What to do when someone is taking you for granted

[@philip594]

Actually sometime I don't understand people. If someone is showing nice and you really make them feel loved they will take you for granted. But if someone ignore them they will do everything to be appriciated

[@bettabelieveit34]

Philip Randy Quesada yes I don't understand it

[@trendsexposedsportsandnews2151]

Exactly my daily confusion

[@kshitijchopradance]

rejection leads to obsession

[@WatchtheWaters12]

Kshitij Chopra that is so true!! I never thought of that, but it makes so much sense.

[@cool4rocknroll]

Most people are just Fucking stupid and are narcissist. Yes, I hate stupid people like that. Not the good people. It's these arrogant M.F's out there screwing people over just to get whatever they want and manipulate the person to get it. Humanity makes me sick. Everything is a lie in this Life. Just being honest and calling it as I see it. Stay away from people like that and live in nature.

[@sunkist7]

I've learned over the years to just take my time to let a person show me who they really are. People who try to rush me into trusting them are usually users who only want to get what they want out of me and move onto the next.

[@TylerJTI]

Sylvia:D.So true in what you have spoken here, nothing but truth. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@robertcampbell9946]

@@TylerJTI This opening my eyes to how I've been takin for granted for years. I just recently changed my ways & now these ppl now say " I've changed. But I don't what they say , they should paid attention to their behavior.✌✌One love bro.

[@onyxlotus7126]

I simply ghost people who take me for granted. I don't argue, say anything, or even tell them about it. I don't mistreat them, but I don't continue to treat them good either. I simply ghost them & leave them in the dust.

[@redbone8844]

Me too I detach and move tf around I love when they think I’m green far from that I see what you thought you was going to do and that’s try and come up off me when they didn’t even EARN that privilege!

[@traceyhutcherson97]

Your reply was great 😃👍.

[@MimiCoco-gt7zo]

Exactly leave them in the dust

[@kyki8512]

Me too! I do the EXACT SAME THING and exactly the same way that you said it too! 😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👍🤜🤛❤️

[@debbie9113]

Wow! This is so relevant to me right now!!! Someone that took me for granted completely is trying to reconnect. They know I'm a good, genuine, loyal and kind person. The thing is that they've mistaken my kindness for weakness... This gives me strength. Thank you so much again. I'm blessed to have found your channel.

[@TylerJTI]

Lol, That person trying to reconnect, their pride was to blind to see what they had. It's probably to late now. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@debbie9113]

+Tyler JTI Yes definitely too blind! I still like them but believe it's partly due to their life being a mess right now too. I could be wrong... Anyway, I need to do what's best for me. Thanks again!! Peace and Blessings to you too. 😊

[@salsalegend]

I was told my ex may want to reconnect with me in a year, I said no way will I ever take him back he dumped me to marry someone else, he'll end up doing the same to his wife.

[@debbie9113]

+Maria Vint Good for you. It sounds like you've had a very lucky escape. Yes he'll hurt his wife the same way too.

[@cool4rocknroll]

Debbie it's cool to be a good peaceful kind loving person. But don't overdo it? That's how they did me grimy and wrong. To where I treat certain people accordingly through their actions. Be civil, but don't take no mess.

[@morishadanee8076]

I agree with this completely! Saying " I already have " is empowering. I already have everything I need from God! I learned a lot from this message! Thanks Tyler

[@TylerJTI]

Thank you so much Morisha danee. Peace and blessings to you and that thank you so much for the comment!

[@marlanantelle9958]

Wow great message

[@BKLYNGIRL222]

Excellent. The mantra of "I already have..." helps us to realize that we are worthy and not lacking. Sometimes when we are either too nice or trusting, people take us for granted. But once we understand that we deserve better, we can move on. You are so right! Thank you.

[@TylerJTI]

Hey there IReminisceNYC. Thank you so much for the warm comment and that you are right when it comes to being too nice and trust because some people will take the opportunity to take an individual for granted. Thank you so much! Peace and blessings to you.

