Trans Woman : "My Bottom Surgery Is Experimental & I Have Regrets”

[@sidoniejordan-olsen7673]

Why can't we tell our kids it's ok to be you, whatever that means. A feminine man or a masculine woman could be just that.

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

But that's the thing... Being lesbian and gay WAS widely accepted in the Western world... until recently. I'm old enough to remember when it wasn't as accepted and I've seen the shift happen in real time. Why is it that now, there's this idea that it's so "bad" to be gay, it's "better" to transition to the opposite gender? IMHO, it isn't society at large that's changed. It has to have started with Gen-Z because Boomers, Gen-X and (as far as I'm aware) Millennials, were totally on board with the LGBT community. So, why did it change so drastically? It's as if being a Tomboy or an effeminate male, have become completely taboo, when both personality types have existed since... forever? And I can't imagine that this new problem with being gay started with Gen-Zers themselves, so there must be an outside influence that began pushing this shift in what's acceptable and what isn't. It's very odd and frankly, you can actually see that there's some kind of social contagion aspect to it because something like 40% of all middle school and high school aged kids are now identifying as a part of the "queer community". I don't have the statistics in front of me, but I'm relatively sure that's got to be a 45-50% increase, just in the last 5-ish years. There's no way that a jump like that is organic. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jennifers8843]

Because the people attempting to convince the world that fat is beautiful + should be accepted doesn’t actually believe the nonsense they spew! They’re evil and destruction is their goal! That is why their beliefs are contradicted by all their other beliefs. It’s a giant circle jerk of nonsense.

[@whocares_bear]

Unfortunately, only women (on the right or oldschool feminists) say that. Men on the right say that feminine men and masculine women will cause the "downfall of Western Civilization". 🙄 As if your gender expression is literally all you are and can do for the world

[@mayamartich9866]

It should be like that.

[@docdynamix]

🙏 🤲

[@satricv]

I just watched you on that Jubilee episode, and want to thank you for holding you own there. So many of us older Lesbians feel like we are getting steamrolled by all these new wannabes that have, for lack of a better term "invaded" Lesbianism over the last 10 years. I'm 64 years old, and I had to fight for the rights we now enjoy. And now I'm being told by some 20 something that I don't know what a real Lesbian is? Honey I did 32 years in the Army, back when being caught, meant an Article 15 and getting kicked out, and losing all your benefits, so don't tell me I don't know what a real Lesbian is. I've lived it, and fought for it, your just reaping the benefits of the hard work of folks like me. Sorry, I'll get off my soapbox. I do appreciate all that you do here, and that you can be articulate in defending yourself. The only defense against bad information is truth.

[@violetaeon]

Thank you for your service, in the military and for our community. We wouldn't have many of the rights we do now if it weren't for you.

[@AnnieSadler96]

I'm a 27 year old lesbian and I do NOT feel like I fit into the "New age" lesbian bullshit happening now 💀 Im very much an "old school" lesbian. 😅. Remember when it was cool NOT to have labels😅😅??? Can we get that back??

[@rorrim0]

​@@AnnieSadler96 Your just not a queer. Being a late millennial I don't remember a time were labels weren't uncool? It was more that people didn't care how you potrayed yourself unless you were really weird? There was a limit back then and it just seems like there is a type of hedonistic culture that wants to everyone to believe that there is no limit to how truely alien you can be. It's like people don't want to be human anymore.

[@anastasiae.5338]

You have every right to be on your soapbox. We have a bunch of a-holes inviting themselves into marginalized groups so they can also self-marginalize themselves. Ridiculous. And then they have the damned nerve to try shoving out or silencing the people who belong to those groups. I'm not part of any of those groups and I don't invite myself to them. And they shouldn't, either. Especially men claiming to be women just because they decided to be.(not legitimately trans people, I think you know who I'm talking about) I love how the rights of fakes have somehow overtaken the rights of women and gay people in general.

[@BlameItOnMercury]

Arielle was legitimate in everything she said on Jubilee, but was a bit aggressive. People will see her aggression and discard her point. Hopefully she can get that under control. Addressing people with issues like the man she's interviewing in this video takes a very cool head and demeanor, can't get too hot headed on subjects like this. Especially these days.

[@Wodenseyes]

I do body modifications, tattoos and piercings at my shop in Florida. I just had 3 different 15-17 year old boys ask me if I could modify their genitalia to fit more of an androgynous or intersex look. One of them even had his MOM WITH HIM. They claimed to be trans Non Binary other than the youngest one claiming to be a female. I of course refused to do the procedure due to age and morality, I explained the risks and dangers of not going to a doctor for Genital body modification. A few days later I was hit up by the other Body Mod professional within an hour drive of me eland was told one of the boys went to him trying to get it done too. This mental illness is causing SO MUCH trauma.

[@justanotherguy469]

The problem is the language being used. People have been induced into subscribing to false constructs through the perversion of the fundamental construct of grammar and language. There is no such thing as "transitioning". A man without his penis is, to a woman, what a car is without its wheels.

[@aliasella488]

I wanna vomit now.

[@_Eisley]

How in the hell can these boys, who are in their mid and late teens actually think someone at a tattoo and piercing shops could modify their genitals...what the hell? And shame on the mother for actually condoning her son to even ask this without professional medical help. CPS needs to get called on her ass because that's horrible

[@ilovecats21]

This is CRAZYY

[@semperfi-1918]

What ever happened to... look in the mirror boys have one thing and girls have the other... this is getting outta hand. Despite africa having issues... they dont have this going on.

[@GenXfrom75]

I have 4 sons. Same parents, same circumstances. Our 20 year old son is gay. And I'm SO grateful he never fell into the hands of people trying to convince him that his feminine traits, his love of makeup, meant he must be a woman! He's just a feminine gay MAN.

