The man who "qualifies" for the shadow world isn't even thinking about it. He's quiet and no one sees him sweat. Kiss and no tell. He chisels his body daily and his only competition is himself. Period
@mightywisdom885 жыл бұрын
👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@roystongibbs71895 жыл бұрын
Very eloquently put. Peace.
@dondadaofficial2055 жыл бұрын
✊🏾✊🏾
@g-man16835 жыл бұрын
He also has to have the mouthpiece to navigate to the social circles within the social circles. That's the gateway to the shadow world.
@Mainomane2264 жыл бұрын
To be the man...you've got to beat the man. The MAN in the mirror that is.
@barackthecomposer66425 жыл бұрын
Surface World = Respectability Underworld = FREAKABILITY (TM)
@barackthecomposer66425 жыл бұрын
Your average church boy, choirboy, mamas boy, and beta male is not ready for the shadow world. The level of sophistication and DARKNESS would eat them alive.
@barackthecomposer66423 ай бұрын
@@Pikian6 Most of these men are too naïve, and don’t have enough street sense to survive in a streetsmart culture. They don’t have enough experience with the darker side of human nature that is carefully hidden in proper, mainstream society.
@MackeyDeez5 жыл бұрын
Discretion is my religion; the why I don't approach women in front of a group of people especially other men.
@atrainay5 жыл бұрын
Yeah man. Social circles may be cool to hang out with but going Mode One may very well be a no no in front of groups. It’s like most people only get the social side and that’s it. Women especially lol. Also important to note that some women don’t keep secrets, hence they’re in their masculine. The masculine operates overtly.
@roystongibbs71895 жыл бұрын
@Ron Star yeah other women be cock blocking too. Not for nothing, I've had women throw me the alley on other women though.
@joefromdc5 жыл бұрын
Being too loud is a major issue I didn’t understand as it relate to being selected in the office 😿 Example - in the military working with all men you hangout with the ppl you work with In the office that could be looked at as a negative. Going to lunch with the same woman even if ur not fucking it can be a negative. Going to a woman’s cube too much that’s not ur direct coworker can be a negative. Talking too much in general can be negative. Having a bad outfit day can be viewed as a negative. These small things that most men don’t think about can get you cut from the list I know now
@andremotivation65615 жыл бұрын
Lose lips sink ships! Two turning points in my dating life has been when i truly was honest with women in my intentions, i.e they would ask me if i was dating other women, i said yes! They would get even more turned, and when i became so discreet to the point were folks thought i was a shy, stuttering dude with no game! Lol no social media showing off nothing just my private collection..
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
That's the way to move.
@atrainay5 жыл бұрын
That’s the truth Andre. The feminine operate covertly, the masculine operate overtly. Having some feminine in us to keep secrets is the 🔑. No showing off at all 💯
@Mainomane2264 жыл бұрын
Yes sir discretion is an underrated virtue. Quietude is how you draw women in. Cats just don't get it.
@tomott83215 жыл бұрын
Being someone that was offered a position in this underground world, I'd suggest to stay away from it.. it not for most and the lifestyle isn't what people think... your selling your soul as well as yourself for that fame, wealth and power.. many in the underground world are miserable, depressed and actually want out.. once you sign up , it's to late ... if people think we dont have freedom now, try working for the man directly... your ass works the rest of your life, has a handler overlooking your every move, controlling you, and no longer make decisions of your life.. fame and wealth is not worth it peeps.. just appreciate who you are and what you have..some of the most unhappy and negative people I have met are people of the underground world
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Tom Ott, You're talking a section of the shadow world that I don't want to talk about and made an effort to stay away from. You know I'm just mentioning the tip of the iceberg.
@17665845 жыл бұрын
Like Eyes wide shut. That’s the big time shadow world there. But it’s smaller level ones that’s not that serious. The lower level ones don’t have that many guys, because like Rom said they can’t keep on the low.
@ACJ5235 жыл бұрын
Pandora box
@ACJ5235 жыл бұрын
Like John wick
@tomott83215 жыл бұрын
1766584 ... absolutely.. movies are TRUTH.. that's how the underground world tell us what they are doing... but because they call it entertainment, people look at movies as fiction when most have an agenda
@PharaohLawLess15 жыл бұрын
I have never came across that shadow world. I just try to keep a low profile and get in where I fit in
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
That's a surprise coming from you. I thought you would have some stories.
