Tsis Tiam Ntawv Los Muaj Nplooj Siab. 1/27/2022

[@lisvaj7375]

I wish people were more open minded to adoption. My husband and I only have one child our son and we were diagnosed with secondary infertility, we choose to adopt my daughter. Our kids are now 21 and 10. We live in a city where there is a lot of Hmong people and we were able to adopt through the foster care system. You will be surprise how many Hmong kids are waiting to be adopted. You just need to start being foster parents. People think you won’t love your adoptive kids but you really do. I love my two kids no more no less, why because I want them. Let this story be a lesson to others who think and blame the other spouse. There is other ways to become parents, please seek it. Second wives aren’t the answer.

[@cua1879]

❤

[@nouyang3166]

Tell your story. We all would like to hear if u don't mind.

[@bootifulhmg]

Where do you live? 💜

[@lisvaj7375]

@@bootifulhmg Twin Cities

[@lisvaj7375]

@@nouyang3166 I want to, one day when my daughter is older and ready. I will share it. For now because she’s young, I want to protect her privacy.

[@_milly]

This day and age some Hmong husbands (esp. their parents) need to accept the fact that they CAN be the reason why their wives cannot conceive. Having a high ego won't solve the problem to their fertility issues.

[@kevinher3546]

Agree

[@jennifermoua3775]

For real. There’s so many ways to get pregnant nowadays even if you can’t naturally do it. Even though it’s expensive, it’ll be worth it if they really want kids.

[@flryprn745]

Wonder why he never tried invitro n why he so scare to get check, which is common w most hmoob men.

[@MissPeachie]

Tu txiv siab phem, do you think you come here to get sympathy? NOPE, you deserve your niam mos ab treating you like that. She is your karma. You did one good thing, you divorced your first wife so she was able to go have children with another man. She should have thanked you when she saw you. Thanks for telling us how karma caught up to you!

[@xayxiong1061]

Agree 💯

[@semicharmedlife]

You abandoned your 1st wife for your selfishness and now your 2nd wife abandoned you for the same reasons, but she still gave you $50k. Something you could not do for your 1st wife. Consider yourself lucky even in unfortunate circumstances.

[@MissPeachie]

For real! This man is very selfish. But I have to say, he did his first ex a favor by divorcing her because she has 4 kids now. Sucks for him!

[@bchang227]

You are in America. You should've went to the doctor to check and not just blindly blame others. You deserve what happened to you dude. Yog koj txoj kev npam lawm os! Your first wife loved you with all her heart but you tossed her away. Mus tos poj dab hmoob nplog tuaj ces nyuam qhuav ntxim koj xwb os thaub! 🤣

[@heysoniher]

Why do people always assume it's the wife who can't have kids? This dude used his infertility to cheat and married a second wife because his ego was too big. He could have saved all these headaches by just getting himself checked. He refused adoption and can't love other women's kids but he would rather his second wife cheat on him and have kids with someone else. There are other ways of having a family if you have an open mind, but most Hmong people only care about wanting kids who are their blood. They can't see beyond that.

[@MissPeachie]

Because this dude has no brain.

[@hliher9374]

All the OG they don’t want to admit that’s their son the one that can’t have kids. Because they don’t wanna lose face. they don’t want people go around and said that is their son. And they don’t wanna believe that when you can’t have kids and it’s not always the women

[@mrshanglily5647]

Txob tus siab os tus brother aw…having kids is not always a guarantee that they’re gonna love you forever. You hear it all the times, some people are gifted with many children but still end up at the nursing home. Love yourself and love the the people around you is all you can do😉

[@ເອ່ຍອົງ]

Ok

[@ເອ່ຍອົງ]

LLL lpllp

[@cindyskenderovic6806]

Men needs to stop putting the blame on the women when they don't even know whose fault it is. No wonder, when the tables turn women don't give a damn to look at men like this. Very stupid and pathetic for men to literally blaming the women for fault that's not theirs.

[@maxl9010]

The words/story of a fool who gave up a committed wife only to become a doormat. Karma is when the same words, conditions, and outcome one exerts on another is used/done back to him.

