TURNING MYSELF INTO A "TRANSTRENDER” | NOAHFINNCE

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[@NOAHFINNCE]

THIS VIDEO ISN’T WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.. KEEP WATCHING ALSO HELLO, I SAVED THE VIDEO FILE WITH “TRANSTRENDER” IN QUOTATION MARKS BUT I FORGOT THAT THAT DOESN’T TRANSLATE WHEN IT’S UPLOADED. THE TITLE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE “TURNING MYSELF INTO A “TRANSTRENDER”.

[@sophie4304]

Okay but you typing in all caps all the time is a mood

[@NOAHFINNCE]

Bees gacha Studios THANK YOU

[@NOAHFINNCE]

THERE WERE 2 DISLIKES AND THEN SOMEBODY UNDISLIKED IT IM CREASING

[@sophie4304]

@@NOAHFINNCE THEY PROBABLY MADE A MISTAKE AS NO ONE COULD EVER DISLIKE ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS

[@kerriannechilders]

Thank god. I was about to go off

[@remchan6469]

Noah isn't a transtrender, he's a trendy trans :)

[@ahfreshair9242]

Anemone Spare Ah yes, the trendy trans dad.

[@chizzlebizzle1150]

Ah yes definitely

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

Transtrender is the same as gaytrender in the 80s who tried to invade girl groups and get popular among them

[@theriansadventure]

That’s the nice way of saying it 😂

[@nonbinaryworm]

So underrated-

[@eeeeeehhhhhhhh]

"EW, I LOOK LIKE A WOMAN" - me everyday after puberty hit

[@hadassahmpare2701]

mood lol

[@alldueapologies353]

hahshHshhaHAH I do t h a t

[@riptide_835]

lol sameeeeee

[@Blue.Jay_]

s a m e

[@LaurArt_UK]

I relate to this so hard XD

[@mnnkhu]

"Tried to be a boy before, didn't really fancy it" god you are so british

[@Luka-zi9kv]

......how

[@epochii2756]

@@Luka-zi9kv using the word fancy in a sentence

[@kirbysthiccthighs]

@Luka the use of fancy

[@Luka-zi9kv]

Kirby’s Thicc Thighs oh right. Just sounds normal to me lol

[@Luka-zi9kv]

Epochii oh

[@kerriannechilders]

I was called a trender because, after years of being “male”, I realized my problems weren’t about gender dysphoria. I had a lot of internal issues about how I saw myself as a person. Thus, body dysmorphia. I told my mom that if I was skinner and more androgynous, that I would be okay being a girl. And I felt more attractive as a man than as a woman. Right now, I refer to my identify as non-binary because I still have moments of intense gender dysphoria. And I’m figuring it all out. All I know, is that when I was I was on T, I became more physical uncomfortable with my body as a man as well. I think I just need to ditch gender ideas and learn to love myself. UPDATE: After a couple weeks of identifying as non-binary, I came to a new discovery. My therapist told me to write a letter to my past and my future self. And I did. But then I started thinking about what future me would say to current me. And I realized he would be disappointed. I came out as non-binary because I was giving up who I wanted to be because I “wasn’t there yet”. I’ve made a promise to future me to keep going with my transition. I’ve been going back by male pronouns, I’m almost six months on T, and I feel better than ever. I just had to get past the idea that I would never be “male enough”. Because one day, I’ll look back and laugh at once being misgendered. And thank my current self for how strong he was. 💕

[@NOAHFINNCE]

hope u figure yourself out! that sounds rlly difficult!

[@jennahyser7245]

This happens a lot actually. A lot of girls are insecure and automatically think that transitioning will make them happier when instead getting on t gives them dysphoria and then they’re stuck with the irreversible effects. I hope things get better for you!

[@ahfreshair9242]

Ah, I’ve gone through that same thing so many times. Figuring everything out is one of the MOST difficult things. If you don’t feel comfortable being any gender whatsoever then just simply don’t identify as anything. Just be who you are. Don’t stress over it too much. I believe in you. :)

[@kerriannechilders]

NoahFinnce Thank you. Also, thank you for spreading that detransitioners and people figuring themselves out is okay and valid.

[@kerriannechilders]

Jenna Hyser Thank you. I legit was on T for five months and realized that I went from an unhappy girl to an unhappy man. I’m not saying that transitioning wouldn’t help me in the future. I might decide to still. But I think I need to sort out my mental problems first just to make sure I don’t confuse things. So I’m taking time to myself and going back to college and stuff like that. Putting gender on the back burner and just being a human.

[@Andrew-fn3oc]

i’ve been called a trender because of the following reasons 1. because i called my chest “breasts” once 2. because i posted about being a woman on international women’s day before i was out and was in denial 3. because i sleep shirtless (even though it’s to normalize my chest and reduce my dysphoria bc i can’t afford surgery rn) 4. because i’m more feminine and cool with wearing makeup. this video is honestly very sweet in the way you, a trans person are standing up for people who had a phase or feminine trans men. i love you noah, thank you so much for making this.

[@NOAHFINNCE]

number three i GET! i overheat so much when i sleep and i covered my chest with my duvet so i couldn’t see the TEET but people would still comment like “DOESNT THAT MAKE U DYSPHORIC” like... it didn’t but NOW IT DOES

[@Andrew-fn3oc]

NoahFinnce OMG THAT TOO i run hot bc of my dads genetics

[@jessedrawsstuff1402]

my counsellor once said something that really stuck with me: if someone’s doing something for attention then they’re not getting enough. shaming people doesn’t do anything, the best thing you can do if someone’s doing something “for attention” is to give them attention whether or not they’re doing whatever it is they’re using to get attention - show them they don’t need to go to such extreme measures to be seen. but also don’t assume that that’s what’s going on, there are so many reasons other than attention and there are so many possibilities other than that they’re faking it. don’t assume shit about people. it’s dumb and can get really hurtful.