[@pointermom7641]

Just curious. Where does your gay son fall in the birth order?

[@GenXfrom75]

@@pointermom7641 second born. My sons are 30, 20, 16 and 10.

[@homosexualbiologicalmale--3]

​@@GenXfrom75the feminine clothes dont allow me to show my biological male genitalia and because of thta i feel castrated chastity etc and the feminine clothes must stop adding boobs to my chest to allow me to have my flat chest , i dont have muscle , i dont like muscle , but i have a flat chest and the feminine clothes given to males dont allow male chest ....all males have flat chest

[@GenXfrom75]

@@homosexualbiologicalmale--3 ok? 👍

[@homosexualbiologicalmale--3]

@@GenXfrom75 i like feminine clothes sometimes but i want it in a homosexual biological male way without hiding my biological male genitalia and my biological male chest ....that what i was tryng to say but maybe now you know what i am sayng

[@ErazerPT]

It's not really a mystery why therapy isn't pushed that hard. It's the old "follow the money". Therapy can't make all that much money...

[@justanotherguy469]

And it is a lifetime of monies, as that person will always need some sort of medical attention.

[@ConservativeGrouch]

@@jayjones9219 Talking someone OUT of these horrible surgeries: $35 for a counseling session. Affirming someone's so-called "gender identity" and doing the surgery: one new Ferrari.

[@madelinewise8692]

Money is definitely part of it - doctors and clinics have been raking it in with HRT and surgeries. But I've since learned that psychotherapists are not allowed to question their clients anymore regarding gender identity because it's now deemed a human rights violation because the therapist isn't 'accepting' someone's self-declared identity and can be accused of trying to pressure them out of it. Therapists have been censored and therefore, can't do their job of helping their clients properly. When someone comes in questioning their sexuality most therapists now send them to gender clinics to avoid the entire scenario, with the notion they were being "helped" at the gender clinics themselves. We now know that was far from reality - they were just being fast-tracked and medicalized on the road to HRT, puberty-blockers and surgeries. Jordan Peterson is one of the most vocal Canadian psychotherapists out there who rejected this ideology and therefore vilified, threatened and fired for non-compliance to these new rules. Recently, the Supreme Court of Canada - 5 out of 9 judges are women - sided with his university, where, as a professor, he refused to pretend that someone was a plural entity or the opposite sex to who they actually were. He was ordered to pay restitution and attend "re-education" seminars to learn what a man and a woman really is if he didn't want his license revoked. We are living in one of the most bizarre, upside-down times in history.

[@trigeek1971]

I respect her critically questioning the past. Her critically questioning shows the strength of mental health

[@chilltarts]

Exactly. She is so much stronger and mentally healthy than she even knows ❤ I hope she’s still in therapy so she can realize this for herself

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

That’s a man , stop giving up female pronouns for any man . No matter what butchery he’s done to his body

[@kathyrobertson4493]

Yeah, too bad that thinking didn’t happen before “the bottom surgery”.

[@justanotherguy469]

"She"? Okay.@@chilltarts

[@justanotherguy469]

Much too late now for him to become logical. @@kathyrobertson4493

[@k9thundra]

I am a lesbain. I was a tomboy as a child-teenage years. I liked boys clothes and boys toys and I played with the boys. I like boys clothes because they were more comfortable. I liked boys toys because I thought they were cooler than girls toys. and I played with boys because I didn't really get along with other girls because we had no common interests. But as I got older I slowly began to become more and more feminine and started to wear both boys and girls clothing at first, then eventually I started to wear girls clothing more often than boys. But still do this day I'll wear men's clothes on occasion mainly at home because they're more comfortable. But at no point did I ever think I was a boy, nor wanted to be a boy. But it's messed up that today young LGB are being manipulated into believing they are trans when they're not.

[@Richie66026]

It's called transing the gay away

[@k9thundra]

@@Richie66026 that could be it. But I never understood transitioning. My logic is, and always has been that if you're attracted to the same gender as yourself, why would you want to transition into somthing you don't like?

[@Richie66026]

@k9thundra because they are told they are wrong for feeling that way, internalised homophobia and a different type of conversion therapy. I.E. "Oh, your gay? And like men? That must mean you're a woman... here, try this thing called gender ideology.. It's a belief system, sort of like a religion, but don't call it a religion because it is different even though it is exactly the same and if you follow the teachings you aren't gay anymore you are just a woman who likes men because apparently trans women are women?..."

[@sapphic7779]

yessss i'm a lesbian that wears more baggy clothes than feminine and have a preference for feminine girls but I'm still a woman and love my girl side as it's apart of me

[@k9thundra]

@@sapphic7779 yeah you can be a lesbain and wear men's clothes 100% of the time. I just naturally became more feminine. some do some don't. I know some butch lesbians, and even they don't want to be a man. They wear men's clothes because it's more comfortable and inline with thier personality, and they keep thier hair short because 1 it doesnt get in the way. and 2. less maintenance. not because they want to be a man.

[@sanzalure6091]

« Right mind, wrong body » or « If your mind and your body disagree, change your mind, not your body »

[@homosexualbiologicalmale--3]

you should never change mind , that conversion therapy , you must accept personal decision and reject castration chastity 🤮 , the feminine biological male clothes must stop hiding biological male chest and biological male genitalia ....and start showing biological male genitalia through clothes because i feel castrated in some feminine biological males clothes , create feminine biological males clothes which shows clearly i am a biological male and have penis and flat male chest

[@DownByTheGrave]

you can't change something that is hardwired in your mind. it's like trying to get rid of schizophrenia without medication. if you put your brain in a different body, you'd still be you because your brain would be the same. the person who would then receive your brain wouldn't be you. they wouldn't have your memories or anything.

