5 Things I Wish I Knew When I Started Meeting Girls

[@uyetaranudongwo]

1.don’t put her on a pedestal 2.don’t be afraid of rejection 3. Don’t force it if she is not interested 4.sometimes just starting a convo makes her like you 5.having sex with multiple women does not make you better or more valuable

[@tomeryud]

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[@mega_0779]

I was depressed, you helped me out.

[@theworst1069]

I was depressed but without girls, now I am still depressed but at least have some girls

[@61dodgelancer]

1. Don't put a woman on a pedestal. You'll be too nervous around her. You'll be in chase mode which is no good. She's not better than you. Treat her like every other girl. 2. Don't be afraid of rejection. It's like trying NOT to lose a game rather than trying to win a game. Remember the 2004 ALC? The Red Sox became the first (and only) team in MLB history to come back from a 0-3 series deficit to win a seven-game series. The Yankees were up 3 games to zip. Then they started playing NOT to lose. They were so uptight, they could hardly move. Being down 3 games, Boston had no fear of losing the series. The Red Sox started playing like they had nothing to lose. They were as loose as a goose. When the Yankees lost their first game of that series, you could see they were in lots of trouble. Don't be afraid of losing. Don't be afraid of rejection. 3. Don't try to get a woman to like you. If she's not interested, drop it. Move on to other girls.

[@kmmm9223]

Straight A student

[@fledgling5616]

I’m about to go in on a first date-this has helped me feel better prepared, thank you!

[@prajwalsharma213]

All the best mate.

[@TrippAdvice]

Have fun!

[@fledgling5616]

@Mixzzy she bailed, fml

[@RafaelPerez-zm5qx]

@@fledgling5616 LMFAO

[@vbboyd]

I wish had videos around back in the day when I was in high school and college because it would have saved me a lot of embarrassment and heartache.

[@TheHomeExpert5]

I think a man should go on a first date with an attitude as if he is interviewing the girl for a job. Not being harsh, but simply being neutral and inquisitive in order to determine if the girl has potential. If you are over eager, you appear weak. Being forthright is the way to go.

[@maxshepherd926]

Yes

[@AllenMacCannell]

Yes, but it can backfire big time if you seem disappointed that she isn't highly educated, well read, etc. People can be very insecure about that. Negging is for experts. A newbie trying to neg a woman can find himself alone quickly. It's like fumbling with the pin of a grenade. The other day a young woman seemed apologetic that she'd been vaxxed three times when I asked. What I did not do is say I'd be concerned to date her for that reason. That would be a neg too far.

[@nitrom8891]

Don’t put women on a pedestal 🙌

[@Suspect333]

The thing is all these tips and stuff will just become natural when you meet the right girl so don't stress guys just talk to people and be happy.

[@hammads9045]

You know I realized something about myself: Sometimes I just need reminders. I know how to do everything, and I've done the practice, but I forget once I'm heading towards a date. Whenever someone reminds me (a good friend of mine does this with me sometimes), I get back into my natural zone. I think I'll make short audios for myself filled with reminders... Maybe, Tripp, you can make some short encouraging reminders for us to listen to before heading out?

[@jesusisjerryallahistom]

man, i love not only dating advice of yours but also your english articulation. i subscribe to your channel right away.

[@gabrielrod1253]

Lots of approaches = lots of rejection chasing very rarely works , as it puts them in a pedestal already

[@search4knowledge2000]

Great advice to take with you as you go about your life and getting involved in the dating world and realizing that you are not the only guy who has trouble figuring out what makes females attracted to certain guys.

[@Stephen-bq4nq]

I was blown away by what you said about sleeping with a lot of woman not making you happy I have always wanted strong connections with woman not one night hook ups even when I was young it was never about quantity for me.

[@TrippAdvice]

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[@demonfox0958]

#4. YES! And Im not even trying to flirt or pick her up, but I start seeing increasing IOIs as the conversation continues.

[@likewise4gaming]

The more aloof you are the better. Women like to wonder about you. Be mysterious. This creates attraction. Appearance also helps. Don’t let anyone tell you different.

[@morm2173]

Very valuable stuff Tripp, your a very knowledgeable guy . The main thing is I didn't know how important confidence and being smooth is many years ago and I didn't know this stuff

[@TrippAdvice]

Nobody did. Good news is, it's never too late to learn what you need to know.

