Arrogant people will gaslight you by using the doctrine of forgiveness: don't fall for it

[@simplymetwo9370]

Once you cut the arrogant person off they will send (the ENABLERS) to TRY and “straighten you out” and say that YOU are “WRONG” for not talking to “so and so”. The enablers demand that you make amends with the arrogant person. They done lost their mind and I’m not going to help them find it.

[@Peace-e8j]

Happens all the time. That last sentence is too funny... That's going to be my new go - to statement 😂

[@simplymetwo9370]

@@Peace-e8j 😁

[@ancientsoul4811]

It's true they always have agents to back them up.

[@icalotdonthide2646]

Then get the enablers in trouble as well.

[@nv_chino]

Bruh lol going through this right now

[@l.k.1111]

Truth! Don't go backwards, don't let anyone use your heart against you! Especially if they are not a first-time offender! Don't let anyone deceive or gaslight you anymore! Red flags, use discernment! Be safe! God bless!

[@l.k.1111]

True forgiveness predates mainstream religion. Jesus had a problem with religious people too. Take your energy back and focus it on yourself, they will feel the loss. You can forgive (to release your attachment while you go true no contact and stay silent). Never forget. Don't be abused. I know what Tyler means though and he is also right in his meaning, don't be a fool in taking back the same person...you know a snake (a liar, deciver) by its scales, but you see a lamb (a truly sorry person) by their actions. Amen🙏

[@victorianjohn]

👑HALLELUYAH🕊

[@AnonymousGuy-ij3xi]

It's not true that God wants you not to forgive shown here : Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 ESV bible.com/bible/59/mat.18.21-22.ESV Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Proverbs 27:12 ESV bible.com/bible/59/pro.27.12.ESV Your not forced to walk into a incoming sin shown here: The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.

[@serene2414]

exactly, thanks for the highlight.

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

Facts just wanna play off you

[@50shadesofgreyrock68]

Acting like a child? It usually the arrogant person who throws tantrums like a little kid when they can’t control you and when you have the GUTS to stand up to them.

[@KeshiaK39]

Yup,they get mad when they realize that they no longer have the control and power over you anymore and can no longer control you no more.😓💯

[@KeshiaK39]

Exactly, well said!! This also goes for people and family members who who don't respect your boundaries!!!💯

[@IrisRainbowHeart]

Yes they want u to forgive them but they will still hold the past against u & they expect u to apologize to them but they never will

[@nv_chino]

Thats a narcissist

[@CharlesBukowski-m1o]

Yep...NC for life back from me

[@Lover-of_TRuth]

Manipulators and gaslighters exposed 💯

[@nivisky]

They are at an all time high.

[@CharlesBukowski-m1o]

1:40 "Talking to you anyway they THOUGHT they could do to you, talking to you like a CHILD." Plus one! Could not have said it better myself!!Now I am GONE FOREVER (GHOSTED) a former friend thankfully after that nonsense that crept up after years of it being a supposedly equal friendship. Thank you for reaffirming a tough decision I had to make yesterday... Time to move on and celebrate the freedom because I didn't even know the cobwebs that were holding me back from that nonsense of theirs back then

[@icalotdonthide2646]

Yes, I will let people die and NOT offer a word of solace. If I cut you off it's for a reason and whatever happens to them is NONE of my business.

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Pay attention to what you think and feel when dealing with a gaslighter. As one sign of gaslighting, is when they try to feed you with doubt about your own self-worth. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@AnonymousGuy-ij3xi]

It's not true that God wants you not to forgive shown here : Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 ESV bible.com/bible/59/mat.18.21-22.ESV Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Proverbs 27:12 ESV bible.com/bible/59/pro.27.12.ESV Your not forced to walk into a incoming sin shown here: The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.

[@chriscasteel5777]

Bible says cut them out from among you. They don't want to hear that either

[@vrworld1949]

My finger stay on the block button when it comes to individuals trying to play in my face about my peace. I will defend it at all cost. 🤨 "God's rejection is God's protection" ain't that how it go? 😂

[@laraparks7018]

A wise old owl Sat in an oak The more he heard The less he spoke The less he spoke The more he heard Why can't we all be more Like that wise old 🐦 bird You! God Bless 🙏

[@ramoncrocodiliansproductio3865]

Big Factsss Tyler 💯💯💯, you are 😂 but you are speaking the truth. Lots of people rather be dirty and low down and dark than be the light and uplift others. This is why our world is the way it is with so much hatred and violence.... Smh. 💯

[@PunkMartyr]

I am dealing with a “friend” that has Vulnerable Covert Narcissism and this hits home.