[@siasharma6845]

Hm

[@theonetrueking3612]

By the way, people most of the time knows your not okay with something, yet they abuse your kindness anyway. That's why you should never become a people pleaser

[@traceyowenhughes9223]

I am not worried. KARMA is an equal opportunity employer LOL. Like the old folks say.. Live Long Enough.

[@dg5175]

It usually happens when you leave for good, and they've had time to themselves to learn they're lessons. Then that's when they want to make things right.

[@bettabelieveit34]

D W yes and when they try to sneak back in to be nice to you cut they Ass completely off for good fuck them if they don't call or check up on you fuck'em

[@gmatinky3965]

@@bettabelieveit34 CORRECT ✔💯✌

[@bettabelieveit34]

@@gmatinky3965 Yes Ma'am 👌

[@chinelleclark3380]

This!!

[@onyxlotus7126]

I don't give second chances so too little too late as far as I'm concerned

[@AuthorJanaeMarie]

You're probably the only one saying not to let it bother you. Other KZbinrs would just blame the person like what did you do to make them take you for granted.

[@TylerJTI]

The reason why I say they have to meet karma which won't be pretty for them. Karma will always visit them. Peace and blessings to you.

[@haitiqueen0119]

Im not worried of mad... I know what i bring to the table. A generation of selfish people has me not wanting to deal with people like that.. I'll take the company of animals over people anyday😂😂 people these days are definitely something else🤦

[@marlanantelle9958]

He is so on to something! I love where his heart is at with it ♥️

[@dovc2films]

Im watching this crying bro as a man i can admit that i have been taken for granted and i have been done dirty numerous times for having a big heart and being a giving person

[@brianhoule3219]

I hear ya , Especially when it's a damaged woman who doesn't know how great she is inside One question, have you ever tried to make a woman like this ever try to realize her own self value , just to be told your weak ?

[@ladybird491]

I am so sorry to hear that, please don't change. I m a woman and have so many times that I spend almost all my time alone now, and so it doesn't happen to me again.

[@ladybird491]

@@brianhoule3219 damaged people are no longer great inside, because damage people damage others, and often have demons jumping in them.

[@fayselelouah6668]

We're in the same boat.. that's okay

[@carolborela407]

I 😍 love how you stressed that Karma will visit thank you.

[@tommyparkerparker]

I wish I heard this message a long time ago. Some people that took me for granted , I would have showed them this message.

[@huntresskrystle]

Mr. Tyler, I'm a subscriber from the Philippines. I just want to extend my heartfelt thanks for all these videos you are doing. I know you get this a lot, but you are really, seriously helping save lives. These past two months had been unbelievably difficult for me but your videos and motivational words help me get through each day. You are an angel. Thank you so much.

[@TylerJTI]

Huntersskrystle. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@justinafields4450]

THANK YOU, THANK YOU....For this GREAT video. I am suffering RIGHT now with a couple of people taking me for GRANTED, treating me WRONG and I have always gone out of my way to treat everybody RIGHT. After watching this video I feel so encouraged.... Shalom My Brother

[@TylerJTI]

Justina Fields. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@La1hood]

Justina Fields I wish I watched this before today. I snapped finally. Gonna move on though i d k if it will ever work

[@soulqueen3819]

I am done dealing with fake people taking me for granted 🤔

[@Autumnbreexo]

This video made me feel so better thank you !

[@martavass4524]

You should be a life coach Thank you for making videos!

[@WanderingNature]

That's why I'm single as myself I can trust

[@TylerJTI]

Hey Shelley McKendrick, Peace and blessings to you. I understand you because we live in a society of untrustworthy people and one has to be careful when trying to trust an individual. There is a great possibility that person will run all over you because of being too nice.

[@neymarabarbosa2189]

I am also single for the same reason (and also because I prefer to be free)... I need a friend that's why I'm going to get myself a dog. I gave up on human beings...