[@morm2173]

@@TrippAdvice I would love some some ganja and have some wine with you man

[@morm2173]

@@TrippAdvice I would love some some ganja and have some wine with you man

[@TheHomeExpert5]

A man needs to focus on what he's looking for, a man should not be looking to have sex with a woman, he should be looking for a woman that he wants to have a long-term relationship with. A man needs to be extremely careful, as women get pregnant and then you can be on the hook to support the woman and your children for the rest of your life. Women can do a 180 on you. I mean women that you've known for 10 years can do a 180 on you in 10 seconds. It has happened to me.

[@DaRyteJuan]

True dat, mate.

[@jothimanithevar7281]

So true

[@etherealallure9173]

Are u living in the 1800s

[@TheHomeExpert5]

@@etherealallure9173 no, I just have experience in life and know the truth about what is important. Maybe you are still in Middle School.

[@etherealallure9173]

@@TheHomeExpert5 of course buddy u know what else they teach in middle school to wear a condom which probably u have not had the privaledge to cause ur in kindergarden or idk probably didn't attend school or something 😅were u he schooled ?anyway this is a new piece of information u can add to ur experience btw u have a lot more to learn kiddo

[@andersongeorge4653]

*Wow Tripp this video was the best hey congrats man* !!!

[@leelee3995]

Unbelievably helpful content

[@jaspergabriels8933]

Tripp please make a vid about how to build that emotional connection with her!!!!

[@lihong9389]

This can either way.. especially the last tip.

[@husseinabdelhamid5124]

well said. specially point number 5.

[@giannisvrellis]

Thank you for the information!

[@Assaf_yosef]

Great lesson 👍🏻

[@lucianocalia4470]

Great video Tripp. Thanks

[@KadirMedia]

This is guy is funny and amazing .. great advice!!!

[@kubel83]

In the past I would chase and it never worked. Now I only give a woman the attention and energy she gives me in return. And it works.

[@michaeljeacock]

all people a flawed. yes that includes women. yes even that one lol.

[@mariusrs]

I´ve been watching your videos for some time now and I apply a lot of your knowledge with girls. The thing is I live in Spain and a lot of pick up lines, openers or whatever don´t work here. The very few girls that speak english I have no problem but if I have to do it all in spanish, I´m fucked. And I´m spanish.

[@nobodysperfect06]

These were comments I read in another group, although they do seem to contradict each other and I feel there's a lot of truth to it: "For a girl, "improving her dating life" would probably just mean making herself more accessible vs any kind of growth. I'm honestly not sure how a girl would become better with men other than just being prettier and maybe learning how to be slightly more engaging" "Yeah, women pretty much have it built into their life to improve their social skills or conversation-skills automatically. Whether it's crying for something as a little girl and bending a grown man to her will or the constant attention they have been getting from men since puberty whether it's wanted or unwanted attention, they learn early by doing nothing and grow before we do socially." Just comments that I found, I thought to myself never truer words have been said or spoken.

[@ArunaDilshanRathnayake]

My ex and I are long distance after the breakup. She has friends there. She's having good times, hikes with them. I'm doing no contact. Will she forget me and move on because of friends keep her happy all the time. Won't she reach out?

[@davityeranosyan7988]

thanks from Armenia Tripp.

[@maciejjuncewski2511]

Thank you 🙌

[@PhantomLink16]

Anyone have a situation where you don't do anything at all and or say very little and they still like you anyway? That's been my experience a few times.

[@demonfox0958]

Yup! Im not even trying to flirt, but it comes to a point where they look at my wedding band and ask, "Are you still married?" I let them know thru conversation that I dont cheat but I am happy to make a new friend. If only I knew this stuff when I was a single guy!

[@sawyerr9841]

We can't control our emotions? I really am not so sure about that. We can control our libido very much; perhaps to the full extent with practice and enough education.

[@maxshepherd926]

My best advice is do not try to meet a drunk girl… no matter what she says to you on a night out this isn’t what she would say when she wakes up the next morning sober, meet a sober girl. Trust me I know this being a doorman working in a cocktail bar in London where the women to men ratio is about 3:1.

[@tayebzied9868]

appreciate a lot tripp

[@bautyk1845]

That’s so crazy truth that it should be streamed in schools cause there are too many simps

[@dprasad992]

Hey Tripp I have only started to approaching girls now I'm almost 28 years old do you think it's too late for or all the girls are taken . Please reply

[@michaelscott6216]

Approach younger girls in their early 20’s

[@welovefootball1463]

awesome tripp

[@90s-Trance_86]

I had a nice chat with a gorgeous woman in a Parfurmerie store. I had to stop the chatting cause a customer needed help!!

