Twin Flame Runner and Justification

[@UnapologeticallySuccessful]

I wish I would have known about this five or six years ago. I am fine now, but it would have been so much easier to have an explanation for the turmoil. This journey is like a personal training- making sure you stay focused and become the most powerful force and unconditional love towards yourself and the world.

[@Kingof69ner]

I'm done chasing. I don't chase, I attract. What is meant for me will simply find me

[@mitsuha4788]

Yeah that’s what they all say😂

[@Kingof69ner]

@mitsuha4788 What's the point of Chasing?

[@Flufero23]

Very informative, as always. My twin has not returned. He monkey branched to another 15 months ago after four years with me. He did the slow fade for years before finally leaving. He wanted to be friends. Nope. I let him go without tears or drama. NC forever for me. DNOTS was painful, but inner work has paid off.. My chasing has been energetic, no begging, no stalking, no checking social media. . I have stopped chasing, working on those thoughts that cross my mind.. After inner work each day for 15 months, I feel non-attached. I really don't care either way. I feel neutral. Not sure I even want him back. If he returns and we go through another separation, I would probably say, "Oh well, it is what it is." 🙏💕😂

[@LaylaMusic333]

This is spot on. 100%. I was the observer in my twin flames last ego spiral. He wanted to postpone our phone call because he was tired. He was waiting for my response as an excuse to run. It wouldn't have mattered how I responded. 2 weeks later..... I did not chase. He rang me last night a shattered mess saying he's set a date to move to my country and can't live without me. My ego would have desired this more than breathing at one point. What an incredible growth I've been through in the last 2 weeks since his running. I found a place of not caring whether he came back or not. Then he came bursting through the front door. He will come here, I know that. And I won't be surprised if he also goes home for a while as well. I know what to expect this time. I need to stay in soul and as the observer through it all.

[@spiritfiyuh11]

How i love divine resonance ❤ This comes exactly at the right time!! Thank you Alexx 🌟

[@EarthstarRising]

Ha ha, this is exactly what my win did 3 years ago. We were speaking, everything was fine, he then said he had trust issues. I said we could speak about them after I finished working with a client. His last line was My beautiful AnneMarie, then block. I have not heard from him on a physical level for 3 years. At first I was devastated, I thought I was going to die. Now I am moving forward in my life, I have learnt and shifted so much. I am grateful to him for what I have learnt, but am so not attached to any outcome. Funny cos in the past, it was like my life depended upon it. Thankyou xoxoxo

[@the_blue_lotus_portal]

Last time, he said "when are you going to realize theres a BEAST in me and im never going to fulfill your bullshit fantasy?" I WAS shell shocked. I was like what just happened??? He likes to think of himself as dark, it's like a fetish, ive always seen his darkness and light and beyond both, I love him fully, but he wants to put me on a pedestal and accuse me of doing that to him too. I was non-reactive and we worked it out after a few days, but shortly after that, he bolted. This video does help! Will work on finding the humor. You're right, at that point there was no chance in hell, he was in his own world spinning and fighting, it's like i wasn't even there. Staying in equilibrium and in my own lane.

[@SinergiasHolisticas]

Because in the..end..Only..Love..Remains...

[@notearz76]

Thanks as always for the clarity today, Alexx. Hope all is well.

[@vickydetullio]

I met my twin randomly as I resonated completely to a TikTok of his landing exactly in my fyp. He was feeling lonely and so I was although my amazing relationship with my soulmate and fiance (we’ve been dating for 1.3 yrs so far and have a lot of memories together, we love each other a lot). After two months we now resonate so much with each other I am triggered because I don’t know if I should stay with my soulmate or go with my twin. I’m clearly happier with my twin and feel more understood, we always say we’re different from everyone else and we feel often same things and feel like a mirror of each other, but my soulmate gives me peace, ease and gives me princess treatment. I’m so scared. My twin is 6h train far from me but we might see each other irl in a couple weeks from now or less. I’m hurting and so is my soulmate. He doesn’t want to lose me but idk what’s right for me

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

This is so spot on!!! Last time in person he said, 'the way the light was landing on you through the window. I've never seen you in that light before. I was starting struck' then in the next breath asked me if he cleaned up a bit if I would want to be seen in public with him like huh? And you absolutely correct this has been the longest separation. It's been three and a half years

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

*starstruck

[@bianca-soul]

Thanks for your explanation. It’s really how he responds and justifies his words to end it . I was really in shock what happened out off the blue he changes constantly his opinion after a trigger and really believes his own words. All I said nothing helps. 😅

[@gritgirl.8462]

I laughed during this video as you described everything that went on. I’m dealing with a Scorpio twin to boot so it’s been a fun ride. He was nice enough to tell me he was bailing and whispered in my ear, with tears streaming down his face, to “do good”. It’s been over two years. MY growth has been immense and I’m grateful for it. What will be will be.

