Thought my husband was the only man like this! Haha! Be happy, sister. He loves and trusts you. Do you know how many women would switch places with you? You messed up!
@hx71618 ай бұрын
I was wrong. You are definitely a niam dev.
@mhaiyaaj8 ай бұрын
People always want something they don’t have. You don’t have any drama in your life and you crave for that. Some people have too much drama and want some freedom. You finally understand life is like with a bad person.
@michaelf27008 ай бұрын
So u dont want a nice guy who treats u well, but a jealous guy who beats u up & keeps tabs on ur whereabouts? Niag poj niam dev tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj.
@ginamoua99898 ай бұрын
SORRY YOU CANT HAVE EVERYTHING. YOU SOUND LIKE THOSE WOMEN WHO GET LOVE AND QUESTION WHY HE DONT LOVE YOU, BUT WHEN YOU GET YELLED AT AND ABUSE YOU SAY HE LOVES YOU..🤣🤣🤣 IF YOU WANT PHYSICAL LOVE AND ATTENTION "COMMUNICATE" WITH YOUR SPOUSE...SHEESHH🙄
@maichavang68968 ай бұрын
This lady is not crazy... every one has their own love language, This is what she craves I her marriage, so I understand u sister.. A little jealousy is sexy and makes us woman feel loved and appreciated
@Cheenoux8 ай бұрын
I believe showing a little bit of jealousy in a relationship is actually a good thing. It means they actually love you. I honestly would think my partner is cheating if they dont show no feelings at all. Not saying we should be controlling of our partner but every relationship needs signs of a little jealousy. Its not normal to just not show any emotions in a relationship.
@17maukabtsab8 ай бұрын
All I can say is that she is super lucky. I understand that she just wants him to pursue her more and care about her on a daily matter. At the end no one wears her shoes, so we can’t really judge her for cheating. Honestly she needed to go through that pain to see for herself. It’s sad that she put her husband through so much. If she didn’t go back then I agree her husband deserves better, but in every relationship everyone has to learn from their mistakes. She sure is blessed to marry a man like him. She almost lost a good man.
@kelbra36898 ай бұрын
Your situation was simple. Your love language is words of affirmation, that's how you feel love. You actually did not want a jealous husband, but someone to compliment you and say things to you to make you feel secure. Your husband didn't know this, so he didn't think it was a big deal. I'm glad he knows now.
@beautifulyang13028 ай бұрын
I always wanted a husband like yours, and i got one, and i love him so much. I don't like jealousy guy, never ever in my life.
@KouLor-g4i7 ай бұрын
You got the best husband my husband is just like your we last 40 years still going
@chouxiong2068 ай бұрын
Ntuj aw koj ruam los koj ntse es koj ho ntshaw txiv khib na sim neej no tau txiv khib dhuav siab dhuav ntsws mus tsis tau ib txoj ke twg li zoo li tus noog raug kaw rau hauv lub pob tawb tsuas yog mus ua tau txoj nyuag hauj lwm vim need nyiaj them nuj nqis xwb os ntshe koj tsis sawm zoo ho. Koj twb ntshaw2 kev hlub kev khib nev cas ho tsis yuav koj niag qub kiav roj naw es tseem ho tu moo thiab koj deserve 1 tug txiv zoo li koj niag qub kiav roj 100%
@Rydrsv8 ай бұрын
Sadly, many women like her were taught at a young age that love = jealousy, control, and abuse. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
@soukha22328 ай бұрын
This lady loves a husband that can do such hlub + khib + ntaus/ncaws all together.
@yermoua20358 ай бұрын
Bad communication xwb. He is a keeper. Don’t ever let him go.You will regret it.
@PKXionG928 ай бұрын
Very few guys don’t show jealousy cuz they trust you that you’ll be faithful! I’ve met a few men who aren’t jealous and lawv tso siab lug rau luaj poj luaj sev. Txhob ntshaw tus khib os, nyuaj nyuaj siab li os.
@koulor26998 ай бұрын
Lady you are lucky your husband take you back
@pajdawblis42918 ай бұрын
You are lucky your husband is nice
@maiyang21068 ай бұрын
This person right here is the definition of "poj niam tsis sawm zoo" 👌
@mv90738 ай бұрын
Lesson learned for both the husband and wife. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Only where we water it. Glad she was able to learn before it was too late and glad the husband took her back. We all make mistakes. It’s what makes us smarter.
@xeevnploojxyooj23768 ай бұрын
Pojniam tsis sawm zoo, ces yog tus nov tiag.
@mailor13808 ай бұрын
Alot of women want a husband like her and give them freedom. This woman almost lose a good husband.
