Trans Guy Reacts To A Confused Transphobe

[@sly4164]

Jamie: The transgender agenda Me: The transgenda

[@i06gizi]

got it

[@Forlorn_Overseer]

Ok

[@soulcottage5302]

Ayyyyyyyyyy

[@oliviabogle7109]

clever XD

[@BlueMiaou]

i- cannot-

[@morpology]

"Im not transphobic" ' ' *H O W E V E R* ' '

[@hehefunnysharkgoa9515]

Name a more iconic duo.

[@Skydog6301]

If you have to qualify it like that, then chances are you’re a lot more transphobic than you think

[@AALynx]

This is similar to "I'm not a rasict, B U T - " not at all saying these are the same. Though the phrases seem similar.

[@reneebear3641]

A.A. Lynx No, they’re basically exactly the same. If you same, “I’m not [Racist/Homophobic/Xenophobic/Transphobic/So forth] BUT...” then, it’s very likely that you’re about to say something bigoted towards a minority.

[@AALynx]

@@reneebear3641 i absolutely agree, I'm sorry if my phrasing didn't show that 😅

[@necrodistic]

Every time she says "...however" it's like the"I'm not racist but..." thing lmao

[@Jake-egan]

XENØ when someone says something like that you know they are about to drop the biggest incorrect hot take of the year

[@Abrilliantlight]

I'm not racist but Asian people SEOaAUHhh

[@samiscisking1265]

Brett Wagland So I’m abusive for wanting to not want to kill myself everyday for being in the wrong body?

[@samiscisking1265]

Brett Wagland Ohh, yeah I agree with you, they do make a mockery of me and other trans folk, and I do know about Blaire but thanks for directing me to Rose Of Dawn

[@Jake-egan]

Brett Wagland you have a room temperature iq

[@sillygirl_444]

“because cars can kill you” was the funniest thing for some reason lmao

[@lun4rfl4r3-07]

I think it might have been the way it zoomed in on him and then he said that haha 😂

[@lavender3609]

I loved that bit. What added to it even more was the fact that I paused the video and stood up to get milk when he said that, and from my perspective, he looked a bit like the big brain meme. Mans has a big brain.

[@rowan_Bush]

DID SHE JUST COMPARE CHILDREN BEING THEMSELVES TO SENDING THEM TO WAR????!!

[@pyroanimate156]

T

[@moved.6963]

what on earth 😳🏳️‍🌈

[@confused_shark2537]

yes. I bet she doesnt even like garlic bread

[@heartzstaars]

What the fu-

[@xanmanskaggs216]

@@confused_shark2537 or spagooti

[@ethanhansen3116]

"Kids are too young to express their gender"said no one ever to cisgender kids. - Some meme I found somewhere

[@Cedalion]

The straights™️: you gay people are forcing your sexuality on everyone around you Same people: (baby stares at woman, because babies stare at everything) *wow such a ladies man*

[@fosamwise3374]

so, I partially agree with the video covered, but I'm ready to have my mind changed, this is my stance: kids can express their gender anyway they like, it just seems like an actual sex change is a major life decision with a pretty big impact and I don't think a 12 y/o child is mature enough to make such a decision. I don't know what the legislation around this is right now but I think that it has to be treated that way and only be done in cases where the parents agree. I tink it shouldn't be an easy thing to do because children don't always know what they want. as a metafor I'm thinking of tattoo's, wich also have a lifelong impact ( but a way lesser one ofc). You can't get a tattoo in my country if you're under 18 without your parents consent and I think there's a minimum-age on it(but don't quote me on that). children in puberty have a lot of emotion and trouble figuring out who they are (I know, I'm barely out of it myself) and I don't think the gender identity thing is always positive in this respect, in the end you should be who you are regardless of what society thinks. And I now see 14 y/o trying desperately to constantly define themselves by these tags, saying they're asexual, or aromantic. which are things that for one, you're not gonna know for sure at the age of 14. and it's not necessary to diagnose everyone if they don't have a problem. you're a guy but love wearing makeup and dresses go for it, you can be a guy and do that. Only when your brain actually has more in common with the opposite sex do you need to do trans stuff. btw, she might've misgendered the guy by accident because of how ununderstanding she is to trans people but she seems like a petty bitch so I wouldn't put it past her to do it on purpose

[@pwndemic6459]

@@fosamwise3374 Hi, it isn't an easy thing to do. Even for adults, it's a very long and costly process where multiple medical professionals are involved. I don't know a lot about it, but I know that in my country, it would be just about impossible for a kid to transition. I HIGHLY doubt that parents are not involved every step of the way in more advanced countries, where transitioning is more accessible. About the labels: yes, you cannot be sure about who you are at the age of 14. Not even at the age of 40. People constantly change, misunderstand themselves, learn new things about themselves. Labels are not set it stone, they can change for a person. They are also not medical diagnoses, just a way to express an aspect of your identity, and using them is entirely optional. People like to use labels regarding gender and sexuality because it's easier to find community, understanding and resources if you have a word for it. Since these things are seldom talked about in general, this is necessary for well-being and finding support for many people. People who identify as men and also want to wear dresses and makeup are supported, too. No one is being forced to transition (people may receive bad advice, though, and that's why it's very important to get familiar with yourself and take every opinion with a grain of salt). That's the point - you do your soul searching and self-reflection and thinking about what's going on with you, also known as the hard part, and you decide what is the best for you.

[@fosamwise3374]

@@pwndemic6459 you're probably right about the dificlty of the procedure. And I pretty much agree with you on labels, I know why labels exist and are usefull. The problem to me is overuse and when people start defining their identity by the label they choose and then deciding they are this label. I ge annoyed by labels because I tend to not care about them so when people bring up their label to point out how diferent they are or what group they belong too. This might be born in a sense of naievety because to me everyone is human first and your actions define you , no your labels. But ofcourse it's nice to be able to find a group of people with similar feelings or interests etc through labels.

[@pwndemic6459]

@@fosamwise3374 I'm going to share my personal perspective here, so this is all anecdotal. I shared your opinion on labels until a while ago, then I realized that seeing that all these labels exist and that there's so much discussion around them was a very important crutch for me to reflect on myself. They helped me see that it's ok and normal that I don't fit into what I've been taught is the norm. This validated what I feel is my authentic self, and that eased up a lot of my anxiety and depression. I completely agree that everyone is human first and your actions define you. However, I think that I became a better person by learning about labels and seeing the communities around them, because I felt free to explore myself and settle things in me that I've been repressing. The repression caused a lot of pain, which led to some awful behavior from my part, and I wasn't proud of myself as a person. I'm much calmer, kinder, and more accepting now. Also, I think that for a lot of people, finding a label feels like they finally belong somewhere when they previously felt like they were outsiders, or weird, or even abnormal. That's very powerful, so I understand why people would want to embrace it so much. Since we're social creatures, finding a sense of belonging has such a huge impact. This doesn't mean I think it's beneficial for a person to pick a label or two and stick to them no matter what, even in light of new information. I think that would halt their personal progress, and this doesn't just include gender / sexuality labels, but also religious beliefs, political sides, hobbies and interests, or anything that is part of a person's identity. Embrace what you have, but if you have to move on, recognize that, I guess.

[@MorbyLol]

Confused transphobe: trans men are not women Everyone: yes

[@froggdoggs8551]

Correct

[@molono1451]

this is correct information

[@helios_hobi9717]

yes. correct. i agree.

[@Hayden_Cat]

Correct indeed

[@justarandomflyingbison6139]

*Sarcastic claps*. Yay.

[@g996]

Weird English language phrases that are often confusing: ‘Yeah no’ = no ‘No yeah’ = yes ‘I’m not transphobic, but-‘ = I am indeed transphobic ‘I’m not racist, however-‘ = I am actually racist

[@lizzie31]

underrated comment

[@tsatsishche]

“Yeah no maybe” = perhaps no (from russian)

[@briezeee]

Lmao

[@KatsyKat]

YEAAAA SO TRUEEE

[@captaincyoomin]

Underlining cause = underlying cause

[@charlottetunney2798]

"A fOrM oF cHiLd AbUsE." Yes, i'm sure that shaming your child for who they are is not the child abuse here.

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

Omg I wheezed- xD

[@jmd1009]

Basically she's saying this: "Being A Good Parent Is Child Abuse" Like Wut Lady? I Don't Think You Understand Logic Here. '_'

[@holly205]

Oh yeah. Totally. For sHorE.

[@Kymberlee_W]

Somehow watching this made Posie Parker show up in my recommends. I watched because I was curious. Now I'm trying to decide who is more harmful, Posie Parker or JK Rowling. It may be a tie, they both suck and one is super well known the other is loud and has a podcast and seems to have gotten herself arrested for being a transphobe.

[@_mightyheroes_]

@@Kymberlee_W Fuck J.K Rowling but Love Harry Potter.