[@nouyang3166]

When a couple can't have kid. The community automatically think it's the woman's fault. Men use this as an excuse to marry a 2nd wife. When the man can't have kid they tell the wife to stay but if it was the man the he can marry 2nd wife. So unfair

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly! He did it to himself!

[@bchang227]

Not in America. Only the uneducated, old farts do that. A majority of us knows better and don't blame anyone, much less the wife. If you're in America, there are options. You can always try artificial insemination. If that fails, adoption. Hmong ppl seem to think adopted kids won't love them and take care of them in their old age but it's quite the opposite.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Many men now a days have low sperm count even if healthy and difficult to impregnate his wife. Do get checked to resolve any questions instead of being afraid to confront the truth. Adoption is always an option. Had a sister who was young and got pregnant - we helped her find a Hmong couple who now is the parents of this child and it’s so wonderful to see the child thrive in a place he otherwise couldn’t have.

[@tlee0909]

It’s karma…you treated your first wife horrible…now your second wife do it to you.

[@MySunshine71]

KARMA is soo sweet!! You deserve everything that happened to you

[@daisyvue]

His heart is not big enough and he is too ignorant to be blessed with kids. He admits it too but just feels too much societal pressure and expectation to have children. His ego too big.

[@amazinggrace8136]

An abusive man beats his wife on a daily basis. She finally have the courage to leave and he tracks her down and kills her. Does she deserved to be murdered also?

[@dahliaxiong4731]

There’s a thing call “karma.” You get what you deserve. You cheated on your ex wife because you accused her for not being able to have kids. And now your wife is cheating on you lmao.

[@swanlake3895]

Not a very smart guy. Then again many men rather blame anyone but take responsibility so you got what you deserve.

[@MissPeachie]

👏

[@mosvaj1385]

Txiv neej siab phem siab dub li koj thiab ib co txiv neej es yus tsis kam kho yus ua ntej mus lub neej rhuav es pheej muab lub lub txim pob rau tus pon niam kom nej tau tus tshiab xwb es peb Poj nia tsis muaj cai mus yuav txiv Yau es qhov mob yog pe. Pon Noam mob ti siab qhov ntshaw minyuam Poj niam ntshaw tshaj mog vim tej no kuv twb tau taug los lawm mog es kuv kuj nrog koj tu siab heev tabsis vam tias Hnub no mus peb cov txiv neej hmoob yuav tau mus kuaj lawv tus kheej ua ntej lawv yuav muab lub txim rau Poj niam ris es yog kuaj Tim yus lawm ces 2 leeg sib hlub thiab yus hlub nws kom txaus nws yeej yuav hlub yus nrog yus nyob yog nws tsis hlub yus hos yus ho tsis hlub yus es nws ho khiav vim muaj tsis taus minyuam tabsis yog nws lub siab zoo hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws ces kuv ntseeg tias nws yeej yuav nrog yus nyob mog

[@kaliaxiong9962]

Txhob cem cem tus txiv tsev no thiab os tus niam loj thiab niam yau txawm chim siab npaum twg los twb mus nrwb nrwb sab nrauv muaj me nyuam lawm hos tus txiv tsev no ib sim neej muaj tsis taus me nyuam ces yeej tu siab tshaj plaws li os... Txhob tu siab nawb mog ntshe yog tim yus txoj hmoo yus nqa tsis tau daim ntawv muaj me tub me nyuam os....... 😢

[@jsmob2754]

เผ่าม้งส่วนมากชอบโทษผู้หญิง😥

[@Starshineloveable]

Yug tsis muaj ib tug los tsis txob tu siab mog. Zoo siab rau qhov yus muaj xwb thiaj tsis ua kev npam. Thov kom txiv neej hmoob pauv rau yav tom ntej.

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

I’m sorry but I have no sympathy for this man. You brought it upon yourself. But I feel bad for the kids. If it was anyone to blame, you created all these problems. I feel bad for all the people you hurt in this story. Including your sec wife.

[@kevinher3546]

Agree

[@hlubyang4072]

Txhob tu siab thiab muab xav rau cov muaj ib pab coob coob thaum kawg twb tsis muaj chaw tuag thiab

[@tusnco2]

Txhob tu siab os yog Tim koj tu poj niam los koj yeej yuav mus yuav dua hos Tim koj los nws yuav mus yuav dua lwm tus

[@musibsim2151]

Bro tsis muaj me nyuam los txhob tu siab os mog peb cov uas yug tau coob2 no los raug me nyuam muab xyuas sab kawg tu siab tiag2 li thiab mawb

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Brother, karma got you. You should've love your first wife and adopt instead of blaming her and marry a second wife. This woman will continue to cheat on you. Shame on you.

