Twin Flame Astrology: Pluto In Synastry Chart (Not A Twin Flame)

Twin Flame Astrology: Pluto In Synastry Chart (Not A Twin Flame)
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[@angeladirodis]

I was in a Plutonic relationship for 5 years and it was VERY toxic. I thought it was a Twin Flame relationship, but it was so destructive and I kept getting readings from different psychics because I was trying to figure out what was going on. NO ONE mentioned anything to me about it being a Plutonic relationship, but I had to save my own sanity so I left the relationship. I had to actually ghost the person because he would not let me go. Now that it has been a couple of years since I walked away from the relationship, I am working on forgiving myself for allowing it to go on so long. I actually stopped believing in Twin Flames because of what happened to me, and I think that more people should be aware of this type of situation. Part of my frustration was that I felt the spiritual community was brushing off my concerns, and that is wrong on so many levels. So, I need to say THANK YOU for bringing this to light Mary Jo, and I hope that more people become aware of the difference between Twin Flames and Plutonics.

[@pufpufpuffin]

I met someone a few months ago, and my met I mean I stood next to him for about ten seconds while a friend of mine talked to him, that was the extend of it. The following week I dreamt about him three different times and eventually looked him up on social media. I got obsessed with the thought of him and didn’t really understand why. Ended up looking at his birth chart and turns out his sun, venus, mercury, saturn and pluto was (really) closely conjunct my ascendant, saturn and pluto. Yikes. After looking into plutonic relationships I knew it was a bad idea. It still took me two months to convince myself to stop thinking about him. TEN SECONDS of non-interaction, and I consider myself fairly evolved when it comes to spiritually and healing trauma 😅 I learned a lot from it but wow, Pluto is wild.

[@lindas471]

Whoa! Needed this today!!! Was curious what this connection was. Did our charts and mars square Pluto. My anxiety came back off the rails. And I withdrew. Then down the rabbit hole I went. Great timing. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@tattooskin72]

My husband’s Pluto is in Scorpio and is in conjunction with my Venus, mercury, and mars in Scorpio. His Pluto also squares my Aquarius moon. He’s very manipulative, narcissistic, and controlling. I’m working on getting away.

[@TheGreatness-gg1jx]

That's a difficult one but you should definitely exit.

[@sherib3082]

Thank you so much for this! My plutonic relationship was literal hell after having learned my lesson but refusing to give up. It broke me and left me scarred but I survived (barely)! 😅

[@sunshineparadiso3984]

Thank you MJ. This was awesome. And helpful what with the MASSSSSSSSSIVE confusion out there on true twins, etc. much appreciated. ❤❤

[@shelleyoconnor1609]

Wonderful explanation!! Got it!! Thank you MJ!🙏🌻💙

[@loveandjoywithklaudia]

2:50 plutonic relationships 11:08 seeking information twin flame vs plutonic 13:19 how to find out plutonic in chart 22:04 plutonic as false twin flame

[@jojoward5856]

I did. 8 years. Not TF karmic. Taught me a lot of lessons. And I learned I deserve the moon and stars.

[@angelaray7272]

Thank you, this was sooo helpful ❣️

[@lindsay4250]

Very insightful and helpful. ✨ 💯 Agree

[@mpaulpintarich6220]

How do I cope with the fact that Boomers have Pluto conjunct my Sun, Millennials have Pluto square my Moon, and Generation Z have Pluto square my Sun?

[@user-og5uq5pm8i]

Become your highest self. They all have those positions in order to serve your highest good. When you can see them that way, you will change and their effect on you will change. It's all for your awakening. What a blessing!

[@judygrayson6981]

Hide 😂. Basically, you need to walk in silence and realize that at first, people are going to seem very supportive. Once you are hooked, they will try to dominate you. That's when you need to silently and slowly remove yourself from the situation. Make a new plan and move on. Keep focused on your goals.

[@melaniesines3353]

WOW. I need to think about this reading. Thank you MJ.

[@colleendeir4818]

This was fantastic MJ thank you so much for always caring about our well-being’s. Your messages are always enlightening 🥰😎🎉🐾🕊️🌟

[@elistarseed7033]

Great video, thank you. Infinite ♾️ Blessings 🙌

[@rachaeljewell8761]

This was so helpful…thank you

[@georginahagenhnatiuk662]

Okay. So, around 6:20 you say that if it is one sided it is NOT a Platonic relationship. Pluto conjunct, opposite and square your personal planets symbolize Twin Flame relationships, EXCEPT when it is one-sided, because then it is destructive transformation, (rather than ascendent transformation which occurs in a Twin Flame dynamic). This makes sense. Thank-you. So interesting. Both me an my Twin Flame have 5 Pluto placements. Sun conjunct Pluto, Pluto square Mercury, Pluto sextile Jupiter, Pluto Opposite Saturn, and X MC conjunct Pluto. We both experience ourselves as Twin Flames. It is so intense! Vice-versa. You really helped me understand that the challenging aspects of ones charts can also be positive when placed with the right divine person. Wow. Not that is as a easy. It just activates your Kundalini and self-awareness, through mirroring, shedding ego. So grateful to find you! I cannot wait to dive into your channel more. What a gift you are. Much goodness to you.