[@homosexualbiologicalmale--3]

no , let them decide personally , is just that i dont think they do that because of the reason they said , i think they do that for other reason than they say that where the issue is , that why spirituality and budhism is bulshit and i refuse to collaborate with such ideology , budhism is tryng to make them this way the lgbt , budhism is behind lgbt , me i am a homosexual biological male but i am separated from lgbt , i am not part in the lgbt , i am separate single

[@Gamepak]

now thats a good point kudoz

[@suejohnson475]

I learn a lot from these videos but think it’s tragic of how children/young adults were pushed into transitioning without proper counseling

[@rickrollrizal]

It's money. There was a hospital where the doctor holding a conference wws saying there was money in sex reassignment surgery. They're creating perpetual patients at such a young age. As adults we do get sick and need a pill or three for some chronic illness. But starting 12 year olds on several pills that they'll need for life , several surgeries that will need correcting in the future and more. That's big money. AFAIK The kids they transition will need blocker pills, hormone pills, psych meds to deal with the mental health side effects. On average, the kid will be taking 5 pills at best. 7 to 8 if they start developing problems with their thyroid gland, liver, kidneys and gastrointestinal

[@comet392]

"We can't be free, can't have peace 'til we're on the same team. But Y'all are sheep🐑 building screens just part of the machine. Y'all are sheeple. What do y'all believe? To all my sheeple, nothing's what it seems."(kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJipmKGOqatsecU)

[@kennethschultz6465]

IF WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE... WHY ARE THER NOT ANYMORE STANDING UP FORE THERE RIGHTS..

[@rickrollrizal]

@@kennethschultz6465 because politicians are paid off by corrupt pharma companies that manufactured the puberty blockers. The only usage for puberty blockers were for chemical castration of sex offenders, precocious puberty and cancer. The latter 2 needing appropriate diagnosis. With the new trend, pharma companies are profiting from puberty blockers

[@JayLane193]

oh is that so I have a hard time believing you actually care about young children

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

I feel the whole "bottom surgery" thing is all mutilation and experimental surgery, even if you do it as an adult. Surgically turning a penis into a vagina or a vulva into a penis makes about as much sense as a doctor saying they can an ear into a nose or vice versa. No matter how much the doctor can make your ear look like a nose, you will never be able to smell out of it, the tissues are still going to produce ear wax, and you will not be able to place feeding tube through the new nose on the side of your head, and on top of it you may come out of it with partial or complete hearing loss.

[@fairy6126]

it's purely aesthetic over health for these sick doctors. ive heard from so many trans ppl that these doctors are perverted

[@wwondertwin]

It reminds me in some ways of ostomy surgeries. An ostomy is a very unnatural way of being, it used to be experimental surgery too. But it's never elective surgery and it's only done when everything else has failed. I think gender surgeries should be treated the same way, only as the last resort when all other treatments have failed. And there's a lot of alternatives, they're just not even offered.

[@JoonKang]

Follow the money, the doctors are making the money

[@non_ideological_transexual7414]

Ear & noses are different tissue types. Sooooo.She got a unproven technique from a TikTok doctor 🤷

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

@@non_ideological_transexual7414 they literally are not any more different than using the outer skin of a penis to make the canal of a vagina! Ears and noses are make of soft cartilage and two different types of skin (the outer skin and inner membranes). The outside skin of a penis is wildly different than the membrane inside a vagina. The head of a penis (the glans) is similar to a clitoris but that's where it ends. A study that I will link if I can find it again showed that trans women are prone to infection and foul odor in their canal because it has completely different bacteria than an actual vagina and is not self cleaning. Digging a tunnel inside someone that needs to be dilated at minimum once a week for the rest of their lives and douched regularly is a mutilation.

[@derekarmstrong1408]

I had a friend who went F-M for the same reason, she was homophobic and the answer was to transition and move to another state with her wife as a straight man. I lost my best friend because I just don't consider her a man. It's sad how homophobic societal norms are causing so many people to go down this path. I miss the old days when I had fun friends who were butch or twinks, and it was ok to acknowledge that it was just a crossdressing thing.

[@davidcook680]

Oh yeah society is so homophobic now lmao. You serious with that crap. Everything is gay now.

[@fairy6126]

it's sad that you can be homophobic and married to a woman (as a woman) ugh

[@strahnbrad3979]

I agree with you! I am a gay cismale who is comfortable of presenting as masculine, and I am so proud of my butch lesbian best friend and twink gay friends. In fact, they're the ones who made me comfortable with who I am.

[@sburris65]

The medical professionals know how very dangerous this it. At 27 I was diagnosed with endometriosis after a decade of unbearable pain. During those years I begged for a hysterectomy. When they told me I had endometriosis they also told me I would never be able to have children. I said great..lets roll me in for a hysterectomy. That would take until I was 35. Due to the scar tissue and cysts, they could not tell the condition of my overies so they could not be sure I could have a partial hysterectomy. If you have a full hysterectomy before menopause you have to undergo hormone replacement therapy. That puts you at a greater risk for cancer especially breast cancer. So if this could case major concerns for me as an adult woman. You know it will case major problems for a child.

[@dragonfox2.058]

A hysterectomy also increases the risk of early dementia

[@SummersPsycheDelicates]

Yeah but people rather stick their heads in the sand :/

[@dragonfox2.058]

@@SummersPsycheDelicates Government gaslighting has worked for centuries

[@AMcG-hf6yx]

The literature is changing its stance on HRT causing breast cancer. Seems now there's no increased risk. Gynos have been following old/ error data

[@kari8187]

HRT doesn’t increase your risk of breast cancer but if you have cancer it will accelerate it

[@juliahartley-barnes975]

When can my fellow gay people wake the hell up? So sad to see so much destruction over internalized homophobia. I knew I was a lesbian at 13, 20 years now, and never once wanted to be anything else.

