I feel your pain sister. You know why there are boundaries and rules you have to abide by. No open adoption. That means no contact afterwards to avoid this kind of situation. Your husband never truly loves you. Love yourself sister good luck.
@nkaujcithao8383 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Hmoob muaj txoj kev liam npaum li no thiab os. Qia neeg tshaj plaws
@zualao12424 жыл бұрын
Why is that when women can't bare children Hmong men marry another wife???? Maybe women should marry husband #2 also i mean its only fair.
@tshajlijhmoob98754 жыл бұрын
if I can't give my wife a child I would let her get 1 from a stranger, never some one she can get back to.
@Jthao864 жыл бұрын
Sounds just like a Jerry Springer show
@sixyang20124 жыл бұрын
As I listen to this story I am angry and sad. Thank you for sharing your life experience. They will not love you the same. I hope that one day when enough is enough you will find light and real love.
@greenladylalaland42224 жыл бұрын
Wow very frustrating stage of your life plus mid-crisis too...Poj Niam hmoob nplog that came to USA and destroyed couple marriage.
@nana911fly4 жыл бұрын
Leave him! Stay single stress fun!
@myself.kuvxwb84064 жыл бұрын
This story is disturbing on so many level
@อ้อมฤทัยแซ่ย่าง4 жыл бұрын
๗ชฃงฃลงล
@INTHECARWITHSAO4 жыл бұрын
IKR!!! Sick and rubbish actions!!!!
@likely89appleJuice4 жыл бұрын
Wow. It is so frustrating listening to this story. I would rather divorce my husband because I will not put myself through that torment. It doesn't matter if I can have kids or not, the day he cheats , mean I am nothing to him no more. I really hope that u develop the courage to divorce him as soon as possible. And please learn how to love yourself to not do that to you. Your husband doesn't love u anymore . Move on, being by yourself is better than being with someone who does that to you.
@xiameevang91314 жыл бұрын
What a stupid lady
@tshuavpomkojzoosiab27184 жыл бұрын
As for me, I'm not leaving yet! You'll make them happy n thats what they wish for you to do. Y? i know it'll hurt, but think 1st. I'll be there and mess everything up before i leave. I'll never let them have peace. You'll know when to leave trust me. This is America, he hit you put him in jail, not good. Where ever he sleep, sleep with, he says no, report him to parents. He'll hear them. Who care cause he hurt you 1st n you didn't do anything bad. Soon both of them will fight n you watch. When they brake apart, then its time to leave n not stay. Thats what he deserves.
@tshuavpomkojzoosiab27184 жыл бұрын
@@xiameevang9131 she's not stupid, her story didn't end yet remember
@Leea2094 жыл бұрын
tshuavpomkojzoosiab Too painful better to leave and never see them again. Why would you waste your time to get even and watch them love each other to hurt you?
@Karena3124 жыл бұрын
Sister, I can hear the pain in my heart just listening to your story. I hope you find the courage to move on and love yourself again. You only cherish the husband if he cherish you back. I would live my life without a husband if I was you.
You're clued is when she keep calling your husband and not you. What Lies Beneath
@ntxawmxeemhawj72994 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg Txiv neej yeej nyiam cov poj niam xuaj xuaj li koj hai nawb
@coglushlubchannel40494 жыл бұрын
Mloog koj zaj dab neeg no nrog koj tu siab kawg li os. Thov kom vaj tswm foom koob hmoov rau koj kom tom ntej no koj lub neej tsua muaj zoo xwb.
@thuly21234 жыл бұрын
Pab Kj tu siab heev os tus niam laus aw tss yos Kj Tss muaj me nguam e thiaj tss hlub kj os Tsiv neej Siab yeej phem os Tsawm peb yuav muaj me nguam los tsiv neej yeej siab dub siab phem
@hl66154 жыл бұрын
Tus me niam tsev aw kj lub siab zoo heev lawm os. Yog vim cas kj thiaj li thaum txoj kev no os. Kv pab kj hlub kj heev os. Kj tus txiv yog dev xwb
@lindsaylee60104 жыл бұрын
Let the two dogs be together . Your a human and a good person so move on do not stay with the two hoar
@magicalunicorn58534 жыл бұрын
Such hurt and betrayal. So sorry for this sister’s heartache but sister, you can be a great lover and also a fabulous wife/mother/daughter in law. You can be all of it 😀 and more! Women want the same thing from men, dignified and respectful but when he’s with you, it’s just the two of you and there’s no boundaries that can contain complete love. I hope you find solace in your true love after living this lesson. If he doesn’t love you, don’t torment yourself by staying - leave! There’s a whole new world waiting for you. Go live it!
