Toxic SIL Stalked Me and Falsely Accused Me of Cheating, Nearly Ruining My New Marriage. Now She's..

Toxic SIL Stalked Me and Falsely Accused Me of Cheating, Nearly Ruining My New Marriage. Now She's Shocked That We're Cutting Her Out of the Will While She Plays the Victim.
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[@LovelyCinccino]

Real or not, Finn was a massive idiot to take his sister’s word over OP’s. What Debora was really trying to protect was her chances to get any money from her brother to feed her gambling addiction. And considering what she did to his parents, Finn REALLY should have realized what his sister really wanted. He’s lucky he didn’t lose his wife for a sister who clearly was only trying to use him. I have zero doubt that right after the divorce, Debora would had started demanding money and stealing from him to fuel her addiction, leaving him in a mess of his own making and the bitter realization of what he threw away for his ‘adorable’ younger sister.

[@cototototorra7106]

“Don’t you remember how I saved you from that bitch?! You own me!” Would be a usual dialogue between them if that had happened

[@gotenblack2542]

bro really thinks story is real

[@bloxeyrblx2462]

It could be real. You don't know.​@@gotenblack2542

[@sTas073-i1e]

@@gotenblack2542 What part is unrealistic and what part in this story makes it hurtful to your life to believe the story, so as I have no reason to belief the story is fake I am going to engage with it as if it were true

[@gotenblack2542]

you do you i guess

[@tiah5881]

I'd end up divorcing Finn. No way your sister behaves like an enemy throughout or entire relationship, consistently lies and is in general a horrible person and all it takes is one baseless accusation from her and you want to side with her hell no.

[@abriah.j6720]

I would’ve told him to go live with her.

[@jesschen5513]

SIL had a screanshot which said that the relationship between OP and the Coworker was suspicious. The pictures were innocent but the meetings seemed to be without the husband's knowledge and often, which when paired with evidence by a coworker which made the innocent meetings seem not so innocent, and the fact that the husband also knows that his sister wasn't smart enough to fake those screanshots. It's not unreasonable that he would begin to be suspicious. Let's be real here he was all for defending OP up until that one screenshot, which did prove the meetings were suspicious. At that point there is enough evidence to at least suspect cheating. So no not unreasonable, especially from the prospective here.

[@user-ev1fu7sn6s]

@@jesschen5513THANK YOU! You’re the only comment I’ve ever found explaining how Finn wasn’t in the wrong.

[@jesschen5513]

@@user-ev1fu7sn6s I don't get it, it feels like common since that he might be suspicion, when two completely separate people call her suspicious.

[@penguinpingu3807]

@@user-ev1fu7sn6s If op is actual cheating people will blame Finn for not trusting his sister. It's all about the perspectives.

[@BraveryWing26]

OH GOD the part where OP tells Deborah her parents wont leave her anything in the will is SO SATISFYING.

[@minutemuse]

As someone that grew up around malicious addicts, if they say the sky is blue I’d still look up to make sure. In all likelihood she wanted to drive a wedge between OP and her brother so she could use him for money since the parents cut her off.

[@MamaWolf920]

i love that first part XD that's a great way to put it.

[@erickaennis2738]

Op is better than me. With that much family drama, I would've noped out of that mess. Debra will always be family and Op will always have to deal with it. I wouldn't have kids with Finn either. I don't see this working out in the long run. Debra will get to her family and turn them on Op eventually.

[@cototototorra7106]

Debra seems to have been dumb enough and destroyed every chance of ever being able to do that

[@morganablackwater2017]

I mean she did success... Finn ask OP if she cheated and stoped OP from kicking Debra out of OP house. The fact OP keeped that "man" is worst mistake she done in her life

[@Psychoticmonster]

I read the first part as "Op is better with me" 😂

[@cototototorra7106]

@@morganablackwater2017 hmm, you might have a point, my preddiction is that debra is gonna get an overdose in some drug before getting to ruin op's relationship

[@powpowpam5]

7:20 “…that none of the gambling is none of their business” ofc it is not mil&fil business so they had right to remove you from their bank account😌🤭

[@xegin1572]

A minor detail, but the coworker didn't own up to her mistake at all, she made excuses and played dumb...

[@smorphous8928]

Deborah is a danger to everyone, and it’s good Op and her husband Finn set very strict boundaries. And what if Op and Finn had kids, Deborah sounds like the type spread accusations of abuse abuse and get CPS involved. But the upside Op can sue for slander/defamation if it ever gets to a point where Op and Finn are getting backlash from strangers who’ll listen to Deborah.

