Trimming Spillers, Sowing Alyssum and a Request for Kindness 💕

[@visitourgarden]

I FULLY support you on this! Sorry you are dealing with that. Sometimes people forget we are just normal people over here making light hearted videos in our back yard and not everything typed out is read as kind 💚

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

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[@janiceshea1129]

Oh I’m so sorry you had to address this! But your right be kind and helpful I love your positive and cheerful you

[@marleneegan-hm7lr]

Now it makes me wonder if I’ve ever been blocked, I certainly hope not because I love Janey for all of the obvious reasons, mainly because of her genuine and lovely personality. I even watch if the topic might not interest me because she is so wonderful. Please give a thumbs up if you see this message! 😂

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

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[@abeerali7834]

Sorry for this long comment. I’m sorry you guys are having to deal with such a sample, and fully understand your frustration. Please allow me to advice everyone reading this: 1) Some people are socially challenged and they don’t have the ability to filter anything. They seriously lack that aspect and can’t control it. Can you imagine their homes and their lives? And for others, it’s difficult to see that fine line, therefore they end up crossing it without knowing. 2) KZbin is international. So when factoring in world’s population, we really don’t know the sorts of cultures are watching. I’m from Kuwait, a fan of your channels for obvious reasons. I travel a lot and I’ve seen things 😊 Cultures are extremely different than your part of the world. For example, in India, it’s socially acceptable to pick your nose in public when it’s a no no at a neighboring. Respect is expressed in so many different ways, like when compelled to kiss the hand of an older person or taking shoes off when entering homes or even saying a prayer before entering a bathroom. Yes, and it gets weirder 😊 what’s acceptable at some places are not acceptable at others. 3) Another example to continue #2, my first language is Arabic. A very small percentage of people in my country has a good enough English. The language barrier for a lot of people can also play a huge role when trying to express their thoughts, opinions, or feelings. So couple that with the socially challenged and you might end up with a monkey jumping over the place 😅 This also goes for language tones that are acceptable in some places are not acceptable at others. 4) Not for the normal person, but as content creators for a main income, extra patience is key. Best to breathe deep and let it go on exhale. Time is too precious to be paused over this. Again sorry for this lengthy thing, please take it lightly, I just wanted to somehow help people expand the patience threshold. Not to lower anyone’s standards, but just to help let some things pass and not to let them get in the way of anyone’s progress. I think the world in the larger picture needs it, especially these days when we all need to come together. I’m hoping you guys spread thing message through your platform, maybe a collaboration would be masked with some fun? You guys are always super fun no matter what, and that’s a gift. And of course you’re free to ignore me, block me, or whatever. But I promise not to do this again 🤣

[@elisabethgilbride8762]

I’m not sure if you knew that this week is National Kindness Week! I love how you are always so positive on your channel, and I wouldn’t change a thing! You are always kind with grace. Remember that if people are negative towards you and your channel, that also means that you made it in the garden world. You should be so proud of everything you’ve accomplished!

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

Thank you Elisabeth! I didn’t know that but how appropriate! 💗

[@ronareid7956]

@@DigPlantWaterRepeat Kind and Gentle, perfectly put, BECAUSE YOU ARE!! THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!!

[@kathleenchurch8147]

Janey, no apology is necessary. Sometimes a gentle reminder is what is needed for a positive change. Thank you for being part of my routine with such a pleasant and kind heart. 💜

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

Thanks for saying that Kathleen 💗

[@lorindachristine3291]

I'm so sorry that you had to explicitly ask for kindness, but appreciate that you did with such kindness 💚

[@bonniehillard6713]

There is a reason your channel has become so popular. That reason is you, Jason and your adorable girls. Janey you always have a smile and uplifting personality. I think you make everyone feel so comfortable watching your gardening. There is no perfection in gardening and always more than one way to meet our garden goals. Gardening should be a fun and constant learning experience. Keep up the good work and be comforted by all the great comments.

