Trisha Paytas and Ethan Klein: A Comprehensive Breakdown of FRENEMIES DRAMA

#TrishaPaytas #EthanKlein #Frenemies as most of you know, content creators Trisha Paytas and Ethan Klein came together and created a PodCast called "Frenemies" that brought an immense of success but also drama that has unfolded in such a toxic way. Here is a comprehensive breakdown of what happened between the two. Mental Illness is serious and should not be taken lightly, BUT it also DOES NOT excuse bad behavior. Thanks for Watching!
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[@betheecommentator]

Update: it’s been over a year since I made this video and I have to say my opinion on the matter has changed. This was also one of my earliest videos and does not reflect the way my current format or content is created. Thank you so much for watching and for keeping this is mind.

[@SincerelyMe123]

I agree. Ethan has done so much for Trisha and she completely gaslighted her way through this relationship/ He manipulation tactics were so intense, it was easy to lose yourself in them. Eff Trisha and Moses

[@IncrediblyMid]

The state of your mental health is not your fault, but it IS your responsibility!

[@sansserif8839]

Tricia is literally addicted to adrenaline and cortisol. She needs to get a proper diagnosis and take several seats. Sadly, social media can create monsters like this woman.

[@ernie8430]

@@IncrediblyMid Yesss this!

[@RinasAMaker]

Trisha is a peace of work. She is a professional internet troll. At the end of the day, it’s all about her bag. She does things intentionally to get people looking and talking about her. And I’m sorry, but her his/her thing is BS too. It was also said for attention because it was “trending”. Therefore, I will continue to refer to her as SHE/HER. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@alivewithchrist777]

Trisha is INTOLERABLE. It’s so hard to watch her be so vindictive, spiteful, classless, hateful & mean . She has no good side, it’s fake

[@lilbebe6566]

The fact that she went off on everyone (including Dan) because hila didn’t want to be talked about… god. She’s intolerable. Btw great commenting. Subscribing !!

[@mcdonaldsbigmac3935]

Exactly

[@siiiiiuu7]

Trisha: criticizes Ethan and Hila’s parenting 5 seconds later: “I never said I was talking about you, you’re projecting” Trisha: bashes Hila to Ethan 5 seconds later: denies everything in front of Moses The amount of gaslighting she put Ethan through is just disgusting.

[@unknown-jv1xm]

Andddd she is doing in front of camera.. I mean ethan cam clearly replay the bit and ask for clarification by what she meant.. also, her facial expression degrades whatever ethan is saying or trying to explain

[@dontknow3949]

Well the stuff she put Ethan through is simply deserved. He exploited her for views (otherwise the videos would have been gone a long time ago and so much of this never would have happened if he had different intentions). Sure, Trisha is a psychopathic narcissistic monster. She was only on the show due to her hysterics which brought tons of viewers. Ethan knew all of this. He's dumb in certain aspects but he knew he struck gold getting a "frenemies" podcast exploiting this monster. Yes. It is possible to exploit a monster and then suffer the wrath of the monster. Happens all the time in all kinds of scenarios. Ethan is a piece of shit 10 faced asshole so.

[@LaLA441000]

How would she even have known what she would do as a parent, she wasn't one at that moment in time!

[@nalawilkinson6573]

Trisha saying she wouldn’t have a nannie literally makes me laugh she can’t even have a dog

[@lavalampluva55401]

@@alyssarfreitas God help that poor baby. Too bad you can't choose your parents.

[@hannah3146]

@@lavalampluva55401 omg I feel so bad for her baby and she's obsessed with Moses being Jewish and said very antisemitic things. I'm Jewish by heritage not religion and she's said very offensive things and fetishes Jewish Men

[@Alleellaa]

I am really glad you noticed and brought light to the sexual harassment towards Ethan and his own mental health situation. It often gets overlooked because Trisha is such a great manipulator.

[@oman416]

But he did it too… also he has a disgusting past. He’s no victim.

[@SnakeMCGaming]

@@oman416 when did he sexually harass her? Gonna need some evidence for this accusation

[@oman416]

@@SnakeMCGaming there’s a lot. But no one ever sees it as that because Trisha presents herself as a sexual person and makes adult content. So ppl thinks it’s okay for him to ask her mom and sister their opinion on Trisha getting a candle stick shoved in her that injured her and caused her to need surgery. Just caused Trisha talks about it doesn’t mean it’s okay for other ppl I throw it around.

[@oman416]

@@SnakeMCGaming kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKDHo6KDo5iUnNU find my 1 at least 1 clip where Trisha is anywhere near that level.

[@SnakeMCGaming]

@@oman416 lmfao are you a Keemstar fan? You literally dragging up old shit Ethan has not only apologized for on multiple occasions, but has also since changed that behavior? Like seriously? That’s the best you got. Find me something current that proves he hasn’t changed or gtfo here with your nonsensical arguments

[@DarkLordLinkOfficial]

I really enjoyed the podcast at first when Ethan would call her out, but once he started walking on eggshells she started walking all over him. Felt like I was rewatching an abusive relationship

[@NeahIvannaMUA]

She completely tortured him during that podcast. After a period of time her was walking on eggshells in every conversation and constantly apologizing. She’s very dangerous

[@brumbrum987654321]

She tortures all the men in her life. She was so rude to Jason and isn't pleasant to Moses either

[@idkausername4035]

In true narcissist form. That’s exactly what they do they get you to completely submit so that they have full control and make you think that it’s your fault. Also sidenote you are absolutely stunning

[@letmeknowhowthatgoes]

He asked for it and participated using the same disingenuous tactics in the revenge-assault and subsequent takedown of David Dobrik.

