Try Not To Laugh (Pickup Artist Edition)

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Okay I get about 30 comments a day on this question. I'm a social and relationship coach. I've been doing this for 15+ years (since 2005).
I help men and women get into the relationships they've always wanted by becoming a better person and bringing out the real person on the inside.
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[@slendercookie9467]

The guy is hella creepy, how does he think this type of things work with girls? So cringe, been there, you get so uncomfortable, you dont know what to do, you dont want to seem rude, you just smile awkwardly and wait for the opportunity to bounce out of the conversation.

[@slendercookie9467]

@Beats Beats ah? 😅😂 Ok bud

[@frummel403]

@Beats Beats Bro who are you talking to exactly? Please go away.

[@frummel403]

@@slendercookie9467 same girl! And what's frustrating (in my opinion) is that that politeness is not so much to protect his feelings, but more as a safety tool because who knows. Some guys are ffing scary and insane.

[@Xxx-xe2ys]

Same... i am also girl and agree 100%.

[@nunnayrbznz3576]

That's how girls get in trouble. polite to AH. If he liked women he wouldn't be treating them like a tool and sharing it with other clueless guys

[@Amor_y_Alma]

It feels like he's just treating women as objects - "how many numbers can I score?" In other words, he actually no respect for women whatsoever. He doesn't respect them as individuals. He just sees them as a number.

[@MentalDeviant]

Actually you have to get numbers to get dates to get to know a lot of girls to chose the right one for you so this is normal for a guy who values his self and is serious about meeting a great woman. Getting a number does not equal He sees them just as a number. That's a logical fallacy. Called does not follow. Getting a number does not automatically means they are seen as just number.maybe. the guy is married now so she wasn't just a number but it took dates to find her.

[@ariellec9676]

ANTHONY 🤣 You trying not to laugh is the funniest thing ever!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🤣

[@whatdoyoulivefor735]

When I first came across your channel I thought you were just a pretty face touting the usual vapid advice (not trying to neg I swear- just hella jaded😔) but then I watched a bunch of your stuff and discovered that you actually have really clever and thoughtful things to say with a kind and down-to-earth presence and you clearly genuinely want to try to undo the vast damage caused by pick-up culture and help people meaningfully connect with eachother again and have better social skills overall. You're a genius of socialising and you're doing us a huge service in sharing your gift. It's super cool and thank you.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

All I heard was “pretty face”

[@flieya6957]

@@AnthonyRecenello hahahhaahahah

[@cncforest246]

I’ve always loved the relationship/psychological aspects to your videos but holy shit it’s hilarious seeing you roast people 😂😂

[@thekhoatran]

Do more of these! React more to pickup artists ahah

[@franciscotejadarollan5519]

“Try not to laugh” video Anthony 1 min into the video: 😂😂😂

[@lilcub-ot1kb]

the fact that he was laughing before he even started the game got me giggling, i tell you this guy makes me smile i love him

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lol

[@dedotadedwam466]

This is the video I needed when I was an impressionable teen. Be your best self instead of imitating a cringe 'alpha' and you will find someone who likes you for who you are

[@Overseer2579]

Absolutely

[@coralee1577]

"Ya but Anthony what about that one girl that he gets to hook up with and hang out with BLAAHHHHHH" was my favorite part of this video

[@coralee1577]

This comment was premature- every imitation is the best

[@rachel.770]

Him: there’s young people that watch my videos like 18 19 20 21 Me a 12 Yr old: 👁👄👁

[@someonesomeone3126]

Lol i’m 10 same: 👁👄👁

[@pizzzahhhhhh6683]

i'm the same age

[@nunnayrbznz3576]

I think I started watching so I could share this info with my boys in college and they can be validated by a good guy helping them. I was really nicely surprised and impressed by your intelligence, kindness, and respect....and Funny! I''m ancient so this is about the opposite of when men had no clue, and women were treated like objects... like Mr. Pickup. Women seem to be interestingly different too in some ways. What's most impressive is your generosity with yourself and obvious understanding and genuine appreciation of both sexes. You must have had a great mom!

[@Overseer2579]

Right?!

