Transphobia ISN'T Attractive | Trans Woman Reacts to VIRAL Clip

[@_samanthalux]

I forgot to clarify in the video - while yes, this man’s excessive expression of rejection is the result of the toxic narratives surrounding trans romance that dominate our country and media, he is OBVIOUSLY still to blame for his actions. Citing this source may explain his behavior, but it does not excuse it. Thanks for watching 💜

[@SophieGreene91]

Samantha thank you so much 32 year old IDF Soldier checking in I had my surgery when I was 17 in Montreal never had a problem passing you look awesome girl Best regards Sophie Greene ❤

[@Silly-goose-Canadian]

Hey Samantha I love your videos I’ve been watching since your early early years and I’ve never had the courage to ask you I’ve been in the closet for several years now and I don’t know how to come out to my parents (MTF) do you have any tips or tricks thank you so much love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🏳️‍⚧️

[@boomdelted]

Feels this was a nice mix of masculine insecurity and a lovely personality who's main trade was narcissism

[@cassiecinders6924]

Also clarifying point: the video is from Belgium, so he is probably more influenced by the narrative here which is quite different from the US. The media and political climate in Belgium is much more queer friendly than that of the US too (it still sucks but the difference is huge).

[@billydelacey]

Nah, you're just being heterphobic. Stop with all the heterophobia and learn to respect normal people.

[@BrookeONeill-qt1rh]

"the majority of women don't think disrespecting other women just because you don't want to sleep with them is cute." i love this. looove. all of the video is very well said

[@tommylamar8119]

Then there’s the other females who do think it’s fine 💀

[@MillyThe_Rat]

​@@tommylamar8119 you know you're the one over here disrespecting women, riiight?

[@MillyThe_Rat]

​@@tommylamar8119 you know you're the one over here disrespecting women, riiight?

[@ryokami_needs_coffee]

Ik this is out of topic, but I read this comment right when she was saying it, and it was magic

[@explosive_nuclear_catz]

It's so hard for men like this to be polite, why?? Is it that hard?!

[@kirbyizlife]

So the way this guy reacts to the trans woman is unhinged, but that clip at the beginning of that guy violently stomping on his balloon in response to the woman saying she’s a hair dresser is also WILD. I know it’s out of context but wtf is this show?

[@Dave102693]

A pop the balloon clone.

[@MayklCekson-sh1]

Men prefer real women

[@victoria_xo884]

This show and one other show (jubilee) are awful lmao

[@theGobFather17]

Idk but it really does show the emotional immaturity a lot of men have

[@alannathomas3471]

It's a show called Pop the Balloon or Find Love. It's on KZbin and totally toxic. There are a handful of sweet moments though.

[@SpecialBlanket]

It's not about him rejecting her for being trans, it's about how crazy and violent he acted about it. That is scary. Even if she were a man and he did the same thing I would react the same way. If you aren't into somebody just don't date them, you don't need to attack them.

[@SomeoneIusedtoknow-s1f]

Exactly. If a woman did that to a man, the men would flock to the comments in anger and pretend women don't hold other women accountable.... Like no women I know, at all, period, are fine with women being sexist, gross, abusive, violent, etc to men. It's scary when people are violent towards you, regardless of gender.

[@salemsmith7085]

this is exactly it! :(

[@seraphina985]

Indeed I can't help but wonder if some of those women might have seen the blatant red flag of a likely violent abuser in that action to. I mean if that is how violent he acts towards a stranger he is unhappy with merely for existing how is he going to handle a conflict with someone he is emotionally invested in. I for one would have no intention of finding out the answer to that question the hard way and would be straight the fuck out of there even if I were cis, just nope don't need that sort of prone to excessive aggression people in my life period much less as a partner.

[@margotpreston]

Yeah, that’s the part that terrified me the most. Like, I get being rejected over my minority status, even though that’s still extremely gross, but when the rejection turns violent is when things get very scary.

[@richardgallagher4088]

Bursting a baloon is violent?

[@diegomo1413]

That clip does so much in so little time, it’s incredible. It exposes the guy as transphobic and, by extension, probably misogynistic, it shows just how readily women in general can recognize that and be turned off by it and finally, it identifies the “pick-me’s” in the lineup 😂

[@Butterflier00]

probably misogynistic? definitely misogynistic... transphobia is just misogyny with extra steps.

[@one7deep7savage7]

@@diegomo1413 Sounds like you need to learn the definition of phobia... because you just said that this man is so afraid of transgender people that he thought he was about to die. And you called him all of that for popping a balloon!! 😂😂 Seriously tho.. This is exactly why definitions matter so we know what the words we say actually meen.

[@one7deep7savage7]

@@diegomo1413 just realized you also said he hates all women. Lol plz stop using these words just cuz you heard others use them. ( Mysogonist meens the HATRED of ALL Women) he probably wouldnt even be there if this were the case let alone trying to date women 🤦

[@thegameowl11]

And it additionally exposes him as overly aggressive and even a potential abuser if you want to stretch it with the way he popped that.

[@heyfell4301]

It's the ultimate show of character and fortunately only three of those people failed it (spectacularly).

[@Emperor-Quill]

Yeah, you can date who you want but you don't have to throw a big tantrum about it. What that guy did was incredibly rude and all it does is reveal himself as a piece of shit to be around. As a dude, I wouldn't even wanna TALK with this guy. Nobody who acts like that is gonna be worth the time.

