Training Your Mouth for Marriage

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How well you communicate has a direct correlation to the success of your relationship. Your marriage will never rise above the level of your mouth. Words have a dramatic impact and are always consequential.

[@estig.1798]

I am addicted to this channel!!! I am married 26 years have more than 5 kids😉... two married and 2 grandchildren as my kids get older and my life progresses i find many of the subjects preacher Jimmy evans talks about are so relatable and they concern my marrige at this point. I love the way preacher Jimmy talks and puts out gods word. I love this great blessed channel!!! Keep in going i await every lesson!!!💐💐💐💐💐

[@frogsqaud1233]

How long are you married

[@estig.1798]

Corinne Mcfarland Hi Corinne! I will be married God willing 29 years!!! I am 49 my oldest son is 27 God bless him❤️❤️❤️

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[@cheneprovins9336]

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[@jackjones3657]

"All words are either good or bad. Our words are seeds." That's pretty thought provoking indeed.

[@millie1863]

Thanks for this. Very helpful! Love all the teachings.❤️😊

[@chelseajoy254]

Hello, This is addressed to his wife Karen. I want to thank you for hanging in there. I know that it must have been quite the challenge! But if you hadn't stayed, we probably wouldn't have access to this amazing, life-changing, destiny altering content. May God bless you in ways you could never even think or imagine!

[@lakendrawilliams6785]

Lord I needed that and I will do better after today!!

[@justinpitcox2945]

I’ve learned so much from jimmy evans. I believe his messages saved me before it was to late. Because I was living in ignorance

[@keithparry1111]

gotta get our hearts right first. For what comes out of the mouth is overflow from the heart.

[@Mrs_Fletcher]

This was the exact scripture I read this morning. Out of the abundance of the mouth the heart speaks

[@W諭]

Very true! If a person not being faithful in he/her hearts, then what that person said are useless

[@marquettanewell4022]

It is really

[@marquettanewell4022]

We

[@Leo881971]

I used my tongue against my ex husband too.. I still do.. I love listening to this Pastor 👍😘

[@lynraygreen7240]

i enjoy your preaching, i feel you are real and you use your own experiences as examples. You make me feel that there is hope

[@donnabloom9826]

I came across your ministry 3 weeks ago looking for preaching sermons...well let me tell you, your ministry is powerful and SO Biblical and I watch several about 5 days a week and share them with friends! I am not married anymore, but am so making these teachings a part of my life praying into God's plan, and some are for everyday relationships! God bless you and Karen! I will be supporting you soon! 🤗💖Blessings! Donna

[@vh702]

Jimmy, God bless you and your wife! I thank God for your ministry! I have been very blessed listening to your messages. Love how bible based and real you are

[@donnagotcher743]

This ministry is awesome. I am single and desire in my heart to be married and I get so much out of this right now in my life. I hope to be able togive a gift soon.

[@XOMarriage]

Donna, thank you for your kind words!

[@spuntate514]

This was so good for me to hear I know I have to take responsibility for Mary and her words I dont want to hurt my husband I dont I have to stop cussing completely I have to stop being mean when I feel like I have a so called reason help me Lord to speak

[@marilynholdaway8182]

I enjoy your teaching .God bless you so powerful words

[@laturley7445]

Please, speak on how to share your material with other cultures. My ex husband claimed to be a believer while I was skeptical. I found your material and it spoke to me on a level I never imagined. I tried to get my ex husband to allow your ministry to influence our marriage but he was already talking to other women. Honestly, I knew from the beginning of our marriage that he was not committed to our mutual success. I gave him the best that I could and whenever I needed his shelter, I was treated as though something were wrong with me (I made excuses for his behavior). I don't understand how people can be presented with material designed to help two people love, yet reject it. I know, based on what he's said to me, how many faults I have. I've really searched within my heart to decipher all the ways that I failed him, including allowing my environment to persuade me into suspicion. I haven't recovered. I'm 34 and I don't try anymore at anything (love, work, training). I want to have a family and children, I've felt this since I was a small child, but most men aren't like you. My family, on both sides, has seen tremendous suffering from men (adultery, alcoholism, power hungry) . It seems the men in my life can stand behind a podium and preach, but when their wives really need them they aren't there. How can men be angry at the rise of feminism when fathers have withheld love and affection for so many generations? My grandfather had all the riches and never sat down and spoke to me face to face about our family, his life (my Master's program required a paper about family lineage -- only then would he open up to me). I can't tell you if he was Christian because he didn't make time for me. Even as the oldest biological grandchild, he denied his influence --although I do remember him telling me never to trust my father. There were always excuses why my family was never around. I'm proud to have a spiritual connection with an altruistic, loving Jesus because I can't find a man that isn't lost between his words, actions, and heart. I care very much for men, but at what point will I meet a man with self-reflection and use that to influence his actions? I do not expect perfection. I love humanness and growth, but do you have to destroy your family for your own gratification? At what point do you say, "I can't let my behavior lead my children into destruction." Thank you Mr. Evans for leading our men into the most destructive battle of them all, the battle against themselves.

