Two Single VTubers Tell You How To Get A Girlfriend

[@HazagyShuji]

Listening to friends and family for dating advice: ❌ Listening to a hellhound and fruit snack goblin for dating advice: ✅

[@ShadowNeverDie]

Sounds correct to me honestly.

[@MemesToa]

To be fair, this type of advice-seeking can allow a level of distance and anonymity that could create relatively more objective advice than what could be given by those too close to the situation. It’s hard to tell what’s really happening when you’re so close to one specific aspect that it takes up your entire vision.

[@stalkerofthenight2022]

Y E S

[@Andrew_-nr7zt]

I like how sinder is giving geniune advice and fillian is straight up saying to gaslight lmao

[@matchesburn]

Filian: "We're giving advice to virgins on the internet" ...Why are you giving advice to yourself, Filian?

[@crimsonmaelstrom573]

I was just thinking the same thing 😂

[@unablenarwal8863]

Filian did another one of these where the guest was also a virgin so it was two virgins giving advice to virgins

[@greenlitlleman]

Seriously though, do any of you guys actually believe that any EN vtubers are actually virgins and single irl? 😂

[@crimsonmaelstrom573]

@@greenlitlleman given some of their track records: yes. I do believe that some are still in possession of their V cards

[@matchesburn]

@@greenlitlleman Some of these girls literally never leave the house and would just be English-speaking hikikomori. Some have crippling social anxiety that seems like it wouldn't be an issue, but you don't realize it because they're just talking to a monitor, not another person. So, yes. Some, a very small group, probably are.

[@ragnarok9594]

Sinder: Real advice Frank: Gaslight, Assert Dominance, Ass slapping. LOL

[@Dariomo1]

Sinder is like a real friend who tries to give good advice, while Fillian has the bois mindset to deal with situations. Most of us can't cope with the situation and our minds are somewhere else, in another dimension.

[@fiyahquacker2835]

The seriousness and the comedic.

[@gamerkingdom1442]

3:00 when you ask someone such a difficult question, they YEET themselves from existence…. 🤣

[@sethmorgan4031]

"Okay, so we're screwed" XD yup basically

[@cuddlequeen3225]

I wish

[@fiyahquacker2835]

@@cuddlequeen3225 with what?

[@cuddlequeen3225]

Don't worry about it

[@needler117]

I love how Sinder is the voice of reason and Fillian is the complete opposite.

[@Evil409]

Out of the genuine advice in here, the best of it for me was that I need to make friends with a woman if I ever hope to have a girlfriend. This is not going to go well for me because I suck at meeting people and making friends

[@Neotriple7]

Give it a try man, don't give up!!

[@flamefalcon8140]

Well if you're American I highly suggest you don't try as there's a high chance of you being falsely accused if you talk to a woman who doesn't think you're her type and then immediately says he sexually assaulted her and put you in jail without due process

[@jamesdavison-r6u]

there’s no chance of me even getting a friend

[@joshualiuliu6798]

I still don't understand how Fillian can be so excited to give dating advice to herself

[@Reixvn]

Sinder and numi's friendships are the only reason why i open yt

[@Natsugenshin123]

So from this advice im going to be single for the rest of my life and only sinders advice was useful

[@Registered_Simp]

2:20 Ok, to any gals that read this, do not be worried about dudes seeing you without makeup. To many of us, as a significant other, your penultimate form is in pajamas with no makeup and bed hair. It's not to say we don't appreciate the effort you put into yourself, but to us, that state just has something magical about it.

[@pennyforyourthots]

Messy hair is underrated.

[@fiyahquacker2835]

@@pennyforyourthots depends how and why it's messy cause there's definitely some out there that strive for bad messy.

[@crimsonmaelstrom573]

At least we can trust Sinder’s advice. Fillian on the other hand, not so much

[@axelmilan4292]

Step 1. Be at least 6'5 (and have perfect hair, teeth, nails, and skin) Step 2. Have the physique of a Greek god Step 3. Make at least $150k/year That's it. That's all you have to do.

[@fiyahquacker2835]

That's more of a 4chan users advice.

