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Hayley Quinn

Hayley Quinn

Күн бұрын

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@80skid83
@80skid83 7 жыл бұрын
If a girl flakes me even once , I'm done with her. I just ignore her and delete her number straight away, chances are she will do it again and again. Best to go for someone who's not gonna mess you about
@rohanyates903
@rohanyates903 6 жыл бұрын
lloyd t bro they all mess around that’s their nature
@jamesw4123
@jamesw4123 5 жыл бұрын
D
@okwui04
@okwui04 4 жыл бұрын
@@benjismith593 i like this guy
@JordanBoyer69
@JordanBoyer69 2 жыл бұрын
you're going to miss out on opportunities with that mindset. Not every flake is equal and thus shouldn't be treated the same. I had a girl flake with me 4-5 times before she finally hung out with me. Then we were friends with benefits for awhile and it was great. As long as you can tell they genuinely are interested and not just faking it, keep being persistent without looking desperate.
@80skid83
@80skid83 2 жыл бұрын
@@JordanBoyer69 you got the opportunity cos her options dwindled. I'm not waiting for that
@MetalCooking666
@MetalCooking666 7 жыл бұрын
See, this is the problem I have with the PUA stuff: I don't want to have to play psychological games with someone to prevent them from flaking. I want them to refrain from flaking because they are GOOD PEOPLE.
@harveyspecter3361
@harveyspecter3361 6 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ryanagar1114
@ryanagar1114 6 жыл бұрын
I want to be a professional boxer, but I can't hope other people are bad boxers, I have to be the best :)
@CalebBlock
@CalebBlock 6 жыл бұрын
That's the root problem, most people are horrible
@jaredbellard2777
@jaredbellard2777 6 жыл бұрын
That's negotiating desire. She feels obligated because it's the right thing to do. If she wants you she'll show up.
@letsplay5301
@letsplay5301 6 жыл бұрын
Good luck with that. You'll need it.
@link6563
@link6563 7 жыл бұрын
I block them and move on to someone that will value my time. Why deal with liars in the first place who don't respect your time
@createyourlifejk4359
@createyourlifejk4359 6 жыл бұрын
link why so overdramatic and why to block ..that's stupid I had situations where a girl flaked on a first date and then was actually loads of fun that's a huge mistake there is no need to block .. with that reaction you mite get even get blocked or ignored when you try to speak to a girl in a social situation .
@c-jayjames7316
@c-jayjames7316 5 жыл бұрын
Well put
@sherrygate3666
@sherrygate3666 4 жыл бұрын
Never let a woman know you’re butthurt. Blocking her clearly shows you are. Just Pretend you’re okay and wait for her to get back to you when her schedule clears up .
@pathtotranscedence1284
@pathtotranscedence1284 4 жыл бұрын
Seduction requires patience bro. Don't have a take it or leave it attitude you'll burn a lot of bridges that could've converted into something. Be calm and nonchalant about everything a girl does. Be the cause not the effect. If she flakes put the ball in her court by allowing her to make the next move, if she doesn't then move on to the next girl. If you've created enough attraction believe me she'll reach out again.
@joshuabarrows4611
@joshuabarrows4611 4 жыл бұрын
I’ll block em too. Especially if they lie and flake. Actually don’t even make plans with me at all! They get away with it once they’ll think it’s okay to just walk all over you. This method is so passive aggressive. If she’s not into keeping commitments early, then it’s a red flag.
@AF-dn2bz
@AF-dn2bz 5 жыл бұрын
"have a nice January" - looks very affected and punishing.
@angelostanojevic304
@angelostanojevic304 3 жыл бұрын
Don't take advice from the fish. Take advice from a fisherman haha Not responding or responding mad and bitchy make you look like a buttheart child. You don't wanna Show her that it affects you and that she can destroy your day. That's not sexy. At the other Hand you don't wanna be like: Ok no Problem :) Cause you indicate that you're allowing her disrespecting you and that it's not a problem treating you like that. If a girl flakes on you than just answer: Ok hit me up when you're free and then we,'ll see. You let her invest again. If she doesn't Text you After that, you filtered the girl that wasn't into you in the first place. If she texts you again than she is interested. Don't waste your time.
