UNEMPLOYED, 30 साल की AGE, COMPETITIVE EXAMS, शादी | LIFE में TENSION ही TENSION है |

[@GD-bi2rx]

Today I am seriously thinking to commit suicide...and found this...in same situation...29 year male... Thank u so much😭😭🙏🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

Bhai jeevan mein sangharsh karo, ladte raho, kabhi haar nahi maanni, is jeevan ko haraana hai, tumhari zindagi bahut keemti hai. God bless you.

[@karishmasoren6944]

Thank you so much...sir May be God bless with u..

[@gauravpandey9607]

You are Coward ,,read the power of now book or the unthered soul

[@AnubhavJain]

Never say like that, he fought back, and is ready to live, he is brave, and will be a winner in life someday.

[@rameshwaram8697]

Aajkal sab log suicide ki baat kyu karte rehte hai samajh nahi aata mujhe

[@mutiurrehman6359]

Don't die before your death. Fight is the ultimate solution. Don't think you are alone. There are lakhs of people like you. you are brave, have courage, and you will win.

[@ranjeetkaur3971]

ऐसा हमसफ़र इतनी आसानी से नहीं मिलते। अतः प्राथमिकता शादी को न देकर अपने भविष्य को मजबूत बनाने पर जोर देने में ही भलाई है ।

[@madhavithakur7158]

😊👍

[@shivanipaul3822]

Bilkul thik hai

[@nidhiinwtc]

Society sali chup rhe tb nn...

[@ranjeetkaur3971]

@@nidhiinwtc 🙏🏻 सोसायटी की आवाज़ दबाने के लिए अपनी जिन्दगी की रक्षा करना छोड़ दें? दुर्दशा की स्थिति में यही सोसाइटी हँसी भी तो उडाएगी । अलग हट कर अपने सिद्धांतों के साथ जीना हो तो विरोधों की उपेक्षा करनी ही होगी ।

[@nidhiinwtc]

@@ranjeetkaur3971 you r right... Sir

[@chetanprakash7453]

my age is 27 I cleared ssc cpo preliminary examination of 2019, prepared very hard for physical test but before 20 days of the physical test I slipped and my fifth metatarsal got fractured but I did not lose heart. I took extension and went to take physical test, I cleared 1600 meters race, 100 meter sprint, and long jump but unfortunately couldn't qualify high jump still I am upbeat that one day I will become sub inspector in Delhi police and live my dream with eyes opened. wish me best of luck friends.

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best, fighters like you can beat your fate

[@rajkrmeena9920]

good job keep it up

[@Aditya1-Arora]

SC ho kya?

[@chetanprakash7453]

@@Aditya1-Arora obc

[@souldivine555]

Best of luck

[@myownlittleworld6794]

Sir meri problem aisi h.. mere papa paralyzed h.. only brother ko mental disorder (schizophrenia) h. Hmare ghar itna paisa v ni ki humari ache se shadi ho paye ... 3 yrs ho gye taiyari ko.. par maine mehnat krna ni chora.. maine promise kia h ghr bna kar dungi papa ko...relatives bht bolte h ki tmse nahi ho payga.. par unki baat ni sunti .abhi 2 interviews k results pending h..please pray 4 me ki ho jae ********* 26 july 2022- finally selected at ONGC HR executive

[@AnubhavJain]

Your life is tough, your journey is inspiring, keep making efforts, one day you will surely succeed and make your family proud. All the best and God bless you.

[@myownlittleworld6794]

@@AnubhavJain thanku so much sir.. I will surely reply again here after getting selection.

[@voltface7568]

I wish u for your success

[@peacefulsoul3472]

@@myownlittleworld6794 All the Best for your selection 👌👌👍 God Bless You🙏 May universe, Angel's, nature, higher Supreme power help's u a lot and Gives u Abundance of Success, Happiness, Peace, Positivity, True Love, Joy, Fun, Romance, Gud Health Wealth and Money🤗🙏🎆 THANK U God🙏🎆

[@myownlittleworld6794]

@@peacefulsoul3472 thanku

[@bishnuvardhansingh6583]

Meri age 25 h may security guard ki job kr rha hu aur sath may exams ki tyarri bhi

[@Luck238198969]

Salute bro

[@riteshmule7727]

One day, you will be an idol for many.. # respect

[@adityaawasthi6090]

My best wishes with you...👍👍

[@gajendra6874]

🙏🙏🙏

[@loveuzindgi9097]

My age 24😔😔 Job nhi mil rahi B com kiya and ccc Plz bataye sir

[@bishwajeetdas5494]

AGE 31, graduated with computer-science engineering had given many interviews but not interested in pvt sector that's why still preparing for govt job ( railways), hope this year I will get a job of my dream and start working and make my parents proud.....jai mahakaal.... sabka bhala kare...

[@livinghope1561]

Esa he toh kabhi nokri nhi lageli.. Mahakal koh hi job nhi mila toh tmhe kahase dega!!! 😂😂

[@genuineselection5635]

@@livinghope1561 Abe mahakal ke pas aisi job hai ki tujhe utha lenge teri job se pehle. Soch smjh ke bola kr chutiye

[@bhaweshthapa4672]

@Shadow Broker wtf 😂 too funny

[@desiboyy1992]

Tu chaman chutiya hai... Mera senior civil ka hai mtech cse se krke japan me 60lpa kama rha hai... Gandu sarkari naukri ke peeche nahi hai...

[@niteshsaxena1066]

Bhai thodi to sharam krlo 31 k ho chuke ho aur abhi bhi padhe ja rhe ho Apko to paise kama k ghar chalana chahiye Aur aap apne parents par bojh bane hue ho Kuch kam dhanda krlo parents ka bojh kam kro

[@goldeeemaurya6521]

घुड़सवार अपने घोड़े को दर्द देता है क्यों कि वो उसको जिताना चाहता है इसतरह ईश्वर हमें दर्द संकट और पीड़ा दे रहा है तो वो कहीं ना कहीं हमें जिताने का प्रयास कर रहा है यदि हम मैदान छोड़कर भाग जाएंगे तो वो क्या करेगा। ये जिंदगी का इम्तिहान है यहां धैर्य और सब्र से और उम्मीद और आशा एवं सकारात्मकता होनी चाहिए आगे सब कुछ अच्छा होगा ये उम्मीद कभी नहीं त्यागना चाहिए। धन्यवाद सर आपके प्रेरणादायी स्रोत से सभी को जीवन में संघर्षों से लड़ने की शक्ति मिलती है 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

Very well said brother. God bless you :)

[@kiranmoymaji1440]

@@AnubhavJain sir plss mere comment ka reply kariye

[@Ramsingh-ww5vg]

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[@ajaygautam832]

Bhai sunane m acchi lag rhi h ye sb bate..pr kon samjhega..

[@kapilbhati7179]

Har ek ghoda nahi jeet pata bhai kai dam tod jate he

[@brajendraasati4993]

At the age of 30,U will have do many social responsibility ,u can't drag it too long. Develope any skills to shine your life with family . Competition exam is not everything. Don't be rigid, Be practical

[@ppvinesroar9888]

Exactly true word

[@soumsgaming238]

Yess be realistic and hv realistic expectations

[@megamewtwoy9316]

😂😂😂😂😂 is duniya me alsi aur kamjor logon ki koi jaga nahi hai tum log bechare prepare karte karte budha jate ho aur kuch talented tagde log 11th 12th me padh likh kar exams crack karke ache college me jaake achi job paa jate hain 🤣 isliye 11th 12th best time hai , india me berojgari itni hai tab bhi sab modi bjp ko vote dete hain bohot acha hota hai tum logon ke sath yahi hona chahiye , jhelo puri jindagi

[@Yo-wd1wx]

@@megamewtwoy9316 I agree zyadatar logon ke saath yahi hota but kuch logon ki kismat sach me unka saath nahi deti...

