Hey, Ellie!! I've been a long time follower and it's amazing to see how you got to turn these past 2 years around for yourself and make them into your oyster 😆 I really appreciate you and getting to hear your experiences which help me understand some of my own. I'm so sorry for these comments I don't understand why they're happening, but I just wanted to share my positive perspective of you and to let anyone who stumbles on this comment know that you are a good hearted and well intentioned person that doesn't deserve this comment section! Thank you for sharing your story 💗
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
The effort here to pull down a successful, articulate woman with some fake comments is unhinged. You guys are just proving that following your own intuition and being very careful with your boundaries and standards are where it’s at. You’re throwing light on a disco ball. It’s just creating more shine for her. ✨
@Char1iesAngels8 ай бұрын
Her ex got people on here commenting for sure 😭why is everyone so upset
@N7K7TA4 ай бұрын
These “Ellie’s ex” and hate comments are so strange to me, why are you guys taking the time to comment these?
@lifewithaarushi91128 ай бұрын
Ellie, I am so proud of you! You have come so far and grown so much as a person. This interview and your KZbin videos will help so many young girls going through the same thing. These comments themselves show us the type of person your ex was. Asking family and friends to create fake accounts to defend him is so immature. Any mature man wouldn't do this. Ellie keeps her side of the street clean, You wouldn't know what that means. (iykyk ts) Love ya Ellie, keep shining!
@debmecca4 ай бұрын
The talking over the person she's interviewing is really something.
@hannahhaley438 ай бұрын
Amazing podcast Ellie!! It’s always refreshing to see the other side of what people go through and thank you for sharing your experience!! 🤍
@SdSr32258 ай бұрын
I relate to Ellie’s experience so much, also, the hardest breakups I have had have been with avoidant attached guys. I totally can relate to the feeling of pouring yourself in the relationship and wanting to receive the same effort and appreciation you give to your partner, but sadly, no matter how hard you try that moment never come around. You can literally tell the guy how you would feel appreciated and they won’t do it. On those dynamics, you end up feeling so empty and questioning your value. After years, I have to come to the conclusion that you can never change a person, specially a man.
@john345-td4gc8 ай бұрын
Met ellie’s ex for the first time 2 years when he pushed my daughter out of the way from an oncoming train. poor guy lost his foot to the accident. truly grateful for the man.
@medialunasx4 ай бұрын
At what time does she talk about her ex?
@maryschrems96788 ай бұрын
Love this
@MrAthomas15158 ай бұрын
Ellie’s ex was on my flight years ago and was able to make an emergency landing on the Hudson River saving 100s. Great guy and pilot owe that man my life!
@Turtlepower8408 ай бұрын
Ellie’s ex saved my life with CPR he is a true American hero!
@Smileyamy8177 ай бұрын
it's not silence she's giving him so much closure rn
@trevorgalvin36278 ай бұрын
I met Ellie’s ex a while back after he saved 30 children from a burning orphanage. Seems like a great guy to me.
@charlotte65532 ай бұрын
I know Ellie’s ex. He found the cure to my grandpas cancer and was able to live an extra 20 years.
@Sparkstickyfingers8 ай бұрын
If you guys like her ex so much, why don't you marry him lol
@FlyinRyan59878 ай бұрын
I knew Ellies Ex, he payed for my college tuition to fulfil my goals and dreams of being a lawyer at Harvard. I will never be able to repay him🙌 such a great guy😊
@user-jo3qr8pt6l8 ай бұрын
I knew Ellie’s ex, saved my dog from a burning building years ago. Standup guy
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
You bots validate Ellie’s story even more
@Pooperscooper694208 ай бұрын
Ellie ex was on Seal team 6 and killed Osama bin laden and still flew back to make it to my goldfishs' birthday party. He is a class act.
@evandaniel548 ай бұрын
I once saw Ellie’s ex give back to the homeless on thanksgiving, remarkable man.
@scooby-p008 ай бұрын
Ellie’s ex is a great guy! I saw him fight off a shark to save a young girl from an attack, a hero.
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
Did you also see when he teleported to mars!?!??? Wowwwwww!!!!!!! 🤡
@Finn_Cissell8 ай бұрын
i once saw ellie’s ex win the lottery then give it all to a struggling single mother. cant get much better than that🤷♂️
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
Hahahahahqhhqhwhhw the CAPPP
@Monkeymaster578 ай бұрын
Ellies ex is the reason im not racist anymore, such a great guy cant believe shed talk down like this😡
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
Lol bot
@TaeHlaing8 ай бұрын
I love you Holland with my whole heart ❤️ I am a girl who melt for an idol 💖💓
@Smileyamy8177 ай бұрын
she sounds so anxiously attached why would she be upset about him liking photos ? sounds like insecurity
@Smileyamy8177 ай бұрын
she doesnt understand avoidant attachment
@Suny6088 ай бұрын
Who even is Ellie’s ex? Why r y’all defending him
@Cheesybagels998 ай бұрын
Get educated.
