Hot Girl Intervention w/ Nikki Glaser | Ep 111 | Trash Tuesday w/ Annie & Esther & Khalyla

[@DanRyanCarter]

Donut being this silent guest who's always on another planet cracks me up so much

[@tenakoe4258]

I hate to break this to you. But there aren't any other planets. Trust me I know.

[@ceecee3526]

More Donut please

[@tenakoe4258]

@@ceecee3526 Good girl Just breathe

[@ProfessorMoriarty_done_kilt_Q]

Remember Elvira from Tiny Toons lol 😂

[@BairdJeans]

Nikki is a good fit for Trash Tuesday with how explicitly honest she is 😂

[@alwaysamy4]

Yes. A great fit. Like this could be a thing…

[@tenakoe4258]

She's not blonde. She's not a girl She's not even a comedian Her real name is Sasha & she won't admit she's madly in love with me. Yeah she's a straight shooting soldier of truth alright.

[@tileavenue6911]

YESSSSS talentless K isn't on this episode 🎉🎉. I'll actually watch this

[@goforward8697]

She gave me anxiety

[@nicematerial]

Perfect fit

[@UncleKikiOfficial]

This was such a special podcast .. as cliché as it sounds, hearing you guys speak on your own struggles is so comforting.. I’m struggling mentally rn, and this was like a warm hug

[@tenakoe4258]

If it didn't sound so cliché calling your comment cliché. I would call your comment cliché. But I'm cutting edge & the rules don't apply to me.

[@nebo2073]

But not sure if any of them are good for marketing betterhelp (besides Annie), their therapist and anything about mental health since with all the "help" they get the results are not impressive to say the least...

[@Ove08]

And it makes it so much better voldemort isn't here faking a story so we can hear these powerful women speak facts about thier lives and real struggles fucking loved this pod so much.

[@rydz656]

What else is new?

[@itaintmuch]

Nikki speaking so open and honestly is SUPER refreshing.

[@amyrod2380]

I absolutely died when Esther yelled and Donut got startled and shot up out of his comfy spot 😂

[@tauruspainter]

Donut is a femme queen she/her

[@a.r.k7863]

In regards to 37:00 after you've managed to intellectualize your trauma, the next step is somatic therapy, which is about connecting yourself to your body so that you could finally feel those feelings and move on.

[@brendablu88]

wow I relate to Nikki so much, when I'm deep into my depression, I turn into a complete nihilist and start hating on the state of the world. I do cry a lot but I'm completely emotionless the next day.

[@David.5.6.7.8]

Annie is the queen and king of quick funny quips. She never fails.

[@tenakoe4258]

She couldn't get me to blow. Tried everything. The mind was willing but the body wasn't having it. I fully blame her.

[@DarkEden888]

Hearing y'all struggle with anxiety hits home. If you are dealing with anxiety...DO NOT TAKE XANAX. Xanax makes the anxiety ten times worse and getting off can kill you. I've been off 5 months and I feel so much better . Love all of you reading this. We are all connected 💫

[@alwaysamy4]

This was so good… hearing three smart young women work on themselves the way the three of YOU are is great. Such a good vibe ❤

[@DanRyanCarter]

These women getting together and talking it all out in a supportive way like this brings me so much joy ❤️ There is a long wide shot during the banana break where we can see Esther and Annie listening very attentively to Nikki and it's like medicine for me to watch.

[@spohntube09]

Please get Duncan on here!

[@lesly7982]

I really appreciate you guys sharing your experience with mental health and relationships. As a 21 yr old I’ve been struggling a lot with those things and hearing you guys talk about it made me feel more human 🥹 love you guys

[@andreazumbach4075]

Pete laughing at Esther calling him a normal person was everything

[@MARK-hk7bh]

Niki is fucking flawless and hilarious in any podcast she features on

[@tenakoe4258]

Apologize & she might forgive you.

[@smoran6579]

The last comedy show I saw was because they announced they were coming to my city during a podcast. I would never have known otherwise.