[@LandonDawson-w2z]

No surprise that Lux spews hate all the time and slanders people. He first hated himself so much he wrecked his body with drugs and mutilations to pretend to be a female. Hate is eating him up.

[@yolandaponkers1581]

You’re entirely right! Attraction is personal and uncontrollable. You and only you have a say in who you go out with. However, you don’t get to be cruel to people you aren’t attracted to.

[@orangeyellow-me1pz]

No offense but I don't think he'd want to talk to you either. Really, if you see this guy out and about do you really think he'd want to talk to you?

[@I.____.....__...__]

@@yolandaponkers1581 Dating nothing, I've been in social events where there were people I didn't like but still ACTED POLITE instead of making a SCENE. 😒 Him making a show of it really spoke to what kind of person he is and gave the girls all the info they needed.

[@sneakydeechey7210]

What gender were you born as

[@LilyJones-mu2cy]

Also important to remember that if a guy is transphobic or homophobic or expresses some other bigotry so openly, he's also pretty likely to be misogynistic and is gonna treat any girl he's with badly.

[@GeLowBrando]

But...that's not a girl to him. It's only a girl to you and activists. To the majority of the country it's a man acting as a woman

[@raymondleggs5508]

That usually follows

[@GeLowBrando]

@todimotska Don't try to make sense of these fools

[@itsannieharrison]

@@GeLowBrando Being trans is not a choice, it's not acting as someone else.

[@mistajaychampagne3415]

This is such a bs generalization with no basis in fact.

[@cosmicspear1734]

Bro, I’m a cis-woman, but when he did that even I gaped at the sheer audacity. Love that most of the other women went “You disrespect one of us, you’ve disrespected all of us!” Now that is GIRLBOSSING!!! 💖💅🏼

[@LaDaDaDeDaDaDa..]

Feeling the pain and threat of somebody else regardless of their gender or sexuality is normal. That man was outright violent towards her. Trans, cis, man or woman, anybody who was treated in such a way would feel outraged, as would the audience.

[@what1._.1]

Fr, I'm might not be a cis-woman but I still live to this day as one and I know who ppl treating them and let me tell you even if he "don't see her as woman" if he can be this disrespectful and cruel towards someone for no reason there's no reason for him to respect you in the long run and I've seen that happen first he was a racist but "he loves me🥺" then he become a domestic abuser and now she is going around the courts to document the divorce papers

[@theonebreadlord]

The first girl who popped her own balloon did NOT hesitate. I loved that moment so much.

[@IRanOutOfPhrases]

Argh! Darn you girlbosses! Foiled once again! (But seriously, spot on, lol.)

[@kissfan7]

Gray hoodie wins Ally of the Century.

[@riley4052]

i am so shocked at the lack of the respect that those 2 other girls had that didnt pop the balloon, like that guy was being unnecessarily violent and disrespectful and they still kept their balloon unpopped like whatt???

[@m.o.4240]

Their karma will be him being abusive to them whether its emotionally or physically

[@moonsigil]

It's very odd. even if they don't support trans people, he's still mean and immature and embarassing so they should have popped their balloons.

[@ajofficial19]

It’s their choice, they don’t have to do that

[@jessicaguarin3897]

I still don't see the need to attack, judge, point fingers or demonize those two girls for not copying the other girls, they must have their reasons for not doing so or maybe they were just in shock and didn't know what to do, perhaps they are neutral or simply not allies (they have every right to be or not to be)..... Here the only one antagonist is that man for his aggressive action.

[@tommylamar8119]

Ur surprised? 💀 how, a lot of females will say they a girls girls but they’re really not 🤷‍♂️

[@ebonyatropus7367]

I absolutely love this and love those women who stood up for her. Bigotry is neither attractive nor respectable, and even if I were straight, and even if I were cis, I could never in my wildest dreams find a bigoted man appealing in any way shape or form, and the girls who do..... I feel sad for the amount of abuse they'd be willing to put themselves through. And shoutout to Samantha, for putting out awesome content as always 💜

[@richardgallagher4088]

90% of men prefer natural women

[@CarterMartin-cu4hu]

i disagree. and before you snap on me, yes i am a straight man but my argument is totally neutral. Where was the bigotry? Second, is it now the jobs of women to stick up for someone whose trans?

[@CarterMartin-cu4hu]

Personally i believe that the trans person was there for a more nefarious self centered reason. I cant speak for any of you, but im sure that yall are pretty much aware that putting yourself in an online dating situation, where 99% of the people are not trans will be a mixed bag most likely not in your favor. Am i saying its right? No, but that is why there are friendly spaces out there for everyone. i just saw someone who wasent interested. He was definitely very extra, but i wouldnt call him a bigot.

[@sandwichqueen]

​@@CarterMartin-cu4hu You should watch the rest of the video. Or is listening to a woman talk too hard for you to do? Also, I'm pretty sure she is there for the same reason everyone else is there. Implying she was there for another reason seem to me like you think just because she's trans she doing something bad. And that's probably why you missed the transphobia despite him literally making a scene out of it. It wasn't the trans person who dramatically popped her balloon due to being trans. Way to blame the victim for existing. If you were a woman, why would you want to date someone who's so rude. When people are transphobic, it's usually misogyny that quickly follows. Typically a lot of woman learned they have to stick together because people like this guy exists. Nowadays most feminism doesn't differentiate between who is deserving of respect or not.