[@TylerJTI]

Hey Leandro Soares. I understand you because there are a lot of untrustworthy people here out here. When someone is nice to them, then they rather abuse someone then to appeciate and value that person. Peace and blessings to you. Thank you so much

[@LightBumble]

HAHAAAAAA ;-D So funny. I had to jump up and write notes.. LOL and when you talked about Karma with so much force it was Hilarious!!! You make me smile and laugh!! Thanks

[@TylerJTI]

Light Bumble. Thank you so much. Peace and blessings to you.

[@sharletperkins3825]

Lmfao it was funny

[@dominicrealestate466]

This Dudes Official AF!!

[@euphoricsounds4988]

I love this guy! Karma don't miss no body, an doesn't have to make a appointment!

[@mariapannullo6138]

I recently discovered You.....this is an awesome video! excellent delivery on the Karma explanation ...sometimes I feel like these mean people never get it back, thank you Tyler

[@ashleyjones104]

Speak the truth, my season is coming. Thank you for this message. Karma is real!

[@convict240]

all my life, i've had nothing but friends who took me for granted. so threw out all of them but for them it was no problem. they met better people than me. all while i have absolutely no people in my life right now.

[@bettabelieveit34]

jericho turbo jones don't feel bad I bet you they Ass is gonna get what's coming to them

[@TheRealDealHunny]

jericho turbo jones , those people you threw out of your life were toxic. Trust, I understand. I've weeded people from my life, and I'm still weeding. I feel better now and you will too very soon. Join a gym, go to a worship center/church, go skating or join a baseball/ basketball team. You will make new friends while adding value to your life. You are not alone.

[@theresaandrade5708]

jericho turbo jones , you can look for them at church, also a great way to find a church since you can judge the church by their character.

[@convict240]

you know what makes this hard? the reason why i chose to hang out with them in the first place was because i thought they were awesome people. many other people thought so too. and they were always so nice to me at first. but later, they started to treat me like i was worthless, all while still treating some other people really well.

[@whiteliner9825]

You seem really sweet... God got your back...😘

[@darrylholt4370]

Preach My Brother ❤💯 😊

[@spsmith9525]

Thank you sir...waiting for tables to turn.

[@TylerJTI]

Sp Smith. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@bettabelieveit34]

Sp Smith keep your head held high and karma is a Bitch

[@chasey4811]

Did the table turn?

[@mariahsmith5380]

Yeah did it? Lol

[@jazminbarbarayoung8150]

He took me for granted for so many years

[@j.d.9378]

Thank you for your wisdom Tyler.

[@TylerJTI]

J.D. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@Fleurish22]

Powerful! An absolutely powerful video. Thank you so much for sharing this truth and wisdom :)

[@TylerJTI]

IsisHunter7.Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.

[@jackmarsh8293]

Preach 🙏🙌🏻🙌🏻thanks for the video Tyler I really needed to here this tonight. Much appreciated insight

[@lordkingeldagod2202]

Peace and love; I appreciate you for the wisdom that you share with us. Thank you!

[@TylerJTI]

You are mostly welcome Lord King El da God. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@2cutenisha]

This touched my heart in so many ways thank you so much I was so broken but you gave me hope!!!

[@edithwelbourne6451]

I’ve been in this relationship with a guy I care for so much...I’ve been giving him money each and everyday..talking about morning afternoon evening and he still treats me like shit...I’m always there for him...if he is stuck someone and he calls me I’ll be running to get to him so as to save him...he hurts me so much and has been cheating on me with 3 other girls..having sex with them..I didn’t leave after finding out cause I felt he needed me to survive...but it’s too much now I can’t take it...I just broke up with him and I feel so sad because I did everything for him...everything he asked for I did...I don’t understand why he treated me like this...I never cheated on him never thought of doing it but he still treated me bad. I feel like dying

[@2cutenisha]