[@MsAthaG]

Keep healing sweetie. I completely get how you feel. I'm currently in a marriage that is similar and working with God to heal abs praying that during this time my husband will draw close to God and do the same. So that this can be a true picture of Jesus' love

[@MsAthaG]

As you keep drawing choose to God and keep healing He'll recall in the right time who is for you. You never know He could be working on your husband abs draw you back together.

[@ritakhatushi8137]

LA Turley Please search out Katie Souza's channel. What you are describing is soul wounds. Soul wounds keep generational cycles alive, no matter how much you love God, no matter how much you try. Once you deal with it then the cycle stops. Check her out. It's never too late for you. God bless you.

[@Irene-nu6qv]

LA Turley I feel with u sis . I had been surrounded by men that hurt my mum, my grandma etc ... that and things I passed through in my childhood, made me fear trusting men and sometimes even hating them or thinking that they all are so much alike . God revealed those pains and wounds that came up even stronger when I met an amazing man of God, but I felt pushing him away and doubting that he wants my best, feeling like I had to be in control , in the case he’ll think to step over me . We part ways and I had to take my heart to God. I’m 35 and I thought that my heart healed when I got back to Christ and I prayed and fasted so much for these stuff ... but then, here u go: all the wounds were hurting, open up again ... Then God lead me to read some books about marriage and Every woman’s battle and layers by layers of my heart open up and it was so painful and discouraging sometimes to see the amount of hurt I had carried around for soooo many years and I kept on moving in the same circle.... Get close to God, pray , fast and ask Him to heal u completely ... and trust me, God will do what no man can do in ur life , in ur heart ... He’ll bind all ur wounds and He’ll give u beauty for ashes and if He has in His plan a marriage for u- He’s preparing an amazing man of God for u, that will treasure u and love u. If u r not healed and that man arrives before the time u both are ready - u’ll both destroy each other... I’m telling u from my past experience . My ex felt like he could understand me and my pains, but at some point he had enough and walked away. I broke down before God and since few months He keeps on revealing to me issues I need to bring to the cross and get my mind renewed , forgive those men that hurt me and trust in the Lord. God bless u! Don’t loose hope sister☺️

[@vonneokafor8632]

I think I had this problem as well. I grew up fearing abusive men. It's funny that you attract those things you fear if you don't deal with the hurt you've experienced.. Keep at it.. Keep healing!

[@mattson0711]

I just text this exact text to my husband.. Of all the video I’ve sent you this should be your Shroud of Turin ..the sacred one you turn to when you need to know without-knowing how your wife relates to you when you speak and she listens ..what he doesn’t know is it’s my Shroud too ..

[@Ed-vi8lj]

Words are so powerful. Never heard the devil has an impact. I think God wants you to take control of what you say

[@queenjosannegreene6857]

I will start From Home and forever to Train my mouth for Marriage ,Thank U Pastor for that , Definitely Will use this Tool as A Guideline to my Sacred Union Marriage Seriously and Truthfully Always

[@christysmith7558]

You should always love and encourage your spouse 🐯 Put them first in your thoughts and DO something about it 💝

[@christysmith7558]

I will put them first when they show up!

[@audreywallace3363]

Your video message is well appreciated. I have learned so much from your lessons and your openness.

[@estherbunni7354]

Its a blessing to hear you talking about God in our Marriage. I find it difficult to understand if God gave you the Knowledge for free. As Jesus say freely received freely given! Why I have to save my marraige by paying money for the word of God is free. I understand you have needs in your life. Wouldnt you be able to trust God by supplying your need and being faithful and let people pay what they can afford! Jesus have mercy upon us!

[@efthimios]

my wife said mean things to me i didnt know it was a test, as pastor saying, i said horrible things too, then eventually she had affair. I feel like i lived in pastors steps.. but not im trying to save my marriage. Some spouses will just push your buttons and test you, even if its not your fault.. you just have to be auiet and not say anything to hurt your spoise. I cant forgive myself. And i was a good spouse, loving, take care of my family, but when she insulted me i lashed out and threatened divorce, which broke her. Now im pleading with ther to save our marriage and not leave for her affair partner.

[@davidbergel]

Pray to the Lord.

[@mattson0711]

I just text this exact text to my husband.... Of all the video I’ve sent you this should be your Shroud of Turin ..the sacred one you turn to when you need to know without-knowing how your wife relates to you when you speak and she listens ...what he doesn’t know is it’s my Shroud as well

[@childrensbiblestories8160]

Thank you so much this has help me alot

[@sharodeley675]

Very important message

[@RCTexanGuy]

Jimmy the man ! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 Some good stuff

[@maranathachabvonga4738]

Ohhhhh thank you, thank you!

[@Beautiful2726]

I love this!

[@reKNEWedFamily]

SOO GOOD!

[@JULALAINE]

A mean, dirty, hateful, harsh words have the same heart, no wonder hurt people say hurt words that corrupt the heart.

[@malugurl04]

Thank u Lord! Help me, forgive me for the things I've said!

[@XOMarriage]

Amen and Amen!!!

