Understanding The Dynamics Of A Marriage | {THE AND} Marcela & Rock

[@marcelahenderson7686]

I want to thank all of you, each and every one of you that has been part of our therapeutic journey that this card game has brought our relationship. We thank God every day for opening our hearts to forgiveness, it’s extremely important in ALL relationships not only in marriages. I love all your comments ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rachelwarren3724]

This kind of honesty (from both you) is incredibly inspiring - thank you for that gift x 3 within these videos.

[@analia225]

You guys are beautiful! Glad to see you back!!! Peace and blessings 😚

[@sanzaiv5828]

We all love you both. Keep inspiring us and keep that love flowing. Btw some sick hairdo maam.. loved it.. 😊❤👍👌

[@georgieeve2026]

Marcela! Thank you so much for this video 😀 You are an amazing, fun, powerful, inspiring, gorgeous woman. I love the way you talk and communicate in English ♡♡♡ When you speak in Spanish I'm pretty sure even Nuns would drop their panties 🤤 Your relationship is beautiful. Please DO NOT listen to anyone who is negative about you, your relationship or your partner. You know the truth, you know who you are. Don't let it interfere ♡♡ God bless you both! 😊

[@MsKylea]

Thanks for sharing journey!!

[@rachellawrence702]

It's crazy but they look younger, the energy is lighter and I feel the attraction between them in this vid. Happy to see the growth.

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@atwin8499]

Marcela- Your skin looks amazing! What is your secret? Not a wrinkle or blemish! and Rock- you have the most beautiful teeth ever- they are natural too- great smile.

[@rarehoney96]

I can’t believe she cut her hair 😍

[@cristinadearana536]

Oh, I so appreciate Marcela, when she was explaining that even their close family and friends don’t understand their relationship fully, saying “they shouldn’t understand. They should learn” it was so simple but so efficient.

[@DamarisMuga]

I recognized him immediately and went like, seriously? he left Marcela?!! But its her!! She looks younger and hot, and punk!! Love love!!

[@donnadlady]

Y'all are one of the most REAL couples on this platform...the life struggles are real, but so is the love. It shows! Yall made me cry at the end!! 💖

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Thanks love! We try to keep it transparent, ❤️

[@cath_houlihan]

Whoa… when she speaks to him in Spanish. 😩💕💕💕 Pure love. What a sweet moment.

[@thebestofwanjiru_chenyizas2272]

He smiles more...I don’t know if that means anything but I noticed. Love and light to you two from Nairobi,Kenya

[@figgettit]

look at her eyes when she listens to him. dude you got love in your life, man.

[@Iwish387]

Yes… they’re back. I love them and glad to see them back. I love these two! God bless them.

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Amen! Thanks love ❤️

[@Iwish387]

@@marcelahenderson7686 you are so welcome!

[@asiamonae4483]

Can we just appreciate how vulnerable Rock was and How Soft yet totally empowered and Strong Marcela is in this episode... super excited for what's to come next for these 2 beautifully imperfect soulmates that are perfect for each other 💛🌻🥰 Thank you for continuing to share & push through all things together

[@Sarahsunnyshine25]

The vulnerability this couple has is amazing!

[@wanelisaxaba6172]

at the end of the first video when asked what she loved about him she said he completed her. now she says she needs to complete herself and find happiness in herself in order to be healthy and love her, him and her family. I love this message. no man can/must complete a woman. real growth. I still do think it is trauma bonding however I pray for more love, healing and a life of ease from here onward. Marcela, you are absolutely wonderful

[@sinalenjabulo.ndlovu]

Yoh🔥🔥🔥🔥🥺

[@ppatterson763]

How on earth did they not cry, especially when describing what the other's love feels like!!? This couple is so honest and real. They seem to have matured beautifully since the earlier conversations.

[@surfsister]

This is not the same man we saw in the first two videos, is it? He's been on a journey since then. It's a beautiful thing. They're a wonderful couple.

[@nounas7997]

“They shouldn’t understand they should learn “ LUV it ❤️‍🔥

[@Rahbyn]

I am so grateful for them choosing to share SNIPPETS of various experiences in their marital journey. There is more to learn than judge. I pray for your healing (individually and collectively) , continued courage and honesty, and that you have all that is for your greatest and highest good! Grace and Peace to you...

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Amen sis! Thank you so much for your words❤️

[@Rahbyn]

@@marcelahenderson7686 You are welcome! I understand that marriage is a partnership in the business of honor, commitment, devotion, love, patience, understanding, communication, etc. As much as we embrace the idea of 50/50, it is not that cut and dry. How a couple defines their respective 50% is relative to them. People will judge you, your husband and your relationship based on the snippets they've seen here and there. Please do not internalize them, nor take them to heart as if facts. YOU know what works for you, as does Rock. Remember, they're on the outside looking in. You are a strong woman! Continue to love you! Be well Sis.

