Understanding The Unhealed Empath

[@tamiemjoyce]

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[@joycemcmahan3203]

I’m 80 yes old and finally this morning I said “NO” to someone that knew I had surgery 3 days ago called me yesterday to say she has a gift for me can she come over? I said, “thank for the belated concern but I’m not feeling like having company,” that was empowering. She is supposed to be visiting me each month to see if I’m ok from my church but has never been in my home or called for the last 6 months. I would rather her not come at all now that I’ve been listening to you. Thank You! Joyce McMahan

[@janherlihy8301]

Blessed Love taking back your power !!!!

[@d.b.g9216]

Well done ! False friends are no friend - you deserve better and by saying no to her you gained your self respect 😊

[@divinecommerce3912]

❤️🔥❤️

[@janegreen5301]

Good for you Joyce! Happy Thanksgiving!

[@jameswahnee-vn5nt]

Good for you Miss Joyce. We're doing just fine without these things in our life. I would love to hear stories about your life. I know you have alot to offer. You deserve so much more respect than that.

[@dirtroaddestiny]

Tamie I’ve finally healed. It feels so good to drop the rope with people who never wished me well. Blessings thank you ❤

[@tamiemjoyce]

You're welcome!

[@meenugupta7645]

Yes I need more healing

[@hilariecalijo4643]

I relate to not being able to set boundaries without, guilt, shame and fear. Also, feeling “less than,”always second guessing myself.

[@juneellis2513]

Don’t worry absolutely it pleasing everyone you need to help and heal yourself first I learned that the hard way take care be well hon

[@amkobra]

Having no father figure, a contentious relationship with my mother, and an unreal amount of abuse and neglect. I think my empathy derives from my need to save, help, and/or protect, because if I do this enough maybe I can save myself or be loved. I project a lot more than I even notice at the time and a lot of advice I give would fix my own problems. Part of myself feels as if I'm beyond saving and part of myself feels I don't deserve to be. I have a crazy amount of guilt and I don't know why. I have a diseased mind that at one point I honestly believed I was capable of great things, but I now want to shrink into the background. I don't want to focus on others more than myself, but I can't help it. I lost my faith in God, but my karmic belief kept me and still keeps me bound like a prisoner. I'm a prisoner of my own self-imposed limitations. I'm a prisoner of my own life.

[@Benjaminleo815]

Reach outside of yourself to God. I do this by just asking for help. God doesn't force his presence. A little help to breath and rest!

[@heatherfraser1377]

Oh i am the family scapegoat but this is with my own children! I had a very narcissistic husband, i was the defender particularly of my children when they were younger, they are now adults. I am now denied access to my grandchild because i dared to challenge poor behaviours, not validate it! This is so heartbreaking but i am gradually accepting the situation, it's hard. I have concluded that despite trying to resolve the situation, my soon to be ex husband is back on the scene with our children and clearly having influence over them, i am doomed but a great believer in karma and that the truth will come out in the end, justice will prevail. Boundaries are in place from my perspective and i will defend them for my own sanity, self respect and self worth as i believe i am worth more than the way i am being treated 👍

[@waywardstitch8604]

I can relate to everything you wrote. My narc mom is 90 and nearing the end, and I'm sooo done with her never-ending antics. I'll be keeping my distance while she deteriorates further. And I'm actually surprised that I'm really okay with that. I've done lot of hard work on my healing, decades of therapy. I lost myself for a long while, but I'm on my way back now, stronger than ever. Best wishes on your journey! 💞

[@melissadelong6767]

Everything you are saying is ME! Always trying to please others and yet I was miserable. I am so ready to HEAL! SERIOUSLY this is blowing my mind because every word you have said has been my life for over 50 years!!!!! PLEASE help me become who I was meant to be! Not fitting in and not belonging is me! Thanks! Sincerely and humbly, Melissa

[@michaelholtzman1463]

Thanks for that!.. the only one I still need to work on is boundaries. I still struggle with feeling bad, but I'm getting better ☺️ Edit: I suffered physical and sexual abuse from 8-14. Until I ran away. I was also the scape goat.

