TRU & JAZ : NOT CRAZY JUST MISUNDERSTOOD EP. 11

Discord link: discord.gg/awhcXRS4
Join podcast host Jazmine as she and her co-host Truelandaze dive into a raw and honest discussion about the current stages of motherhood and the obstacles it comes with. Jaz opens up about her experience with Blaze's biological dad and the impactful role of his stepdad who has been an incredible support system. From tackling postpartum challenges to navigating through mom life, this conversation is filled with relatable moments and heartwarming insight. Tune in for a candid conversation that sheds light on the complexities of family dynamics and the beauty of maternal resilience. #Postpartum #MomLife

[@harleyhonordjhayes3369]

Girl tru your friend forreal when she called him a deat beat the way true Carried the conversation in a way where she felt safe enough to say Yes I’ve extended myself and blaze to him and he hasn’t responded Mama we would never expect you to ask more than once ❤

[@SunniMerlot]

Why didn’t you mention the mama who said “oh he don’t take care of none of his kids, let’s do it raw”? Or did she not know what the world knew? Thats a good mama to you huh? So smart so laid with a bum. I’m not seeing that part in your reply

[@HERNAMEISWHAT]

A two parent household is helpful AND needed.

[@AppleSauce5768]

That baby needs his dad & he’s a clown for not being there. BUT he had a track record already.. the baby is already here so no need to throw salt on old wounds so it’s best to keep it moving. He needs to get it together.

[@me_9289]

How if she told the world he wasn’t the dad and she knew he was? She had a whole different nigga telling him he was the dad

[@GoClearGoGhost]

Not saying he’s not at fault but y’all blame the babydad so much y’all need to blame the woman for letting dude nut in her. #DontShootDaMessenger

[@ShannonMichelle7937]

She’s a moron for letting him impregnate her. It’s actually gross and I feel sad for the baby.

[@alexiswright9857]

Jaz you ain’t play in nobody face, we knew honey 😭

[@badgalbbee993]

Having those feelings are perfectly normal. I have a 14 yr old and a 17 month old and I feel like that often . I’m a single mom and it’s hard, the feelings are normal. I get frustrated, overwhelmed, and I have to take a breather. That doesn’t make you a bad mom at all, even the pediatrician will tell you that. It’s soo important to have some kind of support, we all need it. You go through sooo much mentally not just physically when you become a parent. Praying for all of us mothers, it’s a journey but a beautiful one…

[@FalconsGirl1]

Tru is such a real friend ❤ thanks for the transparency and vulnerability

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you!! Really appreciate it! 💋🫶

[@_Shesmeee]

I’m not a mom but I think that hotline for single mothers is a brilliant idea bc I’ve seen from friends and family how hard and overwhelming it can be and with anything it’s good to have ppl that understand your struggles and can help you thru them. I think we underestimate the power of comfort and relatability sometimes so I def think you should put that together and you sound very passionate abt it. Love that Jazz ❤❤❤

[@Kaylaelaine6]

He makes you so soft and calm. I love this ❤

[@brianarichard18]

I understand sometimes things dont work out but a two parent household is definitely needed.

[@kasinoobree]

STATISTICALLY FOR SURE

[@MsGeei]

it’s not NEEDED! it’s a blessing!

[@RW-yt7ro]

Def not “needed” she literally has a village type family and mad friends with kids .the kid will be fine

[@csb734]

@@brianarichard18 It’s definitely needed, no matter how loved or big his village is sure one day he’ll wonder where or why his dad is not around. That’s why it’s important to choose wisely because it’s not about how the woman feels it’s about how not having an active father will affect the child! Just how adopted kids who grew up with all the love in the world will still wonder about their real parents one day.

[@Jaynotnextdoor]

Y’all gonna call her wrong but y’all need to be realistic sometimes. I understand it’s not necessary cause she has a big family but it is needed for a two parent household.

[@DominiqueNicole144]

God bless him lil handsome self😍🥰 Its such a blessing to have such a support system! I'm really happy for y'all!