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

Thanks Bonnie 💗

[@mistygeller3193]

You are such a sweet pea and I love the joy you have, which is why I start my day with your channel regardless of what time I get up and moving! This truly is a happy place to be a part of and I feel honored to be a guest. Thank you for sharing everything that you do! Big hugs girly 😊💕 and everything looks so beautiful! I can’t wait to see it in the spring!!

[@lynnpurse]

Janey, your 1000 watt smile and your spirit of adventure in the garden is always a great way to start the day 😊 it is a rare treat to witness the development of a garden of this scale from its very beginning - thank you for taking us along on your journey ❤

[@simple_southern_garden]

I 💯 agree Lynn!!

[@maggieann818]

I am a home bound caregiver for my husband who has advanced Parkinson's. The sharing of your joy of gardening and family is a relaxing outing for me. Thank you for sharing and putting yourself out there. Also through you, I have found Robbie, Kate, and many more. I have found joy in my own garden which has brought remembrance of my own mother who I miss so much. Thank you so much! l❤

[@myrusticgardens]

Best quote … “opinions don’t always need to be shared.” Truth!! ❤ I think we forget that just because WE feel like we’re a part of KZbinrs’ garden journeys because we’ve been watching and watching… sometimes for years… it doesn’t mean we get to have a say. ❤ Thank you for this sweet reminder!

[@ScaredOfPlasticBags]

If everyone had your attitude, the world would be a beautiful, peaceful place. ❤

[@susangonet-vk2uq]

I rarely comment but wanted to encourage you about the unkindness you’ve experienced. I started watching your channel in earnest when you moved to your new property and always look forward to your next video. You are very positive but you are also authentic and you have accomplished so much in a very short period of time- especially with young kids and all their activities. I live on the other side of the country in New Hampshire so our climates are very different but I’ve enjoyed watching you transform your space into your dream yard. I appreciate your enthusiasm about all things gardening. Thank you

[@swankyclass8654]

100% support your full statement. Gardening is about the individual garden. Learn, be inspired and keep negativity out. Showing gratitude that any content creator is taking the time to share with us, is wonderful because I have learned so much and now my garden is thriving and my family and friends love it. All that I know is from content creators and books they have shared which also lead me to purchasing books from everywhere, even from thrift stores. Thank you Janie and Jason and all positive content creators, keep going!!!! Loads of love from Texas.

[@jhazperphresh9844]

This past week has been rough on my mental health. Your channel and other gardening channels on YT have been a respite. Thank you.

[@RC-mc6rc]

Exactly why I enjoy this channel! I wish you positivity and joy!

[@UB2004]

I can't believe people are mean on a gardening channel. Gardeners are general good people. Love you Janey, I watch you every day you post 😊😊

[@Yvonne_ennovY]

This. How in the world could you possibly be mean on a gardening channel!?! 😮 So glad Janey addressed this, but so sad that she actually had to do so. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@HoustonKeith72]

Thank you for creating such a positive space for garden lovers! Sending you and Jason best wishes!

[@debbenson5253]

Thank you and Jason for keeping the channel positive. 😊

[@vikkirogers3639]

I love the sign-off Matthew from the Southerner’s Northern Garden uses. “In a world of darkness, be a light.”

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

I love that too. He’s the best

[@jagodaperich-anderson5058]

Yours is one of the gardening sites that brings me such joy and inspiration. It's absolutely due to your positive approach and engaging way you have of sharing and explaining about all things gardening.

[@KP-gw5zv]

Janey, your garden is wonderful and beautiful. You and Jason have done a great job doing everything to your place. I have learned a lot from your channel. Have a blessed and great day. You and Jason both are full of wisdom. A huge thank you.

