TWOBK Season 1 ,EP 6 - HOW I GOT TREATED AFTER THE WORLD FOUND OUT I WAS 🏳️‍🌈 DISOWNED BY MOM

[@TheWorldOfBlackKen]

the ones supporting thanks 💙💙 to the haters I don’t care about invalid opinions

[@dreezbrown76]

You should be a boxer

[@relaxingsounds4821]

Why do they hate you for having your anus penetrated?

[@yannickhnaissilin5254]

Tu est courageux et tu peux être fière de toi sans avoir à te justifier, tu dois rester la tête haute et tu na rien à faire avec ceux que ne comprennent rien, tu est beau garçon et fort ne change rien, force à toi et je te souhaite belle avenir., surtout vie ta vie c’est important rien que déjà pour toi, tu est beau bravo pour ton courage, msg de Yann de Paris France 🇫🇷

[@garyjones3880]

WOW first let me say I am truly sorry for what you went through. No child should have to go through that with their parents. Thanks for being transparent you have no idea how many you are helping. Keep telling your stories. I love you young man.

[@DeeHolly]

Keep being yourself even if you have to cut people out your life.I dont care who it is.Always know you are loved and deserve to be here.❤🙏

[@anthonyjayh6144]

I'm sorry that your mom did that....like disowned you. I'm glad you had personal strength to get yourself through & I'm glad you were stronger than your mom's hate & disgust for you.... I had to do the same.... my mom was not accepting.... but I was going to be me regardless of what she wanted me to be.... ❤

[@PeterWare-m1g]

I'm an African American Gay Male 68 years old and HIV Positive!! Just stay HIV negative!! You will have a whole new Family both GAY and Straight! Be strong ! 🏳️‍🌈✊🏿🦉🔔🔔

[@russelstephan6342]

I hope you gone to therapy? I could tell you are still deeply hurting. Family betrayals are a whole another level and it takes alot to cope.

[@ThunderAsad]

It really is!!! It’s a scar that runs deep, and left untreated, it can turn one ugly.

[@MsaAli-zy4vx]

I know what it is like. Got kicked out of house, place if worship, and got beat up. Love this brother for sharing this. Peace

[@ThunderAsad]

Thank you for being so transparent! Ppl hate you for not being authentic, then hate you for being too authentic like what??? You got a new subscriber!

[@chrishall1961]

What you saying bout coming out and not coming out is the truth because it’s hard to come out around the people that you love and care about and if you came out to people make sure they really care and respect you.

[@henrynixonjr3004]

Keep your head up, your attitude is great. It's your life and you must live it as it pleases you 👈🏾

[@rodneybarnes567]

I would be proud to be your gay family member! Been out since 1986! Kicked down a few doors for you! Hello from Los Angeles!

[@secdockerytaylor6465]

I hope God will heal your heart from the past and pain that others have caused, God can deliver you from it don't stop trusting in his words. He's a keeper I can relate to your trauma with God keep your head of protection around this young Man.🙏🙏🙏

[@KevinBrisco-e7e]

Hey liittle brother focus on your self and nobody else and things will get better

[@terryreed1416]

I'm 66, a veteran and lawyer, and have been down that same road. I do believe that your dad acted like that because he had spent a lifetime DL (probably was 69ing with his BF just before he told you to stay DL 😮). Your mom knows it, undoubtedly has known it for decades. They're just transferring their drama onto you. BTW my dad acted the same way (even worse). Thank God my mom shielded me from his abuse, and my siblings never joined in. Ignore their b.s. and get on with your life. Stay sweet.

[@edartis4615]

Human being is what we are, What you do behind closed door is your business, It's the character of a human to determine who you are, To me blackken looks like a coo person, Don't stop living, Love your life and run with it, Damn what others talking negative about

[@luishizaru]

Man, you survived. My mother acted as she hated me while saying she was supportive. The gaslighting was crazy. I am SO very sorry that you went through that. I am from the previous generation, BUT I know homophobia still exists and hurts people very very deeply. Look after yourself. Get into therapy. You deserve healing, true healing. I am rooting for you ❤

[@kevinb.jacksonsr.6066]

No matter who you are or what identities you hold, the goal is to know what’s going on in your LGBTQ loved one’s life, to empathize with their needs and to write and speak from your heart. Thanks for sharing KJ Broward County

[@KOTU2054]

Watching this video has made me love and respect you. You are so right, for us older gays we did have it much differently. At the top of the hate list was my mother's mother. As far as she was concerned, I should be dead and in hell or in prison for life. Her feelings towards me extended throughout my family and into the catholic grade school I attended. Ken, you are a hero. Keep being the beautiful man you have become.

[@Zaidemeit]

You're AMAZING!!! Your life is God's gift to people who feel their lives are empty of hope, love, and redemption!!!

