The ONE Test You Must Give A Woman

[@TrippAdvice]

Be sure to check out the blog post I wrote called "There’s This One Girl…” to learn how to get out of the friend-zone with a girl you like once and for all. trippadvice.com/theres-this-one-girl/

[@ajwhitfield5793]

Women: He only asked me out once, I said No, but never asked again! He needs to be persistent! Man: No...obviously not interested, and now I'm really not interested in your childish game.

[@SolaireGamingPT]

Yup, that's the only problem I see with the theory of this video. Some girls are not that simple because they like to be "chased" a lot and they still want guys to persist. So in the end it all comes down to the guys' patience...

[@hectorgutierrez5240]

Mário Lopes why play games tho when you can find someone that isnt trying to make it hard?

[@SolaireGamingPT]

@@hectorgutierrez5240 If only that was true in my case... Lol

[@joesandstrom4111]

Women will let you chase forever, if you let them.

[@Ryanfury99]

@@SolaireGamingPT you need to change buddy.. if the woman doesnt interested in you just move on..

[@TheChees1996]

just remeber if she reject you she has bad taste and keep moving forward and keep improving in you health, wealth and realship

[@devilisbackk]

Yes truths bro...rejection is the most painful thing if we don't know how to handle it....Rejection gives an opportunity to find the next best deal instead of lowering our thoughts....many lower their values and expectations once they get rejected by someone....remember that's when we prove ourselves by targeting and owning the best ones.... That's when the value gets multiplied..... 😉

[@tomaszsosnowski9279]

Men qualify, women test. Is she willing to make the effort? Does she finds time for you? Will she use you as a rebound guy? Will she drag her ex into the mix?

[@jrod198289]

This is exactly what I have been doing this past year. If a girl and even a guy likes you, they will move heaven and earth to go out with you! Knowing this and putting it into action has saved me time, money and embarrassment.

[@hectorgutierrez5240]

Without even watching I knew what the test was, all thanks to you trip. Much love and hopefully more dudes look into your stuff.

[@decafmocha211]

"So you're telling me there's a chance !" lol

[@buddhatwig7846]

I am 38 and divorced, and I am like wow, I am learning so much. Feel like a a youngster all over again....

[@mvnorsel6354]

Take baby steps , be careful and think.

[@PanGrono]

35 and same

[@venky193]

37 and same..

[@CRYPTONIC47]

This guy does know how to make thumbnails 😂

[@peterhasudungan2616]

lmao

[@archiedelapena7299]

I feel bad that I know who the chick in the thumbnail is.

[@archiedelapena7299]

@Ozymandias TR some premium snapchat chick named Heidi Grey

[@carlossilverio7325]

I asked her out, she used the corona virus not to go.

[@BarbersFind]

Lol damn

[@philadams9254]

Not interested

[@victorsuarez3]

If she's interested, she would go with you in the middle of an alien invasion.

[@philadams9254]

@@victorsuarez3 100% truth

[@wisnudivayana355]

She not intrested in you. Just ignore her, find another women

[@snehasissarkar522]

My life changed in dating aspects after trying this man. I have been following you for years.

[@asariokox]

This is very basic advise yet very effective if you're getting friendzone or getting nowhere with women. I remember the first time I got rejected while being assertive. I honestly felt happy and relieved. Sure the rejection stings a bit but the fact that you pushed forward made even more happier.

[@waynedecunha]

Agree.. its better to ask. And get a clear reply rather than wasting time and chasing. Once u chase , might always end up chasing

[@MyelinProductions]

LIFE LESSON: "How You Do Anything, IS How You Do Everything" ~ "You WILL Perform How You Prepare!" ~ "Train as You Must Act/Fight/React" ~ "Performance Predictability" = {Military Wisdom}.

[@jacobphoenix674]

I been in the hate zone for at less 5 years 🤣🤣🤣

[@heishim115]

5:34 - what your looking for, thank me later for saving your time.

[@vaggeliskaravolos4509]

Yo trip. U r always very helpful and genuine. This is rare nowadays in youtube because people actually dont care about someone being a better person. So thank u for that

[@JohnHoulgate]

This works well when she gives you a direct answer. It doesn't always work out this way. Many times, women will initially balk at the invitation, not saying yes, not saying no. In some cases, she's taking this opportunity to shit-test you to see how you pursue going out with her. In other cases, she's just indecisive or can't remember if she's already made prior commitments. In either case, you have to be ready to move on and drop whatever anticipation you have on going out with her. You can't really afford to give a shit if she turns you down. Somehow, it's going to come out that she was shit-testing you. If it becomes clear to you that she's doing this, move on. Withdraw your invitation. If she really is interested in you, she will pursue you.

[@thrashingmetal]

the first test: Do you cook? Yes/No

[@amanqz901]

😂

[@S7VEN]

most of the time say yes to going out then make excuses not to when the time comes.

[@TheDestroyer73]

yeah that is usually my case too so its always confusing after that

[@S7VEN]

@@TheDestroyer73 i give them benefit of the doubt one time and if they do it twice, i put the ball in their court.

