Twin Flames Q&A (Part 3)

[@alexandra80250]

Omggg!! I can't believe that you're twin is from Romaniaaaa! I'm from Romania❤ sending love, you're videos are very helpful. 🥰

[@evey1012]

I’ve always felt there was someone who I needed to find. As a child I used to cry in bed thinking of that person and always dreamed of marrying that person . I don’t feel that way anymore, I now know who he is. We’re not together, but I no longer feel the need to look for him.

[@keejackson2121]

I truly appreciate your work on this subject. I am 100% on this journey and to witness someone who have been on this journey and is using the language that I speak inwardly is a blessing. Thank you!

[@sctb00]

I’m not on a TF journey, but so many things in this video resonated. Self-worth, triggers, moving, separation… thank you for this, Alexx!

[@eceerdem317]

Oh also btw this explosion of creativity after meeting was so so true. I started writing poems like crazy out of nowhere and I felt like they were poems that came out of that empty deep place of noncreation, into existence like a place ive never touced before in me. Then i started composing music, it was such a state of muse.

[@danalana111]

I also started writing poems and sometimes I wonder if it was me who wrote them. It´s like therapy for me. And I made a sketch video about us before I even realized that he is my twin

[@jessicadiane2123]

I really appreciate the transparency from this channel❤ 6 years of separation, knowing each-other only 3. I still hold some hope we will physically communicate again.

[@tinanadzan1320]

Thank you so much again for all that you do and share with the TF collective. You absolutely provide the most realist information I’ve come across in my search for understanding. I’ve been reading and listening for almost 2 years- following the first time my twin ran. His running triggered my awakening.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm so glad everything resonates! Thank you for your support! 🙏💜

[@cristinamariaagnes9239]

Wow, the moving around thing resonated so much, I have been living in five countries and like 19-20 homes in the last 9 years, and have always been obsessed with going back to Spain, which I have several times. My tf lives there, but I didn't know why this obsession with Spain until later. I am from Transylvania, Romania. Hi there. :)

[@wearethesamenergy]

Totally makes sense! And love that you're from Romania! Hi over there 🙂🙏

[@Tiilii1997]

Hi Alexx! Thank you so much for this video!! I asked question 19... Your answer gives me ALOT to reflect and think about. Two week ago I felt SO drained and frustrated by the whole situation between my TF and me (being 'friends').. so I wrote her a letter, in which I told her how I felt, how difficult this whole situatin felt and I asked her what she wanted from this point going forward. I don't know if I did the right thing by doing this... Because I feel like this will propably still keep us both stuck in Ego..?? I aslo thought about asking for some space (but I didn't)... because I know that this will hurt my TF so much.. (I feel like I'm oversharing right now on the Internet, sorry for that😂 But...) She happend to have received and read the letter TODAY (she hasn't answered my questions yet). And now I'm hearing your answer TODAY... today feels weird, haha. But do you think that asking for my own space (or something else) will make this situation any better for the both of us?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Please don't ever doubt your choices, feelings, or actions when it comes to what you feel is best for you. That's not to say impulsivity is "positive," but you've been sitting in this for a long time, so I know that you're not functioning off of impulsive Egoic actions. You can't predict what will actually hurt your Twin's Ego. Those things are still valuable learning tools for her. You also can't make choices for your Twin based on the assumptions of "knowing" what she'll feel. That's why it's always best to focus on YOUR needs, healing, growth, expansion. Keeping yourself in limbo so you don't hurt her is keeping yourself in Chaser energy.

[@Tiilii1997]

@@wearethesamenergy Thank you for this insight!💚

[@missmedieval]

Thank-you. This was informative and concise. I'm still working through your book and it's blowing my mind..😂❤

[@wearethesamenergy]

Thank you for your support!!

[@missmedieval]

@@wearethesamenergy thank YOU for the support. How would you feel about my quoting from your book on my Medium articles about TFs if it was suitable to my own material on the subject?

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would love it and be honored. Do me a favor and send me a message via my website contact form and we can chat more. I'd love to link your articles in the "press" section of my site

[@missmedieval]

I will do that and look forward to chatting!!

[@wearethesamenergy]

@missmedieval If you sent me a message on my website, can you please send it again? Mercury Rx had my contact form not sending any information through!

[@wonderrwall1855]

First, I wanted to thank you for all of these videos and how honest you are with us. It makes SUCH a big difference and I can't thank you enough for your guidance. Second, I wanted to just say this because I just bought your Non-Attachment videos and started to watch some of it and the first question in this video just made a lot of things click for me. You mention that non-attachment is essentially submitting to your higher self and trusting that whatever happens in this lifetime is for your higher self in order to learn, grow, heal. After watching this video and hearing your answer to Q1, it made me realize that my higher self most definitely caused a separation to occur because I got so caught up in my ego and was just acting on impulse and whatever made sense to me in the moment. Looking back, I realize that I was acting so erratically and just out of fear because my twin triggered a LOT of wounds and so NOW it makes sense to why separation happened. But had I not trusted my higher self, I would've continued to chase him down and not embark on this intense healing journey that I’ve been on. I've grown so much as a person that I just can't even understand or even think that in 7 months, I managed to change so much. So the higher self can cause separation to happen, even if it means bringing in a third party to cause that, right? Thank you!