[@mittey5365]

This man probably said to each girl before recording "lemme pay you a couple bucks for a vid so you can make me look like a pro at picking up girls"

[@pedroloto]

You are the best channel out there that helps people building authentic connections, you taught me so much, thank you Anthony!

[@LoveBeliefTruth]

Let see how many fake phone numbers he’ll get by intimidating and harrashing girls. I always given fake phone numbers to creeps to get rid of them.

[@laurenmclane7710]

yet another informative video! thank you, anthony - more men need to learn from you🙏

[@witchesgrove]

Maan I laughed my a$$ off! This was the episode I have been waiting for! Your humor is da bomb!

[@ariellec9676]

Anthony you actually seem like such a kind person! I really enjoy your videos and you are definitely my top favorite KZbinr. I mean I really am enjoying your content. I love watching your videos and you are also very funny. Thank you so much for your videos. I can’t tell you enough I really enjoy what you do and you’ve helped me a lot.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Aawww Arielle

[@giuseppesanna7240]

Anthony you have the knowledge and now the platform to destroy this "Pickup artists" bullshit, or at least show young guys that there are alternatives to this weirdos. The world needs you man

[@Lauren_Fields]

From the haircut to the diamond shape hand position i could sense that something was off about buddy.

[@mickykk1]

Not fair that you have us all ugly-laughing at home and you cover yours with your entire arm.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lollllll I’m happy U like

[@tygarspace1754]

I love when you make those faces! Glad to see u enjoy yourself and getting more and more comfortable in front of the camera!!

[@gsusok593]

That's cute!! ☺

[@SS-hv7bo]

You're a good guy Anthony.We appreciate it.

[@shafiulhaque5053]

Pick artists and men/boys who approach others in that fashion are extremely manipulative and dishonest. Toxic masculinity is a threat to women and girls everywhere at any given time. I assume they succumb out of fear or annoyance when they do give out their numbers.

[@boomerang-digital8514]

🙄

[@helloworld2784]

@Beats Beats People in general meets ahssoles like this. But women encounters them more. They could just say hi and be respectful but no. They're gonna invade your privacy be creepy and make you feel uncomfortable. Yikes.

[@clarav.7937]

You are hilarious. Your reactions are the interesting bit 😂😂 xx

[@Kenoi_]

*lip smack* “noice”

[@AnthonyRecenello]

hi!

[@Kenoi_]

@@AnthonyRecenello hello!

[@ifirekirby7498]

Love the Erykah Badu shirt

[@ADballa28]

I live in a heavily conservative area with very little communities that share my passions and interests(I’m not conservative at all, woof) . I wish I lived in a bigger city with communities I could fit in and meet new people. Online isn’t the same as it is in person. I don’t care for the bar because that’s all that is here.

[@artisticagi]

Time to move!!! Or at least try to find the little pockets in your area that fit your vibe. Or hang out in the nearest cool town to you. Good luck

[@_-lydia-_8175]

The "woof" made me laugh HAHA

[@ADballa28]

@@_-lydia-_8175 you’re welcome, lol.

[@constanzeli9915]

I still learn a lot for my relationship from your videos.

[@chrkrngl]

This is a quote from Jurassic Park about pick up artists: "The lack of humility before normal human relationships that is being displayed here, uh... staggers me. You stood on the shoulders of geniuses to accomplish something as fast as you could, and before you even knew what you had, you patented it, and packaged it, and slapped it on a plastic lunchbox, and now [bangs on the table] you're SELLING IT, you wanna sell it." (Jeff uhh... Goldblum) :D

[@adamcollins915]

Most times I have got a number in a club, it goes to a first date. But trying to get numbers in the street is creepy.

[@_-lydia-_8175]

I can't stand pick up artists they are so creepy!! Great video as always and you look nice the blue trousers suit you🌸😀

[@ErenYeager-kr9gu]

Damn. Every pick-up artist talk like same😂😂

[@YourNightmares333]

Boot camp?!😂

[@lillyl5942]

I didn‘t read the caption and was really wondering what he was doing with the Hand on his mouth 😂😂 seemed like he was trying to hide Food or sth in His mouth 😂😂😂

[@pjartistics]

The T Rex hug got me!! 😂😭💀

[@Cthight]

11:39 absolutly. A Phone number means nothing. Either they block you instantly or they never answer. Real men ask for insurance numbers or credit card number lol.