[@ThePawerStation]

Finn: Watched his sis lies, stealing from their parents and her toxic personality... AND STILL SIDED WITH HER. Op is walking in a road directed to divorce

[@frederikfilbert842]

You ar right

[@Specs718]

Creative writing assignment

[@HenryGamerYT]

AI

[@AlmightyFilms]

Right? Realest reddit story

[@anubishound8179]

And poorly written at that

[@aleksandarvil5718]

SiL Debora Played Stupid Games; and *Won GOLDEN STUPID PRIZES 🏆🥇🏆🥇🏆 !!!* 😂😂😂

[@user-fz5ni8ye6x]

LMAO

[@LovelyCinccino]

Finn also nearly earned some himself for taking her word over OP’s at first. He should thought about Debora’s crimes against his parents and her gambling addiction before taking her word.

[@raphaeld4313]

Litterally played stupid games

[@Will0w394]

"with a sense of vulnerability finn admitted that he had let family loyalty cloud his judgement" try not to sound like an Ai challenge: IMPOSSIBLE

[@xshujo-ent]

Not only is it AI but I've also heard a story with the exact same "waved the pictures around" scene. Different names and other bits are different too (ex: the will, the chat screenshot) but the scene about the lunch pictures is the same, word for word

[@sanddagger36]

@@xshujo-ent the description of their entire ceremony is ripped from another story

[@syeneingram1218]

Idc what the sister did or didn't do, if Finn had so little trust in op after 8 FRIGGING YEARS OF JUST DATING, that marriage is done for. Smh

[@the_seeker.entity9206]

I hate people that write these like a novel "he grappled with the aftermath, unable to comprehend what he heard" shut up bro

[@biodudezerothree9236]

That's because an AI wrote it, people don't write about real events like that unless they're telling a story for the sake of it.

[@gotenblack2542]

either that or people do it for the sake of making the story seem more drama filled sill an ai story but am sure people can really write like this

[@jeanetteporter8114]

Geezs I hate that too too much wording over the top description of one's feeling and what is going on but they are entertaining they put me to sleep quickly

[@MamaWolf920]

call me a pessimist.. but i wouldn't have stayed in that marriage if i had been op.. if someone i was newly married to was going to take the word of their sibling KNOWING their pension for lying and stealing.. i wouldnt stay because that kind of trust can't always be rebuilt.. because that means it can always happen again and usually does.

[@milkqt666]

Why invite Debrah to the wedding? Yeesh

[@Balgees24]

I would file for divorce, I don't play about cheating and knowing her dislike to his wife.

[@daisyannholland2576]

Kind of crazy how Debora kept insisting Op was a gold digger but she was the one draining her family's money. Op should've called her out on her gambling habits and that she was the actual gold digger.

[@classicrockkid345]

I love everyone calling these types of stories fake because, 1. They never experienced something like this so they obviously assume it's fake. And 2. They necer heard of ths Idiom "Truth is stranger than fiction"

[@theboIter]

it’s not a assumption, there’s literally a story that has the same plot, and it’s a different story too. Generally Reddit stories are not real, or Atleast the ones in YT. Hope it helps!

[@shreyasshinganmakki8155]

Op's ex BIL has dodged not only a bullet but whole ass nuke

[@user-il7hx2uf3b]

Adventure Time Come on grab your friends We'll go to very distant lands With Jake the Dog and Finn the Human The fun will never end, it's Adventure Time!

[@kosopaty]

Sad thing is that the damage is, in a way, not reparable. They can totally make it work and have happy relationship, but... he got the idea that his wife can cheat on him, even if he never humours this idea again, the thought is already there, same way: she knows that her husband can backstab her like this despite her never giving him a reason to mistrust. Certain things you just cant take back, they can grow over this, but somthing was lost here.

[@Battalionchief_lynn]

Random comment nothing to see here

[@admonius9668]

So many kids are heartbroken at not being able to say “first” and that makes you a true hero

[@Battalionchief_lynn]

​@@admonius9668real

[@TakenGranny]

. PP

[@MrRealGreenn]

I did that to them so many times😂😂​@@admonius9668

[@doomsalyer]

👍

[@toniremer1594]

Before my great-grandpa passed away, he had 2 sons (my grandpa and my great-uncle), and he was really pissed off at my great-uncle for brainwashing my mom about the entire paternal side of the family (my mom had fled from my dad and was made to believe that they’d turn her, my younger sister and myself back to my dad, who my mom was terrified of), so he changed his Last Will and Testament. He left my great-uncle $1, and the rest went to my grandpa. He couldn’t contest it since he DID receive something from his father. To me, that’s a very smart move to do. My husband is also considering doing the same for his 3 kids, who decided that he was at fault for everything that had happened with their mothers and him divorced. I’m also thinking of doing the same with my younger sister, because she has caused me nothing but grief for close to 30 years!

