I don’t have any close friends but I think it’s better that way…less headaches! Thanks for sharing your story sister! Good luck finding a better man…😌
@MDXiong2000 Жыл бұрын
Welcome back May. Yes you're right, us ladies need to love and take care of our selves. Tell yourself "you're beautiful" and take at least 15 minutes everyday to treat yourself, whether to take a warm bath or go for a walk. Take time for yourself and laugh more often, it's good for your wellbeing.
@dgfg200 Жыл бұрын
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@maylo8993 Жыл бұрын
Strong lady! So proud of you lady we don't need a guy who cheat in our life!
@jiaxiong8991 Жыл бұрын
It’s fun to have friends close to you two but sometimes you have to watch out for those who come too close for comfort. Things can escalate quickly when alcohol is involved and thats why you don’t need friends to have a happy life. Like they say, misery loves company. Best to not have friends at all because some envy your life and will do anything to ruin it. If your husband doesn’t change then it’s time to let him go.
@mouavang3371 Жыл бұрын
Txoj kev sib daj sib deev feem coob yeej yog los ntawm txoj kev phooj ywg. Txoj kev ua phooj ywg zoo zoo tsis zoo ua. Yus ntseeg tau yus tus kheej tiam sis yus ntseeg tsis tau tus sab nrauv.
@maylovang1880 Жыл бұрын
Me koj niam aw cov txiv neej zoo li koj hais no ces yeej yog ib nrab nkaus li os nawb, muaj ib txhia kuj tsis zoo li thiab os. Cov niam txiv ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nrog lwm khub niam txiv ces thaum kawg yeej sib deev xwb los mas pom ntau tus los lawm os
@haislustseeb9533 Жыл бұрын
You don't need friends that always want to be around you and your spouse. I don't understand why people must have friends in order to live a happy life 😕
@solomoua5520 Жыл бұрын
True
@bosslady8498 Жыл бұрын
Agree . Our spouse should be our best friend not no other female or male .
@xayxiong1061 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@poggersrus1802 Жыл бұрын
Glad that you and your husband made it back home safely sister May.
@touxiong1530 Жыл бұрын
Ua cas Niam yuav ua tsuj hais lus zoo ua luaj, ntxhov zoo li ces yeej tsis tau ua poj Nkauj. Qhov zoo ces kawg mu ua poj nom Tim plog xwb o.
@waatchdogs6184 Жыл бұрын
I've learned my lesson the hard way by being too nice. I was blinded by my kindness and fail to see ppls intentions. But now never again! I've no friends and it's ok!
@gamingninja4556 Жыл бұрын
Leej twg Kom nej ua phooj ywg zoo ciaj zoo Kom tuag li nej nawj.tus yuav rhuav koj lub neej ces txawm yog tus uas nyob ze ze koj ntag los nas.
@slor6485 Жыл бұрын
16 years of my and my spouse's marriage, we don't have friends. We go out to gatherings and chit-chat, but we don't have close friends like that. We don't believe in having friends besides our families and children's.
@madamtokyo1 Жыл бұрын
Same. I don't believe in keeping any kind of friends. Only family members. Even so we keep our private life private.
@magicalunicorn5853 Жыл бұрын
My hubby and I are each others best friends. We don’t associate with people who don’t level us up financially and forward in life. If a women ever touch my husband- she’s dead on spot and there’s no kind words to say to enemies like that.
@kevciasiabtseemmuaj135 Жыл бұрын
Koj tseem zoo nkauj thiab ma Lov xob maj tag kev cia siab o ua tsaug ntau uas koj niaj hnub hais dab neeg rau peb mloog daws kev kho siab o kuv twb niaj hnub xyaum ua siab ntev LI Koj thiab o Koj ua tau qauv zoo rau Kuv muaj kev kawm LI o
@Taumliab Жыл бұрын
This is why I don't choose to have close friends. I think it's better to be drama free. Never trust the people who you think are your friends. I'd encounter something similar, but wasn't a close friend. I only need my partner as my friend.
@Ncokojtshaj Жыл бұрын
Welcome back. Sister May aw koj tseem zoo zoo nkauj thiab hluas hluas kawg os.
@yerllor86 Жыл бұрын
Every relationship needs boundaries, including best friends. It serves a purpose for all to feel safe and comfortable so that the relationship can continue to last. If not, it's bound to end eventually when boundaries are crossed. If there's anything you learned from this experience, at least now you are clear about your boundaries with friends. Best wishes going forward!