[@christineteganeza7447]

Happy Easter

[@CarlotaDowney]

I REALLY REALLY WISH my husband can watch and to hear most of the video, like this. He WILL NOT watch nor he feels there is nothing wrong but his wife is ruining our marriage. BUT I told him, if I did not care I would not brought up marriage counseling nor if he do not want to see counseling. This PLEASE watch Jimmy EVANS. HE SAID NO. I LOVE HIM.

[@othnielwakili9740]

Your marriage is as good as your words.

[@lindaerwin8913]

It's like how do you turn loose of the hurt that you have gone through when I husband is committed adultery and continues to hold onto phone numbers Facebook friends and then lies to you over and over about talking to him I'm just don't know how to handle it anymore I've prayed I know I've gave it to God and I continue to be faced with lies and it's like he's in one room I'm in another never no communication between us he talks about moving out and finding another place sometimes I just wonder when it is with this far is it time to let go and move on where that you could find happiness peace I need advice and prayer forgot to leave me the way that he needs to leave me thank you very much

[@kimpuchek1956]

Linda Erwin Affair Recovery helps.

[@mrsgraves7317]

Mrs Erwin, I hope things are going better.

[@DeborahohDeborah]

Ask him to go to counseling with you. He is a wounded man who continues hurting others. Do the respect thing the pastor talks about, show him respect and see how he reacts.

[@geness9676]

Hope you're doing well.

[@valleryreddy2925]

So how does one make the tree of their heart good?

[@love2daylife]

V. Martz if you haven’t then say out loud by faith and believe that God’s son died for my sins past, present and future and I accept Jesus as my personal savior and pray to him to clean your heart and mind and he will send you the helper the Holy Spirit who will speak to you and give you wisdom and guidance, He loves you and is waiting to hear from you :)

[@amblessed5734]

Roman's 12:2, continue daily studying of the bible and live by it

[@ryanchiang9587]

1.1 + 2.1 = 3.2, 2 + 1= 3, 3 + 2 = 5

[@marcellofunhouse1234]

My dad verbally abuses me since my teen hood

[@annemann8048]

I understand all you say...but...if people could save themselves Jesus would not have had to come...no one can save themselves...love...true love bears all things...what I see and hear people saying how to be a robot to be loved. all women are quality women when they belong to Jesus... And God himself says...cease from man who is a mere breath.

[@brittaniefrench1827]

Mashed potatoes and gravy Marrie!

[@Lexilea68]

Your messages have some good, useful, and valid points and advice, but to vehemently and solidly say one's marriage will NEVER rise above the level of their words sounds like New Age fortune telling teaching others all they have to do is believe it, see it, and speak it and we can just 'will' it into existence with our own mouth. wellward certainly do have the power of life and death, too much emphasis is put on that being the reason a marriage is successful or fails. You also said you wanted to give your audience the best news in the world, I'm going to say it is God has a tape recorder (with an eraser). On an aside, when mimicking fussy attitudes or words, forsake immitating the nastiness (harsh face, tone, and demeanor which goes along with your teaching). The best news in the world is not a lie and deception that God has a tape recorder. The best news are good news is that one's soul can be saved from the pits of hell by being born again with repentance of sin.

[@summerrain6125]

That's not new age. That's bible which he quoted for us. Death & life lie in the power of the tongue is in Proverbs and means that what we speaks comes to pass. The New Age folks just steal from the Bible and people just find it to be so profound so long as it's anything but religious text. But once again that's in the Bible.

[@ggrace1133]

You’re right, we can repent and be forgiven for the mean things we say. But the consequences for saying them cannot be changed. Mean words destroy love. Sarcasm that puts someone down isn’t funny-it withers love. Failing to speak words of love and devotion starve love. We can truly repent and be forgiven, but is still starved, withered, and destroyed. Most don’t learn they can’t escape consequences until it’s too late.

[@Lexilea68]

@@ggrace1133 I fully agree. I am straved of attention, affirmations, validation, recognition, and just being noticed. My husband has told me horrible sentences. He tells me I need to forgive him but doesn't seem to understand he did all of that on purpose and I don't really forgive him as the cycle only repeats. Your paragraph was almost describing my marriage. His treatment has killed (pretty strong word) my spirit and love for him.

[@Lexilea68]

@@summerrain6125 I gave a thumbs up agreement that life and death is in the tongue. What I didn't agree with in this message is suggesting a person can just will and think the situation to change. Prosperity preaching. I believe in prayer. I don't believe just because we speak something we can make it happen. That is magical mystical thinking. I do believe words of affirmation build and hurtful words tear down. I agree about the Proverbs to speak life over someone. To speak of things which are lovely, pure and edifying. Corinthians I believe.

[@summerrain6125]

@@Lexilea68 🙏🏼 I agree. And also faith without works is dead. When you truly believe, not only do you say and think it, it's demonstrated in your actions and if it's in God's will it shall come to pass.

[@Sugarput1]

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[@marysmith1016]

this friendship is finish not married

[@laurahayward3443]

🤗🙏🤗

[@monicavegagallery1876]

🙏🔥💜⭐

[@lucyscott6919]

Just so you know! The advertisement to your sermon is about how a wife should talk dirty to her husband. Sad. The devil is in the ad trying to manipulate.

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

Whhhhaaaaaaattttt????