[@susanstokes8460]

I can relate to all of this!

[@michaelholtzman1463]

@@susanstokes8460 it's like a check list of where your at and what you need to work on! Really loved this one!

[@renee7113]

Thank you! I have finally let people go. I didn’t do it in the most eloquent way, but I don’t regret doing it just the same.

[@ryanfairbanks2033]

Everything you have said fits so well. The problem is i have been hurt so badly by peaple i don't feel like I can trust anyone . From growing up to a 30 year marriage to a narcissist who was sleeping with every friend i ever had. Thanks for the videos as they are helping me figure out me. I always know what people are thinking ,i always know how people are feeling when they first enter a room. But myself worth is in the toilet .when my mom died instead of morning i was running around trying to make other people happy to the point my wife asked me what is wrong with you . I also sense when i an in danger. Seam to know things before they happen . In the last 5 years i have become very good at what I call lessoning to my inner self . I can ask myself questions and i get answers not in words but in feelings . Maybe i am just weird but my inner self has proven herself time and time again and she has always been right thanks for listening Ryan

[@stevenspinicchia]

I’m really understanding what you’re saying you’re bringing light to my situation and answers to the questions been wanting my entire life. I do believe I’m a super empath.

[@tamiemjoyce]

I'm glad it resonated, Steven. Thanks for watching!!

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Brilliantly described Tamie 😊 thank you so much. It’s time now. God bless you ❤

[@sueabboud8972]

I relate completely but after 40 yrs of this i cant be fixed.you are absolutely amazing.reading me like a book.

[@waywardstitch8604]

If you can "relate completely" that means you also know you are a very powerful light-filled being. And you're so packed full of strength that you have the ability to carry many others, all while neglecting yourself. That's sooo amazing! If you could know your true self you'd know you really can find your healing path. And you'd find a way to turn your enormous power into your own self-care and healing. After taking care of others for so long it's absolutely terrifying to take proper care of yourself. I had to start with teeny baby steps, and for a long time it felt like I was getting nowhere, very discouraging. But with perseverance I finally began to realize I was actually making progress. After a lot of hard work, learning to care about myself as a priority, I'm now on the downhill side of healing, and never going back again. And I believe in you too. Truly. Bestest wishes as you also find your way back to your best self! 💞

[@guntertorfs6486]

I've been guilty of all of them to some degree in my life. Looking good , ' i don't know what that color is , but it suits you well ' lady !

[@seanharrison6437]

I am all of this I think that’s why I’ve been blinded by a covert narcissist for the last two and a half years 🤦‍♂️

[@tamiemjoyce]

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[@atomicovary]

I have never felt so seen in my life. I check every single box! It is both relieving and scary to hear that this is why I'm so broken. There is so much work I need to do on myself.

[@tamiemjoyce]

I'm glad it resonated, @atomicovary! It sounds like you may be a good candidate for one of my coaching programs. If that’s of interest to you, feel free to visit my website (link below) and click on “programs” and “reviews” for all the details. Here’s the link: www.TamieMCoaching.com

[@traciea1973]

This explains a lot to me. Thank you for this video. I’ve been on the path of not being codependent for probably eight years, and this explain it to me so much clearer than anything else why I would be so codependent.

[@bonniellibell5935]

Everything is resonating with me! I am 70 years old and FINALLY understand what happened to me and why; and now I understand me! And can heal. Thank-you Tamie! As SOO as I can find my Apple 🍎 password I will send a super Thanks!

[@lindagreen9278]

OK, Tammy, first of all thank you. I cannot express enough how much your videos and the authentic energy that exudes right out of your videos been the major part of this almost 2 year journey into my entire life. I've always known I was empathetic, always watched behavior since 6 years old, always been able to self reflect, I didn't relate to the being an empath. I'm definitely unhealed, learning bit don't fit all of these traits. Unworthiness, feeling less than and self medicating. I have been involved extensively in the latter where healing is concerned in AA. I knew I had to quit running, stop, look at me so I could see others more clearly...notably my mother. I did the work and was successful and able to see most notably and last 12 and a half years. You know the work. It's overwhelming now the whole scope of it all. Thank you. So much more work to do.