[@ReesMDavidson]

One million percent

[@QueSeraSeraaaa]

I discovered who i am at 18 yo, i struggled with dysphoria at 16. I never transitioned as i was advised against it for good reasons.

[@LookingGlass69]

I would rather they hate themselves than they accept it and start diddling children.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@@MagpieAnnie73woke therapists are connected to the psychiatrists and doctors doing these surgeries...it is all about the 💰💰💰! Affirmation therapy is about as "therapeutic" as conversion therapy. Is isn't real therapy.

[@MsJimmysgirl]

I have been saying it for a while not. Transgenderism is just a real form of homophobia.

[@petermach8635]

Yikes ...... what a delightfully self-aware interviewee, calm, rational and very, very hard done by. The "trans" industry has really got out of hand, I think the medical profession caught sight of a good opportunity to make large amounts of money ... off what are actually confused children and thir parents, I hope there's justice, sympathetic or condign accordingly, for all involved at some point.

[@diletante6800]

They will, when the lawsuits start, in about 10 years from now...

[@nicolast.davinci1561]

This is ignored quite often. People undergoing transition will need to take expensive hormones for the rest of their lives. The earlier they start, the longer Big Pharma collects.

[@morrigonghoulsli4873]

The more I look at it, the more parallels I see with the opiate boom of the early aughts. Instead of "pain" clinics they're setting up gender clinics all over the place. It's so similar. You go in and you tell the doctor what you want. You have to use a certain vernacular but if you're not familiar with it the greedy doctors are more than happy to guide you in the right direction. Then they get to recommend you to their friends, the plastic surgeons, who we know have never really had any moral compass to begin with. And just like how the pain clinics ruined lives by getting people who weren't educated strung out these gender clinics will ruin lives. Except this time they're playing with your hormones and the effects are even more severe. Nothing will stop it until the lawsuits outweigh the money they get from prescriptions.

[@jabbarmuhammad8804]

I hope this person is happy and living a good life

[@ttrev007]

the biggest crime being committed on these trans kids is the lack of real psychiatric care. medicalizing first is so insane.

[@robertbiel6096]

I suspect history will take a dim view of the destruction now being wrought on the lives of a vulnerable group of people. And, I'm incredibly disappointed at those in the medical profession who apparently put sociopolitical dogma and/or greed above the welfare of their vulnerable, young patients. How very sad. I'd like to think the pendulum is beginning to swing the opposite way - at least, questions are being raised.

[@raimeyewens7518]

I think we will see commercials in the future saying “Were you given puberty blockers, hormones or sex reassignment surgery at a young age? Please call the number below and join our class action lawsuit”.

[@BrookePage1992]

I regret my transition and only ten years after transitioning have come to terms why I transitioned and it’s not because I believe I’m a woman it’s because my dad molested me and my sister. My new therapist spoke off sexual trauma and the dealing with it to eliminate what was destroyed and feel re born when in fact It hasn’t helped. I’m worse from it.

[@charlotteschnook1351]

When I first started dealing with the trauma I endured, I felt like crap for about two years, angry, sad, guilty. Etc. I can honestly say now, though, that I have far more clarity now. How long have you been confronting your abuse? It may be a while yet before it gets better.

[@creatrixZBD]

Big love, my friend ❤

[@OwenHooper-mv4fm]

I was molested by another boy- it’s led to an inability to handle much social interaction. weirdly enough though, it also led to a need for approval that had me develop a great sense of humor and personality. It’s weird, I hate being around people because it’s mentally exhausting, but people love being around me and gravitate to me quickly. I feel awful for people that had worse molestation experiences than me. Mine only happened twice, and it was bizarre in retrospect. A boy one year older than me, and much stronger, and the babysitter was downstairs. I still don’t understand the dynamic that happened there. Ultimately, it didn’t destroy me- I have moderate to severe depression and anxiety. But I have a good life with a home, wife, dogs, great job. Other people that had it done for years by family members, I can’t even imagine the deep cuts that were left.

[@OutspokenOkie]

I speak the holy blood of Jesus over each of you for healing.

[@rebeccahicks2392]

I am so so sorry, I hope you find whatever peace and healing is possible.

[@billashby7858]

I am a straight white conservative male and therefore I am put in a box that says I should hate gays and trans, nothing could be further from the truth. In the 70's I dated a girl that was a hairdresser and because of her occupation I came into contact with quite a few gay men, during the 70's I could have mistreated gays with no repercussions, however I have found that gay men are like straight men, there are good ones and bad ones, and I have found gay men, as a group, have a better sense of humor. The problem I have with any group is when they want special privileges because they see themselves as "put upon" and therefore have the right use that as an excuse to shove their ideology down your throat!

[@alirpa1]

So you are conservative in everything, except opinion about gays, I guess. Isn`t it intrinsic to the conservative ideology to think (mostly if not completely) that being gay is a choice and living as a gay is a sin? They quote the part in the Bible where ancient Jews were instructed (by Jehova if I recall correctly) to kill men who sleep with men.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Feminism Ruins Everything

[@KathyCoyne-y9j]

You're not supposed to hate them. You're supposed to not believe in their lifestyle. It's an abomination to the lord, but god says to love and pray for them

[@davidcook680]

No the box doesn't say you should. The box says you do hate them. The box applies what you think in your mind. Also if you could go back in time. Maybe you should have. The closet should have never been opened. They have taken ten thousand miles and want more. The now demand your kids be gay.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

Thank you for sharing 🩷

[@scottpendleton2798]

I feel sorry for all the people who thought that trans surgery would solve all their problems magically.