[@harinarayansahu6448]

I'm 30-31...2013 btech mechanical... still unemployed..2014-2018 prepared for competitive exams but no final selection...now I'm deep trauma I'm only son of my family my parents are forcing for my marriage but I have no money...still I don't know what will next... I'm in depression poor health not like to talk others...but one day I'll come out this.. really inspiring video... thankyou sir

[@AnubhavJain]

Bhai just start afresh, from zero, anything you can is a bonus, just start without worrying about this cruel world. Mai vaada karta hun dheere dheere sab sahi ho jaaega

[@harshpawar3134]

Mere bhai Koi IT ka language course karle bhot beneficial hoga... Log 35 se career start karte hai IT me

[@Aditya1-Arora]

@@harshpawar3134 agar IT me kisika interest nahoto?

[@Aditya1-Arora]

I'm 26 and going through same situation don't worry u aren't alone . by the way it's 21st century your parents must know. Day by day our thinking mentality changing, 20 30 year ago male got married at 25 or 26 but now it changed . avi higher study k lie boht umar lag jata hai. shadi koi solution nhi hai specially for male. agar aap 30 ya 31 k ho it's fine boht umar sadi k lie . avi career pe focus do . mom dad ko samjhao

[@harshpawar3134]

@@Aditya1-Arora right bhai...

[@sunshine6183]

Age 30 , female, unmarried Preparing for competitive exam No job Last year could clear the exam, papa had stroke, had to gv up preparation. Joined job fr few months Left job again to prepare this year, exam approaching, papa's health deteriorating again Lekin main abhi nahin marungi.

[@AnubhavJain]

Stay strong. Work hard Succeed. Look after your family. You are intelligent and capable All the best.

[@sunshine6183]

@@AnubhavJain Thank you Sir😇🙏🙏

[@ShivKumar_214]

Ma'am sab thik ho jayega..

[@jyotiagnigandhaluvletterbe9061]

More power to you dear, Sb thik go jayega,bus apni preparation ache se kre,aur achhe insan se shadi kre

[@sunshine6183]

@@ShivKumar_214 Thank you 🙏🙏

[@meantwo]

I am 27. Father 60 , Mom 50 and a sister 24. I couldn't qualify any competitive exam. I was thinking for quiting from the last few days. You shows me another prospective of life and rethink everything. Thank you.

[@Aditya1-Arora]

I'm 27

[@sharvanlal2884]

Same here bro

[@catherineone2834]

3 saal hai gandu

[@johncharlie8812]

😢😢

[@marshallchristopher1304]

I'm going to be 27 in jan

[@Radhaswami142]

Maine socha 30+walo ke koi vedio hai ya nahi to mujhe ye vedio mili jo kafi achi lagi lagvag sabhi ke sath same problems hai hope ki sab ki life achi ho jaiye...bahut hi confusing age hai 30+ carrier famely paisa fame helth bahut sare isu hotey hai ...thanks...

[@Self_self_self]

Same condition meri bhi h 30+ hu berojgar Saadi ka pressure h but m competitive exam de rha hu Apke iss vedio se Apne target ke prati aage badne ka motivation Mila mujhe

[@AnubhavJain]

Wish you lots of strengths and success.

[@Self_self_self]

@@AnubhavJain 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@rarchana]

Good going....

[@sonujain2348]

Same here bhai

[@dpatils8417]

Nice sir.

[@richasaxena6636]

I have also been through very difficult times. Lost both my parents. Had to shoulder household responsibilities due to poor health of my parents. Now I am 39, single, living alone, no family, no work, suffering from a serious psychiatric illness and have no access to a good trauma therapist in my city. Popping anti anxiety and sleeping pills everyday to keep myself going. Life is like that. We have no choice but to continue living till our journey gets over! Even I had suicidal thoughts when I was under extreme stress due to marriage tensions and parents failing health. But after losing my mother, I gradually lost interest in marriage as I had to look after my father as he was solely dependant on me.

[@poulomidevroy6265]

But u can think of re-defining your life now...

[@sumanamudi1161]

Dont take medicines....always think what people will learn from me.......

[@sumanamudi1161]

You can try for bpo.......tuition institutions....

[@richasaxena6636]

@@sumanamudi1161 I am suffering from serious mental illness. I have to take medication otherwise I will not be able to relax and sleep. Moreover, a person with mental illness cannot work because your brain is not functioning optimally. I stay at home due to bad health and create artwork for healing myself.

[@sumanamudi1161]

birds slowly slowly you can.....in one day you have not reached to this place...

[@manishraj4238]

aap chayea kitna v KZbin video dekh legayea.Jitna se guide le legayea.Last main aap ka problem aap k siva koi nhi solve karga. Become Strongest

[@amolgorde264]

सर, मुझे यहा पर आपके व्हिडिओ से ज्यादा आपके व्हिडिओ के नीचे लोगो के comments पढकर ज्यादा motivation मिला... मुझे लगा की सिर्फ मै ही problem मे हु क्या..? Comments पढा तो पता चला की अपने से ज्यादा लोगो की problems बहोत बडी है.. जब तक तोडेंगे नही तब तक छोडेंगे नही

[@Preeti_00736]

It’s all about confidence and how you feel about yourself. There’s no such thing as a perfect woman, I like imperfections - that’s what makes you unique.

[@mehra7690]

Likhne k alawa kuch aur bhi krte ho?

[@kratisingh377]

@@mehra7690 Likhna bhi ek art hai Jo sabko nahi aati brother

[@Preeti_00736]

@@mehra7690 mi kya krti hu wo tujhe mi btna jaruri nhi samjhti per tu kya krta h berozgar vela faltu inssan jo yha dusre ki bato me ungli kre to phle jake kuchh km kr vela nhi hota to yha nhi aata tre jse log samj me gndi naili k kide h jo sirf zher hi falite h

[@mehra7690]

@@Preeti_00736 kya mene apki ego ko hurt kia? Uske liye maafi chahta hu

[@Preeti_00736]

@@mehra7690 tumharee jse logo se mera ego hurt nhi hota ye mera jawab tum jse logo k lie nd I m a law student that's my profession nd my my work so some people have a cheap mentality just like you so keep your thoughts in your mind

[@indrazith92]

30 years + Unemployed + Not married (won't marry) + Now thinking of not doing anything in life + No pressure from parents : life is chill, (Was depressed a few years back now loving it)💖

[@anamcara197]

How. How do you earn money

[@indrazith92]

@@anamcara197 Rent from real estate + Bank FD interest/month = more than enough for a single person in india.

[@AlfaazeZindagik4354]

​@@indrazith92shame on u , U will soon realise, being workless is like hell

[@CaronFernandes-h1x]

Wow bro, Im gonna make this my goal now. What did you do previously to achieve this? How did you manage to save up?

[@manishnegi1227]

@@AlfaazeZindagik4354 no its not bad its like a dream life

[@annudhruw4793]

Thank you sir मार्गदर्शन के लिए। 🙏Same problems मेरी life में भी हैं । गांव में तो 19-20 की age होते ही लड़कियों की शादी हो जाती हैं । 30 age की बेरोजगार और unmarried girl को गांव ,समाज के लोग जो उलाहना देते है और एहसास कराते हैं ,वो सुन के चुप तो रह सकते लेकिन competitive exam की tyari में पूरी तरह से ध्यान केंद्रित कर पाना थोडा मुश्किल हो जाता हैं।

[@AnubhavJain]

Main samajh sakta hun aur ye maanta hun, jitni pareshaani aati hain vo insaan ko aur determined banati hain, aggression aur energy paida karti hain. All the best :)

[@shubhamrao2991]

Mam,aapki saadi ho gayi kya?reply.

[@annudhruw4793]

@@AnubhavJain Thank you sir

[@kunalpatel9847]

-my age is 30 -unmarried -now i am doing waiter job in CCD for survival and family support. -also doing competitive preparation. Never ever give up ! fight like a brave!

[@AnubhavJain]

That's awesome spirit, all the best.

[@neeraj21750]

शानदार भाई।

[@mkmathur9974]

Best of luck for your bright future god always bless to you stay strong and bless 😊🌷🌷🌷

[@snehag3891]

Hats off Kunal

[@Aditya1-Arora]

I'm 26 and did 1 year apprenticeship course from Airports Authority of India. now turned my focus on competitive exams. Hope I'll clear soon

[@prashantchauhan3493]

Mai akela nahi hu jo near 30 hai aur unemployed bhi..bahut log hai mere jaise. Sun k bahut accha lga ...