[@wearethesamenergy]

YES! And I'm so glad you noticed what the Ego was doing! 💜💜

[@wonderrwall1855]

@@wearethesamenergy Follow up question for you, can divine intervention come in even during separation when your ego starts acting up again? I started to act off of my ego as of recently (checking his socials) and I was typically able to stop this throughout the past several months, but this week I just felt such a strong urge to and then found out that he's with someone else. I don't know if this is a karmic relationship or whatever, but can divine intervention happen to put you "back into place" or to kind of like "slap you back into reality"?

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@wonderrwall1855 Look towards the clair senses, not Divine Timing. You already knew what was going on; the Ego just needed to "prove it."

[@wonderrwall1855]

@@wearethesamenergy I watched your video about clair senses and it seems as though they have gotten more prominent ever since embarking on this spiritual awakening journey that I've been on. Which is normal? And then, this might just be my ego wanting confirmation for something I know deep down, but when you mentioned in this video that the Higher Self is always pulling twins together, could is also be possible for the Higher Self to keep them away during separation especially after the ego starts acting up again? Energetically, I had a lot of things end when separation started (like thinking I wanted to get a new phone because the new phone didn't text him or have his number on it) and a couple days after thinking that, my phone broke...

[@MarusaTusar]

Thank you for all your answers!! Means a lot❤ And about the feeling of abandoment - this gives me hope that it is there for a reason..

[@Flufero23]

OMG, so much of this video resonated with me. I learned so much. When I doubt that I have a TF connection, I watch your videos or read your book. (My intuition also says "Yes". ) I used to feel like I was looking at a male version of myself . Even old sports injuries are the same. Weird. My TF wanted to remain "friends" even though he ran to another. NOPE!!! At separation 8 months ago, I thanked him for his help during our four years, wished him well, and let him go. We text once in awhile. No blocking, no ill will.... A short birthday text to him today....I was intrigued by your moving around and your fascination with Gypsies and Romania. I have been fascinated and obsessed with Gitanos and Flamenco since I was 6. Folks thought I was "weird", but I felt " normal ". I studied and danced many years until age caught up with me (82). Anyway, I mention that to say I will now study Flamenco singing. This is a new endeavor along with time for family, friends, activities, etc. As I focus on myself and continue inner work, A new life is opening up for me. I still think about my twin. More mindfulness practice should help with that. As far as my twin returning is concerned, I leave it all in the hands of the Divine.

[@francescocalemma]

I study flamenco in London!

[@clareeeeee1]

Question 8 is crazy, like you I have abandonment as a core karmic lesson and although when my twin runs it feels devastating at first, I really don’t care after I get over the initial grief period. Where as with other relationships, I would obsess over it and feel “less than” if someone left or ghosted. A lot of what you’re saying you felt / feeling in general it’s fascinating to me because I’ve had these same thoughts. Now that I’m over the rumination, I’m not angry that my twins not in my life romantic wise, I’m angry that he’s not in my life because I’m probably not learning enough 🤣

[@wearethesamenergy]

You don't need your Twin to learn, though I completely understand that worry or feeling that you're not going to grow enough on your own without them catalyzing you. I promise you got this!

[@pepijnschermer5002]

Thank you for all your videos, it really helped me understand a lot of stuff that's been going on for the last couple of years!

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm so glad they've resonated!

[@carinareifert8594]

My God❣️🙏🏼 You helped me so much right now. I’ve been on this so called journey since New Year’s Eve in 2007. It’s been a freaking rollercoaster. Back then there where no information for me to understand what the heck was going on. 😵‍💫😬 I’ve been trying to be “friends” with my other self for years and years and finally, today you gave me the epiphany ❤️🙏🏼❤️ Since 2020 things started to shift in me and I new I could not go back to the old way of being. But a strong EGO finds its way, sneaky as 😈so the carousel kept going…..friends because of fear of letting go (big abandonment issues😭) But two moths ago I said fuck this, I can’t take it anymore. I’m out, I’m done…and things shifted and two weeks ago I found YOU😍 I’m now finally more grounded and focusing only on myself because the only way left now is HOME. My higher Self had to push me REAL HARD! 😂🤣 And what ever is happening in the 3D from now on I know he’s me and I’m him….💕 WeAreTheSame❤ Thank U Alexx❣️🙏🏼❤️

[@wearethesamenergy]

YESSSS!!!

[@carinareifert8594]

❤

[@samanthacringe7123]

Thank you, you have no idea how much your videos and book have helped me on my journey 🩷

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm so happy to hear that!