[@beverlyballard3845]

Thank you! Needed this today! Some HARD days going on for many! Your words, RARE, and non existent, also, in many, are more valuable than food! Peace to you!

[@sallyjaynes2433]

Wow & whew, .... perfect analogical on a pre-empath. A path/journey, persay, to visualize, persist & pursue for yourself as a more fully rounded empathetic soul surrounding a place on mother Earth. ☮️✌️

[@priscillaandhercats]

Thank you for scratching a surface I’ve been trying to deny I’m ready to learn more ✨🙏

[@k33p1tc00l]

Mommy Tamie is the best healer on youtube.

[@MadeinCanada1970]

Spot on🙏🏽 That was me for years. I'm now healing myself.❤

[@Sam-pl3yd]

Thankfully I get to listen to you Tamie with your lovely stories while I am still in my healing ❤️‍🩹 & recovery ❤️‍🩹 😊❤️❤️❤️

[@robertwofford8910]

I feel like you described so many of my traits. Therapists seem to be following script. It sounds like you have a different formula that actually helps.

[@russellnash4059]

I have, over the last several years, discovered that I am really bad about emulating the emotions of people around me. I cry at funerals for people I don't know, I get angry really only when people are coming at me with that energy. I'm most at peace in isolation. I hate loud and crowded places. I could go on. I just realized today that I might be an empath. All the boxes are checked for everything I've read. It's kind of ... a shocking revelation. That being said, thank you for the video. I really enjoyed it. Not sure what to do with this lol

[@IrishRushandSmiling]

Oh my Gosh; I've had so many of these symptoms throughout my life. I suspect my lack of self esteem relates to being abused as a child by a step father. Fortunately he died when I was 16. I'll never forget the relief I felt when my mom came home from the hospital and said, "Well, he's gone." My response was, "GOOD! Now, can we get a phone?" A few months later, I turned 17 and completed an application for a driver's license, but the state's reply to my request was a letter stating they had NO Record of Birth for a Donna Marino. After reading this, I walked into the kitchen to find my Mom washing dishes and announced, "Hey Mom! I'm leaving now to rob a bank !" She was shocked of course and asked, "What are you talking about?" I repeated my announcement and added, "There's nothing anyone can do to me because I don't exist and I have a letter from the state to prove it !" I showed her the letter and she said, "Sit down, we have to talk ." So we sat at the kitchen table and she shared how my mother was at a friend's home asking if she knew anyone who would take me to keep me safe from a abusive man with whom she lived, who was putting icecubes in my crib. Her younger sister, was visiting her friend , who was the daughter of my birth mother's friend, overheard this. So she told my birth mother that her sister would love to take me in because she was married but couldn't have children. Soon after that, I was handed over to Doris who raised me. Doris was very good to me but her husband was an abusive monster. So I was shy, insecure and was called Cootie Bug from 1st to 8th grade until I attended a high school where noone from grade school shared the same classes. That was the beginning of my freedom. I am blessed to still be close to a friend from there since we were 14 and played pinball every day after school.

[@Gloweysworld51]

Wow I could relate to everything you said but I don't self medicate. I find that a financially abuse myself, I know that's what drew me into the last recent relationship with a narcissistic man. I didn't completely realize I was an empath until right now I start therapy tomorrow ... thank you for your videos

[@SparklingForYahusha]

Thank You, Tamie, you really speak the truth. I enjoy your channel so much. You are very knowledgable. And i understand about the Responsibility part. It is our responsibility, because we direct our own lives, not anyone else, 💗.

[@lolaa_the_explorer]

Your energy makes me feel beautiful and empowered! Excellent video ❤ thanks for posting

[@aprendiz272]

Thanks Tamie! Bliss*

[@daveanderson8776]

Yes I can totally relate to this ! Unfortunately.