[@londoncatchings0626]

Our neph on the podcast🥹💙I cantttt so cute! Congrats mamas🫶🏾

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you love!! ❤ u see neph neph 😂

[@Seemydimples]

​@@LookinAmeerahyupp we see him looking just like his siblings key triplets ..aww

[@AppleSauce5768]

Jazz you are already an amazing aunty so you got this. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Just stay positive & keep your family close, I know it’s hard as a naturally independent person but a village is always needed. You guys are blessed ❤

[@santana5659]

600breezy. The same man that disown his triplets and now you surprised he’s doing the same for you. Literally just set yourself up for failure. Goofy

[@visiondis]

Don't be low vibrational god wanted her bundle of joy to come here regardless of the circumstances

[@TeeNicole10]

WELL THEM TRIPLETS DONT LOOK NOTHING LIKE HIM🤷🏾‍♀️

[@amyames454]

Literally and you would of thought this is jayda literally sister or something? Having kids with a dude that is a WELL KNOWN dead beat like wtf????

[@anyy9951]

Blaze is literally so cute !! Can’t wait for him to grow up and hang with loyal

[@LookinAmeerah]

Yes, and do cousin tingsssss

[@Queenofbeautiful]

Everyone got sympathy for her after she had the audacity to open her mouth & disrespect another woman & 3 children.. “I seen him with his REAL kids” “tell her take a DNA test & we’ll be there” & now she in the same exact boat. On a podcast tryna embarrass him into being a parent. Cause if nobody knew why announce it? This is why it’s important to mind your business & never think it can’t happen to you.

[@Exit30Podcast]

It’s something about Jazmine spirit that I love. I see her on social media and she is very authentic. The good and the bad and thats what makes people love her. To show up like everything is perfect always will cause people to think you fake. I’m wishing the best for this young woman. She a hustle and I’m inspired because I get depressed and just say f everything she keeps it moving .

[@knwashington]

OMG Jaz this made me cry. We all have the same story about crying with the baby. My son is 19 now and I can remember that being my story. Trust me it will get better with time. You are doing your best and that's more than enough! 💜

[@LavionicaJay]

We love you ❤. Don’t let them bother you baby girl. You’re doing an awesome job ! By far my favorite celebrity mom.

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thanks so much ❤❤❤

[@NessieGirll]

I love this for you jazz , the growth is not unrecognizable. Be easy on yourself you are doing a great job . It’s okay to have bad days.

[@kaylux703]

Aww Jazzy 😢 I’m not even a mom but I teared up so bad when you gave your advice to the new mamas ❤

[@MB0623_]

Blaze look just like him it ain’t HARD TO TELL WTF🫠😭

[@MB0623_]

& yeah big energy wen u HAD UR CHILD FOR YOU 🙏🏽 not forcing or begging idgaf who u are lol

[@olishajohnson22]

First off all of these feelings that you are feeling are normal and I’m so proud of you because everything you said was a valid, I have 3 girls now and I know how I felt as a first time mom with the frustration!!! You’re doing great ❤❤

[@Skyesthelimit18]

This was such a good episode. I loved the vulnerability and transparency. ❤

[@LookinAmeerah]

thank you

[@chinaatell6025]

You are such a loving person and I pray you find that person who is worthy of it and ready to receive it. You doing an amazing job with baby Blaze and you have an amazing support system. Continue to be the person you are

[@ShayShayMalone]

The fact you think you playing with us and this is YOUR life is funny to me 🤣😂

[@grapeb5748]

That was delulu of her to ever think such a thing 😂😂😂😂😂

[@trylonda28]

This show was much needed from one mother to another. We all have been stressed 😩 I know that feeling. You are doing an amazing job, everyday is not gonna be easy. I’m so glad you have family and friends around to help you. Don’t let these people discourage you keep praying 🙏🏾 keep journaling and again you’re doing amazing mom. He is so handsome and loved

[@justjuicyy8932]

You Glowing. Blaze is so adorable! I LOVE THIS FOR YOU 🥰🫶🏽

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you! 🤗

[@lanettewarren3300]

That is a beautiful baby boy ! Lil man handsome 😍

[@ONEANDONLY00777]

Keep going you aren't the first and surely won't be the last. You're an awesome mother. Congratulations. Don't allow these people to steal your joy.

