Friends With Benefits Secretly Share Their Feelings For Each Other

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[@otkud_ja9290]

He is not manipulative, he is not in love and she is.

[@rebeck9341]

He's too young and doesn't know himself or what he wants. She's experienced and knows what shed like to settle down with. That's why age gaps sometimes don't work

[@otkud_ja9290]

@@rebeck9341 Also true. :)

[@diamondsfurez7456]

I feel like he doesn’t want to label the relationship because then that would make them exclusive & he just wants to sew his oats right now

[@vozera723]

I know him he knows himself pretty well he knows exactly what he wants in the world he's actually really cool dude

[@nalitarose2681]

Yeah I think she is very much in love, you can tell by the way she looks at him and even when she is talking whilst looking at him, it's very endearing, warm and soft. He made a good point when he said he needs to learn to love himself before he can give that out also think that he may not want to label it cause it hints at commitment and he's probably in that stage of his life where he is still exploring the world.

[@MonaHerSelfM]

His posture is so attractive. Ugh xD

[@hoseoksnakeu1916]

Omfg ikr 🤧😂

[@mara4890]

He got a KZbin Channel though "Pierre XO" Just look it up :P

[@littledragon4451]

You might be gay

[@seignee]

@@mathewpadgett559 bro... you're projecting.

[@o0Marilyn0o]

So true

[@QueenAusetHeru]

They just aren't on the same page. He wants an open, casual relationship. And, she wants a traditional, monogamous relationship. Neither of them is wrong.

[@FaerieElethia]

Word

[@franceskabeasley3336]

Frrr I've been THERE

[@shreyaarora2209]

I think this is due to their age gap to some extent. She being 43 wants someone permanent and he being just 24 wants to explore . But i agree that neither of them is wrong.

[@butterbubbles5375]

But she ignored what he wanted and tried to force him into the role of boyfriend. If that’s not manipulative, I don’t know what is.

[@Tijggie82]

Well, she's wrong in assuming she could change him, but she's not wrong in what she wants. Both are fine positions to make.

[@zz5601]

He looks like he came straight outta an Episode story

[@bakugokatsuki908]

What's episode

[@dejajoseph3209]

Underrated

[@bimbowithadegree420]

Why is this strangely accurate

[@harpersparrow4024]

Omg this comment deserves more likes😭

[@harpersparrow4024]

@@bakugokatsuki908 its this app where u read interactive stories

[@AK-ee6rf]

*Here to confirm we do have rock paper scissors in Europe*

[@maylee9]

Anna Kintu thank youu

[@viktorija4485]

Hey not in all Europe!

[@viktorija4485]

Unfortunately, sorry, but it seems to me like a game for kids two years old 😀😂🤗

[@clairedidier2792]

We do!

[@labramullerchristine6961]

Lol

[@lanaajdad7638]

She’s looking at him like her whole world is in front of her

[@sadbtch1827]

Nah, not really.

[@youniiquex]

He is realizing it too

[@p.r.9982]

The type of relationships I hate most. She is faaaaar more into him than he is, and being 20 years older you'd think she'd guard her heart better than that. The guy is totally making her eat in the palms of his hands, with the right words (cheap ass philosophy). ETA : I date younger guys actually. She should just know better it's embarrassing!!

[@LH-fz3bq]

Purple Rose 19 years. Chill

[@p.r.9982]

Lisa Hoang, 1 year is nothing chill.

[@Chiara_Elena]

People need to stop picking sides. What we see here is a complex relationship between two human beings and both have 100% legitimacy to feel the way they do. It's sad for both of them. Please stop seeing it black and white. There is no right and wrong.

[@Peach-kv4ze]

Thank you! Scrolling through the comments made me so sad until I finally found this one.

[@ceci3387]

true...

[@butterbubbles5375]

I’m not trying to demonize her, but switch the genders right here. Imagine a guy saying “she’s my girlfriend, she just doesn’t know it yet.” That statement is creepy, no matter what the context is. They can have complex relationships, but they both needed to respect each other’s boundaries. Not to mention she was two times his age, which makes their relationship more prone to power imbalances than a non age-gap.

[@angelikabatwoman]

beautiful! thank you.

[@freewifi8204]

Dude's 24 so he's not considered engaging into a serious relationship yet. While the woman's 40 and is looking for a Lifetime partner. But damn, she must have had an unfufilled teenage fantasies for her to choose a guy his age and mentality.

[@chrisashtonlightell-west1189]

Age gaps make a difference. Someone in their 40's is going to be in a much different place in their life than someone in their 20's, and that shows here. The thing is, the person in her 40's should know this better.

[@tovenrvik6336]

If those are attracted, go on! ♥️

[@Sarah-st8ow]

This comment is very accurate. I never really comprehended how age gaps could affect a connection. Both people can be receptive and loving but it can be extremely difficult in so many other ways... this was just my experience 🌻

[@punkybrewstar83]

Depends on the people, but, I don't understand why she wants to settle down with him anyway. Why would you want to even attempt to rob him of his freedom when he is so young and clever? He needs to taste the rainbow, experience the world, meet people... anyway, easy to see from the outside, but when you are in it, it is never so easy.

[@girlsgokawaii]

@@punkybrewstar83 especially if he made it clear he doesn't want to

[@suigeneris2663]

True true

[@jeanw2219]

everything she says to him sounds like a confession. everything he says sounds like a goodbye

[@_skyfullofstars]

:((((

[@mimimesselles1246]

I Can't put it into better words

[@smaxrob]

This is THE most accurate description of this video.

[@mizzstizzie]

Definitely. This should be top comment

[@flavialynx9837]

@@BloodInTheStrawberries she is and old creepy lady, and people will side towards the young 24 old if only he was a she, that 43 its predatory and manipulative, how can someone just dont give you the option to reject the old fart i mean c mon he doesnt want you old lady, go away, if he was and old man he sure be on jail

[@lola12falana]

He is a smart guy but is trying to find himself. He is only in his early 20’s. She in her 40’s is at a different stage in life.