[@hello-vy4fb]

Txiv neej hmoob txoj kev npam. Tsis muaj menyuam los tim pojniam, tsis muaj tub los tim pojniam, tsis muaj ntxhais los tim pojniam. Cia kom tuag tsis muag neeg faus.

[@mainouxiong2054]

At first I had no sympathy for him but towards the middle and end I was very sad for him. Infertility is no joke and it does not choose who you are; men or women.

[@cocopha5778]

Nej cov txiv neej na yom pheej Tim Lwm tus na yom nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb

[@greenladylalaland4222]

At your age, do and accept things that warm your heart most. The older we get, the more lonely we are. ❤

[@maoxiong4242]

Tsis nrog koj tu siab li os tus txiv tsev awd muaj kev du taug tsis taug es yeem mus taug kev fab nyuam qhuav hauv xwb muaj coob tus txiv dev muab peb cov poj niam nrauj tso kab theeb tim puam tias yog tim peb poj niam xwb npam sia tiag 2 li os yom

[@seed2319]

Koj tsis muaj mi nyuam yog koj roj ntsha ces nyob twj ywm koj thiaj tsis muaj kev txhaum ntxiv lawm nawb koj mus yuav tau lawv niam los koj tsis hlub tawm hauv lub siab tuaj lam hlub nraum Daim tawv xwb koj haj poob kev txhaum nqi nyob nqi txhob mus tshuav lawv nqi nawb mog ua tsaug

[@pajlugtswb5341]

Nyob hauv ntiaj teb no txiv neej ib sim neej yeej BLAME pojniam nkaus xwb…..thiab excuses mus yuav lwm tus xwb………tiam no txiv neej yeej phem tiag tiag

[@lucyvang210]

Kuv tsis tu siab ran tus brother ko li os cov txiv ua nthaw niam Mos ab nyuam qhua haum tsis txaus hlub li os tus yawm txiv ko

[@yengvang3781]

hais tau tu tu siab li os lawv aw

[@zouayang245]

Txhob tu siab mog pojniam tsis muaj menyuam txiv neej yuav niam yau es pojniam siab npaum lica los txiv neej tsis paub es hnub no txiv neej ho tsis muaj menyuam pojniam ho yuav txiv yau txiv neej thiaj paub tias mob npaum lica hnub no koj paub lawm puas yog

[@somman9639]

Txhob tiab su ntshai yog yus txoj hmoo yeej los tuuag tug xwb mog ua ib sab nawb

[@hl6615]

Txaus kj kiag lawm lauv Txiv dev. You screwed up your entire life so this is your karma for abandoned your first wife.

[@meexiong9292]

Tus txiv Neej quav Dev li Nov...txhob khuv xim...muab nws pov tseg...yus kaj siab Dua...vim nws yeej yuav tshob Cuab kom txog hnub nws Ciaj ua Dev thawj thiab nws siab thiaj li nqig ...txhob khuv xim..nkim sijhawm nrog nws mus ntxiv lawm ....dim plaws nws xam Tia's yus tseem tshuav hmoov ua neeg o poj hmoob

[@maitongvue5397]

Ne ne tuag tsis tuag niam qhuav ntxim xwb

[@swanlake3895]

😂

[@beautifulyang1302]

No wonder God doesn't give him kids bc he can't even love other kids but his own.

[@colleenchan9872]

Nrog koj tu siab os! Tabsis koj siab me siab nqaim heev zog lawm xwb! Good luck rau koj os

[@amazinggrace8136]

You reap what you sow. If you plant corn, don’t be surprise when corn start growing.

