UnCoupling with Ellie Thumann - Episode 6

[@moaraam]

Hey, Ellie!! I've been a long time follower and it's amazing to see how you got to turn these past 2 years around for yourself and make them into your oyster 😆 I really appreciate you and getting to hear your experiences which help me understand some of my own. I'm so sorry for these comments I don't understand why they're happening, but I just wanted to share my positive perspective of you and to let anyone who stumbles on this comment know that you are a good hearted and well intentioned person that doesn't deserve this comment section! Thank you for sharing your story 💗

[@michellehesselgrave24]

The effort here to pull down a successful, articulate woman with some fake comments is unhinged. You guys are just proving that following your own intuition and being very careful with your boundaries and standards are where it’s at. You’re throwing light on a disco ball. It’s just creating more shine for her. ✨

[@Char1iesAngels]

Her ex got people on here commenting for sure 😭why is everyone so upset

[@N7K7TA]

These “Ellie’s ex” and hate comments are so strange to me, why are you guys taking the time to comment these?

[@lifewithaarushi9112]

Ellie, I am so proud of you! You have come so far and grown so much as a person. This interview and your KZbin videos will help so many young girls going through the same thing. These comments themselves show us the type of person your ex was. Asking family and friends to create fake accounts to defend him is so immature. Any mature man wouldn't do this. Ellie keeps her side of the street clean, You wouldn't know what that means. (iykyk ts) Love ya Ellie, keep shining!

[@debmecca]

The talking over the person she's interviewing is really something.

[@hannahhaley43]

Amazing podcast Ellie!! It’s always refreshing to see the other side of what people go through and thank you for sharing your experience!! 🤍

[@SdSr3225]

I relate to Ellie’s experience so much, also, the hardest breakups I have had have been with avoidant attached guys. I totally can relate to the feeling of pouring yourself in the relationship and wanting to receive the same effort and appreciation you give to your partner, but sadly, no matter how hard you try that moment never come around. You can literally tell the guy how you would feel appreciated and they won’t do it. On those dynamics, you end up feeling so empty and questioning your value. After years, I have to come to the conclusion that you can never change a person, specially a man.

[@john345-td4gc]

Met ellie’s ex for the first time 2 years when he pushed my daughter out of the way from an oncoming train. poor guy lost his foot to the accident. truly grateful for the man.

[@medialunasx]

At what time does she talk about her ex?

[@maryschrems9678]

Love this

[@MrAthomas1515]

Ellie’s ex was on my flight years ago and was able to make an emergency landing on the Hudson River saving 100s. Great guy and pilot owe that man my life!

[@Turtlepower840]

Ellie’s ex saved my life with CPR he is a true American hero!

[@Smileyamy817]

it's not silence she's giving him so much closure rn

[@trevorgalvin3627]

I met Ellie’s ex a while back after he saved 30 children from a burning orphanage. Seems like a great guy to me.

[@charlotte6553]

I know Ellie’s ex. He found the cure to my grandpas cancer and was able to live an extra 20 years.

[@Sparkstickyfingers]

If you guys like her ex so much, why don't you marry him lol

[@FlyinRyan5987]

I knew Ellies Ex, he payed for my college tuition to fulfil my goals and dreams of being a lawyer at Harvard. I will never be able to repay him🙌 such a great guy😊

[@user-jo3qr8pt6l]

I knew Ellie’s ex, saved my dog from a burning building years ago. Standup guy

[@nataliavelez6796]

You bots validate Ellie’s story even more

[@Pooperscooper69420]

Ellie ex was on Seal team 6 and killed Osama bin laden and still flew back to make it to my goldfishs' birthday party. He is a class act.

[@evandaniel54]

I once saw Ellie’s ex give back to the homeless on thanksgiving, remarkable man.

[@scooby-p00]

Ellie’s ex is a great guy! I saw him fight off a shark to save a young girl from an attack, a hero.

[@nataliavelez6796]

Did you also see when he teleported to mars!?!??? Wowwwwww!!!!!!! 🤡

[@Finn_Cissell]

i once saw ellie’s ex win the lottery then give it all to a struggling single mother. cant get much better than that🤷‍♂️

[@nataliavelez6796]

Hahahahahqhhqhwhhw the CAPPP

[@Monkeymaster57]

Ellies ex is the reason im not racist anymore, such a great guy cant believe shed talk down like this😡

[@nataliavelez6796]

Lol bot

[@TaeHlaing]

I love you Holland with my whole heart ❤️ I am a girl who melt for an idol 💖💓

[@Smileyamy817]

she sounds so anxiously attached why would she be upset about him liking photos ? sounds like insecurity

[@Smileyamy817]

she doesnt understand avoidant attachment

[@Suny608]

Who even is Ellie’s ex? Why r y’all defending him

[@Cheesybagels99]

Get educated.