[@caoimhedoesstuff9293]

Jesse Draws Stuff exactly, it’s like how as kids the kids that lied about their parents being celebrities etc were usually having a bad family life, or the kids that lied about having loads of friends was usually very lonely

[@jessedrawsstuff1402]

Caoimhe Does Stuff mhm, no one wakes up and just decides to do bad things there’s always a reason

[@Adamant_Adam]

Lmao I've heard that phrase before, and shared it with someone (who later turned out to be a trender for attention) They completely disagreed with me, and shut me down because of it. Told me I was bad for giving attention seekers attention, or that people don't try to get attention because they need it. Only because they want it. The truth hurt didn't it lol

[@ghostspanx3042]

Woah you and your therapist talk about your feelings?!?!? All I do is teach her about communism.

[@digital_ferret6866]

@@ghostspanx3042 LMAO me too man

[@scbengarde]

You just said ‘fishnets’ so many times in the span of 30 seconds I think I had a stroke.

[@NOAHFINNCE]

i realised this as i edited but it must remain in the video

[@Jade-5713]

Hahaha

[@leonthelad3208]

My anxiety causes me to questions my transness constantly, and whenever I think about 'going back' to being a girl I just feel sick. I realized pretty quickly that my doubts aren't my own, they're the echoed voices of toxic people in my live who think they know the best for me, and who don't want what I want for my life. I also have body image issues, and depression, which doesn't help solidifying my identity, but remembering the joy I feel whenever people see me as me always reminds me that I'm on the right path. The path might be a little bumpy and anxiety-inducing, but the end goal of that rough path far outweighs the choice of going on the path that's expected.

[@grayblu]

i related to this on such a deep level, thank you for sharing :)

[@danischubach3776]

Same

[@dinosaur1583]

i'm going to cry i relate to this on a mental level and it fucks me up so much but then i remember how happy it makes me when my therapist called me "connor", when my sister called me her brother for the first time, when i got my binder, when i looked down and saw how flat my chest looked, and when my mom, who doesn't accept me, called me "buddy" one time. i remember how sick to my stomach i feel when i see my chest, when i get called my birthname, when people refer to me with "her, she, ect.."

[@dinosaur1583]

@sonoki82 most of trans people's issues are people not calling them by the name and pronouns they want to be referred to as, because that puts us down. they are fully capable of calling us that, but refuse. that "persistent voice" is the thing that hurts us. tells us we will never pass, tells us that it's all a lie, because we're not good enough, or because we're not worth it. but we are. we know ourselves more than you know us, so i'd like it if you stayed quiet and let us live our lives without discouraging us. alot of us actually need that encouragement from others, because we're so damn insecure. but that's only my person experience.

[@dinosaur1583]

@sonoki82 i am a man. and those doubts? i should consider it? what about the extreme euphoria i receive when i call myself a man, or when i feel like i will pass. what about the hope and self-love i feel when i feel masculine? is that not real? also, you're using the wrong pronouns for them. that's rather disrespectful. then if that is all real, then so is the hate i feel in the mirror when i see my chest? when people refer to me with female pronouns? i won't accept the use of female pronouns for myself i am a man. there is nothing you can do about it.

[@Ray-lk8gg]

I used to think that you say "see you later lizards" at the end of your videos

[@NOAHFINNCE]

oh my god

[@zizahtremor344]

😂😂😂 my boyfriend and I thought the same.

[@epushzp]

For how long 😂

[@zizahtremor344]

@@epushzp actually it wasn't until recently when I realized that's not what he was saying and I pointed it out to my partner and my partner was like "oh so he is like my mom..." (His mom is from china and sometimes we flat out don't know what she is talking about .. >.> ... But we love her so we just go with it.

[@Ray-lk8gg]

@@epushzp Well since he started saying it until quite recently, I probably read a comment and was like Huh?

[@n.radonjic3082]

when you're actually a feminine trans guy that wears makeup and is called alex...oh my goood I'm a transtrender

[@manba_baby]

existential dread lol I’m a nonbinary person and I feel the same way. But trans masculine people can present feminine too.

[@jaydenv8557]

existential dread same but my names jayden oh shit

[@thatredfox813]

Not trying to be nasty or anything just curious as I am a trans guy, but how do you feel comfortable/ok being in makeup as a trans guy? I know that would make me hella dysphoric so was just wondering what your take is on it!

[@gatorfan556]

@@thatredfox813 everyones dysphoria is different, the amount can vary depending on day as well.

[@Udontkno7]

Ash for me, it’s just makeup. That’s all.

[@liam3814]

when you have body dysmorphia AND gender dysphoria: *laughs in pain and confusion *

[@chickennugget4521]

big mood

[@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice]

Same. I mean, for me (trans masc), I have a lot of internalized fatphobia, and neither imagining myself fat nor skinny made me happy. But It DID make me happy to imagine myself with a beard, or to cut my hair short. And I also felt dysphoria related to pronouns and being classed with other afabs. So, try to see which events trigger which feelings. Maybe keep a journal and reference it to see patterns. I never wanted to be a pretty, skinny woman. I wanted to stop being fat, but I also wanted to be a guy. And now I'm a fat guy. Lol.

[@Alex-ut5ou]

Omg yes

[@Markzuckisacuck]

Oh god mood

[@tee-jay97]

I actually went the other way round and mistook gender dysphoria as body dysmorphia instead bc i was in so much denial about not being male or female lol #trender✌🏻

[@ahfreshair9242]

Terri Wilson Well I’m glad that you’ve now figured yourself out. :) I wish you the best.