[@5coldplayhurtsfan]

"she can have all the surgeries she likes but she'll still have ovaries" uhm… who's gonna tell her About hysterectomy??

[@masonclaassen7399]

That’s the second one I want

[@aluminium4303]

Don't tell her about cis women who have their reproductive organs removed due to medical issues, she'll very get confused.

[@memedreams8558]

lumipaint bruh I’m a cis female and I want all my reproductive organs removed because fuck childbirth

[@timidk9172]

snufkin love your name and your picture! Mumin

[@5coldplayhurtsfan]

@@timidk9172 Thank you!

[@fenrirtaura5856]

"Because cars can kill you." I SNORTED 😂😂🖤🖤

[@poetkitten289]

Same that's hilarious! I can't believe she compared to that

[@kemitstoes5764]

Same 🤣

[@kemitstoes5764]

2:46 for anyone who wants to relive the moment 🤣

[@vince9005]

i snorted at 10:43

[@plodiN3]

+

[@quadpad_music]

''This is the first time I've talked about transgender in my channel'' is just such a gramatically hilarious sentence to me. ''This is the last time I'm explaining white to you'' ''Had you ever heard of christian?'' ''I'm tired of having to talk about _g a y_ ''

[@Im_inside_your_walls_teehee]

"I just need to talk to you about curly ONE LAST TIME okay okay" "Let me enlighten you on asian "I just feel like I should also mention the topic of muslim to you as well" LMAOOOOO

[@teaartist6455]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando To be fair, if he's with a trans guy then yes, that's gay. Or, as is more likely to be the case if he likes women (too), bi, pan, omni or something in that realm.

[@alex6860]

no but the funniest part is how the phrasing wasn’t correct??? like at least talk properly if ur gunna be rude. also do ur research. honestly a lot of transphobes/homophobes are very uneducated, like if ur gunna be rude can u at least do it factually please?

[@Woomvee]

@@alex6860 Right? Its insulting that they can't insult correctly

[@alex6860]

@@Woomvee Exactly

[@jagged1725]

"I'm not transphobic, however" "I support children expressing themselves, however" I'm NoT rAcIsT, bUt

[@ZimLikesPastaAnimation]

why TF did I think your pfp was Jesus

[@jagged1725]

@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation I am Jesus

[@luasiaimas3566]

"Not to offend you, *BUT* "

[@snailinashell]

Thats like when people are going to ask questions and they say it like "hey i know your gonna say no but-" like why ddi you ask if i would say no????😂

[@ddootzles]

@Aaron Brincefield yes. Because opinions like that girl's harm people and can give others the wrong ideas and people of those minorities will get murdered and harassed

[@alexanderparker6070]

Every time she says "underlining" instead of "underlying" I lose 15 brain cells

[@robyngrenside5246]

they're all gone

[@TheLucyblades]

Same. It's odd, this correlation between transphobes and terrible grammar and low IQ.

[@erectile_dysfunction]

You've gone brain dead

[@dinosrchestra]

So your head is hollow?

[@oddbaii6322]

I lose one million brain cells every time I think about how I used to say and write “reframe” instead of “refrain”, and I thought that refrain was incorrect. Lord kill me now😂

[@lilyella259]

We don’t forbid children from crossing the road, we hold their hands and we walk across with them

[@sunarctus]

That's a really nice response to that I love it

[@erikperhs_]

I just imagined a game for children where they have to go from point A to point B without crossing the streets lol

[@abi5507]

That part

[@lilyschulz2743]

This is the best response that could’ve ever been said. Thank you for this

[@shedevil50337]

Beautiful statement. 😀

[@TheHiddenDirector]

Also, I love how when she showed pictures of children being allowed to be the genders they're comfortable with, they look significantly happier as those genders. I don't think she sees the irony.

[@DeathnoteBB]

I know it’s nitpicking but it feels more like you should say “are allowed to be who they are/present how they want”. Kids are always the gender they are, they’re happier when they’re allowed to exist as themselves and express their gender properly.

[@demetria-n]

@@DeathnoteBB I've seen you before....

[@demi_demon]

Wait, huh? I didn't see any pictures anywhere

[@StoatClaw1012]

@@demi_demon 6:14

[@Dictator_Crow]

@@olderalt.4066 "I THINK he's going to be ftm", "I'm WAITING for a more vocal representation of his gender" How in the world did you turn it into them forcing their brother into anything?? They didn't even call their brother "she" in this comment. You're looking for a problem where there is none.

[@nitrosophelin]

"I'm not a transphobe" and "but" name a more iconic duo.

[@AceOfWaffles]

"I don't agree with the LGBTQA+ community, but I don't discriminate against them." Ooh! I found the contradiction!

[@TheDarkestShadeOfLight]

"I support the GRSM/LGBTQ+ community, but I don't want them near me." Found another one! Gods those people are annoying

[@emrys4386]

The Darkest Shade what does GRSM stand for??

[@emrys4386]

The Darkest Shade ah, thank you :)

[@oninja1205]

@@TheDarkestShadeOfLight minority??? You straights are the minority...

[@theofficialvindieselyoutub9433]

"TRANS MEN ARE NOT WOMEN!" Yeah, I- I kinda.. I agree, yeah.

[@CloudSeanie]

Wait....hold on.......what is this girl thinking in the vid

[@julsiegamermove4115]

Yea

[@elliott7331]

Hi german hooman

[@julsiegamermove4115]

Lunar Kitsune yeah

[@theboogeyman2590]

Swirly Rick yes, and the floor is made of floor

[@theeveningcallsforfairies5246]

“iT’s ThE aGeNdA!” ..but I don’t have a genda..

[@the_snaz]

I love this comment. Same tho

[@citrathepotatochip6637]

Mel so your agenda

[@rickiwovsaniker4292]

Underrated comment.

[@averagemossenjoyer]

Mood

[@ezraa8420]

SMOOTH

[@kunimip8925]

“Kids are too young to choose their gender/sexuality!?!!?” Said absolutely no one to the cishet

[@DeathnoteBB]

(Sarcasm) Don’t you know? Everyone is cishet by default, being LGBT is just ✨flavoring✨

[@kunimip8925]

@@DeathnoteBB ah yes. We are OBVIOUSLY just barbecue sauce!

[@randommeowthekitty6482]

Parent: Here’s my daughter- Person: HGHGHG WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU YOUR CHILD ISNT OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW THEYRE CIS!!!!!!!!!

[@FennekinBraixen]

@@kunimip8925 Honestly, being barbecue sauce doesn't sound that bad xD

[@imatcpell1987]

@@FennekinBraixen I prefer honey mustard

[@thealmightybucket5930]

the gay agenda, according to me, a lesbian: Monday: be gay Tuesday: Tacos Wednesday: simp over girls Thursday: be gay Friday: *internalized homophobia caused by being raised around heteronormative norms, not being exposed to the idea that gay isn’t bad at a young age, no representation in kids shows I watched, homophobic people and my family believing that gay is weird and not normal* Saturday: be gay Sunday: think about my future life in a cottage on the edge of a lake, where we grow our own food and raise our own animals, and we have cats and dogs and frogs and we live outside of society, in which refers to us as the witches of the woods. all of this with a random stranger I made eye contact with for 0.034 seconds Edit: oh right I forgot “make fun of straight tiktok”

[@abracadabra8501]

Yes cottagecore!!! Frog tiktok is singlehandedly saving 2020. Nice to meet you :)

[@thealmightybucket5930]

Zoë Cheney Absolutely good to meet you too :))

[@abracadabra8501]

@@thealmightybucket5930 Hello! what is your name?

[@Urmom-hh8qj]

I agree lol

[@loulikesfrogs_3579]

yes, my life explained perfectly

[@ajturner4152]

"A lot of the time a child might think they are trans when they are really gay." What about the people who thought they were gay, but were actually trans?

[@chaossmith3864]

What about people who are both?

[@Dariraine]

*well I'm both*

[@minhozen2917]

@@angelfish1506 I feel like as a person who felt way more like a boy, I tried to push myself to like girls even before realizing I'm trans. So like I was trying to convince myself I was a lesbian while I'm actually a gay trans guy... I don't know what happened in my brain.

[@angelfish1506]

@@minhozen2917 I did the same thing, got into a really abusive relationship and something snapped in me.

[@menacetosociety471]

I thought I was lesbian but I found I never liked anyone I had a relationship with like that. I was not romantically or sexually attracted. But I still found myself being attracted to guys. I found out I'm trans and at first, I didn't think I could be gay but here I am.

[@eggpusher2585]

"I know nothing about a topic about a minority group, let me bless the world with my ignorant opinions about it."

[@texasguy4316]

OMG. I wish I could give you a thousand likes!

[@kotaleartist]

+100 likes

[@thereasonablist1635]

I'm a trans teen and I WISH it was that easy to get hormones lol These people think there just handin em out ha

[@shootgunman1460]

Just rob a pharmacist, you can trust my advice because I am not a government plant and am a real fellow human being.