[@eceerdem317]

Its so freaking scary that we met right before covid too, a couple of months ago, where i went to pakistan, im turkish. I always thought i would go to india, it always pulled me the culture food everything about it and then i found yoga in my life and i Ended up in pakistan. I met my spiritual teacher whom immediately upon meeting i recognized as my tribal leader but definetly not my twin flame. He came to turkey for me and it was pretty clear. When i went to pakistan to visit him, he is an enlightened Sufi, there in the same day i met my twin flame, who was also under the same umbrella of our Spiritual guide. And it was a shaking recognition to the core. After 3 weeks i went back to turkey and in a few months covid came and everyrthing shut down! then coming back, seperations, coming going. 2024 Im back to turkey, just was having the realest conversation we ever had yesterday on the phone. He was telling me that he is so so afraid of me. That his whole being is collapsing and that he feels like i know him even better than he knows himself. It was very vulnerable. Now seeing this video is so freaking awesome. 😁 we have more complicated ego plane to work on but thats fine. 😁

[@melissa3986]

I hear so much about attachment styles now. How do we know this isn’t just an anxious and avoidant attachment issue, instead of a karmic, soulmate or twin flame dynamic? I wish there was an easy answer to this. I guess if you can’t get someone off your mind no matter wanting them off your mind is a way to know if it’s karmic, soulmate or twin? 🤷‍♀️

[@wearethesamenergy]

Attachment styles are all about Ego, and they are useful when dealing solely with the Ego. But before you pigeonhole yourself and chalk everything up to how your Ego is used to attaching, you can work on healing different aspects of your trauma responses so you don't have to label yourself with attachment theory. My book also massively explains the differences between Soul Family members.

[@Flowergirl222]

I had the same thoughts at one point. You will know it is a TF journey when the connection remains even after ego degradation.

[@BetweenTwoPsychicsPodcast]

How you describe meeting your twin is exactly how I felt I was just confused and didn’t feel that “home” lovely feeling just meh 😅and then was super creative afterwards painting like crazy then the “ego death” occurred. Thanks Alexx you’re such a gift! ❤ and all of this resonated so strongly.

[@wearethesamenergy]

So glad!!! Have you watched my video "Meeting the Twin Flame?" It talks about this as well

[@BetweenTwoPsychicsPodcast]

I did and it was the first time my ego was like “oh shit” someone gets it because all the other information out there is very soulmate templated and it didn’t resonate at all. 😅

[@rachelross5829]

I entertained that I may have been in this type of dynamic. All it was was rejection catapulting me to self love and out of spiritual boxes. The sad thing is that I'm transforming so much , so happy and proud and wanted to come to him when I was ready to love the way I should but I can never feel safe with my emotions with someone who called me a basket case. He's very secure and spiritually advanced and probably happy with am emotionally stable woman like he deserves. I learned a lot through this for sure.if there's such thing as twin or soul mate, the latter seems more fun for sure.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm sorry you were gaslighted by being called a "basket case." I know how triggering that is. Please remember that whatever people is based on their own trauma responses and actually has nothing to do with you.

[@AlinaAbramova-p9s]

Omg I was absolutely sure you had quite some planets in Aries! I actually thought your Sun 😁 I think I kept watching your videos not only because your presentation style is unique and more interesting to me than of many others but I always felt there was this fiery Aries energy that resonated with me (I am Pisces but have Mars, Venus, Mercury and Lilith in Aries!). Thank you for this video! Informative as always. Curious about your book now 🤓

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes, super fiery!

[@moniqueconner6099]

Beautiful. thank you so much.

[@Daiana742]

Girllll I am from Romania. Im so happy I chose to listen to this video too. Today I discoverd your channel because I have someone in my life that I believe its my twinflame… its the 3rd year since we know eachother and we are separated again.. Anyway I‘m reallyy woow about your connection with Romania. I would love to meet you!

[@denisapetras1]

Thank you expecialy for the question no 8❤🙏🏻very strong, unconditional love vs running.

[@laurievines623]

This is fabulous. Thank you. ❤

[@septembersun13]

Ha! Awesome messages, right down to the twin flame I created is also Romanian 😂🙌🏼

[@notearz76]

Keep being awesome!

[@SillySpanish]

Q5 yes!! I always wished to have a twin sibling because I was missing that feeling of total unconditional and blind understanding. Later I wished to have twin kids because I wish that feeling for my kids. That means deep inside I know what this feeling is how it feels and that it exists and yes that it is there somewhere out there. From an early age

[@All.is.energy]

Love you’re deep insights as usual🤩❤️ Question though regarding your statement: “If you know you're easy to find online and you have not heard from this person, it's most likely a karmic that you're dealing with and not a TF…” I guess that replies when non of the TF are in other relationships?

[@wearethesamenergy]

The answer was geared towards both people losing all of each other's contact information and not being able to reach out when they want to.

[@susanplove]

Thank you Alexx! That was awesome 💚💚💚!

[@TheHouseOfduToit6688]

Q20 I did kundalini sound meditation and in that proses I felt the giving and reserving of unconditional love in a nut shell knowing you are the universe and understanding/feeling you are, are 2 different thing.

