Ugly men do NOT cheat? +Six years no ring from boyfriend and more - Ask Ashley

[@zhinningenge1754]

Ashley's new hairstyle is great! She looks 10 years younger than in her previous videos!

[@tmcurly]

It’s gorgeous but she switches it up weekly ☺️

[@CinemaDoll137]

natural / natural looking hair makes us black women look more youthful

[@cookinghealthy8049]

Babygirl got played 😂. The Uglies be pulling mad women and cheats just as much. He played the innocent role but deep down inside he is a city boy. We all live and learn chile 🤣

[@kayyjohnson8325]

Right that's like saying broke men don't cheat

[@themoonbleu627]

I get the bag only from the ugliest they nasty

[@SkyLove80.]

Growing up I watched my mom have kids out of wedlock. Date men, live with them. And I never felt the urge to live with a man who I wasnt married to or date a man for years without a proposal. We are all different.

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

Ashley, this hairstyle makes you look youthful and fresh; it definitely suits you!❤️

[@IAMHERE486]

I’ve never wanted marriage but I don’t understand wasting lots of years on a man who won’t marry you!Move on already…

[@ShayLamere]

If you don’t want marriage or lots of years with a man, what exactly do you want? (not judging, genuinely seeking perspective cause it’s not my first time hearing this)

[@RoTheSoulDiamond]

One person’s ugly is another person’s beautiful

[@africagreen902]

Met my husband in college and we were committed to relationship but he was not sure on career path. He needed those 6 years to figure it out and he did, got solidified, saved some money and 17 years married here we are happy and enjoying life. Had we married when he was 19 and me 21…it would have ended in disappointment 😂

[@chronometa]

Weird time caps. A good relationship is a relationship, why should we mess it up putting that label on it?

[@ThePinkPillOfficial]

Yeah this isn’t the norm but congrats none the less !🎉

[@Johnyrocket70]

She's wasn't in college or committed. She said it herself she is young & not ready. They don't even communicate these days. They aren't raised to be wives either. She's playing house until the house burns down.

[@amiianectar]

So you dated for 6 years or broke up and got back together?

[@africagreen902]

@@amiianectar dated throughout . Think high school sweethearts but we met in college. We were just past 20 and nowhere near ready to marry. He was in school on basketball scholarship and I was starting on MA. His parents had been married since they were 18 and that’s what he wanted, to get married and have a family. No way it would have made sense for us then.

[@yanou4u]

The only thing that can stop a man from cheating is himself. Cooking, cleaning, good sex won't keep him from doing it if that's what he wants to do.

[@triciaokran]

Miss Ashley ALWAYS be EATING!! Come on now with the HAIR🔥. It’s been a while since I came on but I’ll never stop supporting. This channel is Everything!!!❤

[@ashleyldalton]

Hey Tricia!! Thank you soooo much 😊💕✨ hope all is well!!

[@tcha2107]

That isn't always the case with getting with a man that likes you more than you like him. I know someone that had that same experience and she didn't like him in that way but he kept being persistent and kind to her and she decided to give him a chance even though she wasn't really attracted to him and she said it turned out to be a horrible relationship. He then changed and started to not treat her good no more. So that isn't always true. I think the best thing that woman can do is always work on themselves and be happy. Enjoy your life until THE CREATOR brings the right man for you. Don't stress over these guys cause they sure won't stress over you. Make everyday count be happy be blessed and create the best version of yourself that you want to be. Everything else will fall in line. Self-love is key 🔑 ❤❤❤.

[@1hoodnerd]

“I’m “disabled.” And people have misconceptions about what that means all the time, but people are people at the end of the day! One may be deemed “handicap” by societal norms but EXTREMELY capable of ANYthing (bs included, success included as well). A good life lesson shown here: “ugly” “disabled” all the “titles” given - nothing is as it seems. ❤

[@nikevabrown6614]

17:55 Brene Brown is so wise. The minute a relationship requires you to compromise who you are it is time to let them go!

[@sylviabooze7122]

Ladies, it is drop dead gorgeous men out here that are good man you do not have to date the bogeyman. I literally just left a diner to get a cocktail and happy hour snacks must had a great conversation with Hispanic man. I don’t even know we laughed and I recommended a cocktail for him. He tried it and loved it, and when my check came, he paid for it, I thanked him and wished him a good evening and that was that. You literally have better options sitting at a bar at a nice restaurant then you do dealing with these broke and broken monsters on dating apps and spending all your childbearing years with someone that has no intention of marrying you

[@rasulsamad5860]

Definitely a 4 😂😢😢

[@tinawalker5335]

If he is going to cheat he will cheat. Giving them space, cooking, cleaning, catering, being good in bed, etc will not keep a cheater from cheating.