[@Dee--Jay]

Idk bout this one. It can be true on some instances but in general based on my experiences and Friends I know of. These girls will go out with you just because they are bored. And not because they like you. But if she do say no.. Just move around like u said

[@ralx225b]

They also admit to using men for free meals. TRUST ME Tripp knows this which is why I am confused he is saying this is black and white...ITS NOT. nypost.com/2019/06/21/a-third-of-women-only-date-men-because-of-the-free-food-study/

[@murphsviews]

Yeah this is bad advice in numerous ways and has a very low likelihood of success if dating her is your goal.

[@dplant8961]

Hi, Folks. If I ask a woman out - which in this day and age and with the GREAT majority of today's women is highly unlikely - and she refuses, THAT is gonna be the end of it. 2 reasons for this: 1. She is not interested. 2. She is testing me to see how interested I am and thus has just proven that she does not always tell the truth - and so is NOT worth pursuing. Itza one-chance game for me. If they really did want to go out with me but decided to 'test' me, they've blown it. Just my 0.02. You all have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.

[@inspir3d81]

Why don’t you just say “I want to take you out on a date”. There can be no way for her to mistake your intentions

[@Scarecr6w]

Sometimes, we don't wanna take the girl out

[@MrIslam270793]

You are the best Tripp. Please make more videos.

[@Suspect333]

Men and Women both have a fear of rejection so why are we giving women a free pass?

[@DavidZMH]

I will keep this in mind but no one is going out with anyone with this pandemic crap happening. I appreciate your advice tripp.

[@joesandstrom4111]

You’re wrong. A lot of singles are making the most of this time.

[@animestarlord9021]

My hobbies are not normal so my s test to ladies is: Do you watch anime or marvel movies? If they say are you 5 or something, grow up or I don't date nerds at that point i just walk away. Problem is 99% of ladies are not into of those hobbies.

[@eirenem6941]

Am a girl and such a marvel fun and I don't understand people who don't have a sense of wonder.

[@rupeshroy3296]

What if she is interested. Interested in the free meal she's bout to get, if she says yes

[@bijoythokar9833]

I have been fooled n dominated in my love life tearing me apart with tears ..I have decided to follw ur steps atleast I can be aware about what going to happen next..nyways u r cool bro and keep uplaoding new videos

[@sonyamoste]

I love dominance in men.

[@garyshockley4928]

You give great advice.

[@nateericsson683]

The only test you need is the "bronx tale test".

[@nateericsson683]

@@cinnamonparsley6384 "A Bronx Tale" is a movie... theres a test the main character gives his love interest. It pretty much sums up all you need to know about a female.

[@VoiceOfThe]

All of this was an alien concept to me until 45. How do you get to this age not knowing any of this??

[@rickky451]

Tell me about it. I am 30 and I feel embarrassed watching these

[@CalvinJamesJr]

Talk to em Tripp

[@tomaszsosnowski9279]

Yo, Savage! All is well?

[@sleepingforest8214]

Nice bar in the back, strong flex

[@svenjorgensen5]

Good advice. Doesn't always work though. I asked her and she flaked. We rescheduled, and she flaked again.

[@devilisbackk]

Yes cos she got used to such routine invites by multiple simps.... If that thing doesn't work, see where u can make the change and apply on her...Not every girl interested upon coffee and dinners...some like long drives and some are total opposite to it.... Well if she rejects the offers....Check the possibilities.... probably she is really busy in those days or approach too early or she has multiple options in hand or u it may be too early for her to join u.... Many girls even if they have interest, they dont want to show it right away.... They want to make sure how good you are and how worthy it is to meet you...In most cases now-a-days, girls double check your intentions behind your invitations.... They don't jump and join for drinks.... Since she gets multiple invites from many guys.... Remember you just a number in her list specially for a quality good looking women....Rather than she testing you, you need to play that role of testing her with different tasks....if she fails to pass the test.... Pack Seal And send her off....no mercy 😂... I mean move on....that simple...😉

[@murphsviews]

It's not actually good advice. It has a very low likelihood of success if getting her to date you is your goal.

[@bcoa57amaykhatri94]

Simple and good advice

[@MrAdriancooke]

The thing is that if you ask a certain woman out one day she might say no but if you ask her out another day she might say yes: women are famously moody and if she says no one day she might just be having a bad day that day or something

[@eweimer5671]

Join the club of rejected 🙅‍♂️ men 😂

[@marchizproductions4137]

To all the men such as myself, always pick your women wisely. Anyone can seem to be the most beautifully attractive and most innocent to date, but always keep a close eye on their body language, their words, their eyes. It can say a lot about who they are without the need for words. It's important we pick the right people to trust when it comes to relationships because i've seen soo many screw ups, breakups and downright lies in a lot of ways. A lot of my friends, such as myself had went through a lot of pain, stress and misery. It's horrible to lose a lot of time and energy into something that will probably die like a lot of relationships. Having a stable and long lasting relationship in 2020 is like trying to catch a bird with your bare hands, no matter how fast you run to catch one, eventually they'll fly away and all of your nested money will also be stolen away like most divorces do nowadays. This era of relationships is a complete joke. It's very rare to find a soul mate. If you feel like you found someone who is one, you're the most luckiest person in the world. I do wish everyone the best in their lives.