[@earlteas]

the dangerous thing about trisha is that she uses mental health terminology or things that are becoming normalized in mental health as a way to manipulate and make the other person unable to defend themselves or have an ability to speak their side and that makes it so much harder for ethan to coexist with her on this podcast

[@Bansheeea]

Fuck my ex used to do this to me. He hit me and then when I’d call him out, he said I was gaslighting HIM and that I was the aggressor and made him do it.. and I believed him. It’s taken years to heal from that relationship.

[@sunnyplays8938]

Her mental illness makes her weaponize her mental illness subconsciously

[@Andreamom001]

Really! "You're gaslighting me," she says as she gaslights him. "You're projecting..." Ugh

[@tabbypurrkins9129]

Being an@$$hole isn't in the DSMIV

[@margyritchie2702]

@@tabbypurrkins9129 Its not Lol? Coulda fooled me

[@mijavera]

She is extremely aggressive towards his wife who doesn’t even appear on this frenemies show. I don’t get it.

[@sansserif8839]

I never say this, but I think she's jealous that her co-host has a wife. She wants men around her to be single so she can get all the attention.

[@mijavera]

@@sansserif8839 that’s a good point. She is used to be being lust after I guess.

[@Fluer-de-Lis]

@@mijavera I think that’s the only way she knows how to connect with men. She has low self worth and doesn’t have much to offer in the way of personality or looks so she has to constantly throw sexual energy towards men in order to gain and control energy.

[@tonybalony1811]

@@Fluer-de-Lis this is so true

[@CJAmara]

She’s jealous that Hila has a husband that actually loves her. She’s jealous that Hila had some skills, talent and credibility. She’s jealous that Hila is respected. She’s jealous because there’s a man (Ethan) that wants Hila and not her. Her aggression and hatred towards Hila is not normal.

[@FionavanDahl]

The whole "pills" saga is repulsive. At 12:53 she says "that you *do* pills and shit", implying he still is. And then she acts like he's silly for hearing it that way. I'm glad he called her out for weaponizing what he said privately, but he should have also set a boundary such as "If you again bring up things on air that I've told you privately, I will throw to commercials or something and have a stern off-air talk - that is not about the audience, that is about respect." And then it would have become even more obvious that she HAS NONE.

[@sarahray3573]

She literally shows her ass during that whole thing. Ethan literally is trying to walk on eggshells around a master manipulator

[@candydeedamn1559]

He really was subjected to so much manipulative mind games during this time. Rewatching this I feel through the screen the eggshells he walked on.

[@Ironhart]

Yeah I was going back watching clips. And the way she acted towards Ethan and hila and the crew . Is just so disgusting.

[@_wolfbite__8901]

Let’s not void him of all fault tho, he exploited trisha mental health multiple times in videos and thumbnails for clicks and views. He walked on egg shells because Ethan idk if you know this is pretty problematic himself or did we forget all his old videos ? None the less the jokes he makes/ things he says aren’t appropriate just as some things trish says aren’t appropriate. They’re both to fault.

[@cosodesign8953]

@@_wolfbite__8901 Thank you! It’s so easy to pin it on Trisha cause she makes it so easy but the thing is Ethan is toxic himself and does shit to get reactions out of people. A shitty thing he does when people call out his behavior is throw a pity party. “Im such a bad person blah blah blah” like it’s rare he takes actual accountability without trying to emotionally manipulate others into feeling sorry for him. He also has this self richeous attitude a lot of times and I feel like he’s sucked his hole team into accepting his BS. At the end of the day they are both problematic

[@_wolfbite__8901]

@@cosodesign8953 yeha like when trisha says I’m uncomfortable here he’s like “what so I can’t make a joke now !?” Like she or anyone for that matter once voiced their concern doesn’t need him to justify it jusy accept that it made them uncomfortable and move on not to mention when he feels off about anything he internalised it so when something is being said that he’s not okay with he expects people to read his mind and predict what is and isn’t okay to say or do.

[@phrozti188]

@@_wolfbite__8901 I mean he'd apologize for it, trisha on the other hand would push and push and push, what exactly is Ethan at fault for?

[@tiara5775]

She literally just showed up. That's it. Everything else was produced and provided by Ethan and the crew. She gaslighted him ALL the time, treated his wife and the crew like shit and he still was willing to make it work.

[@tiara5775]

@@betheecommentator It was but excellent video 👏 I'm glad people are still talking about Trisha and not letting her get away with all of this.

[@__rm307]

@@betheecommentator Ethan wasn’t all sweet and kind either. You conveniently removed all the clips of Ethan making fun of Trisha’s appearance, calling her fat, even BEFORE frenemies. Ethan was a lil obsessed w (mocking) Trisha too.

[@betheecommentator]

@@__rm307 I agree. This was one of my earliest videos and it is so biased. I wish I could re-do it. I only keep it up to show the growth on my part. But the way I did this episode does not represent my current format or how I want to create content. When I made this, I had seen so much stuff about Trisha, that I went into it with my mind already made up. I don’t agree with this video at all.

[@Doodlecream]

The end of frenimes still stings rewatching the end, and seeing how hard Ethan tried to please her.