[@PixelatedFox-xo8ys]

Yes. While it is fine to not find trans people attractive, that aggression was uncalled for. What is stopping him from doing something similar with the others? Dude seems toxic as hell.

[@granaures4547]

I appreciate you bringing up "muh preference" because many people are willing to say "yes, you don't need to date somebody you're not attracted to" because it is entirely possible to not be attracted to certain characteristics, or have a desire to have children with your partner. Without fail, though, the ones that lean hardest on that defense inevitably out themselves as being willing to dump a partner for winding up infertile or cry about being "forced" to date trans people. As you said, he could have just said "not interested" and moved on where no one would really mind, but instead made a scene and made himself look significantly worse. I also find funny that the two women who didn't immediately pop their balloons absolutely missed that this is how the homeslice acted while on camera in a full studio with somebody that is not doing anything but existing. How do they think he would react behind closed doors during an argument? So I'm glad they at least dodged that potential bullet.

[@dietotaku]

what i've noticed is that those type of people will come out swinging against trans people saying "I DON'T DATE TRANS WOMEN I'M JUST NOT ATTRACTED TO TRANS WOMEN" often DO find trans women attractive *when they aren't aware those women are trans.* take samantha for example, she's hot af, and these men know it and they would absolutely smash. but once they're aware she's trans, their dumb little lizard brain goes "OH NO A MAN THAT MAKES ME GAY!" because fundamentally, there is no difference in superficial attractiion between cis women and trans women. there are hot cis women and hot trans women, there are ugly cis women and ugly trans women, being trans isn't part of the equation. they just act like it is to avoid that dumb lizard brain gay panic out of the gate.

[@animeotaku307]

That’s likely the reason most of the other women popped theirs. Don’t have to be an ally to realize that a guy like that would be awful to them.

[@andreadamon2197]

Exactly. Even if you don’t care about trans people yourself, you should pay attention to how guys treat lgbtq people because that may very well be you when the honeymoon sets

[@TheNoticer12]

All those women just popped it to not be cancelled, in private they would have no issue with it.

[@I.____.....__...__]

- I try to be polite with everybody because I'd rather have more options for friends (and dating) than fewer options. - I've watched literally _thousandS_ of videos of police corruption and misconduct, and in _many_ of them, there are comments where people say that if the cop was like this in public, on camera, imagine how he/she is at home and worrying about their spouse and kids. Other point out the studies that found 40%+ of cops are domestic-abusers.

[@Sprout_Kitty]

I was in my teens when i started watching you now I am 20 years old now and on hrt woo! I am so blessed be on this journey with you and to have a safe space to laugh and cry at. Thank you Samantha ❤

[@_samanthalux]

thanks for being here 🩷🥺

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Congrats on continuing your journey. May the next years bring even more happiness to you. ❤

[@BEN_Like_This]

@@Sprout_Kitty Congratulations ^^‼️

[@TheNoticer12]

No surprise here

[@caeruleandrew1405]

Proud of you and glad you are here

[@VitoCorleone-tm2qc]

To be fair at least the majority of the other girls immediately said nope and popped their balloons due to his behaviour. The guy who popped the trans girl’s balloon was horrible in what he did.

[@Offender_Man6666]

Okay and ?

[@VitoCorleone-tm2qc]

@ eh? Ive made my points above I don’t know how else to further explain it to you…

[@W-I463]

​@@Offender_Man6666 the comment seems pretty complete ?

[@kellimillionfrei5072]

@@Offender_Man6666and what? The majority of the women has a backbone and don’t tolerate bs like that.

[@siredquinn]

@@Offender_Man6666name says it all

[@witcherye]

he could have just rejected her the normal way, but he chose to be disrespectful, which already showed a lot about his character

[@DoomMan9874]

What because he doesn't want to date a man

[@rilehiggs]

Exactly. This just made me sad, but I'm really glad the nearby girls popped their balloons too.

[@Ayyylien51]

I think it's her job to reject him by popping her balloon though; dude coulda just waited it out.

[@joannalamb4542]

I think he was being totally disrespectful. If he is disrespectful to one person then he has no problem being disrespectful to anyone else that doesn’t fit into his small minded idiocy. I would want someone with an open mind, not one that is disrespectful to anyone else’s.

[@blacxthornE]

also if he's willing to do this in public and on camera imagine what he could do in private.

[@ColinTheBug]

yeah mostly the way he did that was a red flag. he could've just said he's not interested and that's that. but he just had to do it in a violent way that not only shows his bigoted mindset but also that he will be openly violent towards people he doesn't "like" which is bad (especially in a relationship) on so many levels

[@mrkiky]

Yea he was being disrespectful on purpose, which is why he also started laughing when the other women popped their balloons. It was a way to protest the fact that we're forced to join in on your pretending.

[@simonforester424]

Hats off to those other girls for sticking up for her! This could've went south real fast but these girls picked her up. Hats off! 👏👏👏

[@richardgallagher4088]

Most men prefer natural women

[@basementdwellercosplay]

They are a girls girl

[@deamon152]

Because girls are followers

[@MayklCekson-sh1]

Why put a male to female in with real females?