[@adamxiong1817]

Deborah wanted to use her brother Finn as a secondary bank account for her gambling addiction.

[@legiontepes3474]

Ai story.

[@Tallguyify]

Yup, can almost see the prompts behind each "update"

[@Art_museum28]

You’d be surprised how real these situations are

[@legiontepes3474]

@@Art_museum28 ikr but the flowery style, the long winded descriptions, betray it as ai.

[@Art_museum28]

@@legiontepes3474 I dunno what you mean by that, but it doesn’t say this story is AI

[@ashmikray]

@@Art_museum28 they wont tell you that obvsously. you can tell by the writing its clearly ai

[@xxsuperstarstxx9773]

The amount of flowery language in this suggests its fake or AI

[@jefmarquez2863]

Nope, the moment OP’s husband started doubting OP about the affair, that should have been grounds for divorce. Maybe OP is much more forgiving than I can ever be.

[@Yuiza_hae]

Okay but finally a story where the parents have common sense?! Let’s go

[@samiesam8315]

Man the part where Debora was starting to accuse OP of cheating is conveniently the exact format as another story I heard😂. I don’t remember the other stories name but I remember the coworker was Zack instead of Matt

[@chadisnotachad]

Why would OP (a married woman) keep hanging out with male coworkers? That's sus af. It's fake though

[@juanhaines7295]

Happy Sunday to everyone.

[@shuichisaiharasimp]

Happy sunday for you too

[@slyph63]

With what Fin knew about his sister's thieving he'd be accusing her of being a dirty gold digger and she'd do anything including ruin a marriage to get her brother's money

[@Doczlady]

just leave the whole crazy family as if your man wants to believe his nasty sister over you than leave and divorce him

[@missamanda2703]

Why would she be in a will at 30?

[@richardwilson5769]

Whenever I hear the words "navigate the complexities" I immediately know it's AI.

[@wadde_fakman]

The SIL was definitely crazy, but does anyone else find OP's reaction to the accusation a little strange? "There's nothing I can do to change your mind so you have to leave". Really? If someone's not cheating, their texts, calls, emails, etc will prove that. And the accused will be first to offer it up. I know because one of my exes accused me of cheating (she was an interesting person) and I just gave her my phone and she was quiet after that. But someone who is cheating will do everything in their power to get the accuser(s) away from the evidence so that at a later date it could be wiped or "fixed". Which is EXACTLY what OP did. Her husband should look through her things, because her reaction was really sus.

[@cap19x1]

FACTS!

[@jefmarquez2863]

That’s because based on the information given, she has not once given her husband any reason to have him believe that she would or could cheat. She knows who she is and she has implied that she hasn’t cheated on Finn ever. She has nothing to hide from Finn which is why in your eyes, it’s a lack of effort, but in her perspective, she’s basically saying “I know who I am and I know that I would never do that to my own husband.” Also it’s pretty clear that this story is fake, but still shows that OP, throughout their years of being together, has given Finn every single reason to trust her. Yes not many people like that exist in the real world but that doesnt mean they don’t exist at all.

[@roabarton7962]

Should have divorced Finn. Not even a man. Just a coward.

[@kelanasmith5927]

Gambling not their business, well thier MONEY is thier business!

[@user-mp2nq5hx6i]

The relationship that the SIL has with her brother feels borderline incestuous 🤨

[@gideonroos1188]

This almost certainly an AI story.

[@F40PH-2CAT]

The part about OP not doing well with conflict repeated word for word 3 times clinched it.

[@gideonroos1188]

@@F40PH-2CAT I have to interact a lot with narrative AI models, and no matter the model, and no matter the training dataset, they all end up having certain ticks. 1. They make lots of vague adjectival statements about 'with a sense of ... and ...', or 'the room/air was filled with a sense of ... and ...' (usually 2 adjectives or phrases.) 2. They usually have lots of present participles in subordinate clauses like. 'He walked down the stairs, carefully holding his child, liking the smell of the fresh paint.' etc. etc.

[@husseneluis9163]

At some moments, this sounded like A.I. story 😂😂

[@FokushiKitsune]

Bro you’ve posted the same thing 3 times idk if you’ve accidentally posted it multiple times or what.