[@mcdonaldsbigmac3935]

Honestly you have to be blunt with bozos like Trisha and just tell her to f off

[@bendoverjudy]

It wasn't even that good. It was him trying real hard not to piss her off. It was infuriating

[@thehangedwoman8893]

Lets all ask Charlie dimilio how she asked to be left alone and how accommodating trisha was, seriously this woman should not be on the internet or near any kids!

[@wickednikki1303]

And Trisha’s reply was she was a public figure so everything was up for discussion…but apparently not when it comes to Trisha

[@JhoJhoMojo]

I definitely agree that Dr. Drew, a seasoned therapist was way off on his assessment of the situation between Ethan and Trisha. Not sure why he was fighting so hard for Trisha when he had an opportunity to give her constructive feedback. In my opinion, he validated Trisha's bad behavior which did not help Trisha at all. Dr. Drew actually gave Trisha more ammunition to use and support her narrative. By the way, love your breakdown and analysis of the situation that I had to subscribe.

[@kieleleron85768]

I watched the psychology in Seattle channel's Dr honda react to the Dr Drew episode and his analysis as a therapist was quite eye opening.

[@popartpistol]

tbh I feel like he was buttering Trish up for a future show

[@valeriefiorentino925]

I don’t know why Dr.Drew does this but he has a pattern of not holding women like Trisha accountable. When he hosts the teen mom shows he constantly makes excuses for the moms behaviors like Amber Portwood and coddles them

[@itsautumn30]

The Dr. Drew episodes make me so upset because Ethan's thoughts and feelings are always dismissed. He's told that he needs to do and be better. While Trisha is never in the wrong.

[@itisyerdad]

Dr. Drew is a hack. Just because he's famous doesn't mean he is actually a good therapist or makes remotely good observations. When he was on Lovelines pretty much any gay person who called in, he would say they'd been molested. He's just Bad Take McGee. Always has been.

[@n0thanku]

Ethan is basically like “look at everything I do for you” and narcissist trish is like “I never asked you to do that tho”

[@justinemail111]

I wish Trisha could be de-platformed. She is beyond toxic.

[@sydnielabelle5539]

i totally agree, i don’t understand how people still defend her ?

[@eypu999]

@@sydnielabelle5539 they’re as bad as them:/

[@adriennemarcus8085]

Agreed

[@cypress7876]

De-platforms yet you all still watch her

[@__rm307]

@@cypress7876 exactly - people love to have someone to hate.

[@brennan1384]

One thing that really bothered me was the “i’d never have a nanny” me and my partner work 8-12 hours everyday. we do not have the family to watch our son or the financial ability to have one of us not work or go part time. just because she wouldn’t do something doesn’t mean it’s wrong. some of us have to work. makes it sound like it’s not okay for you to put your financial responsibilities ( like a child having food) before spending time w them. babysitters, daycares and nannies are essential to so many peoples lives.

[@mijavera]

Non parents giving advice or opinions about how parents are raising kids isn’t a good look. Daycare and Nannies are definitely essential for working parents.

[@sansserif8839]

She's constantly throwing rocks and hiding her hands. Toxic. Child minders keep a family together. Anyone with a nanny is smart. Trisha would probably leave kids home alone at age eight while she went to Vegas.

[@roseharvey2664]

Hila has said that their nanny is the most important person in their lives, she really values her and knows how important she is in her son's life. Having a great nanny is fantastic as the child can stay in their own home and isn't having to get up early bring all their stuff and possibly come home quite late. Not everyone can have a nanny and are reliant on childcare centres, that is just the way it is. I am not sure how old Trisha's brother was when he was doing all the child minding but fair play to Ethan didn't question what her Mum had to do to go to work, but likely the brother was given a lot of responsibility he may not have been ready for. I don't know how he put up with this crazy person. She messed up a good professional opportunity, but she has to be in control and make out others are somehow wronging her. There is no placating Trisha and she just is destructive.

[@QueenAlienRocker]

Trisha will be the FIRST one to get a nanny if she * * shudder ** has kids. She definitely meant the nanny comment as a dig.

[@empac8631]

Keep in mind she also said something along the lines of having a nanny/babysitter is dangerous for kids cause they might get SA’d (I think she even claimed a babysitter touched her in passing during the argument) and that only family should watch kids [which Ethan’s parents do enough, it’s more about, like you said, an everyday thing where a child needs someone to fully pay attention to them but both parents work] but then in a later episode claimed that a family member SA’d her too. In her argument there is no winning. If somehow she is given the gift to have children I worry about that kid, she has no real concept of how hard it can be to have a child and how much attention, dedication, patience, and understanding they require. She can’t just have a child for the insta pictures and then let them roam free. She’ll be pawning that kid off on her mother right away because she doesn’t have what it takes in terms of patience and compassion for others. That whole argument was just the perfect definition of a person with instability and insecurity lashing out trying to hurt someone instead of taking accountability for themselves. My sister does it all the time, she screws up and I tell her how it hurt me and instead of reflecting and saying sorry it’ll go to her taking shots at what she knows is my worst insecurities. Just like Trisha randomly calling out Ethan taking pills at one point. She knew what she was saying about the nanny was BS, out of line and completely unrelated and nonsensical but she just couldn’t help herself. She felt humiliated and angry and that’s when people with severe issues and abusive tactics let down their act the quickest

[@elainascott7496]

I have Tourettes syndrome and my tics get WAY worse when I'm in a stressful situation. I'm so glad he's not working with Trisha anymore, that woman is so goddamed toxic.

