Trans Woman REACTS | SHOCKING Trans TIKTOKS!?

[@TanyaRando]

I'm sick to death of hearing "genocide" and "people like me are dying every day", from these activists. It's good to see you, Blaire, Buck, Marcus to name a few, countering this drama!

[@szweety1684]

They need to present statistics showing this "genocide" or I'm not listening any more

[@kevincurr4641]

The absolute lowest rate of being unalived of all, when it does happen the perpetrators are their own sexual partners.

[@Twistedmiss]

And as for suicide, actual data does not reflect what people have "self reported" in the past.

[@xaneres1]

'Trans holocaust', 'Denying my existence', 'Trying to erase me' ad nauseum

[@kevincurr4641]

@@xaneres1 This narrative directly came from an incredibly devisive organisation, which if I use it's name my comment will be removed, campaign, rights and human springs to mind, read in reverse.

[@Disney65Fan]

The person mocking about being pregnant was horrible.

[@sjanex]

If they are serious, they need to be sectioned asap

[@syd-ney-D]

It was just a cis man mocking trans women more than anyone else...

[@Disney65Fan]

​@@sjanex 💯

[@johnmiwa6256]

@@syd-ney-D Dylan Mulvaney already captured that market.

[@Tavora_Tiefling]

There is a small chance they could have cancer. Pregnancy tests can detect certain cancers in men.

[@stephenfoster8573]

I appreciate that you prioritize intellectual honesty and individuality over blind conformity and the need to placate to group identity to source your character x

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you

[@technicoloryaya549]

"It makes me really sad" that i have to fight for HRT as a 61 year old woman living in the US. I am told that I "don't need it" a my age, even though i don't produce my own hormones, and it affects everything from sleep patterns to emotional state. I get told how bad the progesterone pills are for my body and all the health risks. So why can people who don't meet the mental health criteria for being trans get on hormones for the asking?

[@nate2759]

So true, the system is extremely flawed.

[@jmarie4875]

Same as I'm large chested and have to jump thru insurance hoops and pay large amount for breast reduction, yet girl that want to identify as male can just go in and state insurance or other kind will pay for it due to "trans care". Even though I have medical/pain issues. I'm fkin piss/d at this

[@MarthaAnthony]

And in many places, they are free, but women are charged for them. Same for female surgeries.

[@umtic]

@@jmarie4875 if that's really the case, then call yourself a trans man to get one

[@ShoshanaBennett0]

Being mad at the wrong demographic, blame the system not the transpeople

[@mariaparadis4988]

Just a quick comment, you are an admirable example of a trans woman. In the first part of this vid, with the 'pregnant' person, and your comments about them maybe playing trans. This is how many biological woman feel about the videos posted by DM. You, on the other hand are very respectful of us, and i thank you for that, as a biological woman. Please keep doing the good work you do

[@TarynRMartin]

Because Alexis is just out here being a woman (rather than making us feel mocked, insulted, appropriated, or physically unsafe.)

[@sarahm9968]

Parent and psychologist here; the way I see puberty blockers (which should not be used in children over the age of 8 and are now hardly being used for precoz puberty in girls due to being linked to osteoporosis and other health issues) or HRT in children is that no parent, doctor or person should facilitate a lifelong optional decision for a child who may change their mind. If my daughter asks for a hysterectomy at age 12 because she wants to be childfree, no clinician would do that for obvious reasons. I would definitely support her once she is of age to make that permanent decision and understands all of the medical risks and consequences that it entails. Giving a child puberty blockers and HRT is choosing to sterilise them (irreversible infertility), to medicalise them for life (with the chance they may change their mind once their prefrontal cortex is fully formed) AND for most cases you are also choosing a sexless life for them as anecdotally many people who have transitioned during childhood note they are unable to feel any sexual pleasure at all due to the lack of development in their sexual organs. Additionally, if it is a Male-to-Female transition, the phallus/penis is not fully formed, so future surgery is also compromised. It's an ethical issue overall and a decision only an adult by their own volition/consent should make. I haven't even touched upon the huge ethical issues that affirming care also brings as it encourages people down this pathway without considering other factors to gender dysphoria (i.e., trauma, sexual prefence, abuse, comorbidity of other psychiatric disorders, personality disorders, neurodivergency etc). A child being permanently altered irreversibly with often brutal consequences should not have an hour or two as a rudimentary evaluation.

[@bestaqua23]

Seriously asking her because you seem to actually be knowledgeable and also don't seem to think they kids they expires gender disporia should be told to " get over it ". What do you think is the correct course of action in these cases ? I find it very difficult to form a good opinion because the options seems to either just pretend these kids have nothing wrong with them and giving them a full gender affirming package no questions asked and I don't feel either one of these is correct

[@nickpenny5497]

Just from physical side effects from taking hormones, kids should not be allowed to take them. I have extremely serious osteoporosis due to very early menopause. Currently bedridden after a series of fractures. Waiting for treatment to make my bones stronger. I hope we don't have a generation that are heading for serious physical problems. Maybe better therapy and other methods until someone is old enough to know who and what they are, then take hormones.

[@jonathangmallender]

You could literally win over a nation Alexis! You're one of my favourite creators on KZbin. You speak sense, with passion and clarity. You're such a positive force! Sadly, these trans activists are doing a lot of damage to the LGBT community.

[@philipsheppard4815]

I think when it was getting people to accept that Trans people existed and were valid it was starting to move in the right direction, but then it became Trans men are men, Trans women are women, women can have a penis, men can have a baby, and if you disagree you are transphobic, and I think at that point most people just go nope.