[@genevachism6431]

I knew I was an unhealed empath when you first started describing it. Didn't think it was that bad

[@d.b.g9216]

Gosh this video it resonates with me and many others ! You’re right about needing approval and being a people pleaser for whatever reason, you’re also right about having to work on yourself - which I found REALLY tough, saying no, feeling the guilt etc - it took years to change and work through. I am still an empath but a careful one 😂😊xx

[@freedomfighter1866]

Exactly what I need to hear

[@staciebenefield261]

Wow, this was me to a T, like spot on in every way. How do you know if you're truly past this? In fact, I used to think I was planted here by aliens to observe and heal others, but later, I assumed this was a coping mechanism for not fitting in. My current partner, the first non-toxic relationship I've experienced, who is an amazing human, has told me I am a natural healer...interesting for sure.

[@kindravanderslice6128]

This is my relationship! I’m a broken empath and am married to a toxic narcissist

[@MadeinCanada1970]

Thank you

[@tamiemjoyce]

You're so welcome! Thanks for tuning in!!

[@arianasha]

You have helped me so much in explaining this and breaking it all down in simple terms thank you so much this rang so true as to my own behaviors toward myself and I am really getting this now! Thank you so much again Tamie! Bless you.. xo

[@juliebeabout4052]

I have every single "symptom". I'm trying to start a new life after a horrible 4yr abusive relationship with a narcissist. Mentally, emotionally, and physically. Actually have a jury trial next week. His 2nd domestic battery resulting in serious bodily harm. It's hard

[@umangasarathchandra717]

very valuable video!

[@tamiemjoyce]

Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!! 😊

[@Boogie76600]

Thanks, Tamie, getting caught up with your videos.. Laptop bit the dust, just got a replacement. Hope all is well with you! ❤

[@tamiemjoyce]

Thank you! It is indeed! Welcome back!! 😉

[@OdobaJacobpeter]

My ex gave me some garbage lie when I saw him in a motel. I didn't believe him and after that I couldn't trust him at all. I started feeling like he has cheating on a constant base and I haven't just caught him till then. I wanted to confirm my suspicion.I had to know.... I was driven to know. The truth is the truth. Some of us have to know. Everyone is different. I got a tech guy to snoop into his phone and I got all his texts, calls and social media activities. I then found out that he had 2 month old relationship with the lady he was with at the motel. I got to know this through the infos the tech guy got me from his phone without his knowledge, He got into her phone and drives. I found Dirty proofs, real dirty things. All deleted Messages, chats, Videos, Call history from 12years back where unveiled to me. This proofs where helpful cos he worked my papers for me and now I can stay with my child and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner abuse you no more, follow him on Instagram rimifix02

[@joywhite806]

MEE ‼️ I'M THE FAMILY SCAPEGOAT ‼️ You're 💯🎯 (exactly correct from my experience).

[@ImreadyforJesus]

This is hard truth

[@lenalootens5625]

Always really clear and helpful! Thank you. Greetings from Belgium💝🐴🌹

[@margaretgrace5902]

This was powerful, Tamie. I related to all of it. I always knew I was different and had a purpose to bring light and love, and healing, but I had difficulty from the start and through the years cutting ties with all the difficult people who I seemed to naturally attract. I simply felt bad dropping them because of their loss of my care and attention, even though they abused it. Trauma bonds! I felt it was my purpose to help them. Years of migraines and escaping my own pain have subsided as I learn that I have to put my own needs first in order to heal and fulfill my purpose on earth. Just what you laid out in this video. I have peace now. Thank you for your wise words and validation, sister.

[@tamiemjoyce]

You are most welcome, Margaret! Thanks for watching!! 🌸

[@arianasha]

@@tamiemjoyce yes so powerful for me too! xo

[@ilonapretorius99]

Yes this is me

[@Hey_You_Me]

I been thinking im insane and keep to myself. When i go to the doctors i have soneone else do the talking. I am asked to sign a release of liability for them not to call 911. Im not looking for anything but to move forward. I just dont know how.

[@PamelaTurner-vu8ve]

Thank you 🌹

[@tamiemjoyce]

Hey, Pamela! You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!!