[@lupearteaga2394]

Thank you MJ for this video

[@jedilady4485]

In my case it was a Catalyst Twinflame! But I was the Pluto squaring both his Sun and Mercury!! I don't know about him, but I was the one who significantly awakened spiritually!! It was intense!

[@bonnieblythe7956]

My pluto square her venus, my moon square her pluto, my sun and jupiter square her pluto. But i dont want to avoid the relationship. Definitely theres a reason behind why i met the person. Lesson and experience. ❤️

[@niokaletts117]

Yep yep yep....His Pluto (Libra 7th house) was Squaring my Venus ( Capricorn 10th house). So glad I saw it last year from your video. Took 4 years to find out. The growth lessons were huge 👏 😇 Thanks MJ ....

[@jennapuszyk3599]

Thank you so much for this video MJ it was soooooo enlightening, information is power! I think both my 'big'/significant relationships have both been plutonic but one towards me & one where I unknowingly was the plutonic person! Do you often see this occurring as cyclical pattern in people? Its definitely one I'm working hard on healing so I dont repeat either lesson! Thank you for sharing your insights & research, your light shines so brightly 🙏 ✨️ x

[@marigold7575]

You are the best!🤗

[@Akenya]

If two people are Plutonic themselves and they are "twin flames" then the connection would likely still be Plutonic in some fashion. The archetype of Pluto also deals with deep transformation and I would say is a necessary component of a "twin flame" dynamic. It's TOO many HARD Pluto aspects in synastry/composite or an imbalance of Pluto (lopsided/unrequited) that are the problem. I think a lot of the things you're hitting on are important, but I think people should understand the difference also between a (hard) Plutonic connection vs. a powerful, potentially "twin flame" connection that still has some important Plutonic contacts in the synastry/composite. Also the composite/Davison would be more important than synastry imo, because that's the only way to see what the connection itself is about.

[@Akenya]

Also btw - the Pluto person (synastry wise) is the one who is likely to become desperately obsessed and the Planet person who will likely want to run the hell away, even if some part of them feels intrigued/magnetized.

[@desertwaters_808]

I knew someone where almost every one of our personal planets were in the opposite sign (not all hard aspects) but moon conjunct in the same sign etc etc (our astrology is bonkers) - AND we were both "the Pluto person"...! Several times over (numerous Pluto contacts). Our meeting was definitely fated and we are definitely soul fam (and maybe even TFs, we have so many of the indicators)... but our relationship was also *very* Plutonic. The composite chart is very telling, clarifying a lot of the finer points that can get lost in all of this intensity. Took me years to heal - I don't usually even use this " TF" terminology anymore or watch videos... but once in a while one will pique my interest and I use it to see if I get triggered anymore. I came out of the clouds and can at least see the truth of things rather than being off the rails LOL. I know this isn't the first OR last time we've been together, I believe it will be easier next time around 😅

[@lissialexander1548]

Doesn’t make it a healthy relationship! This lady knows what she’s talking about! Pluto is hidden it knows how to disguise itself. You can go on thinking that things are so great then bam it happens out if nowhere. Plutonic relationships almost always end badly

[@lissialexander1548]

And twin flames are RARE!! Maybe like 1% The very reason we’re here on earth is to learn from ppl through painful lessons Please study twin flames off youtube! Read and study it! And if you’re not emotionally evolved I can say with certainty that you probably haven’t met your twin flame! Everyone doesn’t even have a twin flame just like everyone doesn’t have a twin at birth its not common! Soulmates karmics and plutonics are far more common

[@mimihernandez2847]

This could be one of the most important information to put out there, MJ... confusing a plutonic connection for a twin connection can have excrutiating, devastating effects precisely because the unconditional love simply isnt there as a shared component between the two as each navigates through the obstacles or darker seasons of the connection. One can tell sometimes- the difference between twin-pain, which can obviously include confusion as to whats next, loneliness and deep frustration, and plutonic-pain, many times resentful and angry and hungry for evidence that the other loves them. With twins, Love is, if anything, the clearest element, along with the Spiritual.

[@aries-seventhseal2473]

It was my devine birthrights to lessons for beyond measure abundance. I learned sooooooo much about self source and universe and 1111. It was amazing then it wasn't and it ended. I was confused and hurting after I left but all that was actually beautiful and I now have no sadness or shame for getting myself into it. It was fated because idk about him because I havnt looked for where he's at in life I respect others privacy because ppl don't have the same respect for my life lol I don't want to be like the ppl who stalk me etc idc but it was hard lessons I had to learn in a really harsh way and I'm so grateful for it and im grateful for my huge growth and my Lord and my blessings of and for The Devine. It wasn't the devil it was father teaching me the things I needed to know and change about ME. THIS READ IS SO GREAT. I've watched you since late 2017. I missed alot of your reads the last few years because I have been moving upwards and busy healing etc etc and NOW I'm back circled back around the circle of life's flow and here your reads are popping up in my autoplay no matter if I'm listening to music or MEL ROBBINS. LOVE TO BOTH YOU AND MEL. YOUR NEW HOME IS DEVINE AND YOU LOOK AMAZING BEYOND MEASURE. Love to Charlie too. 🥰😇😇🤩😍🤍🤍🤍🤍💫🕊 🕊 🕊