[@LoveRose-r4s]

It’s so sweet to see Jaz in her mommy era! You’ve always been that girl! I’m so proud of you! 👏🏽 ❤️ Blaze is a cutie patootie! 😍❤️‍🔥

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank youuuuu!

[@drippymcfarland2516]

I don’t see any other community publicly declaring that two parent homes are not needed

[@arielfoxx]

This had me crying. It was so hard for me with new born twins. The worst time in my life ever I literally had the worst thoughts ever. They’re older now and it’s still hard but they can help more now and tell me what’s wrong now. You’re doing just fine mama and it will get better. It’s ok to cry and it’s ok to have crazy thoughts as long as you don’t act on them and get help with your baby. Sending love 🫶🏾

[@AdrienaMarie]

Jaz!!! I hate when you cry girl. I always tear up. But you’re doing a great job girl, you got this!! ❤❤❤

[@Stephslashesandboutique]

I can relate to you so much I’m in a very similar situation where my son’s father just abandoned us and it is so hard.. I want to say u look amazing with this weight on u and u are growing ty for sharing your story

[@jeannilsamuel1448]

Blaze is adorable Jaz🥰 don’t be too hard on yourself love, you’re doing great 😊 Being a parent is not easy but it’s doable. God got you, don’t be afraid to ask for guidance and strength during difficult times. I’m rooting for you 💕

[@msvee_01]

Jazz you’re doing a great job. Wishing you and baby Blaze blessings upon blessings ❤❤

[@Azriel-Santana]

Thank you for this Podcast Jazz. Ima first time mommy as well and im happy that you touched everything from post Partum to relationships to feeling annoyed with being a first time mom, you are amazing girlie thank you.

[@LatifahHayward]

This was so amazing

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank yoouuuuuuu

[@metajafar]

I agree with Tru lol the baby has changed you but in the BEST way. you are glowing yes, but you also seem much more happy & free! it’s nothing wrong with being soft or vulnerable, that just means you’re healing & growing! many blessings to you & your beautiful baby boy! thanks for sharing.

[@shakitaturner1701]

DAMN IM SO PROUD OF YOU JAZZ!!! You've grown up and accepted accountability

[@Jasmine_young1111]

I didn’t see the discord on the screen… but i really loved this episode very vulnerable I cried right with jaz 😢 my kids are older but i remember those days being so frustrated and crying while the baby is crying but you will overcome, that’s the blessing of it all! Love this show keep going

[@LookinAmeerah]

discord.gg/awhcXRS4

[@queen_zyzy4880]

Girl you are on the right track ! Don’t live up to trying to be a perfect mom! We all have ups and downs! This podcast was amazing glad you got to open up and let other soon to be mothers or single mothers can be aware that is ok that’s how it is when being a mother ! You gave the best advice as a wonderful mother ❤I wish you the best❤

[@Rel_l]

I can’t unsee it 😮 he look just like his dad! You are doing an amazing job 🙏🏾 you got this 💙

[@lovejoy6710]

I’m so glad jazzz didn’t have post partum to the extreme! That is not everybody’s story!

[@marissawebb1118]

Awww Jazz 🥹💕don’t let them people get to you, you’re a quick learner you’re gonna be a great mom Javi is blessed to have you

[@keturahtaylor7858]

I totally get where she’s coming from, I don’t have any kids but I have custody of my siblings and learning how to be a parent is not easy it’s no book on this shit frfr! I pray that her and her baby get everything their hot desire ❤️

[@LouisianasSweetheart]

Aww you're awesome. I pray those same things for you. You're a blessing and your siblings are blessed to have you. ❤❤❤

[@Britbrat97]

My baby 4 months old and I can relate to all the new emotions as a first time mom. I definitely get overwhelmed but day by day it gets easier. Babies are such a blessing but honey the work that comes with it ain’t no joke tuh

[@joenetta3573]

This episode literally made me cry jaz and tru I needed this today. I am a single mom and trust me it never gets easier but I’m proud of myself two high school graduates and 1 next year. I did it Y’all ❤ you got this momma

[@yalarasims2050]

Yess I cried also ima single mother of 3 too of all boys & they’re still toddlers so yess I go through it 😂 my oldest is 6 , middle is 4 & youngest is 1 they keep me on my toes daily but I tell myself to keep pushing bc they have nobody but ME ❤

[@AmariGames]

Everything you are feeling is so normal. And the breaks you are taking is good. Just keep pushing and know you got it. It's hard but God won't put nothing on you that you can't handle. ❤ I am 33 with 4. Last baby is 13 months girl.