[@peggyfrommanitoba7310]

Shoutout to all the people who choose kindness! 🥰 Janey, should you ever forget that you’re awesome, this is your reminder. Luv ya oodles!! 😘🇨🇦

[@SuzanneCross-f9p]

Thanks for the reminder to be kind. The more we hear this message, the better our world will be. ❤

[@kdshockley2016]

It never ceases to amaze me that we have to remind people to be kind and respectful and you definitely lead by example. Thank you for all you and Jason do to teach us about gardening and keeping a positive attitude during challenging times. ❤😊

[@taragoodloe4122]

Janey thanks for always being so positive and kind. So much needed in our world these days. Oh and thanks for sharing your beautiful garden.😊

[@cheriberry9633]

I really like the zigzag planter, too! Isn’t it amazing what a difference the color change made?! I love your channel, Janey. You and Jason are a marvelous pair❤❤

[@darlenegera8866]

Love Monty he is one handsome gentleman. Did you know when he zoomies like that around you, he is trying to get you involved in the fun...what an honor that he loves you that much ❤️

[@karinhamann5019]

Of all the garden channels I watch, your channel is the very first one I choose to watch every morning. I live in a different garden zone and climate (Maryland, zone 7, humid), but still learn from you. Watching garden channels on youtube gives me pleasure. I usually don't read many comments because I am most interested in what you have to present and not what other people think,.So thank you Janey and Jason for allowing me to watch your garden grow.

[@BCBRENDA]

Perfectly said! I just love love your zig zag planter! I'm so glad you kept it!

[@cathyluker5935]

Amen!!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful garden and family !!

[@darlenet3633]

Completely agree Janey, well said ❤

[@sivlow264]

We all need kindness these days. Love watching your channel.

[@catherinemoran3325]

I really like the zig zag planter. Janey, the more you work at it - the more interest and appeal it adds to the front of your house. You and Jason have come a long way in just a year to create such a fabulous property. I watch your video first thing every morning. And, even though we are in opposite planting zones - I learn so much from your channel. Thank you!

[@PleasantPrickles]

You will love the alyssum! Even if it is a perennial there, it will probably reseed itself too. It does prefer cooler temps. Mine have reseeded in my pots for a few years now, which is fine with me! I just pull out the older straggly ones when they die back in the heat and new flowers sprout from self sown seeds when it cools down again. 🌸🌸🌸

[@maureenb1109]

So sad that some people can be so unkind especially on social media which is so common, as the saying goes “If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all! And yes it is YOUR garden no one else’s life it’s short be kind everyone 😊❤️🌻🍁

[@tmbrye2]

You are such a kind soul Janey! I really enjoy watching you each day! You bring happiness on this channel!

[@konielliott2933]

I think the allysum with the yellow daffodils will be stunning in the spring. I also look forward to seeing you using more seeds. It makes it easier for those of us without access to the proven winners to dream of success using seeds.

[@debbieprellwitz9707]

Thank you for sharing your garden and helping us learn every single day. Although I am far from your zone, I love watching every single day. I appreciate you and your sweet family.

[@shelleymalone4427]

Janey, you always make me smile. Jason, the girls and Monte are the cherries on top of your cup of joy.

[@malloryjines5050]

Oh Janey! I so appreciate you! You’re probably half my age but I’ve so enjoyed watching your channel, cheered you as you obtained your master gardener and watched you as you moved to a new home with your family to begin anew with a huge property as a blank canvas! I too live in Ca, but the southern part of the state so really enjoy watching you plan and work so hard to create your beautiful property. A blank canvas you get to create your masterpiece. I secretly envy you! Keep educating us!

[@growyougirl]

Here is to more kindness! Thank you for bringing up this topic that is becoming a problem for so many of us! 💚

[@salimorton641]

Dear Janey and Jason, oops and Monty too! I absolutely love how you have turned your gardens around and the care you show us every day! I hope you and your family have a blessed day❤😊

[@JanEdwards-j9v]

You are right, positivity is always better in every way!

[@suesurrency1309]

Monty is one very handsome dog! The camera loves him.