[@BonniePerryMeyers23]

Wow. My abusive ex husband and I both have Pluto square each others mars. It’s a miracle we didn’t kill each other. 😱

[@barbaraheckert5289]

What a wonderful explanation of Plutonic and Twin Flames! Thank you! 💜

[@kimmy321]

Thank you MJ, holy comoly eh wuah. Gunna have to digest this one!

[@maycarter3372]

I don’t like this topic but It should be getting so much more attention in the community! I’m a hades moon in the first house and at first made me realize any relationship would be karmic. I also have Venus / Mars conjunct in my chart - I’d be interested to see what the right partner could have to compliment that 😂

[@carajenkins-pz3zx]

The more I learn, the more convinced I'm in a twin flame relationship. I'd be willing to send you birth charts.

[@stephanies3772]

We both have plutonic placements in connection to our suns and quite a few other personal planets 😂 but it was actually quite positive bc we brought out a lot of growths from each individual and we mirror each other with a ton of synchronicities with our past lives and future goals just like TFs.. i would classify it as quite positive experiences and i would certainly love to build something together with this person. idk.. the line feels a little blurry here..

[@maddiefaye696]

I think it depends on your personal chart I have sun conjunct Pluto and I feel like all my relationships have some Pluto aspects because of this. It's also not scary to me as much because I'm used to feeling that plutonic energy anyway.

[@22Sunflower222]

Wow, MJ! Thank you for this clarity! I have multiple people in my energy and I was questioning my TF because of two of them but specifically the one that has been actively pursuing me more than the others. I have known him for years. But thanks to your teachings I now know that I am his Pluto. It’s interesting because it looks like we both are each other’s Pluto. His Pluto is square my mars and MC and my Pluto is squared his Moon and also in the same sign as his north node. His Pluto is close to my south node but in the sign next to my south node. Also, his Pluto is almost on top of my Vertex in Libra and we share the same Moon sign which his Vertex is in as well. What does it mean if we both have these Pluto placements/alignments? Does that mean it would be very toxic? We have a ton of planets that are communicating in our charts too! Thanks for this info! 🤯🙏❤️

[@spiritfiyuh11]

Yeah I just checked and I have similar stuff going on. His pluto squares my moon and my pluto squares his moon.... We have mutual love for each other, I have been trough some really heavy plutonic relationships... And they felt completely different. I was obsessed with these people, beyond healthy. I don't have that with him.... In all actuality he was approaching me ever since we first met.. We both don't wanna lose touch with one another, because we both feel home when being with each other.. Still things don't work out the way I wish it would.... I was not in love with him when I first met him, he absolutely adored me... But I couldn't help but feeling home when being with him, I felt drawn to him, like he belonged into my life... It's not the typical plutonic vibe I'm used to.. Eventhough there for sure is some power struggle going on in a way that we're like black and white when it comes to the way we approach life and people in general... But there's a deep rooted love for one another...

[@GypsySparkle]

This, is Uranian genius 💗. I needed this, thank you for explaining. MJ transiting Pluto newly in Aqua is going into my 5th.. I know never to fear lessons but I was stalked once and went through this before, the Plutonian themes with power, jealousy. Had to take out a restraining order on somebody obsessive and creepy and all that . I became obsessive also . I hope this isn't what this Planet will bring into this house. It'll oppose my Leo stellium 😓, My natal Pluto is in my Libra 1st. Aye ♥️♥️

[@77HadassaH77]

You are the one who makes me want to pick up making videos about planetary alignments in a overview. Showing more than what you stated about singular aspects alone. Don’t forget that there is more than one aspect to consider. When there are A LOT of squares to Pluto in sensitive houses (depending on the planets) and with difficult Neptune, Sun and Uranus aspects to personal planets (mostly squares, oppositions and inconjunctions /quincunxes in all their charts). Yes! Then people should REALLY reconsider and think twice before they get too far in a connection. But you can’t state this argument for just one aspect on its own, in only one chart (synastry in this case).

[@user-og5uq5pm8i]

Do it!!! Yay you!!

[@treesmolthof7107]

Thank you, that was very helpful. 🙏🙏💖💖

[@clairnapier-mcdonald4185]

I've just spent the last 6 months questioning a relationship I've been caught up in who was appearing like a twin but just checked out their Pluto and they're opposite my sun! I nearly fell off my chair! Ha ha thankyou for the clarity, Finally, I'm out!!! And free for something way better 😄 Thank you MJ !!!🥰🥰🥰 what a ride life is!