[@eggpusher2585]

Same! I just really had to reflect on how I feel about my body when I was really in shape. The answer was that I still really hated my squidgy hips and I had a very super large chest that I already had reduced, but the jiggle is still there! Death to the squish and to the jiggle!!!!

[@Udontkno7]

Same. Thought if I was skinnier the dysphoria/dysmorphia would go away. I read so much feminist theory to tell myself I wasn’t trans. It was crazy. Because if I understood womanhood, I could be one. Yeah...no.

[@tee-jay97]

photosynthesisprototype same! I developed an eating disorder bc i thought my problem i was i needed/wanted to be skinnier because i thought my body was wrong because it was fat and wanted to get rid of it, when the issue was i wanted to get rid of my curves. I did want to be skinnier but to reduce my chest, hips, thighs, etc. and be able to hide myself better

[@elie9517]

Gosh. This was me for the longest time.

[@Iittlebird__]

*hair in the eye is the most annoying thing ever. I get it like on my eyeballs and it's a pain to get off*

[@ahfreshair9242]

PerplexWa1k3r81 _ Yess I just got my hair cut today and I feel so relieved now- It was a pain.

[@froggylord655]

I hate it when that happens

[@Iittlebird__]

@@ahfreshair9242 yay! My hairs still long, plus really frizzy which makes it all the more annoying. The day I can cut it will be a glorious day indeed.

[@snakebabies7287]

When you live with it your whole life you learn to see through the hair

[@thealtpandapng]

I tried to eat cereal the other day. But my side swept bangs kept getting in my mouth.

[@StaceyStaser]

proof that Noah couldn't even look like a girl if he tried lol

[@hellothere9388]

Stacey Staser proof that Noah was born to be Noah

[@silverrraven5349]

But it can not be denied, he is one heck of a pretty dude

[@femke3868]

Yess

[@user-us6mt4fh3d]

Agree

[@poompoomfighterz8363]

@@silverrraven5349 bc hes a girl lmao

[@alienordaquitania5579]

Nothing emphasizes a masculine physique quite like a bra and fishnets, I must say.

[@markus4715]

I asked my mom for black nail polish a while ago and she accused me of de transitioning 😂

[@maisierose654]

That sucks :( everyone can wear nail polish :D

[@ringodoodles490]

Jesus 😔💅

[@butterknifepatten4455]

i literally have no idea why but for me black nail polish makes me feel more masculine,,,, gendering something like nail polish just seems so extra imo

[@magpiem0th]

Black nail polish looks good on anyone. Just nail polish in general looks good on anyone. I also feel this way about eyeliner

[@vampyr.cryptid]

@@butterknifepatten4455 me too. its the only colour i wear now

[@v3xdraws]

I get a lot of backlash for wearing typically "female" things. Yes, I am FtM. I *do* have access to all the "male" clothes I want, and I wear that most of the time. But I think it is important to break the barriers of what people think is normal, and I only wear "female" cclothing on days that I dont feel as dysphoric as usual. For example, as long as I can still pass as Male, I will wear a skirt in public just for the sake of making a statement about the uniqueness of individuality. so yes, I'm transgender. Yes, I full identify as a male. And yes, I do have dysphoria. But I also think sometimes, expectations should be broken.

[@jaehaywardkent]

i'm non binary and it's the same for me, i forced myself to wear typically masculine clothing for so long because i thought i hAd to look androgynous so people wouldn't assume i was a girl. but i lOve wearing feminine clothes now and occasionally switching to masc every now and then. i finally don't feel like i have to present in a certain way just to be percieved the way i want. i've accepted that people will probably assume i'm a girl and i've come to terms with that.

[@jaehaywardkent]

also yes yes yEs to the profile picture🖤🖤

[@jaehaywardkent]

and no no nO to the user name😂

[@stankatbarrell9878]

Yes I agree that it is fine as long as dysphoria is soothed and you pass. Trenders do that stuff while not attempting to pass. It makes no sense that if they have dysphoria why would they do that.

[@spitedrowning]

I agreeeeeeee

[@noncorporealentity5641]

i'm so glad i'm not in the toxic truscum mindset anymore and can enjoy this quality video

[@vampirepossum8544]

Me too I used to be like " OH SO YOU HAVE PAINTED NAILS AND YOU SAY YOUR A MANNNN???!?! HA TRENDER AM I RIGHT?!?!" But I was just super scared of not being trans enough beacuse my body dysphoria isn't as bad as some other people I know

[@caseybruh1124]

Character development lmao

[@deviltown7060]

pretty sure truescum means that you believe you need dysphoria to be trans.

[@lesgenssontbeaux2219]

Um being truscum doesn't exactly have anything to do with that but okay. Truscum means you think people need gender dysphoria to be trans... for example my trans friend is truscum and he literally does "feminine things" like paint his nails and wear makeup- not attacking you, but I'm just saying I don't think that's the correct term.

[@adrin5556]

les gens sont beaux by definition, yes, being truscum/transmed is believing that you need gender dysphoria to be trans. however, "gender dysphoria" in this case isn't quite what most people interpret it to be. there is a difference between "gender dysphoria" and "gender incongruence", with the former being more of a medical condition and the latter being a difference between the gender you are and the gender you were born as, which is something that isn't always understood and thus often confuses people about the truscum vs tucute debate. typically, the truscum/transmed attitude is essentially that, in order to identify as trans, you must have severe gender dysphoria and fully medically transition (some people have atypical dysphoria or gender euphoria), which is why exclusion of nonbinary identities is also associated with transmed ideology (since nonbinary people have more atypical dysphoria), and which is also why a "truscum attitude" is typically also associated with trans people having their gender expression match their gender identity (since by you would have to be dysphoric of things associated with your agab). uh so in conclusion, you're not technically wrong, being a transmed is "believing that you need gender dysphoria to be trans", but there's more to it than that?