[@harleyhonordjhayes3369]

Girl I been married for 10 years with 5 kids and baby Sometimes I wish I was alone My husband as a total a/h he got money and he do provide but something I think about just leaving providing for my self and making my babies happy Don’t feed into the 2parent HH that’s not always what’s best ❤

[@Not2averaggeee]

I soooo love soft Jaz as well && know that what you’re doing and the way you’re learning is amazing!!! Continue being you!❤️🫶🏾

[@EboniMaria]

Congratulations again!!! I love the return to podcast with the baby :)

[@shonticegiles123]

Ughhhh jassss I love you in this era I love seeing you in this soft girl (mom) light I love how soft blaze has made you you talked about how real mom struggles and I needed this sooo much from Someone I loveeee to watchhh I have a 3 month old bitch and the struggle is mf real everyone definitely needs SOMEONE to talk to and express their self to 🫶🏽start that mommy hotline I’ll be on that mf 😂love you girl Great episode and advice ❤️❤️🫶🏽

[@Areyoucoolho3]

She hid it cause she knew that karma was gone spin the block. Shoulda never spoke on someone else situation.

[@teresamccraw8791]

Thank you!

[@crystalsmith630]

Welcome to Motherhood!!!! You’re doing a great job. Great interview ❤

[@ariariKy]

Couple of things from one of your older listeners…Being a good dad starts in pregnancy so a man that is not their for the mother already during those 9 months is in fact a DEADBEAT. Also postpartum sadness & symptoms can sneak in well until the 1st birthday so keep giving yourself grace as your hormones , mental and body continues to recover the year after child birth.

[@theRealjadee4]

Awww Jaz you are doing great . Better than most moms out here ❤️🫶🏾 keep your head high it gets better . He will be talking and walking in no time . Time flies 😢 so keep cherishing every moment 🫶🏾

[@nylanoye1185]

I think the mommy hotline is a really good idea Jazz !

[@LookinAmeerah]

discord.gg/awhcXRS4

[@harleyhonordjhayes3369]

500 breezy I don’t understand why he be leaving his kids, he got issues 😢 You got this jay You got tru, your family, and us ❤

[@allthingsshuntell5320]

I love Tru as a friend for you and I’m so glad you and your sister is in a much better place. God is all around you and your baby❤ you’re doing an amazing job Jazz! 🫶🏾

[@katielewinsky5298]

I love you Jaz you so strong😢 you a great mommy! ❤❤❤❤❤ You made me cry like Im literally so happy for you! You needed this baby more than anything, he makes you so soft & calm❤

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you so much!!

[@yalarasims2050]

Thank you for the single mother advice I needed that 😢❤ I’m a mother of 3 & my latest one is 1yrs old been with him by myself since 3months old & whew chile it gets hard but I gotta keep pushing I break down daily but it’ll get better as he gets older & same for you it’s gonna get better for you just be thankful for the ppl you have around you ❤

[@blueberry7074]

Why have another one if the man wasn’t around for the other two.

[@ajsuperstar8644]

You’re such a good mom Jaz! You got this!

[@rafiyahmuhammad1464]

You got it Jazz, you’re doing a great job ❤️

[@lojohns8740]

a 2 parent household is definitely needed like what

[@kaylabillings9739]

Jazz ! This was beautiful . Your feminine energy is glowing . You’re a great mother with OR without a man . Much love ❤

[@Everybodylovekeykey]

Awww Jazzz This The Side Of You That People Don’t See 🥹 Don’t Let The Criticism Get To You Babe, You Got This 💪🏾🎀

[@KeyaNEsha]

That baby look like him too but shame on him for being a dead beat that’s why he will never blow up in music 😂 god don’t bless no mess with them trash songs anyways chyyy. Baby blaze is a blessing and so handsome … keep going jaz you got this ❤🎉

[@LouisianasSweetheart]

😂😂 well damn

[@ajthegoatduh]

🤣

[@KeyaNEsha]

@@LouisianasSweetheart girl fr lol how you a deabeat and a failed rapper 🤔 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Trulysweetness.]