@PharaohLawLess15 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Lol. Naw not me
@DpThaStunna4 жыл бұрын
I’m doing my crimes with you! 🤣🤣🤣 😑
@MegaPsycho845 жыл бұрын
That underworld ain’t worth it brotha’s. Make money, stack, save, invest, and keep it simple. The sex thing is overrated. Good video Mr. Rom.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
It's a lot of crazyness.
@MegaPsycho845 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Indeed
@daneparker285 жыл бұрын
@@MegaPsycho84 Lex, you forgot to tell the brothers to also Travel, Travel and keep on Traveling.
@MegaPsycho845 жыл бұрын
Dane Parker That too!
@jamescarter20134 жыл бұрын
Facts
@cottrellevans5 жыл бұрын
Well said...I know I wouldn't make the "cut" but then I don't expect to find a bevy of dimes in the shadow world either. It ain't Shangra-la...
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's another aspect. Dimes don't have as much a need to dip into the shadow world.
@davonbenson43614 жыл бұрын
I may not have gotten in the Sexual Underworld, but I have experienced Underworld glitches. A female comedian broke her code at one of my family reunions, by talking about how good I look and what she’ll do with me. She did this, despite the fact that there were also kids at the event. She wasn’t a bad looking older lady either. I may not have completely entered that world, but I know that it exist.
@g-man16835 жыл бұрын
Classic video. These cats aint ready for the shadow world. They arent even secure enough to deal with women on the surface world, let alone deal with women in the shadow world. I been to quite a few shadow world parties in my day, not for the faint at heart. To say that these women are freaks is an understatement.
@blkghostxx4 жыл бұрын
The Shadow world ain’t something any man should be in for the long run. I’ve seen it ruin men! But it’s fun every now and then, but it’s only temporary pleasure that fades away the next morning.
@RomWills4 жыл бұрын
Real talk.
@dadon0133 Жыл бұрын
Ruin men in what way?
@chadfox60307 ай бұрын
Facts 💯 it’s like Spider-Man when he puts on the black suit . It gives in power, but overtime it completely corrupts and destroys him.
@SIRLAVO4excellence5 жыл бұрын
Always be low key. Always. And be ready to deal with the fact that she will give you pleasure at work and leave your office space and completely denounce you. Call you all kind of names and say she hates you. Then text you and set up the next appt. But be able to deal with it and grin and bear it. Kissers dont tell. Tied to the oath. 😶😶😶
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@trw4war5 жыл бұрын
As exciting,scintillating and pleasurable the Shadow World might be it's the lethal ocean of STI'S that would frighten me from entering it. Trust me,that would introduce you into another Shadow World that is very difficult to leave. The higher the reward the higher the risk. First Law of any Sexual Casino. It's a tempting gamble but a gamble nonetheless.
@chadfox60307 ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@beaboutpeaceandpleasure92305 жыл бұрын
Who doesn't like pleasure? Who doesn't like freedom? Everyone for sure has to experience pain. As much pain exists on this plane there must be a polarity of pure pleasure. It could be seen as negative, but it is much better to enter a woman who is wet and wanting than to force yourself onto her. So be it. With all that said. I will chase my own pleasure...it really just lets me know to focus on my SELF.
@RASTAGOOB5 жыл бұрын
Now it makes sense.. the motivation I got from this video is the ass naked party part. The cats I can see in those arraignments are the porn stars, athletes, and the real deal jawline cut looking niccas. So I know some us men gotta go harder working out. Appreciate the drop uncle rom
@donavin515 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a very cool video! Sometimes the less said, the better. My hats off to you!
@quintonmaldonado83685 жыл бұрын
I've seen a few instances where women were ready to fling the door open to something (maybe not the shadow world itself but shit I shouldnt be doing) and I ran away because I didnt want to get caught up in the situation. The women that knew me from my wilder days didnt try to get at me then. They waited years in some cases to try to get on at a better time socially, either that social group loosened up or they entered a boring lifestyle themselves. But I never saw those actions coming from those specific women in advance. Seemingly little to no interest at one time then out of the blue, they want to be so close you can see their skin cells the next time you meet. Sometimes they'll wait on the shadows for a chance to egg all over you as Patrice O'neal said 😂.