[@saixiong7244]

Zaj no cas txaus tu siab ua luaj li os tus nus Aw puas yog koj Tsis hlub koj tus Niam loj es koj mus yuav niam yau lawm es ntshai yog kev npam koj os mog txhob tu siab os tim koj txoj hmoo os mog

[@cassidyvue]

Karma xwb os. Had you listened to your first wife, you would had everything

[@carolyang6632]

This is so sad...sad enough that some men take their love ones for granted. Karma is always around the corner

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Tu siab rau koj tabsi yog koj txhob muab kev txhaum pov rau koj tus poj Niam thib ib es mus kuaj koj ces koj tsis tau txoj kev mob siab tus thib ob ua rau koj mas.

[@pengvang5831]

Your wife should have marry a TXIV YAUS. Same concept, two different role.

[@xaihlub34]

Txiv mos ab thiaj tsis tau expire. Maybe this man expired already.

[@NaNa-i7e8y]

hlub hlub koj og

[@botmcg6886]

Cov neeg tsis nyiam menyuam Li koj muaj tsis taus vim lub ntuj yeej paub koj lub siab.

[@maivang6987]

nej cov txiv neej uas nws pheej xav tias yog tus poj niam xwb no neej thiaj plam tag li no es zoo kawg mas es thiaj li paub ces liag2 lawm xwb tiag . es cov myuag txiv neej thiaj tsis txhob pheej muab liam2 rau poj niam tias yog t poj niam tsis xwb mog.

[@maivang448]

Koj ua lub siab phem hlub tsis tau luag tej me nyuam e ntuj thiaj li tsi pub koj muaj

[@nkaujhmoob1164]

Txhob tu siab txawm yug tsis muaj los lam ua siab loj mus hlub lawv cov me nyuam es saib thaum lawv loj tuaj es ho puastxawj xav ces koj tau kev hlub li cas lo swb tus niam txav qaib os

[@Pajtshiab74]

Siab me me hlub tsis tau menyuam nstuag lub ntuj thiaj li tsis tso menyuam rau koj. Txhob tu siab vim yus lub siab phem.

[@beyamvwj4881]

Me and my husband been married for 19years. We don’t have kids… My husband and I came to terms about not ever conceiving, I pray he don’t change his mind of me and our life…. In order to move on…. Just remember our generation, all our kids will have a room ready for us at tsev laus only. Everyone too busy. I’ve lined up a few roommates for the tsev laus adventure. To this guy…. Hope you’ve accepted the truth in your self to love yourself and enjoy what life has to offer. Get married again to have companionship.

[@AaaaAaaa-dg9uq]

สู้ๆจ้า

[@itsmaichee]

Can’t you sue your ex and her boyfriend? Lol. Shooo I would. 😂

[@DinaMeYoung4797]

Cov niam nkauj mos ab ces txawm muaj ib pab los lawv yeej yuav mus tham hluas nraug vim tus txiv laus dhau lawm xwb.

[@bliay7]

Koj ntxub luag tej cov me nyuam npaum kos es koj thiaj tsis muaj me nyuam nrog luag. Koj yog neeg siab me dlau lawm

[@chervang6550]

Yog koj ua li koj tus niam loj hais es mus adopted ib cov menyuam los hlub ces koj lub neej twb tsis txom nyem li no os.Vim koj lub siab me me ne.

[@xaihlub34]

Hais kom koj niam nrhiav tshuaj rau koj hau kom koj cov kab menyuam zoo. Vim li cas pheej kom pojniam hau tshuaj xwb??? txiv neej los yeej hau tau ib yam!

[@crystalxiong735]

I just shake my head listen to this story.

[@gaosayvu6554]

Tsis muaj menyuam ces yeej tu tu siab os tab sis tsis muaj lawm ces txhob tu siab heev thiab es ua ib siab nyob raws yus txoj hmoo xwb mas mog

[@xayxiong1061]

Karma hits you right back! Cheater meets cheater that’s you dude. You should’ve get checked up with your first wife and loved her but you decided to cheat and hurt her.

[@maiyang570]

😆 🤣 😂 KARMA!!! 😆 🤣 😂

[@maryly09]

Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim tiag tiag li os.

[@tshajlijhmoob9875]

Yog kuv yog koj mas kuv tseem yuav ua tau zoo tshaj koj. Kuv yuav tsis nrauj tus niam nkauj txhav qaib, kuv yuav coj nws mus nrhiav tej tus uas ntxim yuav yog neeg txawj ntse, kuv thov yuav nws nrog kuv pojniam pw kom muaj menyuam xwb tsis pub ua nkauj ua nraug.