[@karenhudson2216]

Mean while as a menopausal woman . I am struggling to get my estrogen. There is a shortage .

[@9kazcat]

Probably because so many men are taking it and getting priority. Oh the irony.

[@emilybusby6922]

I’m a biological woman and I have absolute ham hands- I’m Very self conscious about them. I always look at your hands and feel super envious- They’re SO pretty and slender and MUCH more feminine than mine. Seriously. It’s a small thing, but I hope sharing this makes you feel a little better. 😊

[@yappyspaz]

I have my Dads hands ( short and stubby) lol

[@hhoges9895]

Look at Megan Fox. Undoubtedly a bomb shell. But she gets made fun of for her hands - particularly her thumbs.

[@sunnyadams5842]

Darling- a thing that gets blurred in this mass movement is the simple fact that women and men NATURALLY come in all mixtures along the Spectrum FROM Masculine TO FEMININE TRAITS. That doesn't make a person the opposite sex. I am a small bio female. Some days I am all fluff and pink and sweet things. That day I might cry, but I might also have to step up and tell some big hairy pushy rude guy to get off my property and to get F'd in no uncertain terms. I might even shoot my gun- over their head...dies that bake me a guy in a dress at that point? No. I don't think so. Other days I look like a guy. Not trying. I am just also very masculine. So I wear clothes that are more typically male. Other days I am wearing a dress and digging a ditch and sweating and spitting in the sun. What am I then? ME!! 😂 I guess I just do those things. Everyone does if they are honest.

[@maatdeaishvarra380]

Grass is always greener I guess. I can't stand my "small and slender" hands myself. Always wanted to look like a big tough Amazon. Unfortunately I'm short

[@helixxia9320]

@maatdeaishvarra380 same here lol

[@Autumn1988]

Jazz Jennings is a great example of why puberty blockers are terrible. They don’t just “pause puberty” - you need puberty to develop into an adult - they sterilise children and if rhey are blocked pre-puberty they won’t develop any sexual attraction sexuality etc as adults which is important. Particularly with boys who want to transition into women it makes the surgery difficult as they don’t develop sufficient penile tissue to have a successful v-plasty

[@johnmiwa6256]

Exactly. They're called "puberty blockers", not "puberty pausers", for a reason.

[@Rachel_McConnell]

Even children who take the blockers for precocious puberty or adults who take it for cancer treatment report loss of bone density, mood changes, fatigue and complete loss of libeto. And the testimonials are from adult patients.

[@Autumn1988]

@@Rachel_McConnell and that’s a very specific circumstance where it’s to allow puberty to start at say 9/10/11 not 5/6/7 precociously; so at the right time for the body. I also strongly believe that children ( who cannot consent to sex) cannot consent to loosing their future adult sexual function and sexuality.

[@dante6985]

@@Autumn1988 also gender dysphoria is reported to dissipate after puberty in many cases. So it's like... Let children grow without having to commit to lifelong expensive medical treatments.

[@amymjennings]

Yeah, that's why I had to wait till 17, that's 20 happy years ago now, thank you Benjamin Standards of care!❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉😊

[@candidapple]

the insanity that this video could be deemed 'hateful' and therefore be arrested after april 1st is insane Alexis. Thanks for making these videos more folk in the community need to speak up against these weirdos.

[@elenawilliams32]

What is happening after the 1st of April please?

[@Alexis_blake00]

In Scotland new hate crime law goes into effect - news.sky.com/story/scotlands-new-hate-crime-law-could-be-used-to-settle-scores-say-critics-13102889

[@elenawilliams32]

@@Alexis_blake00 Cheers. I just watched it. It appears like it's going to be really tricky to regulate and open to interpretation. I'm not talking about awful threats etc, I was thinking more of the likes of India Willoughby reporting their 'hate crime '- if it was in Scotland.

[@Alexis_blake00]

@@elenawilliams32 not 100% sure how its going to work but its kinda scary that people could be reported for all sorts? And not to mention if you don't live there could you still be reported? Only time will tell I suppose!

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

I don't believe that it's really even about the community, as much as it is about certain Western governments, wanting to control speech of all kinds, especially any speech that goes against them or their narratives. They've just found that using the community to go after people that they want to silence, has proven to be a very effective way to achieve that goal. Just my humble observation. 🧐

[@Laura-bw5gn]

You're quickly becoming one of my favourite content creators. I love your no nonsense, grounded views on such important topics. Keep on slaying ✨️ and being your beautiful self!

[@Alexis_blake00]

OMG that makes me so happy haha thank you

[@Laura-bw5gn]

@Alexis_blake00 you're welcome, sending love to you and Liam 💚

[@shep9231]

Oh, Amen!

[@slytheringingerwitch]

I am reminded of that woman who pretended that she had tourettes, 'pretending' to be trans is apparently fashionable. I am not trans, but I wouldn't pretend to be a man because it was funny. I mean I could easily scratch my fictional man bits but it's not real, to me.

[@desertcat4193]

You are so mindful and kind, even when so reasonably shocked or annoyed! Back in the day, I never thought much about it when a trans woman came into a public restroom or a gym locker room because it always seemed they were truly trying to "pass" and just live their lives. But in the last 3 years I and my friends have been confronted 6-7 times by very assertive and sometimes aggressive trans women in these spaces. To me, overly assertive or attention seeking behavior by trans women in women's spaces is the opposite of what healthy women do, and we are not TERFS for saying so.