@maimoua39924 жыл бұрын
Hmoob nplog will betray anyone and have no morals. Leave them lady, once you leave they won’t last.
@bchang2274 жыл бұрын
A relationship built upon lust NEVER lasts. LMBO!!!
@น่ารักมากๆ-ง7ร4 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej yeej zoo li ko nyiam li nco xuaj xuaj kawg
@meexiong92924 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu Siab o mog.hlub hlub yus tus kheej o mog.koj mas tseem xav Tia's lub neej tsis kawg vim koj tsis muaj me nyuam .ho kuv ces Tub muaj 3 leeg ntxhai muaj ib leeg .tej me nyuam twb loj tag Los cov txiv Siab phem Siab Dub tshob Cuab khib xuab zoo no yeej tseem UA phem txog qhov Nrauj kom taus yus li thiab o poj hmoob .
@ciasiabrautagkis34074 жыл бұрын
Pab koj tu siab os txhob ntseeg cov txiv dev mawm dev liam tsis muaj siab muaj ntshws os poj nrauj khaus qhov quav txawm yog nus muag los yeej sib deev tau os..
@meexiong58014 жыл бұрын
Tus mi niam tsev aw... nrog koj mob siab thiab chim siab rau koj niag txiv dev liam thiab niag muam npaws liam kawg li os.
@Lifemoments544 жыл бұрын
Don’t know why you stay. He is not worth the pain and since you no longer acknowledge or love the children why are you staying? Go find your own happiness. So what if you don’t have children. You can still live a full life and be happy and content with what God allows you to have. We all die eventually with or without children. DONT STAY..Go on sister.....
@Tubtwmzeej734 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg tsis muaj me nyuam los txhob ntshaw mog.
@fishing4life5734 жыл бұрын
wow...where is your self worth lady? leave the dog!
@KS-uq9bc4 жыл бұрын
Cov poj hmong qhov tsua no ce yeej nyiam coj li no lub siab yeej phem
@sydneythao64284 жыл бұрын
Niam no ntuj nyob qis2 lawm hnub no nws ua rau koj tab sis tag kis yuav muaj tus ua rau nws Hlub koj tus kheej cov txiv uas xav tau cov niam tsev zoo2 li koj muaj coob heev nawb mog.
@moualor68904 жыл бұрын
yog kawg
@hmoobs24 жыл бұрын
Hlub koj os mi Viv ncaus.
@mayloucha58894 жыл бұрын
Muam npaws nus npo muam qaws kiag nus nce hlo ces zoo li no ntag.
@ntxhaiskue15444 жыл бұрын
Kuv mas npau taws tsaj.qov tsis tau neej zoo los vim phem dhau lawm.npam xwb os ob niag nus muag qias neeg
@judysaykaolee92094 жыл бұрын
Why u stay? Such a heartache story. Peb hmoob proj niam has to not let other woman rude each others life. Stop it!
@จิตรดาคุณาถิรกุล4 жыл бұрын
kuv mloog mas nej cov niam tsev hmoob meskas cia siab dhau rau cov txiv lawv thiaj muaj2 plhus li no
@victoriahlivaaj4 жыл бұрын
Koj tseem xav los ua lawv qhev los? Mus thaum ntxov zoo tshaj os. Hehee, kav liam os, cov poj niam xav los ua lawv qhev os
@maileechannel57464 жыл бұрын
Viv ncaus aw koj zaj neej neeg no mas hais tau mob siab tshaj plaws li os. Thiab kuv mas nrog koj tub siab heev li os 😂😂😂😂😂
@youaxiong20644 жыл бұрын
Sister don't blame the woman who carried your babies, your husband is the problem. Anyway think of the children, and make the best out of a bad situation, God blessed you.