@souavang91528 ай бұрын
You are one lucky woman. Most men are like your boyfriend. Good that your husband took you back.
@Zeb12458 ай бұрын
Your husband loves you enough to give you another chance. The both of you didn’t know each other’s love language and good communication is also one of the foundations of a healthy marriage.
@maivlis11208 ай бұрын
Omg! You are so lucky to have a husband like that. You don't want to have a husband who is so jealous and always controls you. I wish I could have a husband like you. Txhob lam ntshaw niag txiv khib khib nawb. Tau tus txiv khib2 mas ua neej lwj siab tshaj plaws. Yus ua dab tsi mus dab tsi los txhaum nws tas nrho. You should be glad you have an understandable husband. Nij hnub no ces qhov kuv dhuav tshaj ces twb yog nws txoj kev khib ntag mas. Twb tseem xav tias xyov yuav yuav los tsis yuav lawm. Cas koj tsem yuav tias tsis khib es yuav nrauj. Neeg tsis sawm zoo tiag2 li os yom 😊
@khoutsab49048 ай бұрын
Definitely poj niam dev. Feel sorry for the husband
@MiYa-lf4hw8 ай бұрын
Wow and here I am wishing my husband was like yours!!! I need my freedom! 😆😆😆😆
@diannaxiong6938 ай бұрын
Poj Hmoob koj mas hmoov zoo tshaj plaws thiaj rov qab tau lub Pov haum kws muaj Nuj nqi os
@Lolelanie7 ай бұрын
Be happy u have such an open minded husband.
@cOOL0108956 ай бұрын
Everyone has their own love language. We need to understand this. To be fulfilled in a relationship/marriage, one should meet each other half way. It shouldn't have been brought out of proportion like this story. The husband shouldn't have needed to get on his knees and beg. She shouldn't have met someone new already. She should have communicated this to strengthen their marriage. If not, talk to her in laws. There were ways to fix this. Everyone wants to be fullfilled in a relationship. But don't destroy something good because of your selfishness.
@purplebutterfly868 ай бұрын
Omg ! You are so lucky to have a husband that is like that. My husband is the opposite. My husband is a very jealously and controlling man. I can't even have friends... I have no freedom at all.😢
@yeryang-thao30788 ай бұрын
Khib thiab care= control Tsis khib tsis care= freedom You got your taste what you want a Khib person. You owe him double love. He will be smarter now too. You may be a person who like to be control.
@user-bw9ro3jz4v8 ай бұрын
Haha I thought my husband was the only one. Lol. Though I am happy that he is like that because I see my nyabs get beat up just looking at a man. I'm thankful that my husband is not like those abusive husband. I think guys like your and my husband do get jealous, they just hide their feelings really well. Like my husband said "you want to get beat up just like your nyabs? Beat up for no reasons? Cannot talk nor look at other guys?" It made me realized that I do not want that kind of life. I'm thankful just to have an understanding husband.
@jackieyunan48997 ай бұрын
Stay single, but sleep with both of them it's better for you...
@lunayang76128 ай бұрын
Koj ma yog ib tug poj niam uas nyiam kom tus txiv hai ib los xuab ib nrig xwb os. Cov txiv zoo li ko muaj tsawg ho. Koj nrauj meb lwm tus khaws nkaus mu hlub rau koj ntsiab tiag
@skydive1108 ай бұрын
This person is just crazy ❤❤❤❤
@nasejyang63698 ай бұрын
A little bit of jealousy is normal when you love some one. How can someone not be jealous at all? Not being jealous at all does show that the person doesnt care. Those who have never experienced it will never understand. For us as humans it's hard to understand something that we've never experienced
@victoriacha35658 ай бұрын
I myself like this kinda men. Mine 2 cent, He trust you enough and he knows that you wouldn't do anything stupid. That's his love language. You wouldn't want someone who is a freak, won't let you go anywhere, soo controlling, and beat you up because someone talk to you including women he thinks you gossip or talk bad about something. Just be happy. You deserve someone like your BF.
@missysmart86208 ай бұрын
Damn! You’re one lucky woman for having your husband took you back and not get beat up! Lwm tus txiv neej ces koj mag veg lawm os. Cov mes vivncaus los cov mes ntxhais nawb don’t do like this sister did. She just got lucky tsam nej hmoov tsis zoo li nws.
@ทาทาทา-ม9อ8 ай бұрын
เหมือนสามีเราเลยคิดๆแล้วน้อยใจค่ะ
@annathao49367 ай бұрын
I sure don’t want a husband like him or a very jealous one. I prefer one in between because I would love my husband to still show me affection too
@imayyang8 ай бұрын
You both had different love languages.