[@thereasonablist1635]

@@shootgunman1460 I don't know what it is but something tells me I can definitely trust you

[@bigpp9129]

@@thereasonablist1635 he just has a way with words

[@AtlasNL]

@@shootgunman1460 Thank you, shoot gun man, for this sound advice!

[@transboi4754]

Dude same, like it would be so easy to just enter the pharmacist and ask for testosterone or estrogen

[@crowthecryptid6508]

love how she just says “studies have shown-“ but doesn’t say which studies, but then Jamie actually cites articles and stuff lmao

[@liquidduck8052]

same lmao it's hilarious but like these transphobes still won't go away it's sad 😢

[@deuterium_oxide7382]

@@liquidduck8052 yeah

[@lexatholon]

💯 correct, but *cites lmao

[@liquidduck8052]

@@lexatholon what cities lmao

[@lexatholon]

@@liquidduck8052 I didn’t mean cities, I meant cites, as in cite your work for your 6 page history paper, 7th grader, they said sites, and I am just like that from school ig

[@phineasthegreat2402]

“Not living as their true authentic self”....this is rich coming from fake lips, hair extensions, and Botox.

[@elijahwoofle1839]

Pftttt yesssssssss

[@fish_s0ap]

I really said "oh shit-"

[@void8768]

So many 'real' people say it tho- not that they're wrong lmao

[@princevegeta103]

Lol

[@NameName-yj7lp]

And that’s what I hate Is it ok to change up? Yes! Is it ok to by a hypothetical person? no!

[@TheIntimateAvenger]

I think this girl has confused social transitioning with physical transitioning. No, toddlers aren't getting genital surgery.

[@Lol-tr6cu]

Yeah. Giving kids physical transitioning would be fucked up.

[@theclovis.]

@@Lol-tr6cu as a trans kid, 100% agree

[@licuslunar9533]

no professionally trained endocrinologist or surgeon or child therapist would allow a kid to get bottom surgery. These people think you just walk into the doctors office and they're giving out surgery like it's a free sample you get at costco lmaooo

[@bomoore9872]

@@Lol-tr6cu exactly, thats why there is an age limit with parental consent.

[@analisadavis8097]

@@bomoore9872 what is the age limit?

[@maddieohmygod]

this makes my brain hurt my younger sibling came out as non binary a year or two ago and went on hormone blockers not too long after and they're the happiest i've ever seen them. they were depressed and had so much anxiety. i remember fighting with them almost daily before they came out. nowadays we're literally best friends even while being trapped inside for a year straight if you're reading this gray ily (edit: name changed)

[@ITastedDeathItself]

literally so wholesome 🥺

[@ArtsyKnox25]

Aww I hope you guys are good doing nowadays! I'm happy to see that you two got along better after their transition and that they're happy now as well!

[@upliftothers4599]

I hope that you are both doing well

[@lenad8465]

"If we don't let kids cross the street by themselves, why do we let them transition" We don't let small children transition BY THEMSELVES. We help and walk with them. *Just like when we cross the street.*

[@whorfianism4981]

Gerri Dandridge No, u.

[@gwendalynnwatkins1296]

@Gerri Dandridge who's Lena what'd she say?

[@philliphamilton7051]

WHO IS LENA AND WHAT DID SHE SAY

[@lenad8465]

@@philliphamilton7051 it's me, I changed my name.

[@lenad8465]

@Knight of The Unholy Filth Sick of your transphobic bullshit. Come up with an argument next time, instead of informing me of the state of my health.

[@archamedies616]

Girl: sources say- Jamie: *give me citations*

[@anthonygonzalez2063]

Jammi was like YOUR V I B E S PRESENT THEM

[@HN-kr1nf]

seriously though. these people make outrageous claims without providing evidence, then tell people to "do their own research" when they ask for proof.

[@kirbysthiccthighs]

@Anthony Gonzalez UNDERRATED REPLY

[@thelonelyegg3025]

@Kira Kurusu Ayyyyyyy another breadtube fan ❤

[@katherinemorelle7115]

We needed an Hbomb citations meme. I use that meme so much. I really wish I didn’t have to.

[@macbean3446]

That woman: It’s child abuse! Jamie: -_- Everyone: -_-

[@_mightyheroes_]

Me who's just BI and Demi: :/

[@esf34147]

I bet you all my money that when she hears about parents abusing their kid bc they are transphobes, she'll be quiet about it

[@nikolathenocturnalnarwhal565]

@@esf34147 hopefully-

[@coocooformycocoapuffs3235]

lol pretty much

[@FinestCat]

lolll im just laughing about her saying how "a lot of kids think theyre trans but theyre actually gay" but it was the other way around for me and a lot of my trans siblings

[@Salsuero]

I love the fact that she thinks being gay is perfectly normal in this context since she thinks being trans is so abnormal. Where does she draw these lines... on Venus? The fact that you don't even have a true concept of "sexual orientation" as a pre-pubescent child since you don't have a clear innate understanding of what sexual identity is until your sex hormones begin coursing through your blood, makes me think you are far more likely to know your gender BEFORE your sexual orientation. So how are these kids "confusing" being transgender with being gay before they even know what being gay is? You don't need a sexual orientation to be trans. NOT THE SAME THING DUMMY. Stupid.

[@little_racoon_boi]

i feel this, when i came out to myself i wasn’t in the place in my life where i felt safe to come out to family, friends, etc. so i immersed myself into lqbtqia+ culture and that’s when i learned about gender and eventually realized feelings of my own gender dysphoria that i thought everyone had lol and then came out as non binary, not to mention i’m not an adult yet so apparently i don’t have the capability to know my own identity but i have the capability to revived a scholarship for college and pick out a major and work a job but ya know IM JUST TOO YOUNG TOO YOUNG TO KNOW🙄😂

[@milkpup9201]

Fun fact: in Sweden, being gay was labeled as an illness. Millions of swedish people called in too gay to go to work, and their bosses couldnt do anything about it.

[@Alexandraincognito]

No way? You have to be trolling 🙈 I mean how did they "get rid" of it? Antibiotics and 3 days off work?

[@masonk.wilson538]

That sounds hilarious because their bosses couldn't do anything 😂

[@jojomojo6569]

They took it off as an illness after that. One of our finest peaceful demonstrations 🙌🏼

[@queeniescreatives2058]

All I'm thinking is "iM SORRY SIR BUT IM FEELING TOO GAY TODAY!"

[@bluecarrotshoe3962]

Me : *calls school* School : hi *my name* Me : Im sorry I can’t go to school today School : why? Me : *IvE gOt ThE gAy ToDaY iM sOrRy*

[@oh_bruhh]

Ah, of course. Helping kids feel comfortable in their bodies and with their identities is ‘child abuse’

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

@Oof Oof It can be considered child abuse due to the fact that they are too young to make that decision. They're brains and body's aren't completely developed and/or mature enough to make that decision. So if you just let them say and do what they want before at least 15, they could end up being wrong and killing themselves. That can be seen as child abuse.

[@drendraleigh4722]

@@thecrackheadcrew9829 So i can't have my own opinion until 15? Weird... I can't say or do or even feel what i want til 17 but I still come out suicidal and depress

[@cowboytoy05]

TheCrackHead Crew you think young people are dumb as hell huh? Mental maturity is important but youth before the age of 15 can say they’re trans. Puberty is a process and it’s totally reasonable to find out something new along the way. If it turns out they aren’t trans and are just struggling with their identity in a different way- then fine. Life is a long road and it’s important to take a wrong turn every so often.

[@cowboytoy05]

TheCrackHead Crew also killing themselves? They’d be more likely to kill themself if they didn’t get support for their identity.

[@useroffline9999]

TheCrackHead Crew what decision? the decision to wear clothes and go by a new name?

[@blueaxolotl6669]

"more children think that theyre trans but theyre actually gay" * confused and panicked nonbinary bisexual noises *

[@KingOfGaymes]

SAME

[@shadophaxx2401]

My people

[@letmetakeajormungandrattha8591]

mood

[@emival3335]

Would a soft heavy blanket and a cup of tea help you to calm down? 🏳️‍🌈 if so, I’m “near-bi” 😉

[@EthanMeatan]

Did you just describe my entire life

[@lightningincthefirst]

"Because cars can kill you" Best response ever

[@secretscorpio5393]

When I was little I heard the word transgender. I asked my parents what it was, and they said ‘a transgender person is a person who is born as the wrong gender, they are one gender trapped in another.’ I took that answer and I don’t dwell on it, I am still a child, a cis child, and I, in my CHILD brain do not sit here and call trans people predators, or not mentally capable of knowing what gender they are. If you she wants to sit there and say that children are not capable of knowing if they are trans, then how are they capable of knowing if they are cis?

[@pdx13]

Secret Scorpio trans people are not predators, hope you learned this ahahaha

[@strawberryboy9045]

saphira a They said that.