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

💯💯💯. I was quite surprised- and honestly disappointed- that Ashley actually stated/agreed with that silly notion. It's naïve, woefully idealistic, and truly _harmful._.

[@yolandashaw2940]

Ain’t that the truth smh

[@angenetterashad9871]

He got game and used nice guy role to get what he wanted

[@stinedange9152]

The second woman sounds like she’s dealing with a narcissist. He doesn’t have to be attractive to be narcissistic…just has to be willing to hurt you to feed his ego and get what he wants!

[@Uke2405]

Never date ugly men. The rich ugly men are spiteful for their years of rejection before they made money. So they want to see women/beautiful wome suffer

[@themoonbleu627]

💯💯

[@tsc094]

Girl, if Ray Charles was playing in faces …JUST IMAGINE

[@nikevabrown6614]

4:20 actual factuals! Ashley came with it! When it comes to the nitty gritty and planning the real things that need to be planned for life….you slack and procrastinate. The one thing you can’t get back is time!

[@ebonieriley8309]

Self Control..if he has none...he will cheat.

[@ttfells2020]

❤ love the look Ash❤ Wisdom through the ages ... "be with a man that wants you more than you want him". Works in every culture & country cause the game is the game🎯

[@dragonflyseraphim9344]

What you believe is out there for you is what you will attract. Remember that ladies.

[@adrianroberson903]

A ring does not symbolize anything to her she playing and laughing and saying I’m not ready but 6 years is way to long my limit is 2 years if you not a wife by then I move on my self

[@lolab6770]

That's because she didn't want to be married, but feeling pressured by her friends and family so now she feels like she has to.

[@adrianroberson903]

@@lolab6770 why is everything so feelings based you how to have reason and know why you marry and not only that know marriage is about duties and responsibilities as well

[@lolab6770]

@@adrianroberson903 I'm not sure if the response is for me.

[@adrianroberson903]

@@lolab6770 yes it was

[@biNoelle]

The girl asking “how long is too long” dense and naive….. learn to love yourself better. And learn to be okay being alone…..

[@CreolePearls_]

I don’t get the rush to the alter for marriage. 2 years, 4 years shiiid everyone time line and goals are different. Let’s be honest most women will never be married. Men control marriage women control access to sex. Most couples aren’t interested in marriage in their 20s these days anyway. Long as you not dead, you still have time tf

[@kendrahelm1854]

I agree with that. Life doesn’t stop at 30…AT ALL! My aunt didn’t get married until she was in her 40s. They’ve been together for 10+. It comes when it comes, even if we’re super intentional.

[@triciaokran]

Thanks!

[@Babanla420]

I think the first question to ask each other is whether each is date to get married or just dating for companionship. If there isn’t any clear answer or their answer doesn’t align, then there is a problem.

[@IceyIcey2023]

Ashley I just love your vibeeee 🥰

[@Empressme222]

So why is she with him if she doesn’t find him attractive, says he’s awkward…what did you like then?

[@tmcurly]

Money 💰

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

Yea all money the girl is pretty girl . But why go w a awkward dude no experience e been used already for green card ..

[@saharaloveland]

I don't date guys I find physically attractive neither lol but I at least make sure he likes me more. I don't waste my time on a man that is highly attractive at all idc if he claims he likes me..after 26 we need to be more strategic 😂

[@T.H-v4h]

Comfort

[@rasulsamad5860]

She is OK not pretty

[@AfricanMillenial]

Who said that ugly guys don't cheat or have options?

[@tmcurly]

Yup 👍🏾

[@slimebeast5499]

I will never do that I had ugly male friends and they still was dusty lol they’ll spend but it come at a cost two they will def use you for eye candy

[@slimebeast5499]

Don’t even befriends with a ugly guy that like you because they would be lying to their friends about y’all etc. like 1 male friend I would always look dusty around him lol he would get so mad cuz he wanted to show me off as eye candy bad

[@rasulsamad5860]

All yall 4's calling guys ugly is sick work

[@v.l.savage1339]

Standards, morals, GOD and a beautiful heart

[@Hue_10]

We really don’t know if we have time! I lost a lot of ppl young. 😞

[@NN-ko8fu]

You get married when you show you are wife material vs husband material.. i swear.. pple be rushing for marrriage only to get divorced.. just to say i was married...

[@ajohonly3721]

If you’re under 25 is ok to wait a little longer but ! With clear intentions that you both are going to get married.