[@BalticLab]

To the calling it a date: I accidentally broke the friendzone with German girls over here by being in the habit of starting to call meet ups "dates". I want aware what Inwas doing. I just meant date as in date and time. So I was gullible when they asked "So this is a date?!?" and just answered the assertive "Yes, absolutely!" They looked happy about it. But I was blind to what was going on as I actually liked them as a friend. Even that one time when a female friend afterwards took me to her place, cuddled up in bed with me to watch movies and said "You can sleep here if you like..." When I said it's getting late. I was so blind. But wanted to be. She had a bf and I saw her as a friend, nothing more. Which goes back to the "They'll chase you when you stop chasing". I got the message on the "second date" though the moment she dropped on her knees 😁😁

[@welovefootball1463]

My man Tripp 👏👏👏

[@tayebzied9868]

thanks

[@westsideisdabest7825]

We're in lockdown again. So asked to go for a walk in the park. She seems keen, infact moreso than if I just asked to go for drinks (Which was the plan before lockdown). Personally, I feel that dinner is way too big for a first date, especially if she expects you to pay. Drinks are fine, because you can pay for each alternate round, unless she's insistent you pay for her drinks, in which case run a mile. But idk, free dates tend to actually work quite well, there's no element of things becoming transactional, which in turn avoids risk of being "The nice guy", and also, you can actually get to know a person first before deciding you would like to commit to going on a "proper" date. And if she has a problem with you being "cheap", then that's an immediate red flag and you should run a mile.

[@cinnamonparsley6384]

A free date during lockdown? Definite Friend Zone haps dude! Why even bother?

[@westsideisdabest7825]

@@cinnamonparsley6384 I couldn't care less. Hardly know the girl lol. You gotta know if you vibe with someone first. I'm not taking someone out for an expensive date if they're boring or only there for a free meal.

[@arbinpunk4819]

If I was a complete stranger I would only ask her once, but if we were friends who see each other every once in a while I would like ask twice I guess.

[@sharkgomp385]

What if you live at home and you have no choice you’re always being watched over like a hawk in you cannot do it thing when you see a 55 and up woman with you like that single or widowed unless you by yourself what device do you give them

[@cantarmohamed8549]

You said that if she doesn't go out with you she doesn't interest in you, what about if she is religious girl? what about if she is scared of her family harrassment?

[@devilisbackk]

Yes cos she got used to such routine invites by multiple simps.... If that thing doesn't work, see where u can make the change and apply on her...Not every girl interested upon coffee and dinners...some like long drives and some are total opposite to it.... Well if she rejects the offers....Check the possibilities.... probably she is really busy in those days or approach too early or she has multiple options in hand or u it may be too early for her to join u.... Many girls even if they have interest, they dont want to show it right away.... They want to make sure how good you are and how worthy it is to meet you...In most cases now-a-days, girls double check your intentions behind your invitations.... They don't jump and join for drinks.... Since she gets multiple invites from many guys.... Remember you just a number in her list specially for a quality good looking women....Rather than she testing you, you need to play that role of testing her with different tasks....if she fails to pass the test.... Pack Seal And send her off....no mercy 😂... I mean move on....that simple...😉

[@BTVS666]

That's a good advice but what if this woman is working in the same department as you and you see her every day? If she's not interested this can get really awkward in the future at work.

[@mystlyfe8706]

just go for it... if I was you I would much rather live knowing that I got rejected rather than regret not asking her out my entire life... just go for it dude and if it doesn't work out then it's just not meant to be brother... much love and good luck and please keep me updated on what happens ❤️

[@Akramito2012]

Oooh Tripp Tripp Tripp Tripp, I actually told u this before, in middle eastern countries and I refer to those with Islamic religion, girls don’t seem to ever accept a date unless she is mis-raised. It's kinda forbidden here bro ... this is sad I know, but it goes under the clause of “prevention of progeny confusion” as this may happen if a woman dates guys and have unprotected intercourse ultimately resulting in an undignifying scandal among the girl’s parents and relatives along with calling her and her partner “fornicators”. So my point is, is your advice applicable by any means in this area of the world xD .. guess not

[@bungcoba6956]

Fun fact: In Asian pacific (Japan, China, Southeast Asia Countries) the concept of dating a bit is different. In Asia pacific you MUST confess to your girl that you love her and ASK if she wants to be your GF. Without this confession and "a yes answer" for the following question then you are not dating her (she is not your GF).

[@age234]

Seems a lot more clear and straightforward than the games we play fueled by Hallmark movies and romance novels.

[@tyfn1963]

Want to know your opinion, Tripp : I've been talking with the girl for 4 months on snapchat. After a week we met, I asked her to grab a drink. She said that she would love to that but she doesn't wanna go out because of pandemic situation. Since the pandemic, she has never been out. Do you think I should continue to flirt her ?