[@sand747]

Exactly

[@sonycat-themed-sex]

this is a valid point, thank you.

[@eleanorthesecond3438]

Similar story, I found out about gay people aged 6 through a friend and guess what? I didn't think anything of it and I'm fine now. Education is not harmful in the slightest, and quite necassary for kids to grow up to be kind humans.

[@theovenisfrozen5345]

“She (oops “he”) still has ovaries.” Does this mean women who don’t have ovaries are men?

[@lucascattai9447]

And there is a surgery to remove ovaries, for trans men who can't take pills to stop menstruation and cis women who have some problem in their ovaries, like-- she's just dumb

[@crowteethh]

Fr like 👁👄👁

[@laka4049]

Or the thing with the chromosomes... does she know how much of chromosome combinations there are, that wouldn't make someone possibly male/female? (This sounds a bit wrong but i hope you get what i mean)

[@Im_inside_your_walls_teehee]

yes /j

[@codertommy6883]

"Opps?" shows just about how credible her argument is

[@iyote2]

"It's child abuse to let your child transition! It's much better to let them suffer dysphoria." Hmm.

[@iyote2]

Transitioning is the most effective way of curing dysphoria. Regardless of whether or not you believe that sex is fixed, the medical consensus is that transitioning works while "psychiatric help" doesn't, and MANY trans people (including Jammi here) have reported that their surgeries practically cured their dysphoria. _Transitioning_ solves the problem. BTW, Caitlyn Jenner's name has been legally changed. I know you think that calling Jenner a woman is "lying", but calling Jenner "Bruce" is actually lying. edit: they deleted their comment, hah

[@petewentzfrommychemicalrom4048]

@@iyote2 psychiatric can help, im going to see a gender therapist. But it's way less effective than transitioning

[@iyote2]

I was replying to someone who was talking about conversion therapy. But they deleted their comment.

[@petewentzfrommychemicalrom4048]

@@iyote2 oof okay

[@arcadeguy781]

PeteWentzFromMyChemicalRomance hope things go well. Also I love My Chemical Romance. Best band ever!! Gerard Way is awesome and very accepting and is transgender (genderqueer)

[@fayd_away4794]

12:15 does she not realize that people constantly hating, ignoring, dismissing, shaming, and even threatening/hurting you for being trans might cause mental illnesses? 💀

[@user-mv5zt8qd9l]

That's the desired outcome for them: the genocide of people who don't blindly follow their cultish lifestyle.

[@thatgirlinautumn5995]

I don't agree with her dying her hair. She might be confused and feel like she _wants_ to live her life as a blonde, but the biological fAcT is that she will never be a true blonde. I wished she would just take the time and start loving herself for who she truly is, because this is just not natural. The normalization of dyed hair pushed by the beauty industry is very worrying and I don't want my children to see any part of that agenda, it might make them want to dye their own hair at some point! I just don't understand why she doesn't keep that to herself, hair dying is really taking over Western civilization smh

[@RhymeandRamblings]

That Girl In Autumn I’m sure you know that hair grows back, breasts and gentiles don’t. The fact that the woman changes her appearance is not the same as changing gender. Making lips fuller and breasts bigger is a bit more extreme as is dental work to improve ones smile but it’s enhancing what you already have not fundamentally changing it.

[@thatgirlinautumn5995]

@@RhymeandRamblings Well maybe she should choose her words more wisely then. A little self-awareness can go a long way 💁🏻‍♀️

[@doobat708]

@@RhymeandRamblings ..."gentiles"? You mean people who aren't Jewish??

[@RhymeandRamblings]

DOOBAT nice, no I didn’t mean that but it probably still applies...? Btw I hate to be critical here. I really do appreciate these videos.

[@thatgirlinautumn5995]

@@RhymeandRamblings No worries :)

[@arsonhycan]

I don’t identify as trans (NB actually)but I like to dress and smell “manly” most often. my ma likes to throw the biggest fit over me doing something like using “male” deodorant. Like, it’s just a scent, who cares? Smh, if anyone has an agenda, it’s extreme gender conformists who add a gender to e v e r y t h i n g.

[@mykelmicalromance]

*cough cough* the lady in the video

[@julsiegamermove4115]

I wear mostly men clothes and my parents don't give a fuck. That must be sad

[@OmegaSpaghetti]

my absolute caveman brain just goes "smell good me put on" and end up smelling like strawberries and cream, but other times i smell like the embodiment of old spice and some shitty cologne commercial featuring a lumber jack. same with clothes. if its comfy i put it on and suddenly im wrapped in blankets, in pajama pants and an oversized shirt, half of me smelling like wolfthorn, the other smelling like assorted fruit, watching Forensic Files.

[@arsonhycan]

OmegaSpaghetti Literally me bro, I don’t get the big deal with the difference. If comfy, I wear. That’s that. So what if I wanna smell like I just cane out of an Italian kitchen? Who care

[@juliaguevara4512]

Im wondering what would smell manly

[@jackfunny9456]

“And what is scary, is the growing support from parents and the medical community.” Oh yes... the scariest thing of all *SUPPORTIVE PARENTS*

[@insecuresimpinc.4475]

Oh my gosh, anything but SUPPORTIVE PARENTS!

[@jenniferm7695]

You know I hate my supportive parents. Just wish they would stop 🙄😂

[@that_guy3387]

I'm so lucky I dont have supportive parents!!! they are so scary!!

[@gorelbarkbark872]

@@that_guy3387 xD

[@bneisasmiler4942]

*gasps*

[@mangantasy289]

every time she said "child abuse" I just thought that on the contrary, having a trans child and not listening, not understanding, not supporting, denying or even forcing it to do "boy/girl" things the child hates would be the abuse. Or at least an important neglect of the child's needs. As a child your parents/caregivers are more or less the only persons you can rely on. I am a cis woman, but my mother is most likely trans, and she had so many miserable aspects in her childhood for that because all of her family constantly tried to make her more "girlish", were ashamed, worried about what the neigbours say, even punishing her etc. I can hardly tell how much I feel for her. She's almost 60 now and told me recently that she may want to finally change gender even now, because she wants at least to die as a man some day. I'm the only one she told for the time being, wondering how I think about it, and she has my utmost support. She will have a first appointment on the matter soon and I hope it will help her. And totally yes, persistent reaction from me to that transphobe's video: ergh...

[@NotSoLegendaryGreen]

I love how she’s falsely interpreting a single twin study while Jamie responds in 2 sentences with like 3 citations at the bottom of the screen.

[@credendovides20]

Plus it is so dumb to begin with. The English language did twins dirty when it started using the expression "identical twins". They are not clones, they are not really *identical*. One can develop different health conditions, genetic issues, genomic expressions than the other(s). Nature VS nurture VS enviroment is a powerful combination.

[@meleithecat8279]

​@@credendovides20I agree. I'm just glad that in the German-language we don't have that problem. We call them eineiige Zwillinge, that basically means twins from one egg.

[@SploogiezlDerp]

I love the argument that "You're not trans, you're just gay" I'm a lesbian, Karen,

[@mrrock6248]

Do you want a medal?

[@gooseboii5677]

@@mrrock6248 give her the goddamn medal then

[@mrrock6248]

Dovelle which do you suggest, Gold, Silver or Bronze?

[@jamesfred0780]

The gay argument makes no sense imo. Cant trans people like people of the gender they transitioned to?!

[@SnekkySnek]

@@mrrock6248 Id say silver, I believe its the prettiest of the three options

[@lefthandersrule9419]

Her over lined lips were distracting and her ignorance was brain frying

[@AmandaInEly]

Her lip makeup is bad

[@milkpup9201]

Her whole face looks like a Barbie doll

[@guccipriest2421]

you’re not wrong there lmao

[@w1ckedw1tch90]

I was distracted by the bump on her chin

[@sarahbellee.bradburn8760]

W1ckedW1tch is that a bump or is that just her chin? Like I genuinely can’t tell.??.?

[@awesomecats7074]

"I'm not a transphobe but-" *states literally every single point to make her a textbook transphobe*

[@ArtsyKnox25]

Litterally. Saying 'im not x, but" makes you that thing! Without further proof that is the only 4 words you need! Like stop trying to defend yourself and saying you aren't x when the next thing you say is you being x. I don't get the logic disconnect there lol!

[@-isthatso-]

“I’m worried about children transitioning” Lady... you can’t get the surgeries done until you’re like 18. You can wear a binder at 13. You can go by a name before legally changing it. Shit, my name wasn’t scout til just recently. Point being, kids won’t know about surgeries until they’re much older.

[@amberrichards2778]

Scout is such a nice name, I love it! I'm trying out "Frankie" as a new name.

[@cass1099]

People get the surgeries before 18, actually.. Most just choose 18 because then you're legally an adult and your parents cant control what you do anymore.