[@unicorn73212]

If your under 25 don't respond to them stay a virgin too that's what I wish I did because it's really a strong card you can use against them later by deciding to never have sex with them unless they had less then 5 partners. It's harder to stay celibate when you already had a hoe faze in your 20s if your still in your 20s please don't copy my generation and don't have a hoe faze because they don't deserve to be inside you if they aren't capable of loving women. That would confuse the children later on in life if they realized there dad was some sort of male prostitute or club guy that left you before they were born imagine having to explain that to a child.

[@slimebeast5499]

Don’t listen do you whatever you feel at any age

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

​@@slimebeast5499That's true. Every circumstance is different; I married at 24 and have absolutely no regrets.

[@prettiilexii672]

Both people have to be ready to sign the marriage license and be in their individual pursuit of happiness within themselves The last thing you want is a broken marriage because both people didn't come in whole.

[@jadub320]

Wow. Ashley. Great advise

[@Axiom61]

You are a man. You seem like you will give me a good advice. So I am going to leave this comment here. I am a woman and I met this guy. I am 26 and he is 31. I love so many of his qualities but we are not agreeing on something. I live in Africa ( don't want to name the country for privacy 😅 ) and He lives in the U.S. ( Don't get me wrong I am not with him for greencard, I don't want to live my country tbh. My family is doing good and I am doing good for myself too, Have a masters and a degree and I work in an international company so I get paid good. I have a house that I got as a will and I am about to buy my car in a couple of months. I have been with this guy more than a year now, long distance so I don't quite understand what he is thinking tbh and I don't want to waste my time on someone who doesn't see the same value on things. He want to have kids one or two before we get married and his reason is how the divorce rate is on the U.S. I have tried to explain how it is not acceptable in my culture and I don't accept that too because it doesn't align with my values and beliefs. I am a Christian and I have been saving myself till marriage. He wants to bring me to the U.S and he wants me to learn nursing because that pays well, he wants me to have his child and marriage will come after. I am torn in between because why would he invest in me to learn nursing if he doesn't build with me, but then I don't understand how it is easy for him to have a child without being committed. Please advise. What do you think as a man ?

[@Teetoy4]

Ashley you look beautiful.❤❤❤

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽👌🏽💯💯

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

#2 gurl w the headband omg just a beautiful girl super lost 😞 u see how beautiful she is and she’s well spoken … but find a man ur compatible w

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

They know in 6 months... 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@shaypope4732]

True my husband and all 6 of my exes proposed in 3 to 6months

[@themoonbleu627]

@@shaypope4732dang sounds like game so they can quickly hit it because that’s a lot of men

[@Giselleee789]

I am deaddd not the voice box 😂

[@EzraIsreal-xh1ju]

AS A RETIRED MILITARY OFFICER WITH A PhD THE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY THAT TAKES YEARS TO ACCOMPLISHING CREDIT SCORE REPORT BANK ACCOUNT MONEY HEALTHCARE INSURANCE IS TOO MUCH TO RISKS WERE ANYONE WILL RUIN BY LOSING FROM LEGAL ISSUES AFFECTING HIS OR HER OWN PERSONAL ROLE CHEATING IS A MENTAL ISSUE WHICH HAS CONSEQUENCES FOR EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL LIFESTYLE CHANGE

[@calikeisha365]

CapsLock with no punctuation is not easy to read…

[@rosewatersweettea]

Military are broke unless you served 20 years most of you guys make nothing. No disrespect, thank you for your service.

[@Rose-lj9kb]

@@rosewatersweettea you did mean disrespect, have self-respect and just own it.

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

With a PhD I’d expect you to form a coherent sentence

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

Lady number 2: You were likely his first baddie.

[@lavenderangel2655]

And likely his last. They get a big ego and start playing Johnny Bravo and playing you down. All they see is that they got you, and them not being socially practiced they get a chip on their shoulder and start treating you like there's plenty more where you came from, until they realize it was fluke and they just met someone open minded in you, who they now lost.

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

@@lavenderangel2655 open mindedness is a curse for pretty women. Don't do it.

[@lavenderangel2655]

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass I completely agree.

[@rainerwells1573]

@@VeeKayGreenerGrasswell said ❤🎉🎉🎉

[@hellothere8347]

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass😂😂 and it’s so funny how after you date the guy other girls automatically want him

[@AR-cx7ug]

Ashley, you have such poise. I absolutely love it 🥰

[@None-gm4yk]

Commitment, self control

[@msblackberry09]

I took a chance and gave my number to an unattractive man who was also overweight and he tried to play with me.

