The Tip of the Shadow World

[@AquanautSt1]

The smarter you are ( or think you are ) the more you have to learn to play dumb out here. No one will put you up on game if you ACT like you know everything . I FINALLY understand !

[@ristobenjie]

Well said

[@milezero2221]

AquanautSt1 well said

[@gusgrimm7533]

"Play dumb; catch wise." - some rich bastard ;-)

[@SheLuvsBigTre]

I’ve been the side piece for many women who either had bfs or husbands and you’re right being in the shadow world and being exposed to women’s nature and how they act fit the right guy that does IT for them, has made me completely uninterested in marriage lol

[@PragmaticProminence]

I've always gotten play from being the "quiet type"🤫 Works for me naturally. They kind of get a vibe that I can keep a secret 😜

[@MsJoyce31202]

Anybody with sense, whether they are a player or not, should be quiet. Some stuff ain't nobody business.

[@yacobcastro]

This shit happened to me the other day, I walked up to an AKA who was driving with a dude in her car. We knew each other but she flat out claimed she did not know me...eye opener.

[@kevmersa6578]

“The chaos realm” lmao. But all facts! It’s spooky out here

[@freereign911]

Kev Mersa Not spooky, but suspenseful 🤫

[@kevmersa6578]

Free Reign Suspenseful...I like that. Susenseful with a lot of plot twists lol

[@dudewat212]

Rom, I always appreciate you exposing this topic. In light of this information, increasing numbers of men are going to recognize the pitfalls and as such, are going to avoid getting that court marriage license. The thought that she could seem like the “perfect wife”, but all the while she may be stepping out, is enough of an alarm that lets men know that in this day and age, they really may not want to sign that three-way corporate merger of wife, husband, and government known as modern “no-fault divorce era” marriage.

[@shannongreen1520]

FACTS 🔥🔥🔥. No man ever wants to think he's a first place loser to the woman he's with.

[@cousinttaw]

Women treat the shadow world like the mafia, they’ll deny its existence to your face then the next thing you know your getting your brains blown out in the back seat of a caddy 😂. Do you really wanna start this series Unc? Just say the word 🔥

[@FreedomLocs]

Uncle Rom let's go!!!!

[@RomWills]

Bruh you were in way deeper than I was. I just kept to the church ladies. Hit them with something.

[@FreedomLocs]

Cuz here's a topic for "another day". Unc Rom just scratched the surface. Waiting for your 3 part series on this!

[@jamestv5878]

@@FreedomLocs 9

[@yacobcastro]

t taw willing to pay for this.

[@KenThinkIN]

Only people that are really aware of these nuances are ones who have worked in adult entertainment. Some never experience having that woman sneak away to show them the side no one else sees.

[@kinl2]

All man that’s raw!!!! unc “ she might literally give you a paper bag with some holes in it!!!💯🤣👀🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂 these boys Aint ready for this level unc

[@gregoryglass9040]

The duality of sexuality of women

[@justice5897]

☯️

[@flyyandfit]

This stuff is deeper than rap

[@DpThaStunna]

When you think about it. This is what rappers speak about and exploit.

[@BGSIBMOR]

I don't think both the social and the shadow can mix. Attraction and relationships don't always mix.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@globalnomad1221]

in Jungian psychology lol, the shadow is an aspect of self beyond the social persona where most live, in one sense the more real one gets with oneself, these shadow dimensions open as a living reality, in another way, all shadow players are looking for a deeper aspect of life

[@rrb2895]

Exactly!

[@justice5897]

Stupid people do stupid things, smart people outsmart each other...then themselves

[@donavin51]

Uncle Rom, thanks so much for blessing us with this video. When I saw the alert on my phone I knew I was going to have a good morning.

[@str8koptv901]

We Need a little more insight of this shadow world maybe a part 2

[@RomWills]

Do a search through my archives.

[@gregoryglass9040]

No you don't believe it's about lust once you get it it's all down hill from that most of young black men are not ready for that dark hall way walk you better then that you are in a situation that is chaotic sexual situations you might not have traveled and boy once you go there you be upset so no bro the mind of women are nasty and sick

[@doulayebangoura8318]

@@gregoryglass9040 You speak fact I work in Whole Foods Shopping and some chick just start bumping her ass into me “accidentally” and I felt my self getting sucked into a dark world of lust. Bro I’m not ready for that. I was lowkey shook.😂

[@bgirl1478]

I got to say I listen to a lot of people and I think that you're the wisest man on KZbin.