@xeevang39078 ай бұрын
I understand you because that's was like describing my husband, too. However, I witnessed other couples, and unlike you, I learned to appreciate my husband for who he is vs. the other husbands my sisters and friends had. The grass isn't greener on the other side. Be patient, learn, and guide each other and give time for your marriage to grow. It is the best route because dating and marriage life is slightly different. You only have 1 child and obviously this happened. It clearly just showed that u think you're pretty and hot so u did it to yourself.
@symouacheupao62288 ай бұрын
Tus niam tsev txhob tus siab nws yooj yig ua neej tshaj li os Yog nws khib 22 es nws ho tsi hkib lawn ces yog nws phem Tab si nws ib txwm ua li no ces tsi yog nws phem nawb Kuv tus muaj tsi zoo li ntawm thiab ib sim neej nws yeej tsi ua tej yam ua nqia tau tias nws hlub yum tab si nws yeej tsi cem yus Nws yuav tau 50 xyoo no nws twb tsi yuav ib qhov khoom li $1los $5.00 duas li nawb Tab yus yuav khoom npaum cas los nws twb tsi hais koj yuav tau daim tiab tshiab los nws twb paub nws twb tsi care txog tab si tsi mag cem li os muaj hmoo tiag li os Tsi tau poob kua muag li os Zoo siab tiag li os Yog koj nplam tug txiv no ces koj yuav khuv xim nawb
@pl8rzclub8 ай бұрын
You deserve the guy that treated you bad! Your husband should not have taken a cheater like you back!
@pakouxiong42308 ай бұрын
At least he doesn't cheat. You lucky. Mine husband never jealous and care about me like yours but he cheated. 😢
@duakevq77368 ай бұрын
Niag poj niam Liam quas neeg ko cas tseem muaj ntsej muag los qhia teb chaws kom paub koj lub siab phem lim hiam thiab nas
@hmoobclassicsongs48648 ай бұрын
Ua cas koj tus hluas nraug tseem tsis ua kom koj fos ntais thiaj li tsim nyog qhov mus deev hluas
@lifewithbrayden91358 ай бұрын
My husband is like this too he don't care what I wear or do.. in grateful for that.
@npauhmoob47468 ай бұрын
Tsis khib me2 li es xyov puas yog hlub li thiab os, HOS COV KHIB CIAJ KHIB TUAG MAS HO DANGEROUS THIAB OV. KUV TUS KHIB RAWS LI LUB TEB LUB CHAWS VIM NWS HLUB2 KUV XWB OS
@houathao-k1w8 ай бұрын
Koj muaj hmoo kawg koj daim nqaij muaj rau tus to hlub lawm kuv ces muab koj dov kauj vab ua lub good bye li nancy hais lawm lauj!
@shouacha52768 ай бұрын
This lady is crazy some of us women wish we have a husband like yours if I was your husband I wouldn’t take u back….
@mikim20238 ай бұрын
Pom tau hais tias peb hmoob lub qhov ncauj mas lam tau lam cem luag tej lub neej. Yus tsis nyob nws qhov chaw ces yus tsis paub os. Nej puas xav txog cov txiv neej es mus deev pes tsawg tus mej cab thiab cov mos mos tag es nej tseem khaws na ? Haha pab tub siab nrog txoj neej neeg tias ua cas yuav los txog txij no mam li sib to taub. Tab sis yog neb txawj sib hlub lawm ces zoo dua qhov ua lig dhau lawm.😅
@maylovang18808 ай бұрын
Koj twb xav xav tau cov txiv neej khib khib koj no nev, txiv neej khib khib yus ces ntaus ntaus yus los mas me ntxhais aw, cov txiv tsis khib yus ces luag thiaj tsis cem yus los mas. Tsis yog lawv tsis hlub yus na. Lawv cia yus nyob kev kaj siab xwb los tseem tsis nyiam thiab. Tsis zoo rau qhov koj twb mus deev deev hluas nraug lawm koj mam rov qab los pab hlub koj tus txiv Kuam xwb os.
@maiyang36598 ай бұрын
Poj niam siab dev, mus yuav kiag es Koj thiaj paub thiab kawm tiav ib qib maj
@hmongfixnas22558 ай бұрын
Cas mloog 2 lawm nej cov poj niam mas tsis khib los yus ho tias yog lawv tsis hlub ho hos khib yus lo ho tias khib tsis muaj vij xib vij xws thiab ua cas los ntse yuav tsis zoo li yom qhov zoo ces ib lo ib khau ib lo ib ncaws taw kos nej cov poj tsa tsis tau tob hau hlo mas thiaj haum nej siab xwb yom
@nhouxiong2 ай бұрын
Girl. I rather have a non jealous husband than a jealous husband. 😂😂
@เย่อ-บ6ฐ8 ай бұрын
Khib ce mag qw Li ko ntag ma ...koj tseem yuav thiab ma koj haj yam pob dab tseeb nawb Viv ncau aw ..