[@Lberry101]

I’m freaking out at how many things Nikki is saying about her relationship issues are literally the SAME as mine. It’s blowing my mind. Thank you for sharing Nikki!

[@karlapaiz3376]

She was saying so many things that I deal with but she was able to articulate them. Thanks gals.

[@nfbconnect]

I had someone share about suicidal ideation showing up through more ADHD or OCD processes too. It just reminded me of what Nikki and Esther were kinda talking about. It's really refreshing to hear ppl talk about this so openly btw. Without it being so intense or having a LA wellness check happen mid podcast haha

[@MeowCdn]

45:27 aww the way Donut gets startled by Ester 😂

[@ToniPassaglia813]

I read something once about the gray area of being depressed/suic*dal. Like you've never tried but you've thought "it would just be better if I wasn't here" or "I don't want to be here anymore" I am glad Nikki is so open about this stuff. I love her. What a great recurring guest.

[@FukYaLyf]

I’m fairly sure that’s depression. Not wanting to end your life but giving up all motivation for life

[@acuteangyll]

dude the depression talk was so fucking validating. logically, of course, i know none of us are alone in these heavy feelings but it felt soooooooo good to hear these beautiful people going through their beautiful struggles too.

[@Greeneyedvngel]

Omg I’ve never felt the “looking over my balcony” more lately too Nikki lmao

[@Z666-d6c]

Love Esther’s Lana Del Rey shirt! 😭❤️ Stream Did you know that there’s a tunnel under Ocean Blvd

[@nottilatequila]

This was truly my favourite episode ever. Nikki literally put so much of what I’m feeling (and a lot of my friends) into words 💗

[@Dr.BrandonFromhoff]

What a great episode, I love Nikki, so interesting, real, and refreshing.

[@tenakoe4258]

Stop it Brandon, Nikki doesn't even love herself. What makes you think you're special?

[@kamalwalker4324]

Needed 2 hours of this!

[@hdog4474]

At least 🥹

[@brookekalman7101]

I have never felt more seen than this fucking episode. I mean the stuff I’ve never even tried to articulate to friends or denied feeling to myself. Thank you

[@RebelTheUncanny1]

cringe

[@tinaisrad]

This is by far the very best episode of Trash Tuesday I've seen (and I've seen them all, except when they were having tiktok influencers acting like trained therapists). Nikki brings out the best in both of these women, it's a true joy to see.

[@BradAaronTaylor]

🙆🏼‍♂️ This cast gives me life.

[@racheldare1313]

I just love Nikki so much and honestly love how she broke down the cost of hair and makeup in your industry. Legit love those details that y’all gotten deal with in Hollywood!

[@N3onDreamz]

I’m Sudanese and when Nicki said “at least I’m not living in Sudan”, I jumped! 😂 Lol it’s wonderful but also very politically unstable right now so fair enough!

[@N3onDreamz]

I can’t post any links but while you’re here, donate to Sudanese migrants 🫶🏿😊

[@vanwho6491]

Lol me too

[@creese6129]

This was brilliant. Just loved it. Thank you for doing this

[@singletinylittlepieceofgar8387]

That mini toy poodle pup is half the size of Esther. So cute ❤

[@tenakoe4258]

That's nikkis left labia

[@LaurasWhatKnots]

Nikki’s always my favorite guest!

[@chloebamm]

Love this one. I love Nikki and y’all compliment each other so well

[@grgjrmarlla430]

Watch over Nikki. I hope she always raises herself out of personal crisis. Nice episode-

[@nadiasoho1]

Love you three together ! Been a great listen. A trio of different comedic flows is so nice 👌🏽

[@k94398]

Now this is the podcast!!!

[@lovelala6861]

I loved this pod. Y’all are real and funny.