[@TheDestroyer73]

i think thats just her a excuse....people make time and put effort if they like the other person or at least interested...so her not trying would be me thinking she doesnt fully like me that way

[@tyfn1963]

@@TheDestroyer73 you read my mind. I just wanted to know anyone else opinion, thanks dude

[@TheDestroyer73]

@@tyfn1963 yeah no problem, its just one of those things that i too cant get my mind around sometimes since the girl acts good for the most part yet the other part never makes sense

[@joesandstrom4111]

People will make excuses to see the people they really want to see even during a pandemic. I think 4 months is a lot of wasted time on a virtual platform. I’d ask her out one more time, make it a ‘safe’ option for her, or ask her for a suggestion. If it’s another No, cease contact, stop liking her posts, disappear, move on, and live your best life. Only reach out again once the pandemic is long gone, if you’re still interested, and she doesn’t reach out herself. If you keep flirting and texting, she will get bored or you’re bound to screw up in some form, imo. Currently, you’re a cure for boredom and she’s feeding off the attention. Meanwhile, she’s thinking about the guys she’s attracted to that aren’t giving her attention. Disappear on a high note with a good impression and your dignity in tact. Just my 2 cents.

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

I’d say find another one. The whole pandemic thing is lie.

[@markanthonycruzii5077]

You will never lose woman chasing money..

[@jirostatic]

What if the girl said she wants to but she can't yet? What if there are just outside force preventing her from getting out on a date. Example is what if she needs to be taking care of her sick father and she can't leave him? Or anything that is very important that she can't have a date?

[@dokunmstephen7923]

Nice trip....thank you for this...just wanna know...what if you ask her out and she says she is only attracted to you physical look but she doesn't she you more than that way

[@joesandstrom4111]

Just say, “that’s okay, we don’t have to talk, you can watch me for hours.”

[@dokunmstephen7923]

@@joesandstrom4111 nice...thank you for this

[@capver32]

Good video, Tripp! I also want to ask you how often should you text a girl you have been dating for one or two months. Should you text a bit every day (not all day) or just like once or twice every three days? Texting too much could be exhausting, but not talking could make the spark dissappear

[@joesandstrom4111]

If the spark was there, it still is. Texting is weak sauce unless it holds value. Text only with the purpose to see them in person, unless you want a text buddy. Let her dictate the text game. Be there for her, but don’t set up a precedent that she’s the one who’s there for you. If you’re always texting and initiating, she will feel pressure to respond even if she doesn’t feel the need to.

[@Danielle_Lu]

Joe, you clearly don’t understand women and our hormones. If the guy doesn’t keep engaging, we lose interest. It’s a hormonal thing.

[@joesandstrom4111]

Danielle Zorzin Men also lose interest if women don’t engage and personally, I don’t chase. I clearly don’t understand women? If you say so...

[@joesandstrom4111]

