UNFILTERED PERSONAL QUESTIONS! *Friend Grills Me* (Chai Talk Ep 17)

In today's episode Wajeeh gets personal as his friend asks him some unfiltered questions!
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[@Swagadidy]

It was a pleasure my brother ! Hope Yall enjoyed this one 🙏

[@forratedrstuff]

Enjoyed hearing you speak! You brought something new and interesting, cause as it was getting pretty repetitive with so many podcasts about boundaries brown parents. One feedback for Wajeeh is that I get he’s your boy and we all talk a certain way with our friends but the amount of times you said “my brother” was a bit jarring lol. I’m sure that you say it a lot when you’re with him but for the podcast it was ruining the flow a bit. But overall great episode!

[@amritjohal8614]

Nice to see you on here after so long! Good segment here

[@kainathashmi1178]

One of my favourite episodes, great to see you representing Afghanistan and sharing your knowledge as sociologist Thank you!

[@bleachkuchiki6297]

Such a good episode to watch. Would love to see you again on chai talk. Man of wisdom.

[@hiraalam4502]

you provided something different to the podcast, loved your episode

[@bleachkuchiki6297]

Wajeeh we need him again on another episode. This guy has some wisdom to share. I love intellectual conversations.

[@Saaaaruhhhh786]

He’s so sweet & well spoken!! Good job swag

[@salampakistan3691]

As a pakistani, it always takes me by surprised by indian, bengali and afghani hate...like I cannot hate anyone, my parents never cussed other countries or races, I never heard cousins or aunties or pakistan community generally very chilled when it comes to other countries...

[@Yesuuh]

As a Pakistani literally Same

[@tasnoor22]

Same, as a Bangladeshi. I grew up with all sorts of desis. Its always been love

[@VintageVoid3]

It’s Afghan* not Afghani

[@salampakistan3691]

@@VintageVoid3 I am british pakistani, usually in urdu/punjabi we use the term afghani or pathan to refer to Afghan people or Pushtun people from peshawar....it may not be the way the Afghans call themselves but now the way pakistanis refer to them. We call like English people Angalazi or Britani or we call Americans, Ameriki etc In uk, people call pakistanis as pakistanis but in America some people call pakistanis as pakistanian...its all inaccurate but now its entered the language...so thats why I call by default afghanis as Afghani

[@shlalalaa]

Literally same. I’m Pakistani & never felt any typa way about any other ethnicities 🤷🏻‍♀️ my parents never taught me to judge people based on that.

[@mohammadal-essa3104]

Loved today's episode and I feel like we need another 2 episodes. one going more in depth about sawagadiddy's childhood and growing up as an immigrant in the US and a second about sawagadiddy the psychologist and his views on the new generation of kids and second generation immigrants in the US. overall I enjoyed the chemistry between you guys and could listen to more of it. God bless!

[@user-zm3dx3io5x]

This was the best chai talk episode so far, really enjoyed listening. Swag is so wise mashallah, hope you have him on again soon wajeeh.

[@salampakistan3691]

I met my husband through Dawah circles, I befriended allot religioys aunties and they passed rishta to my mum...my best friend who was mother of a friend owned a islamic bookshop and my future hubby who hafiz imam used to talk to her allot and she felt we should meet, referred him my mum, my mum loved him and told me about him and thats how we met at my house....he walked in and I dropped all my questions and just felt he the one....I just felt at ease around him which is very very very rare, as I very introverted and more on the strict side of religious spectrum, not easy around males

[@misbahailia3345]

Take a sip of Chai whenever either of them says, "my brotha!"

[@fadila3373]

This personn asks what we want to hear😂😂😂😂

[@maimunah9080]

The thumbnails for these podcasts are really good! Chai talk is one of the weekly podcasts I keep up with.

[@hiraalam4502]

Get him on again, he changed it up and I loved it! Also I wish he gave more pushback during the first question. I think the resentment some Afghans have is with the Pakistani people who do agree with the government. In terms of Pakistan taking in more Afghans than any other country, conflicts in Afghanistan create refugees, which in turn creates profit for Pakistan. Pakistan gets millions of dollars to take these refugees in. Also the "crime was increased" theory is baseless to justify the mass expulsion. But there's a lot

[@monicashah1664]

LOVED THIS. These podcasts are only getting better.

[@soso117]

Jet Lagged, this is what I needed! Thank you for uploading

[@Ghuraba1990]

I feel Wajeeh is very giving and knows his duty as a son. I mean it's very rare for sons to love and respect their parents the way you show it, not just by buying your parents a house and giving your first wages, but you've never been embarrassed having a mother who's cultural in terms of clothing appearance etc, i mean you took her to the red carpets to meet Ian 😂. I think what Ahmed did, leaving your parents and not giving back has probably put some resentment and anger in you, which your mum should understand. Sometimes when your mum latches too much, she should realise it may make you detach from her and your family more.

[@yog759]

This episode was full of 💯’s but real talk it’s cool to listen to more younger people like wajeeh and swag cause a lot of us can relate. Not one single argument, conversations were respectful and overall lots of knowledge was spoken. We need ANOTHER ONE 💯

[@samiraafzali6145]

I loved this episode!!!

[@moments722]

Loved it! My childhood youtubers! Swag is soo funny and wise! Enjoyed this chai talk, thank you for doing these!

[@hiraalam4502]

Fav guest!!!