@nkaujyajyoua92538 ай бұрын
You wanna trade husband? My husband is too jealous that it's driving me nuts! LMAO!
@lovetoplaywithyou35308 ай бұрын
To this woman. You need to go watch the movie Gone girl
@katexiong27328 ай бұрын
Tsis khib doesn’t mean the person doesn’t care. Be faithful to your spouse whether he goes or not. Jealousy usually is an issue. You’re not a good wife cheated while you’re still married. karma hit you. Your lucky other men will not take you back. Glad he took you back.
@leepaoyang56707 ай бұрын
Maum dev no kawm tiav lawm lau
@HmongCook8 ай бұрын
POJNIAM Siab Phem.
@lalalalalalalala42648 ай бұрын
Even though her husband is not verbally or physically abusive, he still hurts her deeply when he doesn't acknowledge her in any way or have an opinion when it comes to her. When you love someone, it can be an extremely lonely place to not feel loved and needed in return. Unless you've been there, you wouldn't understand. Obviously she cares about him, she was desperate to get him to react to anything even if it's bad. She was wrong for cheating on him for sure, that's something I would never do to my husband. She failed to understand that is his personality, even as a child. She obviously didn't know her husband that well and should have communicated with him to more. He should have changed for her too. It was just the little things that makes her happy.
@mio-her7 ай бұрын
I don't think it's good to have a jealous husband, however, I do believe you need a partner who is active in your life. Enjoy moments together, will make them genuinely miss you.
@haivneegkeej26748 ай бұрын
Man, like this person is what give us men a bad reputation 😢😢oh, my god!!!!!!
@cindythao3698 ай бұрын
It's sad that it has to come to this .. before it gets better 😔 you're so lucky your husband still takes you back after you cheated on him. Love each other.
@LadyK018 ай бұрын
That’s what you wanted!!! That’s what you get! Tsis khib los txhaum khib los txhaum. Damn what do you want?!!? Smh 🤦♀️
@charlesher.95088 ай бұрын
Ib tug txiv cas mus lawm tsheej ob week ho g hu nriav li ne los. Qhov tiag ces koj rov qab mus yuav koj tus txiv zoo dua vim nws xav tias tso koj ywj siab xwb tus txiv lus tsawb yeej coj li nuav nawb es nws twb kam hloov siab ces rov yuav yog qhov zoo dua os. Vim laj nriav tau ib tug zoo txiv thiab os.😂❤
@FongHer-d8l5 ай бұрын
Lawv cov laus ib txwm hais tias. Dev g sawm tsau tib neeg g sawm zoo. Ces yog tus niam tsev no. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav zoo tshaj koj tug txiv no lawm os.
@geuher73158 ай бұрын
Tus txiv tsis khib tsis carev yig tus zoo dua os... cov khib2 ces lawv control yus dhau lawm os viv ncaus aw...
@boakuolor66624 ай бұрын
Just because he isn't jealous of you doesn't mean he don't love you.
@kayang38988 ай бұрын
Koj yuav luag plag os yom.
@toufongvang61308 ай бұрын
Cov poj niam zoo li no txim nyog hlub
@ziaskabhmoob8 ай бұрын
My goodness! Tus niam hluas aw...koj xav yuav tus txiv khib2 thiab ntaus2 koj lod? Koj tus txiv ntxim yog ib tug muaj lub siab loj siab dav heev, thiab nws twb hlub2 koj es thiaj tsis pub koj mus ua hauj lwm ib hnub li.
@aongvarngaongvarng17608 ай бұрын
Niag pog meb cab lau aw kj ce phim tus tsim ko xb o ho kj tus me txiv zoo ua txiv tsev zoo ce cia nw mu rau tus poj niam hlu tiag xb o
@aongvarngaongvarng17608 ай бұрын
Kj ce ntxim cov txiv neej khib2 muab kj ncaw txhua hnu xb o pog liam aw
@leecaskojlubneejyuavtxomny20198 ай бұрын
Koj tseem tsis tau mag tsim txaus es koj thiaj li muaj muaj plhu ne 😂😂
@MamaKash898 ай бұрын
I understand you. 😅
@BossPolly8 ай бұрын
There are some guys like that but they love you deeply
@maivue32248 ай бұрын
Tus txiv tsis khib zoo dua os! Kuv nyiam tus tsis khib!