[@watchingwatcher5821]

This is a real relationship. Relationships are made up of so may things, triumphs, pain and scars. Wishing you both happiness, it’s so great to see you together, there is clearly so much love and connection here, real intimacy, kindness and respect. Be proud of what you have built together and overcome. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@Nocturnal.Sunshine]

I loved hearing her explain his love in Spanish ❤️

[@jessicatharp6405]

Shoot, you know what I see?? I see two humans who really love each other. No pain is life and what happens when it's going great. But at the dark times...does your partner open their arms to you to hug you. For forgiveness....that is real Love! Thankyou for sharing

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Awww thank you so much 😊

[@x-mess]

@@marcelahenderson7686 thank you for the real peak into your relationship. Getting to know you both and care about you both making it and thriving. I imagine Abba sees his creation, his children all the time (the good and the bad) .. he knows us and that's why he loves us... really really knows . .. thank you - I understand that better now.

[@kingayy9267]

Love how she smiles with her mouth open after finishing a sentence. Such a lovely lady Miss Marcela is!

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Awwww thanks beloved ❤️

[@corrinam8948]

They're one of my favourite couples

[@riffs4real]

He said say it in Spanish and when she did it, he lit up. I love this couple

[@kymberliethefreespiritedone]

I love them. I have seen the evolution in them. Growing from pain to health with someone who's not only caused it but also seen you go through it along with themselves...and survive, constantly forgiving, is really therapeutic

[@BrightDelight14]

“They shouldn’t understand, they should learn.” WHEW! 🗣SAY THAT! That’s all we can do in regards to one another

[@Dglv98]

I had mixed views on this couple watching the past videos. But I love them. The growth, the real ness, and love with them. It’s just nice to see them grow from the first video.

[@londonsars0234]

I am so happy to see them back! I never doubted their relationship, but something feels more open and comfortable. I don’t know if they have been in therapy or if genuinely lockdown made them closer to each other. They are beautiful and glowing with love and understanding. Also it needs to be said that Marcella looks INCREDIBLE with those glasses and that rockin’ haircut!

[@alinealvesfelix9498]

Gosh, he asking her to answer in her mother language is SO beautiful and profound... Like, I see you as your real self and her response in Spanish as like... wow... I could feel it. Sooo so beautiful!

[@Kmulat]

They are the only couple I think about often, my favorite couple! I love their honesty and conviction! They both look and seem happier!

[@lillymcintosh7114]

The answer about the shades its so real .. i hope he continues to heal from that

[@NatashaVincent]

I didn't quite understand the reasoning but, yes, I hope he heals enough to move past it or leverage the experience into something positive

[@kingayy9267]

@Natasha Vincent The reasoning behind the shades or him not wanting to discuss it? He lost his eye being beaten (presumably by COs, not fellow inmates) when he was in prison. As far as why he doesn't discuss it, I believe he eluded to suffering from PTSD from the incident. Could be wrong, but that's what I took away from that part.

[@SimpliSapio]

You two are my FAVORITE couple!!! I appreciate the honesty and genuineness in you both individually and as a couple. DO NOT allow the internet trolls to shake you, they are just insecure miserable people who project their misery on other people. Stay strong, keep loving each other and take one day at a time. God Bless you both!! 💕💕

[@chustar2620]

It was beautiful to see them both in a different vibrational element. The love was oozing out of them both! 💗💗

[@yemio1005]

This was so amazing and so very human. To reach this level of transparency, care, rawness and union with another human…

[@vidalismi9658]

I admire their strength and unconditional love

[@ashantimaluleke2267]

I'm dying at that "moisture" comment🤣🤣🤣

[@marcelahenderson7686]

I was blushing 😊

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

Omg f’real 😂

[@rebeccaanezil3152]

I love the fact he was willing to talk about things that made him uncomfortable and I knew there was a story behind the shades so I didn't judged him about it at all thank youu guys for being so honest

[@AriestiAdelia]

First of all, Skin Deep, i blame ya'll for making me cry early in the morning during my wfh, this is a gem! thank you for the upload

[@lilianetv1482]

"They shouldn't understand, they should learn" well said

[@blackwomanorangecat]

That made no sense. In order to understand, you have to learn. You should learn to understand would have been better. The two cannot be separated.

[@sanzaiv5828]

So so happy to see them back.. the most genuine couple in the skin deep session.. was eagerly waiting for them to be back.. Hey Rock and M just wanted to tell you guys that you both are an inspiration to us. Sending love towards your way. Keep rocking you two.. And M thats some sick hairdo.. hoot hoot..!!