@frankiegunnz8066
@frankiegunnz8066 3 жыл бұрын
@@angelostanojevic304 How about If she tries to text you all day?
@angelostanojevic304
@angelostanojevic304 3 жыл бұрын
@@frankiegunnz8066 If she Texts you what?
@frankiegunnz8066
@frankiegunnz8066 3 жыл бұрын
@@angelostanojevic304 If she text you "Good morning", or "Hows your day going?". Anything to start a text convo with you.
@angelostanojevic304
@angelostanojevic304 3 жыл бұрын
@@frankiegunnz8066 Then don't text much and try to meet up
@ParsclickTV
@ParsclickTV 6 жыл бұрын
This is wrong! They'll do it again.
@JonnyBeloney
@JonnyBeloney 5 жыл бұрын
I did something similar to this after she cancelled, a week later she asked me out then cancelled again.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 3 жыл бұрын
The best way to deal with this is to be indifferent, stay polite and cut contact. If and when she does contact you again, call her out on her shitty behaviour by saying you don’t really have time for flakey people. If she really cares, she’ll apologise and try to make it up to you.
@dinosodunk6960
@dinosodunk6960 6 жыл бұрын
it just sucks that the person flakes on you and you found out that she lied and hanged out with someone else.
@dalton7695
@dalton7695 5 жыл бұрын
Happened to me, she said she was too ill to meet up, then a few hours later saw her pictures on Facebook with her friends. I liked her pictures, then next day she apologised, but I cut all contact.
@attilahermann6034
@attilahermann6034 3 жыл бұрын
Yep that exactly going on right now whit me....sick of it tho
@JoMama123451234
@JoMama123451234 5 жыл бұрын
Why would you respond positively to their BS? You need to be a man, stand up for yourself and tell her that youre not interested in someone that flakes. This message just reinforces her flaking
@zunilord2628
@zunilord2628 2 жыл бұрын
Kill ‘em wit kindness, den delete the contact and move on wit da next gotta get you killstreak up 😭😭😭😭
@maestroanth
@maestroanth 5 жыл бұрын
I think this works for a first flake because sometimes they are legit reasons. However, a second flake and on, that's enough data to define that person as an insecure merry go round.
@HigherEducationAwakening
@HigherEducationAwakening 8 жыл бұрын
Haley I think you're very talented but I would just want to ask you to check the volume on your videos as this video's volume was very low and I struggled to understand some things
@tommorgan6650
@tommorgan6650 8 жыл бұрын
Please turn the volume up on your mic. Sometimes your videos are hard to hear if I'm not surrounded by silence.
@tommorgan6650
@tommorgan6650 8 жыл бұрын
+Tom Morgan Also, thanks for the tips. You kick ass.
@yoyoe2
@yoyoe2 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly if you’ve made time free for a person and they do that to you, it seems unfair to reward them, they know there in the wrong. I’ve been flaked 5 minutes before meeting, you can’t exactly hold respect for someone like that . I just go into damage control the awnser has past my mind already. If there flake Is as bad as that there’s no point sweeping it under the carpet and giving her a x at the end of a text
@Dedicated_8
@Dedicated_8 8 жыл бұрын
I found this video cause 8 just had a girl flake on me after we met on tinder and texted for the last 2 weeks. I took the text advice and she text me back " have a nice august?" it's kind of a weird thing to say to someone and I seen that after it was too damn late. I wasn't going to reply to her at all and wish n I hadn't now.
@ceeIoc
@ceeIoc 8 жыл бұрын
Adam Ducharme yeah I don't think this is a great text. I usually say no worries let me know when you're free. Ball is in her court.
@korgscrew2000
@korgscrew2000 7 жыл бұрын
Well, you see...Your text angered her because you were cool about her flaking. Win win really mate. Ditch her, she ain't worth your time. She even wasted it before you met!