[@alyssalidman5123]

I think you hit the nail on the head.

[@joelmiller2601]

lola12falana not smart guy at all.. liberalistic emotionally driven tool. “nO LaBeLs, nO gENdEr”

[@TechnoPup]

@@joelmiller2601 If that's what you got from what he was saying, then you are the one that's not very smart. He was just saying that their relationship was very unique that there wasn't a label that clearly explained it for what it was. And the gender part was the same way. It has nothing to do with their gender, and can happen with any combination of genders. Lol

[@joelmiller2601]

Techno Pup then he’s more pretentious than i thought.. the relationship is not unique in the slightest.. a little unconventional sure but he’s just funneling for an excuse. he needs to grow up..

[@TechnoPup]

@@joelmiller2601 You don't know exactly how their relationship is. He probably feels it's unique since he hasn't had anything like it yet nor has he seen people act the way they do. We don't know, only he does.

[@MeekaChannel]

I don’t know Pierre personally, but from this video and seeing videos on his channel, it seems like he’s dealt with a lot of abuse as a child and it’s really sad. He doesn’t even know what love is. He’s still super respectful and goofy tho despite his pain and that’s really sweet.

[@michaelfrench238]

How tf did u come to the conclusion he suffered child abuse from watching this 😂

[@IDontLikeEggNOG]

@@michaelfrench238 Read that again. They said they’ve watched videos on his channel to come to that conclusion.

[@michaelfrench238]

@@IDontLikeEggNOG yeah your right my bad

[@malhunt7]

@@MarquetitaLaJefa he seems avoidant/dismissive. Def some unresolved childhood issues lurking there.

[@wrath2008]

@@MarquetitaLaJefa Stop the 🧢

[@linaramon4286]

He was just feeding her a bunch of positivity because deep down he don't want to hurt her feelings

[@malhunt7]

We go towards what's familiar not what's healthy. He said all he experienced growing up was rejection....that he "longs for rejection" because that's what he knows. I think he meant what he said....he liked her and wanted love but didn't know how to accept love/acceptance.

[@korolevakotykiv]

I almost cried cause they actually don’t understand each other’s feelings

[@yashA.456]

So sad and partially true. It's more on the guy not finding himself, maybe not yet wanting to find himself. She definitely knew it, but hoped that she could be the one to change him. That's what you girls/women always try to do and then you get hurt. That's the saddest part for me.

[@SoulFullOfMusic81]

@@yashA.456 That's the mistake 43 year old woman really shouldn't make. Btw, great chemistry was never enough to make relationship survive.

[@mrtutus23able]

yaszA he actually has a YT channel, and not that long ago he up and moved to Europe and he's been much happier and at peace with himself since.

[@manatee-qj8lb]

"almost cried" hahahha

[@sun-zx8oy]

Space Jay what’s his YT??

[@jaypurdy764]

She's just speaking so deeply about him and he's just jamming out 😂

[@karimabou8784]

He's young she's mature. Totally normal

[@sanabria87]

Bahahaha

[@PraseSuperStar]

He's a kid.... She has mama complex...

[@bellasue2540]

he cant hear her

[@jaypurdy764]

@@bellasue2540 kinda common sense, I just thought it was a funny and cite moment

[@eurkstragico2473]

Me : *a Pierre fan reading the comments* Also me: *laughs at the people that thought he was a Lesbian*

[@firewolf7108]

SAAAMEE OMG

[@littlemary434]

What's the name of his channel?

[@agnieska112]

@@littlemary434 it's Pierre XO

[@yanamclaughlin1644]

They're both really cute. I found Pierre's channel, he's smart as hell.

[@Flora_Viscera333]

WHERE

[@Flora_Viscera333]

What's his channel 😭

[@user-kk1tm2vx9m]

@@Flora_Viscera333 His channel is PIERRE XO

[@user-em6bs1kg6o]

Aquarius charm never fails

[@NotWokebutAwake.]

He is fn AMAZING!!!!!

[@raved2885]

*Honestly he’s not arrogant!!!!! He’s not a bad person. What do you want him to do? To pretend he loves her?? To pretend that he’s into her? That is being a jerk, not him.* *He’s just honest and saying the truth*

[@its_a_poncho]

ThANK YOU

[@MoonMoonTM]

He seems like a genuinely kind person in my opinion

[@Klaha0301]

@@MoonMoonTM he has a YT channel called Pierre XO, check it out, his content is pretty funny and interesting

[@blammmed]

@@Klaha0301 youve been promoting him non stop, a hero

[@anneekasamuels5059]

And I personally don't even think it's all about being into her. Like he's extremely young......not that that is an excuse.....but they are at different stages in their lives. He's legit trying to figure out himself and just life in general. And she understands that which is why she tries to give him the support that he needs. I personally think they are good for each other.....or atleast she's good for him.....and even of their relationship doesn't last I think they'll have a lasting impact or each other. Not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay their permanently. Some persons just pass through it to teach you important life lessons that you'll need throughout your existence.

[@alexjbls7689]

bruh they literally walked in like they owned the place theyre so badass

[@Yunaschesirekat]

Pierre is so confident- even the way hes sitting in his chair-. And Stephanie is oddly adorable, she has a strong personality. I feel bad for these two,

[@oreoluwa_aaa]

He's so cuttttteee

[@e_puffin]

You're the only one who said something positive about Stephanie and I love that

[@rbvp45]

I think he is at the border of condescending towards her.