@madeliefschut19398 ай бұрын
Can someone explain? Can’t find something about this anywhere
@Pooperscooper694208 ай бұрын
He is the guy who Indiana Jones is based off of.
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
@@Cheesybagels99hoping this podcast will educate me bc I am wondering the same
@Turtlepower8408 ай бұрын
@@nataliavelez6796 it won’t educate you might make you less educated after watching
@SportsIllustratedSniffer8 ай бұрын
Been following SI for awhile but this will definitely end my appreciation for the brand and models. The SI girls used to have standards, values, and empathy but clearly this is not happening anymore. Any viewer that has ever looked up to you should immediately reevaluate that thought. Unfortunate that your below average looks were the only path that could cause any impact.
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
This doesn’t even make sense. Who is asking you to post this stuff. 😂
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
It’s disgusting that these fake accounts are attacking this articulate, driven, accomplished young woman. Shes the true definition of inspiring. I just want to know, do you all share one computer and take turns? Or do you just pretend to be different people/accounts? I’m genuinely curious.
@Pooperscooper694208 ай бұрын
L / ratio
@Monkeymaster578 ай бұрын
Yeahh not reading that essay sorry for your loss or good for you though
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
I would say reading is hard - I just choose not to be a troll.
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
@@Pooperscooper69420do your parents monitor your online activity? 🥴
@keynanfoster48408 ай бұрын
Ellie’s ex is such a great guy. He actually is a big part of the black community. He has donated thousands to small black businesses around the northwest. You probably don’t even know any black people and that’s sad…
@EmilyDiol8 ай бұрын
Ellie…this was a tough watch. The lack of understanding of basic psychological terms was quite hilarious. I didn’t know a “stable avoidant” attachment existed 😂😂 glad someone can be stable in an avoidant attachment. If I could give a recommendation it would be to read a basic book about psychology. Also, very hilarious to be talking about your ex in a new 8 month relationship, would not be happy to be your new boyfriend.. I am disappointed for the young girls that view your content and take your uneducated psychological diagnosis as gospel.
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
I think she’s brave and amazing to be authentic and honest about her own personal experience. It models behavior better than making fun of people and tearing down strangers online. Do you know her personally?
@nataliavelez67968 ай бұрын
Good thing ur not her boyfriend so u got nothing to worry about
@SdSr32258 ай бұрын
It seems that the uneducated person is you since you don’t know how is the dynamic between an anxious attached and avoidant attached partner and how much of a toll it takes on to the anxious partner. Her boyfriend should feel proud that she is sharing this experience with other fellow women and girls to recognise when this dynamic becomes unhealthy.
@Cheesybagels998 ай бұрын
Honestly Ellie, I don’t want to come off brash but you’re a bad person for this. Your ex is a truly great guy who’s only ever been extremely selfless, kind, and caring for his family and friends. I find all of your accusations blasphemous. Someday I hope to forgive you but right now it’s impossible for me to even comprehend. Shame on you. I hope you reflect on your poor actions, how you’ve treated your ex, and how you’ve chosen to speak about him publicly. Do better, please.
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
Why are you questioning someone’s personal experience about her own relationship? How does someone expressing their authentic feelings about their own relationship make them a bad person?
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
If his family & friends want to speak on their experience with him, they can do so. This is her experience - why is that something that makes her a bad person? Do you personally know her?
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
Also, why are you gaslighting a strangers experience? Do you personally know her?
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
And why did you just join 5 hours ago? Just to post something negative on this specific interview? Because you are either friend or family of him. A respectful man would tell you not to post things like this. If he wanted her to speak very highly of him, he should have treated her better. She’s still respectful here. The number of fake, new accounts posting trash here speaks volumes. Stop keeping tabs on what she’s doing and move on. A respectful ex would call off his “friends” and FAMILY and not allow them to behave this way. Adults attacking, name calling, belittling. The only group attacking her is not her audience. You’re his family. Creating fake accounts to go after her is a glaring example of emotional immaturity. She’s FAR from a bad person. Do better, please.
@Youknowme_568 ай бұрын
As a loyal follower this is hard to comment… I feel Ellie is no longer relatable for her age and should quite frankly seek professional counseling. I can only wish the best for her, but this will be the end of my following 😞
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
Another left field comment that just elevates her. She’s articulate and speaking on her own faults & personal experience and this is the comment? Why? Who is asking you to post these things?
@michellehesselgrave248 ай бұрын
“Loyal follower” suddenly is so incredibly offended by this? Ok. 😂