[@RosemaryCreations]

You described how I engage with people all my life. I have become aware of this way you described running around saving everyone abd have lessened it but I have little idea what is on the flip side of not rescuing people when I do provide an energetic service that does help people. If I do not help people that sincerely ask me for help and I feel I can help them...I feel I am shirking my purpose fir being here. I think you are gojngbto shoot holes in that feeling pretty quick.

[@johnnycash5520]

I find myself taking care of everybody so much so I don't take care of myself I don't shower I don't brush my teeth I don't shave and I don't trim my nails find it difficult doing these things I'm so exhausted

[@SandraDee11]

I can relate to all of it. Thank you

[@lo-ul8nq]

My mother is like this

[@Angelica123]

This explains me and I’m on my may but it’s a little bit left to go ❤ thank you 🙏🏻

[@MaribelAvalos-f5z]

This is so me all me

[@-Star-Soul]

Hi Tamie. So I'm always happy to see your videos. I've done much work to heal and still have lots of work to do everyday to keep growing and be the better self. The question I have for you is, what are your thoughts about the process to forgive the people in life that have done damage and harm? Is this something that is necessary for self growth? Thanks for your presence in the world ❤

[@Monipenny1000]

Great question because I am far from forgiving my abusers.....all of them. I started counseling just over eight months ago to process my traumas. I feel like it will take the rest of my life, if I live another 30+ years to heal from all of it. Forgiveness...what does it mean to forgive? It feels like the answers vary and can be quite vague. Seams we need to define it first, at least for ourselves before we are ready to forgive if we really feel it's necessary. Maybe a definition as simple as 'I wish them no harm' and move on from them is enough to call it forgiveness. For myself, that's the most I am able to do.

[@-Star-Soul]

@@Monipenny1000 yes, I agree mostly. I feel like I need some sort of ritual, and maybe I'd find that in the act of forgiveness. Not doing so for my abuser but for the sake lifting the weight that I'm tired of carrying. I wish these things were as simple as this, but I know the universe doesn't work with such simplicity. It's so hard for me to feel the world around me with such intensity, and fight the push and pull every moment to be here. There is beauty in this pain but it's too intense for my embrace.

[@Monipenny1000]

@@-Star-Soul ((hug)) The pain is what makes healing so hard because we have to feel to heal which is why we instead find our "coping mechanism" to avoid feeling all that pain. I think because we can not truely avoid those feelings and emotions, only numb them with either drugs, alcohol or like I have done, suppressed them my entire life because those pains, well, hurts. To process them a little at a time which involves allowing our feelings to surface to feel and express them is how we can finally be released of the pain of the trauma that we processed. A good trusted empathic friend can listen and support you as you share your traumas and process your emotions that you allow yourself to feel. You have to feel to heal. If drugs or alcohol are an issue, like Tamie said, work on that first as they numb our pains preventing us from processing them. I wouldn't worry about forgiveness until you processed your emotions and feelings first. I don't feel we can forgive our abusers if we haven't felt, expressed and released our pent up emotions attached to the traumas first. Put yourself and your feelings first, you deserve it.

[@janherlihy8301]

WooooooooooW

[@anneseye111]

Unhealed empath has been me since I was 7. 52 years! It is me you are talking about! Help!!!

[@flexiveganc7441]

Learn so much from you

[@91GT347]

I have one question. Which Im sure I know the answer to, just seeking verification I guess. You mentioned them believing they are helping, but actually being controlling. What happens after that ? Do they become more and more narcissistic ? I am having trouble deciding whether this is a two empath, one unhealed relationship, or a empath/covert narcissist (or just highly narcissistic)relationship. It’s confusing because she exhibits unhealed empathic traits. Pretty much all of them. Including substance abuse which she admits is to numb her emotions, and people pleasing/ validation seeking to the point of cheating. Which is where our issues began. Over several more years, you know what happens when you take an empath past the point of no return. My lack of boundaries instantly became unbreakable boundaries, saying things, though true, probably shouldn’t have been said, etc. The whole Supernova and everything that comes with it. That has passed and forgiven, but not reconciled . Probably cant be. Since then she has become extremely narcissistic. We had an hour long conversation and I asked “How many of the sentences you have said, began with I or me ?” All of them. Projection, deflection, gaslighting, manipulation. The whole nine yards. Admits she has these issues, but refuses to deal with them. Claiming she doesn’t know how. Any time I try to help, of course I am the enemy. She had a very rough childhood. Moved in with her aunt at about 4. Because her parents were incapable of caring for her and her brothers. Them moved back about 13 and had an alcoholic father and an Uncle that was……not good, I’ll say. Sound narcissistic or unhealed empath, cornered, and still refuses healing ? Sorry for the book.