[@latobat9989]

Anytime 1 of the 3 is away, feels like something is missing... still a good episode. come back KK

[@DeeDee-wb6zy]

Donut sleeping is the most adorable thing ever ❤

[@nah96]

PLEASE make merch that says “ur anxiety is lying to u” i would buy so fkn fast!

[@hannahcasey1999]

LOVED this one!! Thanks for talking about mental health issues in a hilarious way! I love y’all! 🐌 🐌 🐌

[@belle6718]

donut are you okay? i can no longer not address her slurping up her boogies lol

[@richr4611]

Ester looks like the scream mask high. 😂

[@breakfastattiffanys741]

I feel like she is shrinking ? Did she lose weight?

[@dot_t]

Nicki please get help. I lost my Mom to suicide and just hearing you talking about suicidal ideation and depression is really scary! It's a Final decision for a temporary circumstance. Anyone suffering with these issues, PLEASE REACH OUT!!! You are Loved and you are Not Alone! ❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨

[@masterkush161]

Trash Tuesday with Annie and Esther and a guest is the best episodes

[@selenagreene3047]

Love you ladies! Always like hanging with the girls with no pressure to talk lol. Also totally get Esther the knowing the problem thing but it does get better or it did for me in some ways so far after I learned how to forgive myself or be objective - we were just dealt these cards

[@prostreetowner2789]

The three of you should start your own pod. " Cougar Tuesday "

[@TylaSpida]

Very creative name there bud

[@ErikDC543]

Or "suicidal thoughts"

[@SalaciousBCrumb-md3lk]

Or "Damaged"

[@innnews6299]

No need. They all are already cougars.

[@teneeley]

Esther looks 12, she's not a cougar.

[@kosiii]

We all know our own key to happiness. Happiness over everything, i hope you find this Nikki ❤️🎰

[@junebugandjohnnyass]

Always love whenever Nikki is on, she’s such a natural fit

[@Dumballa]

Appreciate all the open on honest discussion ladies.

[@kfc872]

I could actually watch this episode

[@davidprins9401]

Thanks for being real about mental health ✨

[@Officiallysabrinah]

Nikki should be a staple to this podcast there so amazing together

[@HighPriestessHealing]

*loveeee this trio so hard* ❤

[@HighPriestessHealing]

Missing Khalyla of course ❤❤❤

[@SWHBOYCE]

" Good mawning Julia ..." - Joe here !!! 😁🤑😘....

[@rosewise5817]

If you guys havent watched "ladies and tangents" i think ud really like them guys, but at the end of there pod every time they close out they say" dont act on temperary feelings" i love that and its been helping me a lot!❤ but guys this is the type of raw ugly honesty i wish i was aloud to talk about with people i love and care for sadly most of them are so ashamed of it.... Anyways this was a great episode it felt like i was hanging out with friends so thank you!❤❤❤

[@Littlemissjack28]

Poor Donut 45:27 😂😂😂

[@DanRyanCarter]

I think the solution to what Nikki is saying about always assuming that people only like you because you presented a false version of yourself, is to prove yourself wrong. Don't do whatever things you think are "tricking" everyone into liking you, experience it being false, and retain that evidence. There's a quote about the treasure you seek being in the cave you fear to enter, and I think it applies.

[@AshleyB-s9r]

Great conversation! Love the ep!

[@Naejakire3]

So, a relationship does have the opportunity to heal emotional trauma. What happens though is that it takes a toll on the relationship. Through projective identification, we will recreate our past trauma with a partner, hoping we will get different results. If they leave us due to all our shit? It reinforces the past trauma. If they stick through it? It can heal it. The problem is that many leave because of our crazy shit lol.

[@ElleJay48]

Donut just sitting there absorbing wise knowledge 😂

[@RodieChowda]

Love you ladies and absolutely LOVE Nikki! Nikki don’t ever feel like you aren’t as funny off stage. I watched your reality show with you and your family. I think you are the best just being you. And that Shallow cover you did with your dad? I laughed with joy through the entire thing. Wish there were more seasons. Love ya to bits.