[@Se_Nyx]

First paragraph, yep agree with you there. Obviously I can't speak for the bathroom, but generally that is my impression - that there are aggressive people out there claiming to be transwomen but not doing anything to transition, or modify their aggressive, stereotypically male, behaviour. Also having weird ideas about what makes a woman - I don't know because I'm not one. I also find an awful lot of the new crop started out as straight men with no gender dysphoria, which makes me wonder why they decided to become transwomen. My personal belief is that they are self obsessed, with a narcissistic belief that no-one should ever be allowed to say no. And they will say they are trans lesbians, because their sexuality doesn't change. Its like a new fad for young people - something for them to do. Especially young men who think the world is mistreating them and that women have all the rights now. That's what they are probably doing - trying to get special rights, so they can be above everyone else (which is a narcissistic belief). If I was to go down the trans route then as a gay man then it would, in theory, make me straight. I just look at this way: a straight man who controls so much of the world tells me he is going to be a trans woman. I ask him why he is giving up all of his privileges and rights, especially if he doesn't experience gender dysphoria and is only attracted to women. What would he say? That sometimes the women say no? That he would like extra rights that apply only to him, because in his mind he would not lose any rights, because he would aggressively demand them his existing ones, and get extra that means people will have to treat him with the respect he (believes he is) deserves, and that he will have a choice of sexual partners, because otherwise they will be arrested. Is this not how narcissistic thought goes - "I'm special and should be treated as such".

[@roymarable5860]

I’m a disabled veteran. I was on testosterone for over 5 years. Then a vet was caught selling his to a marine trying to boost his performance. The VA decided to stop Al testosterone for all veterans. NO EXCEPTIONS! I wasn’t able to get testosterone for over 5 years. I lost most of my muscle mass and was having other health problems. The VA agreed to restart prescribing testosterone again. To qualify I had to have twice monthly blood tests to check my testosterone levels. For 6 months. Every test showed that my body quit producing testosterone. Then I had to drive 80 miles away to see a specialist. On the first visit blood test was taken to check my testosterone levels. I went back 2 months later. The specialist said that I needed to take testosterone. Three months later my strength improved and my other problems started to go away. Now I have to have my blood tested every month to make sure I’m taking it. It is disgusting that children can get an unlimited supply without proof that it’s medically necessary. I wonder how many of these immature children are selling their free testosterone to body builders???

[@PrisonHoney96]

The activists are truly doing much more damage to the community than they are helping. I like to also keep reminding people that a lot of their ideology is homophobic as well, and insidiously some of the most homophobic ideas the LGBT community in the US has faced in recent years. The whole idea of “genital preference” inherently erases the work that gay, lesbian, and bi people have done to show the world we were born this way and that sexual orientation is not a choice. It picks up where the conservative religious folks left off. In fact, I’d say I’ve heard more homophobic ideas come from the mouth of woke activists than from very religious people in recent years, and that is a problem.

[@swan4163]

Yes, the algorithms favor the most outrageous videos/posts because on engagement. The social media algorithms encourage the most divisive content, and the result is more outrage and the manufacturing of cults. The social media companies can’t help themselves

[@seenomro]

Hi Alexis, as a closeted trans person, your videos are very helpful, keep up the good content!

[@CharliStar]

Do you also know Marcus Dib, Buck Angel and Blaire White?? - a few more sane/ rational trans-content creators. 😊

[@seenomro]

Yes, I follow them as well :)

[@umtic]

@@seenomro why are you closeted? is it not safe to come out where you live?

[@nicolas_dsr]

​@@CharliStarlove Blaire but buck? He's transphobic to himself lmao

[@CharliStar]

@@nicolas_dsr can I ask how you get to that decision?

[@SibylMurfitt-we4yo]

Very good video. I am really grateful, as a biological woman with two little girls, to hear you raise the point of aggression and anger. It is impossible to ignore the prevalance of anger and aggression that appears masculine in nature from a lot of ‘she/her and they/them’ people. I believe trans is real and that treatment is required in some cases. But I also would love for us all to stop having to pretend to not see male aggression coming from supposed trans women. Being a woman that has been on the receiving end of male aggression/violence, I feel like the difference between real trans women and people co opting the name … is people that are feminine in their soul. Masculine aggression doesn’t come from feminine souls. Hard to explain. You’ve also saved me from going full TERF. The loud mouths and Mulvaney’s of the world have really made it hard to see real trans people.

[@LEMON_STARFOX]

I really appreciate you coming into KZbin and doing these reactionary videos with your commentary because you’re very open minded, intellectually honest & kind. This is the representation that needs to be put out into the media of Trans Women & I’m glad you’re a part of the new wave. I felt the same when Gay men would be in media and they were represented themselves as hating the straights & all the negative preconceived ideas that people had about gay men and it’s taken some time but the fact that the world can see that gay men are not a monolith and we’re all different is great and I really hope that trans women get this too because it’s sad to hear that you all get painted with the same brush when some trans women decide to be controversial for attention.

[@terryestepp2615]

Well said

[@stevegerber1944]

Question Alexis. Did you notice the drastic difference in demeanor between video one and video two? The first is a more recent entry and the second was older. Hormone replacement changes how aggressive or docile a person becomes. All of that unhinged incomprehensible anger is doubtless from the T. I don't think they ever should have taken it with comprehensive psychological evaluation.

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

I've been sort of following that person, through other people reacting to them (I don't have TikTok) and I've seen quite a few of their videos over the last year or two. This is a very, very disturbed young person who clearly has some serious underlying mh issues, aside from the identity thing. The way they jump feet first on a new bandwagon every couple of weeks (or even days) is really quite alarming and the anger/rage that's bubbling right at the surface all the time, is increasing in each video. Of course, their constant social justice tirades are infuriating and rarely make any sense to the average person, but unlike some of the others who you can clearly see are vulnerable kids with malleable minds who've been brainwashed, this person exudes a much darker, dare I say, dangerous energy than most. (Please excuse my skirting around certain words and phrasing, but there are more and more watchful eyes on the comments sections these days. I hope I made sense.)

