independent person. I feel sorry for boy moms bc they seem so codependent on their sons and that's not right.

[@TheOracleAtDelphinetlyNot]

Her singing voice is absolutely angelic!!!!!

[@sousaphone420]

“I’m his first girlfriend right???” TAKE AWAY HER CUSTODY OMG

[@whoknows719]

me and my dad were on a boating team together and a woman thought we were dating for some reason. it haunts me to this day. I can't imagine how uncomfortable those boys must feel with a parent feeding into that.

[@user-hi7le7bv6q]

Please blur the kids' faces next time. They can't consent to be shown online. Also there's a lot of creeps and pedos out there

[@kayleighdriessen]

It's so gross how many children in this world are getting sexualized and lied to about future adult-things they may or may not want to do when they're e.g far too young to think about having children of their own, if you think you can force your child into a life they may or may not actually want for themselves you should NOT be a parent.

[@BEANZ.n.CHEZ.]

THATS UR SINGING VOICE?! MORE PLEASE 🤲

[@Hana_H]

She has a singing channel too!😊

[@BEANZ.n.CHEZ.]

@@Hana_H WHATT?!

[@Hana_H]

@@BEANZ.n.CHEZ. yeah it´s called Savannah

[@wouldntyouliketoknowwesath7789]

:0 you're really good at singing!

[@commandercorl1544]

Yep, her outro that she plays at the end of her videos was sung by her.

[@kyirose2995]

If I were one of those sons and grew up to find a video my mom made saying something along the lines of “dear future daughter in law I got you” and it’s just clips of me doing housework that I thought was a bonding experience I would be upset… because something I thought was a bonding experience was actually a ploy to get me married off. I was taught household skills for that very reason. My mom wanted me to find someone and get married asap.. my dad just wanted me to know household tasks (including fixing a leaky tub). I have a better relationship with my dad.

[@sabre_phoenix5996]

13:54 kiwi singing on her non singing place, you're welcome lol

[@froggeth8489]

opened youtube to new toxic boy moms. yippee!

[@ErutaniaRose]

So hyped today. Got my garden planning started (still gotta wait on cicadas to actually make and plant it tho), and another toxic boimum videeoooo!

[@spiderprincess7133]

I was shocked when you sang enchanted omgg youre such a good singer??

[@christophersun]

favorite part of kiwi tik tok reactions is when she just casually brings out her beautiful singing voice just to avoid copyright

[@Eddysig]

Yay Kiwi! I don't always click your videos about cringe conservatives as a super stressed trans guy feeling like the world is against me, and I'm happy to see another toxic boy moms video lol. I loooove your passionate takes about parenting, it feels like my childhood is healing by hearing things I've always needed to hear man 🥺🥹

[@lordghetsisofficial]

9:58 WHAT is that caption too. oh my god i can't with these people

[@Anonymous-54545]

The one in the corner? That's kiwi's

[@astrowolvez]

She says she won’t let them date till 30, but I wouldn’t be shocked if they date someone in college she’ll be furious and call them a whore.

[@ayeeeerin4999]

Yessss here within the first 30 minutes! Love your perspective kiwi! You have made me want to move to New Zealand SOOO badly. I have been trying to convince my family to come with but they are too set in their ways.😩 for now sending love from Boston 💜💜💜

[@ashleymarie6585]

imagine if there was a group of tiktok dads who acted this way towards their daughters lol… people would be UP IN ARRRRMMMSS

[@alyssaes21]

months ago i commented on a a video of these two dads and their daughter doing the same thing as boy moms and everyone started attacking me😭

[@GhostlyArtistAj]

Ik this isn't related to the vid but I finally got my room clean!

[@lissa8678]

Good job 👍

[@ambereagleswood1429]

Nice:)

[@Hana_H]

😊😊😊

[@jadedbelle4788]

If that was a father/daughter someone would call the authorities

[@KiboSanti]

Love isn't pie, it's not a finite source...

[@alroyravenscroft5831]

I love watching you react to boy mums and just plead with them to stop. It always makes me chuckle and I definitely agree with what you say. Boy mums freak me out

[@jackpittman7232]

This reminds me of the dads who threaten to shoot guys for dating their daughters

[@stegosaur9812]

10:24 YOUR REACTION HAHAHA 😭😭 i totally agree

[@rainfuaxuan_]

i deadass starting dancing when you sang

[@Nachiebree]

As the movie Psycho says, "a boy's best friend is his mother".

[@yeshelloimfinallyhere2132]

HELLO!! I can't wait to cringe at what the boy mom's are doing today!!

[@scribbly07]

I wish you would censor the children

[@Eddysig]

I love the new coloring pattern in your hair!!!!