[@jennifercollins4802]

I think U did Awesome job for WORLD and for families. Like U said. STAY STRONG. No families or NOT. Sometimes in life ..we all have to grow up fast...as a little girl..I had to do things ..Not ASHAME for. Always love U and RESPECT U . All one cause U problems. Later in theirs life will get the same things BACK - PROMISE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@donaldbarbour3951]

It's your favorite fan again Love you 💕 and thanks for the courage to share your truth keep up with these videos there a blessen so many people can relate and your right you are cute...🔥🙏

[@jdsthird]

You are too young to have a past. Live your life. Let people that walk away from you go. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt said that and it’s very true. Peace be upon you. ✌🏾🙏🏾

[@leoneltorres4442]

YOU ARE HANDSOME!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@ProperCity]

I'm my mom's favorite and she told me I was ruining my life when I told her so I understand..Eventually she realized I was the same person, just happy and able to be me which allowed me to focus unobstructed on goals

[@AntonsClass]

It may have been worse back then, but that doesn't lessen your experience. Your experience was still very difficult. Sorry to hear about what you went through; nobody deserves that. I pray you are blessed with new family 🙏🏾

[@Fieldsinv]

Stay Strong 💪, you got this! You are beautiful, smart, and courageous. ❤

[@2complicated4u]

I'm sorry you had to experience that from your family. Have you ever considered talking to a Therapist about it or is that something you try to heal from on your own? ik how traumatic that situation could be and it really could have an impact on you in more ways than you think.

[@elizabethmcgill8274]

I can relate thank you for telling your own stories

[@rayali9854]

Keep pushing my baby.you got this

[@MsaAli-zy4vx]

Whitney Houston: Its Not Right But Its Okay...I am Going To Make It Anyway...Song keeps me going, my brother. Thank you for being strong for us. Peace and ❤

[@edwinf4524]

You are perfect just the way you are! If I were your father I would tried you with love and high respect!

[@humbledriver2536]

I really despise when friends and family say, I still love you that's such a negative connotation and shows so much ignorance

[@yellowood-kz5sn]

Your dedication to self will always be rewarded by God and the Universe. You have and don't let anyone tell you that you don't have.

[@darriusblack8694]

Love how strong you are after going threw so much hate. Yeah I came from the generation that did not accept gays, but my story was not bad. I just waited until I have a full time job and move out of my parents place. Being gay does not make you abnormal, because we are some of the kindest caring people in the world.

[@chrishall1961]

I’m sorry to hear that

[@TheTruthInspirations]

No Sir.. .Nature can be So UnKind! At that age Everybody around us in a sense are molding us into their perception... I am 45 years old and Everything I've ever done I did it well, I did it Loud and Very Proud and Happy-Go-Lucky along the way. So I've been a lot of different people which are nothing like who I have learned myself to be. I very seldom discuss the things that I did from my teen years throughout my 20's. I'm not ashamed of them but I am aware of how they tend to shape peoples perception of you forever... I Love the way you said that because I never understood how the heck does anyone end up in my bedroom business unless we were literally trying to see themselves in my bedroom. I don't date anyone. I don't desire anything from a man even though over 20 something years ago I could be found sitting with that group. When I did sit there (me personally/my specific situation) basically the things that I did were not those things of my own desire but more of me trying to fit into the puzzle as who other people had to an extent molded me to be! What do I have to say for myself now looking back at it in hindsight? SMH; That poor boy, so young, naive, impressionable and so easy to be manipulated especially not even knowing the definition of the word manipulation! I have always been what one might call and over-sharer when it comes to things about ME, MY LIFE, MY STORY - if it were bad, good, or outright shameful it's All only relatable to me and no one else's business. I truly commend you for your awesome ability to comfortably wear the skin that you are in, in spite of what the wicked will say. I have stories that I would not believe for a minute had I not lived the experience myself and still find myself blown away when I'm sharing with whoever may be in my presence (My 82 yr old Mom, Siblings, Friends, a Priest, a Total Stranger, and of course "The Christian" some of them can be so cute with their tactics used on their mission to get the gays to UNDERSTAND that they're only so persistent in getting Everybody that's not like them that are going to indeed burn! God forbid one of our sins accidentally fall out of our pocket, I guarantee that you will not have had a chance to even notice it was missing before "the Christian" comes up to you exhausted from chasing you so eagerly, gasping for air... All of that just to catch up with you and say "Here brother... This is yours... Your Sin, I saw it when it fell from your pocket a few miles back. God know we can't have you loosing those... you may have to show it to someone for something when you get to Hell... because you do know that's where you're going right! SMH - There's still good news if that were so... Even if Hell was the sentence for the sin I'm certain that The Hell for Homos would be a Suite at the Hilton compared to the Hell that's going to House "the Christians" They should have just stayed with Jesus and shunned Christianity, Jesus has been THE MAN for ages and Christianity has been a Big-Ole Unfortunate MESS from the beginning! Nevertheless; I applaud you for your courage and I trust that you will continue to grow and evolve. I'm just now actually beginning to Love life and excited to see what each new day will bring... Is it just me or do it seem like they are trying to get us to forget that We do still have the right to (Change our minds) That's the thing! @BlackKen - I bet the years to come will reshape and transform that which was once considered a traumatic event into some of your most precious and treasured memories!! Peace, Blessings & Abundance be unto you! Another lite-skinned dude walking with the light... .that alone is enough to make some people really dislike you! Mindboggling! Finally... That darn closet... Some people may feel the need to have a party for what I dunno.. but I don't have to care... Some people are out of the closet and I would love to see them go and return to that closet and stay in there for a bit longer and who knows... the next time you come out if it be so let it be that eventually upon coming out of that closet perhaps the parts will match! Who knows... not me.... but God Knows, I'm glad he's the one that has to do it and not me!