[@Advocateattorney]

Bilkul bht h hm b hai lekin krey kya

[@five_point]

@@Advocateattorney bhai aap to advocate ho, practice kro...

[@mahavadiyamehul7339]

@@five_point same here bhai

[@vishal.k9334]

Ek me be hu

[@foxway4491]

Koi nhi Vishwas rakho pehle khud pe

[@EmphaticEnglish]

I am 32 now but got selected in govt job at the age of 31 but tried very hard for 5 years ......finally selected in two banks and one insurance giant LIC .....SBI and Union bank of India and working in LIC now.....so never lose hope just focus on your study and get a job first because JOB means MONEY means FULFiLL NEEDS means CARE means SATISFACTION ...............and one thing very important JUST always believe in supreme god and remember him all the time .......he listens surely. Be positive and never lose hope .....just give positive thoughts to your mind and see the results

[@subhashward3256]

bhari akho se kament pad raha tha sabke tumhara coment dekha to soch hai jindgi baki hai thaks alot bro bhagban apko jindi gi me bo her khusi de jo aap chahte ho

[@arshadalam70]

Correct

[@gajendra6874]

Bhaiya lots of inspire me thank you 😭😭😭

[@DeepakSingh-zy2vq]

Truly inspirational bhai😊

[@souravkundu8862]

I talk less..but thank you

[@poojabhosekar1903]

Its is exactly my story...I was about to mail you.Every time when I m in problem I come to ur channel nd I get the solution.But I m fighting with it daily nd my priority is studies...everyday I hear motivational songs nd speeches to keep myself going.and everyday night I keep analyzing what more can I do? Or what I couldn't do today to do justice with the present situation.

[@AnubhavJain]

Music is an amazing healer. All the best. Stay strong, you will surely find your path and walk on it with pride. God bless you :)

[@poojabhosekar1903]

@@AnubhavJain Thanks a ton...I know.I firmly belief in myself and I know I will figure out something.And Fortune Favors the Brave.I wish I clear my CS executive this June attempt.I have been trying Since past 9 attempts.But point is even after failing my Passion doesn't let me leave the course.out of all the negativity that happens evryday around me nd strugle hard through it everyday,It feels like CS is d only reason I wake up for everyday....Thank You for inspiring all of Us daily.

[@karan145]

@@poojabhosekar1903 , Same happened to me , i graduated at 22 , worked in pvt sector , met a girl at 24 . Was of same age , but i didnt have stable job at that time , financially i was very weak , i started preparing for govt jobs in banking for 1 years , couldnt clear exam , decided to end the relationship of 10 months , because she wanted to marry someone else , after that i didnt want to go back to my low paying job , so studied , now i am 27 , still couldnt clear exam . Alone and depressed , i lost all friends , to be honest never had any friend , didnt acheive anything in my life . Completely lost . Wasted my precious 20s of life .

[@dream-ro3bs]

@@karan145 bhai business krlo govt jobs Wale bhi dukhi h 30k to 40k salary milti h or posting bhi shi jagah nhi milti

[@warrior173]

I'm an IIT graduate. During my graduation I got many shocking incident with my family members. I was in depression for 6 years after that I have followed Osho and other motivational peakers speeches.... slowly I healed up and got mentally stronger than ever. Now I'm 29 years old and working in indian railways. I would say follow motivational thoughts and fight against problems bravely

[@gourangdubey8218]

Bhai iit karke govt job kar rhe ho ???. Waise konsi job alp, ya je

[@rishidev3110]

@@gourangdubey8218 bhai baat sun...mai bhi nit se hu...package ka jitna hype media walo ne banaya hua h na utna milta nahi... Or sirf CS walo ko thoda achha milta h... Vo bhi agr koi tier 1 ke vollege se h.. Baki branchs ki haalat bhot khasta h..

[@unemployed.76]

In core branch's placement package is too low and they will hire only toppers even from nits we are thinking for group d jobs

[@abhilok123]

Bhai kaunsi job krre ho railway m?

[@RajaPhilosophy]

Osho Naman🙏🙏

[@rashmi6609]

Thank you very much sir 🙏🙏me abhi 20year ki hu , civil service ki taiyari kar Rahi hu.me kabhi kabhi demotivated ho jati the but jis din see apki vedio dekhana start kiya hai .kabhi bhi demotivated nahi hoti hu full confidence ke sath poor din preparation karti hu or khush rahti hu🙏🙏🙏🙏me apne sister and brother ki bhi apki vedio dikhati hu and hum bahut injoy karte hai😍😍my respected sir🙏🙏thanks very much 🙏🙏I hope aap hamesha have guide karte rahenge

[@AnubhavJain]

Happy to know that Rashmi, all the best. God bless you :)

[@surajsyadav3833]

सर मै अभी 20 साल का हूं और मै अपने कैरियर को लेकर बहुत चिंतित रहता हूं इसी कारण मेरी कभी कभी पढ़ाई बहुत disturb हो जाती है ।लेकिन जब से मै आपका वीडियो पिछले हफ्ते से देखने लगा है मुझे उत्साह मिलने लगता है ।और आपकी आवाज सुनकर जो सुकून मिलता है उसे मै शब्दो मे बयां नहीं कर सकता !!🙏🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

God bless you bhai, you have the whole life to live, try, fail, succeed and learn. Never forget, miseries give our life a meaning, they make it unique and special. Respect them and keep fighting in life. Never take stress.

[@anupparamguru6170]

Brother ur only 20 yr old now..U HV whole career ahead.. Don't worry study hard , be single minded, and do smart work... Don't be confused or out of track...All the best ..Be strong

[@surajsyadav3833]

@@AnubhavJain thanks a lot sir ❤️❤️

[@surajsyadav3833]

@@anupparamguru6170 thanku bhai ❤️❤️

[@sandeepssinging5223]

Arye bahi Idher 30 ke ho gai hai......tu 20 mein hi ghabra gya hai........jio mere bahi mast raha karo

[@jayantagoswami6896]

Namaste Sir, myself jayanta, from Assam. Mene Maa ko aaj tak nehi Dekha hei, papa v bahat Saal pehle gujor goye , naa mera ghor he naa jomeen . Papa bahat drinks Korte the. Meri ek younger sister thee jisko maa ke morne ke baad dusri femily ko de Diya । Aajtok sister ko nehi Dekha । Mama ne muje Paal poskar Bora Kiya hei । Mene jibdegi sirf struggle hi Kiya hei . I got a govt teacher job just 1month ago and now I will prepare for APSC exam ।

[@AnubhavJain]

Tumhari story Padkar jitna dukh hua utna hi sukoon tumhari last line padkar Mila. God bless you

[@jayantagoswami6896]

@@AnubhavJain thank u so much bro

[@KuldeepSingh-ey4el]

@@jayantagoswami6896 god bless u..

[@xubairfarooqbrave8679]

Sir is 27 year age still young

[@mamuborthakur8042]

Love from🥰🥰 assam ... Sir

[@rohitjain5555]

मैं 29 साल का हूं। पेशे से वकील हूं।लेकिन पिछले कुछ साल से rajasthan judiciary की तैयारी कर रहा हूं।सब कुछ ख्तम कभी नहीं होता।ये सब हम अपने दिमाग मे सोच सोच कर पछताते है लेकिन वास्तविकता में जीवन बहुमूल्य है।अपार संभवनाए है । डटे रहे मेहनत करे ।जो जितना तपेगा उतना ही निखर कर आएगा।यही ध्यान रखे। अपने कर्म मे कोई कमी ना रखे बस।

[@AnubhavJain]

Well said brother.