[@hazelhowell1918]

jakes makeup... holy shit that’s ART 🥺

[@JakeFTMagic]

Hehehhehe thank

[@Bespeon]

Yesss

[@kurapikakurta1997]

I read art as rat and either way I agree because rats are art

[@gayfield420]

im not a trender, i have gender dysphoria and not body dysmorphia. that being said, i really like the idea of wearing crop tops, fishnet/mesh and nail polish after getting surgery and hormones.... :/ i am gay!

[@gayfield420]

also,, dude im jealous of your body its so masculine... i know T does that but i feel like im just gonna look the exact same way i do now when i start testosterone

[@Wasp239]

gay men are men who love men, not fishnet.

[@jamieisnotokay3298]

same- I love dresses and stuff but I refuse to wear any before I get my hair chopped and my binder because of my dysphoria.

[@kurapikakurta1997]

The crop tops one- I feel like crop tops or shirts that don’t really fit me hide my chest a lot, and my chest is the main cause of my dysphoria. I wear feminine clothing for the sake of hiding femininity idk man that feels normal to me.

[@gayfield420]

@@Wasp239 i know... where did say otherwise? i am literally gay. stop trying to make something into a problem when it really isnt.

[@ClosetDemon]

the people who say "transtrender" because of the way someone dresses are usually the same people who say that expression has nothing to do with gender. hypocrites.

[@ClosetDemon]

@LinusDickTips kalvin gerrah is one i've seen but there are a few others who i can't remember the names of. a lot of people in his kind of group say things like that

[@ClosetDemon]

@Grayson Land i didn't know but idc i can like one and not the other. i kinda like kalvin but there are parts of his videos im just like "smh"

[@ClosetDemon]

@Grayson Land yeah

[@junkoenoshima2756]

Exactly my freind Ray came out as trans but people calling him his dead name thinking he was faking it

[@ohursoflirty-johnnysuh5475]

I also used to think I was trans (ftm) because I had other underlining mental health issues. And I didn't do it for attention I actually thought I was trans. Edit: also alot of people with body dysmorphia or eating disorders ect have this happen to them

[@NOAHFINNCE]

exactly! it’s unfair to paint everybody who misdiagnosed themselves with the “trender” brush

[@thekingrah6882]

@@NOAHFINNCE and you can't know lol

[@ahfreshair9242]

Ah, it’s upsetting knowing so many people have gone through this. I hope you’re doing better now. Just know that you’re completely valid, it doesn’t matter what gender you are or what clothes you wear, just be who you are. :)

[@mikuenjoyerXD]

Same..

[@ohursoflirty-johnnysuh5475]

@Alex Evans exactly 👏👏👏

[@ellencullinanee]

never thought i’d ever see that as a title to noah’s video

[@englishbean1584]

I used to think I was FTM because I have dysphoria. Being a girl and being referred to or called a girl made me uncomfortable and it just didn’t feel right. I tried identifying as a guy for a while like presenting as a Male and using he/him pronouns and the name Charlie but that didn’t feel right to me either. Being referred to as a man or a woman makes my stomach drop and I feel uncomfortable. I talked to a school therapist about how I felt and she helped me discover that I am Non-binary I go by they/them and the name Max and it just feels right and makes me comfortable. I wear proper binders and that helps a lot with my dysphoria it gets worse on some days where I’m to disgusted to even look in the mirror or let my friends and family see me.

[@johnwalker1058]

From a random internet stranger, I'm glad to hear you discovered your identity, and also hope all is going well for you!

[@lain3701]

I’m trans ig? I don’t really know. I feel like a Demi-boy- but non-binary- but also trans (ftm) so I just stuck with Arson for my name.

[@maxipad967]

holy shit i’m non binary and i go by max too

[@Scififan926]

Hearing the thing about people who thought they were trans made my heart race, I Know there's nothing wrong with it but I still afraid because I'm always questioning my gender over and over again and it's starting to get on my nerves. Everytime I think “yeah I'm trans" there's This other voice saying “what if it's result of your other mental health issues?” “what if you're just a butch?” and I can't stop thinking about it and the more I think the more confused I get

[@ariquarius2939]

Scififan, The Anonymous i am the same way. i have ocd and it makes sense that it’s just another one of the obsessive fears that comes with it. based on what i’ve read, if you’re scared that you are something you most likely are not that thing. people who have ocd based fears about being gay usually aren’t gay, yet they obsess over the possibility. it’s just as possible to be trans and to be afraid that you are cis. having mental illnesses makes “diagnosing” one’s identity a little trickier, but it wouldn’t make sense that one couldn’t be trans and also mentally ill. i’m not sure how to ever find a finite answer, if there is one. after all the treatment for ocd is learning to accept uncertainty, and i don’t think there is a way to actually prove someone’s gender. i’ve settled with doing what makes me the happiest, striving for the life i would like to live.

[@ahfreshair9242]

If you’re unsure of who you want to become then you could simply just identify as nothing at all. Just be who you are. Don’t stress over it too much. Nobody is going to judge you. It’s your life, your decision. I wish you the best.

[@thekingrah6882]

Same

[@kamikkaze5164]

I feel the same, I'm always questioning

[@Nate-wc5ps]

I started scrolling through the comments to find someone else who was also doubting. It’s so annoying and it happens all the time. And it’s always triggered when someone says they used to think they were trans or something bc I just end up spiralling

[@juniperberryyyy]

I'm genderfluid/non-binary, and I get worried that I'm faking it without knowing constantly. And then I remember that I'm not out in real life and hardly anyone knows so how could I be getting attention for something that no one knows about me.