[@lynnewogan5591]

@@gritgirl.8462 it took me two year to figure out what hsppened lol powerful ..I’m calming down some but I can tell I’m not ready so thst tells me he’s not either

[@gritgirl.8462]

@ the moment I talked about happened to be 17 months from “separation” beginning, although it was 17 months of in and out energy, like he couldn’t leave quite yet. At least not while I was in the worst of the worst. Once I was in a better place he took his leave and here we are. Good luck my friend!! It’s a WILD ride but it gets better, one minute at a time. Journaling was extremely helpful. I could go back and see my progress.

[@alchemicalsoul]

I'm a Leo with a Scorpio twin. Good times indeed.

[@lynnewogan5591]

Mines weirdest one was defending third party relationship And said it was very painful for him when in a previous relationship the roles were reversed and someone rejected him like he was rejecting me but he picked himself up And hit the ground running and I should do the same . That one really felt twisted for me. He just doesn’t want to feel guilt for rejecting me so telling me how I should handle it just like he did .

[@vickydetullio]

That is exactly what I might do with my twin if I won’t make up my mind

[@lynnewogan5591]

@@vickydetulliobut then I say ok I want out of this connection and he doesn’t want that either he suddenly gets very understanding in same message and refuses to end it tells me to take some time to reflect and to accept that he does care about me ..mixed messages

[@user-nw8gs7mw6r]

Hi! Have been watching your videos, great content! Thanks :) I have two question I's like to share... first is about the popular topic - chaser wanting (a lot!) the runner to came back during separation... My experience only but I'm curious if resonates with someone... After sometime after separation, breakdown, starting "waking up", as I called lol etc... At that point I realized I very much love and wanna to be with them, as I say now in the 3d, but I don't want it if they don't go thru this "awakening" too in any shape, form or level. It woun't even work, for sure. Did you guys felt this way too? Second... I always could see thru their Ego-mask, it was weird and I don't like it but it didn't bored much because it was there for others like when socializing, but with me it cracks, just dissapear. I just though it was a very cool thing about us and didn't thought much about it back then. We talked about Ego many times under more of phylosofical aproachs, I felt like it was confessions from the soul. Now I'm getting to know about twin flames and ego degradation that memory popped to my mind. TF's see thru the ego's of each other? I'm sorry if you already talked about it, I just recently found about all this. Thank you so much, sometimes I'd got really afraid I was going crazy.

[@manabesh30]

Thank you... Thank you... Thank you.... Thank you 💯

[@wearethesamenergy]

You're welcome! 😊

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

This was so great. 🎉

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@bdsmtherapyisthekey I'm glad it resonated!

[@joshcassidy84]

Wow.. I’ve been on the journey and conscious of the script it’s followed. But haven’t had such specific nuances - that’s exactly what happened

[@ortaltrabelsi]

In our case, a little thing always drives him to use a "real" 3d excuse- I can’t handle you having children/ I don’t want to leave my house etc.

[@Amethystvein_theeternalflame]

LOVE THIS🎉 universe is my oyster hmmm

[@samanthacringe7123]

Quick question about the soul tribe. I met the outlier in my life, but would I be the outlier for him as well? Does it go both ways?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes

[@freshfacedb1981]

my twin sited that his life was too complicated right now the first time he cancelled a date. as if he were a victim. the second time he asked me out on my birthday of which i do not know if he knew it was. when i said so are u trying to get to know me? he cancelled saying it was more of an obligation than anything else. i initiated the reschedule and then i got back after we said next month due to travel and stopped it. i said my behavior is ridiculous. you know where i stand. im done chasing you! have not chased him since. i go in phases where i dont care then ill be slammed with emotions i need to let go. ill go to bed and think i just do not care about anything right now and have a vivid dream that he tells me he is ready and wants to be with me. so i just keep on track, being resilient and focused on my life.. but it is true i feel him coming back like a freight train. there is no reason in the 3 d to believe it but the feeling never goes away that we will marry. we have never dated yet. we knew each other at 16. now i am 60. the other day i saw his girlfriend?? who he told me he will never marry and she knows it and it was so strange we were wearing the same outfit! 😂. what was that!!??

[@wearethesamenergy]

My Twin and I will have a video out on Patreon regarding this exact topic in January.

[@LaceyHayward]

So this sounds like something o nearly did to my macro but i intentionally became self aware and forced myself to just go and tell her she hurt my feelings. I'm wondering if maybe she is my twin, and that i am the runner. I only ever chased anyone who i thought was my twin, i don't feel the NEED to chase her. Though sometimes i want to... is there a way to identify which one i am out of runner or chaser and which one i am out of masculine and feminine? And is it true that the masculine is usually the runner?