[@rishabhvarshney6396]

Bhai tyari karo aur practice bhi knowledge badao y nhi to wo to hga hi ..m khud kr rha hun dono

[@Zmidarmusic0071]

@@rishabhvarshney6396 bhai maine b llb ki 27 age ho gai kafi xam hue b but final list m jgh ni mili puri trh demotivate ho chuka hu ab to dr lgta ki practise shuru court me khi wha kam na mile bro kya is field me jana uchit rhega mer lie kyuki ab family ki b hope h

[@akshaypanigrahi7154]

Bahut sarre comment padh raha tha lekin aap ke comment sab say aalag haii....ye hota motivation achhe kaaram karoo bakii sab baad may...really achha laga

[@judiciaryaspirants3139]

Hum bhi aapke jaise hi hai yr UP judiciary vaale abhi ek hi attempt diya hai ek attempt NET JRF ka diya socha tha JRF ho gya to problem solve ho Jaayegi but nhi hua

[@NeetuSingh-ew8nc]

Sir, I m in the same situation. There is no one to support me, bt i m very lucky that i have found your channel. Mind relax ho jata h apki video dekhkar, sunkar. Thank u hum jase log jo iss tarah ki situation me h, unhe samjhene ke liye, aur support karne ke liye, warna toh society me toh log , bs apni job lag gayi, apni shaadi ho gayi, ab kisi ki problems se koi matlab nahi, help karne ke liye koi aage nahi aata, ha neechata dikhane ke liye, mazak banane ke liye, apni achievements ka showoff karne ke liye, dil dukhane ke liye aage aa jaate h. Especially women😔😔. Ek female ko jitna ek female preshaan karti h, utna koi aur nahi.

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best Neetu, God bless you :)

[@eengineer9651]

Reality

[@ayushi-tt8id]

Sir same situation

[@neelamdass7073]

Same situation yaar log kehte hai eski to jindgi barbad hai ab😖😖😖

[@MyWorld3M]

@@neelamdass7073 i m also tensed same situation 😑 but trying for job 🤞

[@kamal46]

Meri umr 28 hai..2016 me btech kiya( glt decision) 2021 still giving exam.. depression ki medicine bhi li..girta hun tutata hun..fir chlne lgta hun... result me jab 21 22 years k bcho k selection dekhta hun to esa lgta ki yr..mere me kya kmi hai..pr kyi bar kismat or zindgi jldi hath nhi pakadti hain...hme lge rehna..bs chahe kuch bhi ho...bdi nhi chotti bhi krenge pr har nhi mannni...

[@Shikshika980]

U are the hero of Ur life n hero never give up.all the best sir...

[@deepakb634]

Same here bro nn

[@pankajbaniwalshorts]

Same here bro I'm also btecher 2016

[@antrikshsinha3995]

sb accha hoga

[@shivanibishnoi2891]

Thanks for this video...I don't know ki you even have an idea how many youngsters are in need of guidance on this topic. So many girls and even boys are facing these situations and suffering from overthinking and lack of confidence due to the matters discussed in this video..great wrk..

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you, God bless you :)

[@mkmathur9974]

Yup sister some girls even don't talk openly because she not handle a our family pressure and they don't said anything 😌

[@anandkashyap5064]

Sir, aapki kahi hui har ek baat ko maine khud se relate kiya hai aur na jane kitne logon ne kiya hoga... Aapka ye motivational speech bohot se logon ke jindigi mein badlaw laayegi.. i damn sure sir.. you r jst great sir.. hats off to you 🙌🙌🙌 Anubhav jaisa naam hai apaka waise hi aapne Anubhav kiya hai sir apne life mein.

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you bhai. God bless you :)

[@mousonapoddar4063]

Society thinks marriage is the solution of all problems.. but they don't think if it happens with wrong one then surely it will be the source of all problems.

[@sonujain2348]

Right bro

[@khushbooprasad1548]

Thanxu sir for the motivation...i did my msc in chemistry from renowned gov. College...gave really 4-5 interviews in span of 8 months,but could nt get the job..people said do phd,strtd studying for 6 month,but later felt,i cant spend my upcoming 5-6 years in jus study,was nt much intrested in reserch....so then came to banking sector...for strting two years got only pre cleared...in 2020 corona,so paper came in 2021,cleared mains, interview too but out in main list, general category story as usual...than tried for 2021 session...could nt clear mains even After giving my 200percnt...saying 200 because,i Did everything i could to get final spot...but failed,and seeing full of unpredictability in banking sector now....soo now i m really done...this time i didn't cried for minute...i was like...i did wht i could,but this is nt fr me...

[@antrikshsinha3995]

@@khushbooprasad1548 what r u doing now sister... actually i hve done bsc chemistry last year... what's your suggestions for me?? ..plz guide me

[@ritwikmandal1928]

Before joining banking sector you should have cleared net LS(atleast you could had a chance to join lecturer) in college in case banking sector job failed

[@AjitKumar-dr7mj]

I missed the ibps po cutoff by 1.2 marks this time. It was my last attempt. Absolutely done and dusted..

[@jerrrry_tommm]

Sir this Corona situation has made everything more difficult 😞 no exams, no recruitments! Depressed hote chale jaa rahe hai 😞🙏

[@amankhare143]

Me too

[@reddiamondcoachingbymintub6949]

Me too

[@banagarmanjunath6994]

Many people are in depression Only.

[@sumitjaiswal2874]

Shi kh rhi

[@aneeshthomas4860]

You are not alone .. bahut se log hai same situation se gujar rahe hai.. keep hope .. when tides are against you keep swimming .. soon tides will turn and you will reach your shore

[@melodygana2266]

Its better to stay single until to achieve your goal or to become independent thn to divorce or betrayed at the age of 25 -26 .... girls.... be strong or positive dont listen everyone ...

[@karan145]

Dont you think , you will just waste your beautiful youthful years of your life . I am not saying go get married in your 20s but still ...

[@shaikhashraf4092]

I went through the same.

[@xstacyk7387]

@@karan145 Yeah enjoy your youthful period and then suffer misery of life. its better to get financially stable in life first and then seek love and relationships. Always remember if you are not financially stable no one, not even your own family will care about your opinion leave aside your lovers and all. I have seen many guys who are 25 and married and still ask their parents for money to run their family. Always place your career first and then the rest. World is too materialistic nowadays...

[@SonuSharma-ee4lx]

I went through the same

[@soumsgaming238]

@@xstacyk7387 Agreed

[@sscfighter-ju1ih]

MERI age 26 yrs h family conditions bhut bekar h Shadi ki koi tension nhi h ... Mera result nhi de rhi SSC 2018 se ... Wrna ab tk nokri LG chuki Hoti... MERI sari Jawani kha gyi ssc

[@mehra7690]

Really? Ssc k bharosey is duniya me aye they tm?

[@sscfighter-ju1ih]

@@mehra7690 haa Bhai JB maa bap Ka saya na ho to Kuch ESI hi Chijo pr depend Hona pdta h

[@ayushmansen2939]

@@sscfighter-ju1ih sir Abhinav sir maths aap logo ke liye lad rahe hai unko support kariye🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@sunflower-zi2ub]

Try for other exams

[@AmanSingh-sj9mk]

@@snehayadav386 luck v bhot matter karta hai

[@23gunjansharma]

I am 35 year old, don't need to explain my conditions, but i must say, each line of anubhav sir is absolutely correct.

[@opium1235]

Bhai ap kya kar raha ho abhi

[@sameerramdasi88]

Mai bhi 35 running age chalu hai no job chor diya hai competitive exam ka tayari kar raha hu bahut si chize ab sanjay aatahi hai ghar wale bhi marriage ke liye pressure kar rahe hai gf hai par job ke liye tuka hua hu......... Bahut tension hai par ek bat samjh chuka hu tension mai kuch chize sahi nahi hoti hai only kharab hoti hai cool reh ke mehnat karna hi sahi hai......

[@chandrikasolanki437]

@@sameerramdasi88 thanks bro.. Aap se motivation mila.

[@shubhamrao2991]

@@sameerramdasi88 Bhai,aap kis competition ki preparation karte hai? Reply.

[@AyanKhan-tr8pz]

Same m doing CA.. My Age is 29 years And m not graduate as well...

[@hemaips9481]

Fortunately I came here without knowing your channel sir . Iam 26 . Preparing for compitative exams from past 2 yrs .still not selected . From past one month iam thinking that iam becoming old 😂 iam still preparing for exams what about my next future (affected from my friends marriage ) etc lot of thoughts came in my mind bt I don't want to quit I must want Government job . Thank you . Yours words make me feel better and I wil study more effectively . I found that "it's never late to do " Thank you sooooo much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best, keep putting your heart and soul for your passion.