[@thunderjackal]

Someone once said, that if you ask yourself if your faking it, then that's a sign your absolutely not faking it

[@ClosetDemon]

i'm a feminine trans dude and i have been called a trender way to often. the people who say i am a trender because of my femininity are the same people who say "expression doesn't mean gender". i have little social dysphoria, i've always loved pink and dresses and all that. but i do have dysphoria to my own body. i hate that i have tits and i wish i had a dick and a deep voice and was called a dude. but i want all that with also wearing a dress!! is it so bad that this man wants to wear a dress!?!? TLDR femme trans dude is pissed by people calling him a trender

[@ClosetDemon]

@Alex Evans i do put my fashion over passing because i want to express myself as who i am over who people assume i should look like. if everyone put passing over fashion there wouldn't be drag queens or kings. there wouldn't be women in suits and men in dresses. there wouldn't me men with long hair and women with short hair. you only want trans people to hold passing over fashion. and i do have gender dysphoria. i just like to express myself without holding to what people want me to be.

[@ClosetDemon]

@Alex Evans i would put fashion over passing because i don't care how people perceive me, i only dress and act and be for myself. it may trigger your dysphoria, but it is a very wide range so what might trigger one person, will make the other person feel good. my dysphoria is more about my body than what i wear or what people call me. of course i don't want to be called a female or anything like that, but it doesn't make me cringe if i have to correct someone. but i do bind my chest and all that because my body gives me dysphoria. i still wear dresses because i have a very androgynous style, i just also bind because of my dysphoria. and my fashion sometimes give way for my dysphoria, but i don't let my dysphoria control what i wear. just like i don't let people control what i wear.

[@andreapierce976]

Just remember that there are plenty of cis drag queens or transvestites (can I still use that word now?). So logically, why not trans men who enjoy cross dressing.

[@ClosetDemon]

@@andreapierce976 transvestite is an outdated term which i do not recommend using but besides that i 100% agree with your comment

[@alyx8224]

I feel you dude

[@n.8537]

Ooh, I don't know why but my stomach turned reading the title

[@jennahyser7245]

Their have been people who openly admitted to pretending or wanting to be trans but them ending up not being. I think it’s pretty rare, being trans in itself is rare. Most people assume that is what they are when it’s body dysmorphia not dysphoria.

[@garbage_man9290]

this

[@justme-et3sr]

The thing is, I have both. I used to have an eating disorder and something I can't get rid of is hating how much body fat I have, to the point when I had to cover a mirror in my house because looking at myself made me feel miserable and so, so low. But, years after that, I started disliking my boobs. I want a lower voice. I want a more masculine face. I don't care about how much I weigh now, but I want to get rid of my chest because knowing I have it puts me down. Both of those come from different things and they are not the same. I still completely understand why body dysphoria and dysmorphia can be confused with each other.

[@marsupialsofmars3886]

I'm 100% what would be called a trender. I'm agender, very little dysphoria (I have gender euphoria and I feel like I dont fit my assigned gender but I dont have, like, deep emotional problems with it the way I've heard it described) I'm afab, I dress "androgynous" in a super basic way with flannels and hoodies and dress shirts and occasional binding, I have that long on top shaved on sides haircut, and j think it's CUTE AS HELL. I'm just now finding my style and getting more tumblr steryotypical by the second, and despite my anxiety over feeling like I'm faking, videos like this really help me feel comfortable doing what makes me feel comfortable with my gender and personal style despite what others say.

[@cyrus4379]

i want to be your friend.

[@marsupialsofmars3886]

@@cyrus4379 :)

[@izstrella]

Thank you for acknowledging that the majority of “transtrenders” aren’t just doing it for attention. The idea that you could be called a “fake trans” scares a lot of people away from even trying to discover if they are and that definitely doesn’t help them. Personally, I can’t speak to that fear, but I hope if any of you are feeling it please don’t be afraid to experiment with gender labels and such; everyone has to find out one way or another. 👍🏼

[@unofficially-ace]

At this point my stance on this whole issue is that I just don’t care. Like, if you’re not hurting yourself and and you’re not hurting others, then do whatever you want, it should be nobody else’s business

[@tildesofie1533]

"I'm soft uwu" that killed me. Don't know why but i couldn't stop laughing

[@aah4735]

he says it with that text-to-speech lilt

[@blorp444]

I- wha- what’s this title- what am I in for-

[@annieshakespeare7613]

I had the opposite problem, I didn't know what my dysphoria was because I'm very feminine and was in a lot of ways comfortable with being feminine. I only knew EXTREMELY masculine trans guys at the time and I thought because I wasn't uncomfortable in women's clothes all the time that my other dysphoria (chest, voice, bottom etc) was just in my head and I was bandwaggoning. After I came out there was a lot of pressure on me to be very masculine in a way that I just wasn't comfortable. I now identify as transmasc/non binary and use he/they pronouns and have stopped comparing my dysphoria to other people's. I wear whatever I want which is often very masculine but sometimes extremely feminine. I paint my nails, get feminine beauty treatments that I used to feel guilty for wanting, and maybe one day my dysphoria will allow me to wear makeup. I haven't decided how far I'm going into my transition, but I finally understand that it's my choice and I don't need to prove anything to anyone. I started transitioning to live as myself, and there's no point if I just go back to being put in a box by people that don't understand

[@moondragon8491]

Ngl the thumbnail of u in a bra scared me a little

[@princessashes8070]

i lowkey love how u called out kalvin without saying his name.