[@aniketbiswas9966]

You missed 6 inch bare minimum

[@mrcwillis6970]

Doubt it will ever happen. But thanks for the advice girls. ❤️‍🔥

[@kizunadragon9]

Wait, Both FIlian and Sinder are single? I've got some work to do

[@axelmilan4292]

I highly doubt Sinder is actually single. Filian on the other hand....

[@Retiredproject561]

I doubt filian is too she’s actually pretty cute

[@greenlitlleman]

@AngiraBlu The key word here is "act".

[@plumber1337]

"Okay so we're screwed." Huh, isn't that the hole point?

[@BurakkuHishou]

Ok "being nice" is a fine line to walk. You can't be rude, but you also can't be a mat they walk over. This is where "confidence" comes in. You are good and nice, but you set the boundaries. If they can't walk within those boundaries then you shouldn't be with them.

[@vircento1555]

Komi can't communicate came up from nowhere

[@attakrus]

You know, for a VTuber, Sinder was actually giving really good advice.

[@attakrus]

Well, in general, she’s giving good advice here.

[@pbplayerjim]

This is one helpful advice and one goblin. excellent

[@invu4834]

I've heard one of the most attractive things you can say to a woman is "no." The reasoning behind is because women take it as a challenge, and it builds sexuel tension. Example: You meet a girl at the bar, talk to her for 5 seconds, and she says, "Buy me a drink." You respond with 'No, I don't buy drinks for girls i just met. Let's talk for a bit, and if it works out, THEN I'll buy you a drink."

[@fiyahquacker2835]

DO NOT FOLLOW THAT EXAMPLE NOR FOLLOW THAT ADVICE it's very very bad unless you wanna stay single or turn into an Andrew tate wannabe which is absolutely not something or someone anyone should strive to become

[@invu4834]

@@fiyahquacker2835 so... don't set boundaries?

[@fiyahquacker2835]

@@invu4834 "the reasoning behind it is because women take it as a challenge and it builds tensions" this part is specifically why since it sounds like some nonsense conjured up by Andrew tate. The example you gave sounds less like setting boundaries and more like a fur parent saying to their pet "if you behave yourself today you can get that toy later today". It's fine to set boundaries just consider how you word them first since if you have any interest in dating someone it's best to treat them like an equal rather than a pet.

[@jnharton]

Not sure why you'd want to build tension. That said, when would this even happen? And why would you let someone else tell you to buy them a drink?

[@invu4834]

@@jnharton sexual tension.

[@josueveguilla9069]

Filian y Sinder son Amor, Filian y Sinder son Vida. Translation Filian and Sinder are Love, Filian and Sinder are Life.

[@Ashura86AE]

2:56 giga chad frank vanilia text 3:00 spicy text this guy choice all in hardcore time 🤐

[@gaming_grim_reaper5476]

All I’m saying is casual Banging implies the existence of Ranked Competitive Banging.

[@thelordofcringe]

Filian's voice getting rawer and more worn out throughout the video is absolutely hilarious. She needs to take a break for a day or something.

[@Spedatr0n]

Truly great advice!!

[@waszner]

I don't know if Kaizer_bread (the editor) has been watching a lot of Fate or what, but I approve of the FSN clips for story visuals.

[@DrknssRules1]

Eight seconds in and I'm already being called out. Fucking leave me alone.

[@Ningen788]

Damn, Lillian just coming at my throat with the Nikke comment

[@Diabl0KX]

Just for the single fact that it was used a Horimiya clip in this video, already deserves the like!

[@Talonflame6428]

Can’t stop laughing, keep up the good work y’all!

[@mme725]

Trying to word this specifically and I keep butchering the sentence, but I think you and filian really are a good combination of question-answerers for this lol

[@yokoyokome5281]

Man when both for them join forces. It's the apocalypse

[@ChaoticRenny]

I saw this live and it was still funny the second time

[@Val.Zhevhev]

Sinder is so nice and actually tries to help, meanwhile filian is a toxic gremlin.