Danielle Zorzin By your logic, if a man texts (engages) often or more than a woman and it isn’t texting with a purpose to set dates, it means he understands women and their hormones. That’s just absurd thinking and holds no truth. I’ve got news for you: texting often, engaging, and always initiating does not equate to a man who understands women and their hormones. It’s not the job of a man to keep a woman’s hormones in check. If a woman loses interest in the initial attraction because she isn’t getting pinged by text multiple times a day, every day, that’s not genuine attraction, that’s called a dopamine addiction. No high value, self-respecting man is going to run Pavlov’s Dog dopamine trials on a woman to gain or keep her interest. Most men who have high value will not be spending their time thinking, “oh shit! I’ve got to engage this women today, maybe multiple times a day, and every day or she will lose interest!” And, even more so if it doesn’t feel reciprocated. If a spark was made (in person), the attraction is real, and the job was done right, there’s no need for a text buddy or pinging a woman just to remind her of you. Let her wonder, let her think, let her get curious about what you’re up to, and give her space. You set dates. Be a lover, not the friend. Have an air of mystery. If you’ve done the job right, there should be some mystical magnetism pulling you back together. Texting often without a purpose or a clear direction to lead the interaction further romantically (and if the woman can’t reciprocate due to ‘hormones’ or they are too busy) can make that spark fade before the next date (or before setting the next date). If the spark was there and the man has done his job right, she will be happy to hear from him again, even if it’s not often, and perhaps even happier when she finally does. If the woman needs constant engagement to be reminded to keep her interest why date someone who isn’t that into you? Also, if the spark was there, the man has done his job right, and it’s real, she will be more likely to reach out when she doesn’t hear from him. Love-bombing someone new with text is often seen as needy or insecure behavior, which is not masculine energy, possibly a manipulative tactic, perhaps disingenuous, and likely unsustainable long term or consistently. Men shouldn’t text just because they feel the need to, or because a woman may lose interest, do it with purpose and on your own timeframe. Texting often can feel smothering to most women (especially if there is more than one person they’re interacting with, or they have other priorities and their emotions are in flux) and it can lead to confusion, misinterpretation, miscommunication, or wrong timing (hormones). If it’s in the realm of seduction (via text), this is also a bad idea because it’s rather risky and especially if you send questionable texts (or even questionable humor) when the timing is off (hormones). Seduction and humor is always best in person. If someone wants to laugh at memes, that’s what Google is for. Unless you truly know each other well enough, texting can backfire (hormones). Also, I don’t know a single erotic, seductive, romance novel where the man has to maintain a woman’s interest over text to seduce her, it’s just not sexy. If you’re constantly texting, you’re left with nothing to talk about on the date and it’s a less compelling proposition to engage personally, when it’s more convenient to text from the couch and avoid going out. Flirting over text? What are you gonna do? Repeat the same shit the next time you see them in person? Or save it for when it really counts? You want to chime in about mundane daily shit? Or send a joke? Go ahead. From my personal experience of understanding women, for times where something didn’t work in my favor, I’ve analyzed with introspection the reasons why, and 9/10 times it boiled down to something minor and completely benign that went amiss in a text exchange. In turn, I’ve taken a minimalistic approach to text engagement, putting all that saved energy into in-person interactions (instead of eating it on text) and have seen the results. The shifts in body language, respect, and that gleam in their eyes before they bounce, cannot be understated. So, I really can’t take you seriously. If a woman requires constant text engagement for attraction and to hold interest, that tells me that the woman is attracted to and interested in attention and text engagement more than the man himself. If the woman has more interest in the man, constant text engagement isn’t necessary from him and it tells me she’s attracted to the man, and not thirsty for attention. A woman can find attention anywhere, from endless needy chumps who will gladly blow up her phone constantly. The reserved man who is above that, is a different breed and attracting a high value man is much rarer. The need or requirement for text engagement is not typically in a high value man’s DNA, nor inherently attractive to a high value man. For a truly high value man, he knows he’s the prize. He has options, he is not thirsty for attention or to give it. His physical presence alone commands more authority than any text engagement ever could. And this is what every man should strive for, divine masculinity. To be content with or without a woman. If a woman loses interest over ‘engagement’ metrics, and can’t agree to a date because of it, it’s her loss, not his. Plenty of fish. Having said that, I really don’t appreciate your judge mental mindset and troll attitude towards me based on zero facts (saying that I “clearly don’t understand women”, which is rather interesting as you know nothing about me and I’ve been told the exact opposite rather often by women who don’t seem to understand why I’m not married), but I’ll be the better person here and reserve my judgement towards you. Also, TrippAdvice himself advocates not texting frequently, but reserving texts for setting dates. So, if you think I don’t understand women and their hormones, you’re implying that TrippAdvice doesn’t understand either. Along with just about every dating coach. And, if you’d like to clarify your statement and actually contribute some value and insight on what ‘understanding women and their hormones’ means to the conversation, I’m all ears. Myself and others would be grateful to hear a meaningful commentary to that statement and how you think women should be engaged via text with respect to their hormones. Because, to be frank, your reply to me doesn’t help address the OPs question or give meaningful insight to my contribution on the topic in the slightest, it was simply a jab. Thanks for chiming in, though. #hormones

[@mystlyfe8706]

@@joesandstrom4111 your knowledge on the topic is off the charts just ignore what that girl said she obviously has no clue how true this is

[@aliadnanchowdhury]

This is our mistake we let them take their test. Men are not something to take test of. And its not only men's job to initiate. Both have inferior complexity but we're making women privileged in this case. If a woman really wants someone, she should initiate and show their interest otherwise it's their loss. And a real woman will never waste her time waiting for a guy to break the ice.

[@umair111]

What's the difference between a female friend and friend-zone?

[@omerali9072]

A female friend is the one for which u don't have feelings.. and freind zone means u have feelings or are interested in the girl romantically but she thinks of u not the same way and just wants to be friends with you cause she isn't interested in you in that sense

[@brianwachira9867]

Why does a girl say no to your invite s to have a cup of coffee or maybe a walk just to get know more about each other...

[@franckemma9816]

Guys i know we're family here. There's this girl which I like and every time we meet in real life the vibes is the best but when we text its so dry and not fun. So recently we set a meet up cause she needed to give me back my hoodie. We took a walk and went to her place for a while and ending up kissing. Since that she doesn't répond back at my texts but watches my stories on ig. What should I do?

[@tronic47]

can you give a advice how to go out with girl if COVID 19 restrictions are on :/ .... cant go anywhere :(

[@billfallon2372]

She can accept just to get the free meal then her ghost appears.

[@juniorlinde595]

You are right

[@armandelezi8449]

The only test you need to give a woman is tell her you're broke but you like her

[@ian_9519]

Best content so far :)))

[@Max37-l7b]

What if You do all the texting and talking and all she do is laugh and text You hearts...???? What does that mean.. Honest question

[@stebarg]

That’s complete bullshit. This would only be true if every girl has nothing else to do in her life than wait only for you and asking her out. 🤦🏽‍♂️ That’s, of course, not reality.

