Turning Fantasy into a Magickal Entity

[@naturalwitchery]

The vulnerability of this video is so affirming and freeing. Thanks for taking this leap and sharing with us ❤

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks for saying so, April

[@beanbaghagwag]

I resonate with this so much. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest and sharing something that feels strange to talk about. I saw her video and now know there is a name for my mind person. I had an imaginary friend when I was a child. I do not remember her at all but my mother talked about how I would make her set a place at the table for her. Her name was Donna, so a tulpa was not a far stretch for me. As an adolescent a tulpa got me through some really rough stuff. My young years were hard. I didn't fit in either. I was always a daydreamy child. As an adult a tulpa helped me navigate a horrible marriage and divorce. I did not have the strong relationships in my life that I have now. I thought many times that I must be crazy as a loon to have an imaginary person in my corner and so I never shared this part of my psyche. Then came witchcraft where anything is possible, and I don't feel so strange about it anymore. While I use servitors, I have not communicated with my tulpa in a great many years, and I am now curious about them. Might have to have them for coffee and catch up.

[@LavenderHazelwood]

I support you in inviting them for coffee! It would be neat for you to reconnect with them, Trish :) Thanks for opening up about your tulpas here. xo, Aurora

[@NikkiPisces]

This makes me think of servitors. I’ve been wanting to create one for protection, but now I’m going to create one as a companion as well. Thank you for being so vulnerable. 💜💚

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Hi Nikki! Yeah, they are similar to servitors but more complex and independent. I like the idea of wrapping all your desires into one entity. xo, A

[@SarahForester-z2z]

Thank you so much for sharing. I'd never heard of limerence before but it's been something from childhood for me too. Hearing you has helped me make a bit more sense of myself. Thank you! X

[@LavenderHazelwood]

I'm so glad to hear this! Thank you for saying so, Sarah. xo, A

[@BeverleyButterfly]

It's so interesting to me how we often realise that we have always been doing magick without realising! I love those moments when you see your natural talents being a part of witchcraft and you didn't know! Thank you so much for sharing this was so interesting xx

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Yeah, me too! It's lovely when you realize you are more magickal than you thought and have less to learn. Sometimes the learning is just connecting the dots. xo, A

[@Draven_Michael]

Thank you for this video, daring to be so honest and vulnerable. I have definitely had limerant moments. Or immersive day dream moments

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks, Draven

[@midnightblue3707]

Wow, I can so relate to this, I was a dreamer at school and got bullied because of it, thank you for your honesty 🌹

[@LavenderHazelwood]

You're welcome, Midnightblue! xo, Aurora

[@lensorcellement]

Thank you for your honesty and generosity in addressing this still taboo subject.

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Sure thing, lensorcellement

[@gusg.5916]

Aurora, thanks for your openness. It sets your videos apart from the others. Good luck on your task.♥

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks, Gusg :) xo, A

[@EmilysTarotandMagick]

Thank u for sharing this Aurora and being so vulnerable and honest. I’ve never heard of limerance before but I have engaged in this fantasy experience a lot in my life. I actually think i manifested my hubby this way because I invested a lot of energy imagining who he would be and talking to that fantasy of them, especially before I went to sleep throughout my teens and early adult life. It’s odd how closely my hubby resembles the person I dreamed up physically as well as personality and character wise. It’s such an interesting topic. I have created servitors but not consciously created a tulpa though I have had one rather scary experience with a servitor I created and I had to terminate it because it was more powerful than I expected and planned and seemed to have its own agenda. That was several years ago so I’m a lil more cautious with creating servitors these days 😂. Anyhoo I loved the honesty and the interesting conversation. Thank u for sharing and sending you so much love and support. ❤ 🙏 ✨ Xxx

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thank you, Emily

[@naturalwitchery]

Great video and you look lovely ❤

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks, April

[@DebbysWitchyVlog]

Ive been doing this for years as well, Ive always just called them sevitors but there is a difference. Tulpas are independent from us from what I understand. Great chat ❤

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Indeed, they are :) Nice to hear I'm not alone. xo, Aurora

[@jenng7580]

As someone who has deep seated beliefs of being impossible to love, I resonate with this (and I'm currently struggling with limerence right now). The lack of trust runs big for me too. Thank you for sharing and being so open about this, you are helping more people than you know ❤

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks for saying so, Jenn. I appreciate you. xo, A

[@OdeliaMoonbeam]

The vulnerability you gave us in this video was so beautiful and powerful. As a fellow CPTSD witchy woman, I appreciate you so much and thank you for being so raw and approaching this topic the way you did 💙

[@LavenderHazelwood]

You're welcome, Odelia. I appreciate you saying so. xoxo, Aurora

[@lantcalen]

Thank you for this video. You have made me realise that I do it too. When I am going to sleep I think romance stories with the guy that I like in the moment. It makes me feel good for a while, I feel liked, I feel important, as you say. Yeah I supposed I do it in order to meet my needs (I have a history of a single mum too...)

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thank you for sharing this with me, lantcalen :). It's make me feel less weird about it :) I appreciate you! xo, Aurora

[@witchways]

As always thank you for sharing this. I so appreciate your abilty to share more vulnerable parts of yourself. Much love, Colette.

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Thanks, Colette

[@montikarla]

I have always done that and not even realized what it was called. Thank you for this video!

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Sure thing! xo, A

[@TOVANorseWitch]

in our coven we would create Servitors which is the same thing they can be amazing and if it helps you cope there is nothing wrong in doing so Its amazing we can do this but it sure does work doesnt it Aurora lovely video thanks for sharing you look lovely in Red that colour really suits you blessings always

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Yeah, it does work. :) I'd be curious to know how you worked with servitors in a coven setting. Thanks, Tova! xo, A

[@TOVANorseWitch]

​@LavenderHazelwood collectively as a group we would create huge creatures to guard the Covenstead from intruders then make our own at home mine was a comforter shared my bed when I was alone and wanted to feel safe it was a male I could feel him snuggle to him and he also helped I my magickal work

[@LavenderHazelwood]

@@TOVANorseWitch Oh interesting! I like that yours was a comforter. Perfect name, actually.

[@mlina1985]

Hi Aurora. New subscriber here. I've found your channel through Ivy's videos and I'm really glad I did. I have a feeling I'm going to enjoy your content. 😊 And thank you so much for this video! I never knew that what you described here is a thing, that it has a name, and I've been doing it since childhood. For me it has provided such an unrestricted access to psychological and emotional resources that I was not able to get elsewhere. It also provided fun, enjoyment, exploration of my own identity, self-empowerment, self-esteem, validation and so much more. Yes sometimes it was escapism, but I don't see it as a bad thing at all. We need coping strategies from time to time. The world is not a gentle place and having a gentle fantasy to escape into can definitely be a major resource and a source of resilience. My limerance relationships also made me more satisfied overall and allowed me to not settle for or pursue relationships that were less than enriching and nurturing. And even today, as a very much happily married mom, I still get happily lost in my fantasies from time to time. 😊

[@LavenderHazelwood]

Hi there, mlina! Welcome :) So nice of you to share with me your experience! Yes, I think you're right! It's definitely not a bad thing as long as it's not impeding on your life and you know what's playing out and how to use it well. It sounds like you have a lovely relationship with yours. I love that you're here! xo, Aurora

[@IceKateByMoonLight]

Wow this is me too!

[@LavenderHazelwood]

xoxo

[@RockandRollMystic]

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[@LavenderHazelwood]