[@tobithetabby6376]

I just realized that the label of "transtrender" only ever applied to ftms

[@Emily-yr6ie]

And that's on misogny!

[@junkoenoshima2756]

So what is a mtf faking it

[@liddycannon2266]

@@junkoenoshima2756 Either exploring, confused, or most likely she's just valid

[@ArcherGhost]

While I'm here,I might as well give you guys some advice: When people (usually cis girls) think of afab trans people,they usually think of "UwU soft,galaxy soft smol boi" which also points into the trender stereotype.Now,if you don't fit into that stereotype,that's perfect fine and you are valid but if you DO fit into that stereotype,that's ALSO perfectly fine and you are VALID. The point I'm making is that trenders don't exist and no matter how you present (whether that's masc,fem,androgynous or whatever you're comfortable with) you are VALID -A transmasc enby

[@sophie4304]

Ngl... The title spooked me, never thought I'd see that. I mean, we should know him better then that but yeah, still spooky 😂

[@amzdlv7379]

What trenders actually are: People figuring out there identity, seriously leave them alone and go worry about yourselves (agree w/ the vid btw)

[@Pinedirt_]

ya a lot of the time people who are called trenders are just figuring themsleves out, but there are also literally people who are literal *TREND*ERS and it blows my mind they can literally do that and not see how its bad

[@facetioustimes6211]

Clay is Not O-kay I’m literally trying to figure myself out but I have never been called trender cause all the people around me know I’m figuring stuff out and I’m so thankful and I’m scared to explore though 😭

[@Pinedirt_]

@@facetioustimes6211 I'm glad people dont call you a trender for that. if you are safe to, exploring your gender is kinda the only way to truly figure yourself out sometimes. good luck, stay safe, and make sure not to rush things.

[@facetioustimes6211]

Clay is Not O-kay thanks! I definitely won’t rush anything I’m very anxious

[@Luka-zi9kv]

Nnnno.. most of them are attention seekers who have a victim complex and want to be special

[@Erin-sd4rn]

watching this video, i just realized that i know a person who fits literally every single one of the trender stereotypes noah just mentioned. i also realized that it's because they're still closeted to a big chunk of people in their life, like some family and schoolmates. they've adopted some of the features as a way to validate themselves, because they can't be completely authentic with many people. so yeah, this really made me think. don't put labels on other people, it might really hurt them. 🐭

[@someonessidechannel1485]

To be honest, I didn't know that "transtrender" had evolved beyond use for people who faked being trans to be "quirky" and "relatable." But if someone were to look at me and know I identify as trans ftm, they might call me a trender. I don't make much effort to look male most days. I just wear jeans and a t-shirt, a sports bra to have smaller breasts, and I don't correct any of my coworkers using she/her pronouns for me. I barely have any dysphoria, really, not to the degree I've heard others talk about it. But I'm at a weird point right now where I don't want to come out as trans to anybody. There's just too many factors, too many people I know, to socially transition like others would. I just recently figured out I was trans, after I'd turned 18, the age a lot of them come out to family and friends and begin socially and medically transitioning after having known for a few years already. I try not to think about it, really. I know that _I_ am a guy, and right now, I can handle most other people seeing me as a girl. I have online friends who know, I have a brother who knows, and a few coworkers who at least understand I don't mind whatever pronouns I get called, and that's good enough for me. Wowie sorry for the infodump my dude

[@its_the_bird]

I was this way for a long time! I couldn't fully present how I needed to because I was in a dangerous and emotionally volatile situation with my parents, and other people around me. I also wanted to succeed so much in my schooling and jobs that I really neglected my mental health and would often starve myself and workout in excess so I'd feel better about not being able to bind or have the hair and styles that make me happiest. I've been on T for a while now, and bind when I can (some health issues make that hard, even though I have REALLY bad chest dysphoria), and it's been absolutely life changing. I only wish I had been able to get to a safer situation and accept myself sooner (and find accepting and loving people), because the many years of denying myself from a younnggg age and the extreme stress and diagnosed ptsd made me develop hemiplegic migraines and seizures. :/

[@Erin-sd4rn]

Ziegfried Thigpen wow i'm so sorry to hear that! i'm also really happy to hear that you're doing better now❤️ i wish no one had to deal with the fear of acceptance from close ones.

[@Michael-xd8rv]

someone i dated knew i was trans and was like "oh then im trans" even though she loved her female body, and didn't want to appear or be called male, and was fine w/ she/her pronouns. then when we broke up, she dated a non-binary person and said "oh im now non-binary" even though we all know that isn't true either cuz she is very happy w/ using she/her and her female body, she obviously doesnt have dysphoria and even said she didn't. THEN SHE REFUSES TO CALL ME HE/HIM- i swear this bitch. Anyways, thats why i called her a trender, because she called herself trans even though she obviously wasn't.

[@Wintermars]

She sounds like an asshole, but just FYI non-binary people can use she/her pronouns even if they were assigned female at birth.

[@smart7928]

well she’s an asshole for misgendering you but non-binary people don’t have to use they/them pronouns

[@Michael-xd8rv]

@@smart7928 true true, i just kinda found it odd that she said she was non-binary right when she started dating a non-binary person and then said she was cis the moment they broke up too, it was just all very confusing

[@smart7928]

Remington Yeah, I can see what you mean in that specific situation I guess i just misinterpreted the wording :)

[@nathitaxo]

And was a transphobic

[@ElizabethMidfordHatesCops]

So many people would tell me I'm NOT asthmatic because they're asthmatic and can do things I can't so clearly I'm faking. *There are different levels of severity to being asthmatic.* Kinda like being trans and how much dysphoria that comes with that. Anyway, I liked you asthma analogy.