[@hemaips9481]

@@AnubhavJain thank you 😊 sir ji 🙏🏼

[@megamewtwoy9316]

😂😂😂😂😂 is duniya me alsi aur kamjor logon ki koi jaga nahi hai tum log bechare prepare karte karte budha jate ho aur kuch talented tagde log 11th 12th me padh likh kar exams crack karke ache college me jaake achi job paa jate hain 🤣 isliye 11th 12th best time hai , india me berojgari itni hai tab bhi sab modi bjp ko vote dete hain bohot acha hota hai tum logon ke sath yahi hona chahiye , jhelo puri jindagi

[@hemaips9481]

@@megamewtwoy9316accha ji is taraha ki logonke baare me sochana bhi bekuf ka lakshana hi ...aap itan sochate hi hamare bareme bai dhanyavad .. aap kuch bhi bole ham nahi sunate we always concentrate on our goal only 💪

[@Rashje]

​@@AnubhavJain heart and soul doen't work every time

[@hidamalik6103]

i really needed this....!! my life is literally in so much mess... because of this my health is compromised... my study getting affected.. like everything finished.. being a girl n reaching 30 without marriage.. it's like a biggest sin in our society... i did everything to avoid this.. but i guess i can't deal with it anymore. suddenly i found this video.. the way you said "pehle job lo, prblm ko ek ek kork solve koro".. it really gt into my mind.

[@sneha3845]

।। Where r u from dear sis

[@hidamalik6103]

@@sneha3845 m from assam. u?

[@sneha3845]

@@hidamalik6103 I am from J&k

[@hidamalik6103]

@@sneha3845 oh nice.. what do you do?

[@sneha3845]

@@hidamalik6103 I am preparing for NET.। Nd you ap kya krte ho dear

[@joyful_seeker]

Hmari society mein ladkon pr financial security stability ka itna zyada pressure hota hai k vo kaafi waqt struggle krte hain ek stable sarkari job k liye...mera yahi manna hai k aap struggle kro mehnat kro..saath mein or options bhi explore kro...sarkari Naukri hi sab kuch nahi hoti..koi skill seekho..or job ki shuruaat kro..chahe chhoti hi sahi..par Karo..way out hmesha hota hai...bas humey thodi si balanced approach k saath matters ko handle krna aana chahiye..

[@sonupatil1626]

Right

[@appsssssss]

I am 29 , male, Btech 2018 After btech i went delhi for work but due to some reason i came back... I started preparing for gov job... 4 years wasted.... Din rat padai padai.... Main apne family ke upar dhyan ni de paya.... Mere papa mujhe successful dhekna chahte the... Lekin mein na job kr paya na... Gov job nikla..... Mere papa gujar gye high sugar se.... Jo insan mujhper sabse jada invest kiya jo mujhe job krte hue dhekhna chahta tha... Wo hi ni h ab..... Koi faida ni gov job ka jab koi garv krne wala hi na ho to.... Mein barbad ho gya hu

[@muhammadsulaiman632]

Kya baat h Bhai bilkul meri tarah ka story

[@BassRXClub]

Arey bhai, hum karenge proud feel kyuki, hum logo ko comments se hi motivation milta hai..

[@tonymontana3645]

Bhai kam se kam unka naam toh zinda rkho...kal ko tum kahi b achi jagah pohch jaoge govt exam ya kahi aur naam unka he aayga na ki unka ladka hai...Wo physically beshak na dekh ske tumari success ko but wo bhi yehi chahte honge ki tum success paao aur achi zindgi guzaro....toh tum aisa kr loge toh unki aatma ko shanti milegi ....aur unka naam bhi zinda rhega tumare sath....wese bhi maa baap poori zindgi toh sath rehte ni...virat kohli ka case le lo...but unka real yhi hota hai ki tum success hojao...unka maksad ye ni hota ki tum paise kmaoge toh wo aish krenge...wo toh tumare future ki sochte hain...toh tum success hojao smjo jo wo chahate thy tumare liye tumne kr liya

[@tonymontana3645]

Bhai tum abi success hojao..naam tb b unka he rhega humesha tumara sath ki unka ladka hai...Aur yhi wo jeete jee chahte thy na ki tum success hojao aur tumare paise se aish kre...So tum success hojao unki aatma ko shanti mil jygi

[@shubhamvishwakarma7273]

Baap re comment section padh ke bura to lag rha hai sabke liye lekin sath me ye sukoon bhi hai ki hum akele nhi hai jindagi ke iss ladai me!!!

[@insanereviews270]

dil ki baat chhin li bhaiyya

[@shinningstar3838]

I'm 30 jobless hopeless etc 26 m shadi hui thi 27 m divorce case hua becoz husband want to live with his ex lover ..struggling in life ..preparing for competitive exam relatives v bolte h log v tana dete h father ki v death ho gyi h emotionally baht broken hu ..sach bolu to jeene ka mann Ni krta h ..jst hope h ki one day I will be fine get a job etc want to do second marriage nd settle in life too hope for the best

[@AnubhavJain]

You will be fine, don't give by thise stupid people, there's so much left in your life, maximum life is still I your bucket, you are trying for your career, why do you care about anything else? Just focus on being independent and loving your life on your won terms, that's it nothing more, nothing less.

[@rohi7597]

Aap Bhagvat gita pdo job mil jayegi

[@shinningstar3838]

@@adventureisland7049 yeah why not give ur instgrm or fb id so I could contct u

[@adventureisland7049]

Hi..Can u plz reply if u r getting this msg or not ?

[@adventureisland7049]

not sure why msg are getting deleted..plz give urs insta

[@prachishrivastava7093]

Very inspiring video sir keep it up. I am completely relateble coz m also suffering the same. 30+ no job family responsibilies n all. Thnx for motivating us✌👍

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best Prachi. God bless you :)

[@tanmaysahuvlogs5682]

Never give up madam. 🙏

[@prachishrivastava7093]

@@tanmaysahuvlogs5682 🙏

[@prachishrivastava7093]

@@AnubhavJain thank u sir🙏

[@dailytop1565]

@@prachishrivastava7093 can I get ur mail id?

[@anushriiahir5019]

I sing for money....doing shows 7 years mehnat kr ghr liya h ab Graduation complite kr rhi hu govt job try krungi ya b.ed kr lungi Apne dum pe ma pa ko smbhalti hu age hui h dono ki bhaiya guzar gye h mere mne socha h kuch ban k shadi krungi or wahi jo mujhe mere parants ko smbhalne de mere mummy papa meri or sirf meri zimmdari h😘❤️ Apko video de himmat mili god bless u bro 🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

That's so inspiring. Youth must learn from you, God bless you :)

[@anushriiahir5019]

@@AnubhavJain 🙏ty bro

[@hiteshk9549]

You are so strong all the best dear

[@mahmudalam1329]

बहुत बढ़िया और आशावादी विडियो....म्युचुअल मैरेज का सलाह अच्छा लगा, यह आज के समय की मांग है....90 के दशक की पीढ़ी ने काफी मशक्कत झेली बाप की नौकरी, संपत्ति को आधार बनाकर बेरोजगारी में शादी कर भी लेते थे, अभिभावकगण भी इसी आधार पर बेटी ब्याह देते थे और अच्छा खासा मुस्कुराता हुआ नवदंपति और दोनों ओर के परिवार कठिन संघर्ष की चपेट में आ जाते थे....इन अपरिपक्व फैसले ने पूरी की पूरी एक पीढ़ी को निगल गई....अब लोग सम्भल कर निर्णय लेने लगे हैं, यही जागरूकता 3-4 दशक पहले हुई होती तो समाज का पारिदृश्य ही कुछ और होता

[@khushi-kl4rh]

I am not alone..... I was hopeless and gave up on my goals and study. This year my master will complete. Right now I also focusing on my happiness and peace.

[@richasharma581]

It is a depressive state..the youth is trying to get into a govt job and the chances of getting in is rare! ..all time energy is gone in the preparation ( good part you gain knowledge) and the thought never comes in the mind that they could do something different too in their career like man I wanna be the next PM of the country or the next biggest rockstar the world has ever seen..even though if one gets into a govt job no guarantee they will like it for all life. But yeah I feel govt job is better than private job..private job culture is getting horrible day by day.