[@alexcerchez2698]

I feel like the whole 5% issue was way out of hand. Ethan has been more than generous to give her a 45% cut, while in reality they should actually have been given much less. Trisha was a cohost/guest speaker, nothing more... They come on set every week, sit down and talk for about an hour, then leaves. They don't contribute with any of the production and they are using H3's equipment. Plus, they agreed to this! If they really wanted it to be 50/50, it needed to be separate from H3. This is simply the result of Trisha not being a mature adult and ignorant on how business truly works.

[@nowey2251]

And it wasn’t just 45%! When she complained about it he started to give her 50% of all the memberships on top of the 45% 💀

[@kelseyj.c7828]

I don’t think it was ever truly about the money, it was her excuse

[@kelseyhatton1]

Ethan: you seem upset Trisha: I'm not upset Ethan: no really you seem upset Trisha: OMG IM NOT UPSET!!! Ethan: Okay fine you're not upset Trisha: omg you're gaslighting me.

[@KetchupRocket]

My ex best friend did this. Had a conversation while hanging out and then out of no where she left. I asked her if she was upset with me and her response was “don’t worry, we are perfectly fine. I just need to go.” I texted her again later to check in, same answer. And again the next day just to be sure. Same. Cut to four weeks later, days before my WEDDING and she says “I never asked, she was clearly upset, I never apologized etc” APOLOGIZE FOR WHAT??? You said nothing was wrong! Dropped her ass immediately. Best thing I ever did. And in hindsight I never should’ve given her a chance. People like her and Trisha have a traceable history of their shitty behavior. (For me, the fact she tried to drown/water oars her girlfriend-now-wife in college years before we met should’ve been my red flag, but I tried to see the best in her for who she was now… I think Ethan tried to do the same thing with Trisha).

[@claudiavibes711]

Exactly, right? 😂

[@jessp8238]

@@KetchupRockettried to see the best in her? Girl why? 😂

[@ChicBeautyxo13]

I feel really bad saying this but as a child of a malignant female narcissist… I feel so bad for her future child. It’s not going to go well. Also, how is nobody talking about how bad dr drew gaslighted and minimized Ethan? You could tell he felt so frustrated/confused, which ultimately was Trishas goal. As someone who goes to therapy, my ass would never be going back to that guy lol

[@Chelsea-Bones]

She reminds me so much of my mom

[@idkausername4035]

My mother was also a malignant narcissist. I’m so sorry for what you went through

[@alexg4936]

she says she can’t get pregnant so hopefully that is the case

[@foreverfawn9774]

@@alexg4936 she is taking fertility treatments now unfortunately

[@elviradesantos]

The fact that she is pregnant now

[@MsLemonhead]

Trisha is a troll and someone needs to stand up against her and hold her accountable. She has said on frenemies that "you need something for people to feel sorry for u for" so she uses this fake tears, fake meltdowns, and "he's inciting bullying and hate" to get people to feel sorry for her and be on her side, or at least against Ethan.

[@afiggy17]

Trisha is secretly in love with Ethan YOU CANNOT CHANGE MY MIND

[@shadowmedusa9423]

With Ethan and his WHOLE life with Hila, teddy and the success of the podcasts

[@eavrrrr7494]

She’s obsessed that he wasn’t attracted to her

[@babybabybaby3512]

i personally think she is not in love with him but became obsessed with him and the friendship he wanted to bring to her

[@nou7196]

Trisha isn't in love with anything

[@MimiFerrari63]

I agree 100% and when his wife said she was pregnant again she lost her mind.

[@porkstrip2630]

she’s like a literal child. “do you want me to weaponize you cause do i have things that i can weaponize against you” like are you serious? that’s some stuff you’d say in like 6th grade

[@porkstrip2630]

15:20 ethan: “but clearly you’re trying to say something about us trisha: “not at all. that’s you” and she tries to say that everyone else gaslights her? yeah ok.

[@lex4506]

“It’s not tea, it’s information” gave me chills

[@yhhcourts]

I’m sooooo glad someone else has openly discussed the bias that Dr Drew had in that episode!!!

[@smellycat6386]

Ugh! It frustrated me, the whole time I was waiting for Dr.Drew to say something to Trisha and her manipulative ways.

[@yhhcourts]

@@smellycat6386 exactly, and that doesn’t necessarily mean he should’ve gave Ethan an easy time, but it could have at least been 50/50….

[@Tonyhawkproskaterfour]

I think Trisha has a hard time drawing platonic lines in her relationships with men and when Ethan drew that line first it almost seems like she became resentful or jealous of his relationship with Hila (or even just of Hila herself). Or it at least seems like it became a huge sore spot for them? Just my observation

[@hellsjamfleas]

She has recently said the same of women. That she has no female friends and was making an effort now that she was a mum. Somehow and sadly it seems she has lived her life without platonic friends. I suppose her super sexuality and flirting is her way of bonding with people.

[@3moresisters]

I just found this vid through a Reddit comment and although I (unfortunately) already know pretty much everything about this toxic saga, I still finished the whole thing because you drew me in! This was so well done and thorough, not to mention your voice is super soothing and great for commentary. Subbed and going to binge your other vids now. Keep it up lovely!❤️

[@KarkatVantasBitches]

It's really hard for me to understand how Hila's family doesn't really seem to be siding with her and Ethan, when it's extremely obvious what kind of person Trisha is. I get they love their son but he's just letting Trisha talk about his sister like that. If my partner called my sister a bunch of names for not wanting to talk to him he'd be in for a rude awakening...