@@edithwelbourne6451 Sometimes we fall for all the wrong reasons. I honestly can’t give you any advice cause I’m still dealing with the same thing. I honestly gave up and I’m right back with him. I don’t think I’m gone hang on to him much longer but we love hard and In life people tends to want what they can’t have. You can’t help everybody especially when they using you for things as of money. I never give a guy anything but I am always their when he needs me. But I think you should Start saying no!! But you need to pray ask god is this the man for you. If your a god believer. Ask him to remove people that’s not post to be in your life and you’ll know if this guy is the one. You gotta be stronger. It’s plenty more people in this world would love to have you around. Some of us lose hope in love because we waste so much time on the wrong people. Fall back from him a little. Gain your self confidence back. Take yourself out show him your happy more then sad. Act like you don’t care. If he loves you he’ll be back treating you right. I never deal with cheating men if I find out I’m gone. Because if you cheated with 3 different people he would leave you. Learn how to start treating people how they treat you. It’s a cold world we living in. Only the strong survive. Go on my page I have a few tips to help you out my love. I’m so sorry your going threw this you seem like a unique person don’t let it get you down learn how to smile when it hurts.

[@edithwelbourne6451]

@@2cutenisha thank you so much God bless you!!!! I broke up with him today but I have a feeling he will come back cause most times he does and I don’t want him to come back because I can’t say no to him but I’ve heard everything you’ve said and I definitely will say no...it really is a harsh world because I don’t know what I did to him for him to treat me like this..I’ve been crying all night but I’ll be fine..thank you sooo much for your time and I’ll definitely pray and ask God if he is the one for me he should come back but if he isn’t God should not let him come back or to give me strength so I say no to him...I’m definitely going to check out your page...God bless you!!! Thank you sooo much for your time!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@2cutenisha]

@@edithwelbourne6451 You welcome sweetheart and you don’t have to thank me it’s only right. When he comes back don’t be so nice to him. Let him do all the talking and a sincere apology will be wonderful for you. Don’t have sex with him until he’s whiling to show you he’s whiling to let go all them other women. Get tested And Know your worths because men don’t like weak women they love a woman who shows them tuff love like their mother. So at least 14 days without answering his calls don’t text don’t block him. Act like you don’t care. It worked for me. Good luck!!! Keep your head up it’s not the end of the world. ♥️♥️😊

[@edithwelbourne6451]

@@2cutenisha okay thank you so much!!! I sure will do whatever you say!! God bless you for your timeeee!!!! And I hope whatever you pray for will be answered in Jesus name❤️❤️

[@lemooncakee]

Preach!!! Words of wisdom. Bless you 👏👏👏

[@jbyrd1203]

Not me I dont take ppl for granted and although thata what happens. Though I do alot of awesome things if, I sat back and worried about what someone else fail to do I'd be wasting my own time. I rather go👉 once I'm gone he or she is sure to realize How valuable I am, any unfairness show their foolishness everything I do or done is a knowledge then they remember, and appreciate and value me! But by then it's too late.. once I'm gone I dont come back because I already know the kind of person you are. And i dont worry yea it get frustrating but me personally I learn patterns adapt then cut you loose..I'm already 10 ahead, but Great advice!👌

[@TheChowxs]

Thank you Mr. Tyler! I needed to hear this!

[@vm2958]

Love your videos just stumbled across your videos today love them love the positivity keep them coming

[@salsalegend]

I can see that happening to my ex, thank you my friend!

[@TylerJTI]

Maria Vint. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.

[@VioletFlame-Ivy]

This video has given me strength so many times. Thank you so much!

[@Princessaa111]

Omg I wish I had a dad like him 💗

[@elizabethm193]

Thank you I totally agree with what you’re saying my situation is that I was adopted and my adoptive mother died therefore I have no brothers no sisters no cousins , etc..the few children that I do have to not even give me a dollar item for Christmas it’s really hurtful. Basically I get depressed during Christmas because I don’t get a gift from anyone in the planet I feel as though I do not exist

[@supremetantheman8698]

Tyler i was young and appeared to do what i decided to do emediately. i gave her away. but the promise is forever and just would like to here something positive from you to keep me focused and ready to work.

[@ProGaming6.]

