Dating is Broken.
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8 ай бұрын
Don't OVERTHINK Flirting #shorts
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@deepinspired
@deepinspired 4 сағат бұрын
What did your husband say to you at the gym?
@jasond626
@jasond626 23 сағат бұрын
So true
@Prinlu739
@Prinlu739 Күн бұрын
Good suggestions!
@weltschmertzz
@weltschmertzz 2 күн бұрын
Also, don't take it personally when she says no. No is a complete sentence.
@11219tt
@11219tt 3 күн бұрын
Ok I'll make my first attempt right now. What are you doing tonight? I want those lips
@tomdem9789
@tomdem9789 4 күн бұрын
Dating feels like a job interview.... Not interested in a second job
@hermannrussian3063
@hermannrussian3063 4 күн бұрын
Never listen to woman. All that she is teaching here - how to play, what to do and what not. The first you need - to build up your musculinity, to get pair of balls. I bet that she has no idea what does it mean)))
@vertecies
@vertecies 4 күн бұрын
Great tips! Add also what if everything goes well 😊
@user-fm9zo5le2v
@user-fm9zo5le2v 4 күн бұрын
What the hell is wrong with getting straight to the point? Real men don't play these games.
@VladislavBabbitt
@VladislavBabbitt 4 күн бұрын
You flirt even before asking for contact information, not whilst on a first date.
@calvinfatman7918
@calvinfatman7918 4 күн бұрын
"I am a really lovely guy, but I am also a psychopath". Always gets a laugh. I then tell them we can't meet up just yet, as I am in a secure unit.
@HayleyQuinn
@HayleyQuinn 5 күн бұрын
The first thing you need to learn about flirting is that you need to be socially smart enough to use the right flirting method at the right time. If how you flirt with her isn’t highly responsive to her emotional state on the date the it will... errr.... bomb. Get it right using this 5 step method!
@mrguy7515
@mrguy7515 5 сағат бұрын
Hi Hayley. Love the great info your putting out there from your female perspective. Is it possible for to you make a video of some fun / playful openers when approaching a girl or group of girls to disarm them whether that be night or day please? Plus, would it be possible to make an updated observational opener / assumption when approaching a girl \ group of girls like the one you made in your early KZbin videos?
@mcfishyfirst253
@mcfishyfirst253 5 күн бұрын
I just kiss her all over
@MetalCooking666
@MetalCooking666 6 күн бұрын
So I should just kid myself that it was her fault?
@BigSexyWizard
@BigSexyWizard 6 күн бұрын
His NLP methods are essentially long winded innuendo.
@thesilentknight4554
@thesilentknight4554 8 күн бұрын
Yeah, I'll probably stick with my method. Lately I've been getting more replies. But yes, dating apps are complex. It's easy to surrender and just give up. And I can't😮
@TerryG-r8n
@TerryG-r8n 8 күн бұрын
Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)
@JohannaG-u1e
@JohannaG-u1e 8 күн бұрын
Part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!
@sumdood2035
@sumdood2035 9 күн бұрын
Use the awkward pauses to your advantage. If no one is talking, use the tension to escalate touch.
@sumdood2035
@sumdood2035 9 күн бұрын
There's this girl I've been getting to know at work. We speak different languages. Her english is minimal but she knows some. We've been talking, using translate wherever possible, and she seems nervous and anxious around me. She had been doing subtle touch like fist bumping or taking my hand at every greeting and goodbye. We spent 20-30 minutes yesterday talking or going back and forth typing translate out on her phone with our arms or bodies making contact. When she went to leave, she presented the fist bump again with a big smile, I presented an arm. She came in for the full hug but I felt her face slowly coming around my neck like she was trying to kiss me, and she sighed in a feminine way. It ended up awkward after because there were people nearby, we moved different ways, and I ended up lightly head butting her, but she left with a huge beaming smile on her face I hadn't seen before. It just seems odd to me that there can be that much interest, chemistry and tension between two people who can't even fully speak the same language. Maybe I'm more interesting without words. Needless to say, duolingo is on my phone. I'm slowly learning her language and we'll see how things go.