[@MoneyThao]

please put your commercial at the end

[@lueherr8007]

Thank God you divorced your first love/wife to give her a chance to have children. Hmong men need to stop blaming Hmong women when they’re the ones with infertility problems. You should’ve got yourself checked before you put the blame on her. Txhob tu siab xabmaim no tej me nyuam yus yug kiag los feem coob twb tsis hlub niam hlub txiv. Yog tsis yog koj yug ces txhob cia cia siab tias lawv yuav hlub koj. Qhov zoo tshaj ces muaj tus txij nkawm hlub hlub koj nyob ib sab yav laus no xwb. Yog koj tus niam loj tseem nrog koj nyob ntshe txawm koj tsis muaj me nyuam los nws twb hlub hlub koj. You deserve what you got! Karma is good.

[@kaciewanh1986]

Txivneej paub tias nws tsis muaj menyuam ces yuav tau ua siab loj yuav 1 pab niam tub los nyob uake. Pojniam twb ua tau siab loj mus tu luag 1 pab ne... Txawm yog koj yug tsis yog los tus hlub ces yeej hlub.

[@paj7639]

I’m going through the same life. Kuv zoo siab Kuv muaj ib tug mi ntxhais ua Kuv nplooj siab. Laus laus ces yuav Nyob li no mus es Tsis muaj txiv los Tsis Ua cas . Txhob tu siab mog tu mi txiv tsev. Take whatever life give you and be happy for this lifetime.

[@phem55]

Peb cov txivneej Hmoob ua pheej ntshaw cov txhais tim Plogteb 10 khub mas muaj ib khub thiaj li zoo xwb..

[@uaibsiabhlub1655]

cas kuv nrhiav tus Tsis muaj me nyuam li no los ua tus txiv tsev hlub kuv es ho nrhiav Tsis tau li os

[@xeeyangliu5276]

Kev npam los txog koj xwb.

[@hlubyang4072]

Txhob muab lub txim liam kom tas tas rau poj niam es mus ntsib Doctor seb yog tim leej twg ces lo kho tu ntawv xwb

[@solomoua5520]

Turn against you and you know how’s the feeling your first wife go through

[@payingthaochannel4128]

Koj tus txiv neej ntxawm ko tib koj tus niam tsev koj thiaj yuav niam yau tso nws nim no tim koj tsis qoos koj kuj tso koj tus niam tsev ko yuav txiv yua los ua me nyuam mas

[@sunxiong1942]

Vwm tshaj plaws qhov tseeb ces vwm niam mos ab xwb hos

[@MrWatchamajig]

Thank you niam dab laug for adding the intro music back into your stories! Love it!!! ~Vikki

[@leexiong5741]

Hey bro, please love this child as yours and you will be blessed. Peb cov muaj ib pab twb tsis hlub peb thiab os.

[@tongher8912]

Cov ua tau li koj ua mas yog cov neeg npam thiaj ua tau xwb nawb yog neeg tsis npam mas lawd muab veg lawm

[@shouavang3165]

cov niag txiv neej siab dub siab phem os tab haum xwb os txoj me kev es yus saib yus thawj tus poj niam tsi muaj nuj nqis os

[@xengmoua2465]

Tej tus txiv neej no mas tsim nyog tuaj nyob asmeskas tiag2 xyov yog zoo dhau los ruam dhau rau kuv mas ruam dhau lawm

[@xuethao3108]

Nej cov txiv dev hmoob tsis paub hais tias tiam tam sim no cov poj Hmoob nplog khaus khaus no lawm lov cas tseem yuav muab piv rau koj tus niam nkauj txha qaib na koj twb tsis sawm zoo ne nyuam qhuav ntxim koj xwb

[@fuemoua8345]

npawg txhob tu siab mam mam nrhiav tshuab hmoob pab koj thiab koj yeej yuav tsum muaj xwb xwb

[@km52laos]

twb tim yus los yus tsis ຍອມເສຍປຽບ that is what happened to me and my ex husband when he went to married his wife in Laos we got divorced so I became pregnant

[@kablialaimtsiasyajchannel8409]

Cas neb daim duab sib ntshi no yuav qab zib luaj li

[@pahouamoua8054]

Tus txiv tsev luag hais heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no ces yog koj, mas koj paub pos thaum koj ua rau koj tus niam loj na.