[@satendragupta4908]

Your thoughts is present time in solutions not a future time carrier.

[@Ramsingh-ww5vg]

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[@cunningfox1798]

I didn't know about other streams but as a data scientist I want to say private jobs are best, govt sucks.

[@livinginthemoment3371]

@@cunningfox1798 did you do a master degree in data scientist sir

[@cunningfox1798]

@@livinginthemoment3371 nope, I did BTech in CS

[@waheedkhan-ey6vm]

29 jobless I lost my love because of jobless, no motivational speaker motivate me because all are over effeciany ..last I found you thanks 👍👍🙏

[@chandraprakashmogha1745]

condition ke according mera thought ye hai ki jab wo kafi time se prepartion kar rahi hai toh course toh complete kar liya hoga ye mein maan ke chalta hu toh ab, aate hai next step par financial problem par unko job karni chaiye wo bhi ek teacher ki bhale he 5000/- ki mile fayda ye hoga ki education se related hai aur dusra half day aur mil jata hai prepartion ko aur pakka karne ke liye, Jo MBA ki Baat ki hai na toh unke pass jyada paise hoge aur na he unka mann hoga abhi unka moral bilkul down jo chuka hai bilkul alag he stream. agar teacher ki job karengi toh toh unka moral upar uthega aur 5000/- toh phele saal ke hai 1 year ke baad experience count hoga tuition ke bacche bhi ayenge aur aage shadi ke baad bhi ye career bikul suitable rahega warna jis mod pe hai wo bhut problem create aho jayegi kuch galat bhi ho sakta hai school me padhate waqt lagega ki ye mein kya kar rahi hu par karte rehna 1 mahine ke baad sab kuch sahi ho jata hai.

[@AnubhavJain]

That's a nice and practical suggestion.

[@brajeshs4487]

very practical and situational response. i strongly support ur views.

[@Hip.Hip.Hurray]

I had appear in so many competitive exams but never got selected. I am quitting on govt job preparation. Now starting my own business. World is full of opportunities, don't give up guys.. Explore more fields. If job doesn't work for you start your own business.

[@dream-ro3bs]

Bhai konsa business start kiya h

[@Hip.Hip.Hurray]

@@dream-ro3bs bhai e-commerce

[@dream-ro3bs]

@@Hip.Hip.Hurray shi h bhai m bhi business ki hi soch rha hu

[@Hip.Hip.Hurray]

@@dream-ro3bs bilkul karo bhai.. youtube pr he search kar sakte ho aap business for beginners.. Kafi sare ideas mil jaayege apko.. fir kisi ek topic ko pakad k us par khoob research karna and uske baad apna business start karna

[@niteshsaxena1066]

Nice

[@VikramjitSingh924]

Ladki log ka toh chalo ultimate backup option hai woh hai shadi.Hum ladke kaha jaye aise situation mei.

[@mahisa5659]

Aap b same yhi kre ldka ldki kuch nhi hota h hm sb insan h

[@VikramjitSingh924]

@@mahisa5659 nahi mithu ji bas kehne ke liye same hai. Lakho ladka unemployed ladki se shadi karne ke liye tayar hai lekin koi ladki unemployed ladka se shadi nahi karegi.

[@bulliedloner5472]

true bhai koi bhi life mai nahi aaega jb tk financial security nahi hai

[@anujdimple]

@@VikramjitSingh924 ek working ldka ...Ek non working ldki se shadi kr skta hai...But ek working ldki ...Ek non working ldke se kabhi shadi nhi kregi.....

[@anujdimple]

@@mahisa5659 only a pet.....A kid...And a girl to be loved unconditionally....But ek aadmi ko isi condition pr pyar kiya jata h ki.....Wo kch provide krega..

[@aakankshasharma2606]

Like everyone has the same problem..no one is satisfied. Just stay optimistic. Don't lose hope. 🙏

[@banagarmanjunath6994]

It's true no one is satisfied with what they have. No peace of mind

[@NiteshKumar-jl6so]

Good things it set also for ambani Ambani bhi satisfied nahi hai also think about elon musk , Wealthy people of world

[@donatellameenee9895]

Sahi bat hy sir zruri nhi ki shadi kre hi ,study kr k ,job kr k ghrwalon ko support kre ,or lyff enjoy kre .Ye shadi koi compulsory to nhi bhut se insan hai jo shadi nhi krte ,zruri thodi hai ki duniyaa me aaye hai to shadi krna hi hai tnsn kya lena bs study ho Job mil jae baki lyff family k sath or kya .Great sir🙏

[@androidtap3695]

I'm 23 MBA student living with my parents and also unemployed. I'm starting to feel like a burden on my parents but now I'm going to find a job in a month. 🙏

[@amarjit___12]

Did you find a job?

[@shubhampatil3357]

Bhai mere liye koi opening hai kya

[@meenavalecha2895]

Sir not only 30 yaha to 35 ke age ho gayi hai phir bhi try kar rahi hu sir mene govt job preparation ko start he 30 ke bad kiya hai

[@AnubhavJain]

That's the spirit. All the best :)

[@surbhirathi1398]

Be practical

[@surbhirathi1398]

May b u get supportive one

[@mithleshpal9415]

Are you really above 30 years ?

[@karan145]

@@surbhirathi1398 , i think maybe she is married and her husband support her . I have seen many people like that .

[@Prateekreactions]

Whenever i feel like giving up, i come back to this video!! Very relatable🔥🙏🏻

[@sukhjindersingh3569]

Don't worry dear if you're feeling restless or depressed n keep fighting with all problems I'm just 28 years old N still think that I'm kid so don't worry If you really concern about marry then I'm here if you feel good I never see you I never imagine you But still ready to support you But i really appreciate your efforts n struggle Keep working hard You'll get success for sure... I'm the person who lost many things in just some time ago N also lost hope to live nevertheless I'm still living n will live with pain .... ((Don't lose the hope, enjoy every phase of life and fight back))

[@thepaparazzi_2024]

Mere inspiration, role model sandeep maheshwari sir hai pr unke badhh bhi bohot logoko sunha samjha or unke bare mai padha sandeep sir jitna mai kisiko itna chah nahi payi as a role model pr unke badhh direct aap hi ho jinhe mai wo sthan de skti hu or abhi aap mere role model ho... Dilse love you sir ❤🙏thank you so much for making vedio... I Really feel blessed sir... 😇😇

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you, God bless you :)

[@saurabhkhandelwal5114]

Bhai main 31 ka unmarried, or job ki prep kar rha hu . Tension mat lo shadi vadi ki ..bus jobbki prep karo , shadi vadi hoti rahegi or nahi bhi hogi to koi problem bhi nahi

[@sardarkuljitsingh2441]

Apna no. Do bro.

[@SM25336]

😂😂😂😂

[@love_paradise4238]

Bhai bhai bhai 😆🤣🤣 shadi ke bina kaise rehna. Pata hai kuch samay mushkil bitne ke baad sab kuch useless lagne lagta hai pr shadi to karo jarur, kyoki biwi ayegi to dimag thikane rahega aur kam se kam uske liye hi to man marr ke kahi na kahi kaam kar hi loge

[@shubhamrao2991]

Bhai,aapki saadi ho gayi hai?reply.

[@saurabhkhandelwal5114]

@@shubhamrao2991 nahi bro abhi nahi ki ,when I wrote this comment I was 31 and now I am 34 , above in comment I particularly i emphasized on getting a job or ha Veera aab main engineer hu in a central government department.i got this job in November 2022. Job ke baad koi age matter nahi karti even rishte bahut aane Lage , even I felt ki rishte mere liye aa rahe hain ki government job ke liye , i am not married now because right now I am in a state of introspection..aatamchintan.. mind needs to be clear. However pressure bahut hain shadi karne ka because aab to job Lage bhi almost 1 and 1/2 year ho gaya , pata nahi ek dum se itne rishte kaha se tapak pade I think because of government job .aab bahut log apne se try karty hain ki Mera rishta unki family main ho jaye , but there is a locha in process.. ki ek baar mil lo 1/2 ya 1 hours ke liye then decide Karo , ek meeting main kaise koi Jaan sakta hain aaj ke time main kisi ke bare main , abhi jab main ye reply likh rha hu ,abhi bhi ek rishta hain and I need to reply them , girl is assistant professor but you know what vo hi same process ki ek meeting .. bhai process main bhasad hain ,..baki I will stuck on my wordings ki ek bar job ke lo usky baad age vaghra kuch matter nahi karta , believe me it's true ha par ek thoda sa hota hain ki agar aap kisi ko mana kare ho that depends which type person are they or their mediator vo bolty hain ki govt job lag gayi dahej Jayda chahiye isko . Baki honestly ek baat bolu ki " jaha janam liya vo parivar or jiske satth jeevan gujarana or hona hain jissey pyar ye sab pahle hi decided hote hain ..so don't worry.. job Lelo Paisa kamao , apni Nazar main khud ki ijjat ho , that's is the most important thing . Bhai Dil hi Khali kar diya Maine tumhare reply main hahaha ...