[@Offender_Man6666]

Wrong her no him*

[@murata..]

At this point I'm not upset with the him rejecting her, but the aggressiveness in which he did. I respect him and his choice, everyone has their own sexuality and what not. But he could've been nicer about it, less immature.

[@Olivialovey]

As a trans kid I admire you and it brings me comfort that I have people like me to look up to

[@jeanphilippe8733]

Don't transition. Be who you are.

[@firetube8288]

​@@jeanphilippe8733they are, hence why they transition

[@MikeF93]

more like a confused kid

[@LandonDawson-w2z]

No surprise that Lux spews hate all the time and slanders people. He first hated himself so much he wrecked his body with drugs and mutilations to pretend to be a female. Hate is eating him up.

[@BenniStrawberry_YouTube]

The fact that people are making it about how the other women are “toxic” just because he didn’t accept a trans woman. It’s not about that. It’s about how he had a sharp object in his hands and could have simply popped the balloon respectfully, and instead decided to be excessive and violent about it. She could’ve been HURT. All because he wanted to be cool.

[@Bobcatty]

Ohmygoodness! Project much?

[@Agherosh]

Was he hurt? No? Then why cry so much about something that never happened?

[@yolandaponkers1581]

It was purely performative. You can absolutely decline anyone you wish to turn down. His reaction makes me think he probably watches trans adult content. It’s always the most aggressive transphobes who want to sleep with trans people.

[@yolandaponkers1581]

@@BobcattyI don’t think you know what projection is.

[@eldritchbidoof]

wtf? who is saying the women are being toxic lol? they're reacting 100% accordingly w/ what happened, which was a man showing his blatant transphobia; also, it absolutely IS about him not accepting a trans woman (albeit in a very overt/public display), which I can imagine was super demeaning/embarrassing for the girl involved. So while yes, it is partially about the aggressiveness of his action, do not glaze-over the fact that displaying overt+public transphobia is totally f**ed up.

[@RyuguPrincess]

The irony of the 2 pick me‘s not getting picked 💀

[@v-zr9cz]

they never do 😂

[@N0Bah_D-666]

I feel awful for his future and past partners. They'll undoubtedly be/have been abused in some form. That kind of violent disrespect doesn't happen spontaneously

[@frishter]

It's a balloon, chill. No need for the racism. lol at the person below saying it's assault.

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Yeah, technically him popping the balloon that way could be (depending on the state) considered assault, due to them making physical contact with them in an unwanted manner, and yes objects you're holding count as physical contact.

[@frishter]

@@APPR3NTIC3 You should be more concerned about the guy later who actually did try to assault the male.

[@richardgallagher4088]

Bursting a game show balloon is not violent

[@basementdwellercosplay]

I feel like it's a big jump to say that he *undoubtedly* abused people from such little information. If he came out and punched her, sure I can see that conclusion but being so definitive in something we have no idea on

[@legwards]

My step mom and father just cut me out of their lives for my gender identity... seeing your videos makes me remember I'm not alone or inherently wrong. Thank you for being you ❤

[@granaures4547]

I am sorry that that happened to you, and I hope you can surround yourself with people that accept you.

[@lightingrod5907]

Im sorry that happened 😢

[@SofiaPLikePhoenix]

Sending love your way ❤

[@River_Rune]

🫶🏻

[@sabrinanaves7148]

So sorry, your step mother and father are horrible people for that. They don't deserve having you in their lives anyhow.

[@OjiBogBog]

I understand that for some people trans people just arent their type but the reasoning for it being “oh thats gay because they were once a man/woman etc” confuses me because if we follow that way of thinking , dating could be considered p@edofilia because everyone was once a child?

[@-Kouji]

HELP I LOVE THIS ☠️

[@williamplarose]

fair point

[@joecoffey4199]

That might be the most ridiculous thing I've ever read.

[@kuttapi3255]

😂 10 iq wokie comment

[@Nailbat.Aubrey]

The catch is that those jerks think trans people are still and always will be whatever their agab is. So they don't see it that way at all.

[@comrade_kittygirl]

how could he even tell she was trans?

[@yourfriendlyneighborhoodbi6207]

I'm trying to figure this out too! Like is he just mad she's tall or something and thinking tall women are trans....

[@swagonelevenatalltimes]

the producers probably told him or the whole cast was aware idk

[@fretless05]

I thought the same, as I didn't really even get a good look at her before the guy rushed over to pop her balloon! Props to the other women who popped their balloons; to them, it didn't matter is she was trans or just tall, that level of disrespect wasn't acceptable.

[@danielbutler8103]

I haven't seen the original video, but maybe someone said it earlier. Either on camera or off camera.

[@SpecialBlanket]

Yeah, I couldn't tell either and I'm trans

[@jesuschrist4837]

it’s 1 thing to not be into someone, but to be overtly rude and over react bc they’re not your cup of tea is off putting. if their so willing to be mean to ransoms, does his gf think he won’t be mean to her?? 🤣🤣🤣

[@LilianaStrife]

Good. That person was so disrespectful towards her. Just the disrespectful is gross

[@drinkerofpaint]

I think a lot of that kind of response is some kind of insecurity of "oh no if I don't reject her immediately and if I don't reject her big all the bros might think I'm showing interest in someone who some (probably in his circles by that response) will insist is a man and think I'm gay"

[@anything1456]

yuh, definitely a response because of fragile masculinity

[@Coconut_Prrson]

It's ok to not be attracted to trans women. It is not ok to be rude about it. Your true attitude about women is revealed based on how you treat women you're not sexually interested in. If you mistreat and are rude to someone just because you don't wanna sleep with them, you're just a horrible person

[@musicweeb4983]

To women who think he’s still dateable. If he is going to treat trans women like that you can bet he is going to treat you bad too if you date someone like him. That’s my psychology take on it.