[@madeliefschut1939]

Can someone explain? Can’t find something about this anywhere

[@Pooperscooper69420]

He is the guy who Indiana Jones is based off of.

[@nataliavelez6796]

@@Cheesybagels99hoping this podcast will educate me bc I am wondering the same

[@Turtlepower840]

@@nataliavelez6796 it won’t educate you might make you less educated after watching

[@SportsIllustratedSniffer]

Been following SI for awhile but this will definitely end my appreciation for the brand and models. The SI girls used to have standards, values, and empathy but clearly this is not happening anymore. Any viewer that has ever looked up to you should immediately reevaluate that thought. Unfortunate that your below average looks were the only path that could cause any impact.

[@michellehesselgrave24]

This doesn’t even make sense. Who is asking you to post this stuff. 😂

[@michellehesselgrave24]

It’s disgusting that these fake accounts are attacking this articulate, driven, accomplished young woman. Shes the true definition of inspiring. I just want to know, do you all share one computer and take turns? Or do you just pretend to be different people/accounts? I’m genuinely curious.

[@Pooperscooper69420]

L / ratio

[@Monkeymaster57]

Yeahh not reading that essay sorry for your loss or good for you though

[@michellehesselgrave24]

I would say reading is hard - I just choose not to be a troll.

[@michellehesselgrave24]

@@Pooperscooper69420do your parents monitor your online activity? 🥴

[@keynanfoster4840]

Ellie’s ex is such a great guy. He actually is a big part of the black community. He has donated thousands to small black businesses around the northwest. You probably don’t even know any black people and that’s sad…

[@EmilyDiol]

Ellie…this was a tough watch. The lack of understanding of basic psychological terms was quite hilarious. I didn’t know a “stable avoidant” attachment existed 😂😂 glad someone can be stable in an avoidant attachment. If I could give a recommendation it would be to read a basic book about psychology. Also, very hilarious to be talking about your ex in a new 8 month relationship, would not be happy to be your new boyfriend.. I am disappointed for the young girls that view your content and take your uneducated psychological diagnosis as gospel.

[@michellehesselgrave24]

I think she’s brave and amazing to be authentic and honest about her own personal experience. It models behavior better than making fun of people and tearing down strangers online. Do you know her personally?

[@nataliavelez6796]

Good thing ur not her boyfriend so u got nothing to worry about

[@SdSr3225]

It seems that the uneducated person is you since you don’t know how is the dynamic between an anxious attached and avoidant attached partner and how much of a toll it takes on to the anxious partner. Her boyfriend should feel proud that she is sharing this experience with other fellow women and girls to recognise when this dynamic becomes unhealthy.

[@Cheesybagels99]

Honestly Ellie, I don’t want to come off brash but you’re a bad person for this. Your ex is a truly great guy who’s only ever been extremely selfless, kind, and caring for his family and friends. I find all of your accusations blasphemous. Someday I hope to forgive you but right now it’s impossible for me to even comprehend. Shame on you. I hope you reflect on your poor actions, how you’ve treated your ex, and how you’ve chosen to speak about him publicly. Do better, please.

[@michellehesselgrave24]

Why are you questioning someone’s personal experience about her own relationship? How does someone expressing their authentic feelings about their own relationship make them a bad person?

[@michellehesselgrave24]

If his family & friends want to speak on their experience with him, they can do so. This is her experience - why is that something that makes her a bad person? Do you personally know her?

[@michellehesselgrave24]

Also, why are you gaslighting a strangers experience? Do you personally know her?

[@michellehesselgrave24]

And why did you just join 5 hours ago? Just to post something negative on this specific interview? Because you are either friend or family of him. A respectful man would tell you not to post things like this. If he wanted her to speak very highly of him, he should have treated her better. She’s still respectful here. The number of fake, new accounts posting trash here speaks volumes. Stop keeping tabs on what she’s doing and move on. A respectful ex would call off his “friends” and FAMILY and not allow them to behave this way. Adults attacking, name calling, belittling. The only group attacking her is not her audience. You’re his family. Creating fake accounts to go after her is a glaring example of emotional immaturity. She’s FAR from a bad person. Do better, please.

[@Youknowme_56]

As a loyal follower this is hard to comment… I feel Ellie is no longer relatable for her age and should quite frankly seek professional counseling. I can only wish the best for her, but this will be the end of my following 😞

[@michellehesselgrave24]

Another left field comment that just elevates her. She’s articulate and speaking on her own faults & personal experience and this is the comment? Why? Who is asking you to post these things?

[@michellehesselgrave24]

“Loyal follower” suddenly is so incredibly offended by this? Ok. 😂