[@stevegerber1944]

@@bobbiejojackson9448 I totally understand. I remember there was a time when anyone who thought they were trans had to have extensive therapy before they were given cross sex hormones then live as the sex they were transitioning to for 6 months to a year before they were greenlit for body modifications. It's done so hastily now that it's alarming to me.

[@umtic]

@@stevegerber1944 when did it change? it still required a year last I checked

[@YochevedDesigns]

I still haven't figured out what this non binary person is transitioning to/from. The whole thing is rather confusing. While we're on the subject, my grandparents would have a word or two with them about the casual use of the word "holocaust."

[@umtic]

@@YochevedDesigns trans people were also holocaust victims

[@stegosaur9812]

6:42 nope! im so confused like what tf are they on about 😭😂

[@RavenHaili]

Thank you Alexis for being a very much needed voice of reason 🖖 Edit: I also want to say you always give off such an elegant and classy demeanor, you're the best representation for transsexuals alongside Buck Angel and Marcus Dibs in my opinion. At the top of my list for when I teach my teenagers on the subject of these advanced (for more mature brains, not child brains) experiences humans around them have. I think it's important for emotional growth to try to understand the people around them, so we all can coexist on our mother earth.

[@Alexis_blake00]

aww thank you so much

[@ClassicPop13]

Thank you for making freaking sense. Also I love how kind and compassionate you are through your anger and that is truly commendable.

[@graceoliver7699]

Hi Alexis, you are not a TERF. Even tough you are a trans woman you are still a person who has common sense and logic. And thats why I like watching you, calling out the absurdity of some of these strange videos on social media, is great. Love you ... xxxxx

[@cuddleswithcavies9969]

Your face at 6:22 is priceless and so accurately describes how we all feel with this nonsense 😂

[@nurinms]

I agree….😂😂😂 I thought I was the only one that don’t understand it was talking about 😂😂😂

[@docmacabre]

First one, if real, is worrying. That person clearly needs help. They're living a delusion, and that could end very badly for them...

[@omarra6781]

Person #1 is either extremely ill or a very bad, but very persistent troll. Person #2 doesn't even make sense. Thank you for doing what you do.

[@JaclynSTEWART-z2t]

Get well soon Alexis also very grateful for your logical responses to this silliness

[@jadeworkman0128]

To be honest. When I first came across your channel I truly thought you were a biological woman. You’re very beautiful and kind and I love your channel. You’re like the “nicer” Blaire White lol I love Blaire too!!

[@pneumanaut1]

Alexis, I want to "call out" how compassionate you are with these people! You are such an amazing person to be so caring for ALL people! I've often thought (I'm not trans) about how ill these people might be in reality, what might be going on inside them from a psychological perspective, how much unhappiness they will experience as they age. Thank you so much for sharing your own concern! Feeding into their illnesses, affirming their psychosis, normalizing this behaviour, or the other side of attacking and demeaning - you shine a light on all of it! Personally, I've always thought we each have to do our own work; healing comes from inside, not from outside. And, Alexis, you have been an inspiration for me and a role model for ... everyone! your community, my community, humanity. Thank you!! Your concern for fertility is also so beautiful! I have recently read a lot about how our birth rate is declining. There is serious concern in many nations at what will happen in 20-50 years if we continue to experience the decline we have been having in the past 20-30 years and we no longer replace (and care for) our population now. Those stats are coming from "normal" reasons people don't have children - they do not include those who are capable of healthily continuing our species but removing their created purpose for our collective future. What happens when we lose so many people who, when they're young, remove their ability to repopulate, and then realize after that they have helped contribute to a very ugly situation? I think it's so much better when someone is diagnosed and goes through medical transitioning once they've hit at least 25 (aka the time the brain becomes fully mature). Thank you for all you share and contribute to our collective human world! (A personal note: many years ago I had 2 very serious pulmonary emboli and when I went through the tests to find out why, it was discovered that I will never be able to take hormones when I hit menopause. It will likely kill me. So, your comments on "HRT is for everyone" hits the nail on the head in more ways than you realize! It is not only for people who truly suffer from diagnosed gender dysphoria and not anyone, as well as for women in menopause, is something I can completely get behind. It's important to note that women need to be careful because it could lead to death. The hormones in the medication are similar to the hormones in birth control and they think that might have caused my PEs. If it's dangerous for me, I wonder what we will discover 20-30 years down the road if everyone who wants to are taking HRT now! It took a few years after starting oral birth control for me to have my first PE. And then about 8-10 years after, the second.)

[@Buckandcheese]

I love how straight forward you were in this video ! Very honest …

[@helixxia9320]

if thats ur dog in the profile pic i just wanted to say how cute it is🐶

[@unicorn14]

Oh Alexis, when you expressed desire to be a mother my heart ached for you. You're such a sweetheart.

[@julieangell9566]

You are so refreshingly honest. Common sense viewpoints are not unkind- they are necessary. Those calling names loudly, calling us transphobic and TERFs are showing their awkwardness and insecurity. You will have your own babies, they just won’t have your genetics. Parenthood is created through loving and caring for a child. You and Liam will be brilliant parents.