[@snovaspectre2]

@@cass1099 false. Its illegal in most places until 18

[@cass1099]

@@snovaspectre2 idk where you're from, but where i am, transitions surgeries (at least some, idk about them all) can be done under the age of 18 if you have permission from parents/guardians. Let me add onto that, it also depends on who you're going to for the surgery.

[@PmpknHead]

Exactly, I want surgery but not until I graduate high school. I will get a binder and socially transition

[@adultcool2395]

"Your gender is determined by your chromosomes" "I think that gender identity is socially constructed" someone help this cis she's confused!!!!!!

[@helenbarton4910]

Nope, more and more science is discovering that gender identity is a product of neuro-biology, which can be affected by the amount of exposure to male sex hormones the brain has during development in the womb and the particular genetic makeup of the person in question and less and less to do with social factors after birth. Because the embryo's sex differentiates to either male or female, or something inbetween the two (intersex people) at about 5 weeks gestation and brain development starts into the 2nd trimester, it is perfectly possible to get a mis-match between the body's biological sex and brain sex.

[@blitszina2570]

@@helenbarton4910 this is exactly what I say when people say you cant fight biology and here are the facts (I usually use the simple version of their brain being more male then female making it mismatch the body)

[@helenbarton4910]

@@blitszina2570 If you're interested, I can supply links to peer reviewed studies that support what I said. Also, if you're wondering why I've looked into it in such detail, it's because I'm transgender myself.

[@blitszina2570]

@@helenbarton4910 oooh yes please,I'll love to learn more and that's understandable, I hope no one's being an asshole to you

[@helenbarton4910]

@@blitszina2570 Not lately but it's par for the course I'm afraid. The biggest problem we have in Australia (where I am) at the moment is that our federal government is trying to introduce a religious freedom [to discriminate] bill through our parliament, but I reckon it's going to blow up in their faces, Aussies are a lot less religious than yanks in general and won't put up with a coming together of church and state. I'll put the links up within the next half hour.

[@TrueBeelzebub]

I am a 12 year old girl. I believe people greatly underestimate children’s “intellectual capabilities” by *a lot* . And it’s seen everywhere! In most movies the kids my age are portrayed as total idiots. It pisses me off when adults speak about me, right in front of me and act like I’m not even there or that I cannot understand some of what they’re saying.Or when they think we don’t know how to think and make decisions for ourselves. “No, Karen I know how to not dig myself into a six foot deep hole. Thank you very much.”

[@dhiibvulk9036]

mad respect

[@TrueBeelzebub]

I don’t appreciate this I think for some, a huge part of it is not being able to properly express yourself. Or fearing that you’ll come off as rude or “smart mouthed” if you stand up for yourself or make a valid argument.

[@user-yh1fq3ut4j]

thank you! i’m 13 and everyone basically thinks i am a three year old and i can’t know if i like girls or not because i’m still basically a toddler, everyone needs to understand that we are old enough to understand things like this

[@Don-vz2gc]

I get you, when I was 12 I felt just the same. Keep speaking out for yourself!

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

*Cries in science* Wait until your older to make the decision. At least 15. Then you can say that with a mature body and brain. Okay?

[@TheOneAndOnlyFen]

My daughter is trans and like my best friend, I super support her. I have a few big thing planned for her grad that's going to blow her out of the water (full makeover with lesson of how to take care of her growing curly hair and how to apply makeup on her own.... and a dress/heels). I don't give a flying fuck if this is a phase. This is her life, not mine. Its my job as a parent to support her in her decisions on this path and guide her to become a strong independent woman. If she changes her mind down the road, I'll support the hell out of that too. As I've told her many times, "I dont give a flying fuck who you are, I'm always going to be here to support you because that's my job and I take pride in that job!" Definitely does not match the plan I had for her, but hey, she's happy, so who am I to squash that?

[@kiwin7119]

I read an advice column answer that included this bit of wisdom: "both you and your brother are filed under 'person I love and gave birth to' in your mom's brain." I thought this was sweet.

[@mahlioz]

This comment is extremely underrated and I just wanted to thank you for writing it because it made my day

[@catebrooks6779]

And that. Is. How. You. Parent!

[@jamesnelson6656]

I literally just got my first dress yesterday. I am amab and agender, but it wasn't assumed that we went to that dress shop for my friend (She drove me to the store). I absolutely love it and hope your daughter loved everything you've done for her

[@hannahhannah7002]

As a cisgender woman I have never gone through a phase where I thought I was a boy. Because I'm not trans. So idk what phases she's talking about

[@PashaGamingYT]

It's called "lies"

[@christinem4886]

Yup. Same here.

[@BitterJoyXx]

Yeah! I mean the only phases I went through is wanting to be a princess so I can rule the world in total chaos

[@ZoaInBlack]

Same

[@apofid]

preach

[@WidthTomJones]

The entire video is basically just: Her: Studies may suggest transitioning makes people happier, but that's actually not true! Jamie: *provides studies that show that transitioning makes people happier*

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

It also causes suicide. Just thought I should add that. Then again that is caused by parents not understanding that they're not old enough to make that decision which leads to them regretting it and killing themselves.

[@gl00myharvester]

@@thecrackheadcrew9829 transitioning does not cause suicide, not being accepted in transition does

[@RandomSwiftie13]

@@gl00myharvester facts!

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

Wrong, sure that is true but some trans people actually do kill themselves over the fact that they made the wrong choice. Take it from me, I know this.

[@RandomSwiftie13]

@@thecrackheadcrew9829 I'm so sorry what you are going through I'm a little confused at are you then not a transgender person or you are transgender but transitioning process didn't go well for you?

[@marymarks1192]

Her: gender is determined by chromosomes Me(having several trans and intersex friends): Do you understand SCIENCES!!!

[@autist1689]

I saw a stat that apparently 1 in 400 people has a chromosome abnormality. And the vast majority don't even know because not all cause hugely noticable physiological differences

[@strawberryboy9045]

Lindsey Mackie Yes because there’re lots of different chromosomes and more than the standard XY or XX.

[@_mightyheroes_]

As someone who has Turner's syndrome...Preach!!!

[@strawberryboy9045]

@Bug Boi Yeah sorry I forgot to add something like that but you’re right.

[@samorniv7911]

Gender is not determined by chromosomes, even scientifically speaking. Gender is not a scientific term. Biological sex is what is determined by chromosomes, and that is all. If someone identifies as a different gender, let them do their thing, help them with their transition.

[@TheWilderCat]

9:23 A great analogy Ty Turner used was that gender's kinda like money. Money's also a social construct but that doesn't mean it's not important.

[@davey_fvcking_jacobs459]

I’m a identical twin and I’m trans and gay. My sister isn’t. Yeah it happens

[@acidroofproductions9378]

Have you read the webcomic Questionable Content? There's a set of ident. twins in it that had one transistion MtoF.

[@glitterghost834]

AshaRedFox I’m a triplet and two of us are ftm

[@DarkRelm22]

Oh wow, really? That’s super interesting, actually. :3 congrats on your self discovery!

[@davey_fvcking_jacobs459]

Eryk Steele yeah it is interesting. My twin recently came out as acearo to lol Tysm btw

[@GabrielTheMagolorMain]

AshaRedFox My cousins are identical and one is gay and one is straight. Although I hadn’t really thought about it before, as being gay wasn’t as open as I was growing up as it is now...but when my cousin came out it made perfect sense. While they were always together, and there aren’t many environmental differences between them growing up, my cousin who is gay was always so kind, nurturing, sweet, sensitive, etc., my straight cousin was always harder, would not give me a break even though I was so much smaller than him (my gay cousin was always the one rescuing me lol)..I’m not trying to stereotype gay men, I know gay men that are tough and aggressive..but it just makes so much sense looking back that one of my cousins was gay, and it was one of those cases where his mom said she always knew and she was happy when he was able to come out and be comfortable with himself. In fact, I will say my dad was pretty homophobic, but because of his love for my cousin, as a child he had watched grow up, it really opened up his mind and he was at his wedding and not just accepted him and the 🏳️‍🌈 community in general, but he was proud of him. 😊💜 I’ve always been very open to other people, and anything I said wouldn’t change his mind, so I’m so glad he got to have the experience of loving someone who is gay, because that’s what opened his mind and made everything click. He’s since passed, but being at their wedding and even seeing him tear up was just such a special memory that I’ll always have of him.

[@LisaB103]

Let’s hope she never becomes the parent of a trans child. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Buffpeach]

Hopefully she has no children. That big pharma comment makes me worried about her vaccination views

[@MrPiousFlint]

Let's hope she never becomes a parent to any child.

[@fdsjdhebjcs6726]

Omg I would be more than sorry for them

[@logangray8910]

The petty part of me does want her to, so that she suffers, but the rest of me would never want a poor trans child subjected to this kind of idiocy

[@cyndiisme4185]

I shudder to think about it!