[@mickeyc2137]

Thank you for being another confirmation that I am doing the right thing by no longer allowing the "friendship/off and on casual dating" with my twin. A year ago he came back after multiple separations and for the first 6 or 7 months i thought we were slowly building into physical union but I was mistaken. We were still in separation we were just doing it face to face and in contact. I felt like I needed to have him in my life in any way I could and that we would slowly commit to each other. But when he went back to dating multiple women about 5 months ago I initially thought I was fine with it but really it was painful I was just stuffing it down so deep I didnt realize it until a month ago. I finally shifted into fully seeing my self worth and I put up a boundary with him and I would say this time we BOTH pulled away. Its been 3 weeks of no contact and I feel strong this time to not have him in my life until I reach inner union and he finishes his process. I didnt realize it until now that what we were doing for a year was hurting our connection and probably prolonger inner and outer union

[@cindychurch335]

Wow! This explains a lot to me. I’ve been married twice and it was during my second marriage that I met my twin. In fact we were on an anniversary trip in England and planned to visit my husband’s 2nd cousin. It turned out my twin was his cousin’s husband. I know, sounds like a soap opera. I had been married 30 years and he 50 years. I had an obsession with England since I was a little girl and never imagined I would visit. I seemed to know there was something there to discover. This took extraordinary courage for me but I decided to leave my husband, not to be free to marry my twin but because I could never be the same person ever again. I experienced something that changed everything and I had to further explore this. We managed to maintain a relationship for five years and would have continued if cancer hadn’t take him from this world. I will always be with him.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Oh my Cosmos, all of my best and highest vibrations to you. 🙏💜

[@cindychurch335]

@@wearethesamenergy thank you. I feel blessed!

[@SashaPasha-f2y]

Amazing video!Love it!

[@SuzanneMetafora]

To answer question 20, I had a different experience. It was like a sudden realization as I was remembering some of my conversations with my twin earlier in my journey I suddenly noticed that whatever he said, and all the questions he asked, were just very similar to the questions I had received from my higher self during my shadow work later on on my journey . It really felt like I was talking to myself through him . And so I realized deeply that we are one, him and everything else in my life are just triggers trying to get me to union with myself. we’re still in separation and I am in deep trust of the universe to bring him back or not because I don’t feel like doing any sort of action. I have always felt like time between my advancement in my journey and his has some sort of a delay. maybe😅…. I am very grateful for meeting such an amazing person to trigger me profoundly whether it’s a catalyst, a twin or any sort of being that made me realize the true value and beauty of life on this planet now. 😊

[@wearethesamenergy]

Love it

[@simonapanaitescu6939]

It was a pleasure to watch your video 😃 i’ m from Romania 😃🫣

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yay!

[@cherty888]

Resonates with me. my twin didn’t stop chasing me even after several rejections. He said it felt like he was going crazy if he couldn’t have me. He became oblivious of people around him, he didn’t want people to talk to him and he felt so restless. I submitted to the connection , after 6 months he started acting odd then he started ghosting me. We separated so many times but he would come back. I had ego degradation . I couldn’t take the way he treated me , had to blocked him. It’s been 4 months . I have learned self love , discovered more spiritual guidance . My question is: Can DM heal childhood trauma /fear of abandonment when awakened? If DM loves me in 3D but needs to finish karmic lessons, how can I help him to overcome it ? Thank you so mụch

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would suggest watching some videos on my Twin Flame playlist, because you're coming from an area where you have been inundated with TF catch phrases and terminology, and this isn't what I speak about on my channel.🙏🙏

[@marilynxxx5477]

I am a female, I know about our connection. I am now physically separated from my twin due to distance. We are still in online contact. I tend to run because I fear losing my twin (chaser). I am now in the process of ego degradation. My twin is confused, he chases me a little bit, but he has also fear from rejection (runner). Hahaaa. Every dynamic and story is super unique. ❤

[@bhaskarkoirala7866]

Great content on this channel

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm glad it resonates with you!

[@EloisaSantos-c3c]

I really love your videos! You give us so much clarity. Thank you so much for that. In my case, I met my TF in 2013. We were very young at that time, I was 14 and he was 15. At that time I really had no ideia what was going on and actually I've only discovered TF concept last year (10 years later). Although we see each other from time to time by chance (he is currently living in another country), we have never really been in reunion since we met and we never talked about how we feel. This makes me question if I really am on a TF journey. I consider my ego degradation happened last year. Can my ego degradation be so complicated that it took more than 10 years to happen?

[@Flowergirl222]

About the same year for me, but I was 22 and right in the middle of very complex life circumstances (already had twins!), been married and divorced, and complicated relationship with my parents and ex husband. For me, ego degradation really was that complicated. I have south node in Leo and lots of those stubborn or fiery placements in my chart that make it physically, mentally, and spiritually PAINFUL to surrender my ego. I have had my a$$ handed to me in life by a string of karmic relationships and soooo much trauma. I am 34 now and just surrendered after suddenly losing my success in business. This whole time I have been working on myself relentlessly. Looking deeper at my birth chart helped me make sense of my struggles and core wound, which gave me the wisdom to surrender and heal. If I had done this long ago it wouldn’t have taken me as long because I would have recognized the conditioning and beliefs that kept me stuck sooner. So yes, it is normal for the journey to take time, I think most TFs are relatively newer to the journey.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Ego Degradation can occur at any point and with any member of the Soul Family (I would suggest watching my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family" and also reading my book if you haven't already). I would need to hear your full story to know for sure if you're on a TF journey, but it sounds like they may be a Soulmate + Karmic

[@poorvajanbandhu7039]