[@keithtristansenarillos5669]

What if a girl agrees to go out with me twice but when i asked her for the 3rd time she said yes first but the next day she went to her boyfriend's place?

[@sammysam2615]

Me: Oh you wanna me huh? Okay, let me get you a cab. Buh-bye

[@chinnagunda7001]

My ex unblocked me after 4 months of no contact but she is hiding whatapp status from me. And few days back she kept whatappp status open from me.and when I saw her Whatapp status she started hiding status again why?

[@devilisbackk]

The so called "Mind Games"... Don't look into her status....u need to block her in first place as a male... That's where u rebuild your value and respect.... 👍

[@chinnagunda7001]

@@devilisbackk what does it mean if she is playing mind games is she still interested in me . thanks you respond

[@devilisbackk]

@@chinnagunda7001 may be yes or may be no....but don't get trapped to such silly and innocent game play.... If a girl likes u whole heartedly then she never play games with you.... She playing kinda hide and seek..... Ignore her completely until she takes all the efforts to reach you... Even then you need to think multiple times to take her back... Cos such mentalities will play again and again in future as well.... So it's ur call bro....

[@chinnagunda7001]

@@devilisbackk thanks lot sir.

[@LeashMechanic]

@chinna gunda if she’s intentionally hiding her status or aspects of her social media life from you, walk away now! This isn’t someone you can trust. It should go without saying that if you feel the need to check up on someone and to always keep apprised of her sm status, listen to your gut telling you that this is not the right person for you! You can look forward to nothing but arguments. And it stinks to feel like one always has to keep checking up on a partner to affirm they’re not doing something behind your back. Who wants to live that way? There are not many possibilities as to why she’s doing that and none of them are good. If she’s blocking you because she’s seeing other people and doesn’t want you to know she’s not for you, walk away! Fast! If she’s blocking you because she feels you’re snooping and doesn’t like that, she’s still the wrong one for you; there’s a huge difference between someone who, realizing an insecurity, would take steps to reassure you (would mean she cares) vs. block you with an attitude like “Oh you wanna snoop my status? Here, you’re blocked, that’ll teach you.” (someone who does that to you doesn’t care and is contentious, you will have no end to arguments in life, not worth it walk away!) In fact one has no standing or foundation at all for a trusting relationship with someone that blocks you. Lastly if it’s ever an ex doing this, walk away. Exes are called exes for a reason and once someone is an ex it should stay that way. Unless you are looking for more heartache, like to deal with suspicion and feelings of jealousy and like to argue, walk away. Don’t go by your feelings, go by logic on this one! And anyway wouldn’t it be so much nicer to meet someone new and form a friendship/relationship where there IS trust and where you don’t have to wonder if there’s some other guy she’s chatting up and have to deal with such mind games where you always feel like you have to keep checking up? For as long as blocking you from her social media continues you will never get rid of those feelings, you will have to suppress and internalize emotional pain and this will inevitably lead you to ask questions that she will look at as invasive, which will inevitably lead to further argument and eventually another break up. Getting back with an ex rarely works out; almost never!! Successive break ups are always worse than the one before. You may feel like you really love this person but with her acting that way she is not in love with you. If she loved you she would be inclined to do everything to make it work out rather than to hide parts of her life from you. Trust this, you will feel better and will forget about her once you meet someone who truly reciprocates love. Being in a relationship with someone who hides aspects of their life, which means they’re living a dual life that you don’t know about really sucks. Don’t go along with that! Walk away! There are PLENTY of great people to meet! Life is too short to live with such an unhappy situation when genuine happiness is all around and easily obtained! Forget that ex, forget mental torture. Go forth, explore and find happiness with someone worthy of your attention and your love! An ex who blocks you from her social life is not worthy of you. Be very glad that this person is an ex! You’re luckier than you know being free of her, don’t blow happiness and ruin your life by going back!

[@jacobblessing4598]

My problem is recently a Woman approached me have talked with nd gave her number, nd start chatting couple of days,i proposed to her, ndshe asked me about my profession nd I told her, after a week she stop chatt with me , if i text her no reply, should I ignore her,

[@jayb3033]

You say it's a man's job to ask a girl out and they aren't going to ask the guy out? Well what about the times attractive women asked me out? Unfortunately in some cases they lived too far away either in another country or across the USA somewhere and i wasn't able to go see them, which really sucked for the both of us, but the Point is they asked me out first.

[@levirebbeck5213]

Lol I can’t do this with out being tested

[@harrisonbrown5237]

Hey Tripp my girlfriend broke up with me and wants me back what should I do.

[@rdmuller]

No

[@harrisonbrown5237]

r2d2502 müller thanks for the advice

[@God4Father]

Never go back to ex, belive me or search on yt why

[@harrisonbrown5237]

@@God4Father appreciate that. I’ll do some research

[@charndeepbhangoo7556]

Depends on what you did. It's almost always the dudes fault, which is a game changer once you accept it. Basically, you not being a man = goodbye girl.