[@trishstewart121]

❤❤❤

[@Honeybee333_3]

Can you do a video on how to navigate around family and friends who do not like the twin flame because they've seen how much pain they've brought you? Makes it extremely difficult when the twin comes back to try to explain it's actually not some kind of toxic relationship..

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes, I'll add it to my list. But you may also want to watch "No One Understands the Twin Flame"

[@10Celina18]

💯🎯

[@Kingof69ner]

I have a question, did you have obsessive thoughts about the runner during the very first separation whenever you started going through ego Degradation?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Twin Flame or Obsession," "Twin Flame Stages" and a bunch more videos on my Twin Flames playlist

[@Kingof69ner]

@wearethesamenergy I've watched that video already

[@Kingof69ner]

Why don't they just meditate?

[@Dmwapoasj]

Alexx your book needs to be translated in every language possible pls 💫

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would love that. It's about $10,000 per language, though!

[@rpansegrau4235]

Use AI

[@InnerUnionEva]

😂this was really good!

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

I was laughing so hard!!! It's so petfect

[@polestarexperience7703]

the 'super strange exchange' isn't that in my case. he literally taunts me and makes me feel like the devil, thrusting me into full-blown DNOTS because how can an ascended being say that and if they do they must be right. i really need help they've put me in the worst vibration because there's an extra element here which is the ascended being bit.

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

Omg!!!😂. I went for a walk and he accused me of having sex with someone in the Broadway tunnel in SF I relate!!!!

[@lynnewogan5591]

@@bdsmtherapyisthekey funny but not

[@lynnewogan5591]

Mine accused me of having a “list” of people I would t want him to talk to if he dared to care about me ..

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

I'm wondering though like I've said in previous comments I felt like I had reached 5D Union and I was so content and peaceful and I felt him but not in a chasing runner kind of way and then just about a month ago he emailed me and now my ego is going crazy and I feel like I'm in chaser energy again and it's really confusing. If I purchase your chaser videos will this help me with this?

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

Oh and just to add I never answered the email because my ego is terrified so maybe I have more healing to do?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Watch "Twin Flame Role Reversal," and you also may want to join our Patreon, because we have a video coming out on this early next year, but we also have a beautiful community over there.

[@mickeyc2137]

My runner never justifies. (Except the last time when he said i went nuts on him simply for giving him a boundary) He simply ghosts and then just comes back without saying anything about running or offering any excuses or apologies 😅

[@wearethesamenergy]

That's a Karmic

[@mickeyc2137]

@@wearethesamenergy its def not he has been confirmed to be my twin flame in many different ways many different times over.

[@bdsmtherapyisthekey]

​@@mickeyc2137watch all her videos

[@archanadash2605]

Well, my twin chose to get married. I do question now if he was really my twin but as you said.... I have made a immense personal growth after meeting him but I cannot comprehend his decision.... Any insight will be helpful Alexx. Thanks

[@wearethesamenergy]

Maybe watch "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family"

[@Minu11-q1d]

Hey 🪽 few days back we met and we kissed that was the most satisfying feeling I ever felt but he's in a relationship with someone else but we kissed now I'm sad and happy sad because what we did was not right and happy because that moment was like a heaven everything stopped for a moment Please tell me what to do 🥺

[@deedoggs2822]

How do you end up back with them? They message you and you just go running back to someone who ghosted and rejected you for a few months? I just can't stand that i may just be that female that accepts disrespectful behavior.

[@wearethesamenergy]

No, if that's what's happening, they are not a Twin but instead a Karmic

[@deedoggs2822]

@wearethesamenergy ghosting isn't part of the twin flame signs?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Ghosting versus Twin Flame Separation" video

[@deedoggs2822]

@wearethesamenergy I just re-watched it. His ghosting isn't like what you say, just meet a few dates. We had a fantastic bubble time, then all hell broke lose. I hear from him or I run into him. I was hoping for karmic because I would love to put this all behind me. Lol. I do have your book❤️

[@AM-bf2iv]

Do they tell to DF that he doesn 't love her, to?

[@wearethesamenergy]

No, they'll never say they don't love the Twin

[@AM-bf2iv]

@@wearethesamenergy But first he sad to me that he love me, and I asked him again and he denied by fear, I feel it. That can happen?

[@renabjha4247]

Alex my twin does not really communicate anything truly with me and it’s been 4 months since no contact , I left the city after that I told him about the connection , he just liked the message and left , I tried contacting but did they not make any efffort , why does he never communicate anything ? Why does he not want to?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You may want to read my book, I talk about it in there.

[@Burak_abi]

Honestly idk what to think. What about mental illness?

[@wearethesamenergy]

What about it?

[@Burak_abi]

That i felt everything the concept describes and spoke to her about what i felt the first time without even knowing the concept of tf, but my person has a mental health issue and how the whole concept feels impossible in this situation and it comes with so many complications.

[@alchemicalsoul]

Your twin is Jenny. You are Forrest Gump.