@bobbyjones8335
@bobbyjones8335 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah she didn't explain why she added that bit in the text and it sounds awkward
@ryandeffley7652
@ryandeffley7652 2 жыл бұрын
The best text response to a flake is.... Not responding at all. When a girl is interested stuff doesn't come up. They move heaven and earth. My last GF delayed her trip out of town by a day because she didn't want to wait a week to meet me. So if a girl is that disrespectful of your time you simply block her and move on. Even if she offers a reschedule it's most likely to keep you as a backup placeholder because she's meeting up with a different guy.
@hal4192
@hal4192 4 жыл бұрын
Even easier. Don't reply. Move on. If she's interested she'll get back to you. If she does ....dont reply. She really isn't that big a deal.... She's history. It shouldn't be complicated....x
@johnc1666
@johnc1666 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna take your advice, it's tough but you gotta be a man.
@justinthompson7407
@justinthompson7407 5 жыл бұрын
I was flaked on last Saturday. She made other plans and didn't bother to inform me despite texting each other all day, I just got a "maybe later tonight" reply when I inquired when we were meeting. No one is worth your time if they lack decency to be honest and up front with you. I politely wished her the best and blocked her, my time and happiness are more important than any "excuse" you throw at me, or not throw in this case.
@artemlobov3685
@artemlobov3685 6 жыл бұрын
Done this loads of times and it makes no difference, rewarding their disinterest with interest, no thanks. I'll just flake on them in future.
@johnnyperez7435
@johnnyperez7435 5 жыл бұрын
Artem bless
@marcusgarcia2435
@marcusgarcia2435 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting how women want a mature man to be honest. Yet, they can't be honest and act childish. That's the real issue. Why doesn't anyone address that issue.
@leeevans816
@leeevans816 7 жыл бұрын
I recently got flaked and my response was very similar to this. I saw this after second guessing myself. Very good advice! Btw, guy on the motorcycle, totally starring at you. Anyway, thanks!
@---xb3tv
@---xb3tv 7 жыл бұрын
For better results you should consider replying with "C'mon just the tip'"
@ComedianMoGreen
@ComedianMoGreen 5 жыл бұрын
I legit got flaked on a few min ago.... used this advice... and now I'm picking her up in the next 30 min... WOW!!!
@apareceunorris4370
@apareceunorris4370 6 жыл бұрын
I’m okay with a guy flaking if he sets up a time to reschedule later.... but then, that negates the term ‘flaking’ doesn’t it?
@esotericman6369
@esotericman6369 3 жыл бұрын
Never even dignify flaking with a response. In this way, she will never flake you again.
@MetalCooking666
@MetalCooking666 Жыл бұрын
This is an issue that has troubled me for years, and I’ve had further thoughts on it since my previous comment. I don’t like this advice from Hayley. Not because it doesn’t work, but because I would rather meet someone with good morals who doesn’t flake than learn how to handle women who do. The problem is that a lot of attractive women are spoilt because they are used to being popular and having guys fawn over them regardless of how they behave. They have not learned to be polite, courteous or considerate to people outside of their inner circle. That’s why, as much as I wish it wasn’t so, a strategy that revolves around finding an attractive woman who doesn’t act this way is doomed to failure. Maybe they’ll be amenable to reason and considering an alternative perspective down the line. But first, you need to get through the door. To an extent, I don’t even think it’s always entirely these women’s fault that they have ended up spoilt in this way. They’re not necessarily bad people. It’s just a parochial outlook that comes from never having to be the one doing the asking and not being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. I have had very close female friends (ones I was never interested in romantically myself) complain about certain things guys do or don’t do and found myself thinking “your privilege is showing here”.
@sloebone7399
@sloebone7399 2 жыл бұрын
It shouldn’t be quite so easy to cancel on you. You don’t want to seem angry but you don’t have to let her totally off the hook either, especially if her excuse is lame. Acting nice when flakey women waste your time doesn’t sound like a good strategy.
@jirehtay3345
@jirehtay3345 8 жыл бұрын
Is it just good lighting or she works out? Really toned upper body.