You doing a great job mama and you can tell he is loved so much ❤

[@Miriaflashy]

Jazzz every episode you just gonna keep making me cry? 😪😪😪

[@yourgirrlll9975]

She is THAT girlll and keeps it REALLL

[@TaniyaBrown-rv2cx]

I love seeing this new transformation I love the new Jaz so much💕🫶🏾

[@jessicawilliams8687]

That baby is BEAUTIFUL! So chunky and CUTE!

[@Mrs.Cowans]

Never heard jaz talk so soft lmao , some of us really love you jazzzz

[@MochaSuperior]

Babe you literally execute everything you put your hands on! You know & we all know you got this!!!!! God bless you & yours 👏🏾✨🤍

[@hysfetysh]

9:50 Blaze is Handsome and Motherhood is looking good on u doll! Ur glowing 💫 Congratulations 🎊🍾 👣👶🏾❤

[@tnorth2626]

I love this for you!!… listening to you I think you really needed him more than he needed you(Blaze that is ).. you got this ❤

[@teresamccraw8791]

I know your intentions was good but kids aren’t for healing part of ourselves. That responsibility purpose should never be taken n a child

[@mrsalize]

I am not sure who the father is or what the father stands for what I can tell you from this video is that baby is PROTECTED HEAVILY!!!!!!!! The baby has purpose & if the father knew any better he would get involved immediately in this baby’s life to help jazz raise him properly otherwise i can sense the father having a very hard time in life this baby is GODLY if you know anything about the Holy Spirit then you know , Awesome Job jazz I think he will be coming around sooner than later

[@DontTakeItLiteral]

Im loving this motherhood thing 🥰 but wait til he turn 6 like my son 😩🤣🤣 whew, him so handsome 🩷❤️ also… my son father isn’t involved also. It hurts but like you said… he’s the one missing out 🤞🏽

[@NiaBadazz13]

Saying a GROWN man needs an opportunity or an invite to be in his 2 MONTH OLD baby life is INSANE. S/O to the step daddy though ❤

[@markelthekid]

I just love how she speaks about her baby baby girl u got this ur gonna be a great mom yes it sucks when ur famous every one has an opinion but if it’s not a good one then pay that no mind let them talk they don’t know the real u and all the support u have and u make sure ur mental is good ur definitely going to be great yeah a child needs his father but if he can’t realise how much of a blessing his baby boy is that’s his lost and god will definitely at some point show him what he missed children doesn’t come with a hand book and ur definitely learning as u grow I agree I love this softness on u girl ur gonna be great I have a new found respect for u Jazmine that’s my daughter name by the way I spell hers with an s but I always liked u but I really like u even more now lol

[@lovejoy6710]

Why is he like that… that’s crazy he has that pattern.

[@thadondadahall4756]

i actually use to like JAZZ real bad ,but now it’s like she real air head . i know she feel real dumb thinking he was gone take care of him . U can tell she real fucked up over it & yea you got money ,yea you gone love him you got no choice .wht have a bby from a man that don’t want it & how many men she than brought around her child already

[@koldhart2755]

Jaz we knew that man was your bd 😂😂😂 we ain’t slow well some of us

[@IntheknowwithKB]

Exactlyyyyy

[@LookinAmeerah]

😆😆😆😆😆

[@briabarton9606]

Girl you didn’t play in nobody’s face everyone already knew who it was…

[@GatesMonroe1]

anybody who remember she aborted her first one and express she kind of regretted it. So everybody mentioning an L but I honestly think she decided to keep this baby for her.