[@melissadelong6767]

YES PLEASE!!

[@Di-Pi]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@spaceparrot8702]

I can relate on so many different levels to this spot on analysis, from the tendency to help others through being a narcissist magnet all the way to living as the family scapegoat. It's been my life for so many years to help others, but ignore my own problems that nearly pushed me out of life through a suicide attempt. I really don't know if there is any research done on the reasons why unhealed empaths really like to help others while ignoring their own needs for help. So I've been doing my own little research and the conclusion I came to was quite simple: It feels good (for us empaths anyway) to help others. But to grab the bull by its' horns and confront our own problems? That's super painful and is a very slow process. Needs a certain amount of self-esteem, we have to believe that we have a purpose and we have a place in this world. At age 24 right now, I feel a lot more accomplished and enlightened than any other person in my family. I can cut through their bs like THAT. Draw my lines, set my boundaries and get the respect I truly earned. I know people in their 50s who can't do this! It's insane that I managed to get to this level of self-awareness while they still are lots behind. It really comes down to just putting in the work and not giving up after the first few hiccups.

[@donnaobaniion4550]

This explains exactly what is wrong with me. Every experience in my life relates to exactly to what you said. That's a trip.

[@TuerlingsTim]

The challenge is how measure what status you are. You making steps and than you will know if the result is going to the positive way.

[@dgvfsa66]

I am sooooooo not even close to healing 😮

[@hae-jungaliciakoh18]

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[@brn2sor]

13:46

[@cindyc]

🤗❤️

[@Marebo07]

Have you been reading my mail?❤😢

[@annastone5624]

Hi Tamie, I’d love if you do more dating videos. Just listening to your video about high value women and it got me thinking.. esp about the ‘let men chase’. As an abuse survivor, when men chase me it scares me, I’ve fled many men before it could even begin. Because it brings up a lot of fear. I would like to let men chase..but you do have to show them you are definitely interested, or they won’t. Showing interest I find difficult as I’m so used to trying to protect myself. I’ve no experience of letting it go further than them trying to ask me out and me rejecting that initial contact. Could you describe what the first encounters and dates might involve? I also have experience of men approaching me and asking me out, then they seem to expect me to take it from there.. I want them to have suggestions of things to do together. My therapist gave me a great line ‘what did you have in mind?’ at least that puts it back on them again.

[@hae-jungaliciakoh18]

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[@hoa7254]

I'm in a bizarre in-the-steaks feeling where nothing much makes sense, and everything crushes onto me, retrospectively. With the respective thoughts on this it is hard to think I might ever have the right and or luck to step out of this but I'd be very much lying if I didn't mention, there is a dark silver stream on the horizon. Stay confident - in yourselves.

[@nancyP7448]

I do feel as if I'm healing as I recognize all that you are saying. I'm over 50 years old. I'm glad I'm finally past the unworthiness. It was them, not me. I finally know that now.

[@blackmagehedonist]

I know full and well that, currently, I fall into the "unhealed" category at the moment. Which is why I know better than to try to be someone else's answer when I am still in the process of searching for so many of my own. I'll be there to support and lift up those in need whilst they find someone in a well enough state to help them properly heal, but I know that person is not me at this juncture. Supernova, I keep seeing it called? That is where I seem to be, right now. I just look forward to getting through it so I can get back to what brings me joy in the near future. Just, sometimes you have to tear everything down in order to build back on a stronger foundation.

[@izawaniek2568]

Thank you Tamie. ❤ I can relate to everything you have said. Spot on.