[@theantisocialnetwork2340]

The problem is that the medical team allows such an important surgery for unstable people. you think you're trans and you're not

[@SummersPsycheDelicates]

@@theantisocialnetwork2340 I would argue the *problem* is the surgery itself. It’s dangerous and experimental whether you are trans or not.

[@nate6511]

This is the #1 recurrent theme in ALL videos of detransitioners, the belief that transition is a magical cure-all. First it's the idea that social transition will fix things, then people become fixated on hormones, then on surgery... and once that's over and done with, and they realize they still have issues... So many detransitioners turn to religion, which tells them that transition is bad, and they detransition. It's the same story over and over and over again.

[@non_ideological_transexual7414]

Does if your smart enough to have a good surgeon & transition for medical reasons not gender ideology

[@non_ideological_transexual7414]

@@SummersPsycheDelicates No the technique i had was over 50 years old. No cosmetic surgeons can do it.

[@fe5018]

00:48 internalized homophobia 4:42 "disgust" at being a gay man

[@FocusedFighter777]

Im a tomboy, always has been. Almost changed body myself, years ago due to all of it and how men treated me... I have a LOT of traits and hobbies and skills etc associated with men rather than women: but I am just ME. This is normal. we need to bring back tomboys and tomgirls.

[@christinaedwards5084]

Weirdly tom boys only really came about in the 90’s. Could be the increase In plastics, the pill, other hormone altering things in our lives, even rhetoric.

[@beckymcmanus3367]

​@@christinaedwards5084 No, I am 57. There were always tomboys

[@laraantipova389]

All girls are like that. We think “oh I am logical, I am smart, I am actually good at math, I think very Rational, I am not like other girls at all” but in reality all girls are amazing. They are smart and rational. It’s just our surroundings that trick us into thinking women are so much dumber than men, but then when we see ourselves building skills we think “oh I must not be like girls” but you are. You are exactly like girls.

[@cindyski4413]

I envy tomboys. I think it’s great to know how to do many things by yourself, stuff men are usually known to do. I try but sometimes I give up to learn to easily to do things by myself.

[@justanotherguy469]

You must have just been born in the 90s. Tomboys were around before I was born in the 60s. Weirdly, people think the world began with their birth.@@christinaedwards5084

[@dragonfox2.058]

I had a friend who just didn't want to be gay and started larping as a woman early. It would take him 3 hours to put his "face" on. Still a man, too. It's all very sad, and it's a vast human experiment by some very shady, rich guys

[@non_ideological_transexual7414]

Yes & no one made money from getting women to live synthetically on the pill in 1960🤡 . No issues at all with that aside from the destruction of western civilization👏👏👏

[@dragonfox2.058]

@blazegaming6097 Bet I know more about it than you do

[@marecort3697]

Very informative and insightful. As a parent, this whole subject matter is disturbing. I’d much rather have a gay son than an unhappy, want-to-end-herself trans daughter. My son is 22 and still trying to find himself and his passions in life (not his sexuality, that’s set and he’s happy). I know he’ll figure things out. If I had a nickel for every time he’s changed his mind about his path in life, I’d be buying you all drinks. 😊 So why would I let him make this type of decision as a child or a teen?

[@UncleMikeDrop]

The most existentially dangerous people throughout history, have always been those who could exploit the worst parts of people's best intentions.

[@jonascole9172]

Well said.

[@clarephillips8552]

Exactly! The fight against stereotypes of males and females has gone into reverse . It terrifies me to think the path I may have gone down if I was a teenager now exploring my sexuality.

[@dragonfox2.058]

I hated my body too when I was teenager...thank all the gods this wasn't around then!!!

[@billcox8870]

More than 40 years ago I read an article on one of my dad's medical journals. This involves transsexualism. First it would be two years of talk therapy just to find out why the adult only felt that way. Then there would be two years as living at the opposite sex but you would still have to use the correct washrooms based on your biological sex. If you still wanted to go through the transition then they would begin the irreversible procedures which involved in hormones and or surgery

[@borgqueen1612]

I'm trans and have been since I was a child but I also recognize the need for mental health care regarding transition because I don't believe all ppl who claim to be trans actually are

[@Looney_Tombs]

About 0.3% of all the people claiming transgender are actually transgender. That should really frighten real transgenders as your legit mental struggle is being worn as a fashion statement.… Our youth is heading for a crisis that cannot be fixed, all thanks to the left. In fifteen-twenty years the suicide rate will be off the charts when these kids realize they were victimized

[@shanebaird543]

Keep making this important content. I am sure some confused parents and kids will see it and it will make a real positive impact on their lives.

[@me38443]

Thank you Ariella, another informative video which I am sure a lot in the trans community will not like being in the public domain.

[@susangrinnell8913]

There's a reason no one will openly talk about what needs to be tamed about. The push is insidious and Evil. Thank you for being open and Honest , these conversations could help so many young people.

[@rakastellar8955]

We need to stop internalized homophobia, before people do things to themselves that they really regret

[@teresaesquivel7845]

The way your videos are NEVER recommended to me despite being subscribed for years

[@arielle]

Ughhhh

[@minttulatte]

I wanted to be a guy at 19 (in 2007) because I wanted to date women so badly and thought that I should be a guy so it'd be easier/more accepted that way. I'm glad that I didn’t go for it though because four years later I finally accepted my sexuality as it was and the dysphoria that I had struggled with for years was finally gone. I'm pretty sure that I would regret my transition now if I had done so. :/

[@TheCarnivoreSoprano]

My heart goes out to her. So many people failed her.