[@brianagarcia8546]

I don’t think they’re on Trisha/Moses side at all. I think the mon just doesn’t want to loose Moses completely and is trying to be on good terms with both of them

[@KarkatVantasBitches]

@@brianagarcia8546 I understand that, it's just wild to me that they're trying to remain neutral when one party is so obviously in the wrong here. The way I see it, excusing consistent toxic behavior is the same thing as siding with the one behaving in a toxic manner. I do know it's probably way more complicated than any of us can tell though.

[@Theloversconjure]

Wow! Her asking him “do you want to have S## with me” as a polygraph question is so messed up! She was wearing a playboy bunny outfit!! If it had come back false that would have surely been super hurtful to Hila and embarrassing for Ethan. The devil has no bounds!!

[@ajupeach]

holy fuck. the way ethan tells trisha to just admit when she’s angry & she goes on to say that she’s not angry when clearly she is then says “it’s gaslighting” just made me think about when i told an old friend what i felt about her actions towards me & then when she visibly got upset i told her she didn’t have to get mad bc it wasn’t an attack on her character, she went off on me bc “she wasn’t mad”. how triggering.

[@jaycaspian2137]

Queen stuff

[@__rm307]

It’s because you’re telling someone else how they are feeling. It’s a control / manipulation tool people use. You may think that she shouldn’t be mad about what you said - but it’s not your place to control someone’s emotional reaction. People are allowed to feel how they’re gonna feel. Obviously telling an angry person - wow you’re angry - is going to escalate things. It’s like telling someone “they look tired”. Maybe it’s correct but - keep it to yourself you know?

[@jessp8238]

@@__rm307Maybe you should just learn how to be more honest about your emotions.

[@idontknowagoodname1966]

This may be a little off topic but I wish more people knew how awful keemstar is. Trisha is very outspoken about how she is a supporter of SA victims but will go on keemstars show who has said terrible things about SA victims. This should be more spoken about

[@rozieque]

If you see tears coming out of her eyes from all that fake crying, please let me know 🙄🙄🥱 she’s a manipulator and I’m very disgusted by her behavior. Great content Be. 👏👏😊

[@chava2904]

I’m jewish and it’s so wild to me how… obsessive(?) trisha is with jews, like, not with the religion or culture but with jewish men in particular. It really shows that jewish people are just like of a fetish to her.

[@xkissmyswaggx4292]

This is a very fair breakdown of what happened. As someone who watched all of this unfold I feel like this is a very accurate summary of what actually happened.

[@nikkikidd8428]

It may be an old, cringey cliche but the saying,”if you’re going to dish it out you’d best be ready to take it” is the absolute best way to run your life.

[@dianneEdangerously]

Trisha is a scary person, he shouldn’t trust her around his children

[@brook9974]

The scary thing is she's now trying to get pregnant with fertility treatments! She shouldn't have kids until she can figure her own shit out

[@completlynormalhypernova666]

@@brook9974 unfortunately, she has a kid now

[@siiiiiuu7]

All of her “fans” who preach that everyone should show Trisha the utmost kindness and forgiveness need to see this. If they still stick to their beliefs, they’re just as twisted as she is 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mcdonaldsbigmac3935]

Her fans have rotted brain syndrome just like Trisha

[@kimberlee9608]

Trish just wants to destroy as much of other people’s genuine happiness as possible in effort to try and fill the emptiness inside her.

[@lornadoone902]

I think its way due that Trisha gets her dues. When you spit in the air its going to come back down and hit you in the face. The consensus is that Trisha met her match and shes getting what she deserves. I'm with Ethan.

[@raccoonmanstan8916]

I hope your channel grows, you have the voice for this and the skills.

[@betheecommentator]

Oh wow, thank you so much!

[@lostbeyondpluto]

I second this. Really enjoyed your commentary on this topic. You come across as very intelligent and well-spoken. Great job!

[@Camibug]

@@betheecommentator I third this!

[@02loud]

Fourth! Glad I found this channel.

[@hannah3146]

@@betheecommentator will you do Kanye part 2? Love your videos 💜

[@mayaw.4013]

Trisha is honestly so full of BS. Over the years, I’ve been able to tell genuine cries from real ones, because if someone is genuinely crying, for some reason I’ll literally cry with them, but that never really happens with Trisha. I think it happened once when she was on her kitchen floor crying, but any time after that never worked. It’s like I have a built-in BS meter, it’s pretty great.

[@herefortheshrimp1469]

You know I experience something really close to that and honestly it feels really uncomfortable. I’m such a huge crier and I hate it when I see people suffering mental health issues since I know what that’s like but with her….I end up mocking her. And typically that would be such a gross thing to do in that situation but I’m just not capable of feeling sympathy for her sometimes

[@user-ge3wm8ot8q]

Wonderful commentary. I found some parts of frenemies really difficult to watch… Trisha used the same tactics that people who have mistreated me and my loved ones towards Ethan. Her arguments came from a weird unreality and Ethan had to scramble to keep up. He obviously did not understand what he was dealing with on the show!

[@lianashton33]

She is the most toxic person I’ve ever seen in my life.

[@allyschmally]

She didn’t ever stop talking about them... how many times has she said “you put your life on the internet so I have the right to criticize you”...

[@miriamhailey]

The podcast literally took a mental toll on me. Trisha absolutely stressed me out. Poor Ethan, I can’t imagine.