[@XxpoisinkittyxX]

It was very aggressive the way he popped her balloon, no respect and aggressive I can tell how he would treat those he dates, yikes! Love that some of the other women stood with her!! Shame on the two that didn't.

[@cookiepi_on_yt]

they did pop their ballons, the clip was cut off

[@Kappkumber]

I get him not being interested, like you said, but omgggg that was so blunt and uncalled for!

[@starswirlgalaxy]

It was probably explained in the full episode, but how did he even know that she was trans?

[@fku6203]

dude probably has functioning eyeballs or somethin...

[@Ruby...X]

@@fku6203 It's said in other comments that they did introductions. Also you're not quirky for typing that.

[@CallmeAce2]

Damn it, I felt so bad for her, did y’all see her face? :(

[@tommylamar8119]

She’ll be alright 🤷‍♂️

[@Sketch_ISsketching32]

As a trans man, I love seeing other people who are trans, thriving on their looks. Girl! You're beautiful!

[@princessstewart8196]

I just saw the comments on the original short and I'm disappointed by the comments

[@tommylamar8119]

U shouldn’t be disappointed 💀 that’s just how people work 🤷‍♂️

[@eltomy108]

So amazing when the others girls supported her. It makes me feel like the world has a lot of beauty

[@spongecakes1986]

Okay, before getting into the video, place your bets now; has he been hit up by conservatives to talk about being cancelled? If not, will he be soon? My bet is yes, but we'll have to see

[@APPR3NTIC3]

It's past election time, they no longer pretend to care about minorities.

[@cassiecinders6924]

It’s a video from Belgium so I doubt it. Our conservative party has their own systems for being queerphobic

[@NixDuto]

Yaaas them popping their own balloons was inFriNgiNg on his fReE spEecH (somehow) xD

[@Bobcatty]

What? Conservatives don’t cancel trans. It’s the other way around.

[@aaronmichael1201]

Oh, he'll be on some podcast in no time.

[@jacobc9221]

"Racists are just black" is as ridiculous as saying homophobes are just gay. Internalized self hatred obviously exists in both cases, but to act like it's a rule is absurd.

[@Leo.1004]

The show should ask abt preference like sexuality things before getting the contestans

[@yk_kyz]

That’s so sweet how they stood up for her 💖

[@todimotska]

him*

[@WinterC773]

Gee, that level of disrespect and that he clearly thought it was like cool and masculine or something (guessing from his body language) is wild. The two who didn't pop their balloons after, even if he DID pick them, that is an indication of how he might treat them as well. That kind of confidence in being so blatantly disrespectful in a very public setting isn't something that often just revolves around a single issue. Maybe those women aren't trans, but there's probably other things that they could do that he would feel justified in being that disrespectful about. It happens all the time, and there is a societal pressure that reinforces sure, but it comes down to this idea of "oh, but he won't do this to ME, so it's fine," and then that is rarely how it goes.

[@facecheap5159]

“He clearly thought was cool “ don’t start a discussion on an assumption of someone’s reasoning of any behavior makes your argument already seem to made on a negative basis

[@imsuperfuntime]

Omg so rude!! Like girl, just treat everyone with respect and common decency. Life is much better when everyone is your friend ❤

[@LeahPassaniti]

I've never been this early to one of ur videos, woooo!

[@twiggledowntown3564]

Same.

[@Jackie_Sins]

Leah, nice to see you here.

[@InterventionIV]

You should totally make a second channel where you post your gaming stuff. Also I recommend trying out Skyrim!

[@_samanthalux]

it’s in the description bestie!! i’ll post more there soon hehe

[@roberthoovan4130]

Love that game

[@InterventionIV]

@_samanthalux Oh ok great thanks!!

[@lssjvegeta7103]

long live the empire :3

[@woodie3030]

SKYRIM YEEEEESSSSSSSSSS

[@cococovers1333]

if ouwatch the whole original video theres also another guy that almost attacks her but thankfully the host and other girls stops him to protect her

[@roastedturtlewings]

Idk why all my crushes end up being homophobic and transphobic. I obviously don’t know this at the beginning of me liking them, but nowadays I honestly just assume that most boys I meet are going to be like that. The second I find out, I get super embarrassed that I ever cared about them and regret ever telling people I liked them (which is why I also tend to avoid telling people my crushes nowadays). I know there’s really nothing you can do to help, but I just want to see if anybody has ANY advice at all….

[@ki.44524]

my advice is to refrain from crushing until you know them well enough to know they arent assholes

[@nymphia]

Learn what infatuation is. You obviously don't know these guys well enough. Dudes will let you know who they are really fast if you're around friends.

[@roastedturtlewings]

@@nymphia wdym? Around my friends or their friends?

[@Ruby...X]

I would adivce you to take the time to truly know the person before engaging into a relationship. Bc it doesn't seem like you knew them at all if they all turned out to be the same in the end. Rushing things isn't good.