[@Marhathor]

Alright, I'll try to apply this advice to the current dating scene. The current dating scene: [Insert video of disastrous explosion filling the sky with fire] Nah, I'm good.

[@Рома-лемон]

3:08 BDSM stands foe beautiful day, sunny morning

[@fiyahquacker2835]

No its bridge,dominoes,solitaire and majong because why else would be there so many tutorials from bdsm grannies

[@grafzeppelin4069]

Sinder: casual sex Filian: competitive sex

[@RandalXVI]

How to be friends with popular people cuz vtubers would be so fun to hang out with: "thats the funny thing, you dont."

[@roosiniimiamiciii6666]

The Fate clips are very nice!

[@Tatenak]

Ha! GOT EEM with the Arthur hand sign.

[@ShadowNeverDie]

This is like Google versus Bing. Sinder is Google. Filian is definitely Bing

[@user-mn8lz7gf6d]

I absolutely adore the animations

[@jasoncloutier226]

sinder advice reminds me of my big sisters now going to call sinder big sis xD

[@Mazhura_13B]

Honestly just hang out with girls and see if you vibe naturally with em and go from there. That's how i got my first gf. Hung out, vibed, flirt here and there for fun, got to hand holding and rest was history. I suck at picking up girls so I just do it the natural way

[@apgamer4053]

love it how this is supposed to be "how to get a girlfriend" and its all people already in a relationship XDD

[@VTuberTwee]

Confidence levels may be low, but the entertainment value is through the roof 😅 Let's see if Sinder and Filian can work their matchmaking magic. 🚀

[@hue_ian]

But at the very First place, how do you get friends, if its not in school or work. Im way to shy to talk to people

[@fiyahquacker2835]

You could go on a dating site and make sure to note down at the top of you bio if you're just looking or a causal friend. Talking online by text first then slowly move on to video calling or just regular calling on your phone and then slowly ease yourself into making time to hangout and talk to the friend/'s irl.

[@ImprovmanZero]

If it helps one of my first times dating I accidentally ended it with "Bye I love you" For context I come from a large family so it is a habit to say it leaving. YOU CANNOT DO WORSE

[@Reixvn]

MERRY CHRISTMAS SINDER AND FILLIANNNN

[@hansgomez1317]

For the question at 3:20, just show them or have them read sunstone by tve croat author whos name i always forget

[@dontworryaboutme6410]

Ask a girl out, then if she says no walk away. Don't waste any more time

[@tatarus8159]

2:46 Edward!!

[@JannesAiGuy]

Yet another Day appreciating the Cutter for the Content, Sinder for the content, and the community for the content.

[@MrSHADOWANGEL999]

Well that was quick

[@basonboygamer]

I want a girlfriend

[@nunziochiantello4719]

Merry Christmas I kiss you Sinder 😘🐺🔥🎅🎁🎀🎄❄️⛄❤️

[@LG_Official.]

( 1:56 ) and that's enough internet for today.

[@ChrisPrice12]

Step 1: Listen to Sinder. Step 2: Muffle Filian and ignore her advice. And the screaming when you shove them into a closet before going back to ask Sinder more questions.

[@imperiumel]

Damn frank just called out vienna and yuzu 6:24 💀

[@Gamesmarts194]

That ending tho

[@IronDragonslayer2316]

for dating advice i would turn to Sinder before i would ever ask filian lol ( Nmv fili actually was cooking this episode of the episode of the sinder anime )

[@muffinzetta3670]

Gaslighting the answer to all life’s problems

[@matthewgandy9774]

YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE AND FUNNY ❤❤❤LOVE YOU GIRLS 😅😅

[@CHIKAEZEUGWU]

Wait.... WHO ARE YOU, AND WHERE IS THE REAL SINDER AND FILIAN?!! This was WAYYYYYY too wholesome to be actually them.

[@触れない軽井沢恵]

6:25 Poor Vienna

[@ww21unknown29]

😂 Im laughing so hard

[@LeevoBeepo]

some of this advice is legit, what

[@_lost_paradise5089]

Thanks:) I can only hope... ...one day...