[@denisemcghie9773]

I was just talking to my daughter about this yesterday. Your channel is so positive and makes me smile every morning. I look forward to your videos. I love watching your journey in your garden and the education aspect as well. I’ve learned a lot and have found the courage to try new things. Be kind is my motto in life. Thanks❣️

[@grandmamochi7857]

Janey, I love this channel. Thank you for taking the time to address issues like negative comments and responses and also acknowledging the positive ones. It shows you care about your channel AND the subscribers/viewers. As novice to experienced gardeners, we are looking for practical gardening tips. Despite having an extensive gardening library, I learn something new or another way to apply what I have learned to my garden. I think you should know that your channel is not just a click to view. Your channel is an integral part of my gardening day. I drink my first cup of tea with Robbie, garden, then return for my second cup with you, Jason and Monty. So again, thank you for ALL that you do to make gardening fun, entertaining and helpful. Happy gardening! 🦋🌻

[@JRP58]

Setting healthy boundaries and promoting kindness is so important. I agree that, while we all have opinions, we don’t always have to share them. I can’t wait to see your spring display in the zig zag planter…the combinations should be gorgeous!

[@karen-ep8ou]

I love the positivity of your channel. It is your garden. You love and that matters. Thank you to Robbies Grandma for caring so much about the content. Your space has amazes me with the transformation.

[@annbergquist4253]

I’m amazed at how robust the Dichondra Silver Falls plants are in your zig-zag planter. Even with your trimming of the Dichondra they’re still very full. I’m jealous! With your large garden you probably don’t have time for this extra task but I’ve found I can thin out this trailing plant even more by running my garden gloved hand through the plant after pruning it and giving a bit of a tug-and-tear to thin it out even more to allow in more air and light. Congratulations on all the work you’ve completed in your garden this year. It’s been a joy to see.

[@MonicaBailey-f5y]

You and Robby are so down to earth and sweet I can't believe people could be rude. I have learned a lot from you both. Stay positive and keep doing what your doing.

[@patsampson6990]

Monty is so happy to live in a garden! Zig Zag planter may not be everyones cuppa, but you have made it yours and it is beautiful.

[@katherinelara1801]

I come to your channel for adventure, education, and escape. I thank you for your chat today and for this beautiful, safe place. You are wonderful.

[@Zizzyyzz]

Great message. Can't wait to see what the Silver Falls look like in the Spring! 🌱🩶⛲

[@Gardenmimi1950]

Bravo Janey❤ your channel is always so kind and positive. I’ve never understood why people think it is ok to be hurtful.

[@GardentimewithBel2024]

It's a shame that so many of us on KZbin have to make a "kindness request". Unkind people are unhappy people. You keep doing you. Your positivity, enthusiasm, humor, authenticity and joy is what our world needs now more than ever.

[@donnamantellato4094]

I am so invested watching your trees growing. 😂 can't wait for in about 3 years what it will look like. 😊

[@pamulapowell3951]

Beautifully said! It's gonna be Gorgeous 💜

[@22blueiis]

I’m sorry that people feel that making opinionated comments are making them feel better about themselves. I have watched you since around 350 viewers. I love seeing you and Jason working together in your rural garden! It’s your little garden of Eden and how you see your garden is how you see it ! You’re a very uplifting person. I think you make a lot of people feel better about themselves. 😊 stay with your passion it’s yours and you’re very fun to watch!

[@FeliciaSuarez-b9y]

Janey, Thank you for all that you do. Your videos always add a bright spot to my day. Stay the course and continue inspiring.

[@kmsch986]

I am glad you spoke today about this and that you block negativity. It’s your space, your journey, and I can’t imagine putting yourself out into the public space, it’s brave these days. I had a family friend once say, if you have to look over your shoulder before you say it, preface your comment with “I’m not trying to be mean”, or you wouldn’t say to someone’s face then don’t say it.

[@FrediOlson]

Now, Janey, you know darn well that if you water it will rain. If you don't, it won't. Loved the video and I so support you and your channel. Thank you!

[@MartinHouseFlowers]

Janey, you are one of the kindest, encouraging and most enthusiastic gardener/content creator on KZbin! ❤That alone sets an example for all your viewers. Thank you for addressing this! I have a fave t-shirt it reads: Kindness is Free. My Mother always said, "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" I love how much you & Jason have put into your garden in one year, it's so admirable! You're an inspiration to all of us gardeners!

[@Milah_Renee]

It looks like Monty is ready for a spinoff to his own show! What a hoot! I can’t imagine what that romp would have looked like with a GoPro around his neck! 😂 And watching Monty hurdle that planter made me realize why there were no lizards, seriously, if I were a lizard I wouldn’t live anywhere near a flying dog! 😂. Thanks for entertaining us, Monty included!