@geuher7315 Жыл бұрын
Tus me viv ncaus yeej li koj hais lawm mas... peb ua phooj ywg txhob ua ti2 koj nyob kuv tsev kuv nyob koj tsev ua ke tas mus li xwb thiaj ntsib tej teeb meem no ntag hos...
@Duabci98 Жыл бұрын
Koj tseem zoo nkauj thiab tseem hluas kawg li os niam ntsuab teev tsis txhob tu siab os
@koumoua2980 Жыл бұрын
That’s why I don’t hangouts with friends more than I supposed to. Noj haus tsis muaj laij, haus cawv tsis muaj laij ces yog kev nrhiav teeb meem xwb.
@tinalee1657 Жыл бұрын
Niam Ntsuab Teev, you will always be beautiful to us.
@maivdawblauj514 Жыл бұрын
Niam ntsuab teev kuv siab mas koj siab ntev heev li okv nyiam koj hai neej neeg heev lio haum kv siabo
@thestoryofmylife6979 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like they’re swingers, you just didn’t know that.
@blasukhang7995 Жыл бұрын
Cov tibneeg uas Ua phooj Ywg zoo2 ntawd Yog cov uas yuav rhuav yus lub Neej ntag nawb. Peb swb Tebchaws vim Yog kev phooj Ywg xwb os cov me phooj Ywg
@phanglee3914 Жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab mas niam ntshuab teev Koj tseem zoo nkauj kawg
@hmoophem Жыл бұрын
Awesome, another great story about you're better off not having any friends. This is what happens when you have a lot of friends that like to hang out, share drinks, and party together!
I know exactly how you feel. I’m in the same boat. Feeling sorry for myself and it’s so hard to work on myself. Wanting to change but the work is hard 😂
@mailee5538 Жыл бұрын
You still very pretty and in good health. I saw your in Laos and it so beautiful sister. Keep up the good words and be positive for you.
@JMLWorld Жыл бұрын
Zoo heev kuv xaa ib yam li thiab os kuv muaj phooj ywg thiab kuv tsi mus ua noj li koj nawb Nov ne hais swb txaus lawm
@thotoulee7888 Жыл бұрын
Tu me viv ncau aw cov txiv zoo li ko ce txhob khuav xim o thiab cov phooj ywg zoo li ko txhob nrog txhob pau zoo dua tu yuav ntxeev ziab rrau yu ce yog yu tu phooj ywg zoo xwb naub
@wisteria4550 Жыл бұрын
Ib tug txiv dev zoo li koj tus txiv thiab ib txhia txiv dev ces tso mus lawm tsis txhob zam kev txais tos nws rov los nawb. Luag tsuas los thaum luag tau kev tws tab sis luag lub qhov muag mas xam ntsoov lwm tus maum dev co tw ces nws twb maj maj mus nce. Txhob cia nws los tsim koj. Ib tug txiv neej yog txiv tsev tiag txawm lwm tus maum dev co tw npaum twg los nws yeej tsis ntsia li nawb.
@botmcg6886 Жыл бұрын
Nej cov ntsej ko ces tseem tshaj dev lawm xyov yuav muab pib rau abtsi li lauj.
@colleenchan9872 Жыл бұрын
Li no kuv thiaj txav deb ntawm ib txhia phoojywg mas.. qhov tsheeb tiag koj twb pom thawj zaug mas twb tsim nyog coj koj tus txiv khiav os.. tabsis niag txiv liam ces ntshe tseev koom yeej tsis pab li thiab os…
@sombunman5551 Жыл бұрын
Zoo siab peb twb nyob dhau ib xyoos lawd
@sombunman5551 Жыл бұрын
Twb yog Tim koj npog 2 ntag thiaj tswm li kod
@juliehawj3385 Жыл бұрын
Txiv dev ib zaug ces yeej yog txiv dev tag ibsim yog tsis xav ua neeg zoo...koj lub hom phiaj zoo tiam sis koj yuav taub ib tug txiv dev qab choj xwb...Koj ua tau zoo kawg lawm. Goodluck to you sister in finding love again...
@jacksonxiong9237 Жыл бұрын
Welcome back home..
@arinalis3130 Жыл бұрын
Red flag was when your husband said to you that he wants you to act or be like that women.
@meeyang8411 Жыл бұрын
Cov me phooj ywg uas khav tias zoo, sib hlub tshaj, thiab haib, niaj hnub tawm rooj, thaum kawg ces haib mus txog yav nruab nrab ces zoo li no ntag.