[@adaccardo7702]

Taking back my power🙏🏻🕊🙏🏻I am simply amazing. And this is ok

[@user-ol4xz9id7v]

I'm the Pluto person...square his descendant, ascendant, Mars & opposition to him moon 🙈 It's a definite two way street of love and respect

[@lpllll10775]

Do you try to control the ascendant person?

[@jennifertaylor9232]

Soulmates won’t have hard aspects squares, opposition, conjunction to Pluto in charts but soft aspects like venus trine Pluto is actually one soulmate aspect but again tight orb. I only allow 3 degree orb though on some things up to 5 but no more. It’s even better if it’s a dual his trine hers and hers trine his. My twin and I share a Venus - moon double/ dual.

[@meridianmoon-2]

Amazingly interesting and “ah-ha” moments abound. Wow. Knew I was learning lessons but whole new level now. Thank you-cuz I was so low for feeling rejected and now I bet when I look at the charts-all will be revealed. Oi.

[@teodoradukovalangeveldt231]

Wooooow this is absolutely crazy. Good I can check who is who around me so I can be on my game

[@natashaletourneau5368]

Idk if you’ll ever read this… But my sister & I were 1 year & 3 days apart. (May 3rd 1987 & may 6th 1988) we were like twins but unfortunately she passed when we were 25 & 26… but our birth charts are so similar!!! I had no idea until right now… there’s a few differences but we both have almost the same chart! I’d love to see a video on almost matching charts & how that can effect ppl! Like my sister & I or like twins that are born at almost the same time… how it effects us! I know you’re a busy woman MJ but maybe one day you could touch on this??? I thank you for everything you’ve taught me!!! God bless 💫💫💫

[@sherriebrand1771]

Hmmm.. Now that you bring it up, I'd had a similar thought awhile back and I, for two (lol) would also be intrigued by MJ's perspective.. I know just reading your comment piqued my interest. And that's so cool what you and sis had going (so very sorry you lost her)!

[@natashaletourneau5368]

@@sherriebrand1771 TY.!!! Praying she sees this & finds time to teach us more on this subject!!! So I TY!!! 💫

[@elizabethkrupski5424]

I have a twin chart with my husband. He was born 27hrs after me. We have all the same aspects double whammied.

[@natashaletourneau5368]

@@elizabethkrupski5424 oh interesting!!! I’m guessing you have a lot in common & like a lot of the same things!

[@michelleasturi0629]

Looking forward to your video on venus in 12th house synastry!!

[@scooterjenn6321]

My twin and I both have pluto square each other's moon. My pluto is square my moon and conjunct my sun in my birth chart. I feel that it balances out because we are both the pluto person and we are both the moon person.

[@butterflybreath75]

Wow, wow, WOW. Your words are SO TRUE. I am in astrology school right now, I came to astrology to learn about myself and relationships and to help others. I met someone a year ago that I have had a very explosive off and on.... well, I can't even call it a "relationship" in the traditional sense. But yeah. I have Aries, Mars, Jupiter, and Chiron in my 7th house so I'm going to attract very "martian" wounded men. This one is just that and has Mars conjunct his ascendant. He leads the room with Mars, is very alpha and fiery. Myself, I have Pluto on my ascendant 😬 so I'm the Plutonian here that you speak of. I've identified our relationship as being lessons and issues about power and control, but it's because he wants to dominate me and be forceful. And you are right, I don't feel much at all at this point but it's because there has been so much clashing and challenge, at least that's what I'm telling myself. I can't be with him until I feel seen and feel like I matter when in his presence, which I don't seem to at the moment. I probably need to look at myself though, is what I'm gettting from your video.

[@butterflybreath75]

Pluto is not a “bad” planet. Just like other planets and signs, you can embody the lower vibration or the higher vibration. Plutonic/Scorpionic people (people with stronger Pluto/Scorpio placements) exist for a reason and without which, there would be no deep transformational change. I just took a look at our synastry chart and we have multiple aspects between both of our Plutos… so we are transforming each other. It just seems like you are demonizing the Plutonic person, but again, it really depends on the person and how able they are to embody the higher vibration of Pluto. My 2 cents as a Plutonic person on a spiritual Journey. ❤

[@user-mb4ge9oq3j]

🪻Waiting for Saturn in synastry chart, thank you!🪻

[@katiemcharness]

It’s been 11 years in a plutonic relationship. Her Libra Pluto is conjunct my moon. BUT…my Scorpio Pluto is conjunct MY Venus. Several Saturn aspects as well. Thank you for this video.