[@jimmymatt6228]

I just got rid of a friend like that a few days ago. In the past I had tried no contact and betrayed my promise my to myself to not ignore the red flags. After a few cycles of this, I'm finally done! I'm not saying to ditch your friend.... But you might be like myself eventually and just get so tired of it that you just pulled the plug without even planning it while they're putting on their good face once again once they pull their crap. (This one kept doing occasional semi-dealbreakers or total ones for a friendship and I kept overlooking it so that one is on me to some degree

[@featheredserpentofthewest2049]

That gaslighting and religious emotionalism. And that doctrine of forgiveness. The guilt tripping and manipulation. Yes!! Like you said. Cut them off and refuse to play into their wicked ways, or even give validation, acknowledgement, or even respond to anything on their energy level. And never arbitrarily forgive transgressors. Family or stranger

[@AnonymousGuy-ij3xi]

It's not true that God wants you not to forgive shown here : Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 ESV bible.com/bible/59/mat.18.21-22.ESV Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Proverbs 27:12 ESV bible.com/bible/59/pro.27.12.ESV Your not forced to walk into a incoming sin shown here: The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.

[@nv_chino]

Facts

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

Facts I was just thinking that the other day I’m not the forgiving type nor will I ever be if they betrayed you once they’ll do it again

[@tiffanydennis4227]

I’ve also learned that the narcissistic person will use “love” as an excuse to not take accountability for their actions.

[@victorianjohn]

💯%AGREED TYLER we have a right 2 B upset & IT IS A NORMAL REACTION! It’s not childish R immature wrong doing is wrong doing!! “Ur saying all da things I’ve always wanted 2 say!” ALL Praises🙏🏿 Nonchalant 4giveness doctrine goes hand-in-hand wit dat gaslighter who gaslights; subtle, sudden, surprisingly!

[@nv_chino]

This is straight up facts

[@duke45jp]

That's why i learned how to gas light toxic individuals. It scares them away and keeps them intimidated. It's a good feeling knowing you can expose them at anytime.

[@WoziduranJahemter]

Great clarity! You are very right about this topic of forgiveness Tyler! Transgressors don't deserve to be treated good, they need a discipline lesson that's for sure!

[@LoveMusic-dv4sl]

This video is right on the money. What Tyler was saying happened to me so the friend was blocked, and she started saying I was immature, couldn't handle an adult conversation. Well if your verbally attacking me that wasn't an adult conversation so I said what I had to say, and I blocked her on everything. She took no responsibility for what she did.

[@nathalie8497]

very good

[@MsB635]

So true real talk Mr Tyler anything they say or do is unacceptable. I want nothing from them NEVER ❤️✨💫 they don't have to make it right. I want nothing from them NEVER 👠👠👠been moved on since 2009 thank you for the message.

[@Peace-e8j]

I hear you! They don't have to make it right or apologize... Sh*t on me ONCE... I'm all set with you. See ya next lifetime ✌️

[@jade63073]

I have a 10 yr old who is a master of gaslighting through forgiveness. Learnt it from her daddy. Smh .

[@moonzapata5626]

We have to forgive fast in order to heal or to not corrupt our heart, but that doesn't mean that we need to allow them back into our life or deal with them no matter if they repent or not, that's your decision to set boundaries. That you are right. Repentance is on them and for their mental health and have a clean conscience. It's a great and needed topic of discussion, especially when it comes to folks of abuse. Love your passion.

[@zion367]

Agreed. Forgive and set boundaries.

[@deseriemiller3486]

We all have to forgive because we need it just like you can love somebody from a distance you can forgive somebody from afar God say pray not stay

[@bernetajohnson3296]

Thanks Tyler for always keeping it real. Who ever said Christianity came from Ethiopia is truly misinformed. And even the Bible tells us "if thy right eye offends thee pluck it out."

[@TylerJTI]

A lot of Christians say that it was and it wasn't. They want to give praise to king ezana who was king of Nubia in Ethiopia that found Christianity, which is a lie. The bloodlines of the elites came down to Ethiopia and king ethiopia convert them out of their spiritualism into christianity and they moved to North Africa to covert them to it as well.

[@Texas_Made_]

7:45 BOYYYYY Tyler,this is just what keeps my mother pinned down...I telle her "this is WHY people do you the way they do,because they KNOW your a "Christian lady" and will forgiveeee them" and keep it pushing....they play on her heart strings...makes me sick everytime!🙄😒😒,some people even get mad at you for calling out other people's bs and want to say "don't tell me what to do" all while complaining to you constantly about what happened to them lol

[@tracymurrell]

This message is right on time for me today☺️

[@inspiredinlife1]

Good information. Some people are just hard to be around for long. Sometimes it's the small things where you can tell that the person is not really for you, friend or boyfriend. Eg. Their mannerisms, not really having a good conversation as they seem to differ or drift away. Body language and even their own words. I'm very observant and can be a serious person. I hate it when someone doesn't listen and ignores what I'm saying. It's so rude, a nonstarter for me. Glad I moved out of that friendship. The person apologised when I explained how I felt about everything. I forgave but I m gone anyway. So no chance of a repeat. It's not only their words that confirm who they are but also their body language and actions. When people show you who they are, believe them.