[@GardenerPhyl]

Monty’s garden tours! 🥰

[@Milah_Renee]

@@GardenerPhyl Yes!

[@jamieflint2550]

Love your positivity and joy of gardening! ♥️

[@christymessina9877]

Watching the trim on the silver falls was like an asmr moment. Yay

[@susanlateano4202]

Your channel is fun and informative it really got me back into gardening. Thank you!!!! And your garden is so beautiful❤

[@annak3015]

That silver falls is amazing! It looks so thick! Do you think it’s that robust because you overwintered it or would it get that way if just planted as an annual? Also, #teampomegranate and #teamkindness

[@8helenjhouston8]

Thanks to you Janie, I planted my new bed with a yardstick this past weekend!

[@ginnytalbert3696]

Love watching Monty's antics in the garden. He was paying close attention when you were planting the alyssum seeds. I'm sure now he knows how to do it himself, haha! Love all that you all have accomplished in a year and a couple months. Amazing progress.

[@adrianamorrison8743]

So sorry that you even needed to make this , you and Robbie are the best, your garden is so inspiring and has helped me so much after the loss of my husband 3 weeks ago, stay true to youself, always!

[@caroleking1834]

Imagining that purple and yellow will be beautiful. I might like to plant some of that purple as well.

[@sabinegossart409]

I think it looks great! And trimming is something so satisfying. Love Monty.

[@ShirleyMiller-c3z]

I look forward to your video with my morning coffee. Thank you for your generosity and kindness.

[@bmcniven]

I always have a good time watching your channel. Love purple alyssum. Loved it around a white rose this summer.

[@nancylyles323]

Looks like Monty is feeling frisky with the cooler Weather. 😄

[@kathiesagert4299]

I have two signs on my desk at work that say, "choose joy". To me that also means be kind. Love your channel!!!!

[@victoriamathews812]

I appreciate you and your channel. I like to look at your videos when I want to relax. Thank you. ❤

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

That’s what I want to hear! Thanks Victoria!

[@bellaj.4937]

Thank you for your videos! I so enjoy watching you and your garden friend Monte. He makes me miss my little friends. 🐶🐕 They can be so funny.💕

[@konniethrash7834]

Love it when Monty helps you 🐶

[@deemckinney1486]

Praying for you and your family. Heart hurt people that your sad. Love love you’re and Robbie’s channel. So inspiring and uplifting. I have learned and experienced so much since I joined ❤ God Bless stay you!!!!

[@robinstokes3602]

I’m on vacation and wouldn’t miss your videos. “If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything “ You, Garden Answer and Gardening with Creekside are my go to videos everyday your on!!! Monty you handsome boy❤

[@debbyL2210]

I agree with your viewer below. Sometimes a gentle reminder is all that is needed for a positive outcome. "You do you" ....and obviously we all love you!! I've been a faithful watcher since you started and have loved the trip you and your family have taken us on. I love your girls and your new helper Jason!! He's a keeper. We all love you!

[@lisabanasiak1198]

Perfect timing on planting purple alyssum as I was thinking of doing same in a similar planter with luecojems and snowdrops. Also, inspired from you! I'm in so cal so love watching what you plant. Also, positivity is the root of all good! You confronted the issue well!

[@lisah6159]

Beautifully said, I enjoy your uplifting channel!💕

[@WandaHudson-r7q]

Can’t wait for the daffodils to bloom, I love them. They will be beautiful!

[@BrendaBuckert-u1f]

My husband I watch Garden Answer, Visit our Garden and Your show every morning. We sit here and just are amazed what you have done in just over a year. You have a world of info. Don't let the nay sayers ever get you down. You are just amazing. keep up the beautiful work.