[@misstaytay9694]

Well that was dumb of him. He didn’t want to adopt a child with his ex-wife and now he’s raising someone else’s children. LMFAO!

[@TMoua79]

What goes around, comes around. I’ll just leave it at that.

[@GegeLor_Channel]

Yus yog tus tsis muaj taus me nyuam mas Yus yuav hlub yus tus poj niam tshaj txhua yam mas Yus Tus poj niam thiaj Kam nrog Yus nyob hos! Peb cov poj niam tiam 21 nov yog tias Peb tus txiv muaj tsis taus me nyuam ces #1 kawg mus rau Dr tso me nyuam #2 ces mus adopt me nyuam #3 ces kawg sib nrauj es mus yuav txiv yau xwb ntag hos 😁

[@beevveil2240]

Txiv neej ruam, pheej tab tais tim poj niam tab sis pheej tsis kam mus kuaj 🤦‍♀️

[@yiachang100]

Cas ntxov cia koj niam loj mus lub kov aw yog koj lam ntxov siab loj rau nws li kov ces twb tsis kho koj siab os. Koj tus niam yau ua yog lawm ua ntej ntawv koj tias tim niam loj koj thiaj li nrhia dua niam yau ces hnub no tim koj lawm ces ho yuav tau cia poj niam yuav txiv yau thiab los txhob foom2 os nawm. Comes around goes around.

[@maovue4406]

Brother, there are many children out there that need your love. When you love a child/teenager that is not blood of your blood; they will love you back. And it sounds like you have a lot of love to give. Wishing you the best.

[@denamoua7262]

I would adopt if im you.dont get niam yau. Lub neej multiple wives yog neej lwj siab thiab yog koj ntxeev siab rau koj tus niam nkauj txhav qaib. Love each other...i have 5 kids but kids these days not guarantee they will care for me when im 80.i still depend on hubby 24/7.

[@pailor2296]

Tus tub aw tsis txhob tu siab os thaum yus laus lawm tsis muaj ib tus hlub yus los luag teb luag chaw yuav hais tias tos tsis muaj ib tus hlub li los yog nws twb yug tsis muaj ib tus li thiaj tsis muaj tus hlub nws yog li tseem tub qaug yus tsis heev thiab tsis kib yus npaum li cas os yog koj yeej yug tau ib pab coob es tsis muaj ib tus hlub tau yus li mas haj yam tub qaug yus tshaj plaw li os thiab kib yus tiag tiag li nawb qhov muaj ib pab tsis hlub yus mas tseem phem tshaj qhov yug tsis muaj ib tus nawb

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Zoo kawg li os, tus txivtsev koj tau kiag qhov koj nrhiav2 lawm.

[@souavang9152]

Don't feel sorry 4 u. U brought this on yourself.

[@paolor2956]

Tsis txhob tu2 siab, peb muaj plaub tsib tug me nyuam los, peb yeej npaj siab mus nyob tom tsev laus. xav mas ua cas yus yuav ruam uav luaj, tu tej niag me nyuam no coob tag npauv, ua rau yus lub zog tsuag tag. Los yog yus hlub lawv xwb.

[@minecraftboy2676]

Hmoob men and OGs always keep thinking that they are the ones who does not have any problems with parental. Bro karma got you for your stupidity of not loving your first wife.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Koj ces yog hom ua luag hais tias dev yeem noj quav npua yeem noj xua ces yog koj lauj….koj poj niam lucky kawg nws tau ob tus txiv…hahaha hmoob aw

[@chuvang5487]

Tus me txiv tsev koj tsis tas mus kuaj los koj yeej paub zoo, cov phev yuav muaj taus me nyuam mas yog cov nyeem2 zoo li cov kua ntxhai thaum txeej ntawm tej khov ntseeg nkaws hos cov phev muaj tsis taus me nyuam ces yog cov muaj ntsis sab thiab txho lias nws tsis nyeem los tod tus pojniam cov thiaj khov tsis taus ua tus zeej zeeg me nyuam.