[@MsLotusBlooms]

Girl, he should have initiated it by now. This is a dead end situation.

[@caribbeancurls1963]

Some great gems in this

[@ericalashan1923]

One of my sorority sisters got cheated on when we were in college...I was like 👀...not cute...second caller...ur not "being nice"...u will date ANYTHING...sorry sis...lol.

[@slimebeast5499]

It make you madder is when they ugly

[@gaudylady7]

Why do you push being intentional in our 20s? I am asking because most of the men I've met at that age were not serious or just after one thing. I did not meet my first boyfriend until my 30s & that was through someone. I understand the second woman, I have "dated down" in the past, both were ended up being abusive, they were 20 years older than me & treated me like I was doing them a favor.

[@hellothere8347]

I understand what you’re saying but as a 23 year old, their are guys in they early 20’s that if they think you are the right girl for you will not just be after that. Good guys do exist while I have had bad experiences I’ve had some really good experiences as well. And I think it’s important to be intentional because we shouldn’t have to be easy or just “having fun” just because that’s what guys do. Have fun but be classy we don’t got to sleep with these guys and we don’t have to be serious with them but it’s a way to be.

[@josephjohnson1057]

Like Ashley but disagree about the two year thing. Not everyone wants to get married. Some folks are content with a lifetime of monogamous relationships. It’s best to just leave a man alone instead of shaming him for not following your demands. (Beware of men who gaslight you as if they want marriage.)

[@lolathelonewolf]

She said her boyfriend also mentioned he wants marriage lmao please it’s just immaturity to take the next step

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

The last girl is cute. What she is suffering from is called _"Imposter Syndrome"._

[@jilllisa5724]

How about you are valuable! You deserve to be treated like a lady. And be loved.

[@danettechavis]

They gotta be "unattractive and broke - Both!" 😂😂😂😂

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

I didn’t notice her studdering 😮😮😮Stephan Hawkins???? We all get that bag …

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

_*Hawking._ 🤓

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

Hawking's name was pronounced as _"Steven"._

[@dorothymatthews6690]

6 year is way too long. Pastor Charles Stanley said you will know if the person is for you in 4 seasons. Winter summer spring and fall. That's 1 year. I dated a man for 3 years and the Holy Spirit told me after 1 year that he was n 4:17 ot for the one for me. I slept with him after 3 months of dating an d let me tell you it took me 10 years to get over him. Ladies dont give away your body and have sex until a relationship leading until marriage of after until you are married. 4:17

[@MsBRETTB]

Preaaaaaacchhhhh!

[@tai5819]

Find your voice 💙

[@selinagrant3252]

Ashleyyyyy this hair!! Come on. 🤍

[@dianjohnson7390]

That's good for younger women, but I'm to old for crap

[@AshleyT716]

Hair ❤❤❤

[@Mae-bu2wu]

Nothing can keep a man from cheating. You could be haven sent herself and he will cheat when and if he wants.

[@Frenchyk]

Fellas don't let ladies set the time table for you to make a lifelong decision that will impact your life forever.

[@FatherDIVINE.]

Right

[@missfavour5760]

Honest question what is the point of a 6 years relationship? What is the point of sleeping with a man for 6 YEARSSSS.

[@robertwright4220]

Males and females cheat at similar rates…. I would say females cheat more and this is drawn from both experience and multiple data sets. It’s one thing I will say females are definitely better at. Not to mention the programming most men have had about females in general. Also, there is a difference between having cheated and being a cheater! One is an act, while the other is a state of being based on a character flaw within that individual! There are ways to determine if a man is a cheater, but many females with all of that “intuition” don’t get it and don’t focus on the right things in a man.

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

She’s lost 6 years long time thsts make it or break it

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

Yep 37 here and when u have no Man U know at 37 … Me I can’t have a kid within 2 years w a guy I want at least 3 years and marriage and a baby see I don’t have the leisure for 3 years to date . No . I have to freeze my eggs and make embryos w donor sperm just in case

[@sweetzmamakitchen7815]

Awww. I met my man at 39 and we had 6 months ago. I’m 42. I was always stressing about having a relationship, kids, etc. I happened for me when I stop making it a top priority and it just happened. You still have time. 🙏🏾💕. Side note I have a lot of females that I know that had their first baby in their 40’s. I know it’s not ideal, but don’t give up faith and don’t rush into something because you are scared.

[@moniquejones379]

I don’t mind dating a man long term but if you want marriage six years is too long. 25 is to young

[@michaele5588]

Nah...my culture, once a woman crosses 26 years old -- she's considered old.