[@ozzypineda3347]

"He's my boyfriend but he doesn't know it or want it" 🤔🤔 is that legal (bruv this is a rhetorical question~)

[@KewlGrandma]

i dont think it is. he didnt consent

[@lobaloxrajobs9354]

kpop fans:

[@Aney07]

@@lobaloxrajobs9354 correct

[@thepasteldyke]

That line made me so uncomfortable

[@atm9266]

The point is that they lived this lifestyle and he in her perspective did fit the boyfriend label. But it's all about perspective and for him this lifestyle didn't mean they were dating and she wasn't his girlfriend to him. But as I said it's all about perspective

[@Jahzpy]

as soon as he started talking i was like "OH FUCK"

[@angienagtalon5756]

Jahzp same cause i thought they were two girls

[@shaddaifoo1449]

I fell down the chair when he spoke

[@rebecca-yr8cm]

SAME

[@carole-anned.1423]

Lol me too!!

[@um22w22]

Angie Nagtalon When I saw the way he was sitting. I said woo that is one hardcore lesbian with that man-spread!

[@sadgirlchanel.]

omg literally thought he was a hot ass woman.

[@emmamccraystone817]

Yes. Exactly. Same

[@hollychambers7538]

Same

[@SightOfTrees]

Me too, then I realized he was a hot ass man and that was even better.

[@lolbaba100]

Catherine Kamlley he's a hot ass gender fluid 😂😂 Cause he's hot as man AND woman 😂

[@Sophia-eg2ux]

I knowww..My bi ass was confusion itself when he started speaking..Jesus.

[@honnifaye6061]

I remember when this first came out, everyone was saying how toxic the guy was. 2 years later the comments are talking about how toxic the woman is. I don’t even have an opinion on it just think it’s interesting lol Edit: I made this to comment on how divided the opinions are and people are STILL replying to the comment saying why they think person A or B is toxic. Why do we feel a need to take sides so much? How can we understand the situation from just two or three videos?

[@frozenyogurth]

The guy, Pierre, made a follow-up video explaining his standpoint more clearly on this. That's why the opinions have swayed. A lot was cut out in this short video, painting a kind of picture.

[@samara5338]

The guy is a fuckboy but the woman should have known better and walked out

[@munahilmahmood1518]

samara what makes him a fuckboy? I think he’s just honest

[@samara5338]

@@munahilmahmood1518 he's not boyfriend material, it's good that he's honest though

[@munahilmahmood1518]

samara and not being bf material already makes him a fuckboy?

[@damatan1na]

she’s tom, he’s summer.

[@lindinle]

Shes crazy, hes dead.

[@a.n.t.4484]

She was a poem, but he couldn't read

[@annabel-paintingprintmakin4576]

He was a punk, she did ballet...

[@catchmeifyoucan1095]

@@a.n.t.4484 🤣🤣

[@andreas1892]

he is so attractive in the most unconventional, weird and unique way idek how to describe it but wow

[@elanan9411]

YAs omg

[@aliyahh3754]

Andrea Styles yes yes and YESS

[@Forest_V19]

It’s the androgynous look he has. Very hot. 👌

[@cinnamoroIIz]

I agree. Something about him.

[@andreas1892]

Gil Monteverde I’m not 13..

[@happybitch3901]

I THOUGHT HE WAS A HOT ASS LESBIAN OMG

[@belalugosisdead7985]

Happy bitch SAME!

[@roxanasantos2436]

Right!!!

[@ghxstmochii]

Same

[@jareonjacquiri1900]

GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE

[@3366Marina]

He would be such a beautiful woman

[@laufeymoar]

Jesus guys. The “he’s my boyfriend” comment wasn’t cute, but it doesn’t automatically mean she’s predatory or toxic. These are both adults, and we don’t know them. The judgement is unreal.

[@jahsehmorda6643]

Fr people love to overreact.

[@alfonsoperdomo4469]

THANK YOUU!!!

[@madisonblair9423]

kind've double standards vibes here

[@analigiabatres9114]

He's my boyfriend but he doesn't know it ? Toxic

[@tuopsy]

@@analigiabatres9114 people were so quick to call the guy toxic. now they’re dancing around the fact that the woman is literally toxic.

[@SonjaS222]

He was so young. 20s is a time to live life, be free and get to know yourself. Don’t blame him for not wanting a serious relationship.

[@annap2523]

Exactly! I'm glad someone said it!

[@yem8386]

this guy is like a bisexual dream

[@beyonder6111]

The Truth Reacts maybe because he kinda looks like a girl?

[@ThePuglover98]

Ur telling me 😍😍😍

[@user-nf3hh8kn5r]

yemma ly IKR holy shiet

[@MomentswithMolly]

yemma ly preach!

[@elamiri858]

Ikr holy shit

[@strawberrykathleen8561]

"Hes my boyfriend" "Does he know that?" "No" bITCH MEEEE

[@josieteagle7654]

"no. I mean.. I mean yeah... I mean he doesn't want it but...." M E E E WE EBEBBEBEE BEBEBEBEBE E E E E E

[@strawberrykathleen8561]

regional at stressed BITCH SAME

[@Whyaretherehandlesnowihateit]

BITCH ME TOO

[@Pretty_Maii]

I read that in a Shane's voice

[@strawberrykathleen8561]

x2princess x2 YES😭😂

[@rachiedockstader8097]

Bro when he smiles he’s literally mesmerizing

[@transparentsunflower8295]

She's 40 he's 24, she wants a serious relationship, he's in free flow , she needs to start looking somewhere else

[@yes.ma_am]

Yea, someone her age at least. But if they love each other, them let them be

[@girlsgokawaii]

@@yes.ma_am they "broke up" before this video even came out.

[@yes.ma_am]

@@girlsgokawaii i know

[@xiaolongbaoenthusiaist457]

@@yes.ma_am the problem is not the age gap. There’s plenty of men in their 20s looking for serious connections. Also you probably wouldnt be telling a 40 year old men dating a 20 year old girl this. Their relationship didn’t work out because they have completely different mentalities on where they are in life.

[@Ashley-jn4nu]

@@xiaolongbaoenthusiaist457 he has the mentality of a typical 24 year old male when it comes to relationships. I’m 24 and am not even dating someone my age because it’s hard to get a guy that age that wants to be actual Monogamous

[@Goldenskies__]

His voice and his eyes are hypnotic.