@pajthao48134 жыл бұрын
Tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam los txhob tu2 siab vim muaj coob2 los thaum laus twb tsis muaj chaw tuag tseem mus tuag tim tsev laus xwb txhob nyob saib lawv sib ua li ko kav tsij mus nrhiav ib tug rau yus thiab thiaj tsim nyog mas
@yongthao67834 жыл бұрын
Sister, you can still find love elsewhere. There are guys who don't want children. Guys that already have children and don't want anymore. You don't need to stick around and get hurt. He doesn't love you anymore. There is no such thing as "love" when they have someone else.
@myang6519434 жыл бұрын
I agree. There are other loving guys out there that dont care for kids.
@Kuvlixwb4 жыл бұрын
All the words, I can say is sad and sad 😭😭😭
@tinavang57434 жыл бұрын
Mi niam laus aws, tsis txhob tu siab os mog, yus muaj tsis tau mi nyuam rau tus txiv ces tus txiv yeej yuav mus yuav kom tau ib tug los yug mi nyuam nawb, yog tus txiv yog tus muaj tsis taus mi nyuam mas lawv thiaj tuag siab rau yus xwb os.
@Loves_GodSR4 жыл бұрын
Awwww... I'm so sorry for your pain, sister. I sure hope you find the strength to see your worth.
@น้ําฟ้า-ธ2จ4 жыл бұрын
Tus siab heev Li os
@huabcualee63464 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej dev ces yeej nyiam poj niam xuaj xauj
@tshuavpomkojzoosiab27184 жыл бұрын
Mloog tau ntshav siab tshaj plaws! Cas mob siab ua luaj tsis ua li ib txhia txiv neej e tua poj niam tag ces mam tua yus xwb no. Yus tsis muaj me nyuam, tuag mam mus yug dua tshiab thov dua ntawv tshiab thiaj tsis mob tag tiam no.
@moviedaisiabchannel4 жыл бұрын
Hai zoo kawg
@suelor92124 жыл бұрын
Mob siab dhau os
@malinaxiong45264 жыл бұрын
Tu siab ua luaj koj lub neej. Kuv mloog tag mam cas yuav txaus chim ua luaj li. Yog kuv yog koj ces ntshe kuv twb mus lawv ntxov lawm os cas koj tseem nyob ntsiag ob niag ntawv sib ua thiab es yuav zoo qhov twg tuaj nas. Txawm neej tsab yuav hais li cas los ntshe yus mus yug zoo tshav ua nyob raug luaj tsim yug, tus hlub yug thaum ua tsis muaj qhov respect yug ib qhov me me li. Nws tsis Xav tias yog nws ne, tug ua muaj tsis tau me nyuam es nws puas tu siab puas yuav tau koj ntxiv yog koj ua li nws ua no mas. Txiv neej hmoob lub siab mas yo ! Pauv tsis ntxiv li os! Kawg no kuv thov kom koj tau kev Kaj siab xwb nawb mog tug niam tsev.
@malinaxiong45264 жыл бұрын
Kuv xav tias hauv ntiaj teb no thaum ib tug neeg tsis hlub yug lawm thiab tsis fwm yug lawm ces ncaim mus zoo dua ua nyob es rau tsis txom. Vim nej pheej coj nej lub hlwb hmoob qub qub puas thaum pog thiab yawg es ib qhov los kom uv, tsim npaum cas los kom nyob es poj niam hmoob thiab li rau tsim zoo li no. Thaum tsis muaj kev Hlub lawm ces tso nyiag mus nyiag xwb, me nyuam tsis muaj me nyuam los ib yam xwb. Qhov kev respect no los ntawm ob niam txiv txoj kev Hlub xwb yog thaum twb tsis muaj lawm ces tso mus mog.