@fakecelebritynews7576
@fakecelebritynews7576 5 жыл бұрын
She either likes you or not. Period. If you have to try all these psychological mind games it’s obviously a red flag.
@blackharpy7468
@blackharpy7468 5 жыл бұрын
Shut up.
@therealmohammad
@therealmohammad 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think so, girls like to test men to see if they're secure
@fakecelebritynews7576
@fakecelebritynews7576 4 жыл бұрын
therealmo well, any girl that wants to “test” me isn’t worth my time. We aren’t in high school anymore. We’re adults. We communicate like mature people are supposed to do.
@therealmohammad
@therealmohammad 4 жыл бұрын
Fake celebrity news they have so many options it comes down to a game of inches like a silly little test
@johnc1666
@johnc1666 3 жыл бұрын
@@fakecelebritynews7576 my girlfriend still tests me after five years, dude women are like that, they are not attracted to beauty as much, they are attracted by confidence and they are way smarter than you think, they test you all the time!
@RapidBlindfolds
@RapidBlindfolds 3 жыл бұрын
I’m talking to a girl who I made plans to meet up with twice, both times I text her the day before and ask her what time we’re meeting and she’s like ‘chill out I’m really busy’. She forgot that we even had plans. The second time SHE was the one who made the plan! And then when I ask her what time we’re meeting up she acts like I’m the one being clingy, for simply remembering that we had plans to meet up. Her behaviour has been so shit, I really need to get a backbone so I can stop putting up with this kind of thing.
@lindsey607
@lindsey607 6 жыл бұрын
Damn hayley! All of your girlfriends must be insanely envious of your breathtaking build. You look like athletic perfection. You either work out, or you are genetically gifted.
@louisGC28
@louisGC28 2 жыл бұрын
Your setting your self up to be friend zoned after doing this. You don’t want to wait to talk again. You want to have her physical presence , not for her to have some one to talk when she wants the attention
@casualcadaver
@casualcadaver 8 жыл бұрын
All that toned muscle is super distracting . When girls flake on me I usually ignore them unless they are sincere about it and ask to change the date .
@sherrygate3666
@sherrygate3666 4 жыл бұрын
You don’t necessarily have to block her line . Have an abundant mindset and you’ll never give a fuck if a girl flakes or not .
@crohunter100
@crohunter100 3 жыл бұрын
You can keep changing the date indefinitely lol
@ItsJustAdrean
@ItsJustAdrean 3 жыл бұрын
To me that text seems passive aggressive and a little insecure. But that could just be me
@ScorpionSuerte
@ScorpionSuerte 6 жыл бұрын
LOL. Tried this before even watching this vid. Guess what? She flaked 2 more times.
@BaztonTV
@BaztonTV 5 жыл бұрын
Crappy advice. She flakes, She's finished.
@DStash
@DStash 6 жыл бұрын
If they flake on the first date, don't date them. You can't trust them and they won't follow through with shit.
@seanrice2918
@seanrice2918 5 жыл бұрын
I'd say the message in this video is a little harsh and could be interpretated as you being butt hurt.. sometimes the best response is no response.. and if you've known the person longer, and this kind of thing keeps happening, and you value the person, it's time calmly set some boundaries
@bobbyjones8335
@bobbyjones8335 2 жыл бұрын
If you don't respond, that's for sure going to sound butt hurt
@MrRockr95
@MrRockr95 Жыл бұрын
I had the experience recently where i met a girl in march, we went out 3 times and just kissed. Then she left to her city (she was on vacation in mine) so we started texting and everything was cool besides the fact that i would come to her city too for my studies. We talked about everything that we could do and i was eager to meet her again. I asked her out one time, she flaked and i texted her that it was alright, maybe we could hang out another time. Days passed and she texted me again, we rapidly started to talk like before and finally could make a date. I told her to grab a drink on saturday's night and she told me ok. That same saturday she told me that she had a dinner and only could make it up for a coffee. I said yes but in the date she was different, more disperse and not making so much of an effort like back in the first ones. Yesterday i asked her out again and told me that se already had plans but never tried to rescheduled. I know that im almost done by now but dont know if i should reply calmly and set up my boundaries or jut ignore her and dont respond at all
@MarineVeteran99
@MarineVeteran99 5 жыл бұрын
Guys STOP taking dating advice from women. A rabbit can't teach you how to catch a Rabbit. You learn how to do it from a Wolf.