Thank you so much for sharing these valuable insights! I have a question about birth charts mirroring - how did you identify Aries and Taurus mirroring signs? Did you mean to say there are identifiable “patterns” in birth charts or actually meant “mirroring” specifically? As mirroring is typically when two people have “opposite” signs (at least in astrology), so Aries + Libra, Taurus + Scorpio etc. curious because I have seen so many of these crazy coincidences in the charts I’m studying. Blows my mind, honestly. Thank you for your input! :-)

[@Divya-p2y]

It is eye-opening that we can't be friends. Because this is what I've been trying to be just to somehow have him around, after the second separation. And true I end up feeling like I'm the one who's always there while he can show up whenever he feels like. And every time we touch some depth, he gets so cryptic and vague and then disappears for a while with some lame excuse. But the first two months of our togetherness we went so deep that I wonder how he can maintain this thing that we have without going deep (he consciously withholds). How do I end the friendship? It's scary for me but I know it's the best thing for now. Also, our communication changed from being super smooth to very erratic (withholding because of the triggers and avoiding going deeper because of our families) after our first separation. Anything around communication patterns between TFs?

[@nunoalexandre6408]

Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@SillySpanish]

Fun fact: I no longer have this despair in me or need answer to any of those questions. I have a deep inner knowing and skipped them all. Think I had a fake tf before and now that I may have found the one was looking up videos again but this time around I need zero confirmation… even though this connection is not as intense as before but it’s just a deep inner peace and knowing wow just realized that

[@edatnatcir]

There is so much about your story that is similar to mine. For example I had a pull to another continent my whole life and two countries there. I had NO interest in my twins's country becaus it wasn't as "cool" as the other two. Then 4 years ago I had a STRONG PULL to his country and the first time ever leaving my country, went to his in 2022. Three months after I got back home he came to my country and we met.

[@cheryl23224]

THANK YOUUU❤❤

[@IAMTHATIAMWHATAMI]

About union with the self i have had several mystical experiences. Visions of me being with in everything and everyone and also i had an experience where my body went rigid and i lost consciousness and experienced peace and bliss afterwards. And i experienced everything physically being me afterwards like oneness with birds, bugs, and other people and inanimate objects. And also feeling overwhelming perfection within myself, which is all. I know i dont really have to ask outside of myself but it seems like ive had an "out of the ordinary" chain of events.

[@IAMTHATIAMWHATAMI]

I also felt like I was going to die after this big energy took over me. It reminded of swami vivikendandas experience with union.

[@MWD1987]

Thank you always ❤

[@MWD1987]

Again; thank you! ❤

[@eleni_9797]

Regarding the birthcharts the example you provided was the "rule" Or would for example one person having stelium in leo in the 10th house and the other a stellium in Capricorn in the 5th house could be considered also mirroring? PS: l love your channel and it helps me so much with calming my insane ego ❤

[@wearethesamenergy]

What I said regarding natal charts is definitely not a "rule" by any means.

[@Flufero23]

I just saw this looking at your old videos. My twin wanted me to remain as a friend when he dumped me for the third party. Nope. I let him go without tears or drama. He had already thought of me as a friend because he didn't see anything wrong with his actions. He even tried to minimize the connection like it never happened . Lol. I think he thought I would always be in his life in some form, leading him to take me for granted. Nope!

[@boricuamom87]

Wow..the part about lying hit deep and hard..

[@JennieSearcy]

How did astrology come into your twin flame journey, ego-degradation, and union with the self? I'm asking because I first stepped into understanding spirituality and working on myself when a coworker introduced me to astrology. I started learning as much as I could in order to "diagnose" my relationship with my TF. Instead, I realized the areas where my natal chart was pointing me to grow.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I've been into astrology probably longer than anything else - since I was little. So it wasn't really introduced into anything, but more so already there.

[@WilliamsJ72]

Hi WeAreTheSame, thank you so much for your time and the information you've put into these KZbin videos, I'm sure that it has help each and everyone of us that have been blessed to experience a TwinFlame journey. My question is that when you mentioned that one twin is a runner and one is a chaser, I've experienced that in my 4D dreams that I was the runner as I'm now thank God not running in my dreams from my Twin, and as I want to mentioned that she was always the chaser, though during the 3D waking life that I were the chaser and she was the runner. I wonder if you could shed some light on what this could mean, I can say that I am currently at peace and no longer running in 4D or chasing in 3D and I feel the peace from my Twin too, I have accepted what will be will be in divine timing, as I know on a spiritual level she is the one as an inner feeling or as they say a soul frequency that it's as if her soul is constantly talking to my soul. Thanks again for any information you or any of your followers can tell me, blessings to you all on your own spiritual journeys.... 🙏🏻

[@michelesqueo5541]

Hi, and thank you so much for sharing these answers to our questions. Your comments about being "friends" really got me thinking. I have been struggling with that since our breakup from being in a committed relationship (our 1st separation). The idea of not having him in my life when I feel so wonderful in his presence is challenging for me, but sharing time cuddling and saying I love you without it meaning the same thing to him that it meant to me was often painful. I'm not really sure what to say to him about this, and was wondering if you have any advice.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Why do you need to say anything about it?