[@gregcoupe]

I'm sorry your Mum and others said that stuff to you. Maybe they had grown up with twisted ideas. I think your true understanding Mum loves you no matter what.

[@BRIAN73389]

❤ you big up in life😂😂 I'm so scared I was beaten don't you ever give up in life

[@charlessledge5966]

I'm so so sorry💯❗️ but remember u r a king🫶live your truth & life🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Noblelion_50]

You dont need any of that negativity in your life anymore. You take care of yourself first, respect, and love yourself, leave the haters behind, family included. Follow your dreams. And yes, you are an adorable young man and will meet someone one day who loves and respects you.

[@justiceguru100]

Be well my Brother.

[@edwardspriggs5076]

You're damn right, safety is always, always first. Always measure your risks, living situation, jobs, neighborhood or different environments. As an older man, most of my life, I didn't really come out because of all of the risks mentioned and it was before the internet, gay bars back at that time really discriminated against black gay men and I had no role models to find, My father abused me at 6 years old and never saw him again . So I joined the military and achieved a high ranking alpha male and yes some people had suspensions, even though I was under cover and acted masculine. However most people highly respected me but would also would disrespect me at every turn because I stayed to myself. As a top leader, I was always, always lonely but thank God, I had a strong faith, a wonderful mother, wonderful partner, who was also in the military. When I retired, 26 years later, I refused a retirement ceremony because most of the people around me at the top, resented me because I never got caught. So come out, only if you can afford to, I had to help my mother pay the bills and so I couldn't risk that good money and never did.

[@johnsondavid940]

Stay strong my brother you are not along.

[@HarlemBluez]

Welcome 2 The Rainbow 🌈 Tribe. It will be Struggles🤺 when U are walking in your TRUTH and being authentic. Never believe U are less than or unworthy of happiness and real LOVE 💜. The most important and hardest task U will have 2 overcome will be deleting PEOPLE (even family members) 👻 who are toxic and stealing your JOY. Keep Your Head Up 👑 !!! 🌠 🌍🚀

[@petebarber6778]

Beautiful.

[@bigredd6684]

You are so beautiful and absolutely gorgeous.

[@romeofromlondon2124]

I'm not gay but got gay family so I know how that could be. Be yourself, love who you want to love. Plus your mad cute so I'm sure the guys are lining up.

[@andremoffett2447]

But just be yourself and things may not go the way you wanted them to but life goes on so don’t change nothing about what you believe in I when thought the same thing that you’re but I pressed thought the pain just be true to yourself and live your truth no matter what people say and think you know who you are you are a very beautiful guy and talk about it and don’t build up problems for you I’m 57 years old and I love me be happy I am would love to meet you and keep in touch with you if that’s no problem inbox me and tell me what you think ❤

[@ThunderAsad]

At this point, being yourself is all you can do!

[@sudyJ788]

Enjoyed your video you seems like such a nice guy just know you are loved wish you were in my home state and city ❤❤❤ take care of yourself beautiful handsome goodlooking

[@ShawnTevala777]

You are valued

[@thurstonferrell7582]

just be happy.

[@Unknownzamora6681]

I hope you have healed from most of it at least. Im DL but I pay for fake gfs, its expensive but it lets me live my truth while still maintaining those straight benefits. Im gonna be DL for life, if I get outed I might blackout honestly

[@Keepthepeacesharethelove]

Why are you a DL? Why are you not truthful to yourself? Do you live in a country where you have to be a DL?

[@UCAREMinistry]

you really been through it

[@earlford8453]

After watching 6 minutes I your dad is cool and covering for you in his way by tying work both sides so go easy on him

[@biggooseadventures]

Great coming out video

[@jeffreyhare5695]

Hate that you have a Momzilla and that mostly absent Dad---to hell with him. I'm pretty sure my Sister living on the other side of Seattle came to my parents BEFORE my partner and I could visit with them. they didn't live close either. It was none of her business and even though this was over 20 years ago, I still suspect that's what she did. One day your Mom is going to need you unless you have other siblings to take care of her needs. I wouldn't bother.