[@onemillionpercent]

MERLINWASASLYTHERIN so true. That’s what’s attractive about him, and his style I think.

[@TrillShvt]

He’s a real life anime character.

[@miiilowo]

He has a KZbin channel if you wanna check that out ;00

[@saoxaas6832]

It's just makeup and eye contacts...

[@whatif3271]

@@saoxaas6832 might be his real eyes tho

[@dvzxo]

“I know, it’s fine” “I’ve learned to be patient.” Plus the way she looked at him. I can’t handle.

[@unknownperson8527]

Dez Rijo it hurt :((

[@KushhRoll]

She's in too deep bruh

[@1981sweetivy]

Broken heart in the making😢 been there, done that, she's in for a river of tears in long run.

[@edrienekyle9535]

Dez Rijo she deserved better.

[@theodorebear6714]

*His hair just got crazier as he got older.*

[@dirtylittle5percent876]

I know and i really like it like this tho. But i just find him attractive...regardless

[@whatever-tk2pp]

He's two times younger, but two times more mature

[@juli866]

​@JONES Yeah, you just don't start a thing if you see that the other one is serious about it.

[@terezar880]

@JONES they broke up soon after they filmed this and when the video came out they were apparently already over

[@whatever-tk2pp]

@JONES watch his video where he shares his side of the story. he told her his intentions at the beginning. he wasn't ready for the relationship and he told her that. but she still got attached and that is not his fault

[@haru7394]

JONES do they mention anywhen that they're having sexual interactions? I don't think it's okay to just assume what they're doing and as the previous comment said, check out on the video he made on his own channel Pierre XO and if you're interested, check out other videos. In my view he is very mature and I didn't had the feeling that he was sexually interested in her but was rather looking for human connection through the internet without as he stated "labels".

[@arandommobilebc2046]

@JONES They we’re having sex? When did they admit to hooking up?

[@MsSunday21]

People aren’t meant to fix each other. It’s not romantic, it’s not love- it’s a form of codependency. She caught feelings for someone who enjoys her company, but isn’t interested in a committed relationship. He’s a young guy who’s enjoying his youth. Simple as that.

[@chunkyfriedduc]

Where have u been all my life sis 😭😭

[@bellasue2540]

exactly

[@justarandommoa08]

Thank you

[@laikay]

Frl.

[@suwoo7269]

thank you damn 👽💀

[@frigginoutofblue7867]

“She’s from Europe” dude we have Rock Paper Scissors in Europe

[@caterina3706]

FrigginOutOfBlue Exactly what I thought lol

[@mariami.shangua]

I KNOW I was like??? WHICH Europe

[@sugarfreeXcandy]

hahahahaha, oh yes, yes we do :D

[@jjwsvtk9987]

me saying that while watching that part lol

[@anamartin5136]

THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING! Like I'm fully swiss and I know what RPS is, she probably didn't understand what he was saying

[@nityanidha3526]

This feels like a mom trying to motivate her depressed son.✌️

[@trxpicaldreams9781]

💀💀💀

[@sulagreen5792]

thought the same thing

[@jadesmith7983]

This is what I thought also.

[@ankicat]

"but to hear you and believe in me so much, i think you're slowly teaching me a language that i'm starting to understand." this is honestly the most beautifully crafted statement i've heard in a very long time.

[@rookolas]

Please have them back on in exactly a year whether they are together or not. I'd see how much they've grown as people

[@1NicolaPratt]

CD Ellerbee yasss would love to see an update!

[@rockinout4990]

Yes!!!!

[@catsbja]

Yes!!

[@estherng7393]

yes!!!!!!

[@brrrrrrrrino]

YES

[@dipper556]

i thought he was a cute ass girl

[@mundain8818]

kay AHHHH SAMEE

[@toiletseat7898]

Sameee

[@legallypink177]

same but turns out to be a hot ass dude

[@zombfart]

bil-

[@Unique_username-kr5cu]

RIGHT I’m super digging the gender ambiguity

[@jnewday]

They just weren't in the same page. Nobody's fault. It happens sometimes in any relationship. She just loves more than him.

[@girlsgokawaii]

Honestly tho, he was upfront about it while she tried to force it upon him also what I find quite manipulative is her trying to "save" him

[@xiaolongbaoenthusiaist457]

She’s wayyyy more emotionally invested in him than he is. And that’s why this isn’t going to work ever.

[@Ashley-jn4nu]

They were never in a relationship though.

[@itzimani]

2:35 The guy: “we’re in the digital post modern world. No labels. No gender. no age restrictions. Nothing to define us” The girl: “He’s my boyfriend” I am dying 😂😂😂

[@wait-what-really.]

ouch

[@mariebernier3076]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[@showdimorti7103]

i agree. they are in a totally diferent vibe.

[@sulagreen5792]

Then he starts talking about how he's so much younger than her and how she can support someone so much younger. Thought you just said they were ageless?

[@TheRockerX]

I can't be the only one that thought that this was a lesbian couple. I literally dropped my earphones when he opened his mouth to speak

[@NotYourTypicalMermaid94]

Nope I thought Pierre was a woman too

[@jasminecherry892]

😂

[@caij8456]

I was shook, I thought they were lesbians

[@fadi0965]

this comment is funny

[@Sasha-tz6jl]

Sameee

[@wooyoungsblub9340]

*'You need to learn to love yourself before you can learn to love others.'*

[@nereaj.5349]

Amen

[@aaheliroyasa97]

Quoting Namjoon??

[@mrkrabsathiccboy6968]

MOON R yeah

[@skinnylegends8526]

L they are both legends anyway

[@user-dv7tl8tr6i]

yikes,,, that's literally telling people they are undeserving of love if they cant love themselves. Just bc I hate myself doesnt mean I cant love someone else

[@katrina467]

When someone says they're not ready for a serious relationship... believe them.. don't wait around.