[@herrensaar1989]

What in the Korean soap opera drama is this AI generated story?

[@aeric6145]

The fact that the husband had a “loyalty” to family, but that didn’t include his wife.

[@user-mi2gy8ij9u]

I would’ve gotten a divorce if I was the husband because once she told me to get out of my house and wouldn’t answer my calls because obviously she was hiding something

[@Badruborg]

The dinner part seemed similar to another story xD

[@itsharperoffi]

I would divorce him if I was OP

[@FrutoseDeMorango]

I think that it would be better if you didn't pick those AI generated stories with words that no one uses and make it obviously fake, those are just bad and most people in the comments seems to dislike them

[@Olivia-mm3vf]

Okay but the parents giving a known gambling addict access to their bank accounts is stupidity on the level of directly ramming a fork into a power outlet. Like bruh, anyone could have seen the outcome there from a mile away

[@user-fp1nj7wi7j]

He believes her...leave

[@leiviniabirdway5945]

OP is a doormat Finn is a doormat A match made in hell Good lord everyone else around them AREN'T doormats

[@husseneluis9163]

At some moments, this sounded like a A.I. story 😂😂

[@aplaszc]

the ai that made this story is as crazy as the sil

[@Rj-ij6ko]

This story was INFURIATING. Finn is PATHETIC. His OWN PARENTS aren’t on his brat sisters side, but Op’s spineless husband still tries to excuse her behaviour. It’s sad tbh.

[@ju4121]

Why would she go out to eat with the opposite sex alone lol. She was probably getting from the coworker

[@juliang6306]

Where do I post so my story ends up on this channel?

[@Yash-zu2ye]

r/AITAH

[@cytercrazy482]

Although it probably won't be featured on this channel you should try it out

[@Underwhelmed]

Depends on the story

[@noahwardell3399]

You don't. They generate these with AI most of the time. Not really a good channel anymore.

[@nishasharma2746]

If your crazy sis tells you that your husband is cheating on you with his co worker. Who are you believing first I wonld say my sis but You do you

[@Shukochan]

For something that serious, I don't believe anything at first. I need to see real proof before I make my decision. Trust in a relationship is its foundation, but even with trust, people can end up being fooled, so it's always healthy to keep an open mind.

[@ae1103]

Debra needs therapy

[@ShiningAndStarstruck]

Divorce finn, he's flaky and can't be relied on

[@codenameqb]

Hmmm I’m not going to blame someone for not being 100% sure their other could be cheating. To say that is basically saying people don’t cheat. Let’s be real. If someone shows “what might be” proof it’s smart to look into it and not be stupid. The other mindset is how cheaters get away with it.

[@southernsnowman7788]

something ticking me at 15:39 where OP become someone who openly judge someone to be "not smart enough" to do something... so maybe something that SIL said at 4:00 maybe doesn't come out of nowhere but it's actually time bomb that SIL had holding back for a long while and not just before wedding. doesn't change the fact that SIL is still an AH tho. 😅

[@femmefatale3598]

This story seems chat GPT generated

[@nyu8406]

'casting a dark cloud on any chance of her getting better' as an avid ChatGPT user, i knew instantly

[@F40PH-2CAT]

It's good a lot of folks are able to tell this is AI. Its not good that not everyone in the comments can tell this is AI.

[@AlmightyFilms]

realest reddit story

[@Doczlady]

your sil is insane and just walk away from the whole crazy family as he fell for her shit🤬

[@JBMVoid]

family loyalty? she stole money from her parents

[@slyph63]

FFS no but dy forces them to do anything. They should have just told her to stfu and walked away

[@gummiesunny]

not the AI

[@AirQuotes2962]

Well, this was definitely written by AI. The way it's written is way too proper and the way it's written is very similar to ChatGPT. Also, when it talked about the accusation of cheating, I'm pretty sure I heard those exact words used with different names in a separate story.

[@nicknitro86]

This is a story of nothing but enablers.

[@Naofumi_Ivatani]

Finn is dumb believing her sis after all this and still didn`t learn

[@thecheshyhunter5894]

this story is almost verbatim to another story on this channel. the only difference is the sil had a gambling addiction instead of just straight not liking op. same background of the husbands family being well off. same instances of the in laws all siding with op and the husband. even the way the sil accused op of cheating is almost word for word. good to know no one actually reads the stories before putting it through an ai voice filter anymore.