[@deepakNeetiVlog]

Sir mera Naam deepak he . I am Graduate from kurukshetra University sir accident ki wajah se meri padhai disturb ho gyi thi but mene apni Graduation 7 साल me complete ki abhi meri age 29 yrs he sir financially stable nhi hu or sir ghar b rent ka h . But sir ab bhi is hope me hu ki bhagwan ek din jrur kamyabi krenge islye is bar last attempt de rha hu SSC ka bcoz December me marriage bhi he .currently I am working in Domino's pizza . Sir jindgi ne giraya bahut he lekin na Jane kyu andar ek हिम्मत si हर bar hoti h ki abhi manjil tk kese bhi puchna he . Sir aapka video dekh kr bht motivation mila . Sir last year delhi police physical se Pehle leg fracture. 2018 SSC GD me after better score didn't got shortlist for physical but still trying for SSC . rishtedaro ne bhi sb relation khatam kr diya family se islye in logo ko galat prove krke dikhana he bs

[@subirparida]

Bro same life story mera v 2018 qualified written but dis qualified running.

[@hkgm3962]

Thank you so much brother..i''m 26, same problem in my life ....If i had my own brother or sister may be they would advice me like this ....tq u once again may god bless u in life....

[@madhu.s1595]

Iam in a similar situation.... Iam giving many competitive exams, but not clearing as there are lots of work at home.... I missed IB ACIO exam as my sister's was admitted to hospital and I was only person left for household works... Confidence is decreasing, iam thinking about private jobs.... Corona bhi aa gya bich me hi..... Nahi toh ab tak job toh lag hi jaati, jobless status lekar marriage karne ki iccha nhi hoti...... Puri tarah kisi aur par depend hona thik nhi...

[@AnubhavJain]

Stay calm, eventually you will find employment, prepare with a cool mind, all the best.

[@karan145]

You can marry someone and then prepare after you marriage , i have seen many married candidates especially girls in exam centre . Its hard for especially girls to loose their freedom , and compromise in marriage , shadi ek bar hoti hai . But kya pata acha ladka mil jaye ,

[@joy-ow4ey]

Be a little selfish, do not compromise your studies for household work.Try to give more focus on studies.

[@easylearning4132]

@@karan145 shadi phle kregi bina job k to 10 lakh dene pdege

[@karan145]

@@easylearning4132 , Ache ladko ki kami nahi hai , aur luck ka saath hona bhi thods zarori hai , ek baar dekho shyad kismat kaam kr jaye . Mere sis ne apni pasand se shadi kri . Uski shadi ko 5 years ho gaye . Ache se reh rhe hai wo log . Dahez bht ghatiya chiz hai , shrm ati hai k log le kaise lete hai .

[@yogiustaad1243]

Age 32 doing pvt job , happy with situation and trying more way for growth but not govt exam. I have wasted precious year for govt exam prep. Thank you . Next 3 year i will buy my own house.

[@leolearning3048]

Your pagaar?

[@viralvideo6461]

Bhai kaun so job kerte ho

[@yogiustaad1243]

@@viralvideo6461 digital marketing

[@indurajput692]

You are the inspiration sir. I m also stuck in all things. But the solution is never loose hope be dedicated and beliveinyourself.

[@AnubhavJain]

God bless you Indu :)

[@sweety2913]

Same situation. Thank you for being an open minded mentor as well. Not everyone can understand such situations and give proper guidance.

[@AnubhavJain]

God bless you :)

[@tanuverma167]

I am 31,still no job,preparing for my competitive exams,hope will get soon

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best :)

[@risingwarrior8457]

If u r honest to urself then only .. because in today's world there is huge difference between educated and literate .. hope u got my point ..

[@builttolast5249]

Koyi nhi tanu ji pvt sector m try kro

[@comradeabhishek5077]

Me too mam

[@simrankaur1316]

Same here..... but ghar wale marriage pe pressure de re hai. Kya kare eh jo hmari societies hoti hai na eh nahi jeene deti. Sb bolte hai abhi tak shaadi ni hui. Mera bilkul man ni krta marriage ko. I only want to concentrate on my career but kya kare. Kismat kharab hai. No job

[@sukhpreetkaur7806]

Thank you 🙏 sir Mai bhi 30 ki Hoon sir , bhut confusion tha life mein , aapne sahi Rasta dikha Diya 🙏 thank you very much sir 🙏🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best :)

[@preetiscorner8853]

Age 28 with one 4 year son Mai 7 year se career pr focus kar rhi hu teaching me hogya Psc pr focus kar rhi

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best :)

[@rahulsahu8658]

All the best..🙂

[@peacefulsoul3472]

Wowww... All the very Best... Aap aachi officer bano..🎯👏 God bless u, ur son, family 👍🤗 Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks Universe Angel's Nature's and supreme powers 😊🙏🤗🎆🎆

[@arunmishra09-93]

Age 29 कोई जॉब नही, घर में शादी का pressure, काफी कुछ problem लेकिन ,आपने एक बात बोली सर जी लड़ना है तबतक जबतक अपनी जॉब न मिल जाये, बस जो चाहते हैं हम उसके लिए रुकना नही है 🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best bhai :)

[@arunmishra09-93]

@@AnubhavJain 🙏🙏

[@lchaudhary5975]

Age :22 status (unemployed) Sometimes, i get mentally disturbed because of unemployment I have been trying to crack competitive exams. Thank you! btw. 😊😊

[@AnubhavJain]

You are still so young, don't worry, you have years to try. Just prepare wholeheartedly and leave everything on time.

[@lchaudhary5975]

@@AnubhavJain thank you so much ❤️

[@Aditya1-Arora]

I wanna give you a big slap on your face. 4 years ago i crossed same age but wasn't depressed. You just entered at the age from where competitive exams start recruiting. Do prepare for that dude!

[@Ajaykumar.885]

Abhi apke pass bahut time hai , thoda sa presence rakhiye exam crack hone lagenge

[@Akashyadav-rd1eo]

​@@Ajaykumar.885patience

[@princeprem6820]

*I'm very Earliest just 12th passed last year and preparing for IIT JEE. And through this vedio I understand the importance of job and finances* Thanks! I heard this advice that fast forward your life in 8 or 10 years, see the person who's living in going through this path then ask that is This is the life I Want to Live or the person I want to be?

[@niharikagaikwad6403]

Ye mere life ka ab tak ka Sabse best video he... Kash me apni story bata sakti Lekin meri jindagi itni complicated ho gai he k smjh nh aa raha tha k kya karu... Lekin ye video dekh kr smjh aa gaya k ab rukna nh he Apne laksh ko pa kar hi dam lena he ... Sir aapka bohot bohot dhanyawad

[@adventureisland7049]

Hi...tumchi story sangal ka mala? karan mazi pan story khup waeet ahe saddhya? job changla ahe mazyakade pan bakichi condition khup kharab ahe..mala bolayla awdel tumchyashi..