[@michelesqueo5541]

@@wearethesamenergy I guess if/when he asks to see me and I suddenly decide to say no I feel like I should give some explanation

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@michelesqueo5541 🙂What's that triggering in you?

[@clareeeeee1]

❤️

[@wearethesamenergy]

Wow, thank you! 💜💜🙏🙏

[@szilviaszekely2064]

Hi Alex, I am following you from Hungary, and I knew at first sight, that your TF is from here around, big hugs also for him from this shitty place😃😃😃🌷

[@wearethesamenergy]

😂😂 My mother was half Hungarian

[@zorayii]

Most of my questions were answered by listening to all of your videos. Thank you, indeed! Just separated with TF almost 2 months and never ceased seeking for answers and explanations. Can you discuss about soul contract and twin contract? What I understood about these contracts is that TF were chosen because of a greater purpose not just about romance. Can you give enlighten? Are TF Starseeds or came from Starseeds? Are TF the chosen ones?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"The Purpose of Twin Flames"

[@sujashapaul]

In one of your earlier Q n A videos, you mentioned that Twin Flames do not have children. Is that a rule or just something that ends up happening naturally? I've never wanted to have children until I met my counterpart. And I'm sure he is going to be back when it is the right time, but I do worry that I might have to move on after a couple of years if he doesn't get back, for biological reasons. I'd love to have children with him but I'm 26 and he's 21, I feel like our priorities are not the same. I can't force him to come back to me before he's ready just to have kids? Horrible idea. So I'm open to having my kids with or without him. But it would be pretty cool if it worked out, we got married and had those babies I want haha. I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you for your insightful videos. I've watched every single one, multiple times over. And I learn something new every time! ❤

[@wearethesamenergy]

I will have two videos out in June about children!

[@sujashapaul]

Okay, thank you 🙏🏻❤

[@Mya_9393]

How the shite didn't I recognize this video? I know I've watched it, but I missed the first part. I'm a little shook

[@wearethesamenergy]

I don't remember what the "first part" is?

[@Mya_9393]

I actually don't think I watched this video until last night... the only part that's familiar is the part where you talk about Romania... I'm kinda gobsmacked at the similarity of our experiences! It was just like one day I fully comprehended non-duality. It was super weird. I actually said to my twin one time "I can literally see and understand the non-dual nature of reality, and I still can't comprehend you." And the part where you talk about control, and the feeling that you're looking for something. I think the only reason I thought it might be a person is because when I was married, like more than 20 years ago, I had this knowing that I was going to end up with what appeared to me to be a blonde farmer... of course I let that dream die because I'm not into blondes. It wasn't until our current separation that I saw a picture of him at a wedding wearing a stetson that it made sense. Not a farmer, a country boy. Anyway, I'll spare you the rest, lol. But yes, great video! I love it!

[@danalana111]

Funny...my journey is the complete opposite. I´m in the same town all my life and I´m not very interested in traveling and my family always push me or wonder why I´m not going somewhere else...Maybe it´s because my twin is near me all my life without knowing it. I used to live in a neighbor city for some years and my twin worked at the exact same street at the same time. We now live in the same house (different flats) for over 10 years but I started meeting him only four years ago and we are in constant separation for two years now.

[@mariah.717]

hey, i love your videos and resonate with your teachings !! i was wondering if there's any significance to receiving flashbacks of memories (that occurred years ago) with your twin flame that seem random and out of the blue. for example; it could be the most mundane thing like grabbing a can of soda in the fridge while your twin flame is around. these flashbacks seem to pop up randomly and not when i am thinking about my twin per say. some of them make me sad (i don't currently speak to him), and some make me smile while some are random AF !! thank you (in advance) if you see my question. :)

[@wearethesamenergy]

This could be many things. It could be planetary transits occurring; it could be the brain being triggered by relational theory; it could be the Ego sorting through old memories to properly compartmentalize them; it could be connection energy...the list goes on.

[@mariah.717]

@@wearethesamenergy thank you for answering !! :)

[@NehaRica1122]

Question- I briefly met my TF 21 years ago and we instantly became best friends, but separated soon and I moved to another country, halfway across the globe. About 4 years ago I went through an intense experience that felt like a heart attack but all I could think of was her. This pushed me on a spiritual journey of self exploration. Took about 3 years for inner union and she came back in my life after 20 years of separation. 2 months after connecting only through social media, I came to know about the phrase TF. Now, after 17 months of these painful on-off situations, I’m fed up of these repeated triggers and don’t want to talk to her at all. 😞. Is that normal? She keeps calling and messaging, but I keep ignoring. Since I don’t want to talk to her now, does it mean I was mistaken that I’m in a TF connection? Will this pain go away at some point if I refuse to let her back in my life. I feel bad for abruptly disconnecting from her without giving any explanation. I’m her only friend, even after all these years, which have been really trying for her, going through physical and verbal abuse, mental torture, sexual harassment by multiple people at different times, including a father figure in the family, , financial hardships, career setbacks, being beaten to death by her spouse, painful life to a point that she tried committing suicide twice😔. She says, after I returned in her life, things have gotten better. She doesn’t want to let go of me, and I don’t want to turn my back on her either. But being in this ‘friend’ space is painful. Please advise 🙏🏻

[@wearethesamenergy]

If you would like to have a consultation with me when my books reopen, you can send a message via the contact form on my website and I will get you on the waitlist.