@hyhy95174 жыл бұрын
Mloog mas pab tus niam tsev mob siab kawg li thov kom koj tsuas ntsib yam zoo xwb mog
@chumua91114 жыл бұрын
Ngob zoo os niam laus me kj puas kam hais kv ib txoj thiab os kj cov neej neeg zoo heev kV niaj hnub los mloog kj cov neej neeg thaum lub sij hawm Kv khoom na
@pahouamoua80544 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab rau koj txhoj kev txiav txim os,koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj os. Tiag os mog.
@phouakhang59934 жыл бұрын
Tiam 21 no cov txiv neej feem coob nyiam cov poj niam liam2 li no lawv tias haib tiag2 li hos cov poj niam zoo thiab tsim txiaj es yuav tuav lub neej ntev mus yav tom ntej mas lawv hais tias poj niam tsuam tsis paub ua lomzem rau tus txiv li.
@jeebloj69564 жыл бұрын
niam loj cas g thaij duab cia thaij nkawv sib aim nas.
@chavalorfamilyvideos91514 жыл бұрын
Wow I would of divorce him and no longer live in that pain
@sengyang10934 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncau ntshe yuav hloov tsi cov txiv neej lub siab phem lim hiam li os xaav kom lub ntuj muab hloov xwb thiaj zoo xwb os.
@papayasalad59044 жыл бұрын
Seng Yang I ask the same question too I was thinking if they are second cousin
@shuavheu29924 жыл бұрын
Vivncaus, Cov zoo txiv uas muaj me nyuam txaus lawm Tab sis ntshaw kom tau tus zoo niam tsev li koj tseem muaj coob. Koj niag txiv dev ntawm koj nrauj mus mam nrhiav tus hlub koj. Koj tas nqi rau nws lawm los koj tseem muaj nqi rau lwm tus. Txiv neej ntshaw cov poj niam zoo li koj heev. Txhob nkim koj lub neej rau tus txiv dev ntawm koj. Hlub koj tus kheej thiab saib koj muaj nqi mog. Tus txiv hlub hlub koj twb tuag lawm Txhob tos. Nrog hlub koj. Thov kom lub ntuj foom txoj hmoo zoo rau koj.
@suavzoo82464 жыл бұрын
Cas.yuav chim cov pọj niam siab zoo lub mẹ siab ua luaj lis o
@helloemvee58774 жыл бұрын
Damn how traumatizing for the children
@sandyyang12444 жыл бұрын
Wow sister aw!!! Nrog koj tu siab ua luaj!!!!! Kav liam os ib hnub twg nws yeej yuav nco txog koj xwb2 los mas niam ntsej muaj dev siab phem ntawv nas!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@yogkuvxwb72194 жыл бұрын
Viv cov aw koj tsis paub tias pog hmob qhov tsua thiab pog hmoob nplog yog cov neeg khau pim tsaj plaws naw. thiab they think they are the best fucker. I have them. Hope one day Trump sent they all back to where they belong. me koj niam aw mob lub siab tsaj yog koj tus me txiv ntsib cov poj laib no ces kawg mag lawv lub maib laib xwb mos. HATE THEM BOTH . THE HMOOB NPLOG AND HMOOB THAIB TUAG AW NTAW NAS.SO GLAY YOU LEFT THEM. PLEASE LOVE YOUR SELF. COV TXIV DEV UAS MUAJ NIAM HLOB NIAM YAU IN THIS COUNTRY ARE WORST THAN BUNCH DOGS. i felt your pain.
@bumaxyooj80284 жыл бұрын
Pab tu siab heev li os tu niam tsev aw kj niag niam yau ntawv MA thiaj li tseem2 yog niam dev
@xohugsandkissesxo4 жыл бұрын
Omg, why are you still with this guy?! I would've left when I caught them red handed! Omg I can't stand it. This story is driving my complelty nuts!
@alexfgsstand57384 жыл бұрын
Muam baws nus bo muam yaws nus hno.
@nouthao28964 жыл бұрын
Pab tus niam tsev no mob siab heev yog kuv ntshe twb nrauj lawm btxov
@paulthao14124 жыл бұрын
Koj tus txiv g yuav tus no los yeej yuav yuav lwm tus in hnub xwb kuv pom tias koj yuam kev lawm.