[@ES-gw7zh]

I don't even remember how i ended up finding your KZbin channel. But I'm glad i fell down whatever rabbit hole brought me here. Loved hearing your thoughts on this. And i look forward to seeing more of your stuff.

[@FOXXIE_pi2]

I just wanna say, Girl your so beautiful and amazing for protecting trans people, and just stunning overall honestly I love your hair btw

[@ItzYourBoyEmi]

She's trans that's why

[@hamburgerdog25]

I got a feeling those two women who didn't pop their balloons probably have never been told they weren't good enough because if you don't feel for the woman that he disrespected off rip right there, you've probably not ever been told to your face how much you're not worth it. And that is a shitty feeling to be told you're not worth it, or to tell it to yourself. And it doesn't take much to put yourself in her shoes and think about how that made her feel. Thats why those women who popped their balloons without hesitation are badass and I respect the hell out of them. Those women who didn't, they can stand on the other side of the line that people like them drew.

[@nightowlowo149]

If he acts like that to trans women, imagine how he would act to you when ANY problem arises in the relationship Easiest and most blatant red flag, ever

[@geraldtowler3412]

He was just being a pure asshole It's one thing to say that you're not interested in Transwomen in a respectful way but to completely disrespect someone to justify your transphobia or homophobia is beyond disgusting..that person didn't deserve to get treated so cold like that everyone has a right to choose their preferences but it doesn't mean you get the license to hurt people just because you don't like or understand someone.

[@todimotska]

How did he hurt him? He popped a balloon. that guy shouldn't have been on the show at all, it's for straight males looking for females.

[@Dr_Mortis_SCP]

@@todimotska Actually, the show is straight women looking for men, which is why the women are the ones who get to opt out

[@maozedong8370]

Why are you getting mad at him? He most definitely showed up for a woman, NOT a trans one. Get mad at the showrunners who most likely only put the trans person in there for the purpose of getting a reaction. You MUST think critically about things. Don't just look at something and make an inference about what you are seeing. Truly intelligent people can make an inference on WHY they are seeing it and those reasons can be numerous.

[@Ceilingfan-g2g]

YOUR HAIR IS SO PRETTY OMG!!!

[@Echo_0n_Paws-h3c]

Hello! I am a younger than 14 trans dude and this is my first time seeing your channel and I already looveee it! Love ur energy x3

[@furn_evergreen7351]

Poor girl. I feel so bad for her 😢

[@DoomMan9874]

He's no girl

[@todimotska]

Don't join as a contestant on a show for straight guys as a male. It's not rocket science.

[@sneakydeechey7210]

Poor guy.

[@Strinching]

I watched your videos when I was first starting my transition! I feel so much better in my own body now!!! Thanks, girl! ❤

[@tarinblanding1584]

Sam can you talk about player 120 in Squid Game season 2? There’s a lot of controversy surrounding it.

[@_samanthalux]

im on it hehe

[@TyroneBackyardiagains]

Really?

[@vamp_bat_chomp]

Oh it got a season 2? Was there a plan, or is it a cash grab? Always a little weary of stand alones getting sequels after being successful.

[@tejeda187]

Player 120 is awesome, love that she was badass and commanding the battle. She is one of my favorite characters of season 2. I also love how she slaps the shit out of that crazy woman during the second game.

[@xd._.28234]

I personally loved the representation, very realistic, getting rejected by other players and getting asked XD questions.

[@briclare]

the other girls showing solidarity really warmed my heart. that’s right. we’re not putting up with transphobic men, it’s embarrassing!

[@DefinetlynotKim_chim]

I totally agree.Just because your preferences are different on who your attracted to,doesn’t mean you can take it out on someone who doesn’t meet your own standards in a potential partner. It was so cruel the way he did it,totally disrespectful…it’s not cool to do smth like that,he probably thought he owned that.But please,be for real.Who actually finds that attractive?I can’t understand how some ppl have this hate for something not even do to w them,it’s not up to them and it shouldn’t affect them.They’re people too;no matter their sexual orientation,if their trans,their race or ethnicity.this world rlly needs to learn some respect,and until that man sets his priorities straight he ain’t getting no one.For the two girls who stood there,hoping to be possibly picked,and weren’t…they’d just find out what an ahole he is anyways,even having witnessed it w their own two eyes.I won’t be a bystander or stay silent when it comes to defending someone purely innocent,we all need to learn how to tbh,it’s too easy to not say owt.Srry for the ramble ILYSM girly pop u have a new sub

[@cookiepi_on_yt]

the clip was cut off, the two girls did pop their ballons

[@SomeoneIusedtoknow-s1f]

Okay I have curly hair, and I struggle so hard with it. It's got a lush soft under section and the top side of my hair is dry no matter how much I soak it in hydrating masks and conditioners... Your hair, is like to die for. I love it!

[@StrawberriFae]

As someone who tried to date a transwoman in the past and didn't like it, the point of "He doesn't have to date a trans person" IS somewhat valid. I agree with that. But the way he did the rejection was so disrespectful and aggressive like there was NO reason for it to be so aggressive.