[@alllscination]

Interesting! Thank you for sharing your insight! MJ, what do you think of charts where there is not one Pluto person but both have Pluto aspects with one another? Could you maybe make a video on that? For example, a love or maybe The love of mine and I have Pluto in Scorpio in conjunction, for both of us Pluto is in conjunction with Cupido as well and my Pluto is semisquare their saturn while their Pluto is square both of my nodes, quincunx my Moon and trine my Sun and Chiron placement. I'd say we both affect each other pretty strongly and inspire change in each other but our relationship can get really tough and both of us have gotten so hurt that we have shut down and pulled back several times. And it seems to me like we both thought at times that the other person is not as invested as we oursevles are and that we care more about the other than they about us and were giving ourselves away and getting lost in the other, needing to create stronger boundaries and to learn to express our needs in a clearer more direct way. I think we have been passionately drawn together from the beginning but the problems did start after our relationship progressed to being sexual after being friends for a couple of years but both of us value our friendship more than the sexual connection and have tried to protect the friendship by trying to stay "just friends" which never really worked for long.^^ And unfortunately after 15 years of knowing each other we still haven't been able to work out how to learn and grow together in 3d. I find it very hard to differentiate here between a plutonic or mirror connection. My Venus and Mars are also in conjunction with their AntiVertex. Thank you for that video, too! I had never heard of the Vertex before watching it.

[@mtaylor8387]

Sounds like good stuff 😝

[@MysticRoseEnchantments]

MJ, thank you for doing this. Your research is invaluable. Quick question, you didn't mention ascendant in your list, but it does seem like an important aspect. So, what if their Pluto squares my ascendant? Thank you!!

[@page3529]

Example of as within so without? My plutonic partner and myself, always played a video game together right. We could NEVER get past the 35th level. Oh how much they can teach us though!! We finally gave up on everything, it's a stalemate! Shine on M.j. 💚 You rock!!

[@katetob]

I'm curious as to the dynamic when the pluto connections go both ways. I have a situation where both our plutos square the others moon, my Pluto square his venus, and his pluto opposite my mars and wide aspect opposite my sun. It's intense!

[@rindygood8546]

I was in a plutonic relationship for several years. I was the one hurt. Over a year later, I'm just getting my balance back. He was my kryponit.

[@michellemightysparrow9587]

Thank you for this information, it is very useful and I have so many questions like are there NEVER good Pluto aspects in a synastry chart?!? like is a Pluto in Virgo trining my natal Venus in taurus a light hearted fated lesson? and is my Pluto is conjoint their moon and Jupiter in Libra indications of an Ego activation in them?

[@spiritfiyuh11]

How come it be that even if we both have pluto squaring the other person's moon, that there is so much mutual love and caring... Sometimes it seems to me as if we're both the pluto person for one another... I've been through heavily, plutonic relationships.. And they've mostly been one-sided on my end... I was obsessed with them but they didn't care. This time around this person was obsessed with me and I wasn't crushing on them... But fell in love with them because of them being so loving.. Still there's definitely some powerstruggle... It's like we're switching sides.. One time he chases, one time I do... Weird dynamic.

[@colbeem4674]

I’m in this dynamic as well. Both of our plutos square each other’s moon. I wonder if it creates a balance somehow because there really is mutual love and caring here and feels very much like twin flame. Huge mutual lessons and so much healing and growth.

[@spiritfiyuh11]

@@colbeem4674 I absolutely agree... I also kinda have the feeling that in cases like that it is still a powerstruggle or heavy lesson... But it seems both individuals go through a very similar process.. And that somehow there is some kind of a balance to it in comparison to other plutonic relationships I've had.. Because both are going through kind of the same thing. I'm really curious what MJ has to say abt that (:

[@natashaletourneau5368]

I personally still don’t think it’s a good relationship… you said this time he was obsessed with you & you were not interested at first… that doesn’t sounds like not a mutual loving relationship even if it eventually feels it turned into that! But I honestly do t know because it’s not my life… My advice is to really sit & think! And follow your intuition! 💫

[@spiritfiyuh11]

@@natashaletourneau5368 yeah I agree. Well I guess in this case... It was more the fact that he was not my type.. But I still felt a strong connection and love for him. I even told him this in the beginning... I don't have a crush on you the way I usually have it... Rose tinted glasses and stuff... But I have lots of love for you... It was his personality and the way he treats me that made me fall in love with him.. Other than falling in love because he's so handsome you know.... For now, I pulled back a little because I realized where I'm being triggered... And that I really want him in my life but that there's obviously things that I need to work on within myself. So yeah.. For now that's exactly what I'm doing :) sit with it and listen to my gut. Which I think is the best way to handle any situation in life. Just thought it was interesting that it's obviously plutonic, but not in the way I experienced... Cause it seems to be mutual instead of one-sided.

[@natashaletourneau5368]

@@spiritfiyuh11 do exactly what you feel you should & not what you THINK you should do or what others want you to do!!! You know your relationship better than anyone else! I’m 35 & have been in 2 horrible relationships… I thought I wasted YEARS of my life but realized it was a lesson & it brought me to know my true self! I plan on staying single until I can heal myself more… I’m not saying you need to do this but it’s different for everyone! This channel helps me along with reading tarot for myself, journaling & learning every single placement in my chart! (Astrology is incredible to me!) Do what YOU feel is best my friend & remember to not make any fast decisions… & to listen to your gut! You are the only one who knows what is good for you! And also remember… there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back from any situation or relationship to think! Best of luck to you both my friend!!! 💫💫💫

[@zen-ful]

Many thanks MJ. 77 likes!