[@slimebeast5499]

I had this convo with my sister lol they got mad cuz I wanted someone cute lol they act like uglies don’t cheat lol

[@themoonbleu627]

If your trying to take advantage of someone I’m sure they can sense that ugly or not smh

[@solomnpennix9277]

Ashley the epitome of high value woman.

[@MsLotusBlooms]

2 years MAX for a proposal.

[@Still_blessedlouise]

The Second Lady looks broken.

[@mack....]

Stephan Hawkins...lol

[@Jasminered15]

Not uses a computer 😅😂

[@msblackberry09]

She’s making excuses for this unattractive man.

[@dentreveal3820]

A ring is EARNED, feeling entitle to receive a ring is madness/delusional. Best-Believe women with wifey qualities get wife up quick!

[@PSYCHDEGREE63]

👏🏽👏🏽👌🏽👌🏽💯💯 facts

[@lavenderangel2655]

Nope, a ring is REQUIRED. You want wifey, that's how you get her.

[@thequirkykittymeow6038]

Grammy wasnt living or being wifey until she was married because GRANDPA EARNED it. We want traditional its traditional to not live together or play wifey until marriage .

[@dentreveal3820]

@@thequirkykittymeow6038 fair point, grandpa earned a Virgin not some ran through 304.

[@Ddan2510]

After 6 years that means she ainy wife material 💯 And if she received more benefits from the guy that she with then her last 3 boyfriends or he baby daddy then she don't need to bring up marriage be happy where you at & appreciate

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

What 26 don’t live together ur almost 30

[@mikemushipe6023]

There should not be pressure to get married after only years.........thats ridiculous

[@Justbrowsing2023]

Why can’t your guests just sit down and be in one spot when they do an interview? It is so distracting to try to watch the video and they are just walking around random places and looking all around the room. It’s also disrespectful to the host because they asked to be on the show but not prepared and ready to answer questions. Just getting up and walking around and looking at ceilings and floors and eyeballs rolling all over the screen. It looks crazy.

[@King-ru9ve]

Notice how she assumed just because he was unattractive he wasn’t seeing anyone else..”I didn’t even think about it”… works like a charm every time. As an unattractive guy in the past I’ve done this; have many girlfriends because they all think I’m not talking to anyone, I’d use that to my advantage. They all think the hot guy is the cheater; why he gets all the smoke, I fly under the radar. lol I’ve cheated way more than my more attractive friends.

[@taylorthenatural5509]

That being said, its not something to brag about. 🙄

[@yolandashaw2940]

@@taylorthenatural5509right 😂😂😂😂 what mess

[@rasulsamad5860]

Corny and lying no unattractive player is watching this or wouldn't comment...pathetic will up with a mean 4 simp😢😂

[@b3niceshorts613]

Sad y’all gonna fuck up peoples relationships

[@adrianroberson903]

Is pretty women loyal and faithful lol

[@tmcurly]

Conventionally pretty? I confused ☺️

[@tmcurly]

???? What was the issue

[@ayanadavis9449]

Please stop using the phrase “on the spectrum” so casually. Autism requires a professional diagnosis. And it’s insensitive to those who actually are in the spectrum. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tasintamron]

Come on Ash. 😂 You know good and well disabled people aren’t out here cheating. The Stephen Hawkins example is crazy- he’s ONE man.

[@dmac5808]

Girl in the black shirt. You are ok . Trust me, sweetie, you are not as beautiful as you think. Please stop saying that.

[@monicachantee]

People can’t be confident?

[@gaudylady7]

@@monicachantee That's exactly why most of us are decentering them lol!

[@GothicGodess]

Oh stop it!, just because you do not find her beautiful , does not mean she is not in someone else's eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@hellothere8347]

@@gaudylady7thissssssss!

[@dmac5808]

@@monicachanteeSounding confident and delusional is a fine line, and she crossed it. It's like me pointing to a Toyota Prius in my garage and telling you it's a Rolls-Royce. You see how dumb that sounds ?

[@sepomushaukwa9006]

Where are this lives hosted? Is it on tik tok or Instagram please? I would like to join. I have something very important to ask Ashley please 🥺

[@YellowStarrx3]

Tik tok

[@sepomushaukwa9006]

@@YellowStarrx3 do you know on which day or which time she’s on live?

[@Richard-Reloaded]

Ashley was looking good then a MF in this 1. #LettucePray 🙏🏾🧎🏾‍♂️

[@Flyguy507]

Woman want the guy that they like more. If the guy likes them more she won’t be satisfied because she thinks he’s lower than her and at that point she’s “dating down” so I think that’s bad advise