@BigDiscussions765 жыл бұрын
They in the church and they don't want the world to know how the get down.........
@OfficialIAMRAGE5 жыл бұрын
Ohh I seen that flyer 👀...They wild 💯...I know For things we don’t seek they always find us 💯
@AR-it6bt5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been invited tot he shadow world, I’ve stood at the edge. I don’t have a muscular body but I’m 26 looking like I’m 18. I’ve been invited once, very forcibly, and another time with money.
@jjmorris39855 жыл бұрын
Good video... I'll say this, the greatest feeling in the world for a black man to have is being his own man. Having the the ability to open up and close up shop on his terms. I don't think that correlates with the shadow world. I'll leave it at that.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
I talk about that in other videos.
@minnesotamatt19803 жыл бұрын
26 yr old ex college LB working in corporate.... yeah it’s true
@RomWills3 жыл бұрын
You might want to check this out, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z4PNhIypqdKLrKc
@minnesotamatt19802 жыл бұрын
Just seeing this Unc, I’m on the file fasho fasho😅😅
@CrazyCloudMan14 жыл бұрын
Great video on need to keep the body in shape, they have some videos that shows womens reactions as bodybuilders walk through the streets casually and the looks on their faces are priceless.
@ramongalbert5474 жыл бұрын
The shadow world selects you, its up to you how you proceed from there.....you know the fork in the road metaphor. These videos are💎 ✌🏾 blessings
@RomWills4 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@goaldenchild90065 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥knowledge and wisdom..salut 👑Unc ROM..✔💯💯
@ErojFeeding3 жыл бұрын
Man I'm on the edge of the shadow world, these girls are damn near following me to my car out of work cause they heard I was messin with some baddie in my car.
@timchavis9420 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@travisrankin71655 жыл бұрын
Preach unk
@jbweld61935 жыл бұрын
Truth. Rom is the Ghandi of real talk.
@oaklandraiders31155 жыл бұрын
No comment from brother Rom. Great video!!
@mightywisdom885 жыл бұрын
Fuck the underworld....Still maintaining in the real world...Peace Unc Rom
@troika1014 жыл бұрын
I've scratched the surface but I didnt know.
@GamerGee5 жыл бұрын
7:20 I have seen some rachets who have been in the shadow world. But their stuff be messy. But that's mostly super down south. Not like Atlanta ish
@DaGrinchGodP5 жыл бұрын
Salute to Rom Wills 💪💯
@preachthepoet24424 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the information
@afikingdombooks5 жыл бұрын
UNC.. IF I JOIN THE PATREON CAN I GET A TICKET lol
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
LOL! You probably got more stories than I do.
@afikingdombooks5 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills 💪😂💪 much love..bigger than youtube..realfam
@MichaelEBeard3 жыл бұрын
Lesson learned thanks.
@Motto_World_Wide_Mango_Lover5 жыл бұрын
Brother Rom, can you make a video about Church women? The topic is deep.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Check my archives.
@AroundLA4 жыл бұрын
Rom I have questions, but not too much about the shadow world but more about a man's world. The way my mind works, I compare something I don't understand to what I do understand. I try to find similar properties or movements between things. This whole thing must balance out in some way. Like the Yin and the Yang. I understand that women are the gatekeepers of sex and the shadow world stuff, but what are men the gatekeepers of. If I had to guess what your answer would be, I think you would say "masculinity". Is that a world that men have access to that women crave but have to be invited to enter? If that's the case what do we participate in that would be considered to deep into our world? Is it violence, anger, loss of control? I think if you put it that way then maybe I would understand. Alan Roger Currie mentions in his books about women's conflict between their prudish good girl side vs their wild freaky nature. What side of men do we keep hidden from women and children? I hope this comment finds you, and I hope you feel me on this one. Because I think your answers will really put this shadow world shit to bed for me. I'm willing to accept the things I can't control.
@RomWills4 жыл бұрын
Men create and control the outer worlds.