[@gamehub4574]

I learned more

[@death9469]

I swear to god ur great

[@payamsoccer5920]

Can you please do a podcast or interview with ROOMMATES podcast

[@TrippAdvice]

Link?

[@payamsoccer5920]

I am a fan from the netherlands thank you so much you helped me alot

[@blackout2430]

Payam Soccer cool man but he wants a link. Give him one lol

[@payamsoccer5920]

@@blackout2430 i gave it to him cant you see ??

[@blackout2430]

Payam Soccer typical leftist KZbin censoring you I guess. I can’t see it

[@rnydscovers7636]

Can I just directly ask her for a date

[@BboyMobster]

Idk when I got to this point but I don’t allow woman to play with me. I don’t waste my time and make shit clear from day one. Why keep going back and forth and why take a woman out if it’s not a date? I have a buddy that consistently thinks he’s “dating a woman.” Yet he in his mind he is dating them but never put boundaries or said his intentions. Then he gets upset when they date someone else but he never takes my advice. I’ve never even had to say things were a date with woman, they know already lol.

[@joesandstrom4111]

Boundaries are good. Clear intentions are bad. Boundaries are for you. Intentions are a way to communicate what your plans are with them (it’s for them, not you... and a way for them to decide if they wish to proceed), which may not be currently in alignment. So, it’s best to keep your intentions unclear and to just have fun and romance, until that conversation is necessary.

[@joesandstrom4111]

I’m in the same spot. I don’t allow women to play games with me. However, I’ve noticed that’s when things are the most fun and exciting. Some level of “playing” is necessary in the initial stages of flirting and attraction. It’s a tough and blinding road to navigate. I like ‘playing’, I don’t like being ‘played’ and haven’t seen as much success going straight to serious mode. Unfortunately, I feel like I cut women off and walk away too soon because of this ‘I don’t play games’ attitude. I’m on the fence about whether it’s a winning strategy. On one hand, I save a lot of time and self respect by cutting it off early and going my own way. On the other hand, it seems to to lead to many dry spells.

[@BboyMobster]

Joe Sandstrom I definitely agree 100 percent. It’s like I’ll “play” but to the point to where I let it be known that I’m not just a friend. Like you said though if you don’t “play” you have a dry spell. I went through that shit for months until I was ready to play the game again. The whole situation is just annoying. Luckily I’ve never had a chick not know that I was at least not trying to be her friend.

[@mariusrs]

I was on a date with this Tinder girl and we hooked up. A few days later I called her to meet again and she said she can't, bc is busy. She said another day. Now a week later should I call her again out or wait for her to reach me?

[@radioactivefa6129]

Wait for her to reach you, if she doesnt reach you, you have in everyway to move on. Dont ask her out again as you will ruin your chances bcoz imidiately you will seem as you only has one chance with girls & desperate and needy...

[@joesandstrom4111]

First mistake, not immediately asking what days she’s free and negotiating a date when you’re both available. You’ve now waited a week to negotiate that date and you may be met with the same resistance, she could easily be booked up again. Women sense that hesitation and put you in the weak category. You either need to solidify plans in that moment, or she should provide you with an alternate date of availability. Currently, you’ve been put it in a situation where you want to see her more than she wants to see you. She’s in the power position and can keep you benched as long as she wants. Meanwhile, she’s swiping right on Tinder and lining ‘em up, after you demonstrated some weakness. Best course of action... take the ball from her and then put the ball back in her court. Something like, “Sorry, I’ve been busy. I’d love to see you again when I have some free time, so let’s make some plans! Thoughts?” There’s no reason she can’t respond to that. It’s your time she needs to be fighting for now. If she’s not willing to negotiate a date, the attraction wasn’t strong enough and attraction building over text is a death sentence. If you don’t hear from her, you have your answer. And, you walk away with your dignity, giving her no more attention. Let us know how it goes!

[@vmax1399]

live 48-hour she's got another dick mate don't be sad many other fish in the sea try to get one a bit fresher

[@goaheady1306]

For how long should you text her until you ask her for dating?

[@raqu7066]

Right away. You want to meet her in person, don't you?

[@goaheady1306]

@@raqu7066 yes, i still tried to create a conversation with her since i sent you the first message, but it seems that she is not asking anything. I asked her phone number but she said she cant give it to me.. so i think she is not interested

[@raqu7066]

@@goaheady1306 In Germany we say: ,,Aufstehen, Krone richten, weiter machen". In English this would mean something like: ,,Get up, fix your crown, move on". You will find another one.

[@goaheady1306]

@@raqu7066 thank you man!