[@UltimaFantasy]

Crazy that it still went on for sooo many episodes after many offensive comments in the beginning

[@tararainone5060]

The nanny one blows my mind! Does she think its better to ignore their child or leave them unsupervised while they are busy working? Wow. Nanny is daycare thats at your home rather then out with a group.

[@QueenAlienRocker]

This is a great example of how Trisha can't work with others. She can't play well with others at all. In the context of a real job or life, she would have learned or starved. In her little KZbin bubble, she never had to learn people skills, or any interpersonal skills whatsoever. I truly hope she loses all her money, so she can learn how to be a person.

[@KetchupRocket]

Sadly I knew someone just like Trisha and they have had multiple real world jobs, they don’t learn. They just bounce from one environment to the next so the circles don’t overlap. Once one circle burns they jump ship before the consequences can permanently affect them and then the cycle repeats.

[@trishaaudettemammadukes30]

I don't think hes wrong for speaking his mind she was able to in her 52 responses on her platforms to his one tweet and all the 100s of her responses since. He has a right to speak about anything that has happened to him, good or bad. especially what Trisha had/has said and done to him. she just wants it all to stop because she can't control the narrative anymore and keep track of all of her lies. She's so fake and such a liar. Extremely performative too for attention, money, &views. It was very cathartic to hear him live telling her off and calling her on so much of her bs. I watched it 3 times before it was deleted. I hope he continues to speak up about how he feels and about/on current events.

[@ChicBeautyxo13]

Totally! It’s interesting to see it play out on such a public platform. Usually the narcissist will just cut off and discard the supply who has realized their lies, but in this case she can’t. She’s totally panicked that people have seen under the mask. Now she has resorted to emotionally blackmailing everyone as a last attempt.

[@sigilesse]

Oh my God I love your approach and how in depth you go. The upfront nature of how you balance the emotional and factual portions of a story, while also showing you character. Love love love. Can't wait to watch your future videos. 😂😂 I've already watched all the rest!

[@Caty0Caty]

Lol i had nannies and they were the most caring womans ever, my mom still talks to them. A house with 3 kids is difficult to take care alone.

[@kmccullough2939]

This video was triggering. I had an extremely manipulative roommate in college who I constantly walked on eggshells around. You are amazing for putting yourself through these videos of Tricia. I'd need a long nap after that. I have never liked Ethan or understood his appeal, but he clearly was being put through the ringer with this woman. And that TikTok is despicable. He had every right to call that out.

[@KittiWithKatana]

you know what ive noticed about trishas crying? no snot, minimal tears. my mother pulled this shiatsu all the time. i was 26 before i let myself cry in front of anyone. the only way to deal this kind of person is to pretend they dont exist, shut them out completely. ethan and his family deserve better than her.

[@treemarie213100]

She has always wanted Ethan and it drives her crazy that he’s not attracted to her. She hooked up with his brother-in-law to try to get under his skin, perhaps make him jealous and to drive a wedge between him and hila. It didn’t work. She tried again and again to convince him that he was bored in his marriage and then he wasn’t happy. She was always trying to manipulate him. She hates the love, loyalty and respect he has for his wife because no man has ever had that for her and she’s never had it for anyone else. Rewatching this stuff again just infuriates me all over again. She is truly absolutely the worst most vile vapid narcissistic stereotype. She is a fake empty shell of a person with a black void where her heart is supposed to be. She is miserable and she always will be. That’s why she loves to spread it around. All of this drama is because of her jealousy and the fact that he doesn’t want her. All of it. And just to add since all of this started she’s made millions of TikTok videos and KZbin videos absolutely trashing him and his wife in every aspect of their being and he makes a few very mild in comparison responses to her and she loses her mind and plays the victim. When has she ever stopped talking about someone when they asked? I can’t think of a single time. And we have seen her repeat this same pattern over and over again with everyone she has ever come in contact with. She has all these standards for everyone and everything else but there are no boundaries or limits for her. She is the most hypocritical person I have ever come across in my entire life. Its like she lives on another planet.

[@felipagarcia22]

You went off! Everything you just said I completely agree 100%

[@CelticLuna]

I'm not a fan of either party, except for Hila, and it is very unfortunate that this has divided a family. I do think at times that Ethan should stop talking about Trisha on his podcast(not for Trish's sake but for his own sake and sanity) but at the same time, he has every right after what Trish has put him and his family through in public. Also, even though I know it is your job but I am sorry that you had to watch countless hours of Trisha and the Frenemies podcast your service is noted and appreciated

[@tonybalony1811]

I think it’s really hard not to say anything when you add racism to the mix. Trisha has been so out of line w her comments on Jewish ppl, while simultaneously marrying a Jewish man.

[@brianagarcia8546]

Ethan comments on current evens on KZbin plus he’s always been super open about everything, it would be strange if he didn’t talk about her imo

[@hannah3146]

@@tonybalony1811 now she's having a baby omg I recently found this out and I find it terrifying I can't imagine what her kid will go through and see!