[@artisticagi]

I’m not gonna lie I watched 8:11 more than once. I’m dead

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hahahah

[@adamcollins915]

Pick up artists. First tip. Go to a bar or club on a Friday or Saturday night. You might also get a snog. Or more. At 4.17 in the day, women are just interested in getting the shopping in.

[@avgonyma1]

I love how you're laughing over guys, thought it's only funny to women. 👍👍👍🤪😁😆 "First of all: this guy has zero charm"...😂 You're right. The guy is so artificial, almost reciting. 08:40 you had me laughing laid in the middle of the night...🤪 09:30 lolol 🤣 (I'm putting this on repeat - and it gets better!! 😭)

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🥰

[@RidgyM]

This video reminded me of the time when many youtubers would try pick up random girls at a collage campus or something. I think these type of videos would be interesting to see your reaction to them. The only youtube channel I can think of is TJH TV but i find these type of reaction videos interesting

[@davidvideosr.8508]

I was gonna say tjh tv as well

[@philmstud2k]

As cringe as this stuff can be, doing something awkwardly is better than doing nothing at all. If one of these PUAs, for example, approached 100 women, gets 40 numbers out of it, gets 10 dates out of it, and out of those 10 dates it leads to 2 lays or 2 women that could lead to potential LTR, that's better than the 95% of guys who have no balls and do nothing at all.

[@xian7205]

More videos about pick up artist !!

[@copaxchannel]

Anthony!!!! Roasted RSD!

[@Ohkeh640]

Please do a video on compatibility

[@sa-mi1un]

New title: try not to sink into a hole in the ground that opens up and takes you to the cringe free land. Pickup artists creep me out

[@starheartskull15]

Oh man this reminds me of when a dude dm’d me on Instagram w a pickup line and I responded kinda monotone but not rude, and he instantly goes “ok it was a joke you don’t have to be an ass” and I was like uhh...ok wtf...lol and he instantly tries to change the subject and is like “whatever anyways how are you” and then “I’m getting the feeling you don’t wanna talk to me just tell me” and I was like yeaaa uhh I kinda don’t after you talked to me like that and of course he goes “ok well I just checked and you’re ugly anyway so bye” LMAOOOO keep in mind he was probably a grown ass 23-26 year old 😭 like whyyyy

[@maplelu9514]

Some people have such fragile egos, it’s not even an insult, they can’t handle the idea of someone not turning them down and they get so angry about it. I mean if they didn’t like you, they don’t like you 💁‍♀️

[@AnthonyRecenello]

This happens so much more than people would think. Yes men have fragile egos. Which is why they made the term “alpha” lol.

[@alexandertoro6984]

He sounds insecure. He was protecting his ego and self esteem by telling you that it was your fault

[@sethdossett1304]

I think two interesting people to check out could be the KZbin channel Girlfriend Reviews and they’re relationship. And then a look at Rhett and Link

[@johanneshansen852]

You know, I think you could have a collab with Todd to talk out your issues, I think he would be down for that if you're diplomatic about it. He has other interviews on youtube where his takes are generally alright. So you could dismantle him directly if you wanted. He still does youtube videos at Todd V Dating and keeps PUA alive. I would like to see you go more in depth with such videos if you can, they are straightforward to comment on. BTW where did you get the special 2 min. video? I don't think that's on youtube so where did you find it? Cheers brother

[@littleboxesofmusic3656]

Hey Anthony, I really enjoy your couple reactions and I think you should review Colleen Ballinger(Miranda Sings) and her husband Erik Stocklin. They are really cute and I'd like to see you react to them.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Post on Reddit!

[@marijauz]

Hey anthony! I dont know if you remember but you did a reaction to a guys video about being insecure and ugly, I was wondering if you could do more videos on him? I would like to see what you think about those

[@luzcabreramoreno]

I loved this vid!!! 😂 Can you react to the amazingly charming Sebastian Stan??? 🙏

[@georgehiggins1320]

I know he plays a lot of characters, but I'd like to hear your thoughts on Jack Denmo.

[@frummel403]

Fuck that. Can you imagine a slimeball like that just walking up to you like that on the street. I would either think this is a predator, prankster, scamartist or a distraction before getting mugged. Sorry, grew up in a big city so I'm extremely distrusting haha.