[@mrs.roboto5680]

I think she’s sharing something very personal and she deserves to be respected when she sees the comment section.

[@xiaolongbaoenthusiaist457]

People don’t care about her feelings unfortunately. It’s more about taking sides and painting narratives to them.

[@gloomy9728]

@@xiaolongbaoenthusiaist457 You and OP should've shown the same energy when the comments were all against this dude.

[@Ashley-jn4nu]

I’m confused as to why people expect or desire no negative feed back when they literally put their business out there on blast to make a name out of themselves. Negative feedback is everywhere on KZbin. The negative feedback might make her more self aware of how delusional she is for trying to push this guy into being with her. She needs self worth.

[@Yeet42069]

Lmao respect is not "dEsErVeD", its given. And if you're not worth it, you don't get it.

[@girlhappy6442]

Totally agreed Mrs Roboto 👍🏽

[@fatzs.z7444]

This feels like a one-side love for some reason

[@bettysun7638]

Fatz S.Z that’s is what I also thought. I think they’re cute tho but she deserve someone who I don’t know “LOVE” her in the same she loves him. Did he say he loves her ??

[@abtsstan9675]

I don't think it's one sided. I just think he's so hurt that he can't love her the same way.

[@taetm8868]

@@abtsstan9675 same

[@liljepolak8565]

I think that it's as he said, he doesn't know what love is yet, so in other words, I think he isn't stable yet. She on the other hand feels more stable with her description, but still vague. So idk, they make good friends tho and have chemistry, so that's prob what the building block for their friends with benefits status was.

[@marvinradermacher5781]

One sided love is painful. I've witnessed it myself, many people do every day. Its horrible.

[@emilyrosebrook6474]

she's so in love with him it hurts

[@mowebber9589]

Emily Rosebrook the way she looks at him is REAL

[@rominadell8419]

Emily Rosebrook I'm crying

[@professionalcommenter]

Actual I think she loves him but isn't looking for true love. She seems smarter then that. She gets amazing sex and friendships and he gets amazing sex and understanding from him. That's all they both want.

[@Walamonga1313]

Emily Rosebrook Now she feels the pain and agony of millions of men 😂

[@morganalazzaretti6459]

yes :(

[@morganjones3060]

I think people are missing both of these humans energies. She is fiery, passionate, love struck. He is wise, slowed by his depression, and just goes with the flow. Opposites attract. The energy is amazing between them. I think they’re twin flames. But twin flames don’t have to be in love with each other. Twin flames are different than soulmates.

[@lala-yn5iy]

Thank you! It seems they were just in this moment together, even while calling their time together different things.

[@tovenrvik6336]

Twinflames do for the most look like siblings or twins, and are two people with same soul, a passionated relatonship with a lot of triggers. A divine relatonship.

[@bevcrusher4177]

LOL, no they're not. She's a needy and dysfunctional middle aged woman with no emotional maturity, and he's a kid with self-image issues. There's nothing between them. You're projecting.

[@spaghettilord2858]

This is an under rated comment, so much judgement on her, they have two different energies and two different ideals, but that’s okay. She may be enthralled with emotional attachment which isn’t wrong, while he is more logical and less emotionally driven which also isn’t wrong. Neither is wrong, the harsh judgement isn’t called for.

[@wisteria1739]

This hits right in the feels! I feel it was something like this because I had a similar experience like that type of emotional attachment.She was more like Pierre,even their vibes,she was like my world,I adored her so much. But in the end she walked away and yes we are twin flames,and we are like both ends of a pole but we had this intense energy when we're together,so passionate,reckless,sad and tragic. I have never been hurt by others or anything except her.

[@jovanasivan7150]

People thinking that "he's my bf he just doesn't know it" is cute need to calm down That aint cute in any way Imagine if roles were switched

[@netguy888]

that's what he said

[@netguy888]

@Crucibelle can you explain your stance I'm a bit confused

[@riripari2042]

I can easily picture the role reversal and that comes in the shape of the "nice guy" in movies that hopelessly chase after a girl whose just not interested in them.

[@netguy888]

@@riripari2042 I agree and I think it's wrong you have to switch the roles

[@riripari2042]

@@netguy888 Its all these double standards and people being quick to judge others. Clearly they had a complicated relationship. People have this general idea that falling in love and settling down is the dream but for a guy as young as him with his own issues that's not his focus right now. I've met people like him who don't want to settle down with the first person they meet. They're young and they want to be free to date different people. He was still figuring out who he was. It's not his fault that he couldn't return her feelings.

[@lonedogg4857]

Everyone else: (something meaningful) Me: i thought it was a lesbian couple.

[@vwaehring9184]

Saaame

[@johahernandez9462]

Same

[@mnr0168]

Sameee

[@ambivert498]

Lmao

[@yellowpinkgreengreen]

Yup, same. Was SHOCKED that he was actually a he.

[@robyn1768]

Unrelated, but he sits like an anime boy

[@riah.3577]

He is a anime boy i feel he was just ripped out a anime

[@EmCSquarePants]

Hes the perfect anime human being bleeesssssssss i love it!

[@lavellans]

Anime boys are all just subsets of his magicalness

[@hala-tb8jz]

He sounds like one too

[@EmCSquarePants]

@@hala-tb8jz Dont leave out his posture! The way he is sitting in this video is everything lol!

[@nxtrxds242]

Dude I don't even blame her, like I think I'm in love with Pierre too god damn he's just so freaking androgynous hot

[@stefaniacampos7798]

He’s so attractive! His voice is just 🤌🏽✨amazing ✨🤌🏽

[@sunstella]

Revisiting this video, i dont like how the comments had a sudden moment of realization only after the guy uploaded a video talking about his side. I think they were both toxic. its a very thin line between angsty and philosophical. It seems like he didnt have the most healthy state of mind or emotional stability which is why he was vulnerable yet resistant. Then theres her with her ego and arrogance making her think she can "fix" him or inspire him to change and be this better person who will accept her love and be her boyfriend. Rewatching this video is always fascinating.