@rainbow20112011
@rainbow20112011 9 күн бұрын
Woman are more obsessed about looks than even men are about women. If women say "personality matters the most", they are lying.
@jasond626
@jasond626 9 күн бұрын
Would have been good for her to give an example of how to ask her number..🤦
@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752
@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752 10 күн бұрын
My social circles nowadays are filled with taken guys and dudes younger than me and dudes WAY OLDER than me... Fun life...
@smetcalf2947
@smetcalf2947 11 күн бұрын
😔
@searklarak
@searklarak 11 күн бұрын
A girl once showed me her likes and messages on Tinder within 1 hour of making her profile live - she had over 50+ different guys in her inbox. Over half of the men looked attractive and fit. I (30M) did the same and received 1 like after 1 week with no messages. She used a bathroom selfie without makeup with poor lighting, had no other pictures and an empty bio. I used a picture while I was on holiday in Spain by the beach, one at a work dinner party event and another of me solo hiking in the countryside. I listed my hobbies and my job in Finance (working out, kickboxing, cycling, photography, travelling). I still haven't received any more likes or messages and have given up - I don't have high expectations in my partner and certainly not looking at 21 year olds. I'm a social, laid-back guy, have a small circle of friends and a good career with my own apartment and car but online dating doesn't work for me.
@LoveGixx
@LoveGixx 11 күн бұрын
.. does farting help break the silence?.. (silent farts not in general)..
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 11 күн бұрын
That's so nerd and weird, don't do this
@calvinfatman7918
@calvinfatman7918 8 күн бұрын
If you are a lady who does very loud farts, most men would be impressed, and then leave
@FunnyKam0
@FunnyKam0 11 күн бұрын
Fax it’s only awkward if you make it awkward you are the common denominator
@memyselfandi3925
@memyselfandi3925 11 күн бұрын
And you went to school to tell us the obvious. 😂
@kc270352
@kc270352 11 күн бұрын
only awkward if you make it awkward
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 11 күн бұрын
When you speak some inappropriate content, it could be weird also. Like i eat children,even you are chilling about telling her,still awkward
@HayleyQuinn
@HayleyQuinn 12 күн бұрын
A pause in a conversation doesn’t mean you have failed or that this interaction with her is doomed. Remember she also co-creates a great conversation with you. Silence can also be sexy, so use it wisely! ❤
@GMK9VII
@GMK9VII 15 күн бұрын
What if she skipped holding hands and went to holding my c**k
@firewalkerg11
@firewalkerg11 15 күн бұрын
Agree 100%
@SWabakken
@SWabakken 15 күн бұрын
The advice is that after the proper response from messages, you should ask her out. However, at this point I ask the woman to talk on the phone. The two big reasons are that I want to appear to be unsure about her (or that I have high standards) and because I know it's very likely I can make a good impression and increase her interest in me. I never see dating coaches discuss the intermediate step on talking on the phone, so I must be an outlier.
@firewalkerg11
@firewalkerg11 15 күн бұрын
Hey Mike, you're one of my favorite UK FireTeam crew mates @tonyrobbins. I've appreciated your positive energy and attitude since we first met back in 2014. Your story has been an inspiration, and I recently came across this lovely interview that gave me a deeper understanding and appreciation of who you are. As a natural health & alkaline hydration advocate, I've been sharing your story and the hope you could bring to so many with similar brain injuries. I'm truly grateful for our friendship and for reconnecting with you. I hope we have the opportunity to meet up soon in the USA @ my little wellness oasis or perhaps in Italy. Talk to you soon. Hablamos pronto. Parliamo presto. Ciao, Marsella.😌🙏
@thesilentknight4554
@thesilentknight4554 15 күн бұрын
Yikes, me at 5'5-5'6 😮 *Me, Tom Cruise, Kevin Hart laughing in the chat🤣🤣🤣*
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 14 күн бұрын
Cold approach is the best
@rossneil4413
@rossneil4413 15 күн бұрын
Don’t blame women? Who tf else is to blame?