[@lonepigeon68]

(from the title) Sinder single? Only if she is trying really hard to stay that way.

[@RichardHardslab]

The bit about "respectful nice guy" didn't really feel helpful, I think the big issue non-predatory nice guys suffer is that respectfulness keeps people at arms length which hampers the ability to create a relationship. Sadly we didn't really get much of a response aside from "just wait it out."

[@fiyahquacker2835]

Nah I'd say their problem is that they think being nice is somehow super praise worthy when it's effectively the dating equivalent of a politician saying a bunch of platitudes while also giving no substance on how they will "try" to makes things better through their policy decisions. Sometime people just set their expectations too high when they have little to no idea what they should be striving for and then get bummed out when their expectations aren't met so they turn into the kind of guys you see on r/NiceGuys.

[@flameofthegame]

You can be respectful and nice and still be direct about some stuff ,that's kinda the sweet spot ,some girls are as shy or tense as guys ,so taking initiative is a good thing ,dont try to be something you arent ,but still try to at least attempt to forward the relationship step by step .

[@AYZNESR34]

Filian and Sinder are show me some facts about the love and relationship to the virgins... I am not virgin or perhaps not now lol

[@danieljackson5309]

Aww cute sinder

[@burkhardt7694]

Sinder is definitely better at giving advice than fillian is. I'd take sinder's advice over Frank's... I mean fillian's

[@Natsunalia]

Ah yes completely normal question. “How do I get my partner into bdsm”

[@Goguma--]

I'll probably find the female equivalent of me and they'll be so much like me they will love women to 😔

[@ACAP]

I don't know how long is the video is..but i would like to ask,how can i get a girlfriend when i don't trust anyone around me even new people?

[@fiyahquacker2835]

Is there a life group near you? If yes go to it as often as you physically can and I specify physically because most issues will be related neverousness when is completely a mental sense. If no then try slowly meeting people online then move onto video calling or cellphone calling and then overtime make plans to meet up somewhere nearby to you or go over to visit somewhere near them.

[@ronnyrdr6553]

O M G, we are doomed XD

[@TheCrowDoc1650]

Hey sinder🔥

[@user9267]

Did Filian finally go through puberty

[@Gabriel-wx7bb]

Wow! ❤

[@monkeyandfriends7942]

So basically, im never getting a girlfriend.

[@esaideanda3025]

Just be yourself that's how you get a girlfriend 😉❣️

[@amvmaster-u7g]

What the hell am I watching😂😂😂

[@xSveto40397]

I'm gonna be honest: u don't need relationships imo 2 live a happy life... Take it with grain of salt

[@dinoking1869]

It should have been me not her me!

[@dinozilla890]

Ms sinder would you like it if I drew a hell were wolf to be ur body gard?

[@joshualiuliu6798]

The V in Vtuber means virgin

[@joshualiuliu6798]

This is a joke

[@louisedler1028]

i rather listen to sinder then fillian at this point

[@Layton-gx8xo]

I ARNT A VIRGIN

[@ShadowWolf985]

Less than 3 minutes gang

[@David13579]

8:15 I come every night 😂

[@fiyahquacker2835]

To?

[@David13579]

@@fiyahquacker2835 …I’m just laughing at Filian’s perfect response 🤣

[@miguelpasseroJIJI]

3 things about this video: 1. I'm a virgin BUT I'M NOT A PERVERT LIKE ANYONE ELSE!!! 2. This video is very goofy, that is why i press the like button And 3. I'm not interested to have a girlfriend.

[@sabosabi]

sinder can we date please

[@MetaLord395]

How much you want to bet neither of them is single? Plus, have you seen what the dating scene is like out there?

[@ElfangorQ7N]

I can believe Filian is single, but there's no way in hell that Sinder is single.

[@MetaLord395]

@@ElfangorQ7N I'd go so far as to say that Sinder has a (s3xual) body count by now.

[@johnnydeez6953]

Lol this like 2 virgins giving dating advice to a bunch of other virgins

[@zerowolf-nu4sl]

hi

[@chikennugettastyammy7291]

Are vtubers men or women