[@jamelsmpsn]

alright yall im comin clean. i used to love pick up artist content

[@brcage]

I actually like that Todd guy, he's def the least creepiest of those pick up douches, if you actually watch his concepts about how women should be viewed its far from the typical bs misogynists', he clearly holds women up to a high standard, rather than some degrading perspective. I think the ''negs'' are more of a tease than the emotional abuse a lot of those fool push. He's actually a very intelligent person.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🤮

[@brcage]

@@AnthonyRecenello Mature

[@cherryblossom2609]

Can you give us tips about and old relationship Justin and Selena please

[@Kevin-hw1fi]

React to more Todd V dating videos.

[@user-gh9yx9vy6u]

Hope u react to we got married (kpop variety show) and see who catched the feeling ☺

[@filipstark1011]

React to Jack Manley , he s kind of pickup artist but not really , he s just chill and good with girls imo, I think you would like him

[@King-sy9we]

I don't really get it. In this video you are saying that approacing woman on the street is bad, because you can't make a connection or something, but in your "wingman" video's you are doing the exact same thing.

[@necatrix]

Exactly!! To be fair to Anthony, he taught those guys to be more genuine instead of the sleazy, weird negging stuff, but he was still teaching them that going up to people in public (if they seem approachable) is a valid way of meeting them. And now it's not anymore? If he's changed his mind on this, shouldn't he take those Wingman videos off his channel?

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Approaching people in public is great. It’s called being friendly, sociable, whatever. These guys are out with the sole intention of “winning” a trophy. Always remember that the difference between normal people and pickup artists is power. Normal people are looking for relationships and shouldn’t be ashamed of that. All genders should be more social in public. Pickup artists don’t want relationships, they just want to use humans to validate their egos. I hope that helped!

[@necatrix]

@@AnthonyRecenello Thank you Anthony, that is a genuinely awesome reply that clears up the misunderstanding. This is the reason I recommend you online to guys who struggle with dating.

[@ErenYeager-kr9gu]

U need to react to angry picnic. He is not a pick-up artist. But he picks up women. He has a natural charm.

[@winter.b0i]

Your takes are great. Don't see the need to make it a "try not to laugh" challenge tho 🤔

[@ghettorevival9541]

He's probably being more sarcastic with that title than anything else

[@ibechuu9695]

Stage, all of it. Lol.

[@itsjustpaul1121]

Why bring trumps name into this he has nothing to do with this lol

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Oh trust me

[@musabs5848]

React to MxR and how they met etc. best couple on KZbin in my opinion.

[@jorjicostava6484]

Dude the cringe taking up one whole half of the sofa

[@mannytheengineer4513]

Look up jack denmo he is good Canadian pick up artist

[@ryuzakimisakima1601]

React to HonestSignalz please. Vadim is pretty solid

[@juliafranco6057]

Anthony, sorry to say you lost this challenge 😂

[@asmrchill8084]

Negin Mirsalehi & Maurits next plsss

[@bardalezastrid1]

You should do a video on megan fox and mgk

[@kellyallison3662]

Can you please react to Dani Strobel in Logan Pauls podcast! Shes AMAZING!

[@lottalangner4990]

could u react to amelie zilbers and blake grays confirmation video ?🤍

[@lalalalaaAa123]

All the numbers he “won” were fake 😂

[@amandasibiya8182]

Do Fillie next Then Do Nillie

[@The-Black-Robin-Political]

Check out "The $Dating Coach Civil War" by the cbp channel

[@linalu5881]

Please React to Tara Davis and Hunter Woodall

[@Jintekshufflez]

Can you make a Reaction to moe abbassi aka. the high value man ?

[@Ooo-fz2mt]

Can you react to Blackpink clips and tell us if they have a genuine friendship or if its just an act!!!!! 🖤💖

[@wavetech_]

Couldn't bring myself to believe that people with negative charm could have the guts to do this... Kinda hilarious, yet sad

[@dawg8231]

Jesse and jeana (prank vs prank ) breakup ,pls next

[@callmehila]

please make a video about Selena and Justin :(

[@blackpinksyndrome2881]

Can you please do a reaction to JENLISA of Blackpink? That would be a 🔥 thanksss

[@conroids1]

Was anyone else super confused with what Anthony was doing at 1:17? Is he okay? Is he laughing or sucking on something? No judgement just curious!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Trying not to laugh.