[@F40PH-2CAT]

Blatant AI

[@alanphipps]

What a B

[@ballinlikebill8334]

its ai generated anyway

[@lyra6695]

I will not even marry finn knowing his sister is crazy

[@sanddagger36]

This is obviously computer written. 2:22 and 9:38 are basically the exact same sentence. 9:57 the description of the ceremony is ripped straight from other wedding stories on reddit.

[@spankosupreme2070]

Daughter is a newly revealed gambling addict? Better give her access to our bank account. What?

[@SilveryBlue1010]

Should have leave that siscon. "You can't talk like that to my sister." Yet it's ok for her sister to talk crap about OP???

[@morganablackwater2017]

I would flip so hard on that nonsense I can't even... And what OP done? She KEEPED him... Hell to the no - he can go marry his sis

[@kanto555]

Lol there coworker that got fired has grounds for wrongful termination, that part of the story is pure BS 😂

[@GreenPaganWitch]

Just remember. What you allow, will continue. What continues, will escalate. Not my quote, but I don’t remember where I got iI.

[@pushkalvasudev790]

Too damn wordy

[@scribblersvale4830]

*damn

[@pushkalvasudev790]

@@scribblersvale4830 yeah my bad

[@agdiwan8422]

Imagine if she actually Cheated 💀

[@johnarredondo7259]

Like how the fuck are they going to let her Boston around when it’s not even y’all’s house? It is an Airbnb you’re supposed to leave it the way it is you can’t just move furniture around

[@KeramosDeLuna]

I'm only 5 minutes in so far and I'm not aure why OP wanted to marry into this family. Sure they stood up for OP but they also enable the SIL like she's an autistic toddler. That just seems like it would be exhausted and assuming they disown her later I'm expecting a lot of "she's changed. We should give her another chance."

[@KeramosDeLuna]

14 minutes in and yea divorce.

[@Nick..M]

Red flags all over. I wonder even how OP proceeded with the marriage.

[@cap19x1]

She was marrying into money. She doesn't actually love him like she claims. OP will use this situation as an excuse to cheat on Finn in the future, assuming this story is not fake.

[@kidm0bius190]

fake and bravo on the creative writing essay.

[@theplaintech]

I want to know how a "one month termination" works. Please explain.

[@jeanetteporter8114]

Story 1, why do people spend so much time with toxic people? Life is too short to live always walking on quicksand, doormats keep cuddling toxic people to keep the peace with family and extend family for what? So they know how a doormat you are? Op you allow this abuse, you keep hing around this idiot, you are just as to blame as her because you keep lighting the pilot light, how hard is it to go low to no contact with this idiot?

[@sorayaya3080]

Oh yeah, 100% fake or AI generated "She stole priceless jewelry from our grandmother and we have CCTV footage of it" _doesn't press charges_

[@SaturnSenshi3105]

How are you so good at parkour

[@RMiska96]

Note to self for future me, cuz there is no way this irrational behavior isnt some form of bipolar fued by drugaddiction cuz this is insane. Update from future me, it was not confirmed but I still trongly hold the opinion ... Drugs narcicistic issues sure ... But gambling wasn't the only thing she was addicted too

[@KatherineBober]

Nice AI story.

[@DarkButz]

Yeah, you can't even find the story on Reddit.

[@msgamerno1.480]

0:42

[@azurekite4694]

Am I tripping or is this story the same as this one with some subtle changes? I’m like 90% sure this story is fake? What do yall think? 🤔 kzbin.info/www/bejne/jpS6lIqsgZaLjsksi=w3oTS7MHLNnvreBY

[@FaeryMary]

Ahahaaaaaaa 8.5

[@evil5423]

Navigating complexities of changing the will This alone sounds kinda fake

[@evil5423]

@@samsonxd dude you are sad if you need to make me one of many. Im free to have that opinion and your one sounds just generic "haha im stupid lol"

[@FullMoonOctober]

It really depends on where they live and what kind of assets they have. Sometimes it's extremely hard to completely cut out someone that's next-of-kin. Also disinherited heirs can still try to sue the estate and claim they still should have a piece of it, even if there's a will.

[@F40PH-2CAT]

​@@samsonxdthis story is blatant AI. 😅

[@lyra6695]

PEEPPPPP DIVORCE

[@nocteinperpetuum7777]

could be wrong, but the family dynamic sounds asian

[@sambanerjee6796]

Gay

[@rizzysigmatron]

the wording very is ai sounding

[@ladyweasellou3367]

Honestly, if the wife left him out would have been completely justified. I think she should have left him tbh. If he's so stupid to believe that Bullcr@p after a lifetime of Knowing his sister's issues, then he can handle the consequences of his stupidity. That's just sad, I feel bad for the wife.