[@colihon3552]

I agree. been saying that it's the way fam did it was unnecessary. quess he was trying to go viral. it worked

[@cheesecakesubs]

yeah there's a difference of 'sorry i have a genital preference' (or even like, trans women with bottom surgery exist but ye), i would never want to date a person that doesnt respect women and that includes trans women

[@icyplatinum1701]

The space between trans and person but not between trans and woman is telling as to why you might not have liked dating that trans woman lmao. (Sorry if this sounds rude but saying you don’t wanna date and entire demographic because you had one bad experience makes you sound like an ass. Imagine saying the same about interracial relationships as well. What if you found a trans woman that passed perfectly and had bottom surgery? You wouldn’t be able to tell, be real.)

[@someanon1984]

I need to find this video so I can see he looks on those two girls' faces when they were the only ones but STILL didn't get picked. 😭

[@benjaminwilson2998]

I’m a gay guy and just because I don’t like trans people doesn’t mean I’m going out of my way to embarrass someone 😢

[@TAD.Artworks]

you don't like trans people or you arent *attracted* to trans people?

[@feli5460]

This man was extremely aggressive about it that it's scary.. Congratulations to him for embarrassing himself in front of the whole world and showing all the women who he really is.

[@daisyeye-c2w]

You’re so gorgeoussss amazing vid!

[@rawr816]

Like if dating a trans person makes u uncomfortable then yeah thats fine like its YOUR preference, but u didnt have to be so rude and over exaggerate it. Im genderfluid so i kinda understand the situation that girl was in, im happy those girls stood up for her, whether theyre lgbtq or not!

[@Cosy.Anjalea]

hey samantha! just wanna let you know, that as a FaB genderfluid who takes hrt and hopes to get bottom surgery one day, you are one of my inspiration, alongside Jammiedodger and Sam Collins. I remember when your voice was lower, and you were still in the middle of your transition and you were still as beautiful as the rays of sunshine! Thank you for gracing us with your educational videos, and helping us all achieve our goals

[@woodie3030]

The fact he tried to humiliate her and ended up being humiliated himself

[@ShaunMichaelW]

I cant express to you how much i appreciate you representing us all these years with class and intelligence girl, its rare

[@Pinecone.beeper]

I just found your channel! You’re super cool!!!! New sub! Great video too btw :DD

[@_samanthalux]

welcome 😇😇

[@Susgoose33]

Not being into a certain type or a person is totally okay, but what’s not okay is not giving that person even a sliver of a chance to even speak and making a scene to the ONLY trans individual in the room. He acted offended that she was even in the room which is ridiculous.

[@Marlenpotato]

0:15 can we just talk abt her beauty😧✨💅

[@ChristinaIssmee]

The way people freak out just because is pure craziness. Everyone has the free rights to live their own lives as they want.

[@xXSageXx_Therian]

im sorry, i know this is super off topic, but when i first saw you, i thought you were a cis woman- you are stunning😭❤

[@Snailey-Sue]

Another therian! :D

[@xXSageXx_Therian]

@Snailey-Sue yeah!! :3

[@Snailey-Sue]

@@xXSageXx_Therian YIPPEEE!

[@SpeckledR0SE]

@Snailey-Sueme tooooo slay I’m a therian >:3

[@Cami31811]

I thought she was too she looks so beautiful

[@Mothy2003]

It is both cringe and weird to do that!! No one is forcing him to date her, eliminate her like you would literally ANYONE ELSE if you don't like her! I've had people who ask me out who I didn't like. Pro tip: You can say 'NO' without throwing a weird fit!!! HUGE RED FLAG.

[@CLOWTISMS]

People defending him with “he just doesn’t wanna date a trans woman” is crazy like bro he was being spiteful on purpose it’s obvious

[@granaures4547]

@CLOWTISMS They're not even defending him with that. They're defending him with their own blatant transphobia when everyone else has said that if he had just gone "no thanks not interested" then there would have been no pushback.

[@sneakydeechey7210]

So

[@explosive_nuclear_catz]

4:14 I love what they did after, haha!

[@brianpereira3732]

Early!!! Love you 💙💙💙

[@chazziegrosshandler]

So grateful for all that you do, Samantha.. You are sooo incredible, so grateful for your positivity always! Love you girl!

[@ville-c4u]

SAMANTHA HAS LEGIT STOLEN MY CONTENT FROM ME AS A VICTIM I AM SO VERY UPSET NO ONE IS LISTENING TO ME!!😭

[@mikearchibald744]

To be fair, with 'entertainment' you never know what is scripted and what is made up and for what reason. "Normal" sadly doesn't get 'hits' for entertainment. They likely were told to be 'wacky' or 'off the wall' in order to get results. The sad problem is that in 'entertainment' its very hard to actually do 'entertainment' with 'people being nice to one another and having a lovely time'. I live in a small rural village and we have trans people working in several very public businesses and nobody even makes an issue over it.

[@salemsmith7085]

tbh my husband is a sweetheart and would have been like the girls who didnt pop the balloon. not because he approves, but maybe out of a sense of “ok i dont want to add to any drama”. he is very progressive but is more like? introverted? internal about it unless he’s comfortable with you. if ur his family he’ll fight against bigotry but if ur his coworker he’ll awkwardly smile and back away and then complain about it later to me. i mean, he would probably not be on a show like this anyways bc hes a softie but i dont think those girls were pick me’s. it seemed like they felt confused and awkward and shit and maybe they wanted to but it was to late? u know? maybe im projecting haha but i wanna hear their side before i think of them as lost causes.