@johnc1666
@johnc1666 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
4 жыл бұрын
I would usually think this type of message delivers a slightly butt hurt response but in my situation it actually kinda works. She hit me up randomly after years of not seeing her. Fucked her lots. We both kinda got bored. I stopped talking to her. Exactly a month later, she texted me mad that i hadnt talked to her and she misses me and blablabla. So i set up a date and she flaked. Welp. Its january so this text fits the context perfectly lol
@jeinzbern3917
@jeinzbern3917 7 жыл бұрын
Just to confirm that THIS WORKS. There's a girl that's been bad at replying and seems flaky. I sent this after she said has plans ALL DAY. Literally got a response a minute later xD Thanks Haley! xxx
@bobbyjones8335
@bobbyjones8335 2 жыл бұрын
Sure you got a reply... but did you get her out on a date?
@mikebarnes1239
@mikebarnes1239 3 жыл бұрын
The girls I’m interested ill start making a lot of mistakes like not being patient, double texting, showing to much interest etc.. And the girls I’m not that into, I’ll take days to reply, blow them off, etc and they are still chasing me.
@ringa91
@ringa91 8 жыл бұрын
That guy on the bike couldn't stop staring at you, I am not surprised though :D
@CFoles-bh5uu
@CFoles-bh5uu 5 жыл бұрын
This is spot on. And I've thought and used this response before seeing this video.
@MightyCrazy
@MightyCrazy 5 жыл бұрын
bad advise!
@E_GIBSON
@E_GIBSON 5 жыл бұрын
If some girl flakes on you she is either emotionally immature and socially inept and needs a babysitter or wants to play games with you. Either way it isn't worth your time. Men today allow themselves to be castrated by feeble and trifling girls who belong in the 3rd grade.
@harveyspecter3361
@harveyspecter3361 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the video, this really helped me!! I have one question: when should you re-engage for a data again? I feel like me as the man should initiate that conversation, but when is it too early or too late? :) Cheers!
@c-jayjames7316
@c-jayjames7316 5 жыл бұрын
Ah na love, you delete the number and give her nothing 👍
@GamingStar1995
@GamingStar1995 5 жыл бұрын
Men have to reward this insecure immature behavior with even more confidence, more patience, and more ways of attracting her. Shouldn't be a problem on our part because that IS our nature to be confident, patient, and attractive, but what does she have to offer other than vagina at round 2? This is where most girls fall short and meet up with the wrong guys who'll drop that dead weight soon as they're used up, making them cold hearted demons. Some guys abuse the law of attraction to use girls. Some guys attract girls the right way and still get screwed over, no matter the confidence, attraction, and patience. Men and Women aren't the same anymore. Time's definitely changed.