[@laurenstone5504]

At first I read the title as "Turning myself into a transgender" and I just kind of had to sit there and...reread it. Thank god.

[@everestfoxaj3989]

Me, calling myself an "uwu femboy" to deal with my dysphoria, having to wear girls clothes, and my optimistic personality: Oh, look at that, I'm a transtrender now

[@lavenderdemons]

It’s for that reason I don’t have a problem with being called an “uwu soft boi” 😭

[@Cawingcaws]

This was so wholesome. I'm so glad I'm no longer the way I was, You are valid even if people say you aren't. If you're comfortable and like the way it looks go for it. Makeup or "feminine" clothes don't make you any less valid than someone who presents more masculine.

[@einjans]

I really like how your view on this developed and that you're so chill about this. I totally agree with you, some people act like there are millions of "trenders" who will come after us and take our resources or something and I'm just like...well, they probably won't. if they transition even though they're not trans, that's their problem. and who do people think they are to tell people if they're allowed to transition.

[@abbiewilkinson483]

this was an experience from start to finish. An incredible one at that

[@grey5243]

legend has it harry styles got his style inspiration for the vogue cover from noah’s look here

[@uncannydani1281]

I genuinely just love how respectful yet blunt you are. You're just so amazing. I love it!

[@freymurf5902]

I named myself Alec not because it's a "transname" I chose it after Alec in the mortal instruments

[@gamzee3610]

Also it's a dope as hell name

[@Squiddoesthings]

My 2.first-name is Alexander (my mom gave me 2 names and I wanted to keep on having 2 names lol) and because of that, Some of my friends call me Alec or Alex instead of Ben. (My First-first name. ...that sounds weird xD)

[@lilahmanfredi1889]

we stan cassandra clare

[@justme-et3sr]

I named myself Alec because I always loved that name and wanted a name as different from my old name as possible.

[@aceythespacemanfrehley2566]

Alec is an awesome character in the books

[@oliversc2007]

I thought I was transgender for a long time. I came out to all my friends and family, until I realised I wasn’t. Explaining I was not trans after coming out as trans was hell

[@vipersrt30]

that's valid. exploring to knowing yourself is good

[@lucylucylucy1710]

why did i spend so kong trying to figure out what quorg means before realising his shirt says group 🤦

[@MagicXRoads534]

I didn't realize it said group until you said it, then I remembered him saying he flips the video and it made a lot more sense.

[@Udontkno7]

I love the transtrender aesthetic, very bright and flamboyant and the use of pride flags in the outfit. It’s great and radical and actually reminds me of the late 60s in Greenwich.

[@LaurArt_UK]

I've literally seen people use 'transtrender' to refer to all non-binary people, which is just... painful. Painfully stupid.

[@jaisonwow8752]

I'm not a trender, I have gender dysphoria and I definitely present masculine- the idea of presenting feminine makes me gag- but I used "I put the 'T' in LGBT" the other day and now I don't think I'll ever use that statement again lmao

[@banana-hj1eb]

whoa haven't seen jake in so long, the nostalgia omlll

[@greenenigma8678]

came back to your channel after years. i’m so glad you changed your viewpoint. i had forgotten that people can change. character development 10/10.

[@KingOChaos_]

I have a friend that dresses like this and keeps getting called a trender His man has been diagnosed with dysphoria and had to show it to people

[@mikeboggs1479]

I'm so proud of how much you've grown in the 5+ years I've been following you

[@mikeboggs1479]

When I was following your old spam account I remember looking up to you but being intimidated by you at the same time. Now you've just grown into such a loving and sweet person and I'm so happy to see you thrive.

[@MangarooKangaroo]

Preach preach preach. I agree with everything Noah said 👌🏻 People who accuse others of being transtrenders are gatekeeping and preventing people from being able to transition.

[@katyahall4779]

When he showed his legged I got so confused for a second. I forgot that legs were a thing and that he had legs. I was like “huh?? Legs??? ... ooohh yeah leeeggsss”

[@user-zh1rr5mb1l]

I just explained the term transgender to my sister and she’s so understanding, I love her so much 🥺

[@JosefinaLL]

Correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t people have different kinds of dysphoria, like with pronouns and face shape etc, and some don’t experience all the same as others?

[@mercyblake7550]

Same like I read many articles saying that gender dysphoria is different for everybody and you don't need dysphoria to be trans ? And like some people rather experience gender euphoria ?

[@-toby-329]

@@mercyblake7550 yeah my dysphoria isn't that bad. It's just like i'm constantly aware of what makes me feminine and it's uncomfortable. I don't know if this counts as dysphoria but whenever I do something that is seen as feminine I feel devastated and like I'm faking all of this, though I feel mostly like I want to be a boy. It sucks. My voice is an issue too. Though mostly my behaviour causes me it.

[@raccoonlad5685]

thank you for your sacrifice, king ❤ also jake's make up skills are top notch

[@carys6681]

this is the sweetest video i have ever seen , he put himself through dysphoria to protect other trans people from being attacked for not conforming to their gender stereotypes :)

[@averytischer2144]

Now, the universal definition of GD is “the distress a person feels due to a mismatch between their AGAB and their gender identity”

[@indecisive_rose8738]

That's just wrong, dysphoria is about gender and sex not matching. Frankly framing a trans person gender as an "identity" rubs me the wrong way.

[@averytischer2144]

@@indecisive_rose8738 im sorry, but you're wrong. The literal definition of GD is " the distress a person feels due to a mismatch between their gender identity and their sex assigned at birth." This is quoted from the DSM, you know, the book that literally diagnoses you with GD? Also, sorry that gender identity rubs you the wrong way, but that's what gender is. It's just an identity.