[@janemcnaughten7275]

Hello Alexis. Wishing you Liam & Blake the cat a very Happy Easter. As for the " influencers" ( eek ) What a load of absolute rubbish. Boy oh Boy, some people take themselves far too seriously. After having a total hysterectomy when I was 27. I have been through menopause about 8 times. The doctors could not get my dosage right. I think that we as Women should be given the respect we deserve. I also got told I could not have children. That was in 1982. I have given birth twice. My youngest daughter has suffered what I have & she has managed to give birth too. The person has a Mother too, I wonder how she feels regarding the vitrelle her child has been spewing. Jane in New Zealand 🇬🇧🇳🇿

[@FleurPapillon]

It's also very different for females than males. Females are having a major trans trend now, and it makes sense because many females have experiences that they mistake for gender issues as kids/teens. And going on T causes majorly irreversible changes, and has extreme health risks for Females, including atrophy of their female parts. And it makes no difference if a 16, 18 25 year old go on T. The changes are the same within that range. There's no reason to put this many confused autistic girls on T as teens. I had gender confusion as a teen, both of my daughters have, nearly all of their friends have.

[@loes6893]

Beautifully put again. I see your point about the puberty blockers. I don't know if I agree, it is indeed a difficult subject. I am (probably) mom of a 'trans' child (9y, not diagnosed yet). We live in the Netherlands, puberty blockers are being given to children here still. I am very aware of all the side effects they could have and they really really scare me. My take would be to wait as long as possible to start (if at all) with that, but I hear a lot of stories about kids still on the waiting list that are depressed, self mutillating, suicidel. That really scares me as well. And you do have a point about the 'male' characteristics that can be stopped. I gues we will see when the time comes.

[@samanthacarpenter3336]

Thank you for being a logical person with real empathy, the simple truth is that no one really cares about how you want to live your life. As long as you’re not making your life someone else’s problem, pushing your beliefs on others, and aren’t hurting other people with your lifestyle? Most people usually have the attitude of “live, and let live.” So long as you give the same curtesy back, do whatever makes you happier. I think some of these people genuinely need mental help, and unfortunately we live in a time where I can’t tell what’s real, and what’s satire. It’s a scary notion because, there are women who are actually dealing with pregnancy delusions, and genuinely need serious mental health to break these delusions they’ve created.

[@EdyPutnam-bi8iv]

Rage Farming or rage bait for slang is what you are referring to. You can find lots of information on line. It is wonderful that your are teaching people to understand what they are seeing.

[@scotswumin5502]

Alexis thanks for covering this. Its the world of influencers and tiktok that gives all sorts of people platforms, opportunities and exposes the fun and craziness in many. With your desire to have a baby would you want to chest feed, I have a feeling not, but there's a daily mail story on this and it gies me the boak.

[@victoriaaconi]

I've had an idea Alexis should start teaching dance, just going off the fact that she's missing it and I think alot of people would sign up because Alexis would create a fantastic vibe. Just a thought

[@ninatouchdown2500]

My cousin's youngest daughter transitioned. But she had to go through extensive psychological evaluation to find out whether she had dysphoria or not. First after that her transitiion started, and now he is comfortable in his own skin.

[@darkriver4372]

you are one of my favourite people on youtube ♥️ you are just so genuine, you've got such a kind energy, please keep doing what you are doing and keep being yourself ♥️

[@blip-2024]

Mine too! Alexis is so thoughtful and balanced

[@alycefrench5753]

As a trans woman I totally disagree with the person who said that hrt should be available to anyone, because the hormones affect you in so many different ways, especially physically and mentally. Plus the people who do it just because never conform to the gender they've chosen and also non binary people are not and never will be transgender

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

"the hormones affect (...) physically and mentally." Which other ways? It seems to me that "physically and mentally" would cover just about everything.

[@PandaZelda]

Unrelated but your nails and outfit and makeup are beautiful!! I mean so are you in general, but I love your nails especially haha I might do that design too. I’m so sad that you can’t be pregnant and that people mock it. You are so nice and I wish you could, but even if you adopt you’d be a lovely mother ❤

[@cheyennemoran1937]

The comversation around puberty blockers feels like its very different now than it would have been 10+ years ago. Anyone who did transition at the tween phase probably had a better guarentee of be "successful". Parents and children had to go a little more out of their way to learn these things, and when you are forced to do x amount of research, probably had more long term conversations with doctors, probably more likely to have at least a little therapy in there, things feel much more solid in the decisions being made. But now with how easy access ALL trans info/opinions are, how aggressively gender affirming care is pushed etc. it also feels like that success rate is gunna go down and see an increase of young adult detransitions. Now if your kid hops on tiktok and says they feel a little weird about puberty, you go to the doctor and theyll tell you they need this and that. Vs 10 years ago you were forced into thinking about it a little more and had to face the long term consequences more readily. People want to skip nuance and the hard or uncomfortable thinking nowadays.

[@christoebell]

“No successful uterine transplant”😂😂😂 Dark, but funny. Love your common sense, empathy and willingness to try and look at both sides. You are a beautiful woman, inside and out x

[@ijustagirl74]

As a straight women ,you are a breath of fresh air.This insanity is best called out by you as if women say it we get called trans phobic.Im not ,you are a lovely person ,you are good ,moral care for children and you are calling horrible behaviour out.Thank you

[@whiskers1776]

I saw a sad program a while back where this young child was put on puberty blockers and now a few years later is suffering terribly with brittle bones and other ailments the mother blames herself, this treatment is still so experimental this poor child now a teenager is in so much pain I can see major lawsuits in the years ahead

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Yes, that's why puberty blockers are banned in many countries. They destroy the child's health.