@zonchuemoua195 Жыл бұрын
Txiv neej yog txiv neej peb muaj ib feem yeej tsis coj lub siab dev lis ntawm. Peb yeej hlub peb tus poj niam. Cov poj niam tsis coj lub siab phem es ua lub siab ncaj nceeg rau tus txiv thiab tus txiv ua lub siab ncaj nreeg rau tus poj niam mus ib txoj kev twg ob leeg sij tuav teg tsawv nkawm khuv txij nkawm yeej xav kos nkawm tseem hluas2 lis ua thaum nyim quaj sij sau tabsi xav tsis nrog xav nkawm laug lawm zuj zus tsis paub ua zaj twg xwb tabsi ob leeg yeej sij tham tsheej tag mov txog nkawm lub neej los mus sij sau rau tiam no thiab xav tias lwg tiam puas tau rov los ua txwv nkawm txwv lawm. Ua cas tau los nkawm tias ob leeg yuav tsum sij2 hlub thiaj tswg nyog los ua ib nkawm niam txiv nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no.
@ahleenaxiong2103 Жыл бұрын
Zoo siab neb rov los txog tsev lawm os
@mandyvang5731 Жыл бұрын
Never play with other people's husband or wife!!
@bosslady8498 Жыл бұрын
Agree and don’t be around your spouse ex or ex’s friend or relative!
@maiyang570 Жыл бұрын
One of the many reasons why I don't have friends, I don't trust people at all.
@pangxiong2273 Жыл бұрын
You 2 were never friends from the beginning. Your husband and the other lady just using you. Friends don't do that to eachother
@tengvang2652 Жыл бұрын
Tej no tswm sim vim txog kev ruam xwb
@chiliayang5832 Жыл бұрын
Kuv zoo li koj hais thiab laus lawm es tsis xav khwv lawm noj tsis taus qab lawm os niam ntsuab teev
@yengmoua8060 Жыл бұрын
Zoo siab heev neb rov los txog tsev os ❤️
@paajRose Жыл бұрын
How ironic because when the story got to the middle towards the end, it reminded me of my current situation. My bf has a niam ntxawm that gets like that from the time I met my bf. They both were very flirty and something just seemed off about them two. He still denies that anything ever happened but only time can tell. Good thing you got out of that situation. Such a headache to deal with.
@ljvue Жыл бұрын
Boundaries!
@rickythao2834 Жыл бұрын
Nej cov niag neeg quav dej quav cawv qiv poj niam qiv Txiv sib txiag li no ces liam tub yam nkaus xwb Kuv tsis qhuas ib tug kiag li, txoj kev mus cuav zej cuav zos li nej no ces twb yog Kuv xav sim koj, koj xav sim Kuv ntag ne, hais tsawg xwb paub ntau lawm ne
@caaspasvang7427 Жыл бұрын
Peb Tsi tag ua2 friends loj2 lawm nawv mog kuv mloog cov friends ua friends neej puas mas coob heev li os
@sayyang767 Жыл бұрын
Ua phooj ywg txhob muab lub pim tiab rab qau los ua phooj ywg nawb. Pim tiab qau tsi yog phooj ywg os moob.
@MyConfessions Жыл бұрын
This always happen when you have a best friend on the side. It's either the best friend's spouse or the best friend is the other person's spouse. Keep your circle small and don't trust anyone else.
@diayang8949 Жыл бұрын
Dev xwb os. Koj tsi need cov neeg liam li no nyob hauv peb lub neej os. Zam txim tau txhais tsi tau tias yuav yuav tau nws rov qab. Qub neeg qub siab os.
@hmongremark2686 Жыл бұрын
Hmoob ib txwm caiv ib xeem tsis sib ua plees ua yi taus. Nov kuj tsis yog txhua xeem thiab. Yog li peb tej laus thiaj hais lus ntsees tias yog 2 nkawm niam txiv twg sib ua phooj ywg mus ntev li ntev tau no ces koj poj niam yuav tsum yog kuv xeem thiab kuv poj niam los yuav tsum yog koj xeem. Dua li ntawv lawm ces ib hnub twg koj yuav tsum deev tau kuv poj niam los sis puas kuv yuav tsum deev tau koj poj niam vim ua phooj ywg ntev lawm ces muaj qhov sib swm heev.
@hmongamericanncigtebchaw6861 Жыл бұрын
Yog lawm nawj cov mi phooj ywg
@sulinalao2570 Жыл бұрын
Txhob hais2 tias kuv twb yuav vwm no maj vim tsis muaj leej twg xav xwm es koj txhob hais li ntawv rau koj nawj mog
@maivang6987 Жыл бұрын
Koj tus zoo li kos es kav tsaj muab nws nraws rau thooj khib nyiab xwb zoo dua os mog .es yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua os mog .