[@lisamartin4541]

MAGNIFICENT DELIVERY. Shout out from London. Bless

[@TASconfidential]

Exactly!!! You can forgive someone AND cut them off too!!!

[@TLowCTI]

I don't forgive and cutt off.

[@CharlesBukowski-m1o]

​@@TLowCTI Agreed! "Forgiveness" is so overrated. It nearly killed me a few times I did it in the past

[@weesebowski8651]

Well said brother! Still here applying principles daily keeping the negativity away!

[@triplet9213]

Where you been??? Your messages Crack me up 🤣😂🤣, because you go in hard on those toxic people. You cuss'em out in your messages. But you be so on point!.

[@tribal563]

Sir, You are a brilliant fucking man. You’re gifted in search and simple common fucking sense!! Love my brother of God. Amen 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 ❤❤❤

[@reneerussell1614]

Amen, my brother! Your videos resonate something familiar. My cousin and sister are thorns in my behind.

[@believeingodvibes2352]

Tyler keep doing this! Speakin truth! Thank you!

[@SunnyBeetle1922]

Forgiveness has to be earned by those who deserve it and know they need to earn it. If it’s not earned, it can’t be given. It’s NEVER ok to abuse people, no matter what anybody says and no one should expect forgiveness from someone they continue to abuse💯💯

[@featheredserpentofthewest2049]

Pure truth. Tyler, man...you are an amazing individual. I can absolutely relate precisely to this subject.

[@GilliMarieMoody]

OMG. You are SO right! The gaslighting is REAL. This is why I’m taking my sis to court.

[@ameerahrashada4515]

Strong. True. And Wise Words Thank You

[@leap6609]

Tyler you are the truth I clapped shouted and teared up you haven’t told one lie! Keep doing what you doing you are helping so many people! 💯

[@featheredserpentofthewest2049]

Peace Tyler. I can't hear the audio I'll try on my desktop.

[@dhirrenmeghrajh8293]

Thank you Tyler - this was a great video to watch and learn from Stay safe brother

[@PurpleGoddess24]

Great content and wisdom Tyler!!

[@Texas_Made_]

13:26 LMFAOOOOOO I play this same line in my head when I see a snake family member showing up at events👀😒😒🤣

[@CoachG7K]

Thank you Tyler your content is awesome, i really appreciate you giving us downloads for free.

[@MrRandonYoung]

Preach!

[@ladybird491]

Until someone make right and also apologize from the heart with more than the just one apologetic word I do not forgive and never will. Forgiving without someone making right usually backfires in your face. I actually prefer to forgive once i get the feeling they got karma, because most people knew they were doing you wrong and just didn't care and is hoping they never be made to hit the road unless they made right.

[@twinpyramid5985]

Tyler 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

[@deannang455]

Calling someone "immature" is belittling someone, and part of using their power trip. Really they feel so small inside they have to tare someone else down to make themselves feel superior. Why even have these people in my life? No matter what, you have the right to say No, to leave the situation and go No Contact (if possible), or at least bare minimal contact. Even if they happen to be a therapist, doctor, social worker, or other professional working for you, you have the right to fire them.

[@Amandalee80]

I get so excited when I see you uploaded a video

[@yourstruly1984]

Per usual.. another great message by Yours Truly, Tyler ! Thank you for always bring truth, transparency and authentic content ❤

[@MrBillybathgate5]

Forgiving people is gods job not mine ….

[@ancientsoul4811]

I'm not qualified to forgive two faced ,doublecrossing ,backstabbing, Bible toting,scripture quoting religious devil's.

[@Kenondatrack]

Dude you are so on point!!!! You have one of the best ratios out of all!!!!!

[@TheSpicyandFunLife]

I really love your videos. Thank you!🙏

[@AnonymousGuy-ij3xi]

It's not true that God wants you not to forgive or walk into incoming sin shown in verses below : Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 ESV bible.com/bible/59/mat.18.21-22.ESV Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Proverbs 27:12 ESV bible.com/bible/59/pro.27.12.ESV The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.

[@JS-Jms]

Thanks Tyler. This was great timing for me to hear. 👍

[@serene2414]

Thank you Tyler !!💞

[@leonardwills4268]

I can't stand arrogance that's not going to get that person to heaven

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

Facts they need to move forward they should have did research on me I ain’t speak to some of my family in 10 years these folks aren’t an exception delusional

[@msdecemberloveangel8236]

I haven't spoken to my sister in 12 years. I think some family is the worst

[@tommyparkerparker]

@@msdecemberloveangel8236 Sadly that is the truth.