@kayingvue55754 жыл бұрын
Good leaning story, Your women should be smarter than that. Not just women but men too.
@payyingvang22974 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm ib lub xeem kiag twb tsis ntseeg tseem yog txawv xeem thiab ces 100% tsis ntseeg kiag li os ,koj kav tsij nyob koj 1 leeg thiaj tsis mob hlwb os mog
@EmvyGoodies4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Your husband and his cousin are so gross. How could you sleep with your own blood. I wish you the best and that you will find someone better to love and cherish you.
@mryang36444 жыл бұрын
If u hmong, u all blood related.. u kbo them OGs be doin them match making with their aunties daughter/son. I think u kno what i mean. Anyways, its been happening for the longest... so your blood related commment isnt new here. Just sayin
@monkeybanana92694 жыл бұрын
Some families still practice it. True. But some of us others don't. It is gross. Your first cousins are like your own siblings.
@mryang36444 жыл бұрын
@@monkeybanana9269 just sayin..lol... whether or not its still being practice, its what our DNA is... How Hmong was created.😃
@ffff25714 жыл бұрын
Thooj kaus kuv niag ntag luv
@ncolubneejkajsiab34484 жыл бұрын
Sister aw.....cov txiv dev liam xab maim no txhob hwm2 thiab txhob txhawb2 lawv thiaj tsi muaj2 plug ua txiv dev os.
@น่ารักมากๆ-ง7ร4 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg ma Koj nyob Koj es Koj thiaj li tsi nyuaj Siab mog
@mailee-xiong7064 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain. Don't let them hurt you anymore. This is not Laos. Get your finances in place and ONLY take care of yourself. If you want a child, you can adopt another child some somewhere else.
@maryly094 жыл бұрын
Sister, why do u put yourself in such a situation? U should have divorced him when u found out he cheated. U should not have stayed and suffer such heartaches. If i were u, I'll prob die standing.
@leevue96354 жыл бұрын
Zoo li zaj no twb hnov lawm nas
@nragxyoojchannel72654 жыл бұрын
Lub neej no tus siab tshaj li os
@tweetiebird1004 жыл бұрын
Why did you take care of her for the full 30days! 2wks max. She got hands she can cook for herself.
@awesomedad10414 жыл бұрын
I would revoke the adoption. Those children will not love you and care about you when they are grown.
@paulthao14124 жыл бұрын
Kuv yog hmoob kuv yuav hais lus hmoob . Kuv pom tias tus niam loj phem heev vim koj twb g muaj me nyuam koj ho rauj g tau koj ho ua siab phem . Koj tus txiv thiab koj tus niam yau thiaj ua kom koj khiav xwb kuv yog tus hais kom siv tau ku g pab leej twg. Qhov tseeb koj ua zoo ces zoo xwb vim koj twb g muaj me nyuam koj tus txiv thiaj yuav niam yau.
@7stars2love4 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev, yog koj ua tus take care tus poj niam ntawv 100% thaum pib los mas tej zaum nws yuav tsis muaj hwv tsam txeeb tau koj tus txiv na. Txiv neej mas txawm hlub yus npaum cas los tsis txhob ntseeg siab tag tag nav.
@sualau54834 жыл бұрын
Ca yuav mob siab ua luaj li o
@hollylee97694 жыл бұрын
Cov niag maum dev ces yeej yoga Dev.....
@elizabethvang25474 жыл бұрын
Twb tsis hais koj niag maum dev tsis muaj txiv ko hos, cov niag muaj txiv los tseem thab qees hos.qias neeg tiag22 li hos
@caaspasvang74274 жыл бұрын
Sister pab koj tu siab kawg os
@annalor97714 жыл бұрын
Kuv nrog koj tu siab kawg li os tu mi viv n 😭😭😢😢😭😭😢😢😭😭
@nengthao83184 жыл бұрын
Nyob teb chaws no yus twb muaj laj kam ua, yus cov nyiaj 401k ces yog yus cov me nyuam yuav hlub yus rau yav laus nkaus xwb ma tus niam tsev aw! Cas yuav ntshaw ntshaw me nyuam es ua neej yuam kev tshuav li koj os. Muab niag dev laus ko nrauj kiag kom hmab tu hlua pluam kiag mam mus pib dua koj lub neej. Txhob nkim sij hawm ntxiv lawm. Txhob khi nyuj tos zaub hlob. Nco ntsoov tias cuav ua tsis tau tseeb li no nawb mog.