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

That is not a woman

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

@@wilburshuman how about YOU.. accept the truth and stop supporting gender ideology .. there’s a thought ?!

[@justanotherguy469]

You failed him as well.

[@ConservativeGrouch]

No, *he* failed *himself* by having this done. Tooooo baaaaad. No sympathy here.

[@palmanardozza2041]

God, I almost cried so many times through this. Seeing and hearing another human being express regret over surgeries that can't properly be undone makes my heart hurt. The medical community has a lot to answer for.

[@ryanzaccone7742]

As a mental health professional. I always question mental health of those who self ID or identify as trans. It is difficult because they are often stuck in their own affirming world that when they see me it is hard to get through cause, they are looking for me to continue the affirming not question. So any push back or questioning will often cause them not to come back to me. I do it anyway because it is my job to ensure the success of the person trans or not. They don't see me as wanting to help though. So sad and so tough.

[@graceg3250]

How do you go about questioning them? I’m aware of multiple different scenarios and psychologies that can cause someone to identify as trans. But I’ve never heard anyone summarize it all together.

[@memph7610]

It's a tough time for your profession. Here in Canada the new laws are (as I understand) basically that push-back/questioning is "conversion therapy" and only "affirmation" is allowed. If you asked me, I would say that these crude attempts at trying to change people's sex are conversion therapy and trying to help people accept their bodies or sexual orientation is affirmation, but we live in a strange world... But even in jurisdictions where the law allows push back/questioning, the current culture in the LGBT community means that even if you require more therapy before going through with medical procedures, your kind of therapy is not what they will seek out. And I think a lot of the institutions governing mental health, and colleges training new professionals, are pretty oriented towards affirming rather than questioning as well?

[@ryanzaccone7742]

@@memph7610 exactly and it makes me so sad

[@ryanzaccone7742]

@@graceg3250 well I look for indicators, such as past trauma (specifically sexual assault when young). I ask about behavior patterns growing up, look for other diagnosis such as autism. With men I look for extreme loneliness and then looking for some kind of acceptance, along with other past history of other sexual fetishes. Then of course I look to see if it is a gender dysphoria or body dysmorphic disorder or something.

[@Angelina-f3n6i]

Why is it that these doctors automatically resort to transition right away,, like they don't even say maybe you need counseling or other medications, these families are going through a Nightmare the doctors are Selling Dreams to people that really need help. Sometimes transition is not the answer and it definitely isn't the answer for Children.

[@amaryllisequistra]

Bless you. You will help so many questioning gay kids by talking about your experience. I will continue work to make a world where gay kids / people feel loved and accepted 💗

[@NiaLin]

I’ve noticed that the majority of those transing w/out the corresponding diagnosis, have sexual trauma in their past. Especially those who are actually on the gay spectrum & were sexually abused by a same gender/same sex predator. Which is one cause for the internalized homophobia. Girls are a bit different. As a straight female survivor of sexual abuse myself, I remember as a young child, so simplistic in my naïveté, thinking that if I had a different body, then my abusers wouldn’t want to touch me. Puberty brings more physical attention & often internalized misogyny or even disgust for their female biology, their blossoming womanhood that’s perceived as a threat to their happiness. This is a common reaction. Only now, these young girls are being told to become the gender of their attackers/predators rather than getting the help they need as trauma/sexual abuse survivors. We focus a lot on the transing away of gays, but I guarantee you that over the next decade we’re gonna see a high percentage of detrans, post op suicides, lawsuits, violent crimes against perceived enablers; coming from trans men/straight bio females who were NEVER trans nor ever gay.

[@MichelleMikey-el6pb]

Yes. Tge tracheal shaving surgery done by plastic surgeons always causes the "helium voice"

[@benafoo25]

Rejection sucks. It's probably among some of the worst feelings one can have. Unfortunately it's one of those things we just have to live with because forcing people to date anyone they aren't attracted to is pretty much just coercive rape. I'd rather be rejected than raped. Therefore straight men have every right to reject trans women, lesbian women have every right to reject trans women, and vice versa. Being rejected, as long as it's done respectfully, isn't oppression, it isn't bigotry. People get rejected for all kinds of reasons, being trans doesn't exempt you from that.

[@MsJimmysgirl]

I love Briana. I have watched her interviews now with your, Buck, Marcus and Candance Owens. I subscribed to her channel right after seeing her interviewed by Buck. What was done to her should be medical malpractice but her lawyer dropped her case. If you choose to be celibate that is different but basically having your sex life stolen from you that also has a lot to do with your mental health before you could even experience it, in on another level of sick. As a woman that can no longer have sex myself due to a combination of menopause and an existing health condition, I couldn't even imagine never my entire life being able to connect with someone they way you do intimately. My heart completely breaks for her.

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

Only Briana is not a she , not a woman, not a female

[@arielle]

We all absolutely adore her.

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

Briana is lovely. Such honesty and introspection is admirable, because I know how much hate will be sent her way from the rabid cult members.

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

Sent his way! He is a male victim of abuse

[@Arthera0]

meanwhile i still see comments like "this is not happening". i hope she can find peace in live and be happy. thanks again for revealing the issues in the tq+ part of the community

[@jaredlange]

keep up the hard work and god bless you. This needs to go viral asap

[@void_hunter94]

"Once I have this one thing, I'll be happy." Does no one notice the mental damage in that statement? That's the same statement that addicts say. Not saying gender dysphoria & addiction is one & the same, but the damage is there. We need so much more mental health awareness, & need to dig deep to the root cause of all this pain, not mask it up with just external treatments

[@justanotherguy469]

And a total lack of spiritual awareness. Happiness is not to be found in things, happiness is to be found in the identification of self with the Most High.