[@conversingwithconita]

Hello Tyler great video as always 🥰

[@jamesbreeden9016]

You are so spot on Tyler. You said 100% my friend. Great video. Blessings

[@latoyadale5747]

Good perspective and insight on the topic of "Forgiveness" Tyler!

[@lorenherrera6988]

Thank you Tyler 👍🏻🙏🏻❤️‍🔥💯

[@latanyapalmer7252]

ABSOLUTELY 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾.

[@freeintheessence4907]

Truth🔥🔥🔥

[@featheredserpentofthewest2049]

My bad. Got it.

[@Brloder]

Where’s your videos Tyler been waiting on some new drops…

[@MelanatednNature]

Accurate 😊

[@tearyeyelady1441]

You speaking facts

[@heatherlynn3438]

I can’t get this video to play? It’s blacked out?

[@miak6859]

Good Afternoon, Tyler Please Tyler will you help with a video on when the evil steels all you have even all the way down to your under garments please Tyler I am so besides myself I just want my stuff back why so much vindictive sabotaging evilness

[@LoveMusic-dv4sl]

Is anybody else having issues with sound on the video? I'm getting no sound

[@TylerJTI]

Click on it again, and you will hear the sound

[@l.k.1111]

Yes, I watched it twice. Once had sound and the other did not. I may need to update my KZbin app😂...😟

[@LoveMusic-dv4sl]

@@TylerJTI I did and still no sound.

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

Christian’s are lost NEXT if they was living right they wouldn’t have put themselves in a position to even have to ask for forgiveness BYE 👋🏾

[@erickanguiano1854]

It’s crazy cuz my ex came back to me we we’re friends in time I was helping her then later this she leave me cuz of her parents don’t like me I was being forced to break up with her and I said no till this day I still get the blame on after I did a lot for some I don’t expect nothing for some one when u give some one money

[@mikeymiller3211]

I think I subscribe to your Channel about 3-4 years ago if I'm not mistaken

[@TylerJTI]

Yes You have been for quite some time

[@adrianwilliams9933]

Some people the life they live no making it right or forgiveness you have some dishonest lowdown people the actions are like ways.

[@dreamwevr]

Tyler I been listening to your videos about people who do you wrong and doctrine of forgiveness I recently experienced it my own dad he has so much jealousy toward me it’s ridiculous and nothing but hatred then when address him about he is in denial it’s.like ain’t nothing has happened just pure hatred & jealousy very spiteful sprit he talk that god talk but he is hypocrite I wanted to add what I have came to the conclusion that so many people who don’t like you because of who you are and never will you have to stay away from them for good Tyler what I realize that they were never meant to be for you that’s family too you are correct you don’t have to forgive one who constantly try to cause unness problems with you I go by Michal you can you do video request when you can when parents siblings so called friends associates whoever want to block your blessing you must stay away from them for good I had to realize so many people are envious and jealousy of what going to do or accomplish that’s just bottom line best not share with them your dreams or be in thier presence it’s not good but we got thier number were they are coming from and thier time is up

[@OG-COLD-N-SOLID]

Clicked on it twice can't hear nothing

[@shaylalauren]

This happened on another KZbin channel as well. It will come back up dear.

[@bunnysb2587]

You must mean the trolls are going to come up.

[@johnsmith-rd3zx]

the trick is to care about sex with goodlooking women but also care about people places and things that are not sex with pretty women as far as forgiveness we can have both sex and love

[@fierymoonchild3313]

💖

[@freedommakers101]

Bingo

[@tiffanydennis4227]

Oh and when you stand your ground with that religion stuff. Christian will say that the word of God is my opinion

[@souliethespiritguide]

🔥🔥💯❤️🙏🏽

[@Tom-cp6yj]

what if the roles are reversed and you sincerely apologized on your part directly to this person and ask for forgiveness in an easy forgiving situation and they still didn't care at all but YET the universe continues to cram this connection (they refuse to accept) down my throat everyday by showing me signs even though I've done all that I could? it's been nearly 4 years in separation!

[@AnonymousGuy-ij3xi]

It's not true that God wants you not to forgive or walk into incoming sin shown in verses below : Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 ESV bible.com/bible/59/mat.18.21-22.ESV Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. Proverbs 27:12 ESV bible.com/bible/59/pro.27.12.ESV The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.

[@kendraheard8240]

Once you've asked a person to forgive you...and they won't...don't worry about it you did ur part and took accountability and asked for their forgiveness....let God deal with their heart but u have been set free from tht....by asking for forgiveness...God Bless

[@charlesmiller7958]

😇🙏

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

If they did it they meant it these are grown ass men and women forgive Them for what

[@IamTheOne-ne4ls]

My thing is what is there to talk about when you do something to destroy their lives to the point where it’s hard to do things there ain’t shit to talk about all I hear is dollar signs I’m not gaining nothing from forgiving them they can kick rocks 🪨

[@Tena714]

Right