[@karabrown7416]

First Time Subscribing And Girlll I Feel Yu! Blaze Is VeryHandsome! NoMatter What If Yall Do CoParent Wateva. You Still A SINGLE MOM! Your Son Going To Always be Your Priority! He’s Going To Be With Youu! He’s New To This World! But YouAre His Mother! And He Will always Cherish That! But Enjoy Being A Boy Mom💙!

[@alfutouray4393]

What’s the discord code to join!? The link is expired!

[@Jaynotnextdoor]

Don’t get me wrong congratulations on your baby but how does it make you feel knowing that he did the same thing to you? You laughed at another woman pain knowing that could happened to you too. And he’s a horrible person but you knew that from the jump. Why did you think you felt so special to someone who doesn’t take care of their kids and to turn around and do it to you?

[@Jaynotnextdoor]

And I’m a girls girl so I apologize if this is all too disrespectful with all the stuff going on now but us as women gotta stop thinking we can change a man. They show their true colors the first time.

[@LoveTiffanyyy]

Was waiting on a new episode! Love how real u are ♥

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you for watching and supporting! 💋

[@QueenRenn__]

The discord link not working 😢

[@itsyagirlriri]

This interview is good, I take advice from this interview I haven’t had kids yet but this helped me

[@feliciajordan7205]

Its ok Jazz you are amazing you got this 💪🏿❤️

[@QueenRenn__]

Please do the group chat because I need that fr ❤

[@raih3410]

Girl all of those family and friends who was there for you during delivery so no you did not go through that “BY YOURSELF”. Don’t discredit everybody who was there just because a baby daddy wasn’t.

[@LouisianasSweetheart]

I'm sure she meant by herself as in the only present parent. She stated that she has a great support system.

[@keynichelle1993]

Jazz you really are that bishh.!! And I think that’s why ppl are bothered by the things you do or say. When you lack confidence and self love and see someone else that’s doesn’t and you see how dominant and strong (even on days you don’t want to be) they are THATS SOMETHING NOT EVERYONE HAS IN THEM.! A lot off ppl don’t follow through with the pregnancy because they want the man more. But you , you’re going to be okay because you HAD YOUR BABY FOR YOU.! It’s a difference.! Like you said God makes no mistakes. I saw a clip where you thought you couldn’t convince but reality was GOD SAID NOT RIGHT NOW.! It wasn’t the right time but now the time is RIGHT 🤍 Yes having both parents would be the perfect fairytale but a HAPPY single parent household is better than a two parent toxic unstable household ANYDAY.! I love how transparent you are about admitting being overwhelmed because society will make you feel like you’re a bad parent because you’re admitting to being overwhelmed. It’s normal to be overwhelmed and ANYONE that says they’re never overwhelmed is a liarrrrr.!! With or without a village it’s hard because you’re creating LIFE and the way you parent will determine who that child will become as a toddler, child, teen and adult. YOU Don’t GET TO REDO BEING A PARENT while the child is growing up so continue to take your time, vent , reach out for help and continue to GIVE yourself grace and a break. This episode definitely made me cry baddd and love you even more because your really that GURL THATS JUST MISUNDERSTOOD 🩷 Blazeee 🔥 is ADORABLE 🥹

[@cameosdiary8413]

You should bring him everyday this was so cute ❤ even the cries 😢

[@shawnaptalks]

Great interview,love Jazz and Tru

[@LookinAmeerah]

We appreciate it!!

[@alizeeeeee7908]

You’re doing so amazing Jazz 🤞🏾🩷

[@LatifahHayward]

Awesome

[@KeepingUpWithTmq]

I'm so proud of you jazz your doing amazing with or without a man ❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾all to god

[@diamondthegolden1]

Hey Baby Blaze 🔥 We see you done popped out on the cast nephew you did so good 🥰 Hey Jazz Babe You’re looking good 💋

[@cupofchi_]

enjoyed this convo. sending you even more love, grace, and support! you're doing a great job

[@LookinAmeerah]

Thank you! You too!

[@Areyoucoolho3]

She said he take care of his real kids when it came to that girl triplets and his absence. So guess that ain’t his baby either!

[@lilm1]

You are doing amazing my girl! Blaze is so lucky 🥰❤️