[@sca88]

I saw Brianna's sad interview with Candace Owens. Brianna explained her physical pain and health problems that will be with her for the rest of her life.

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

That is a frickin MAN. A male victim with internalised homophobia

[@morrishansford3316]

Here's the one thing I get from this there seems to be an easy answer to all this and to answer some of the comments down below about sexual abuse.LEVA KIDS THE F**** ALONE LET KIDS BE KIDS !!!

[@dkelban]

Such a caring and informative video. What a complicated decision and difficult?

[@justsome-guy7596]

What a brave stance to take Briana - I truly appreciate the courage it takes to speak your truth and share your story, when it might be contrary to much of the mainstream, trans-ideology narrative. respect.

[@Ashakat42]

Happiness is not a warm scalpel.

[@ejciicollins3200]

Thank you for this episode telling her story, a touching story the mainstream media refuses to talk about 👏❤️

[@_lavvy_sage]

Arielle, I have seen you on so many other videos. I watched Middle Ground from Jubilee the other day and I heard you mention our girl Blaire White. That was my breaking point. I had to see if you had a channel of your own. I appreciate you for sharing your perspectives. We need your voice right now more than ever. Thank you for being a voice of reason for a community that deserves better representation. Keep being you, too. I love your unapologetic, factual, logical responses in your debates. God bless ❤

[@carolthedabbler2105]

Maybe one practical reason that they rarely recommend talk therapy anymore is that, with the current huge increase in gender-dysphoria diagnoses, there simply aren't enough trained, experienced therapists to work with everyone. A surgeon works with a patient for just a short time, but a therapist needs to be available for years.

[@scotswumin5502]

There aren't enough professional trained therapists going around for all that would benefit from their services. Too many organisations and activists get in an utter flap with their belief that talking therapy/therapeutic counselling is 'conversion' therapy, especially it seems if affirmation is not automatically practiced (which it should not be of course)

[@carolthedabbler2105]

@@scotswumin5502 -- I kinda understand the "conversion therapy" fear, since back in the 1960s some therapists tried to "cure" gays. But by now enough people have gone through extensive therapy (in order to rule out other causes) and still been diagnosed as trans, that it should be clear it's legitimate -- not that that will convince everyone, of course.

[@Izamota-q5v]

Nope - 100% about making life long patients for big pharma.

[@carolthedabbler2105]

@@Izamota-q5v -- that too, unfortunately.

[@ericvulgate7091]

I have regrets knowing this stuff exists.

[@marymartin-q2y]

So this was happening 10 years ago?! Why is it only being discussed now.

[@colleenperez5607]

As a mom my heart goes out to her. As parents we should love our children unconditionally

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

If your heart goes out to him. You’d see him as the victim male that he is. No way a woman and can never be

[@Aurochhunter]

I feel sorry for her, she made a rash decision based on society's views and now wishes she hadn't.

[@--------RR007----------]

There is NO such thing as gender id.

[@fridastwin]

I extend my full respect to this guest. Thank you for having her on your channel.

[@baroqueasb6097]

Thank you both

[@Nikalette100]

In my 20s I lived in San Francisco, I had many many gay friends and coworkers. I had a cousin who was a lesbian. Gay men were so talented, funny, and there was no homophobia. It was also the beginning of the AIDS epidemic. There were few what we called cross dressers or drag queens. People were happy being what they were. Pride day was a celebration. I believe the trans epidemic is like most things all about money and politics. I am sickened by the medical community.

[@beansandmacaroni8758]

big love from Skye Scotland,this is a perfect collab🥰

[@BrittanyStewart-ni4sc]

Brianna's eye makeup is on point!!

[@OpEditorial]

Same planet, different worlds.

[@rmac2489]

Thank you this is a very important discussion

[@jameslockard6956]

So many are regretting their transition sugery and are suing doctors; clinics, and hospitals the *hit is hitting the fan.😮

[@elizabethgriffin8203]

Thanks for all your videos Arielle. The truth of everything needs to get exposed. Keep it up!

[@spudgun3268]

I love Briana! So glad to see you talking to her!

[@Craig-c6f]

It is hard to "enjoy it" when it all seems so tragic. I pray the best for all affected? Afflicted? by this issue.

[@johnmartin4650]

A lot of good stuff…..honest conversation…..thank you Ms S

[@NeirCorvin]

Around 11 mins in she asks why no one is talking about the "therapy" part of being trans. The reason for this is because a lot of people, companies, including youtube, see this type of discussion as "hate speech" when in reality it isn't. It's about mental health.

[@hellbent18]

To interrupt a natural process with chemicals just doesn't sound like it can possibly be good for you

[@Merdyon13]

Arielle, I am enjoying your videos and have learned a lot from the topics.

[@sandycarroll2640]

To start treating a pre pubescent child with blockers & not allow the body to grow naturally is a crime.

[@autumndawn8587]

THIS! Thank you both. I saw this after being told this same situation by two men who say they’re trans. They don’t admit it in the same way that she does here, but that’s basically what they said lead them to identify as women or non-binary!! It’s insane. These men should be taught it’s ok to be a feminine man. They shouldn’t be put down by society for being feminine and they should also have thicker skin to not fall into the trap of misogyny!

[@avery570]

I went through this surgery a few years ago at 21 years old and believe I was one of the few lucky ones who’ve genuinely had zero complications other than an allergic reaction to medication and a bad hospital experience filled with severe discomfort as well as months off work. It’s insane and heartbreaking to hear her story and others as well, including stories of people I personally know. My good experience was still terrible but nothing in comparison to hers! This kind of video should be played to anyone considering this kind of surgery, I’d never tell anyone to be trans or have that surgery it’s wildly messed up and unethical to praise this as a perfect happy solution to people. My heart is breaking for this poor girl 😢

[@anne_price]

I recently watched a few of Briana's interviews and it got me looking back at my young self and the path that led me to transition. The whole gender dysphoria and internalized homophobia is a subject that deserves attention for sure!! I'm happy with my transition, but can completely agree and relate with her on this subject.