Yes indeed… love this

[@ozzydfc9229]

I just started watching your videos you have the best videos I have ever listen no bullshit thank you

[@TylerJTI]

Ozzy Dfc. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@Shayla203]

Thank you Tyler JTI your video really helped me out,I am glad I came across this

[@TylerJTI]

Shayla B. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@salsalegend]

Your wisdom and advise is so down to earth, I'm glad I found your channel. :)

[@TylerJTI]

Maria Vint. Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it so much.Peace and blessings to you.

[@pjeanettejones-navarro667]

Karma catches up with everybody. Thank you JTI for substantiating my thoughts on this universal truth.

[@Skywalker29]

You’re speaking them facts thank you

[@jeeteshwarisingh7075]

Very beautiful message

[@legendarytonyclutch]

Great video & I'm kinda going through this now but it's all good like I say karma don't miss no one

[@bettabelieveit34]

Anthony Morris don't worry same here

[@chitramoontarot]

Great words of wisdom!!!

[@La1hood]

the one who did for a year to me did not see my kindness today. I snapped finally and we got in a huge fight. too late. oh well I'll move on

[@amyjacobs8306]

maria maria huh?

[@jajacap9750]

God is good thank you

[@ashleyjones104]

Thank you for your wisdom, God bless ☺

[@dominicrealestate466]

This is so True!! I had to learn the Hard Way Didn’t know any better. 😢😢😢

[@ladybird491]

I just walked out my marriage this week, due to being taken from granted one too many times. He think I am not gone but I am. I don't get treated fairly or as his equal. The universe moved me away from my husband, I only hope he can handle his karma. I told him that karma is coming for him, and that I hope he can deal with it.

[@tboned2928]

Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay

[@tboned2928]

+=2=3=4=8=0=7=0=7=6=8=9=9=2...

[@tboned2928]

massage him on WhatsApp..

[@Char8538]

Amen .I hear ya !

[@TylerJTI]

Char W. Thank you so much for your ocmmen.t Peace and blessings to you.

[@3himalaya]

MR TYLERRRR...i am clapping hands to you! Wohoooo... And dancing... Ahaha... Boy, believe, it is the ultimate true : never ever take any for garanted... Life does by itself... Yeah yeah.... Mr Tyler, thanks so much for sharing your real wisdom with all, i loveeee when you raise your voice.... It goes deeper , thankkk youuu...

[@abeni8991]

He's good!

[@sandracoppola5572]

Subscribed immediately!! ❤️

[@TylerJTI]

Sandra Coppola. Welcome aboard. Peace and blessings to you.

[@sandracoppola5572]

Tyler JTI Thank you so much Tyler!

[@edithwelbourne6451]

I’ve been in this relationship with a guy I care for so much...I’ve been giving him money each and everyday..talking about morning afternoon evening and he still treats me like shit...I’m always there for him...if he is stuck someone and he calls me I’ll be running to get to him so as to save him...he hurts me so much and has been cheating on me with 3 other girls..having sex with them..I didn’t leave after finding out cause I felt he needed me to survive...but it’s too much now I can’t take it...I just broke up with him and I feel so sad because I did everything for him...everything he asked for I did...I don’t understand why he treated me like this...I never cheated on him never thought of doing it but he still treated me bad. I feel like dying

[@SofiaGogo]

If he cant appreciate what he have he has a problem it is not you. I hope you are doing better and hope you can focus on loving and healing yourself. Peace ❤️🕊️

[@03lisajade]

Thank you Tyler x

[@TylerJTI]

03lisajade. Thank you so much for your comment . Peace and blessings to you.

[@destined2begreat605]

That's right brotha I agree wit u 💯 new subbie!

[@geraldinefuller7832]

great message🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@TylerJTI]

Geraldine Fuller. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@irispelican9449]

Adorable Tyler JTI!

[@geraldinefuller7832]

Peace and Blessings ...love all your videos

[@TylerJTI]

Geraldine Fuller. Thank you for comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@danielthorson7855]

Your videos are on fire. Amazing.

