Thank you so much for sharing! I am in the same situation after 2 years in harmonious relationship ... everything was so smooth and I got the slap in the face... We need to take a break from my DM. I was soul shocked ... But I was calm just like you. But I was numb and in disbelief of what just happened for a day or 2. But I am now working on healing myself and loving myself. You talking about “Need” really resonated with me and that’s what I know I need to work on next. I don’t feel like I need him as in I’m very independent business woman and can stand my own in any situation but after years of having communications of love from him and him always talking about our future and making all these wonderful plans and us sharing our dreams and all our emotions and feelings everyday all thru the day and night... and then suddenly ... hardly any communication and what communication we have is so surface. Same kind of conversation I would have with a stranger at the grocery store. To him a break meant cutting out all emotional deep connection sharing and sharing daily life events. I’m now finding out what he is doing at the same time 4000 fb strangers to him are finding out. That really hurts. And I feel “Need” for that deeper level of communication with him like we’ve always had. But I understand him so well, and know that when he is faced with something that causes emotional pain, he chooses to suppress it and distract himself so he doesn’t have to deal with or process any of his emotions. I’ve seen him do it for almost 8 years. So from your sharing I know that I just have to respect that and know that that is his journey he needs to go thru and all I can do is love him unconditionally and support him. So I am so grateful to you for sharing and so grateful to God that He led me to your video. Sending you so much gratitude and love and light❣️ 💞
@dimitradiyajhugroo29285 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your juicy experience with us Dany!🙏❤ Much love.🌟🌟🌟
@revatishinde_5 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you Dany, exactly what I have been experiencing too in my Union, this is so perfect ❤️🙏😊
@angelarosa19955 жыл бұрын
When Dany and Ian have achieved harmonious union ;) The work works ya'll!!
@sag26725 жыл бұрын
Eye opening video...very informative video🙏🏻👍
@StefanieQuaedvlieg23122 жыл бұрын
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@unicerobles54373 жыл бұрын
Hi Dany, I just wonder. Has Ian reflected to you later on the space that you started holding for yourself? Did he exhibited his core choice (the one you made together when you chose it for yourself) of holding space for you in his actions later on? Because what if it is in my love list to be in a relationship where we hold space for each other as we choose to hold space for ourselves? What if as much as I value my independence, I also value my softness and being in a state of receiving from my twin? What if as I hold myself and not need him, it is important to me to see that at my twin's core, he desires to hold space for me too?