[@noelle9685]

i always knew trish was toxic and insufferable but this video just really made me feel for ethan, idk how he ever sat through those convos and didn’t actually lose his sanity. dude is being accused of gaslighting while being gaslighted

[@stephaniepearson732]

This is really high quality and so eloquently put! I can’t believe you don’t have more subscribers/views! I’m so glad I came across this☺️❤️

[@simonacvetkovski7855]

The situation with Jonah Hill is a clear example of how people weaponize their experiences in therapy to control others and I think it applies very well to Trisha

[@foreverwander0320]

Hearing you recognize Dr. Drew’s unfair treatment of Ethan is cathartic. It was frustrating to watch him invalidate Ethan. And your take on Ethan’s positive, plutonic support for Trisha is right on - it was a first and I think could have really helped her. But she sabotaged everything. (Oh, and yes about Hila’s pregnancy. The switch instantly flipped. I think the show resonated with many of us who’ve been in abusive, narcissistic relationships. ❤️)

[@JJLD94]

I am once again Asking WHY IS KZbin SLEEPING ON THIS CHANNEL?! clear, detailed information presented in a way that is not reactionary or inflammatory. Thanks so much for your fresh take on commentary videos, and your diligence in providing information in an entertaining but grounding way!

[@jdsgma4467]

She is so jealous of their lives, something she will never have.

[@jaredhynum4823]

BE- you are truly a rising star in this commentary game. You sound so young and yet you are so level-headed when it comes to exploring these controversial situations and getting to the bottom of who’s a true victim vs who’s playing victim. It’s human nature to get emotionally attached to one side of an argument; you do a great job avoiding that and just sticking with the objective facts. Your voice is strong, unique, and very well developed. I’m confident that you will have hundreds of thousands of subscribers in a year or two if you decide to keep this up. So glad to be in on the ground floor! Keep it up 👍

[@betheecommentator]

Awww thank you so much! Completely made my day!! I appreciate your support, feedback and well wishes!!!! Thank you!! ❤️😊

[@hannah3146]

@@betheecommentator you are awesome I love all your videos

[@andresl.9404]

if she is really having a breakdown and has all those issues, she should go to a hospital and not just videotape herself

[@harrietalice7783]

Honestly Frenemies was doomed from the get-go. Ethan had Trisha on a H3 podcast a couple of years back and they didn't just throw up one red flag but took Ethan and Hila on a friggin' factory tour to see where those damn things get made. Beside that, I'll never understand how Ethan could look at the kind of person Trisha is and say to himself 'they look like someone I want involved in my life.' It's like chugging hydrochloric acid then complaining you have a stomach ache. -__-

[@xanatsnz928]

i feel like something that doesn’t get talked about enough was that the whole premise of the show and their success was because of trisha’s out of pocket behaviour, at the end of the day everyone profited from this very public breakdowns, not only trisha, and when the show was on it was something that always bothered me, why is everyone just finding this entertaining when trisha is not reliable and clearly explosive and it was fun for everyone until she crossed the very thin line she was on during the whole show this is not to excuse trisha at all, but i feel like the audience and h3h3 have some responsibility in how big and horrible this situation ended up being, by cashing in and using this very public breakdowns as entertainment, a lot of this fights did not need to be uploaded, they could have stayed on the drafts, yet they chose to make this very public.

[@SydDees]

This! Thank you!

[@sarahdavis672]

This is the best summary of these events I’ve seen so far!! Very detailed but also to the point. Great work!

[@elil8094]

Trisha is 100% a horrible human being. They’re toxic, burns all their bridges in the worst ways, and takes advantage of anyone who tries to give them opportunities to grow. Honestly, they need to experience a harsh reality check. I have absolutely no love or sympathy for them.

[@mcdonaldsbigmac3935]

Right there with you

[@yagirl4367]

ethan’s tourrettes is not vocal tics. he talked about that type of tics only affects 5% of people with tourette’s and trisha constantly accused his normal sentences of being tics even after being told it wasn’t

[@xryxix]

Thank you for such a comprehensive video on the whole thing. Been meaning to catch up. It's really a lot. Sad how Trisha walks over people about her feelings while hurting whoever she wants so bad. Like yeah trauma is a lot and can be a lot on a person. Just sad to see people use however to manipulate/hurt others. Passive aggressiveness/willful ignorance are honestly some of the worst things to deal with

[@user-qp3pu5yv1e]

She’s such a phony I really can’t stand TP! I hope she got hemmoroids from tryin* to force herself to cry, it was pathetic and childish and I don’t believe she sees a therapist 4x a week and if it’s tru3 maybe she should consider finding a new therapist because she’s a hot mess!

[@mightybooshtish]

Well done - I've seen a lot of summaries and yours is awesome! Keep up the good work x

[@wb1644]

This is crazy, its like Larry King rest his soul, invites someone to host the show with him, and that person wants to have input on who they have as staffs, and ask about them moving to a new studio. This girl is dangerous, she literally is the type that people that are nice to her could be accused of being abusive towards her.

[@madisonleigh9528]

This was put together very well I haven’t seen any of your vids before but you did a great job!

[@who__cares__]

I bet you she gets a nanny💀💀💀💀💀

[@lmpfunk]

Just found your channel! Your voice is really nice & easy to listen to. Additionally, your tone and cadence is perfect for this type of reporting/commentating content, you just deliver the info in a really non bias manner. Really great job, awesome video!

[@livewiiiiire]

I love the end where you bring up that our actions effect us and others, love your commentary! I have been searching for a new commentary channel to watch that isn't too much drama or bias and it looks like I've found it:)

[@Theirtherethere.]