@coolassclay5 жыл бұрын
If a dude wants to get into the sexual underworld that bad but can’t, then why don’t he create his own sexual underworld and establish his rules?
@vaughnamir.64574 жыл бұрын
Cuz that’s not how it works
@KCDatGuy5 жыл бұрын
It's like The Movie: Pandora's Box starring Michael J. White
@maxhouse24095 жыл бұрын
How about "Eyes Wide Shut" with Cruise & Kidman?
@mikerizzyraw5 жыл бұрын
There is the ugly shadow world lol..
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I didn't want to get into that section.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
They can keep screaming. Some parts of the shadow involved people like Jeffrey Epstein.
@anthonyy37573 жыл бұрын
Haha I've actually got invited to audition to do porn and I'm only 20 😂 I love my genetics and some women lowkey love me
@itsjp39414 жыл бұрын
I’m working my way back into the shadow world Gained weight and got kicked out lmao
@jawara.d.king-authorof7books5 жыл бұрын
...the homeless days were FUN times 😋
@Sage18215 жыл бұрын
Instant DQ 😄
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
All about sex and no relationship. And don't ask Rom, ask a woman. I know y'all want all the details about the underworld but Rom isn't a woman.😄
@CGthree210 ай бұрын
Devil in the red dress. That’s all I gotta say do not forget about the real world when you’re in it
@aintnohalfsteffen5 жыл бұрын
How far off is “pure lust” from porn, the same exact thing?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Two different things.
@GamerGee5 жыл бұрын
So let me not be confused. This is like the swingers type stuff or we talking bout something else
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Deeper than swingers though I would consider swingers on the outskirts of the shadow world. Reason why is that some are open about their lifestyle.
@GamerGee5 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills gotcha. So swingers is the crust and thirst super upper class orgy and or jiggalo male escort auctions is the mantle and core.
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
Part of it.
@GamerGee5 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills nice. I could get into this topic a lot but people actually know me from this name is have to make a whole new account to talk about this especially the differences between classes and races. Whew. I'm keeping quiet lol
@adrianthomas3735 жыл бұрын
I need to drop 30 pounds also
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling you're being modest.
@bobbymyers90304 жыл бұрын
I love this 😆
@efilrecordsmusicefilrecord21875 жыл бұрын
This must be a DC thing
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
It's in EVERY major city.
@efilrecordsmusicefilrecord21875 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills im from philly type of guy im that world would fit me
@christopherjameswright96142 жыл бұрын
It is also in ATLANTA. Born and raised in Atlanta... wayy worst you even have DL men they have low key parties only for people that have HIV... the sexual underworld in ATL is nasty why do you think there is so much HIV down there
@1sammyboy1005 жыл бұрын
What's that cousins channel we should check out Rom?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/door/YRwnmeWgTqWJ-EzGm7QAPw
@sixowe3083 Жыл бұрын
Another way to get into the shadow world is a shortie’s ph*** password
@michaelvamper57934 жыл бұрын
Im 24 i think i can make it
@gregoryglass90405 жыл бұрын
Eyes wide shut types and sexmagic situation many shouldn't come in there are more then meets the eyes
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
That's a part of it.
@gregoryglass90405 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills uncle I'm not against the sistas having their needs met in the sex department i just want them to not hurt the men people most don't understand the female nature situation like you and i do and many more like us i think if they explain the situation to some males they would be point in the direction of selected male
@gregoryglass90405 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills i mean every man would love an sexual animal in the sack but that's an fantasy most black men learned the mess up side of black women in this society now you kind of brought up the sexual underworld topic it's deep yet most don't know the background data in the underworld societies
@gregoryglass90405 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills like freak ho is a Atlanta term to describe a woman lustful activity in the community but she isn't private with her actions but we have heard by our elders and players told data on some the sexual activity of middle-class and upperclass women it crush us as kids and as going to teenages we became cold yet non judgement we just gave up and focused on money and other activities we stop caring to a point we found alot it pointless and just understand way before the weeknd we been this way non caring to some women people. We told them the hard truth and cold and they came wit lies and bs so the black females nerds were getting turned out too come to Atlanta travel to the middle schools and high schools you see the sickness it would understand Atlanta became too known for a party city instead fun city as you can build a family here