@vavang4773 Жыл бұрын
May, you are so beautiful! Txhob tu siab maj!!! Zoo siab tias tau nyob laus2 os mog…. It’s ok!!!! Koj noj tshuaj kaj siab es koj twb tsis nyuaj siab koj thiaj li qab2 los noj mov os mog…. Thov kom Ntsuab Teev hlub2 koj es Txhob muab lub Tshuaj yuag rau koj noj os nawb…. Noj tshuaj tuag ces tsam tsis zoo nkauj nawb mog……. We love you!!!!❤❤❤❤
Zoo siab tau hnov koj tham2 lus ua ntev zaj neej neeg o Niam nruab teev.. kv los ua yuag nyuaj2 kawg li thb o.. tab sis li koj hais o.. mam ua zoo2 nkauj tu me puv2 los nco nroov ua kom noj qab los kom nyob zoo healthy thb xwb🤣thank you for sharing all story❤
@tienlo5238 Жыл бұрын
Muab paum rau kuv aim nạ has
@yinglor8962 Жыл бұрын
Cas tus neeg zoo pheej tau tus neeg tsis zoo xwb lub neej no os hmoob aw
@kanetoews7747 Жыл бұрын
Hais tiag mas koj tus txiv mus kho lawv tus txiv tas mas tus poj niam siab phem deev koj tus txiv ntawv yuav tsum tuaj kho koj thiab mas thiaj li yog pob
@hmongamericanncigtebchaw6861 Жыл бұрын
May aws koj tseem zoo zoo nkauj os txhob tu siab mog nyuam qhuav 40 xwb tseem zoo 2 os
@rhiavang2333 Жыл бұрын
Kuv tustxiv ce ua kiag zajno thiab tiag kuv ce.yeej tusiab tsi xav nrog tawm rooj lilawm 😭😭
@kevinher3546 Жыл бұрын
That’s why you shouldn’t hang out around friend al the time and you shouldn’t drink alot but people this day over doing it
@touyang3403 Жыл бұрын
Lo tias “txiv neej” ces tshuav yog poj niam, txiv neej nce tas nrho”. Lo no tsuas yog qee leej qee tus xwb. Tsis yog tag nrho txiv neej. Peb 1 txhia txiv neej hlub2 peb tus tab zag kawg!
@thengvang9553 Жыл бұрын
Me sister aw koj twb kawm ntawv siab kawg thiab sav. Koj yuav tsum xav tias tsuas yog nws tus sister xwb nws thiaj nrog pw tsis tau no na. Yus tej phooj ywg ces lawv xav nrhuav yus lub neej thaum twg tau tag nrho. Koj ua phooj ywg nrog cov txawv yus tus txiv lub xeem ces kawg zoo li ko.
@baovang6691 Жыл бұрын
Oh no.... the error is on you. If you know that his ex and the friend's wife were good friends. I would keep my distance. You don't know where their loyalty stands. And when you saw that your husband slept with his friend's wife. It would have been over. The friend would have known, and our marriage would be over. It's disgusting. You have to know where you stand and where boundaries are. If you were still with him. Then you should have cut them off in order to still be married. Otherwise, there is no point in being married. A waste of suffering.
@diannaxiong693 Жыл бұрын
Cov phooj ywg zoo li tus no khiav kom deb li deb tau nawb kuv yeej tsi paub thiab tabsis kuv tus txiv allway qhia rau kuv xwb... Ua tsaug rau kuv tus txiv tsev zoo os.
@maimoua1371 Жыл бұрын
Cas muaj 1 txhia couple hmong meskas Es mloog nej tej neeg mas nyob g muaj ciaj ciam li zoo yam 1 nkuaj tsiaj muab kaw ua kev xav nce tus male female los cia li ua neej ywj siab xwb tiag2 .kwv tij los yog mag lub nkuaj g teeskoosloos ces same boat LOL
@PapiChulo... Жыл бұрын
You need a few close friends and that's it.
@vkaotxia7779 Жыл бұрын
Me koj twb zoo zoo nkauj rau ntsuab teev lawm es yuav li no xwb mas txhob seev seev txog txoj kev lwj siab nawb
@maipha8560 Жыл бұрын
Gosh, these people have too much time on their hands to be spending this much time with each other. The cheaters have always been their agenda that's why things like this can happen.
@kouavang5928 Жыл бұрын
May Vaj txhob hais tias Lau lawm tiag, no, hluas tuaj lawm xwb.