@suelo6174 жыл бұрын
Txhob coj li niam tsev muaj niam hlob niam yau ces niam dev tawm plaws tuaj mas thiaj nyaum qhuav haum xwb
@MrKayVa-qj6py4 жыл бұрын
Koj twb g muaj menyuam es yuav los zam txim rau thiab zoo heev lawm ua siab loj nawb
@hmooblubneejpok4 жыл бұрын
Tus pj niam twg yg rhab tau ceg rau luag tej txiv ces lub siab phem npaum nkaus li cov niag txiv neej yuav niam yau thiab los mos
@johnxiong90194 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab qhov neb tsis muaj me nyuam ntawv txawm yog tim koj tus txiv los koj yeej yuav tsis yuav nws ib yam peb cov neeg ua tsis muaj tub ki li ntawv 99 percent yeej sib nrauj tag li xwb
@liaxiong81294 жыл бұрын
Cas zoo li zaj neej neeg ko tseem tsis tau xaus ho hais tias tas lawm no
@chengvang56214 жыл бұрын
Tej laus rwb niaj hnub hais tias tu qaib ntsuag tau ncej ppuab tu tub ntsuag tau yeeb ncuab ces zoo li no tiag....
@sandyyang12444 жыл бұрын
Koj niam aw!!! Uv tiag tuag tiag nawb. Kav tsi mus cab kiag ib tug hluas2 tuaj ua ib yam kiag li nws los mas!!!!! Koj tus txiv twb yeej tsi hlub koj los lawm ntev2 lawm os.
@loulor28074 жыл бұрын
Muab nws tso mus txob yuav nws lawm mus plib dua lub neej ntsiab
@mayalor50814 жыл бұрын
You were blinded by not having children. Thov peb cov poj niam Hmoob txhob ruam2 thiab es peb thiaj tsis raug txiv neej tsim2.
txhob nyob os tus sister aw. Koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj hnub uas nws ntxheev siab rau koj lawm. Luag tsis hlub yus lawm cas yus mus nrhiav yu txoj kev zoo siab os. Koj nyob cas nws ntshia koj tsis muaj nqis mus lawm nws thiaj li nco koj. Nws yeej tsis txog twg os.
@yinglor89624 жыл бұрын
Yog koj yuav nyob ces cia li hlub tus me ntxhais uas nws ncawg2 koj ntawd nrog 2 tug yau...yog yuav mus ces kav tsij mus xwb...txhob khib txog nws vim nws yog ib tug txiv dev lawm xwb...tsam lig rau koj lub neej mog...lam los nrog peb cov yawg nrauj no nyob seb puas muaj tus haum koj siab ma....???
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Lust lust lust. Worldly lust wrecks your life brothers/sisters. Lust blinds you sister. Koj Kev ntshaw mi nyuam ua koj dig muag. Tiam sis niam no koj twb pom kev lawm ces mus raws koj txoj kev es kaj koj siab las mas. Txhob nyob lub ntuj tawg uas nkawv tsim rau koj mad lod. Vajtswv hlub koj es nws paub koj tus txiv koj xaiv yuav yuav tsis hlub koj kom kawg thiaj tsis cia tub ki rau koj los dai siab pob.
@lotusvert70244 жыл бұрын
Cov poj hmoob bannor zoo li tus no tau nkag tuaj rau zos loj ces yeej xuab tshaj txhuas yam thiaj tau ua poj nrauj 8-9 tom loma.
@huabsibyangvang36424 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv neej no ma siab phem tshaj li nawb. Tu poj niam muaj me nyuam lo hai tia qhov khoob loj2 g zoo ua yuav mu nrhiav tu tshiab. G muaj me nyuam lo hai g yuav. Yuav mu nrhiav tu tshiab thiab xuaj tshaj