[@ashleighbrindley]

Thank you for speaking out Alexis. Im a "cis" woman and I am deemed hateful no matter how neutral i try to be so when someone from the community speaks out it lets me know noy everyone is the fanatical caricatures that i see all the time. BTW youre beautiful and look amazing and I would never think of you as masculine if i didn't know you had transitioned

[@MaloraLyra]

A little off topic but more something to Alexis. As a woman who was born female and is infertile, Alexis dear you can still be a mother and just because you can’t carry your own doesn’t make you any less of a mother ❤️ just remember that! I know it’s not the same dream since I live it too but you can still be a mother and just as valid! (Sorry I just wanted to give some words of encouragement after you talked about that dream)

[@heidiiiiiiii]

I'm currently doing HRT (testosterone) via pellets. My testosterone for a 35 year old born female was way too low and probably has been for a long time. I'm feeling so much better. Everyone should find a doctor who will test your testosterone - it's vital to help the body work optimally 😊

[@LadyVineXIII]

Thank you for addressing how casually HRT and Transgender are being treated. Medications in general are being treated ridiculously casually when so many of them have such massive side effects. HRT is a life-changing and permanent thing. It absolutely should be limited to those who need it for health and safety reasons. Trans represents a small fraction of society and is not the only reason that people go on HRT. There are dozens of other conditions that also use forms of HRT. HRT is also not necessarily a cure all for all Trans just as the various gender reassignment surgeries are not. That being said, it is best to have the diagnosis, the counselling and the knowledge to make the best decision for yourself. Don't just go off what some influencer said because many people are misdiagnosing themselves and the results can be devastating.

[@dragoncrackers7660]

Putting everyone under the same umbrella is one of the biggest problems. Im sorry if it hurts someone's feelings but nonbionary isnt trans. They are different. Its like saying gay and trans is the same. No, its not; its just not the same thing.

[@marcielynn4886]

Stupid umbrella!

[@MichaelYoder1961]

You dealt with this really well, Alexis. And yes HRT changes everything for a person. My mother had to take HRT after her hysterectomy, but you're right - people should wait until at least later in puberty to make the decision that will completely change their biological lives. Brilliant, my dear!

[@robertoldcorn5331]

Genuinely this is refreshing to see. Like I like the way blaire reacts to fake trans cringe on TikTok but her vibe now is more for shock and humour and to people please rather than a genuine opinion or critique but the way alexis does it comes across more like a voice of reason which is what I feel like Blaire used to be but lost her way

[@user-nb8tk6hh6x]

The first person feels like they’re making fun of trans women.

[@umtic]

yeah first person looks like a transphobe troll

[@J-cy8hq]

That “nice white women are just abusers” person said so much but nothing at all??? Like that was all just a bunch of meaningless words 😂😂😂

[@CassTheStinkyChicken]

shocking when we can't tell parody from reality... it's wild

[@s4di.3]

I am a woman who has been pregnant AND lost my babies. Halfway through gestation too, meaning I had to actually give birth to my twin sons with the understanding they were not going to live. I gave birth to and lost both of my sons in half a day. I find it deeply upsetting, maybe even offensive, to watch a *man* cry and fuss about how the ObGyn wouldn’t give HIM an ultrasound because he’s “pregnant”. And then he has the gall to claim he “lost” a pregnancy?? The closest a man will ever get to understanding the pure pain and despair of losing the humans you literally grew from scratch, is having a wife who loses a baby. A man could not even begin to grasp what it’s like to be pregnant, to have a life inside you and to be able to feel that life growing and moving inside you, a life (or multiple in my case) that you loved and wanted with your whole heart, let alone grasp how it feels to have to have that life and love torn from you . I would have given my own life in that moment if it meant my boys would live, and honestly I nearly died delivering them because of the amount of blood I lost. Even women can’t completely grasp it until they’ve experienced it.

[@alliinwonder9675]

“1st sentence I am anger, within here” Same Alexis, same.

[@dani.dee4213]

"sometimes... i just cringe at myself" lmao so relatable. 😂I do this a lot. Or if im in a really bad mood, being so dramatic im like "girl will you just cut the shxt out enough is enough stop being so ridiculous!" My mother thinks i've lost it; she could be right. 😂

[@moosedawg71]

I think the first one was satire/skit for clicks and likes, which is still despicable. It's flat out mockery, not humor. I don't think they are actually in a hospital, nor do I believe they are actually trans. Purely fictional for attention. If not, then they need to be in a mental hospital. I agree with you, I never thought I'd live in a world where people act out and exhibit the WORST behavior possible, and people "like" them for that!! And in cases like Dylan Mulvaney, become MILLIONAIRES for that bad and unacceptable behavior!! Boggles my mind! And these extreme people sure like to throw around the "G" word don't they? It's as if they don't really even understand what it REALLY is. It's not merely just "cancelling" someone on social media...it's so much darker and evil than that, and they're throwing it around and overusing it like they do with all the "phobe" and "ist" words they used to spread their hate. And how ironic and hypocritical of them to accuse and say "Your comfort is not a priority here," but of course THEIRS is?!

[@Blackmail1]

You are so respectful, that's why I really like you and I can see you other than a beautiful Princess ❤.

[@haileyranson8255]

Genocide?!! WTF? And now were being slammed for being nice and kind?!

[@BaneHuntress]

some ppl are crazy :S HRT really helped my mum... I couldnt take them cos I'm suseptable to blood clots in my lungs when it comes for hormone pills, had it twice, I'll pass on the a 3rd time.