[@FaerieElethia]

Word

[@Incompetences]

People pointed out the woman's problematic behavior from the beginning. As for the guy, not being in a healthy state of mind has nothing to do with how he did or did not contribute to the relationship... because in this case, even if he wasn't in a good place mentally, he didn't let that affect their relationship, he was upfront about what he was looking for and never once led her on. She projected her own wants onto him and that was noticeable from the beginning, NOT just after his update. The only reason his behavior is toxic is because YOU didn't think he was emotionally ready for a relationship. You don't get to choose that, and we're supposed to judge people on their behaviors and actions. He literally did nothing wrong and you're not 'woke' for attempting to walk both sides.

[@FaerieElethia]

Drive-by Baptism you literally don’t know them in real life, likeliness is they were both responsible for something and everything. He doesn’t play victim and you’re not woke either for placing him in the position of a victim lol

[@loveiscactus4294]

@@FaerieElethia neither do u. Yet u only care to the guy with an opinion different to yours, not the other ppl acting as if they know them. Where do u get this likeliness that both r to blame? Is it becoz when a lady is wrong u need to blame the man with her?

[@girlsgokawaii]

@@Incompetences she tried to "save" him so he would stay by her side either because he would feel in debt to her or tied the feeling of happiness and mental stability to her and their "relationship"

[@SimbaDaD0ll]

I started dying when she said she loves him and the camera flipped to him and he’s just jamming

[@momc1411]

@@cakt15us81 I feel that way too.

[@ame4021]

Same 😂

[@pokyumon1294]

Simply Simba LITERALLY

[@corn-rp6cw]

OMG STOP LOOLWJDOWNKWK

[@mariemontesclaros147]

Am I the only one who was shocked that she was 43?! Like she looks younger than her age

[@A-Dubs398]

Black don't crack.

[@evvaelo]

Shes beautiful.

[@axhley1426]

YUP

[@edenteklu278]

Me too

[@ashleyvaleria.9749]

NO I CAN BARELY BREATH WTF wish i could look like that when i get older

[@melyssarevilla1468]

He was honest, I respect that, but we all have been in her shoes. In that heartbreaking position where you want someone desperately and you wished you could freely give them all you have to offer and they could accept it and just love and be loved without hesitation or fear. But deep down you know that will not happen, and that makes the honey you save in your heart slowly become posion.

[@ILoveMetalBoys1]

I agree totally.

[@julifunnygirl71]

So true.

[@kentjohnson873]

You forgot the part where she blames everyone but herself.

[@Ashley-jn4nu]

I agree, however she’s 43 and chasing a 24 year old. I think she’s just obsessed with how pretty he is and wants to ignore the fact that his thoughts don’t add up to a successful relationship

[@cinnamonflan1412]

When he gives her a high five and she grabs it and doesn’t let go... she likes him so much and it’s not reciprocated. He doesn’t have to like her back... it’s just hard to watch because it’s unrequited love and it sucks.

[@jinnydodo]

“You’re slowly teaching me a language I’m starting to understand.”

[@rosemfall6717]

Uggh I love that part 😭😭😭

[@alexbuentello9394]

Bruh i started scrollong theough the comments *AND HE SPOKE AS I READ THIS* fuckin goosebumps 😂

[@alexamartinez1028]

alex buentello FUCKING SAME I GOT CREEPED OUT

[@hobabbi2887]

DUDE WTF I PAUSED THE VIDEO AND SCROLED THROUGH THE COMMENTS AND THEN I READ THIS AND PRESSED PLAY AND HE JUST SAID IT!!!! YER A WIZARD!!

[@ananyade6460]

She believes in him so much.

[@helpmereach100subsfornorea6]

Is that a man?

[@lucinaalvarez6760]

Help me reach 100 subs for no reason :D yes

[@charity9660]

Aanisha Dey awww

[@rockinout4990]

Yes. And I don't know if that's a good thing.

[@myrtwkati3505]

She : "he's my boyfriend" The video : "friEndS witH benEfiTs"

[@sturdymissus3180]

He's telling her, 'I need to work on knowing what love is before I can say I love you.'Girl, listen to him and stop being so emotionally invested. He's doing you a favor

[@NotWokebutAwake.]

Three months.... and she just keeps saying she's working on being patient ...

[@desswoo5370]

this shit hurt to watch she deserves the world

[@thefollowingmessageisirrel7632]

She dont deserve him tho

[@XxshamangirlxX]

@@thefollowingmessageisirrel7632 HE doesn't deserve HER

[@thefollowingmessageisirrel7632]

@@XxshamangirlxX cry me a river

[@dong7474]

Dude is just jamming out and bumping when she’s confessing her love he’s like aye aye

[@MrsAlmightyKey]

justin garcia lmao IKR he his little head nods when he jamming kills me I laugh every time 😂😂

[@stephaniehavoksen1761]

He’s one of the most alluring people I’ve ever seen.

[@TaraTara-ld2xb]

She's acting like an obsessed fangirl, but at the same time a controlling older person.

[@christine-tarjaangyalosi5684]

Exactly! I felt that but couldn't put my finger on it

[@girlsgokawaii]

Yesss imagine the backslash if the genders were flipped.

[@beentherelovedit9150]

she's acting like an estranged wife who's still not over her husband. it's painful to watch I hope she's in a better spot now.

[@NotWokebutAwake.]

It's been 3 months! THREE MONTHS!!!!

[@kass_G59]

Yeaaaah.. Yikes.

[@ErinWhiteHeyo]

"He is my boyfriend. He doesn't know it, and he doesn't want it" Let that sink in

[@MissLesy]

😂😂😂😂 ppl are crazy asf man

[@XxTayC94xX]

She said he does know that but doesnt want it. It's not crazy, they were just on different terms in thier relationship

[@krissakrutt]

@@XxTayC94xX its abuse

[@karendalsadik7119]

Kristín Hrefna please

[@eminemele1531]

@@krissakrutt it is!