@eehyetti
@eehyetti 5 жыл бұрын
This happened to me with a man after having sex, I sent a long msg and burned the bridges feeling awful. He sent me a long voice mail and a few msgs after explaining and saying sorry but I didnt reply :( I dont know what to do, cant keep him out of my mind
@Marco43210987
@Marco43210987 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Hayley, Nice video and thanks for the tips. I agree with what you say and with the text you suggest. However, what do you do if then she doesn't contact you anymore? Do you quit? Because it happened to me :) Thanks, Marco from Italy
@bearvillebear1468
@bearvillebear1468 3 жыл бұрын
Keep strong. Dont forget that despite the evil in this world, God is full of justice, mercy and love. Justice said we broke His perfect law - causing the world's previous perfection to be destroyed - and therefore we deserve Hell (like a punishment in any legal system but this is eternal as His perfect law is eternal too). Don't think you fit in that category? Ever done one of these?: lying, stealing - regardless of how small the object EVER, hating others - which is murder in God's perfect law, lusting (plus God sees our entire thought life). Justice says "the soul that sins shall die" - if we break one in thought/word/deed it's as if we're guilty of all of them. Quite simply, living by the law (which is doing everything perfectly) is impossible for sinful humans. How does this get fixed? Well, mercy said "I dont want to give them what they deserve. I don't want them to be cut off from Me. I love them despite all they have done/will do against Me. I want to give My children another chance. I want them to come home and live in My love again". But the evil had to still be dealt with, as God - being good - cannot simply let evil off scott-free. Like a judge can't let a murderer off scott-free, otherwise it shows approval of it. And so, love said "Jesus, God's Son, came down as a Man, our representative, suffering every temptation, pain and struggle we have ever faced, yet without sin. Living perfectly ON OUR BEHALF. He took all our sins (past/present/even future) to the cross and then crucified EVERY ONE on our behalf, like paying the fine to legally free us. Justice was paid on the cross so that we can be free from Hell's punishment, experience Gods mercy of forgiveness of sin and live in His love. If we turn from the sins we have committed and repent (turn away from our sin and pursue the opposite direction of love through Christ) He will, overtime, recreate us back into that previously perfect image through The Holy Spirit which Jesus sends to all who accept Him as their personal Lord and Savior of their life. It's not about following the law - perfectly, as is impossible - it's about letting Christ in to guide and teach you and obeying Him through His power (not ourselves as it's impossible without depending on His power and instruction). He is in Heaven right now preparing a place for us so that He can take His faithful, believing children home with Him when He returns. He will ressurrect us from death when He returns, giving mercy to those who accept His love, instruction and teachings in their life, and give justice to those who refuse it. He doesn't want ANY of us to go to Hell and die for continuing in evil and rejecting His way to life, thats why He died FOR us. Hes giving EVERYONE a chance, He wants everyone to take the free gift of salvation from Hell. He wants us to be His and begin to follow His life of love and service through Him. So long as we keep our hearts near to Christ through His strength, strive to follow His will of perfect love revealed in the Bible, and ask Him to help us in the midst of (very certain) pitfalls and struggles, we will, in time, win the victory over sin, pain and DEATH through Christ. Even if you are willing to be made willing, pray for Jesus to come in and He will do what we can't. Give us The Holy Spirit who will guide us in the right way. NOTE: You are NEVER too sinful or messed up that God cannot turn your life around through Jesus. EVER If you have any questions let me know!
@sabastiangarcia3417
@sabastiangarcia3417 7 жыл бұрын
can't hear a word your saying
@PsychoLogicalGrl
@PsychoLogicalGrl 5 жыл бұрын
I that the first time... then she did it again... now she is blocked
@davidmccormick1996
@davidmccormick1996 2 жыл бұрын
You know, this is actually really comforting advice. Not like, "oh, she might actually still be into me," but more like, "oh, she might just be uncertain for any number of reasons, but only time will tell if things can start up again."
@neilbe7118
@neilbe7118 3 жыл бұрын
I get a lot more flakes from big cities. ....mainly cause they go for drinks and meet flakey guys after work....screw them there's always someone better waiting. Don't get annoyed they might come back then YOU are in control as you've met other girls
@Aleksandar6ix
@Aleksandar6ix 8 жыл бұрын
Ok, so here's a bit of a mixed bag then - I was going to cancel on HER because I was sick, but she beat me to it for the same reason!! I joked about it to her to relieve her tension on having to do so, but she DID offer a raincheck for next week. Now, minor interactions aside which are generally positive, I told her I was still interested in seeing her and indicated that I had called her to talk but she didn't answer. I said I wanted to follow up on that raincheck. To most of that she said "awww, thats nice..:)". Come the end, I said "let me know what your schedule is like, and we'll make a plan" (learned that one from Hayley!) - and she said ".....I will :)". So.....she is still leaving it open, but not making a definite plan or making it easy to set a date. Any thoughts on this? I am thinking at this point, I will wait a week to see if she texts and then ask again. Likely, however, I will see her sooner as we go to the same gym (that's where I picked her up)
@harrisn3693
@harrisn3693 2 жыл бұрын
Any luck on the flake?