[@stephanieroberts105]

My daughter went through precocious puberty. She started showing signs of puberty at I would say 4... hair, breastbuds the works. I took her to our children's hospital in my state and they suggested puberty blockers. Thank God when her bone scan came back that changed their tune. I eventually got told she just produces more testosterone. We never got the puberty blockers. And she "became a woman" this year at 10... so, it wasn't even precocious puberty in the first place.

[@ladabingo7912]

My understanding is puberty blockers don’t just delay physical development, they delay emotional and psychological development as well. I’ve heard puberty described as an orchestra of hormones from which a complex transformation happens. The outcome is an adult human being in every sense. I cannot see how such a delay via puberty blockers can be healthy and especially if this is instead of psychological support. Puberty is when we learn who we are as people in the fullest sense of the word, not just our genders. It would also separate a child or young person even more from their peer group. I find it so sad that we have come to this being how we go about things. It is like a caterpillar delaying the onset of becoming a butterfly before knowing what being a butterfly is all about. Just my view.

[@JBSRCS]

You are correct. Blocking puberty doesn’t just stop adult male and female physical characteristics from developing. It blocks everything…. physical, mental, emotional, social and sexual… from fully developing. Blocking puberty stops a child from developing into a fully functional adult. And yes, I know what I’m talking about. My degrees are in human development. I’ve studied this complex subject for more than 35 years. We need to protect our children and allow them to develop as they are intended. Then, as an adult, they can make their own very personal choices about their lives and bodies.

[@cruel_brittania]

Keep sharing your views and experiences, it's needed. I like that you touched on the teen brain and how it is constantly changing. Studies have shown that the brain is not fully mature until the age of 25! So the idea of someone making permanent changes to their body before their brain is fully finished developing is a bit frightening. I am a Mum and puberty is hard for everyone, regardless, and I think teens need more support through it all in general. Though I think teens have a right to identify as trans or non-binary, I don't think they have the ability to make such a life impacting decision like hormone replacement. If you are a trans teen I think you should have access to professionals and therapists who specialise in gender dysphoria, you should be allowed and supported to live and present yourself as your chosen ( I hate using the term chosen because I don't think it is a chosem, but that's besides the point ) gender, but I would not allow hormone replacement until the individual was 23, 24, 25. I know a few places you have to have lived as your chosen gender for a certain amount of time before you can get hormone replacement and I think that is right. I think having a structure program like that would also stop criticism about Trans being a trend and it would hopefully minimise the few people who have transitioned and not been happy with the outcome and wanted to transition back. This is why I love you, though we disagree on things you bring about conversation, you bring about debate and critical thinking, when so many others seem only interested in bringing about division and spreading hate. Keep it up.

[@Razeredsaint]

13:01 this reminds me of the Marylin Manson coma white chorus in a way. A pill to make you numb, a pill to make you dumb, a pill to make you anybody else, but all the drugs in this world can’t save you from yourself.

[@UeFdblU88c]

What I’ve been noticing as a biological woman. If I understand someone who is trans is uncomfortable usually at a very young age with their biological sex characteristics whereas non binary people seem to be uncomfortable with themselves.

[@mxdahliabelle]

Like HRT, there are multiple reasons doctors prescribe puberty blockers, not all of which have anything to do with gender reconciliation. Only now is it considered an issue (because people oppose transgender healthcare).

[@shelleybeek2181]

The other reasons do not result in sterility. For men fighting prostate cancer Lupron is preferable to dying even if it does cause sexual dysfunction but kids are not capable of making this decision for themselves. And PB have been found to cause longterm damage in women who were given them as children to treat precocious puberty.

[@mxdahliabelle]

@shelleybeek2181 your second point is worthy of consideration. The first point doesn't make a lot of sense, because if a medication causes sterility, it will cause sterility regardless of why it's being taken. And, no, a child cannot make this decision for themselves. Whether or not puberty blockers are appropriate is determined by the patient, their legal guardian(s), two licensed counselors, their primary care physician, and an endocrinologist. Kids aren't riding their bikes up to CVS and buying puberty blockers over the counter.

[@shelleybeek2181]

@@mxdahliabelle PB have become the gateway drug to HRT. 95% of kids put on PBs go on to HRT and this combination results in sterility and frequently, sexual dysfunction. And, unfortunately, putting kids on PB is something doctors do with ease, and frequently after only a short initial appt.

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

@@mxdahliabelle"Kids aren't riding (...) over the counter." Luckily there's no black market for any kinds of drugs.

[@mxdahliabelle]

@knrdvmmlbkkn I'm sorry your childhood was so rough. I never once thought to buy anything off the "black market" when I was a child. Also, making something illegal has no effect on the black market. So, what's your point? I also sincerely doubt puberty blockers are a boon to the black market economy. Far better drugs are readily available and far more popular (i.e. profitable).

[@OBESERHYS85]

It’s good to see a balanced view. The podcasts you do are amazing and very informative! I’ve learnt a lot from you. keep up the good work 👌🙏👍❤️

[@scottosborne2915]

i have lost so many brain cells watch tiktoks like these i really have no idea what any of them are talking about it confuses the hell out of me

[@kekkelpenneypeckeltoot5700]

Two of my daughters wanted children so badly. Neither can have children because they had to have hysterectomies at 20 and 21. People like this more than infuriate me.

[@Kitkatattacksssss]

Can we just acknowledge how absolutely stunning Alexis is now? Like she’s become beauty goals

[@MaxineHarmon]

Thank goodness for another based Trans Woman ❤ I appreciate your open honesty and opinion.

[@i.b.640]

Adrienne Palicki, Jennifer Lawrence and Elizabeth Debiki are really tall too and it doesn't take away from their femininity. It's called being a Statuesque Stunner!