[@anadelrieth1662]

I feel a little sad for her. He clearly doesn’t feel the same way about her as she does about him. You can tell in the way that he speaks to her and about her. :(

[@benideictcanterbach6394]

*Everyone when the video came*: eWw, He'S sUcH a F bOy, He'S sO sElFiSh AnD sHe LoVeS hIm So MuCh! *Everyone after Pierre's video with his side of the story came*: SHE WAS SO MANIPULATIVE! HE WAS MUCH MORE MATURE THAN HER!

[@rickymartinez6821]

You can literally go back in the comment history and it's the same 2-3 years back... Wtf u talking about

[@chaliejoy224]

Basically whoever comes out with the next response video is the "right" person. 2 years ago everyone was saying the guy was toxic because he was in a relationship that he knew the girl loved him but he didn't feel the same because of his underdeveloped emotions. Now everyone is saying the woman is emotionally unstable and possessive, just because they watched Pierre's response. But is she wrong? They had sexually benifits, they spend lots of time together, they were attracted to eachother, he played the boyfriend role, so why is she wrong for calling him what he acted like? If she made a response video than the crowd would go back to thinking she's the victim.

[@unluckyomen13]

@@rickymartinez6821 Wrong! When the video first came out, he got a LOT of hate. People called him an f boy. I remember clearly.

[@Chiara_Elena]

I wait for the day when people realize that there sometimes is no right or wrong in these kinds of situations.

[@shreyaarora2209]

@@Chiara_Elena I totally agree with you. It's just having different sides of "being correct". I think in their case it's due to their age gap. She being 43 wants stability whereas he being just 24 wants to explore. I think no one is basically wrong!!

[@aimster587]

She's in her 40s and she doesn't seem to have the emotional maturity as the 24 year old. Like for him in his 20s to draw the line and tell her what he's actually feeling, most men in their 20s lead women on to get what they want. He's like I'm still figuring my self out no I don't want commitment. She has lived her young life stop putting so much on this young man when he doesn't want it like that.

[@mereiam]

aimster587 he made it clear, he doesn’t want anything long term; she just doesn’t like it so she ignores it

[@lalalamaddalena]

I feel like she actually didn't live her "young life".

[@misspandesal]

Like another Mary K. Latourneau

[@bulletproofbeardscouts2090]

Damn she loves him so much, and it's so sad to see the look on her face when he says they aren't in a real kind of relationship or that he doesn't love her the same way...

[@ReptarTheUgly]

BulletproofBeardScouts but they aren’t... friends with benefits is just that. She’s the one misunderstanding that.

[@hazelrodriguez2649]

Jaime Ruiz Jaime Ruiz neither of them labeled their relationship as friends with benefits, the only ones who did that were the video creators. They just used it as a title, so she is able to assume that they are dating she isn’t misunderstanding anything

[@saral2963]

I agree.. he seems so dangerous to fall for. I think they won't forget each other and met at a pivotal time of their lives

[@MLSoll]

"She's from Europe"....we know what rock paper scissors is here in old ancient Europe lmao

[@z0kiss889]

A.M Lash ikr lmao i thought the same

[@Nina-kg9zt]

Hahahahaha

[@lovelylife7803]

I was looking for this comment lmao

[@minty8742]

Ikr

[@o_lymbias4159]

Yeah I was there like litterally every kid in Europe can play this WE EVENTED IT FOR GOD SAKE

[@yikesidfk4710]

People say she’s emotionally underdeveloped and immature, but I think she’s emotionally aware and conscious . She’s 43, she likes him , it’s simple to her. She knows he doesn’t want a relationship and she doesn’t seem to mind it but they spend lots of time together so to her he is a boyfriend . He doesn’t want to be labeled or tied down to something when life is short but enjoys his time with her . Whether they stay together , add the label , or break up, their relationship was needed and important in their lives for different reasons and each will come out of it or through it better for it . They don’t seem toxic at all , they seem like they know each others boundaries and are just going to explore and enjoy each other while they can .

[@twoandahalftwins908]

Yeees

[@Ashley-jn4nu]

Personally I think she saw a pretty faced male liking up her photos and ejected her personal needs for the relationship to work. She’s 43 and I’m sure it’s a rarity that attractive men like her things

[@Yeet42069]

Newsflash, being aware of what you want and gunning for it doesn't make you mature or mentally an adult lmfao. Respecting other people's boundaries and decisions, understanding different mentalities associated with age and not putting the people you "love" in awkward scenario's where they don't want to be in due to your own selfish desires, do show you are mature and an adult. And in all of those fronts she failed miserably.

[@n0426]

@@Yeet42069 SPOT ON. this happens way too much in life. It’s so sad but one should be a guardian of their own heart !

[@millawitt1882]

Hi Yieks - love this comment that you made and I totally agree, this is just two people who need this time together in their life❤️

[@chanso4880]

It sounds like he’s breaking up with her the whole time

[@rachelmarie31]

43? She looks great tbh

[@user-gl1ls1jx3h]

Rachel Henry she looks amaaaazing for 43, holy shit.

[@cvparadise]

I had to listen to her age like 3 times. She looks super great

[@saintjabroni]

Truly.

[@itsfin3what3v3r]

Me too. I knew she might have been older than him but 43?? No

[@Reirae]

All ages have their beauty.

[@MissCamChoco]

I don't feel sad for her. I wouldn't classify her love as 'unrequited'. I think she is strong and mature enough to just pour all her love into him, no matter what he is giving back, no matter what he is able to say or feel. Her love is so unconditional, so self confident and so deep. I am deeply touched by her beautiful soul.