[@boithaabroad]

THIS was the couple that introduced me to this channel🥺

[@kingayy9267]

8:10 Rock has a beautiful smile! Marcela does, as well, although hers isn't as much of a "hidden gem," since she smiles much more frequently than Rock does (in these videos, at least).

[@christianmaterial2417]

I have always loved Rocks honesty and how he allows himself to be vulnerable inspite of all he's been through, that's not always easy for a man and i respect him for that. I used to feel sorry for the lady, she seemed fragile at first. But now am seeing a side of her that's internally empowered, and loving as always which is just beautiful.

[@kaylajocalton]

Watching the 3 episodes was incredible. Thank you both for your honesty and vulnerability! The internet can be scary but I’m so glad this journey is being shared. Keep it up! Much love!

[@kikameister]

The way I screamed when I read the notification!! Glad to have these two back!

[@celia7256]

Wow! It just hit different in Spanish when she described it

[@maryjane2965]

Everyday we should all practice less judgment, with ourselves, with others..I see two people who deeply love each other and work together 🙏🏽❤️

[@Inspiration235]

I love Marcela's and Rock's videos. I love the way they communicate, vocally or with their eyes or their body language. I'm glad they let us have another small window into their marriage. I hope they're doing as well as they can be, whatever their relationship status is

[@elihle487]

20min video I didn't know i needed🤗🤗They have grown so much!

[@SapphireSloane]

They look so different! They look like they’ve grown! Beautiful growth! ♥️

[@JuliaPedro]

Ms Marcela is a very lovely woman who strikes me as someone who has a heart that loves a lot. Her smile is so sweet. Noticed she seemed defensive of the questions which I think comes from the kind of comments they got on the other videos. She's like fine wine though and the way she speaks spanish made me remember why I fell in love with that language over 2 decades ago (and why I'm now learning it). Spanish brings a lot of spice to love; no wonder Rock wanted to hear what she said in español. Whenever Rock smiles, it's so beautiful. They definitely are a great match and they still keep it 🔥 Beautiful couple!

[@starjen222]

I've been following this couple since their debut on The Skin Deep. Love watching them, clicked as soon as I saw them!

[@deshanwilson526]

I watch this couple once a year just to get a raw visual of LOVE… love is not always a movie. Love does not always go as planned…. But TRUE LOVE PREVAILS

[@rahii]

They look healthy af now 👀👀

[@Traveler_18332]

I said the same!

[@kingayy9267]

Not disagreeing but did you think they didn't look healthy before?

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Thanks y’all

[@cusny01]

Agree slimmer but just smiling more 🥰

[@stephaniemartin9253]

These are master teachers!

[@brianarhodes2230]

So beautiful! So beautiful! You all should start a podcast or/and KZbin channel. I feel like you all could really share some love, wisdom, insight on being in a relationship. So beautiful ❤️‍🔥

[@mividasandoval2413]

She looks AMAZING, they both do

[@shirlene1985]

Lorddddd.... I cried my eyes out... the growth!!!! I love it.

[@Grace1708]

The first couple I've watched on this channel. So nice to see them again. I love them ❤️

[@itumelengtshimologomolebat966]

This was my favorite couple ever. I’m so happy to see them back! Omg ❤️❤️.

[@elanjolee5019]

Rock and Marcella! You guys are amazing! Rock, you are literally the dad I wished I had! My dad went to prison and never really recovered. I wished he would have turned his life around. Your vibrations and frequency is so high. Sending you guys positivity and abundance 🌿

[@TephaRhi]

The way his face lit up when she asked how does my love feel 💫✨🌙✨💫

[@sspringss2727]

The energy, the vibe is very prosperous. I love it and you(Marcela) brought a smile to my face every time you spoke about your relationship. Keep on putting up the good fight guys. Everyday is struggle even if it's a good one & knowing you have someone to go through it with is a blessing.

[@kashopatishikongo3110]

one of my top 3 couples to date. Thank you for the raw honesty, documenting your journey and growth. Stay blessed, remain one, and keep having that good connection

[@analia225]

Marcela came with the heat 🔥 at the end!! “Why you didn’t stay where you was?!…”

[@cindys2995]

Sitting up here weepy when she spoke in Spanish. Me encantó!

[@kuhle8012]

they look so much better, i lover her look now she looks fresh and carefree, love to see them back

[@leanaklagenberg684]

it’s amazing being able to see their growth

[@asiamonae4483]

This was the Perfect depiction of evolving and overcoming and healing through forgiveness grace and for better or worse. Love them down🌻‼🥺💛🌻

[@artegentile8365]

I just want to put her glasses straight 😂

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Sorry I sat on my glasses and haven’t fixed them yet 😂

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

@@marcelahenderson7686 🤣!