[@bigsun_]

Thanks Alexx, Can you still think of your twin flame and feel them and not be in chaser energy if you feel at peace with divine timing and non attachment to the outcome?

[@wearethesamenergy]

💯 You will always feel them no matter what. It's about having enough non-attachment after Union to be able to make it through without it disturbing your mental peace

[@cr899]

Are you married / still with your twin flame right now ? In my case, I am married to someone great and I am the runner because I am married . Thank you for explaining these stuffs . I just subscribed to you .

[@wearethesamenergy]

Have you watched my videos "Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married" and "Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame?"

[@cr899]

@@wearethesamenergy watching now. Thank you !

[@marsbars131]

It seems you'd reach out to your runner initially during separations to resume contact - how do you reconcile this with the general advice to leave them alone and not contact them? I am in our first separation, as chaser, for over a month now.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Separation is the time to heal yourself. You may want to watch more videos on my TF playlist (or join our TF Patreon channel) 🙏

[@Kj76556]

How did you cure the abandonment issue ? What where the practices you did

[@wearethesamenergy]

A ton of inner child meditations, subliminal messaging, and really sitting with myself and looking at the big picture of the universe vs my Ego's feeling of abandonment

[@pratyushamukherjee9607]

With the question of External relationship as chaser? I had this thought of maybe what if i want to be with someone else? And why and what does that state? I think i am the chaser But still talk to men and be okay if they flirted with you and you spoke about being away from all of it working on yourself it still if i talk to someone or was okay with maybe getting some validation and reassurance and even felt good or considered maybe a relationship with someone else that means mine was just an obsession with who I suppose is my tf and all of this states i am not on a tf journey and who i think as my tf is not? Cause i am not morally working on myself or figuring out what lesson’s to learn just talking on the surface level again which says its not deep enough and cant be my tf?

[@Mmmmmmmmm274]

Hi, I'm facing a significant dilemma trying to determine if my current situation is karmic or related to a twin flame connection due to some challenging experiences. Despite watching numerous videos, I consistently lean towards the twin flame explanation. However, my circumstances are somewhat unique. Is it possible for those who follow you to reach out privately for guidance?

[@wearethesamenergy]

I am no longer doing one-to-one consultations

[@martinajost6417]

Great ❤

[@SuperSAIYAN_NumbeR6]

She keeps asking me " lets just be friends " and i keep telling her " no i want relationship or nothing " and the end result is me saying ," i dont want be ur friend you can leave " and then she actually leaves 😂😂. N while we r friends i feel frustrated i feel better when she is not around because i never feel like i want to be just her friend . , I dont even need her anymore i just want live my life , she can do whatever she wants.

[@cherty888]

What happens if karmic will do love spell to keep your twin flame in their life ? Thanks

[@TheHouseOfduToit6688]

Thank you

[@SheauLee-dj3ik]

Thank you. My husband is on a twin flames journey. You mentioned that you have only soil tribes left. Does it mean that my husband will abandon the children he has eventually since they are soulmates . Thanks.

[@wearethesamenergy]

No

[@urvashirohilla]

hey, what do u mean by union with yourself, could u pls elaborate a bit. thanks

[@wearethesamenergy]

Union is always with the Self, it's never with a 3D manifested person. You can watch my videos "The Purpose of Twin Flames," "What Does TF Union Feel Like (in the 5D)," "What is the Soul Family (Part I and II)," and "Are You Meant to be with Your Twin Flame"

[@dancingcloud8557]

Did you make a boundary if your counterpart wanted to be friends?

[@jocelynsalvi6029]

Hi,can you talke about visions, dream's. Seen traumas twin in visions mullti times until i get it. When i' relax, see colors, doors, windows with colors, see keys in colors in thoses windows? Kundalini ocean love fall on you. Immidatly after the Kundalini, talkin about inconditional love, tells others the inconditional love wee feel about them, reconnize other souls family. Mind blowing.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would suggest watching some videos on my Intuition and Empath playlist

[@laichengfoong6889]

I’ve been wanting to live in london or England since I was 7-8 years old and guess where’s he’s from

[@tvbaroness13]

Can you clear up for me about manifesting my DM. Can my DM have also manifested me too, or is all strictly me as DF doing the manifesting of him?

[@wearethesamenergy]

It's not about a "DF" or "DM." It's about everything as One. I would suggest reading my book, because this is what it's about

[@dancingcloud8557]

Did you give him the apology letter?

[@ZoeShayne-xn1vt]

Hi. I sent an email on your website last week. Your videos are amazing. Not sure if you check these comments but could you lmk if you are taking clients? I’d really like to work with you. Thank you!!

[@wearethesamenergy]

Hi Zoe, I'm so sorry we didn't get back to you; we just realized yesterday that the contact form hasn't been working, but it's fixed now. My books are currently closed but if you send another message via the contact form, I'll get you on my waitlist!