[@tamiemjoyce]

You are so welcome, Iza! Thanks for watching!! 😊

[@gailmckenzie5780]

This is me! Makes absolute sense!

[@johnstone3836]

Wonderful info Thank You for sharing 😊

[@tamiemjoyce]

Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!!

[@rosemarieramsingh8749]

So good! I work in health care and many doctors and nurses are in this dynamic. I defo am dealing with identity deficit as I let go of the helping/enabling-only identity. Thanks much!

[@EnergyMedicineEnlightment]

Wow! Thank you so much for making this video and sharing it. It is amazing and empowering. I am recommending you to all that I know are empaths and have gone through narcissistic abuse. Keep those informative videos coming.

[@henrykujawa4427]

"no more" Pardon a slight diversion, but, this reminded me of a bit from one of my favorite comedies... "Sorry I had to slap you around, baby, but, you got hysterical when I said... NO MORE." --Woody Allen (trying to imitate "Humphrey Bogart") in "Play it Again Sam" (1972)

[@SuffolkSunflower]

I have fully accepted I am an unhealed empath. I need some help and guidance ❤ can someone please help me ? I truly thought I was out of the fog etc but something has recently happened and I have had a bit of a reality slap in the face and I know it’s my responsibility to start and do the work 💙💜

[@yorammm5549]

hi tamie ! thank you for these explanations in this video There is no doubt. You enlightened my eyes..

[@francoisbroukx1244]

My parents were both HSP, or empaths Or any name you call it, in that time(I'm 68) it was called "over sensitive". I' v never seen my parents having an argument. So, my problems started really when I started school; and I learned that, doing things before it is asked, finish someones sentence, answering the question not yet asked, is not a way to make friends; I am HS, and cried easily, I was 7-8 years old, and then, being a boy and crying was not a good combination. Sorry, in fact my question was more about: do you have a epidemic of narcissists in the US? Lots of stories with narcissistic parents, intriguing. Sorry again, I was curious and surprised.

[@janwa09]

I am still confused with the whole concept of empaths being natural healers and wanting to change the world. What if your intuition tells you that it’s an impossible feat? You definitely have the desire to do so but you recognize that the world is so much bigger than yourself and doesn’t necessarily revolve around your way of thinking. Would that be a empathic defeatist mentality?

[@jennamarynsierra]

You don’t need to change the entire world at once. Helping in just one other person’s healing journey is changing the world. That being is in the world and you helped change the world by changing them. Don’t get overwhelmed by how large the statement sounds :)

[@תשובה-באהבה]

Very clear and makes sense. I resonate a lot.

[@malcolmfranklin306]

This sounds like me alot

[@michaelarmstrong4033]

Hello! Ouch. I resonate

[@johntenhope3914]

I can relate to all of it!

[@carrieladewig6859]

I hear that John!

[@x_lindsay28]

Thank you for this!!!!

[@tamiemjoyce]

Hey, Juel! You’re so welcome! Thanks for tuning in!

[@annamaegold]

Sorry for being late! 💖

[@tamiemjoyce]

Good morning, Anna Mae!! 🌸

[@annamaegold]

@@tamiemjoyce I was training horses this morning, but I'm all caught up!

[@henrykujawa4427]

Fascinating stuff. I think this video really describes me, more in my first 30 or so years that since then. I do find it very interesting and often educational to look back, even way back, and see and get a better understanding for what was going on before I was able to really study and KNOW what was going on.

[@cliodhnadoherty2409]

You are Fantastic Tamie! So informative, learning a lot in such short spaces of time 🦋

[@Sam-pl3yd]

🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@bucolic_frolic1284]

The understanding increases every week and it all fits together more perfectly as time goes by. Amazing.

[@TheHuggyzim]

Thank you for this video. It put so many things together for me 😢😢

[@jamesmoore869]

I identify, and I'm working on me. I do not see the end, boundaries are a very hard to maintain. I am unhealed empath. Thank you Tammy

[@trishmacpherson3118]

This is me

[@niquegods1nique983]

I def am this smh