[@vgahren]

Arielle, your content continues to be invaluable. Your subject matter, guests, and discussions are heartfelt, informative and, most importantly, empathetic. One issue that continues to come up is whether or not mental health would’ve made a difference. Or would a more supportive family unit made a difference in the way they would’ve had someone to talk to, that by default they should be able to trust, before being thrown to the medical and scientific wolves, who advocate only one irreversible way to ‘deal with’ certain conditions and feelings.

[@Kaykdoa]

Yes! Challenging our beliefs, investigating our emotions, learning more about our motivations...all so important - for every single person! May we all find this strength.❤

[@raulsansores404]

Brianna, your my hero, I love your message, bless you for putting yourself out there

[@terryboyer1342]

He was disgusted by and couldn't face being an actual gay man so he thought and reasoned pretending to be a woman and taking drastic, dangerous experimental methods to achieve the illusion was more rational and acceptable? Is that it or do I have it all wrong?

[@alirpa1]

@@sowhat7983 You know he would be rejected by straight men as a gay man, too. Now he could be dating a man who, like Blaire White`s boyfriend, does not mind, or even likes trans-women. The thing is - if he hadn`t transitioned, but got therapy, he might be a happy gay man, dating another gay man.

[@Thatssomebadhatharry1]

@@alirpa1 Blaire ‘Robert’ white remains a gay man in a homosexual relationship with another man, he has kept his male appendage and you cannot change sex no matter what you do ..

[@Skelovane]

Just saw middle ground, love ya Arielle!

[@daveofthedogz]

The reason they don't talk about therapy and push meds and surgery is that therapy is HARD; meds and surgery are quick and profitable. Not a single doctor pushing hormones, meds, and surgery gives a rats ass about you. They are there for the dollars, The correct approach, as you found out, is to correct the root cause of the issue through arduous and painstaking therapy,

[@denasewell]

I love Briana and follow her channel. My heart goes out to her for all she has been through but admire her for making herself vulnerable to share her story so others could perhaps be spared!!I wish she could sue the Doctor that butchered her then ghosted her to pick up the pieces!

[@Justine-ut8ho]

Sending so much love to Brianna!

[@Craig-c6f]

Thank you for showing the truth.

[@sydcrafty5498]

I note the emphasis on the male role models all rejecting her when she was a boy child. The Mum allowed this? The Mum enjoyed the company of Men that were emotionally cruel to her Son? Why did she allow this? Is this true, or a distortion in the mind?

[@nikki54X22]

I very much did not enjoy that. However, it was informative. I appreciate the information shared and compassion.

[@shawn20768]

Thank you, both

[@Lady_Lefty]

This is so true, we need to get those who go through dysphoria, therapy first. If you’re suicidal, for any reason, you NEED psychiatric help FIRST! If you are still insistent after a lot of therapy and a grown up brain, then yes transition, but after all that likely transition would be pretty rare.

[@lat-roc9733]

Thankyou for this video. Frankly, this channel as important as 1964 BBC news. Thankyou for helping my understand my young Childs gender dysphoria and the aggressive treatments coming for my child

[@tarotqueen9118]

I don’t understand why everyone is in this big rush to find themselves. Why can’t we just experiment take our time and not make life altering decisions on a whim. Life is not a race let’s take our time getting to know ourselves we are always changing and forever growing.

[@emmapeel8163]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this person has finally opened & examined their mental health.

[@bf6159]

Personal experience with both family and former social aquaintence. From what I've seen, the folks who Transition often initiate the majority of the problems they profess to deal with. The folks I know were never chastized or ridiculed. One female who did this in her 20's and a man who did such in his 50's. Different folks, different friends and family, different coast, went through this process nearly two decades apart. Both alienated friends and family, both misled folks with regard to what was going on in their life. Then, following their transition, both expected everyone to maintain business as usual, but with a whole new set of considerations. Their stated reasons were very different, one had notable mental health issues because of childhood trama, the other was a borderline sexual predator. The one dealing with trama didn't work on or even bother to address the trama, and the other went all in on sexual deviation. All that to highlight, even in said situation, the reasoning is a kaleidoscope of unrelated who knows what.

[@christinaedwards5084]

50’s Transitioned. Best guess married to a women. Sexual perversion Text book autogynephilia.

[@grammar8561]

The doctors that did this to this man should be in jail

[@maloulaccroqueusedesmots7015]

Thanks for this video and for your work to infuriate people . Sorry for my bad English.... I just speak French and little English so I try to write a comment correctly, but.... This man or trin woman is so merveilleux to be honest and to confront herself with his old traumas for being conscient person what about the sex. Thanks to her for this témoignage, so precious.

[@bootsy70]

It is VERY sad that now a young child can decide what gender they decide to be and with many who are getting a lot of money with medications they give a young teenager plus surgeries throughout the their own greed and indoctrination that this is ok and far from it. How SAD when others then say this has worsened my life even more than what they felt prior plus their body. Yes, in the past most transgender people are good still because the process was SLOWER with more counseling, listening to the person and their past, etc. Of course a few still as they age from this much more sane past have regrets yet much less people than now. Heart breaking all around and another great video Arielle and thank you for your testimony on this for yourself and I hope you find some sense of peace, and yes very tragic for Jaz plus all people who are suffering now even more so than before each person started on this path. ❤.