[@lolacariad]

beautifully put into words

[@ShoppaholicGirl19]

And.... you just described my relationship

[@MissCamChoco]

On a further notice: Love is about giving after all. But you need to love yourself first to be able to give so much and not receive anything in return. I'd recommend the book "The Art of Love" by Erich Fromm to whoever wants to dive deeper into this topic.

[@maiyapallas7622]

Wow I feel like I could relate to both of them...I've been in a place where I wanted to be committed to someone but the other person didn't wanted that and I've also been in a relationship where I didn't want to be committed due to personal circumstances but the other person was pushing me to be with them. I could see my reflection in both and that makes me realize that the whole "relationship formula" doesn't work for all...it all comes down to right timing, right ppl, right mindset and maybe a bit of luck too.

[@presidentrm_8765]

A bit a luck, a dash a faith, and a pinch of grace.

[@billybobhaystraw4067]

So well put!

[@cordeliathedm]

It's so rare to see something so honest and real. These two had something so many will ever experience because most of us could never open up to someone and be that vulnerable.

[@kingxavierlovely]

Im a straight dude and I KNOW pierre is that guy that's gonna break my heart and I'm still down for it. this dude is dangerous.

[@Octoberstorm333]

Xavier Vachon hell fucking ye he could get it and also have his dreams at the palm of his hand if he believed in his full potential more.

[@bulletsfordinner8307]

I got the same vibe

[@marmalady6415]

Xavier Vachon hey man, you might not be straight and that's okay too

[@throwingfacts1132]

DUDE I KNOW THIS GUY I JUST WATCHED HIS VIDEO ABOUT SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND CAT CALLING.. bruh

[@unfazedjae2645]

Lol me 2! Then this vid popped in my recommendations. I then realised I had already seen this vid b4

[@plastictree7635]

I saw this vid before, saw his catcalling vid and then came back lol

[@angie-wf8pt]

what’s his channel name

[@malayjiawebbisacutiepatootie]

throwing facts lmao same I actually watched that I think two days ago

[@miguelmonteiro1144]

@@angie-wf8pt Pierre XO

[@RafaelAraujo-hi6wx]

0:12 You can just feel *the style* filling up the room

[@AvionHanleyThatOneCoverGirl]

Good on this guy for being very realistic with himself, and his own emotions.

[@SuperSmashJesse]

She's a light in a world of darkness. Such a good person, you could feel it.

[@TheLegend-gz2ys]

Django Moizoos she's pure

[@graceyvelazquez2968]

I agree

[@Sinnamonie]

"we're the perfect example of the post-digital age. No labels. No rules." and you? "hes my boyfriend" me: LMAO

[@emerald_digitalis3135]

Measfuvk

[@kissynuggett3727]

I thought that was cute... he may have no labels but she knows she only wants him... she knows he doesn't want titles and that she may not be his girlfriend but he is her boyfriend.

[@DeviousToster]

It's sad though because those labels come with commitment and ideals that he doesn't owe her even if a part of her thinks so, its a recipe for heartbreak or at least bitter disappointment. He total admires her but he doesn't want her like she wants him.

[@ellisiataitt9790]

schaedyn I swear my heart broke for her

[@XXSTICKLERxx]

schaedyn LITERALLY ME

[@thevictoriaarzushow]

ok so eyeshadow works for him... I never imagined myself saying that about a guy

[@funchik93]

Welcome to the 2020's

Yes he's fine af

[@primrose_m]

I appreciate how self aware and considerate, yet honest he is with his words.

[@AlexisSamaniego98]

Her feelings are too strong for him and I feel so bad for her.

[@JoyGolden]

I feel like this woman had already heart brokened several times during this relationship..

[@sabimse]

Is that honestly all that matters to you? The age gap? Jesus christ, get over it already.

[@jassicastifani6186]

Damn thurman over here be rude and ridiculous cuz he/she ain’t got no one

[@whitykitty2651]

Zheng Hong brokened? Lol

[@ShadeSlayer1911]

I'm actually confused as to what the purpose of this video is. This seems like a conversation that two people would have in private, not on camera for everyone to hear.

[@zappyaze]

Gosh, there's something so deeply attractive about him.

[@bangtansbae3985]

Anyone else here after the follow-up video?

[@ria861]

Bangtan's Bae yeahh

[@marilouetchon5721]

There is actually. Check the new update.

[@prestona3099]

Yeah

[@queenwilliams2612]

Me

[@sou4568]

Yeaah

[@viscalso1120]

Me looking at the thumbnail “oh a lesbian couple” Me when they sit down “oh a lesbian couple” Me when ‘Pierre’ starts talking “oh a - 😳” Me after a few minutes “ is that. Is he. Somewhat attractive?” Me at the end “😐”

[@curiouslilbi7445]

hahahaha SAAAAME i thought i was the only one XD

[@izabarbieduh]

Darra facts girllll OMG factzzz

[@donikex7808]

Omgheee exactly meee

[@bijoux3]

did i write this

[@Savannah-fn3zy]

Darra meeeeeeeee

[@igotuastick]

i think this video is less about choosing sides and more about seeing what a strong unique and powerful relationship these people have. you can actually feel the intensity of their feelings by their expressions and words.

[@chikkiton]

He doesn’t want to end up with her. He’s in it for whatever ride she’s providing and to learn.

[@manifestseven4060]

He articulates his “I like you very much” so well.. sis he’s not in love, he just loves your company. She’s so invested in his “potential” yikes

[@ArcherMVMaster]

Maybe it's because she wants to see him succed. She's older than him so she knows he's young and still has the best to come.

[@lisa_squared]

He is gorgeous. Goddamn. I thought he was a woman before he spoke lol

[@isabelaramirez9656]

arya snark me tpo

[@isabelaramirez9656]

Me 2

[@annaklimpke5965]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@isabellajimenez7518]

kinda looks like cara delevine

[@lumiere4460]

No he doesn't, she's super ugly.

[@janamatrix8387]

C O N S E N T . Consent matters