[@amaeliss7827]

"He still has ovaries" my friend who had his ovaries removed and actually has XY chromosomes even tho he's AFAB : am I a joke to you?

[@rowan2407]

how does he have the XY chromosomes tho? not trying to attack just genuinely curious?

[@amaeliss7827]

@@rowan2407 it just happens and is more common than we think that an Y chromosome miss the allele that makes a body male

[@rowan2407]

@@amaeliss7827 oh ok. ngl the human body is quite interesting. thanks.

[@basswassy6778]

@@rowan2407 The human body is very interesting, also pretty confusing lol prob why transphobes don't get the right info

[@rowan2407]

@@basswassy6778 damn right.

[@biardmac]

Jamie, you are an absolute treasure. I stumbled across your channel and have subscribed as a way to get better informed on this subject. As anEnglish major, I adore watching you react to the memes and videos, and as a nearly 50-year old cis woman, I adore your patient, good-humoured approach to unfogging the terminology and reality of trans lives. Thank you for all that you do to make the world a better place!

[@elliott.8599]

Jaime: Heres my source for everything I say Girl: *has no sources*

[@moththem2366]

She has like a parent note for why she has her opinion while Jaime has a whole fucking biology class

[@ReyJ]

As a trans man I think social transition and blockers are great, but surgeries shouldn't happen before age 16. I know and understand what it's like to be trans and under the age of 16, so I know how hard it is, I also don't think that a child can fully be aware of the decision they're making.

[@cfor8129]

I mean nowhere does that as far as I know, so that's fine

[@joshclover5398]

Totally agree

[@zefirnaya6238]

Completely agree

[@cfor8129]

Its just kind of a irrelevant thing considering it doesn't happen

[@mothman4102]

also phases can happen where a kid will want to be a certain gender for a period of time. not saying being trans is a phase, though. please transition if you think you know what you're doing, are able to, and really want to. i'm not gonna say any more though, bc i'm cis and feel bad for talking so much about trans issues. (..i may be cis. idk gender's whack for me rn)

[@quillhuman6422]

I really wholeheartedly hate people who say 'They're too young to know'. Especially considering we're never too young to be straight. Or cis. Or anything else for that matter.

[@kati8966]

ikr-

[@Schnort]

Shit, I feel so bad, because I used to believe this. I am glad that I have learned better!

[@mrsuperguy2073]

Or cis

[@every_k-idol_at_brunomars_show]

true but isnt this about cis and not straight

[@teenshii]

@@every_k-idol_at_brunomars_show It’s the same with being cis

[@Jordan-hk5ck]

As a trans child, she is lying, and people like her are so harmful when they share their opinions like this online.

[@allistarstrange9677]

I like how she has this attitude of "facts don't care about your feelings!" Until she intentionally disregards the medical and scientific consensus surrounding the reality of trans people's experiences.

[@RemixedVoice]

Or when they say, you're mentally ill, get some help; so you do, you go see a therapist and they set you on the path to transition. 🤣

[@MatthewArangatta]

Also to this woman.... Identical twins aren't the SAME person. You can find many differences as Jamie mentioned. Biology doesn't determine everything about a person and there's room for developing some differences.

[@KarmaPolice42_28]

Exactly, and even genes aren't an immutable reality. Thanks to the research in epigenetics, we know now that environment plays a huge role in our genes, even during our lifetimes, so the choices we make in our life have an impact in our genetics.

[@Sarahizahhsum]

The biggest changes you see are environmental factors during pregnancy, not usually afterward. Especially with transsexuality, it's mostly genetic and pregnancy that tells the difference, not usually after the baby is born. Check out Kalvin Garrah's recent video, he talks about that.

[@mothrey]

as an identical twin, can confirm. there are DEFINETELY differences

[@KarmaPolice42_28]

@@Sarahizahhsum Still, environment plays a big role in our development even in our adulthood. I wasn't specifically refering to transgenderism, but to health issues in general. For example, height depends heavily on environmental factors like nutrition.

[@Sarahizahhsum]

@@KarmaPolice42_28 I agree on that. But transgenderism is generally genetic. Just like bipolar or schizophrenia

[@glowingleo5331]

"Because cars can kill you. "

[@RNFundsEducator]

I like how she's always able to cite her "research" as well as Jamie has documented his throughout this video. As I've been told throughout my graduate studies: "Without citations, it's just your opinion." She's too chicken sh!t to state that all of her rhetoric is just her opinion.

[@Sadeschannel]

Transphobe: a (1) study (no citation) said this Jamie: and these (these) studies (with citations) said you're an idiot

[@alexisflory6496]

I'm pretty sure my 2020 psych textbook use the same studies in citations. This thing is used by the college board to teach psychology. The blonde woman (I don't know her name or whatever) is definitely wrong in her dissertation.

[@baileyhaddock4552]

Her: she still has ovaries So like what if a woman has a hysterectomy... Not woman?

[@officert5147]

You become immortal actually. I had my gendered organs removed and now I'm one with the old gods

[@Noahdaz]

@@officert5147 massively underrated comment

[@JD-fh1qi]

Not trying to be annoying, but a hysterectomy is only the uterus and cervix. Salpingectomy is the removal of fallopian tubes. Oopherectomy is the removal of ovaries. So I've had a total hysterectomy (uterus and cervix) and bilateral Salpingectomy, but still have my ovaries. But definitely love your comment

[@HN-kr1nf]

if nobody told this idiot about their reproductive organs and chromosomes, how could she determine their gender? does she have, like, a portable ultrasound scanner or?

[@lee_aveittome]

@@HN-kr1nf imagine her wheeling the machine around and a bottle of the ultra sound gel in her purse

[@Rain-xn9xg]

Who else is just flat out pissed off at this woman?

[@ocmillion3667]

Meeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@satsujin-shathewitchkingof6185]

MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE~

[@hawkins8665]

Hey you should she is so annoying

[@sassberrysnap]

I'm not because I think she's just confused

[@hawkins8665]

SassberrySnap. True

[@embryomystic]

Every time they bust out ‘leftist’ like it's a slur, I know they're full of it.

[@Salsuero]

It's always "radical" leftists too. Like... a radical leftist would've had you killed, Karen... because radical right-wingers DO kill people they disagree with. Where are all these RADICAL leftists. I mean... unless she means radical the way we used it when I was a kid... totally radical dude, like, to the max!

[@Salsuero]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando I'm confused... why are you here... aren't you supposed to be intolerant? You're melting our brains right now.

[@nonebody2601]

If I took a shot every time she said “underlying cause” I would be stone cold sober because she exclusively said “underLINING cause” throughout the video

[@hyperfixationcentral6200]

Reminds me of when my mom was persistent that "reflUxes" was a word

[@nyandoesthings]

@@hyperfixationcentral6200 I'm sure your mom was using it as in reflexes, but refluxes is a word, most commonly heard as acid reflux, or basically heart burn/vomiting in your mouth as a result as consuming acid.

[@hyperfixationcentral6200]

@@nyandoesthings that's what I meant 🙂

[@milkbuns2543]

" transitioning doesn't solve the problem of trans suicide" well MAYBE that's something to do with the way they're being rejected, oppressed and treated like crap?

[@kotaleartist]

Rae Tennik i can transition. doesn’t mean my family wont hate and disown me. doesn’t that wont make me feel so terrible and tired of this shit to go take a forever nap

[@kotaleartist]

adam zarbon transitioning isnt just a guy in a dress or a girl in a suit. you know that right? hol’ up, define transgender right now. you might just be confused, therefore against it. i just wanna establish this real quick

[@kotaleartist]

adam zarbon yea thats a common mistake people make. even people who support it get confused. dont sweat it my friend actually thought she was trans because she had the same idea as you. the experience actually helped me tell the difference better. im a transboy yet im still a bit feminine. way i grew up and i dont mind some of the stereotypical girly things. my friend is a tomboy. she thought she might be trans because she didn’t like the gender stereotypes and they didn’t fit her. however she was really confused about it. so i stopped her and asked her “if there was a magic button that made you the opposite sex with no take backs the next day, would you press it.” she was hesitant and said she’d wanna try it out a bit first then decide. i told her once again, no take backs. she noticed how desperate i was acting for said button. seriously, sciece get on that. i have a bag oh DNA samples you can use to recreate my body but male. YOU CAN SELL MY ORGANS. moving on, she realized that she wanted to still be a girl, but not fit in with social standards of girly shit or boyish shit. i told her that gender identity and gender expression are two different things and that’s probably what she was going for. we moved on to some more normal convo after that. the point is you can wear a dress and a wig and still be a guy. thats gender expression. butch lesbos aren’t trans. fem dudes aren’t girls. peeps like cross dressing. wanting to cut off your reproductive organs and have the body of the opposite forever and ever because it will make you happy, isnt crossdressing. that being trans. and that’s why dysphoria exists.