[@LeoMoon_Goddess]

Have pluto conjunct connections in synastry and I have nothing but ❤️ love!

[@Bianca_Myh]

I disagree. I was the Pluto person twice in hard aspects (conjunction, opposition) to their Sun and I was madly in love with both. Someone else's Pluto squares my Sun ... and I feel the same way. The deepest loves. I believe the energy goes both ways, with the Sun being mesmerizing by Pluto and Pluto feeling more trepidations due to fear of loosing the beloved (the Sun), who's independence is threatening. That's how I felt this from both perspectives.

[@Bianca_Myh]

@@user-vj4dz4xc5y In your situation , the energy flows both ways. The easy aspect might be able to smooth the hard aspect out. But you'll definitely feel a stronger sexual chemistry and magnetic pull due to the hard aspect, which is not always a bad thing. The obsession could feel like a nuisance as you'll feel like you want to be with that person 24/7, codependency issues might be present :P I've personally experienced a Trine and 2 Conjunctions. I was both Moon and Pluto. Moon can't let go of Pluto, the connection feels otherworldly. Too special to let go. Moon - Pluto aspects are very deep, soulful. Also felt both ways, but Pluto is more powerful here. It feels almost like you want to cuddle with that person and pull her/him closer and closer until you become one. That's how deep it feels. I've experienced 4 Sun-Pluto hard aspects. If Pluto is the man and there is no previous history (a steonger foundation) between the 2 people, the relationship might not take off. In Sun - Pluto hard aspects there is a lot of tension and ego clashes. Both people are very strong. The Sun wants Pluto badly and feels depressed about not being able to get through Pluto's walls (Pluto's baggage and darkness); there is a lot of resistance; the Sun feels as if he is hitting a wall in this relationship. Almost like trying to penetrate Pluto's darkness with his rays, but not being able to. Pluto wants what it wants out of the relationship, and is not backing down. Not to say that the Sun is right and Pluto is wrong. The Sun could be just infatuated with Pluto and not really take Pluto seriously ... and Pluto could feel that and back down, retreat or create boundaries. All Pluto wants is the Sun, but not the way the Sun is ... rather transformed, a different version of the Sun, that makes the Pluto person feel more secure and confident about the relationship. Depending who the Pluto person is. Pluto person could be a person with good intentions or an opportunist (wanting to change the Sun for the wrong reasons). There is a lot of anxiety present in this relationship. The Sun is more confident to show his feelings and obsession. Pluto is feeling things as intensely, however, is keeping his obsession hidden. He does obsessive "work" without letting the Sun know. Pluto will be like a PA finding out everything about the Sun. I feel the Sun is way way more obsessed in this contact than Pluto. Like, out of control obsession. With Sun - Pluto hard aspects, the Sun wants to punch Pluto in the nose. That's how annoying the dynamic is. Sorry Pluto people!! 😂 ✌️

[@jhbrian.]

@@Bianca_Myh Thank you for your insight. If feel that as long as Pluto tries to change the Sun, it will never work. No one likes to be forced/controlled, it is a recipe for resentment. Plus, no growth can happen when things get forced & when there is an absence of acceptance of the other As they Are. Ultimately, love accepts the other Totally, as they are, and would never want to alter/change the other for selfish ends. If they do, then there was never any love in the first place.. Someone can only change from their own being, in a real soil of mutual acceptance, harmony, love. Anything forced will only backfire. glad I walked away from pluto.

[@researchclue2020]

Wow!! Good to know! My narcissistic ex had this!

[@christyannceraso]

He’s got a Pluto square Venus in his natal chart My Pluto trines his Venus, his Pluto trines my moon I think we’re twin flames, I left another connect about all the synastry contacts on the vertex video. But he’s acting out his square. Also his Uranus opposite his moon.

[@lillianlilo7447]

This is not entirely accurate it isn't just one way with double whammys. I'm with a pluto man and we have lots of DW W pluto to our personal planets. As well as easy Saturn aspects and and jupiter conjunct juno. We are both plutonic people and we don't find our relationship toxic or power gamed. We are fiercely protective of each other and won't let anyone become between us to kick jealousy to the curb. You forgot to also mention pluto is a deep deep love not only psychically but emotionally too.

[@sil9458]

I don’t agree with your analysis and suggestions. Full chart should be looked at. My Pluto is conjunct the mars and mercury of a man that I have strong feelings for and his Pluto is square my moon. I cater to him. We love each other although we are not together at the moment because of some childishness on both sides. He has his Saturn conjunct my moon and that affects me too. We have mars, Venus, Pluto and Jupiter conjunction in Scorpio in composite.

[@elenigrigoriadis3376]

Thank you very much for this Podcast. How do you see real love in Synastrie? Once Jupiter conjunct others Venus?

[@amarie2877]

I'm not sure I understand. Unfortunately, with my personal planets the way they are it seems like anyone with Pluto in Virgo like me (1958 to 1971 I think) will square my moon, ascendant, Venus and nodes, and conjunct my Mars with that particular Pluto. Am I missing something?