[@nadinedupre8069]

Janey, I love watching your channel as well as many other gardening channels. I don't always agree with how something is done or how it may look but I appreciate the time and the work that's put into making these videos for our enjoyment and in my opinion that's worth taking the time to make a kind comment and give a thumbs up. Keep making this world a better and kinder place. ❤🌸🍃🌺🌱

[@paulinepaulcorbin8808]

LOVE your garden and LOVE your videos. You are a great inspiration as a gardener and as a genuine, beautiful person x

[@DigPlantWaterRepeat]

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[@jolindarather5180]

I am so sorry… people can be so unfeeling. I started watching KZbin because I was tired of the negative, mean and untrue TV . I ❤ Your Channel and watch several other channels that are topics I am interested in so I can learn, grow, experience Positive, Happy, Uplifting People! Thank you for putting yourself and your family in our lives. Don’t let a few bad apples steal Your Joy and Ours! 🌳🌾🌸🌻🌞

[@Cyber_Sleuth_Steph]

I don't think I have commented before, but felt the need today! Your channel has brought me peace and relaxation. I found my love of gardening when I got sober, and just want to tell you how much your channel has helped! I love looking for inspiration, tips, etc. Thank you for all of your work, it means more than you know to some :)

[@jdakat88]

Well said Janey. Let’s all choose to be kind. And the deep purple alyssum will look amazing with the daffs. ✨

[@JMB-sassysixty]

Janey no need to apologize for reminding people to be kind and thoughtful with their comments! Your channel is wonderful and like you said 99.9% of the comments are positive. I attempt to read most of the comments because I love learning from fellow gardeners. Anyway enough about that. I feel you trying to find cool weather plants as I’ve been on the hunt for some. I did find some cyclamen at Home Depot and Lowe’s. I think Robbie said he found some on sale at Home Depot. They are a little pricey so it would be costly to fill your zig zag but they might look nice in your white pots with some type of spiller.

[@terricullen8487]

I so appreciate your channel and your family for sharing your garden! I have learned so much from you! I especially love how positive and kind you are! 💕🥰 thanks for all you do!

[@karenhacker2579]

I just don't understand people . I look forward to your videos every morning, and I learned a lot from you. ❤

[@ordiekelleher2641]

Love where your standing. Love your climb on wall!😊

[@ediehickey6083]

I loved the diachondra silver falls last Spring with the supertunias and whatever the purple flower you had in there. It reminded me of a bridal bouquet. Our house in Fresno had a narrow brick planter and it had begonias in it. They were lovely as they were upright AND spilled down the front. White begonias might be a lovely spiller for you. Also, I am on team pomegranate. When we moved into our current house, there was a shrubby pomegranate plant in the back corner. It was so dense that I couldn’t even get to most of the pomegranates. I chose one trunk and made it into a small tree. It looks beautiful and graceful and the branches kind of weep down. Now I only prune branches that are growing crazy or straight up.

[@dianesgardeninspiration]

You delivered this message so elegantly. I’m with you I chose positivity and I pray for those having a bad day. Beautiful job my friend❤️BTW - I removed a pomegranate many years ago and today I regret that🤣 Make it a beautiful day. 🌻🌻🌻

[@TheLARAS-gh4bp]

Bravo!!! You both do a fabulous job and you’re absolutely right about your garden - your show! It’s amazing how much Jason and you have done this year. I love silver falls too. ❤

[@miriam_kathleen]

Ooh, you just reminded me to start Alyssum seeds! Thank you.

[@franbernhards7844]

I’m sorry that you have to do that. Love your positivity. Hugs and tons of love.

[@rafael.galiano]

I love everything you’re doing! You’re such an inspiration to so many people. Keep it up! 🌳🌳🌳🏆🌅

[@FlowerPatchFarmhouse]

You should do great with the alyssum seeds. They reseed themselves here quite readily in the Fall and are a gorgeous bee magnet, so they should love your climate. I just dig up the extras and move them around the garden to fill in. May I recommend that you can use hedge shears to make cutting back things like that dichondra much quicker and easier, being the old lady that I am, it will save both your knees and your back. 😁 I applaud your choice to keep the dichondra. No reason to pull it when it can be neatened up and will be so pretty come spring. Overseeding the alyssum is a wonderful tactic. We had our first hard freeze and snow so my garden in basically done. Love seeing yours still looking so pretty.