[@edzordzinamishmael9927]

I miss this man😢

[@edencrush2223]

I love the part about karma, my ex took me for granted and I stopped the relationship....we were in our 20s, here we are almost 30 yrs later, his ex wife used and abused him so badly that he was in a massive state of depression.....KARMA, you disrespected me and he told me he had an excellent thing with me but he messed it up over and over again....l just got out of a 12-year relationship....same crap....he took me for granted and I got fed up....l am in a place of healing right now.....so l am going through different emotions daily, but l keep blaming myself.

[@madelinealongi8628]

wow that's my x always coming around on an off

[@TylerJTI]

Marilyn Alongi. Thank you so much for telling your short story. Peace and blessings ot you.

[@mair50]

thank you so much Tyler.... ur words really touched me in deeply

[@jessicaf7236]

So much yes! I love this ♡ Thank you

[@ofek_azaria]

Thank you man. I'm sure it's gonna help

[@ironlungoh]

Love your videos!! Real talk, thanks!!

[@sharonanderson6926]

karma is real..for sure

[@TylerJTI]

Sharon Anderson. So true in what you spoke. Peace and blessings to you.

[@jazminbarbarayoung8150]

I hope so

[@normaconedera]

Thank you

[@topgrom]

Love this video… needed to see this

[@ebonyduffy9477]

I was in a relationship with a person why took me for granted. What I couldn't comprehen was the person who did this to me, prior to him beeing in a relationship before me, this person told me that he was in love with the women more then they were in love with him. Mind you too, I was very insecure. This guy tried to holler at a friend of mine.I had mentioned to him about him trying to talk to her. He said Ebony we are not married. I remember asking him something, I forgot what I ask him. His responds was, Ok I am going to be honest. When you and i worked together, i use to think to myself when, their is Janet or Mary or tisha why mess with you when i can talk to them. Ummmmm its funny when a person Let one person big them up, when they're not used to women liking him like i did. And to be honest he grow on me.

[@nancymc]

peace be with you too.

[@MaryBartnikowski]

thank you - great video - very helpful!

[@TylerJTI]

Mary Bartnikowski. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.

[@your_princesa_isabelg]

31k views 31k subs Well done👍

[@andreahoward2683]

Preach!!

[@claytonziegler1385]

What if the person didn’t mean to treat the person so unfair. Often the person has there own struggles that they are dealing with and maybe they can’t see there misdeeds clearly. But I am only speaking of my own personal experience and so I have a different perspective. I 100% believe what you say about the whole karma and the “person will get the same treatment back 20 fold”, but this isn’t a fair world or life and many people get away with things and never have to go through the same things themselves.

[@nancymc]

hey Tyler I think you should. I am trying to figure out how you manage including responding to comments. have a good day

[@TylerJTI]

I will,but it might be a delay due to volume of video requests coming in! Peace and blessings to you.

[@kellitorrence4231]

OMG,, Tyler Mamakelli here, sweetie and i must tell u from the bottom of my heart U

[@FeeOnYoutube]

I agree.

[@sapouche4982]

Thank you 😭

[@jalenkeyray]

Thank you so much

[@nancymc]

how do you make time to do these videos, so much work and time. take care of yourself and always thank you very much

[@TylerJTI]

I think i need to do a video on that heee! Do you think so how to do I make time to do these videos because I have two channels lol? Peace and blessings to you.

[@Skywalker29]

I use to want that person back and thinking after change but now the universe has moved me emotionally and I don’t want my ex back while she keeps calling and texting and trying to get me back. I don’t want no fake energy I’m done

[@danishaferreira7796]

I really like this 👍✨

[@dexterrr9163]

Good speech mate

[@yolandalaguer1173]

Thanks

[@caribshogun9772]

Thank you.

[@traceyowenhughes9223]

Leave their Ads ALONE. Karma will get them. However, they treat you, it will come back to them.

[@donnablack2947]

That is a given

[@lelediamondASMR]

I hope so so much