[@conroids1]

@@AnthonyRecenello Thanks for responding. Appreciate your helpful insights.

[@emiliehinse2681]

I am so surprised his “pick up lines” actually worked for so many people. The way he throws in those insults.... 😂😂 no thank you

[@ErenYeager-kr9gu]

U need to do a classic charm of Lucifer morningstar

[@theblackenedphoenix]

When I tell a man that “he’s cute” that’s not really a compliment. I was into cute when I was 13. Now as a grown woman, it’s my way of saying you aren’t ugly but I’m also not into you. lol

[@avien9068]

then probably just don't say it

[@AlanPerez-ek6sn]

Then don’t say it. Be a grown up and be straight up. Toxic femininity

[@heyitssunnytoday]

So early

[@Oskstr]

I don't understand what is wrong in approaching women on the streets. You can have friends in social circles AND on top of that approach women.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I didn’t say not to do it

[@cropcell]

The first guy was like that because he was challenged to get the most amount of phone #'s in 2 hours. He probably knows the numbers won't go anywhere and wouldn't advice doing what he did. Would love to see a review on another of his video's where he gives actual advice instead of a video where he does a phone number time challenge

[@koroshiya_1]

THIS GUY... Girl: I'm going to yoga class Guy (without skipping a beat): What do I do? It's a complicated story CRINGE. She didn't even ask. I am shook that this works on people

[@anderszimmerman2428]

why do you keep covering your smile this video? I havent noticed that in all of the other videos I've watched. You good?

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Trying not to laugh.

[@cinnamonflan1412]

@@AnthonyRecenello I love laughs! I was worried you were trying not to cough.

[@Lauren_Fields]

@@AnthonyRecenello I thought you bit your tongue lol

[@0.o706]

Oh shit that vid is so gross

[@travis6694]

Can’t believe people make money off of these types of videos, what a joke 😂

[@MentalDeviant]

This guy has cognitive dissonance. "She only said yes because she wanted to get rid of him". She only hugged him with one arm( even though she had a big purse). Then a girl mentions dominance as what she's attracted to and He pretends she didn't say that and doesn't Highlight it has a quality you she have but instead just tells you to be yourself. Being yourself is your mom's advice. In fact most men, including this guys, are raised by their moms and female teachers and they don't know how to be manly men. And this is the self that you have been told to be and He wants you to be. Yes be honest about what you want, what your into, your hobbies and interests but don't be weak and a pushover. Don't be who feminist woman want you to be. Who society wants you to be. You can but what's your results in your life? Are you respected, Do hot girls like interacting with you,are woman attracted to your sexually personality, do guys think you are cool, Being pushy is not being a man but doing what you want when you want with confidence is. Obviously be considerate. But be ok with making space, taking charge. Commanding attention. If you are gonna be yourself and that's his only advice then stop watching him. You don't need him to be who you have been raised to be by your mother and society.

[@MentalDeviant]

You're uninformed about flirting because the fact that she laughed genuinely means He succeeded. Being guarded does not equal you are shitty. You obviously preach to the crowd. A crowd of guys who don't understand flirting. It's called letting the air out of a compliment. A hot girl always gets compliments but the truth let's her laugh at Herself. Great interviewers do this all the time. They covered this on a better channel. Charisma on command. Actually top level guys do bring there true selfs(hobbies, interests, values, passions) but on top of that you need to be a Cool "Man"- Dominant, assertive, leader, being fun, funny, challenging, flirting, having a frame that you want to hang out with people similar to you. So girls have to measure up to your standards. Take risks. Show your positive emotions confidently. Enjoy yourself. Getting over co-dependency can help. But this takes mental strength and braveory. It's not going to happen naturally by being stagnant/your current self. Read books, expand your hobbies, knowledge and tastes. Add to your style by going to stores and getting tips from woman or fashion magazines. The more work you put in the greater the rewards. If you want an average girl/7 and to be average, than do nothing/be yourself but realize that was your conscious choice.