[@patrickstogsdill74]

I think its good to be friends at forst...after a whil if you develop geelings nd she does to then comincte and make a move but not too soon but not too lte either

[@franklavilla5693]

Actually if she says no, maybe she's not interested YET and u just screwed it up

[@game_maniac2404]

привет , Я изучаю русский язык из Индии, и мне приятно наблюдать, как многие россияне не хотят покидать свою страну, и это хорошо и считаю, что Россия величайшая страна. *Россия - одно из лучших мест для жизни и творчества, я также согласен, что в некоторых областях искусства ей не хватает, но со временем ситуация улучшится. В России лучшие технологии, медицинское оборудование, литература, и если коренные жители останутся в своей стране и будут работать на нее, она обязательно улучшится.* *Уважаемые россияне - не жалуйтесь на власть. правительство в каждой стране дерьмо, нигде не бывает идеального. Некоторые из вас, ребята, которые позже присоединятся к политике, могут изменить политику, которая вам не нравится, и внести некоторые позитивные изменения. Россия поистине великая страна.* Моя страна - развивающаяся страна с населением 1,4 миллиарда человек. поэтому мусор и строительные материалы можно найти повсюду, они все еще находятся в процессе создания огромной инфраструктуры, поэтому иногда (действительно часто) вы обнаруживаете мусор на дорогах, и да, с большим населением и меньшим городом люди могут стать ближе друг к другу из-за высокой плотности населения. В каждой стране своя культура, но *многие индийцы не знают русской культуры, поэтому они могут подумать, что близость означает открытость, как они видели в Европе или Америке. поэтому, чтобы показать свое дружелюбие, они стремятся приблизиться.* Хорошие и плохие люди есть везде, поэтому, куда бы вы ни пошли, будьте начеку. *если вы все еще сталкиваетесь с какой-либо проблемой в моей стране, не стесняйтесь обращаться за помощью к местным жителям или немедленно обращаться в полицию.* в моей стране любой, даже иностранец, может поднять голос против любого плохого. так что используйте эту силу и наслаждайтесь отпуском. Namaste.

[@mosimakevinfobiafonka1004]

How can u leave a friend zone?

[@bryanbt18]

Nice apartment

[@cliffordkoontzlll1251]

Dinner?

[@Deathryzer]

How do you get a girl out right now during the pandemic and everything is closed, and it's too soon to invite her to my place. And these fucking masks make it really hard to read facial expressions.

[@giladrozban]

No, your job is to work more game on her until she becomes attracted

[@murphsviews]

Generally a fan of your work Tripp, but I don't agree with much of this advice. Firstly, you say that if a girl isn't attracted to you in the beginning, she's not going to be, which I don't believe is the case. For instance, think of how attractive you were to women back when you were the scrawny, nerdy looking guy, who had little to no game, probably low confidence, little to no money, or life experience etc. You wouldn't have been very attractive to women at all. So girls who weren't attracted to you back then couldn't be attracted to you now is essentially what you're saying, but I reckon that's nonsense, and surely you do too. You'd be vastly more attractive to women now that you look much more manly, have bigger muscles, so much more confidence and life experience, much more money, some fame, vastly better game and so-on. So if a girl who wasn't attracted to you back then came back into your life now, there's every chance she would now be attracted to you, because you're a vastly more attractive guy in general. And it's the same for everyone else. Even if a girl wasn't attracted to them in the beginning, there are things they do to make her attracted now. Such as, get ripped, richer, more confident, more dominant, wittier, more charismatic and charming, better at seduction and game, etc. Just like you did. Which is why your follow-up advice to ask her out to find out if she is attracted to you if you've known her for a long time is bad advice, because if you've known each other a long time, it's almost certain that she will now only see you as a friend (even if she was attracted to you in the beginning) and will thus likely reject your offer of a date. It's a very low-percentage play. Very low. If you're attracted to her and want to get something romantic happening with her, your odds are going to be far better if you make use of the times that you're spending with her to subtly game her in ways you haven't done so before and to gradually start escalating on her. That way you do it stealthily and there's almost no chance of her rejecting you, because it happens so under the radar and before she knows what's happened, she's been swept up by you.

[@kadukesxl8]

Dude, a girl could say yes to a date and not be interested, she could say no to a date and be interested just to shit test you.

[@robertswift6101]

if you want to know what kind of girl or woman she is right away...ask her what is the womans role in a relationship is,,,,then go from there,,,,wife material or pump n dump

[@yankee2666]

How you do anything is not how you do everything. ...Bad premise.

[@felipecarneiro7133]

With this corona it has been impossible to get a date Fucking corona youre ruining my no existence dating life

[@dummak6022]

What if she says (IDK)

[@silviopalumbo9878]

We live very far from each other. I invite her to Skype me and she always accepts and viceversa. We talk for hours. We always plan to see each other asap. What does it mean?

[@rdmuller]

Look for woman's in your area :)

[@thatguymatt5816]

Careful brother, so far, it doesn’t mean anything. You’ve got a connection sure, but don’t assume that means she likes you romantically

[@laviniu9816]

What if we hang out the second time I ask her out. What that means?

[@joesandstrom4111]

Hang out = let her prove she’s worth dating. Date = you were cool enough for me to waste my time and money to see you again and take it to the next level.

[@MJ98.]

Joe Sandstrom that hit hard buddy. 👌

[@Ghillie714]

Haha oh yea 1 date in 10 years. Yea I’ve just given up, not worth it anymore. 😂

[@armansarker9837]

Pls give a subtitle.. So that we can understand fully from Bangladesh 🇧🇩..