[@averytischer2144]

@@indecisive_rose8738 also you're not trans, so don't speak over a literal trans person thanks

[@indecisive_rose8738]

@@averytischer2144 I am trans dip shit No its a gender, i don't identify as a girl, I am a girl

[@averytischer2144]

rose thompson once again, that’s an identity

[@Hope-po9ck]

Noah: "I know for a fact that there are cases of people saying they're trans when they're actually not," My brain: "He's definitely talking about Trish Paytas lol"

[@aleks1700]

Ok but can i just say , whenever i see your videos i get so happy because they are so wholesome 🥺

[@sunwontshine9569]

I'm so happy Jake was in this!!! I love Jake's music and he makes great video's. Thanks Noah, this was great ♥️✨

[@k.d.guadagno9235]

I love that, even though Noah was dressed femininely, he still looked totally like a cis guy.

[@druritchie2181]

first of all can i say that their makeup looks so good

[@gamz33]

I'm so proud of Noah (and misslondon too) for becoming such an accepting person. Y'all out there just minding your own business. I like that

[@mercury_the_king_1238]

such a great message and as usual portrayed so well by noah...jakes makeup tho...so good!!

[@mylesmagana3533]

"I know I have big legs, it's genetic" i'm literally dead

[@eddieee2]

when you read the trender quotes i was s c r e a m i n g this is like my sense of humour but presented without hurting anyones feelings. thank you kanye, very cool👍

[@samanthasmith8376]

You are awesome! Your videos make me smile and I've learned a lot. Thank you for creating genuine content. Btw.... I love your hair!!

[@Luminty99]

I'm so happy you made this video, this is so important and what I've been thinking this whole time

[@NoahHella]

Hahah I have a new appreciation for the word “crop top” after you said it 20 times. It sounds cute uwuuuuu

[@envyrem]

Noah's legs had me wowed Boy bout stronk as hell

[@lunamartian3061]

You are just great, Noah! It's important to raise awareness for topics like these rather than hating on each other and splitting the lgbtq+ community. Thank you for helping to spread acceptance and positivity instead of prejudices. Keep up the good work dude! :) ❤️

[@Fruityflootloops]

Omfg I love this so much. I’m so relieved. I wasn’t scared so I got to be relieved without first being tense it was wonderful.

[@Dreigonix]

WHY ARE YOU SO ADORABLE LIKE HOLY SHIT

[@rtmiller4335]

I've never been so early in my life!! Peace and love noah! x

[@jocelynsturgis7627]

Last time I was this early I was a straight girl who's dad was still in my life

[@rtmiller4335]

Hahaha!! Lmaooo

[@thatoneflowerboi1620]

JAKE!!! THEY ARE SO GORGEOUS! I havent seen them in soooooo long my heart

[@emilieguzman8583]

You’re amazing! I’ve been so informed about trans things through your channel but also just learned so much about you and how wonderful you are thank you so much!!

[@burntbeansoup]

Welll technically all you need is euphoria to be trans, idk if I sound like a trender (I'm not) but for gender non-conforming people, they can be fine with their body but want to go by gender-neutral pronouns. If you're straight up trans, as in mtf or ftm, I do believe you have to have at least some dysphoria, though.

[@meenik6489]

I think people who genuinely thought they are trans, transitioned (to a degree) and dretransitioned aren't/shouldn't be the ones considered "transtrenders" I think the people claiming the title, pulling a lot of attention to the title, but have no desire to actually (medically) transition (not the be confused with the ones who can't because of whatever reason) are the ones who are/should be considered as "transtrender". But as someone in the chronic illness community, where people get accused of faking illnesses, I think it's extremely difficult to judge who is and isn't faking. And the actual percentage of people faking is really small.

[@nmydc6413]

lol trans medicalism... fr?

[@emiliepond2395]

I’m so happy to see jake 🥺🥺I kept checking back on their last video and there’s just so many rude comments that break my heart. Love you guys💖💖

[@dolldelrey16]

I ALREADY DARE TO SAY THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO ON UR CHANNEEEEEEEL

[@lemonjuice1505]

I’m a Demiboy and I’ve called a transtrender so much the word makes me wanna throw up ✨

[@sabrinabonapersona]

this is funny and i’ve just started watching it

[@allgoodthings532]

i used to dislike you because as you said a year ago you had that mindset. a lot of people did and still do but i’ve changed my mind om you so much you’re so understanding and i feel like you’ve grown a LOT as a person and im really happy about that and im really glad you finally have a similar mindset to me and i really hope all people grow like you as the transtrender and the weird mindset people have about them, is tjay makes me really insecure about the way i express myself though most of my expression is in no way feminine, i still FEEL like it is. i judge my art style, my clothing, my passion in life, it all feels too feminine, even though i KNOW it’s not. i appreciate this video a lot.

[@allgoodthings532]

and that’s the thing, havinf facial piercings dyed hair and being into makeup is what makes me happy and i don’t think i should be insecure about it. i don’t wear makeup out - ever - but i like doing it but i don’t present feminine it’s just an emo thing lol as cringey as that sounds i wish it didn’t correlate to being a trender

[@graceflores1386]

“do i look pretty *giggles*” that was so pure

[@georgiaburkhart285]

I feel like it's important to indulge anyone who says they're trans. Use preferred pronouns and preferred name. It will be respectful and help the person figure out if they are or aren't really trans. They'll either be like "Yes this feels right!" Or "No I don't think this feels right."

[@eviebunting290]

its nice to hear Hello Underachievers :)

[@finnegan728]

dude I dont normally watch you but I am MELTING into ur voice its so fucking PERFECT... frfr I love it so much I

[@lostinthelookingglas]

the makeup is so cute!!! also I love how masculine he looks in girly clothes