@Afrokid023
@Afrokid023 7 жыл бұрын
Dude this worked like magic for me..... Thanks a lot :)
@80skid83
@80skid83 7 жыл бұрын
Damn you're toned lol
@Happy-Me.
@Happy-Me. 5 жыл бұрын
This is good advice. If she flakes twice, walk away and don't look back!
@yomomma6956
@yomomma6956 3 жыл бұрын
MEN don’t use this. She is a women so she’ll tell u want women want men to do but the problem is that real men don’t give a fuck so if she acts stupid by saying she can’t make it when she actually can, then u know what, more fish in the sea & this one fish didn’t like u or respect u enough as a man cuz she canceled acting stupid & when she couldn’t of told u from the beginning she wasn’t interested
@Officialkingz1
@Officialkingz1 6 жыл бұрын
If a women flakes on you, dont do any of that "ok chat to you soon"... bullshit! Just cut all communication there and then! I pretty much guarantee she'll do it again. The more time you waste on her is the time your missing out on someone who wants to spend time with you. Delete her fucking number asap!
@daunregl1
@daunregl1 4 жыл бұрын
Video verifies the fact that women and some men value attention from many over an actual relationship with one person. Further, deep down, women and men both know deep down that they will grow bored eventually by that shiny new partner they found.
@davidgold972
@davidgold972 4 жыл бұрын
if only it were that simple
@prussianeagle1941
@prussianeagle1941 5 жыл бұрын
The most quiet video on KZbin. My phone is turned all the way up and I'm having to put the speaker to my ear.
@MarshallWilliams-ey2wl
@MarshallWilliams-ey2wl 5 жыл бұрын
What's with the X at the end of the text?
@robertjones7327
@robertjones7327 6 ай бұрын
Women: “put in the effort” Also women: flakes
@arnelbrown6737
@arnelbrown6737 5 жыл бұрын
I got better advice. IF YOU GET FLAKED ON MOVE ON.
@Dieje
@Dieje 5 жыл бұрын
For anyone who has field tested this over 10 times, what are he actual results?
@bolt9110
@bolt9110 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Haley Thanks for the video. Do you have any real ife examples (Screenshots of text Exchange) where this has worked to get the girl out on a date. "Hi. No Worries have a good January until we chat next x" It sounds supplicating and rewarding her for cancelling, i.e. the type of response the girl who cancelled would want to receive; rather than the text a man should send to get her out on a date.
@marcduchamp5512
@marcduchamp5512 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine people do that in the military. Can’t make it for the 20 mile run today need some more nap time Sargent.....
@aggressivequeen24
@aggressivequeen24 3 жыл бұрын
0:54 is how you should reply.
@bryangeake5826
@bryangeake5826 5 жыл бұрын
Just did it, lets see how things pan out!!
@richardmwera4599
@richardmwera4599 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Hayle theres I got flaked by a girl and I sent her text and she just answerd" we shall meet tomorrow" should I trust her answer
@divineessense2526
@divineessense2526 4 жыл бұрын
Nah my friend, it just happened to me few hours ago. She pulled a no show on me AGAIN! Dont trust a bitch.
@JeffreyGillespie
@JeffreyGillespie 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but I'm watching this a day before the end of the month LOL
@BoWSkittlez
@BoWSkittlez 6 жыл бұрын
Tried this and she still flaked two more times after this. Any suggestions?
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 3 жыл бұрын
Shes unreliable and lacks integrity. Move on.
@ChristopherStLouis-tc5qn
@ChristopherStLouis-tc5qn 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone get the family emergency lots?
@grantgray1759
@grantgray1759 4 жыл бұрын
where can I get this free ebook??