[@RodieChowda]

Ps I enjoy you so much I paid Amazon video cash to watch your show. Lol ❤

[@aiseruchaan]

This was such a nice episode. Very intimate, hits too close to home.

[@AnaspaceshipShow]

i want Donut to be my meditation teacher!!!! I love you nikki, you are so amazing in interviews...you are so healing to me when you talk about your depression...love you forever

[@evanedwardsen7849]

From experience with depression getting out of bed became more difficult and the habit grew until i had difficulty moving. The awareness of the extent of the problem that could occur. Putting will effort to change the habit to attempting to do things to improve. When the tone of depression in the morning with a pondering and loss i recomend putting in the effort to have a path of existence doing things so the ability to move exists at a will power of a ability instead of not mobile depression. When there is not a difference between bed and moving with horrific violence and threats that continue to degrade attempts to improve. I wrote esther about some issues with what i think could be improved. I do not play because i do not condone slavery. I do promote improving the universal wellbeing and when there is credibility of concern and attempts to improve things i try to promote a loving community as a idea and example.

[@Polyfusia]

Esther purposefully brings her outrageously cute dog on the show and puts it in her lap so she automatically becomes the centre of attention. I start missing what other people are saying because I get distracted watching that little guy.

[@mollousha]

I love Nikki sm I actually gasped when I saw this title lmfao

[@lioneyes25]

Favorite episode so far.

[@emmalinebirtolo2958]

Esther - please read "The Untethered Soul" by Michael Singer. I have had severe anxiety from my thoughts before reading this book. It's very helpful and an easy read.

[@teddycat10]

Love the Lana shirt Esther 💖💖

[@101forthefun5]

with the red nails 😍

[@ChrissiPuk]

I have a whole new respect for Nikki Glaser!

[@missmyoldhandle24]

a trauma therapist can help all of you. It's not about KNOWING what's wrong; it's about a professional helping you feel your past and using your present self to give your parts safety. You need an EMDR therapist

[@missmyoldhandle24]

@@marciestoddard730 yep! Learning EMDR, practicing qi gong and studying under van der Kolk not only changed the way I treat my clients but altered my entire outlook on who we are as a species

[@steveknick1978]

Dr. Drew told Nikki this exact thing (EMDR), I think it was when she was a guest on Dr. Drew after dark on YMH channel. If she didn’t listen to him, probably doing no good for anyone else to say it.

[@Kbwintyy]

About halfway through the podcast donut does not move for a while and I seriously thought it was a stuffed donut look alike sitting next to Esther for a second 😂

[@XxxgrungyxxX]

And then this happens... 45:26 😄

[@Kbwintyy]

@@XxxgrungyxxX right 😂 i was like SHE LIVES!

[@chelseadonae8601]

This episode was just so good 👌❤️

[@travismorris9303]

Hey ladies, I'd like to suggest a guest for Trash Tuesday....Kiowa/ Apache comedian Adrianne Chalepah. She's super smart and funny, she was in a scene with Bobby Lee in Reservation Dogs, she would make an awesome guest for you guys! ❤

[@cj434]

esther pathologizing her constant usage of "i wanna die" is so funny like there's nothing wrong with you... you just always speak in hyperbole

[@irie_444]

this has been a great ep

[@GrandmaDaewood]

Yo. I know for me, one of the biggest boosts for my mental health is exercise outdoors, especially in the sun with someone you love, person or animal. And minimizing porn time has helped too. Also, doing work in service of others helps. Idk… I hope y’all are doing well. And good luck today!

[@nicksilver_music]

I have songs that help me cry, songs that make me cry everytime, NF-Happy Music Video will do the trick 😢

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

If you have depression take B12 and B3 or just a B complex. It will help.