[@kotaleartist]

adam zarbon did-did you read anything i wrote? also it’s not mutilation. its called surgery lol. people get plastic surgery and they dont get backlash. people also have the same stuff removed and added on that transpeeps who decide to get surgery do. sure for other reasons, but the procedures aren't new. and not everyone gets surgery. its expensive because insurance doesn't care and there is a lot to go wrong surprisingly even though these procedures are commonly done. some people can't work with surgery so they dont. taking hormone pills isnt mutilation, binding isnt mutilation, cutting hair? close. wigs aren't mutilation. fake tit bras and packers aren't. socially transitioning isnt. name and pronoun change isnt. honestly “mutilation” isnt a super major part in transitioning. its a method. and you aren’t mentally ill for using another method

[@kotaleartist]

i read back over what i wrote and i guess the end was quite confusing. apologies for that.

[@noahangus3618]

Note that she is always saying "sex" not "gender" when talking about transitioning to the opposite GENDER

[@Salsuero]

A big issue with her idiocy is that she conflates sex and gender as if they're the same thing. Because... to her... they are the same thing. If you're so ignorant that you can't see a difference, you'll never understand.

[@pranitaezhuthachan5890]

And the line where she typed "Oops he has ovaries" had a question marks in the end. Like dafuq she was trying to do :/

[@pranitaezhuthachan5890]

@@Salsuero Agreed

[@Xratcho]

You are one of my favorite comfort youtubers because i am under the trans umbrella and when i came out to my family all but my 10 year old sister thought it was wrong and a mental illness, and my moms bf openly misgenders me, yells at me, and calls me slurs.

[@mushroom-king]

Aw I hope you're life gets better no one should have that happen your worth sm more then that

[@Xratcho]

@mushroom-king thanks for your support ❤️❤️

[@mushroom-king]

@@Xratcho np❤️❤️

[@HazelCat09]

I'm sorry, hope it gets better soon

[@Xratcho]

@HazelCat09 ty for your support :))

[@cjnvnewman5927]

When I heard her say chromosomes I was just so pissed off this lady obviously doesn't know the difference between sex and gender there is a difference

[@katherinemorelle7115]

Ahh, but she didn’t say “chromosomes” She said “chromosoNes”. Ugh. It’s like constantly saying underlining instead of underlying. Little miss Bogan trying to sound a lot more intelligent than she actually is.

[@selty]

Most ppl dont though lets be real

[@Dutch3DMaster]

There is this part of me that is actually weirdly curious to hear the lady being commented on in the video learn about people with intersexed conditions that are on the genetical side of intersexed conditions.

[@IndependentOreo]

I’m really sorry if this reply offends anyone, but may I ask what the difference is? I am unsure

[@Dutch3DMaster]

​@@IndependentOreo Genuine curiosity is always OK in my opinion, but I understand you might feel worried. Sex and gender can be the same things, when we say "Physical gender identity" (as in, what your body looks like when you are born and what it is that doctors go of on to categorize someone as a girl or boy, which is commonly referred to as someones sex, probably because gender identity as a term only came into swing much later after sex had already been the go-to-term to describe someone physically, and has stuck around to stop people becoming confused). The gender identity is what is usually considered something that someone identifies as, seperate from what someone physically might be or have been born as. Someone can be born male (or still in the physical sense be male) but present as female, so we say that someone has a female gender identity in presentation. Gender identity also is what is considered what someone feels inside (a feeling that is to be believed to be hardwired into the brain from the moment the brain in an embryo get's formed. When there is a reference made to either one, there can be a difference made by saying "Mental gender identity" and "expression of gender identity". As the gender identity (whether if it's how someone feels or presents) can differ from what someone has been physically born as, this is what people mean with "there is a difference". This is also because chromosomes not always make a body develop according to the blueprint people perceive chromosomes to be, because people born with an intersexed condition can have a body that, upon birth may look male, but can have a female genetic mark-up (which can cause problems, because sometimes, at the age puberty usually sets in people born male (and might not have had any second thoughts for basically their entire life) might notice they start to develop breasts and a more curvy figure (and the reverse is true as well). Intersex conditions in all it's forms (I believe there are around 72 possible versions, some of which appear in combinations) appear much less rare than people usually think (around 1 in 2000 births someone is born with an intersex condition, vs. around 1 in 10.000 people born who later turn out to be transgender).

[@thea2883]

“Some kids lose their gender dysphoria when They hit puberty” Honey mine just Got 60 times worse

[@mintty6864]

oof

[@kaiwatson1183]

yooooo same

[@ioanavornicita2021]

mood.

[@emilychb6621]

It's such a stupid argument to make. So because 10% lose their dysphoria once puberty starts, the remaining 90% whose dysphoria gets so much worse doesn't matter?!?!

[@ellaminne8478]

“ If we don’t let children cross the street, then why do we let them change to the opposite sex?” We DO let them cross the street, but we help them along the way. 💙💗🤍💗💙

[@cursed2622]

Bluebird 08 yes 💙💗🤍💗💙

[@ellaminne8478]

Hi im Iny Aww, thank you 🙏😊

[@finnsaffelsipes]

YOU. SAID. IT.

[@Salty_Oatmeal25]

💙💖🤍💖💙

[@sethbutler2708]

AwWwWwWwWw

[@Gryphonzwing]

In ancient Greece Trans people were accepted because "Apollo was drunk and gave the person the wrong bits".

[@WolfBitesAndSleepyGraves]

Apollo must have been visiting Dionysus when he made me 😌

[@icecoldpolaroid]

"A lot of the time a child might think they are trans when they are really gay." Really now? Because last time I checked I am trans AND gay. Edit: Holy hecc, thanks for all the likes.

[@linkinlog8543]

WGW you broke the system!

[@ginger_mcale9708]

Yep me too

[@davey_fvcking_jacobs459]

WGW so am I Wow are we like, a fever dream?

[@kitreynolds6519]

im gay and non bionary talk about that bitch haha

[@enygmatic_gentlemen]

Same I’m trans and gay too

[@nmalm2114]

“If they’re adults, they can transition” Many trans youth who aren’t allowed to transition don’t make it to adulthood.

[@person9274]

if im not accepted i promised myself to sneak out and run away to kill myself and im 13- 👍

[@heyima.7383]

@@person9274 I hope you get accepted and even if you don’t i hope you‘ll still be able to survive until your old enough to transition and get away from people who don’t accept you. I know staying alive can be f*cking hard but i hope you can make it. It might not mean much, im just a stranger on the internet, but i accept you. Stay save, A.

[@KingOfGaymes]

@@person9274 it’ll get better I promise you, don’t take your life. You’re young now but things will get better someday. I believe in you and I accept you 💜

[@person9274]

@@KingOfGaymes ty ❤️

[@person9274]

@@heyima.7383 thx ❤️

[@orangejuice782]

my therapist tried to make me "feel comfortable in my own skin" by trggering my dysphoria constantly :) things got so bad that i was convinced i could never get to transition and that thered be no point in being alive anymore. its been like 4 months since i stopped seeing her and i have felt much better in my own skin, even if i want to "chop off body parts"

[@selty]

Youre VALID and WORTHY in life. fuck this TERF asshole. Im so sorry this happened to you.

[@satsujin-shathewitchkingof6185]

I’m glad your happier now.

[@sophitiaofhyrule]

I don't see any parents forcing their kids to be trans. But what I do see are parents forcing their kids to be cis.

[@BeautyInTheMagic]

People who say that you’re “pushing the transgender agenda on kids,” honestly kinda annoy me. I’ve known for YEARS before being transgender was so publicized. I’ve known since I was EXTREMELY young, and kept all of it to myself. I never opened up to my parents, therapist, ANYTHING. It wasn’t until transgender people started coming out that I felt okay to say something. It wasn’t an agenda. It was something I’ve struggled with literally my entire life, that I finally felt I could free. I call bullshit when people say that you can’t possibly know so young. Edit: These are no longer my thoughts. I do believe GD can be experienced at a young age, but I also am experiencing first hand how this can be pushed socially. That youth who don’t have GD or who aren’t getting true therapy are getting wrangled into a space they don’t belong. Most of us know incredibly young, but to act like there isn’t a surplus amount of people saying they belong to a group who has historically been an incredibly minute percentage of the population?

[@adeola_63]

I hate when people say "You're to young to know..." I'm not trans but I'm lesbian and if someone ever said to me "You're to young to know you're gay" I would reply with "Well how did you know you were straight"

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

@R&B Minecrafting You do know that until your like 16, you are too young to say your gay right? Let's take me for example. At first I thought I was straight. Then when I was about 9, I thought that I was lesbian. Then I went to bisexual. And at 12 I'm pan. That could change, my body isn't developed and ready to say hay, my hormones like this. Just thought I should point that out.