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 14 күн бұрын
If you blame women,then you just keep staying single,women won't feel pity for you that you aren't good enough
@rossneil4413
@rossneil4413 14 күн бұрын
@@dongmingling4052 you’re slow.
@yinokyakusama390
@yinokyakusama390 13 күн бұрын
How very incel of you. It goes both ways. Most men don't want to be with a taller woman, even if they are considered very tall themselves. There are women who don't care about height, but I bet you'd find physical qualities about them, that would make you reject them. So stop being immature about it and go the easy way, blame it on women. There are social expectations of how a desirable partner should look like. If you want to blame anyone, blame our culture and biology. We've always judged as a species on looks when choosing a partner.
@smiles7631
@smiles7631 16 күн бұрын
This is my achillies heal, I just have to stop being so shy. Thank you for the encouragement!
@mikebarnes1239
@mikebarnes1239 17 күн бұрын
Most underrated dating advice/channel on KZbin, cheers
@jasond626
@jasond626 17 күн бұрын
This is probably Hayley's best video and in general on an approach/opener.. .. Keep it simple is what you need as approach anxiety.. be good if you do a follow up of what to say after hi..
@super_sexy_mario
@super_sexy_mario 18 күн бұрын
Your feminism, self-sufficiency and emancipation fucked up all men and the family everywhere by the way. And no matter what bullshits you're talking here, you're fucking up the whole family structure and meaning of life.
@SigFigNewton
@SigFigNewton 18 күн бұрын
Many couples both people think that they are the one putting in more effort
@SigFigNewton
@SigFigNewton 18 күн бұрын
As tho you can trust a human to accurately assess the amount of effort someone else is putting in relative to their own effort
@thundercascadia
@thundercascadia 18 күн бұрын
Awwww, I thought this was lesbian advice because it was coming from a woman :'(
@ismailbol
@ismailbol 19 күн бұрын
1:10 what about it?? She wants to pet you?
@riverbankfisher
@riverbankfisher 19 күн бұрын
I used to be fixated on making her laugh by coming up with something witty to say as an opening line, but it usually sounded rehearsed, which repelled rather than attracted her. I really like the keep-it-simple philosophy. Less mental energy consumed and thus less nervousness on my part.
@HayleyQuinn
@HayleyQuinn 19 күн бұрын
If a woman is smiling and making eye contact with you, you don’t need me to tell you this is a signal she’d like you to go and talk to her. What you need to do is decide to act on this signal. Whether or not the conversation with her goes smoothly, to be successful with women, you need to create a habit around taking action (not procrastinating!) ❤
@LoveGixx
@LoveGixx 18 күн бұрын
@hayleyquinn How do I get HER to make her move after she smiles and makes eye contact with me!?.. Id like to have that affect.. she initiated it.. shed better be courageous.. because im not the one who was interested to begin with and theres no way im going over.. i dont chase women.. i only chase pizza and wine..
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 11 күн бұрын
​@@LoveGixx if you don't change your big ego thing,then woman is not for you
@jas137
@jas137 19 күн бұрын
Also: "I only threw up ONCE that time! Good job!"
@shaibarnaut8426
@shaibarnaut8426 22 күн бұрын
She thinks guys have the opportunity to speak to TEN women a week?!! wha?! I have not spoken to ten women in a month and exactly 0 since early 2019, not a date or even texting since. Last time I said "hello" to a woman, she complained about me to HR and I was fired...so I don't initiate conversation or make eye contact with women anymore.
@dongmingling4052
@dongmingling4052 17 күн бұрын
Just said hello to a girl in working place could get you are fired? Don't spread the anxiety here,you just wanna invent more incels
@Nezumi99
@Nezumi99 23 күн бұрын
Bcs im ugly
@mauroclerici5083
@mauroclerici5083 24 күн бұрын
Well yes at the first glance it does hurt as I got recently rejected but it's part and parcel of life the good thing is that I found an interior balance that allows me to go through failure to failure without losing the enthusiasm 😄😄😄