[@katherinemarkowitz4783]

I don't always agree with this, I have Pluto opposite the Sun with my twin (we are ABSOLUTELY twins, proven by both a very talented medium who works with Charlotte of happy twins , but more importantly verified by the SCIO, and Ella of Return to one, which can see the twin ring in twins and verify them) now its not really a factor beyond this(I'm Pluto by the way and the divine feminine, they are the sun), but the way Pluto is read in evolutionary astrology is quite different than traditionally, and I tend to think BOTH have merit. oh even more importantly.... it's verified by me. Anyway we do both love each other, and I'm the divine feminine and the one who obviously seems like they care more, and this is opposite the picture you are painting (although he does play power games with his karmics, he's never really done that with me. and I'm Pluto not him)

[@jhbrian.]

Compatibility exists. Divine synchronicity / harmony, yes. Past-life encounters, very probably yes. But “TF” is a human-made term / name / label, a coined / invented word. A concept / beautiful invention. That term TF is all based on Romanticism ( = repressed sex-energy ) running wild… It appeals to the imagination / the projecting Ego-entity. ~

[@sherriebrand1771]

Hellooooooo!!🙋💞🤗 Late to the table ah-gain.. but catching up at a good pace here, all the while hanging on every insightul word! Perhaps a drawback is too much in the retention area [not] catching up with ME, lol.. Big clue is that I keep forgetting what makes someone the other's Pluto person? I'll write it down if I have to.. Also (and I imagine this coming up, too) is there a general way to find our "person-in-question's" lol EXACT time of birth?🤷🏻🙋

[@EmmaB677]

This is really interesting but I have twin flame synastry ( south node synastry/ascendant etc) but I have Pluto Synastry. I’m the Pluto person snd I care deeply about my person. So I’m confused.

[@tennesseantaroist3889]

What does it mean in a synastry chart when each persons pluto is in adjacent houses? They can’t see each other? I’m confused. I tried looking it up and just don’t have the resources to find a good answer.

[@alinatanase4104]

Hello, MJ! Thank you for this video! How about Pluto conjunct with Pluto, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn? is this plutonic, karmic or something else?

[@nenaj1]

We have pluto trine moon. My pluto in his 8th house and his moon in my 8th house. Thank god it’s a trine.

[@marym5037]

How significant are his pluto in my 8th house, my Pluto conjunct his IC, my north node conjunct his pluto, my sun square his pluto, and his pluto square my moon?

[@user-og5uq5pm8i]

Guys, take all of this with a grain of salt. You are clearly here for self-discovery. Focus on that. Be careful with any information that tells you definitively what to believe or how to see something. Pluto can be power hungry, but it can also be transformative for good. And the plant person can be just as blind and manipulative. Don't just assume that if you are the Pluto person or the Planet person that you can now settle into a particular role and that is how it will continue to be. Hone your intuition, then listen to it. That will be your greatest ally and best way of really knowing where you stand and what steps to take in ANY situation. "Toxic" is deeper than the so called experts have been saying. It's all about resonance. There are no toxic people or situations. They only feel toxic to you because you have stayed too long in a situation or with a person or your own quality you have outgrown. They or it no longer matches you, and the feeling of toxicity is you. A message its time to make a move. Wake up. You can do it. Your highest self exists now. Step into it.

[@kristinavega9248]

Hey MJ if you can do a Synastry chart on myself and partner?

[@somewhereoverit711]

I have my Pluto in Scorpio 1st house, and he has his Pluto in Scorpio 7th house. Both Geminis, he's Taurus ascendant 1st house and i'm Scorpio Ascendant 1st house. Almost every house is 6 houses apart in the same signs or complete opposite signs. But there is no complete overlap in houses

[@1111fairy]

I believe i have a plutonic twin flame. But I am a scorpio though so perhaps that explains it idk.

[@JennySparks23]

We have this synastry (my Moon in Scorpio and hers in Pluto) but we also have the corollary: my Pluto in Virgo and hers in Sun/Venus/Mercury/Mars. And when we first met it was sex at first and I instantly felt the energy but she didn’t, but we then became very intimate. But then it just as quickly went downhill and j became obsessive. But my Vertex is in Virgo and her South Node is Libra. Plus her ascendant squares my Sun. We’ve also had unbelievable synchronicities and her energy was a direct catalyst for my awakening. Still not sure if she’s a karmic or twin flame

[@RLybarger1986]

I wish I didn't wait so long to watch this. But what does someone do once the damage is done?

[@SpiritualAva78]

My Pluto is square his sun😅 this makes so much sense now. No wonder! 🙈🙈🙈 but i am the more spiritually evolved person here and i did have feelings for him but then i had cut him off cuz he got obsessed and destructive. But it did help me move more towards learning how to not be so self centered and open my heart to feelings and emotions. But definitely had to end it. He got super abusive mentally emotionally and physically! 💣💥🔥🖤 Thank you so much for this!! 🙌😇💚

[@abdulmateenmaher6956]

I have the same aspect with an ex and your description is right on point. Am the Sun and she the Pluto. Yes, she break up with me. But I didn't not chase her back or i guess I knew it's gonna be power struggle forward.