I would have fuckin raged on that woman after the parenting and name dropping

[@SapphicKnits]

Oh my God their conversation @15:00 sounds SO much like interactions I've had with a friend of mine. It always bothered me, but my low self esteem fueled our friendship and made it easy for her to talk down on me and anyone she disliked. I had a break up with a guy I met at college who was 2 years older than me my freshman year and I realized how bad the relationship was for me and my mental health. Instead of helping me through it and comforting me like other friends did, her response was along the lines of "I'd never date a guy like that," talking about how he was unattractive and fat and that he wasn't her type. The way she spoke about it wasn't a "yea he's trash you deserve better" pep talk but rather a weird insistence on how she'd never be in that situation and would do better. She did that with everything and it was only recently that I realized that it also came from a place of insecurity and the need to feel superior.

[@L33tSkE3t]

She just seems really unstable and completely oblivious to her rampant and aggressive narcissism

[@generaluse7960]

When Charlie Damelio begged Trasha to stop talking about her, Trasha blasted - "you live your life on the internet, you are public figure, people are allowed to talk about u". Don't stop talking about her! But please dont consume her content. And Be Thee Commentator, i like your script, your wordflow is enviable.

[@briedalton9237]

Imagine if it was “You either want to be me or me be in you.” like that’s disgusting for anyone to say it’s ridiculous that she was able to get away with that.

[@miffyblob1606]

Honestly, I’ve watched a lot of videos on the Frenemies fallout (mainly because I used to watch it, and after I didn’t for a while I genuinely didn’t know what had happened), but this is the first one I watched in full without getting distracted! Your voice is very pleasant to listen to, and your editing style is great. Amazing job on this one, dude

[@0LovEMusiCFoRLifE0]

Generally well-summed up. About a month after the blow-up, an additional episode of Frenemies was filmed with the purpose of promoting the upcoming Frenemies merch release (that was in the works for months). This apparently went really awfully. While Trisha appeared to be in good spirits after the filming, she became angry when Ethan told her he had made the decision to not air the episode. Trisha made a video talking about this and that the reasoning was that Ethan, "admits his fault," and didn't want to look bad. Ethan said later on- in actuality, after discovering his brother-in-law recorded the unaired episode secretly- that the reason the episode didn't air was that Trisha was essentially trying to replay the argument again and basically on the attack the entire time. He said the episode was a flop and decided it wasn't worth showing the audience; that the mood was bad and it wasn't the reunion he had hoped for. Sorry that's long, just a point I felt may have been missed here that occurred before the Keemstar appearance!

[@tierdrop6345]

Her behaviour is gross 🤣 The whole segment of her in the hat where she was very clearly upset and then gaslighted him for believing she was upset, was disgusting. Everything this woman does makes me so upset 🤣

[@AndersTheSphynx]

Its apparent that Trish envys Hila for being all the thing she is not

[@samanthaswann5071]

It’s always seemed like Trisha can’t be in the wrong because they goes to therapy. That and the fact that They refuse to apologize speaks volumes

[@sheas1nner]

YOU ARE KILLING IT!!!!!! So happy I found you💕

[@LocalMcGee]

I have been going through an awakening recently. This came at a perfect time and I finally understand Ethan. I will not lie my empathy was ✨manipulated✨ because she was so obviously distressed. You put it in a different perspective for me and wooow I feel guilt for not seeing it

[@Alleellaa]

It's okay, don't be hard on yourself--you're not alone in that. Many of us could see the manipulation because we ourselves have unfortunately had the life experience of being in am abusive relationship. It's easy to spot after you've become aware of being manipulated. But you certainly weren't alone in hoping that Trisha wasn't as bad as she really is. I mean even Ethan was fooled by Trisha, and hopeful that she would grow. She had the opportunity and demolished it. She doesn't want to be a genuinely good person, she wants attention... and she will hurt whoever stands in the way of that. I'm happy to hear that you have become aware of it through your awakening!! 🥰❤️

[@bskfbah743]

She says she hasn’t spoken there names in months because she does talk about Ethan and hila all the time with out saying names she cries I laugh she’s so manipulative it grosses me out

[@iheartpiano18]

Trisha is so unhinged. She always scream cries about all of her old friends. She’s a big bully and she trashes all of her former friends all the time, not only Ethan. Horrible! This video is very spot on! Love it!

[@gummidusa1076]

This is such a great video! So well put together, I can see the hard work you put in. I just found your channel and I’m def subscribed now!

[@dumbbrunette3154]

i love how your comments remain neutral and factual. it’s so refreshing watching an unbiased video on this where the commenter isn’t trying to be funny or relatable. you seem so wise and respectful. i really enjoyed this video :) thank youuuuuu

[@mariaruggieri3208]

Officially my new favorite channel. “It’s not tea it’s information”, I absolutely love this relatively unbiased commentary I love that you explain the situation without bias but if you really look you see you insert your opinion so subtly and I absolutely love it.

[@SomeGuy.with.a.Beard93]

I have never wanted to grab someone by the shoulders, shake them, and tell them to compose themself more than when Trisha has any reaction to any situation.

[@appleblossonkim]

This was beautifully done!

[@betheecommentator]

Aww thank you so much I really appreciate your feedback!

[@yelofish3903]

her comments about "oh its believe the victim until its trisha" and that whole segment of the video really upsets me as someone who has been told i was lying and that it was just a misunderstanding when i told people i was sexually assaulted. i lost all my friends over it and it seems like trisha is just using it for views attention and drama. it really sucks man

[@hannahkohr3217]

YGG!! You are so talented.. love your ability to report on drama without creating it.

[@betheecommentator]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your feedback 😊

[@AngiePhoenix85]

Love your videos. Keep em coming

[@samanthajones4706]

Your videos are so informative and well done! I love your voice. It’s so soothing.