[@abinashparida.8125]

9:08 RIP my ears.

[@adamshuaib7773]

Woow...i like that part go and get rejected...i t works....

[@Stephen-bq4nq]

Where do you socialize to meet woman when you are 48?

[@janh3827]

So even a guy with a nice car money status and she rather date the transit bus guy and average earner if she has attraction for him rather than rich guy since emotional not logical

[@arielafrizal]

Believe me, those materialistic doesnt mean shit other than to gold diggers, i've learnt it myself

[@jaspergabriels8933]

Thanks for this vid. About rejection I feel alot more fear in day game. In nightgame I really don't care. But in the day dammit I feel really weird and have alot of fear

[@Ryan-xf4im]

I met a girl at an English conversation workshop in the university, i didn't make attention to her enough but someone else did, (she's following him back but she didn't follow me back when i started following her, this is a sign) , i asked about her day and then i asked her to meet up after class tomorrow to eat (she said "why" and she kept saying it) i told her to come tomorrow so she can know why lol,in the end i told her "i just want you to know that i like you" she said "now i know, thanx" and about the lunch ? She said "nope, don't wait for me". I said thanks for letting me know. 😂😂😂 Should i unfollow her ? Because i don't like following too many ppl especially the ppl that don't follow back...

[@adg4598]

Never say it directly to any woman. Or u r gone. Women develop attraction if they are curious. U just killed the curiosity. End of story. Curiosity and then trust by having conversations due to curiosity create attraction when done correctly. U did the one thing u should never do i.e. Saying it directly.

[@AustraliaLuckyRichLife]

Read her mind make her laugh then she will put you on a pedestal

[@bilguuneechishuu]

16:12 I want to listen the whole song

[@mikebingham9700]

Lots of dates? Dating is EXPENSIVE!!!!!The girl doesn't have to do anything except show up.

[@mizihensem2387]

Ego win women lose

[@markjones2453]

Don't even bother the end

[@kaiserbrutus730]

I got this problem, right now it's not a big deal but I can see it becoming a really big problem in the future. There was a girl I talked to, conversation went really great and we both enjoyed it. Was she interested in me though? Seemed like it but definitely not 100% sure. Right when I was about to ask her phone number, my inner demon was somewhat trying to convince myself to not ask for her number by asking questions like "What if the teasing and whatever techniques you just used did not do anything?" "The conversation was great but what if in reality it wasn't and she was just acting to make it look like it was great or it was just an illusion." "She seems interested in you? In the end, it's only what you think and what if what you think is false." So, in the end, the conversation ended without me asking her number. Tripp, do you have any advice for this problem? Just in case the demon comes out again in the future. At that time, my parents were there and her parents were there too and she and I were only 16. So yeah, a rejection would probably get me into trouble.

[@gambit_toys6554]

Ultimately we are all fertilizer!

[@samealey8517]

No.1 is an example of Red Pill 👍 as long as you do Red Pill you're on the right track.

[@monchichisekiguchi6477]

isnt a guy having a good job , money , status, nice car, nice clothes going help a girl like you even though its a logical things and not an emotional things compared to a guy who just wear plain wal mart clothes, takes public transit, and just an average pay job . wouldnt girls want the first guy even though its a logical sense than emotional sense

[@RaviSingh-be3mx]

this guy is straight trippn

[@ductrungnguyen9186]

I asked her to be my promdate but.... 😞

[@zkhan9936]

1. Don't put women on a peddle-stool 2. Being afraid of rejections 3. Don''t convince a gilr to like you when she's not interested In you. AKA freindzone 4. 5.

[@trevbro9398]

Tripp, do you have a girlfriend now?

[@TrippAdvice]

Yeah

[@Jigsaw0097]

If you guys wanna learn how to deal with rejection, and learn it fast play the Dark Souls games.

[@kc270352]

first

[@jmd3236]

Bro who wants to meet women nowadays. Weed is more fun ))

[@dedeborya9015]

Whats the point?!?!? If they are all not interested, not liking me , I am not her type, and she gonna put me on blast / file charges / report our interaction. In the M3T00 / Believe all VVahmen / Ki||A||Men / Feminism era - what is the point? Meh. I just bought a new motorcycle for the garage. Suddenly I care *LESS* about women, chasing them, entertaining them, attempting to interact with them, pursuing them, chatting with them, texting them, inviting them into my life.