[@abdulmateenmaher6956]

The obsession though is f**king real and hurt like f**k!

[@Angel777-zs6rk]

Elizabeth Clare prophet was a twin flame, she speaks about astrology and everything in her chart and marks they should’ve never of been together!

[@samanthastief9343]

And we both share pluto in scorpio, and my north node is in scorpio

[@crystaleastham1177]

My husband and I have so many pluto aspects that are both ways. My pluto square his sun, his pluto sextile my venus, both our moons are aspected by each others pluto and my n node trine his pluto, my mars square his pluto, my pluto opposite his n node, my pluto square his mercury. Man I just keep finding them. We've been together for almost 10yrs and it's been a little crazy you could say

[@NF-wo5ec]

I wish I knew this 20 years ago. I’ve been married to my plutonic and it’s been such a difficult connection.

[@Braydersmomma]

In other videos you talk about it needing to be no more than 2 orbs because it's weak, is that the same for this?

[@SherpaxWoman]

My Pluto touches 3 of his personal planets (conjunct sun,mars, and trine moon and conjunct lilith) and his Pluto touches 3 of mine (opposite Venus and mars, and trine moon, and conjunct Uranus). I got the feeling that we were married in a past life.

[@MeaganMadsonDivineChannelGuide]

"sex at first sight" is not twin flame... it's trauma bonding BIG difference

[@gwen296]

I have pisces rising, aries north node and personal planets in sag and scorpio. Venus-pluto are conjunct. So, a person with pluto in scorpio or sag will conjunct my personal planets, a libra pluto will be opposite my north node, and virgo pluto will be in my 7 house. So that rules out almost everyone for me. Any suggestions here?

[@cindykerbrat2976]

What about Pluto conjuncting someone ascendant or descendant, or any other major angles like 4th, or 10th.?

[@whatshappening914]

Mary Jo, I left a comment on your vertex video the other day. I'm posting it here as a refresher because after watching this, I'm not sure what this relationship was. His Pluto squares my sun, but we also have all of these aspects. What do you make of this?? : Mary Jo ~ How’s this for synastry? Vertex: both in 8th house of Cancer, mine at 20° 30’, his is 20° 17’; same moon in 7th house of Gemini, mine 17° 42’, his 15° 42’; same ascendent in Sagittarius, mine at 06° 55’, his at 06° 53’; and the same Mars placement (although his is retrograde), both in our 9th house of Leo, mine at 25° 24’, his at 23° 47’. So, do you think we have something going on here? P.S. now that I think about it, my Pluto squares his moon as well since we both have almost the exact same ascendant, only two minutes apart, and our moon placements are the same as well. This is all so fascinating.

[@whatshappening914]

@@TheAnimeMiMi oh, he did. BIG time!

[@crystalbenwell5761]

Thank you! Can a DM and DF switch between twin flames?

[@staceykensley1491]

Hey, his pluto is in conjuction with my venus and Mercury. Not good hey? I been feeling like I am investing more than him

[@minuit6305]

Dear god i have a plutonic relationship with my mother!!!!!! ALL my personal planets are aspecting her damn pluto. She is quite controlling. Im not obsessed with her *shudders* but i do have intense codependent issues. I escaped ONCE and i flourished while she stalked and insulted me. I came back after i had a stroke and couldn't take care of myself. Truly a nightmare.

[@cherylblackmon614]

I have Pluto to his Mars but he has 3 Pluto with Mercury Saturn and X MC

[@freespirit12]

Uhmmm, I am the plutonic person but I do care about him. I did research and dig deeper with our connection. Why I am drawn to him even after breaking up thrice until I gathered a lot of courage that it was not working at all after giving it several chances. Also, I am too overwhelmed with the power struggles and the obsession ( I am even surprised I become like this). I feel drained and out of control so I decided to break away and have no contact with him. I don't want us to be in pain while the issues keep on repeating even I tried to communicate those with him. We both hurt each other but it doesn't mean I didn't love him at all. 😢

[@panditicb]

Ok we have a mutual Pluto connection, My Pluto trines his Sun , opposition his Mars, squares his Moon , sextile his Neptune while his Pluto is in opposition with my Vertex, squares my Mars, sextiles my Venus and Jupiter. What does it all mean then ?

[@stephaniewood7611]

Do you offer personal synastry readings?

[@colbeem4674]

Does it have to be exact? For a square? (Or by how many degrees?) Also, what if both people have the same (Pluto squaring the others moon)?

[@codename_lucky]

TECHNICAL QUESTION 🤔 How close do these aspects need to be in degrees? Anybody know? Many TIA

[@colbeem4674]

I’m curious about this too

[@JA99]

My pluto is square his mercury. I wonder how that played out on his end.

[@donnajean9805]

Do you also look at the composite chart?