[@Kiara99999]

Thank you, sir for creating this video. Those who're in the government job preparation phase feel so demotivated & directionless sometimes that they forget there's life beyond a competitive exam. We tend to forget our self worth based on the setbacks & failures in these exams. Years go by & we don't even know where's life heading towards. But at the end of the day, we've to be wise & practical so that we can take right decisions at the right time. We've to be hopeful & optimistic. After all, this is the only life we have got. We have to make the best out of it. Gain & pain are the part & parcel of life. More compassion, light & good health to you from the subscribers, viewers & the universe! ✨

[@nidhirai8888]

This ❤

[@SSCjob1]

I m Nirdesh yadav and I also face the same situation for four years, now i got a government job in Delhi from ssc cgl in 20 january 2023🤩🙏

[@shunya5814]

Thank you so much Sir, apke through bahot baadi confusion solve hui meri, actually hum three sisters hai and I wanna support my parents so I don't know which qualities I have to give preference the most for choosing my life partner. Now that doubt is clear as you said family responsibilities comes first. I really appreciate your efforts and work. Again thank you so much 👍☺️

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best :)

[@Rashje]

​@@AnubhavJain faltu admi

[@realprovider]

I think people should prepare for maximum 4-5 years for a govt job. Not more than that.

[@vandanakumari1894]

Thank u bhaiya😇😇 aise hi sabko seekh dete rhiye. Taki phle se better hone ki sab kosis kre❤️

[@TheSandsplash]

My little suggestion will be that don't count human life as some age number. Even if you are 35 it doesn't matter for marriage n all its all created by humans.

[@radhasaini6619]

Right

[@helloworld2054]

But sadly these things are not valid in our country

[@shalurai912]

Right bro

[@swagatabhowmick9264]

I m 27 years old.... completed M.A in english....Preparing for competitive exams... Struggling everyday for my career...Day by day it seems like ...It's over...I have no future...Nothing..I cry everyday....It's just me and my father..Mom is no more...I don't even have many friends..... i m hopeless.... Exhausted 😭😭😭😭😭

[@randheerkumar1009]

Mere to maa baap dono hi nahi hai .27 ka hone wala hu par himmat nahi hari.job le kar hi rahunga

[@rashmihaval44]

Same here....😢but please don't worry sab thik ho jayega

[@deepikagupta10151]

Sir , very nice aspect of solution towards her problem.

[@utopiancity8138]

M 28 female and still unemployed! Family bht hi jyada tensed hein ki na hi job lgi hein or na hi shadi ho rhi hein . Halaki my first priority is financial security Taki mein apne parents ko dekh sku. Have been preparing for govt jobs for the last 3 years but still kuch nhi hua!

[@boora2321]

Same here. Now what should to do next ............

[@Ketanrathod0593]

I’m 30, BTech Cse graduate. I have a stable good paying job in software company but I don’t have the satisfaction so I have started preparing for Civil services. Hope one day will come when I will be able to fulfil my dream ❤

[@AnubhavJain]

Give yourself a timeframe, no regrets, no burdens, your life, one big shot for dreams, give your best. My best wishes for you. All the best :)

[@rhnkm]

General category?

[@Ankit-fy4og]

China and other developed countries focus on skill building in their education system but in our Country people rely on govt. and other competitive exams as the source of their employment . We have to change our mindset if we want suceed

[@dearsaigeetmarkam6378]

मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगता है.. आपको सुनके भैया एक सुकून सा मिलता है.. Always motiveted me thanku bro 🙏🙏🙏

[@satya90g]

wah sir.. ye issue aaj har dusre ghar me paaya jata he.. lekin kisine aajtak ispe aisa video nahi banaya.. dhanyavaad..

[@abhisheksingleforever7513]

Shaadi nahi chahiye 👎 Bas job chahiye aur Maa,baap Bhai aur behen ke liye jina hai 👍

[@babykumari8563]

Bhaiya salute h aapko🙏🙏🙏 By God u r my favourite and ideal personality,bcs whatever you describe in ur videos always Totally match to me

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you :)

[@AnjaliAhuja6865]

30 saal 4 mahine ka ho chuka hu , still preparing for government job.

[@mukeshraj2815]

Anubhau sir aap ko sach me bahut अनुभव है ।🙏👍

[@reemaborah4808]

30 years..unemployed.. unmarried..sometimes I think why I am living😩Preparing since 2015..but could not made to the final list of any exam😩

[@rohi7597]

Ma'am start ur own freelance and work on ur skills 👍

[@SurendrakumarTolem]

Actually we're not preparing honestly... we're pretending to be working good enough...but deep in our heart we know why all these happening...we are making excuses to ourselves...we aren't following our plans strictly..that is the main reason... Responsibilities, Laziness, procrastination...even though there's is a burning desire inside to get a govt job and to settle in life we aren't doing it... Actually this is my case...if it is the reason you also have...say how do you gonna change it...

[@banitmalwal7745]

Same preparing since 2015

[@jadhayasahay5315]

Everyone make video before 30 age persons , but not everyone make carrier on before 30 due to many reasons.. , financial , guidance na mill pane karan in early age.. etc..aur bhi circumstances like small city / town or village ke person due to some reasons bahar nahi nikal pate..etc.. , specially Girl's.. , Nice video ..

[@jeetbhattacharya5596]

U r saving lives Sir.This is Jeet ❤

[@AnubhavJain]

That gives me a high in life :)

[@megamewtwoy9316]

😂😂😂😂😂 is duniya me alsi aur kamjor logon ki koi jaga nahi hai tum log bechare prepare karte karte budha jate ho aur kuch talented tagde log 11th 12th me padh likh kar exams crack karke ache college me jaake achi job paa jate hain 🤣 isliye 11th 12th best time hai , india me berojgari itni hai tab bhi sab modi bjp ko vote dete hain bohot acha hota hai tum logon ke sath yahi hona chahiye , jhelo puri jindagi

[@Rashje]

​@@AnubhavJain jhoota sale...

[@prateeksinghchauhan1433]

I m also 29 unemployed middle class family. Don't know what to do .family background achha h par meri koi respect nhi socially

[@rachelr4442]

Soo true

[@telemate5262]

Same here😑

[@fathimashahjahan8906]

Bro it's life we get ignored like logo ko pta h iske Pas Kuch Khas h nhi but humko b unse mtlb nhi ap Apne goals pr Kam kre aur JB successful hojye inn logo ko avoid h krna

[@perumahesh]

Hmmmm same

[@amedeadebbarma8709]

Baiya mey bhi 30 plus hu chuki hu lekin apki baat sunni ki baad mughe bohot strong feel huwa

[@DA-zh1fj]

I am also facing such situations in my life but i think we shud act like a soldier who fights bravely till his last breath and never runs away like coward. We shud try to give our best and leave the rest.

[@foxway4491]

I will be 25 at 1st Jan 2022 . Unemployed : Yes Mind : have clarity that I will try to get a govt job till the age of 29 , not after that . If I get a govt job then well and good , if I don't then I'll utilise the knowledge I had gain to teach...alongside with my own business.... The biggest depressing part I had came across of till now is neighbourhood Aunties and Relatives , who always tries to poke their nose and say stuff that affects the mental positivity..... So now whenever I see them I change my direction cuzz mereko faltu bakwass sunne ka hi nhi hai untill the day I get a stable / well paid income in my hands....

[@navinkumarmahatha3819]

Plz condition koi bhi ho harna nhi h kisi ko..umeed ka daman thame rkhna h.maine bhi jivan me bhut struggle ki h paiso ki killat dekhi h papa cycle me sabzi bechte the sbse bdi baat meri ek aankh hi bachpan se nhi h dusri aankh se chasme se dekh pate h..itna hone ke baad bhi pdhna nhi choda aur lagbhag 32 saal ki age me gov job mila Coal india limited me...bs himmat rakhiye apne aim me focus bnaye rkhiye kuch toh jarur hoga...rhi baat shaadi ki toh hm jaise logo ki shaadi bhi nhi hoti.phir bhi jivan me bhut khush h.

[@ErKailashAhirwar]

Thanks sr ji meri age 26+ ho rahi or mene B.t tech civil engineer kiya hai or private job karta raha or time nikl gya but sr mene apni job chod kr mppsc ki preparation karne ki sochi hai or meri economy condition bhi thik nhi hai but sr lg raha karna hai online classes join kiya hai sr Kya me sahi kar raha ya private job karu samjh nhi aa raha

[@introvertvsextrovert747]

I am 60 year old still unemployed, now I am enjoying government old age pension scheme

[@Akashyadav-rd1eo]

Real notivation of being unemployed