[@RomWills]

You honor me.

[@marcusmccloud8394]

Rom should make a book on this. This is a money maker

[@willms7173]

It's talked about in his book, "A Player's Eyes."

[@quintonmaldonado8368]

I've always noticed that the less socially acceptable I try to be the more they try to get on when no one is looking. When Im at work or school however all clean cut and nicely dressed some seem to assume that Im some prude that's never even looked at a beer before. Interesting dynamic. Now when I'm talking to women I make sure to listen to them just to make sure they aren't viewing me from the Urkel dimemsion or some shit 😂. Theyll try to map out based on the materials you give them in that environment

[@busyrand]

Okay... You cleared up a lot in this video... I definitely know about some of the scenarios you described second hand from stories from teammates and Frat Brothers... Once I addressed my hangups I started to have interactions like what you described. Nobody knows, and I prefer it that way because I'm a private person. All completely discrete... I'm convinced that women can spot sexual confidence, and they definitely screen for discretion.

[@justice5897]

I started into the gulf of madness and unknown and what came forth...i ran back into the light of the lie

[@bennythebat]

10:59 stop it Rom! You about to make me accept my invitation man!! 😂😂

[@shawnhazel8208]

"Good Guy!, Good Provider!, Good Protector! "Rock her world dude",Good Sense, Good money and "Fu$ the Sh$t out of her dude" - A dude would all those attribute woman lose their mind for -

[@temx23]

Damn Uncle Rom, it’s one thing to just hear and absorb the information. But when you finally experience it first hand MANNN.. shit is truly eye opening. Thank you for your work! 🙏🏾

[@librarycardholder4908]

Like the lawyer and his wife in the T.V series Billionaires.

[@pinpointaccuracy1]

THAT PART!!! GREAT SHOW!!! 🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

[@shavarstanford970]

Brotha! All I can say is. You are on point about the shadow world. All I call it, is the Bruce Wayne effect. Woman look normal or meet up to society standards. But become Batman/pure lust demon lol. You catch my drift. Just that little you’ve said. Is too much for some people to grasp on to. But anyways. Keep doing your thing brother, and tried not to say so much. Going to ruined a lot of folk covers lol. Peace and respect.

[@RomWills]

Those who know...know.

[@waBlackout-wa]

I see it all around me and I see the entrances but I get nervous of the consequences and it's always younger women or older woman.

[@waBlackout-wa]

I've been the side piece to the point it hurt cause I didn't realise I was the side piece I thought I was being a player I don't even initiate sex I don't really know how to they normally create a situation to throw it on me. You see a lot at 1st that goes over your head then you see it clear and they know you see it it so weird. The sly smiles touches words looks so on. Yeah I feel you on the comfort part. What also scares me is that I feel some of these woman are so repressed that you pipe it and release Pandora's box

[@waBlackout-wa]

I see vunrabilities in these woman husbands at time and the wives always reveal the lack before changing the energy they have towards me I feel the grip of woman around me all the time and they don't love me or even Like me I'm that way it's just pure Fuck. I've cut friends off cause there girls do crazy sly things in front of them without a second thought like men are so oblivious and so am I you can't see everything taking place around you all the time nor with your woman. I've been fighting that stance of open relationship but I know most relationship are open under the wife's secrecy.

[@7figurebrian]

I had a 19 year old girl tell me a 37 year old man that she'd fuck me even if I was her father's friend. Imagine that Freaky

[@pnice3666]

Thanks for the advice uncle rom!! Just got invited to one of these events your tips are noted 📝

[@RomWills]

Be quiet about what you see.

[@pnice3666]

@@RomWills definitely that’s the way I move in silence

[@theemperor2017]

@@RomWills 🤫

[@theemperor2017]

@@pnice3666 sensei. Can u enlighten me on a few tips?

[@MsJoyce31202]

Molestation.