[@briana5772]

The second person must be the biggest party pooper at parties!

[@JohnboyandKaren]

Alexis, I love how thoughtful you are and how you explain your point of view in a respectful manner. I have learned so much from you and how I can best support my LGBT kids. Thank you for sharing your life.

[@kezl3037]

My daughter started her period at 8 and we were advised against puberty blockers as they cause issues down the line. This was only 10 years ago so I have no idea what research they are going on now.

[@dtulip1]

that second one, I can't even tell if they were a male and now female or were female and transitioned to male but got stuck somewhere..what I DO know is they are very very angry for some reason

[@Aussie.Lassie]

I started cackling at your facial expressions when Birdy Blossom started ranting 🤣. Why can't be TikTok trans be like you? I vote for Alexis Blake as President for Trans Media!

[@TC-cr2oy]

Back in the day they were called shock jocks. Radio hosts that would do things specially for the stock value. It worked then and it works now.

[@jennaschifano3302]

I just want to say thank you Alexis, I respect you and I genuinely think you are a good person. You have a very rare opinion nowadays, the fact that you’re brave enough to call this stuff out is astounding. Thank you for being honest and real in a time where that is almost never a thing. You’re well spoken and I love that you show that giving respect equals getting respect. I wish you all the success in the world. Get it babes ❤️

[@Razeredsaint]

9:07 hormone replacement therapy can also be for certain types of cancer as well.

[@GeorgiaK0075]

You're so great Alexis. Love watching your videos. You seem like a very kind and reasonable person. One thing I just thought of... I have noticed many trans women talking negatively about certain body parts - such as hands, feet, jawline, how tall they are. There are many biological and trans women who have these same physical characteristics and this is still beautiful !!

[@mxdahliabelle]

That first video seems 💯% like a troll. I'm not worried about them. I'm pissed off 🤬

[@elizabeth12299]

While I cannot say if that first creator is truly trans or not, as that's not for me to judge - regardless - it definitely seems they are making content that is ludicrous for attention. I don't think that any of their content is honest and it's possibly even meant to be "satire," - though very failed satire. It seems like they are just being controversial for the sake of the controversy, regardless of who it's targeted at - they are poking fun at genuine trans and female struggles, as well as health struggles and more. It's really poor behaviour and I hope that people will just stop watching it - we shouldn't glorify or support behaviour like that. That said, I feel like healthy minded individuals wouldn't really do this type of content, and I really do hope they get all the support they need so they don't have to feel that they need to seek attention in such a negative and harmful way.

[@JosiahDePhoenix]

Just wanna add my thoughts regarding the 3rd video. I do believe that adults should have the right to do whatever they want to their own bodies, even if I personally do not understand their choices. My thoughts have nothing to do with the trans debate but just the freedom over one's own vessel. Wanna do T or E? Sure. Get 13 face lifts? Go for it. Replace all your limbs with mop handles? You do you. I think we will end up in a future where major body modifications is common. Yes, I might be a bit mad

[@thisandthat9710]

You are lovely and smart and articulate... and I absolutely agree with your comments on these mostly RIDICULOUS videos.

[@quackityhq1081]

I hear often from trans adults that they dont agree with puberty blockers, hrt before 18, etc... as someone who's dysphoria is terrible, i cant agree. But then again, i see why you dont agree. I know about the potential risks, and i guess i just have to get over it

[@s4di.3]

I think it is something you will begin to understand more as you get older. The vast majority of kids who experience gender dysphoria end up growing out of it. The risk comes in when you have a child experiencing temporary dysphoria or experiencing something that isn’t actually gender dysphoria. If you put a child on puberty blockers and HRT you are making irreversible changes to their body, and even at 18 years old, kids don’t have enough life experience and brain development to truly understand the weight of transition. Nevermind the fact that preventing a body from going through puberty can cause more problems in the long run.

[@CABS16CS]

The second person I feel is a very angry person who has been hurt and is just taking out their anger on the world through TikTok. A bit sad to be honest to feel that upset against the world. I hope that person gets help because they’re going to have a miserable life. I’m not even irritated, just pitiful.

[@ScouserGirl89]

The first video is of someone who was on dr Phil and I believe the episode was something to do with being famous through social media and the attitude from this individual when they were a male was astounding and sad.

[@starsigngirl9789]

I can’t get over how sweet you are 😂❤ glad I found you

[@morrphina]

On a positive note- Alexis, you are absolutely glowing and gorgeous, purple is your color! I thank you for being such a positive example and light in these trying and confusing times. If nothing else, you give people a positive example of trans women- how they can be so feminine and graceful- and it’s incredibly important and helpful to not only see men with beards in frilly pink dresses. THANK YOU! ❤❤❤

[@jessicagraham734]

They take a hate following as a positive thing but people are only following you to hate you ....

[@ghostthelizard]

HRT is *not* for anyone that wants it. Men with low testosterone may get it. Women with low estrogen may get it (usually tied to menopause and age but not always). And some intersex people may be unable to produce enough of either hormone due to the condition. And of course trans people exist too. But now imagine if a normal man with normal T level wants to get extra T? Not even cross sex hormones. It may lead to issues. Now if he started to take estrogen in amounts that the male body isnt used to he will also experience effects from that and if he isnt trans then like..dont do it. And with testosterone the effects are even "worse" if it turns out the person isnt trans and wants to detransition

[@jennifermcmillan9518]

Alexis, I WISH when I was upset I was like you. I see you say I need to calm down and I’m like dang! If that is angry that is amazing.

[@terrisjarocki4715]

You are the loveliest woman you always have a kind word!!!I adore you