[@ZoeShayne-xn1vt]

Ok thank you for the reply! I’d love to be on your waitlist.🥰 Writing you again now. SH

[@jayendrasagar8255]

what does running into your twin flame mean ? like at groceries or clinics

[@wearethesamenergy]

Higher Self will always pull you together

[@jayendrasagar8255]

@@wearethesamenergy yes its so true whenever i try to run from this relationship the higher self brings us both together . its like divine is saying hello where are you running come back here ...

[@jayendrasagar8255]

@@wearethesamenergy but union is not happening ..

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@jayendrasagar8255 Because Union is with the Self, not with a 3D manifested person

[@TheBasded]

Can I meet romantic soulmate when I met TF almost 2 years ago and I had my spiritual awakening more than 1 year ago? Or at least lifetime partner?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes

[@TheBasded]

@wearethesamenergy But don't soulmates leave you when you are going through spiritual awakening, or you already had it?

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@TheBasded You will meet many Soulmates in this incarnation, including ones after your Ego Degradation

[@crzellmer]

So I recently met someone after moving on from my TF... Come to find out he is just like my TF in career and what he does or has done career wise in the past. Tho the new guy has been doing it way longer. Honestly, I like this guy better. B/c he shows up for me the way someone should. but a part of me is Wondering what the heck? Was the other one a false TF? Am I being tested? Has anyone else experienced meeting someone who come to find out was just like your TF is being now in areas of ego? Does that make sense? In other words the new guy used to be and in some aspects it still is like what the twin has just started to do. It's weird.

[@wearethesamenergy]

May I suggest reading my book and the section on False Flames! I talk about this specifically; exactly what you're experiencing

[@crzellmer]

@@wearethesamenergy so new guy is false or old guy?

[@pratyushamukherjee9607]

I really hope you reply to this comment would be grateful …Everyone said you know when they are your tf no one needs to say and even with all the doubt i thought i did know but now the doubts and proofs of certain behaviours make me feel like what if i was wrong about the knowing? I mean there are people who stay in toxic relationships for years because they thought this person was their twin flame ? What if i am delusional too in this area? And if i am questioning the knowing and its getting weaker and the doubt and proofs feel stronger isnt that a sign that he might not be my twin flame? The calm sense of coming back to knowing he is my tf is just not there doubt was always there but this just feels more solid than doubt to be honest.. Also, What does one do when they start questioning the knowing that they had altogether with the doubts about one being their twin flame i mean now it feels like i am more convinced he is either my false tf or a karmic and my doubts so far were right and that all that hurt and all that he is maybe as a guy that i didn’t notice and left on the side cant make him my tf as would that kind of guy honestly be my tf? And if i can question this doesn’t it somewhere means i am believing he isnt mine and yes asking for reassurance but just not being okay with this acceptance of it? And knowing that i have to maybe accept if he isn’t but am not able to..could you pls tell me how to move past this? And the knowing feels lesser and the doubt stronger? A true twin flame shouldn’t make me so obsessed and so confused right? What if this is a karmic or a false twin flame? And i keep thinking about this person obsessing over them maybe not even doing the work but instead thinking only of them and how it would work for us what if he just came to awaken me and leave me honestly and at this point with how much i am writing and worried about it worries me this is a obsession and not a tf …what if this is just toxic?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You are very much entrapped in your Ego right now and allowing it to drive you into rumination and obsessive thoughts and doubts. Who cares if they're your Twin Flame? Who cares if you call them a Twin Flame? The point is to grow and learn. If you're doing that, you're doing great. If you're not, that's where you can start moving towards.

[@MySpritualJourney-wj9kj]

Why don't you talk about kundalini?

[@rosamundperry]

I really don't think you've been on this journey long enough to categorize other people's connections as karmic etc. There is a large spectrum of experiences of this type of soul connection. I've heard you saying this about "karmics" in several videos... what are you even basing it on?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You're right, the 15 years of me teaching about Spirituality, Philosophy, and Mysticism is a blip on the radar of universal "time."

[@rosamundperry]

@@wearethesamenergy twin flames can have karnic aspects, that can feel like your category of "karmic". I know this from my own experience. I think some of your comtent is good, but some is repeating incorrect and highly popularized notions. I've seen you reply to your community saying "probably a karmic". You'd probably say that to me, having been largely negative. Only I know what my experience and questioning and exploration has uncovered, to reveal my personal truth. It is never someone else's place to categorize a transformational soul connection.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Egoic "negativity" doesn't dictate whether someone is Karmic or TF.

[@missmedieval]

👋🙌🫶

[@francescocalemma]

They say same life path number is a sign. I’d defo do a Vedic chart reading,

[@poorvajanbandhu7039]

Thank you so much for sharing these valuable insights! I have a question about birth charts mirroring - how did you identify Aries and Taurus mirroring signs? Did you mean to say there are identifiable “patterns” in birth charts or actually meant “mirroring” specifically? As mirroring is typically when two people have “opposite” signs (at least in astrology), so Aries + Libra, Taurus + Scorpio etc. curious because I have seen so many of these crazy coincidences in the charts I’m studying. Blows my mind, honestly. Thank you for your input! :-)

[@wearethesamenergy]

Sorry for the confusion! I meant mirroring in the way of signs 1 + 2 stellium and signs 8 + 9 stellium. His sun is my stellium, my sun is his stellium, etc.