[@cecegiles7753]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@darriontunstall3708]

What’s up man, I’m gay too, I’m a country masculine gay guy, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I love cowboys and hocking loogies, do you like hocking loogies? I tried to go to college to be a anesthesiologist but it was gonna be hard because of my cerebral palsy, so now I donate to the anesthesiologist Foundation, I can’t drive because of my cerebral palsy, so I’m gonna get my all electric car and let other people drive it for me

[@williamb197]

after the world found I was gay or found out I am gay? was refers to the past

[@SaveThatMoney411]

The whole world? I didn’t even know you existed.

[@TheWorldOfBlackKen]

@@SaveThatMoney411 well you know now and you left a comment 🩵

[@PreciousPrecious-qi7rp]

How can I reach out to you I'm afraid to come out 😢

[@tavarisstewart6324]

Me too 😞

[@jackfrost7182]

❤

[@XxXTentacio-t8d]

😭😭😭

[@juliotorres9020]

Hi Bro good day 🔥💋

[@Homopolitan_ai]

❤💪🏿

[@Evian43]

Vote 💙💙💙💙

[@miguelamaya6246]

I gotta tell you, I love your color... I had a friend your color and just when I was about to let him know how I felt, he introduced his boyfriend... I new who he was, I told my friend ask him why he's president of the AIDS FOUNDATION ? Mean while I went home, I wanted nothing to do with him... he told me, if you new why didn't you tell me... I told him, I didn't know he was your boyfriend until you went around introducing him, all I said is OH MY GOD and left...

[@ke83984]

Is your dad DL?

[@elizabethmcgill8274]

Tell all the story’s take up space This is your own page

[@key981]

No shade but I think his dad is dl the way he was acting mmmmm

[@elizabethmcgill8274]

Have you read the book of adult children of emotional immature parent

[@iamhimmiii_nutron]

Man. Please come to Jesus Christ he is the best love you ever need.

[@Vann20F]

What would that change?

[@Living-on-a-Lake]

His parents are the ones to do that.

[@iamhimmiii_nutron]

@@Vann20F His life

[@iamhimmiii_nutron]

@@Living-on-a-Lake Both need to

[@eurika5433]

Naah moms right

[@Vann20F]

How so

[@eurika5433]

​@@Vann20F its disgusting

[@tavarisstewart6324]

How long you was gay man!

[@garybregel1572]

Why do gay people think they need to come out??????? Your sexuality and who you want to be with is private, it's nobody's business but your own. By coming out you are exposing yourself to people that thrive on this type of thing. Do you really want that type of backlash? I think a lot of gay people think that everyone is okay with being gay in this society, and that may be true in a lot of areas but clearly not everywhere. I'm bisexual, but I don't get on KZbin and have a coming-out video. Nobody knows I'm bisexual except one person. I know if I had children and one came out as gay I would NOT be a happy camper.

[@Unknownzamora6681]

@@garybregel1572 The guy in the video got outed, he didn't come out. Also not everyone can live in secret for life, it's exhausting trying to put up a facade 24/7 so people don't read you and get suspicious. I'm DL for years now and it's tiring asf, If I was out and could talk freely about the dudes I like just like how straight guys talk about women all day, I'd be less stressed.

[@garybregel1572]

@@Unknownzamora6681 The videos did not magically appear on KZbin. He had to post them, they could not post themselves. That's what I'm talking about. I still think it's nobody's business but your own. For the life of me, I can't understand why gay people don't understand that. You don't see straight people coming out as straight people. I don't know, maybe I'm missing something.

[@Unknownzamora6681]

@@garybregel1572 in other video he was outed years ago offline when he was a teen, at that point everyone knew. Also I'll explain, Straight people push their sexuality onto us everyday, it's just the norm. Example of "pushing your sexuality onto others": -Talking about girls you like - Holding hands with your girlfriend in public and PDA -Tv shows with men and women romantic scenes -Religions pushing hetero marriages exclusively ^^^ They get to freely express themselves, but us folks have to monitor our behaviors in public for our safety, it's like being on guard 24/7 and not being able to relax

[@russelstephan6342]

​@garybregel1572 Well he's sharing the video to help people who are struggling with similar situations. He never said you have to come out in his video If you actually listened.

[@garybregel1572]

@@russelstephan6342 I know that I'm just saying in general gay people don't really need to come out on KZbin is my point.

[@Big_Facts90]

Yo change your ways for Jesus he is what u need. God bless u

[@leoneltorres4442]

YOU ARE HANDSOME!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