[@mosthighchosen614]

Nail on the head! What most folks don't realize is that, the PRIMARY reason that shit like this even exists "below the radar", is bcuz so many folks (female AND male) have been molested during childhood, and in most instances, were FORCED into SECRECY, thus keeping things to themselves, or exclusively between themselves and their abuser/s; hence they learned to live in a "shadow world", so to speak, within not only their own minds, but also the CONFINES of that twisted paradigm-- with it ultimately leading to them learning how to live sneakily (Learned behavior), resulting in them living promisuously.

[@freereign911]

Kissing cousins and interracial curiosity as well...people want to experience erotica with other nationalities, but wouldn’t dare be seen with that individual in public🙃

[@Mel-cc9vr]

Free Reign that’s why they go to Mexico and other places to indulge with like minds, couples and/or races. “Sex in the air”...

[@roystongibbs7189]

"What the f*ck you looking at?!"

[@barackthecomposer6642]

In my early years, teens, 20s, 30s, I was approached secretly by numerous church women, pastors wives, deacons wives, even bishops wives or ex wives. I was also approached by a good number of professional educators, counselors, principals,, all of which convinced me that there was a secret society where people displayed secret parts of their personalities that they hid from the public.

[@RomWills]

They were recruiting you.

[@theemperor2017]

@@RomWills °Uncl Rom. What one must do or exhibit to be elected into da shadow realm? How to be eligible sensei

[@timchavis9420]

Married chick exposed the shadow world thinking i was going to fall for her.she tell my how she goes down on her old man and and when she how she likes it .Since i haven’t got with her she acts all butt hurt for not being her play puppy .Can’t build with her so i’m uninterested

[@hiteckniq9691]

Preach!

[@joefromdc]

Realistically from my perspective, woman dictate which men have sex whether in or out of the shadow world. If that is the case, isn’t in the woman’s best interest to be in touch with her sexual desires and be honest with herself and her partner(s) That’s where I find most of the confusion. Men can’t handle the truth because we’ve been ingrained to believe lies or only see the social side of a woman’s sexual nature

[@js9849]

When you give these examples of these women getting with these young boys is that a shadow-world thing or is that a child molestation thing?

[@RomWills]

Can be both.

[@tokyo9766]

Very true, i've seen women have pregnancy shoots without any guy in the picture who are my age. Also, i'm pretty sure rollerskating is apart of it since women tend to like it as a hobby. I'm the quiet tall guy who goes there just to get my energy out, but i've noticed ALOT. The way women skate backwards is very....seductive in a way. In my experience, i've always seen them giving this eye contact when skating backwards. It's happened to me multiple times, where they've actively gone out of their way to have me notice them. It's gotten to the point where they'll put themselves in harms way just to get me to notice them. They'll be blatant about it too, but they won't chase unless they're really feeling you. Most of the time though, people leave together and you already know what happens when people who came seperately, leave together.

[@FreedomLocs]

I agree. Most men can't deal with this and would rather be content with the petty P

[@andranikmargaryan6880]

Out of curiosity Rom can u tell a guy that he’s in the shadow world by looking at him ?? Is there a tell tale sign, how do you know/tell if he is in that world?? What u look for, what r the signs. Because females in my race/culture they befriend other culture males for a while say they “ just friends “ but I Know there’s no such thing as Male to female friendship at some point they’ll start fucking , anyway than after a while they find a guy in my culture and marry him like nothing happened, she’ll be like born again virgin. But I know there’s something wrong with her l could see it in their eyes when I was in my teens 13-19 years old I could see and smell that they know something and keeping males in the dark about it so they can marry Because they parents expect them to marry guy from same culture, but I’ve always noticed about them but I never knew what it was until now. See I was offered a position in shadow world I think I was 15-16 yrs old by my friends at least we hang out together after school because we lived several buildings away from each other on same street, he’s moms sister was married at the time but I overheard that his ants husband was crippled, so she was looking someone to have sex with, so one day he called me over and I saw his mom and aunt in the living room and his mom invited me to sit with them she was asking this questions and me thinking why she’s asking me this , I’m playing hanging out with his son every single day we’re roller skating , playing soccer all the time and what’s up y she’s asking me all this and I notice her sister is observing my facial expression body language etc... so I’m moving my head back and forth with her and the sister, then I said u know what if u don’t mind your son called me over so I’m going up there to see what’s up, I excused myself and ran upstairs quick because she held me back. Around that time I payed very close attention to females in my race who why when where they hang out with other race males I played close attention to scoop up what’s up . But I can tell u I missed my chance for sure.