@chuechang3860 Жыл бұрын
Nej laus los twb tsis muaj mob os zoo li kuv es yus tus txiv hlub yus npaum cas los yus niam muaj muaj mob tu siab kawg os
@solomoua5520 Жыл бұрын
That’s life we are like a tree be happy who you are. Just be humble in life … Turn off after reading the comments Hate story like that
@haislustseeb9533 Жыл бұрын
Welcome home. We all have the same issue when go abroad because of the different time zone.
@atthao5631 Жыл бұрын
Cov neej zoo li no lam hais xwb noj tsis tsau.
@yilengyang3325 Жыл бұрын
Nej txoj kev ruam es ib qhov ob qhov los hais txog phooj ywg thiab phooj ywg nkaus nkaus xwb ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os mog
@7stars2love Жыл бұрын
Cov phooj ywg es muab cawv los ua kev lom zem xwb ces yeej kawg li no ntau xwb tiag.
@charlesvang4106 Жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev aw..kok muaj koj daim Master Degree cas koj ho yuav niag txiv laib xwb naj ntshe koj daim master yuam kev lawm pob
@NiamTxawjXav Жыл бұрын
May aws, koj mus ntev heev es puas nco me nyuam nco tsev nas. Kuv mus tau 23 hnub xwb mas kuv nco2 kuv lub tsev nco2 teb chaws meskas thiab me nyuam. Kuv los txog tsev mas sab los sab mob los mob li os 😢
@xayxiong1061 Жыл бұрын
It’s your fault for having friends that died for each other! Glad you loved yourself and moved on.
@ThePrincessWorrior Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen friends like that to each other. Wives or the women call each other bfffffff…but then bite each other because someone has secret intention on someone’s spouse. They are bffs for benefits xwb. The that little benefit secret surfaced, they fought and hate each other to hale and back.
@wildnorthchannel101 Жыл бұрын
May awe koj twb vwm lawm los mas hahahaha Thiab laus2 lawm tiag mas may awe.
@yangxwb6493 Жыл бұрын
I heard this story before…
@yangthao5242 Жыл бұрын
There is an American saying that "the grass is greener on the other side". This is similar the the Hmong saying "eating out is better then at home". Both are false negatives but the fool or the naïve will take it literary and forget the good and better things they already have. Looking from a far, the grass does look greener, but look closely and it has the same patches of dead, irregular, and infestation. Before you jump, know what you are jumping from and where you are jumping to; so much heartache can be saved from this. I feel like we have to talk about the big "D". Privacy is privacy, but keep in mind mutual respect and decency. Talk to each other honestly - there are plenty of resources out there to help. Okay, where size is concerned, remember that love making is not porn. Porn is the abuse of women to feed on the ego of men. Making love is the sacred act of bonding where people share they most intimate feelings and beyond in the hope of preserving life. In weight, size place a very small part of it. People talk and talk about it; it's just an ego trip. If women just wanted size, just grad the pepper crusher, and there is no need for men.😉
@isabellentxawm6773 Жыл бұрын
Yeej yog tim koj thiab. Ua li cas koj twb txhom tau koj niag txiv nrog koj niag phooj ywg es koj tseem cia nws mus tas zoj tas zog thiab. Tiag tiag mas koj yuav tsum muab nkawv rhuauv kiag tamsim ntawd. Kuv mas ntxub Hmoob txoj niag kev haus dej haus cawv tshaj plaws li. Haus ntau ces yeej muaj teeb meem xwb
@jiaxiong8991 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you on that
@user-bx8gf4yr1m Жыл бұрын
Agree! It's her fault for letting it continue... He never loved her & she was defitely not her friend... I wouldn't be surprised if the husband's ex-wife left him for the same reason.
@MsPangY Жыл бұрын
Nope! Would Not Accept The Best Friend or Friend Girl Ever Again ... EVER!!! Besides, Being With Your Husband Is Already Hard By What They Did! People Like That Don't Value Friendship, They Just Take Take Take, Let Them Go For Good!!
@maiyiamoua355 Жыл бұрын
Uas cas yov muaj tej tug pojniam , thb txiv neej liam npaum nos nas Hmoob aws!!!🤮🤮🤮🤮
@YajMorey81 Жыл бұрын
Tos kuv tsis muaj phoojywg los vim kuv ntshai lub maib li no xwb ntag. Kuv cov viv ncaus thiab muam thiaj Yog kuv cov phooj ywg zoo xwb.
Cov mi phooj ywg zoo2 es iab los noj , qaub los noj ces thaum kawg ces koj xav tau kuv tus, kuv xav tau koj li ces kawg muab cawv lom hos 1 txhia ces ua phooj ywg kom zoo tshaj qub ces sib pauv poj niam, cov no twb hnov dua lawm os.