@moniqueartea70478 ай бұрын
oh cas kv hu ua hnub thiab kv niag txiv es tsis khib kv lis tias sis yg yus mus 1 txoj kev 6 -7 xuab los tsis hu seb yus txog los tsis txog li es xyov puas hlub yus li as
@faithf16898 ай бұрын
You are unbelievable!
@piamoua36498 ай бұрын
You don't deserve your husband back. Koj tsim nyog yuav Koj tus Hluas Nraug xwb, the one who give you black eye and say I love you.
@hlubyang40728 ай бұрын
Tsis tim koj tu txiv os...Tim koj yog ib niag maum dev xuaj tsis tsim nyog tau ib txoj kev hlub zoo....tu zoo li koj mas phim ncaws taw txhua hnub txhua hmo xwb os
@yengxiong61018 ай бұрын
lwm hnub ma ntuj yuav muab koj rau txim loj heev vim koj siab tsis cajncees kuam lawm thiab kuam txawm tsis pom los lub ntuj pom nawb
@kaliakhab92818 ай бұрын
Yog koj tau ib tus txiv khib2 ma koj thiaj mam paub tia dab teb muaj tiag dhuav siab sim neej 😂
@thomasveu83657 ай бұрын
Tej no ces yog vim sd.txoj kev ruam nkaus xwbm
@macymango41348 ай бұрын
lol my husband is the same exact way .. he doesn’t show any love and doesn’t care what I do but I know deep down he does loves me .. I’m actually really blessed to have him in my life vs a guy who is insecure, controlling and jealous!
@mayyang13708 ай бұрын
I can relate to this story my husband is the same 😢
@tubhmoobhmoob29448 ай бұрын
Koj tshuav rab qws thiab lub ncaws taw tsis tau mag, koj rov mus mag tag ces siab nqig lawm, qhov tseeb koj xav rov mus deev koj cov qub hluas nraug es koj lam hais tias koj tus txiv tsis khib koj xwb
Ntuj yuas poj hmoob ruam22aw koj khaus dhau hwv lawm es koj tuaj qhia koj txoj kev lwj nceb koj txoj kev khaum nyob rawv ntawm koj lub hauv pliaj tom ntej no thaum koj siav yuav tu ces koj lub nceb yuav lwj ua ntej hos vim koj tus txiv twb pe nias tes rau lub ntuj thiab daim av es nej nco ntsoov li ntawd nawv
@NpisVwjNeejYias8 ай бұрын
Kuv twb zoo li tus txiv neej no ne, tab sis txhob xav tias yus yuav ua tej yam saib tsis taus tus txiv. Tus poj niam no mas ntxim mus tau cov txiv uas ib los ib ncaws taw mas thiaj li haum nws.
@thovkuvhlubkoj128 ай бұрын
Omgahhhh really lady aws! Ntuj es om!😂
@skidu-u95357 ай бұрын
Kuv tus txiv coj li koj tus thiab os sister.
@angelalee45988 ай бұрын
I love you, husband vim tias nws thiaj yog ib tug txiv neej yawg tseeb qhia koj tus txiv tias kuv nrog koj hlub koj tus txiv thiab os ua neeg nyob lwm tus ua txhaum los twb yog vim yus , yus thiaj li loov tau cov niag txiv neej cuav ces nws twb yog tus ua mob yus siab los nws twb tsis pom nws qhov phem nws tseem liam lub txim rau yus xwb ,nws xav tias nws thiaj muaj siab muaj ntsws xwb es nws xav tias ntshe yus tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws nws tsis cem thiab hais lus phem thiab tsisb muab yus ntaus ces txhais tau tias nws hlub2 yus ua neeg nyob nyias ham muaj nyias kev ntshaw es thiaj li yog hlub la ma
@KathyLee-o7k8 ай бұрын
I understand her feelings but I won't go cheat on my man if not divorce yet...what she did wrong ...hope she learn her lesson..there 2 type man in this world...
@ky75188 ай бұрын
Maum dev liam khaus pim! Koj tus txiv raum dhaus lawm thiaj li yuav koj xwb os. Yog kuv ces koj mag recycle lawm 😅😂
@leethao39758 ай бұрын
How lucky are u to meet 2 extreme opposite...everything needs balance. Everyone thinks your husband is great, but he lacks affection. It's great he is not jealous. But he needs to show some concerns for u. Especially being considerate of your feelings when u are uncomfortable having a guy touch u. He just needs to be there to support, and it could be very lonely. Glad he was able to change and forgave u.