[@RomWills]

Can't tell JUST from looking at him. I have to listen to what he talks about, his body language, and as a bonus look at how women look at him.

[@roostNcLuck]

why is this brotha not big in this youtube space? id like to learn more bout the shadow world in the patreon

[@mosthighchosen614]

Call me crazy or "behind in time", but I honestly dislike the fact that shit like this even exists. But even more, just knowing how so many folks actually get thrill from living lives of deceit. I just don't get it, how so many folks could say that they believe in The Most High, but think that it's fine to live this way... As long as their family doesn't know, or their neighbors, or their fellow religious members, or friends and co-workers. They're more concerned about maintaining secrecy and lust, and keeping it concealed from other folks, than they are concerned to be indulging in shit like that, as if The Most High doesn't see it all. Not to come off as some religious fanatic or Mr. "Holier than thou", but damn... Do folks really think that this physical shit is all that exists? Sheesh! There's much more to life than lust and sex. I'm just sayin'...

[@freereign911]

Most High child You’ll be surprised by the experiences of your parents and grandparents 😂🤣

[@mosthighchosen614]

@@freereign911 Why would I be surprised? That's the thing; Nothing surprises me. I'm aware of many things.

[@freereign911]

Most High child You just contradicted your original comment🙄🤥

[@nmc1859]

I heard it's mostly racist Republicans who are so duplicitous

[@nmc1859]

Yes there's more to life than sex. Some people are emotionally stunted though. Beware

[@gregoryglass9040]

And that's why there are many single black women now days my generation knows about it some us who understand it just stay out of the way we males get it and just stay out of their crazyness but we get it the lust part and their nature we just keep it moving she have not made the choice of settling down yet and have not realize she has to pic a role in love and lust dept we men get it we just date them some times and say no hard feelings let them be free it's their life we just keep out of it our thing in my generation we keep data and used it to help the younger dudes teach them how to move but explained to them it is on them to deal in that situation but get them understand the different aspect and to walk carefully lol they sometimes get up set but it sinks in and they see it as a life experience then deal wit and move on too they all say women are trouble and laugh and keep on the look out some in up dead or in prison others the wise ones do even go there try their hardest to stay clear of those types of women

[@freereign911]

It’s all women! This is a human phenomenon, you’re scope is too narrow. It’s safe to say that you’ll never be the type to be chosen by a Alpha female. Lighten up and open your eyes! The shadow world is primarily dominated by married couples that are often pillars in the community. And you would never know, because the are sophisticatedly discreet!

[@freereign911]

Your sentence is too long and without structure🤓

[@gregoryglass9040]

@@freereign911 wow sis are you sure you can only speak for you and this have been going on your not think about the young black men feelings and how he is being mold in black relationship it will make hard on him and other young black women he deal with so I'm not being narrowed mind your not looking at the big picture of course short term thinking not long game but i still love sis but in this area your not getting it but that what we black men of my generation know just do you my love a let us men help the younger generation out so there will be peace and balance

[@gregoryglass9040]

@@freereign911 and some Ethiopia women would tell you about yourself and how to deal with this human situation from a black female aspect and thank you for sharing you tried but you need to get more data from your group then once you do you see the trouble and come up wit some solutions that will help our community out

[@gregoryglass9040]

@@freereign911 please feel free to come again with honor and respect but we focused on our community only we need the help

[@terrycollinsify]

☄️🔥☄️🔥☄️🔥☄️🔥 great content O.G

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mr.humbled8552]

It’s true

[@beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230]

Ok Bobby Hemmit. I paid for that video bruh! Go pay for that video y'all. Shame shame unc 😂

[@ErojFeeding]

Rom please do a video on shadow choosing signals, I know you know what I mean

[@lvlthe8640]

Which books talk about the shadow world??

[@RomWills]

There are no books on this. If someone wrote a book it would to be fictionalized.

[@milliedamus888]

Ummmm 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯

[@meekrodriguez6438]

Good morning

[@MackeyDeez]

Rom I was going to say something but, I would love to hear more about this shadow world.

[@RomWills]

Do a search through my archives.

[@Proverb.3]

🅰️📀

[@MrROCKMUZK]

I WAS 1ST RW LOL only kidding