[@ToriALaMode]

I mean they wanted to be picked by a man that disrespected a woman. It's already "well I'm not like *her*, so idc I'll get picked if I stay in". If you look at women as competition in a situation where people are being bullied or disrespected, you're a pick me.

[@deadbunnys]

same. I think what the guy did was wrong, he shouldn’t have been so aggressive and disrespectful about it. but I wouldn’t have popped my balloon either, I’m wayy too shy tbh

[@jan_kisan]

to the two girls who didn't pop their balloons - how would you even feel safe around such a guy?.. 🤨 and to those who did - 😊 you are cool! that's true human solidarity right there ❤‍🔥 the whole format of the show is.. unsettling. it is basically pitting people against each other by design. a big no-no for me.

[@thomasburke9060]

They probably feel safe because they're actually women.

[@TheSinBin512]

"You don't have to date a trans person" buuuuuuuuuut what if I reeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllyyyyy want to tho?

[@plutophantomhive3231]

Bro is circling back into fetishizing

[@chazziegrosshandler]

Also.. I saw the same clip you played with the man with big muscles and black jeans. Saw it on tiktok, and he was just plain obnoxious. I was like what the heck is this man talking abt.

[@vampera82]

I’m a really big Ally when it comes to this stuff. I know trans people and some of my friends who are in fact in the LGBTQ+ community and to see this happen actually annoys me so much. I understand not wanting to be with someone cause you just don’t find them attractive but the way he was so aggressive about getting her out was just so wrong, all of them deserve an even chance on the playing field and clearly the guy didn’t understand any of that or even try to. My heart goes out to the girl who’s balloon got popped, you really don’t deserve that at all and you should feel comfortable and attractive how you are without a dumbass man telling you so.

[@Gharbad_the_Weak]

Can someone explain to me what is happening here? Like seriously, how does Sam's hair fall so straight and then curl so elegantly past her shoulders? Please, I have long hair and no one taught me how to do stuff unto it so my shit looks like a bog witch's rug.

[@sandwichqueen]

I don't know if her hair is originally straight, curly, or wavy, but you could use a hair iron if you have curly or wavy to straighten it, or a curler to curle it if straight. Some hair actually naturally does that, like mine. Just remember not to heat your hair too long as it could damage it.

[@soulangela7154]

I saw sandwichqueen's answer but just wanted to offer some additional ways to make your hair curl! I have light curly/wavy hair so after making it wet, brushing it out and then crunching my hair with some product will usually make it stay pretty well. I use Yves Rocher Botanical Balm leavi-in repair care which is around 15-16 euros. I don't use a lot of it so one tube has lasted me a whole year already. On days that my hair is very straight and I want it to curl more I will make it wet and then put curlers in! I usually just let my hair airdry. The hair on the top of my head usually just stays straight. I hope this helps!

[@TheRedAzuki]

seems like just a curler

[@truckkun2]

It's a trans woman and that's probably not her original hair.

[@infinitism576]

I didn't even register that you aren't a natural woman, nice transition girl! Keep it up!

[@SweetEvaporation]

omg I haven’t watched your videos since like 2020 lol

[@_samanthalux]

welcome back 🤩

[@Jasmin1990z]

Yea going on a dating show is weird if they dont know. Honestly most straight men are attracted to trans people something I have experienced first hand since starting my transition. I never push people though I just take the compliments, I also think being attracted and sleeping together are two different things.

[@hi_its_ross]

hey samantha !! i haven't watched your stuff in a while but i've feeling really dysphoric lately and your stuff has been helping me through it

[@Berry_Pie-b7e]

6:02 what I thought fr

[@GresSimJa]

Shows like this already appeal to the bottom of the barrel, so I don't expect the brightest minds to sign up for them. Poor lass deserves better. As an aside, this is a Belgian variant of the "pop the balloon" game shows, and the contestants are speaking Dutch. I think there are subtitles on the original video, so you can get some context.

[@danielbutler8103]

5:16 No sure, but the others might have been to confused or thought maybe he knew her.

[@SpecialBlanket]

Yeah, I agree, to me it isn't that obvious that she's trans

[@renaria3160]

I'd be confused, too. I would NOT be able to process that level of disrespect so quickly, and I'd probably even gaslight myself into thinking I spaced out and missed a whole ass interaction 💀

[@CamorenCalbeck]

I thought they looked frightened or startled into freezing, but it might be Pick-Meism

[@Hybird7895]

It shows all he cares about is the body

[@Harmony270]

What happened to the nails? I just noticed in the intro when no tapping.

[@dietotaku]

sometimes she has her nails done, sometimes she lets them breathe.

[@giraffecrafted]

I LOVE THIS UR AMAZING‼️

[@MuddyHyena]

Hours late to a Samantha video ugh🤧Am I a true fan?

[@Choso-s4k]

Your so beautiful! New subscriber alert and I luv your personality

[@Kittyy_kat_666]

Im early to the QUEEN ✨

[@kemi_smith]

I love the other women's reaction! Also, in my personal experience, men who are homophobic/transphobic are also raging misogynists or have the potential to be. Like, if he disrespects this other woman to such a degree, he's going to treat you the same exact way.

[@MultiMod500]

2:03 the clip is actually shown here