[@Black_Pudzianowski]

😜🤣🤣

[@tamaracarbo1531]

I love a seasoned couple. Simply bcuz what's understanding to them. Doesn't need to be explained to others. Their love language is for better or worse. Worst being on this show. Jus to be judged !!!! Yet the judgement feeds their loyalty and love. Ppl it's a learning experience not to be judged by a jury. From ppl whose knowledge is jus from this....KEEP LOVING GUYS ❤

[@ChristinaJBaldwin]

Thank-you for continuing to offer your experiences of your relationship with us. It is so inspiring, courageous and beautiful to witness.

[@cascade00]

Very proud of you for self reflecting on the hurt you were causing. Remember the stuff that is not pretty is not actually you. Your true soul is not untruthful, or unkind, or impatient. Thank you.

[@RT-2023]

Finished their series and you truly see the toxicity of the relationship, but i also see their growth now. How they articulate themselves, how they respond to each other, etc. I guess they stood the test of time with age, maturity and i guess him deciding to love her only

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

They made me cry 😭! But in a good way, even though it was an ugly cry lol Thank you both for sharing! I feel like I really learned something, even if I can’t fully express what that is, I definitely feel it. Crazy how this card game really can be so profound that it can cause me (a third party that’s virtual and not even knowing y’all irl!) to learn and have growth too.

[@mielalucia9289]

20:26-28 a tear wells up behind his glasses or am I imagining it

[@irisf.5575]

Rock seems so much happier now. Marcel needs to let him talk sometimes, there were parts where I genuinely was waiting to hear his answer but she's always quick to interrupt him.

[@keithabrock2233]

Marcella & Rock I wish many blessings too you all. Thank you so much for sharing. I love your energy.

[@nikki..k]

Ive always loved this couple want to see more of them Been looking for updates then finally came across this video

[@desorayandsharoneats]

😍 my favourite couples back!

[@cdubb8185]

My FAVORITE COUPLE IS BACK.... they are just the bomb... Chemistry loyalty Honesty

[@marloesk9753]

I have seen all the ones before but i don't think i've seen this one then. But I've seen it now and it is exactly as the rest are saying. You both feel lighter, more free and still very much in love. It's just wonderful! you are a great example!

[@deshanwilson526]

I have loved you guys from the very first episode. and since that first and second episode I have told so many friends and coworkers to look at your guys interview with each other .the both of you are an example of what true love is.I think people now these days are in a façade zone of love,Not truly understanding that love takes work and it definitely takes time because you are going to get hurt...I am so happy to see the both of you growing and conquering love issues .I pray much blessings between the both of you and your family..

[@marcelahenderson7686]

Awwww, amen beloved! Thanks so much for your beautiful words ❤️

[@UniversoulLady]

They look like a cool couple

[@fbspin]

They have a dope ass energy really makes me wanna find a partner like that, who's on the same wavelength as me

[@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina]

Yo they look happy, cozy, and relaxed af!!!!!

[@MsCole-qp5pc]

I was so excited to see this dynamic couple again. You two are inspiring ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@analia225]

So glad to see this couple back.

[@iackup]

Rock is opening up a bit more. Hang in there. She is telling us you have it in you. Congrats you two!

[@cherishjordan3880]

Mannnn I love the honesty between you too. This is beautiful!

[@beautifullyblessed_]

They’re back. Yesssss. Missed them. 🙏🥰

[@lillymcintosh7114]

Oh he love him some Marcela

[@Lunawien]

It was great to see you both in this video ❤️. I loved the part when Rock mentioned that you talk back in Spanish what he said as to make sense of it. I do that sometimes with my husband as well, as we both have different first languages and our home language is his first language (mine is Spanish) . PS: I loved that he asked you to say what his love fells like to you en español (to describe it in your first language)

[@Inspiration235]

Marcela looks super cute too, love the hair, glasses, and all the bracelets

[@simoneparker5525]

I was so excited to see them ❤️

[@yoliswanolubabalozozo7457]

I have beeeeen hoping that these two would come back!

[@jimmiespivey]

Their Love Extremely Education 🙏🏽💯

[@jimmiespivey]

I've learned so much,this is Everything,skin Deep💯💯💯💯

[@beedavis6230]

i love them sm . so raw & uncut . their imperfections make them perfect for each other 💓 i pray one day im blessed enough to experience love on this level 🤞🏽

[@PenelopeHighet]

Wow good for them both! They look healthier and more energised. Huge style change for her too, good for her ❤

[@JussstTeaa]

Wow! Look at them now!!! 🧡🧡

[@ro9734]

And this everyone,is what it means when someone asks you what is a soulmate This is, this, this is the epitome, this is the the essence, this word this is the definition of a soulmate cuz you dig deep into his soul and he is digging into yours and you both come out together #ASONE