@OttomanSmack44
@OttomanSmack44 3 жыл бұрын
Tbh the whole month thing feels abit too much lol
@kylebarnett9234
@kylebarnett9234 8 жыл бұрын
hey hayley or anyone who can help me. im not sure if you respond to comments or what not but i would love it if you could make a video about how to talk to more confident girls? i kinda have a problem when i talk to girls and they're alot more mature or confident (even if theyre responding well) it kinda puts me off then i lose my confidence and end up stiff and rigid and i get all this fear and intimidation. this happens to me quite alot and i always end up fucking up the interaction because i lose my confidence and get stuck cause i dont know how to act and respond
@kylebarnett9234
@kylebarnett9234 8 жыл бұрын
also this isnt in text i mean in real life
@alienvibes5405
@alienvibes5405 6 жыл бұрын
Guy dont take advice from a woman end of
@Artem-sp8rg
@Artem-sp8rg 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, its like if a hunter asks a deer how to hunt, instead try this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r5zNdoyuj9WChsU
@sherrygate3666
@sherrygate3666 4 жыл бұрын
Not all women .. You don’t take advice from women you have emotional connections with . Eg your sister, girlfriend , aunties ,etc these people won’t tell you the truth
@concernedpagan8935
@concernedpagan8935 6 жыл бұрын
I say drop them, guys are attracted to spontaneous women who like adventure,are organized and sincere.... Flakes are flakes....
@ultraspartans100
@ultraspartans100 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice 👌🏼
@theneverending9319
@theneverending9319 5 жыл бұрын
How about just don’t be a coward and flake?
@ih8mcfly
@ih8mcfly 5 жыл бұрын
Just leave him or her. Don’t waste any more time. Block them and carry on looking.
@oldandy1645
@oldandy1645 6 жыл бұрын
Dam audio pretty rough to pick up.
@fadwarachidi5784
@fadwarachidi5784 8 жыл бұрын
i really love your videos
@thecanadianwill
@thecanadianwill 5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmm that sounds a little too butt hurt hunny...
@x213ERx
@x213ERx 8 жыл бұрын
Wrong. I'll say ok next time..time for plan B lol
@octane2344
@octane2344 6 жыл бұрын
Wow legit advice
@HigherEducationAwakening
@HigherEducationAwakening 8 жыл бұрын
Hayley*
@emanuel_soundtrack
@emanuel_soundtrack 5 жыл бұрын
my response : hm.
@AK-fb9ry
@AK-fb9ry 8 жыл бұрын
HQ WHICH GYM DO YOU GO?
@hxacalifornia2286
@hxacalifornia2286 5 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised that I keep getting flaked on by this woman. I am the greatest person of all time which is odd
@_.xxx1234._
@_.xxx1234._ 8 жыл бұрын
looking forward to read the book. i've never read such thing from a smart 10's perspective ;)
@okthennone
@okthennone 5 жыл бұрын
Games.
@twilliams6005
@twilliams6005 4 жыл бұрын
How abt you teach women how not make plans knowing you are not really interested. Men if she flakes without trying to make it up to you. Don't communicate with her ever again, have some dignity!!!
@dare-er7sw
@dare-er7sw 5 жыл бұрын
Go MGtow!
@tomazmalicar7696
@tomazmalicar7696 8 жыл бұрын
hayley, do u fitness??
@mistertexaz
@mistertexaz 8 жыл бұрын
no she's fat
@milxasap7412
@milxasap7412 5 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder for my dudes. All the advice you get about how to talk/treat a woman require you and her to be above average IQ levels and have a decent perception level to understand what is really going on. You will never see missunderstandigs between two intellectuals.
@mihirkamath7892
@mihirkamath7892 5 жыл бұрын
What if she replies with - you too *black heart* 🙄
@onlyme6662
@onlyme6662 5 жыл бұрын
Delete her shes not interested
@Thadon33
@Thadon33 7 жыл бұрын
Look at these comments tho. Lol Unlike these guys, I think that was a great response to someone that cancels at the last minute Hayley. I actually just put it to the test and she asked "why". lol
@Thadon33
@Thadon33 7 жыл бұрын
Instant update: She said "I wasn't cancelling" she's just tired and is willing to spend the night at my place. Her exact words we "as long as you let me sleep". lol I love the way her answer changed
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