[@BeautyInTheMagic]

TheCrackHead Crew I mean, to be fair, when I was 9, there wasn’t a thing as pansexuality. I was bi without knowing the term for it. Just because you’re young doesn’t mean you can’t know. That’s just my take on it though. Then again, I come from a very biblical, rural community where I didn’t know the term bisexuality was a thing until I was 14/15, and being a lesbian or gay was heavily looked down on until fairly recently. And it’s a pain in the ass being transgender here too. Half of the population is all for it, and the other half are the sex based opinion (or FtM people are butch lesbians/MTF are gay men in drag). And then, even the population who accepts it is mostly just MTF or FTM accepting. There’s no acceptance of non-binary identities of any kind. So I wouldn’t say that just because you’re young, you can’t have a pretty good understanding. Even when there was no understanding, I still knew who I was. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

@Way Of The Gabe I understand what your saying. Also *pat pat*. But what I was trying to say is just that some trans people aren't actually trans and I just don't want a child to do something that they would regret later. Some trans people know that they are trans at a young age, and that's fine, but it's extremely hard to tell the difference between if they are actually trans vs they think they are trans. ( unless you spend a bunch of money to look at your brain)

[@thecrackheadcrew9829]

Also I just realized that pan wouldn't exist. The reason you are mostly attracted to someone is because of the hormones you give off. You give off hormones based on your sex. And there are 2 sexes. Girl and boy. It has nothing to do gender. So if you are GTB you would give off girl hormones. Same thing the other way around. OKay, how I'm confused -

[@demistart488]

"Comfortable in your own skin"-said the woman with obvious cosmetic surgery and mass amounts of makeup

[@masterofthewicket8775]

Her: Children don't understand this- Me, an 11 year trans boy who is currently crying happy tears because I found a way to bind my chest: w h a-

[@mleppp1546]

Glimmer Clouds just promise me you’ll bind safely.

[@masterofthewicket8775]

@@mleppp1546 thanks!

[@LucasBurrell]

Be safe. Please, if it’s not a preppier binder get really really careful and take extra precautions. But also good for you ;))

[@Oops2007]

b i n d s a f e l y c h i l d

[@Oops2007]

Rose Bud aaaaaaa

[@GraceTaylor06]

Thank you so much for citing the studies and sources. That makes such a difference!! ☺️

[@LittleDoobyBoy]

did jamie just destroy a transphobe with (cited) FACTS and LOGIC?

[@pranavayyappan3247]

Yeah, who'd have thought that's possible?! xD

[@athenayres2434]

Indeed he did. Indeed he, did. 😁👍

[@Didieverwakeup]

Fuck yea he did.

[@trev1213]

Millennial Max yes. Yes he did

[@caviicape]

her: trans people are delusio- jamie: facts don’t care about your feelings

[@catboyneilcicierega]

Cis boy: I don’t like being called a girl because I have long hair :(( Parents: yea I get that Trans boy: I dont like being called a girl because I feel uncomforta- Parents: _T O O Y O U N G T O K N O W_

[@aspenorion8859]

I love the comic you just stole that from 😉

[@catboyneilcicierega]

Hot Gay Mess bruh what

[@astrumnihilum]

Yeah, when I talked about preferring they/them pronouns with my mom, she said "you need to wait until you grow up to make any big decisions"

[@magicpigeon_]

memetime404 how is wanting they/them pronouns a big decision?! 😆🤦🏻

[@sam4gaming135]

"I F Y O U A R E R E A L L Y T R A N S W H Y D I D N T Y O U S A Y Y O U W H E R E. U N T I L Y O U F O U N D O U T A B O U T T R A N S P E O P L E" Me who released she was a girl in primary school but didn't know it was a thing she could do until she learnt about trans-women being "predators" ( which never happened) and thought it was something wrong with her:

[@Ghost.Spectrum]

"Gender dysmorphic" Ah yes, I can't stand it when my gender is the wrong shape eitherಠ_ಠ

[@kiralonely]

Gah, I feel like she's confusing/combining body dysmorphia with gender dysphoria, which, although sound similar, are completely different things and transphobes often go "if we treat body dysmorphia with therapy, why are we treating dysphoria with mUtIlAtIoN." Like, no, sure, a lot of trans people have body dysmorphia, but as one of those people, it's not the same thing omg-

[@moved.6963]

@Rotten Candy my gender is circle but i like rlly rlly wish it was a hexagon :(

[@pkbutter]

Goddamit

[@addyshorhnr3544]

After she said this my brain completely forgot the correct word for it because it apparently chugged her idiot juice and then immediately died laughing when she talked about chromosomes.

[@torrinowens4376]

1:45 sounds like those people on twitter that are like "I'm all for people having fun and shipping whatever they want, but if they ship (insert ship name) they should die" like, you clearly are not all for people doing that, if you follow it up with a but/however/etc

[@bellahamann4357]

the fact that you cited your sources really threw shade😂

[@poetkitten289]

Is she really telling me that getting my families and friends support is wrong? I CANT stop laughing at this 🤣

[@davidbgreensmith]

Yes. That's exactly what's she's saying. To the point that the support you get is actually a form of "abuse". Imagine that, being supportive of a family member is actually abusive. It's sad and scary that people like her feel confident enough to talk with authority on a subject in which they have no real knowledge, let alone expertise.

[@poetkitten289]

@@davidbgreensmith Yep, it's not her place and people like her should bud out. She just wants to be heard so she should at least pick a topic she knows about to criticize..what a dumb chick.

[@schuhschrank947]

I am so glad that she isn't your mom!

[@SalemBross]

WhY iS iT ThAt wE DoN't LeT ChILdrEn CrOSs tHe sTrEeT yEt wE lEt tHeM TRanSitIoN? because cars are dangerous

[@matsurigorekun8975]

And who says transitioning isn't dangerous?

[@edenp2465]

@@matsurigorekun8975 ah yes, letting children... *flips notes* wear the clothes they like, use a name and pronouns that make them happy and... making them feel comfortable? Oh the horror

[@Hi-Im-Paul69]

@@matsurigorekun8975 people who don't give a fuck about people who transitioned for the wrong reasons and have a horrible time getting though it, especially the ones who got surgerys, no one gives a fuck about them in this community

[@aafloofy]

Best comment!

[@Urmom-dm2kf]

MatsuriGoreKun everyone

[@Mumther_Flame]

My entire family could disprove her entire arguement: my parents FORBID me from ever transitioning, even socially Boom argument gone

[@shishoeh]

I love that you're putting references at the bottom. The psychology student in me is very happy. You're a treasure

[@puppetgod2515]

The part where she said “it’s not going to solve their problem and depression and stuff” made me mad because once I started realizing I was a boy I stopped hating myself, I’m becoming my own individual person, I’ve stopped imitating others to try to fit in, I’ve stopped letting people use and walk all over me, I’ve become less tolerant to things I shouldn’t have been tolerant about in the first place, and I’m just genuinely in a better place, and the crazy part for me is that I’ve only SOCIALLY transitioned so far. If this is what it feels like when you just realize your trans, then it has got to feel like being on cloud 9 when you medically transition

[@abracadabra8501]

I’m so proud of your for working it out and that you are so much happier already! Keep going my dude, it’s a long wait (unfortunately) but it’ll be worth it x I hope you receive all the love and support you deserve from your friends and family x

[@6loodbank]

Hey we're really proud of you!

[@opiksa519]

Gang gang!!!

[@puppetgod2515]

Eve Root so proud of you! I’m glad you don’t have the same self hatred inside of yourself now. I hope that further along in your journey you find more self love

[@fen4613]

Yeah, it’s ignorant to say that dysphoria doesn’t cause depression. Oh, and also years of trauma and hiding who you are. Trauma which people like her cause.

[@_MimiTsuki_]

Girl REALLY said; “I’m not transphobic BUT…” the entire video

[@wehipeace]

what does it mean to be tranphobic... hmmm whats the definition of phobia? i think phobic is a strong use for it unless people really do fear being around trans people. i personally don't agree with all these gender changes, and what people want to identify as, but it doesn't mean it's a phobia. i'm pretty sure if the lady goes to restaurant and gets sat a table next to a group of trans, lgbtq+ she'll be fine. and same with me i have strong opinions but i'll never disrespect any human for their believes. it's important to be careful what words are being used.

[@luasiaimas3566]

@@wehipeace wait what- The phobia doesn't mean she's scared,,, it means she doesn't like/support them in this context... Is your native language english? Because words have multiple meanings in this language 🤔

[@veganplayspiano]

@@wehipeace just google the definition. It's not that hard. It's not used as a fear.

[@wehipeace]

@@luasiaimas3566 a phobia is a fear

[@kati8966]

@@wehipeace look up on google: "definiton of transphobia"

[@-.Echo.-]

We love how Jamie actually places citation!! Great job being smart! Oh btw, as an asexual trans guy and a minor, I plan on getting a radical hysterectomy as soon as I’m both allowed to get it and can afford it cuz I’m not gonna deal with this bs (this is referencing 10:10 or so btw)