[@Mitth.Raw.Nurudo]

Jesus I relate to Nikki SO much

[@nataliem4570]

Anyone know where Esther's Lana top is from?? I love it 🥺🥺❤️

[@YeaItsMeMatt89]

Ester IS the podcast

[@Sleeve_that_rare]

Please get Duncan on ❤

[@tytyterrell]

Can this be the new permanent cast? Thanks

[@mynamesdan2164]

This a million times! Yes yes yes! Khalyla who? 😂

[@nevets3889]

Too ugly

[@hdog4474]

I missed Khalyla 🥹💝

[@Anandalii]

Sounds like Nikki and her bf fell into the anxious/avoidant trap. Glad they’re working on their communication that’s the way to do it otherwise it would never work

[@illuminatingwild]

As an adult you should not be physically hurting yourself. That needs to stop. Scream in a pillow. You gotta get out of that. Your body does not deserve pain just because your mad. This was a pretty good podcast. Some very interesting topics def some hit home love you guys and your guest!!!

[@mandoville]

Annie gets it with the Hell reference...Ghost/Demon in the Machine...Anime Knew

[@jta1973]

Esther is one handful of shrooms away from joining Scientology.

[@Naejakire3]

I learn about shows from their podcast or their ig. Never from morning shows

[@RoseEyedMaiden]

This episode is THERAPIZING ME

[@banshackopar]

I feel like I should leave n give them privacy. I think I saw Annie translate for Esther a few times and start literally talking when she gets tired. It's kinda sweet.

[@RoseEyedMaiden]

I relate so much to Nikki with the like "I wanna kill myself" and then I cry for like two minutes and I'm totally fine. Maybe the bad feels I have day to day get stored in some of the water in my body and the only way to feel better is to release it through the eyeballs...

[@Bokertko]

"If you ignore me I'll hurt my self" is the most manipulative, emotionally insecure/immature, and just over all lame, gross thing to do and say to someone. You're only threatening to / hurting your self to get your way and trying to get people to feel sorry for you because you're not getting your way. It's like a child throwing a temper tantrum banging their fists on the floor. I'm not trying to gate keep self harm there's all different facets of it. But don't say your doing it because you want to hurt your self out of not having emotional outlets or feeling worthless when really you're doing it to manipulate the good and humanity in another to get your way is horrible. Instead of just talking like an adult and figuring out if you can fix the problem that way. These games are stupid and disgusting, I'm a fan of Nikki but grow up.

[@FukYaLyf]

It’s the same as when you self harmed, IT’S A CRY FOR HELP. It’s actually funny you think there’s a difference

[@mirandah8864]

I did not interpret that as her literally saying that to her partner. It sounded like she was verbalizing a depressive feeling she has when she's in the circumstance where he's ignoring her. Based on everything else she said it seems like she and her dude are doing good and she's managing those tendencies in healthy ways even if the depression isn't gone and his behavior of needing to be alone hasn't completely stopped.

[@Bokertko]

@@FukYaLyf it's not the same. A cry for help isn't manipulating someone to feel bad for you to control them. If your entire reason for doing it is to control the other person that's manipulation. A cry for help is a cry for help. I have plenty of experience with both cases and it's not funny it's actually sad, that you don't realize the difference.

[@FukYaLyf]

@@Bokertko You and her resulted to self harm when your needs or wants weren’t met, YOUR THE SAME. That’s why it’s funny. Who is to say she wouldn’t self harm? Are we suppose to just call her and your bluff? She clearly has adandonment/rejection issues (possibly even a personality disorder) BUT IT’S ALL MENTAL ILLNESS.! Your trying to create levels to mental illness as ‘whats acceptable’ which is just silly

[@Bokertko]

@@FukYaLyf hey if L doesn't change their comment and agree with me and also make me their spouse I'm going say that I'll hurt my self. That's not a cry for help that's manipulation.

[@seahawks337]

Three of the best!

[@gscca966]

what type of dog is that? Miki? it's the most precious thing ever!

[@seahawks337]

Esther is a great interviewer

[@nadiathbc]

Can you babes please come to Denver? We need your trash girl energy here ❤️