[@1445hijri]

I’m loving this podcast - a lot of intellectuality and nuanced discussions, a really enjoyable watch. Much love Wajeeh. Btw, I’m still waiting for that merch to launch, Insha’allāh soon. 😂❤️🤲🏻

[@Amar-hk8co]

damn been a minute swagiddy, those qias videos from bay area really hit back on me

[@moonlightea]

I'm sure this is a great podcast and your friend must be a great soul... I just miss Mama Jee!!! 😭😭😭 now I have to wait at least one whole week more till I hear her beautiful voice and expressions again!! Lol 😭😭 ❤❤ please send her my love and duas!! 💗💗💗

[@rkk77]

This was a such an interesting pod with intelligent talk, would like part 2 too!

[@nabeelsiddiqui5724]

As the saying goes... we got a LEGEND in the building.

[@shanzayiftikhar]

This episode is so comforting idk why 😂❤ but i enjoyed this very much.

[@tajbirakabir]

The the best episode ever!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉happy new year2024!!!

[@fatimashah4962]

Happy new year.. wishing you all happiness and success in the furture .. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@sheemaiqbal1169]

Wajeed ur friend is good speech Masha’ALLAH

[@junaidsadiq2599]

Swaggadiddy with the 💯💯💯s man

[@Ash-or5xf]

Majority Afghans support India. Not sure why they have an issue with being sent back. I’m ok with them being sent back. Why didn’t India take them?

[@dannykhan8584]

We need harris too and qais, man I remember 100s with swag

[@fiddah]

It’s wrong to assume that a mother is texting her son because she is only worried that he may do something wrong . A lot of mothers text their kids to try to find out if they are safe or to simply communicate with them as they enjoy their company and miss them when they are outside the home etc. الحَمدُ لله . Many mothers text their kids because they care. الحَمدُ لله . We should respect our elders.

[@Fizvidz]

All Muslim ummah needs to unite and have each other's back period!!!

[@moonlightea]

Oh well.. at least I get to watch her from your and your brother's older videos that I haven't seen before. I occasionally watch those when I need a dose of Mama Jee 😂❤

[@FossKhan]

Swagger Diddy is my favorite, his swagger is off the charts and he is a diddler

[@ironman0161]

yes lads

[@TheCaviyan25]

Swaga needs to give us the 100

[@RealRidersRide]

your chai talk content is great not only for your culture. We are all learning from you all.

[@MsZa124]

Your friend is a legend!

[@nuh199]

Ya Allah please take care of the people in Palestine🇵🇸, Sudan🇸🇩, Congo🇨🇬, Syria🇸🇾, Afghanistan🇦🇫, and other countries who are facing oppression, death, and losing their homes ! Allah Swt give them #Hedayat

[@afsanuddin4656]

You guys should do a podcast together

[@IbnSaifi]

Get this guy back

[@1445hijri]

At 55:00 the brother is talking about naseeb, and that let it happen on its own terms, but this is tantamount to saying, Allâh has written my naseeb in terms of money, so I’m not gonna try and earn it and instead wait for it until it knocks on my door. Allah loves those who try and strive, it’s not enough saying Insha’allāh and then doing nothing. The bird goes out in the early morning, and returns full and satisfied. You want marriage, you have to pursue it. May Allah bless y’all. ❤️🤲🏻

[@S4FX]

Allah huma barik ❤️ to your friendship

[@Ghuraba1990]

If your mum was allowed to travel and come to USA herself before marriage, why do you think she's more worried for you in terms if traveling by yourself etc

[@mehreenkhan6099]

Chicago???

[@hamadarif6154]

What were the books he mentioned?

[@feryaalzahir3406]

Atomic habits and purification of the heart

[@suzipadmaar]

@@feryaalzahir3406great books!

[@user-vo9ru4kb6e]

Pakistan took in refugees during the 80s via the US aid money that went through them. The hatrd stems from back then. The US funded the mujhadeen using Pak as a syphon. You really think Pakistan gave all the aid money to the Afghans and didn’t keep a majority for their own benefit? Wajeeh saying they took in refugees nonchalantly without knowing the historical context is tone deaf. If you’re gonna debate on topics like this you need to do accurate research.

[@Riddler-us6iu]

So the war is over now, refugees can go back. Iran also deported refugees, where is the afghan outcry on Iran? Truth is afghanistan always hated Pakistan. It’s racism, simple as that

[@miram4583]

Acting like a married couple 😂 watching movies and one sleeping

[@jaysaini7635]

Love your channel ❤

[@YennP]

❤😂🎉❤😂😂🎉❤😂🎉❤😂🎉❤😂🎉

[@usmanzahid7155]

Get qias on the episode

[@sheharbano6452]

Is it really chaitalk without mama jee? 😢

[@omerghorizai6352]

Afghan Pakistani here. Yes my kind exist. Absolutely hate the Pakistani government. Love the ideology Pakistan was formed on. I don't expect American Afghans or Pakistanis to know much about deep politics, history and social dynamics but what happened to our Afghan people is a big crime. Y'all don't have the clarity or full picture of the truth so I understand. The diaspora are very different from us who live in the countries. 1.7 million hard working Muslims were forcefully evicted by shameless American puppet establishment of Pak on the command of Americans which is literally against Pakistans ideology. Any Pakistani ordinary or Afghan including me who justifies this unislamic disgusting act is complicit. 🏳️🇦🇫♥️🇵🇰

[@tirghroub5817]

Do you hate the Afghan government too for trying to destroy Pakistan since its birth? Just because Pakistan defeated all odds doesn’t mean it did anything wrong

[@aishaomar1628]

LIKE IF YOU ARE LOVINGGGG CHAI TALK☕️

[@sofiaahmadi2745]

why is wajeeh so freaking hot!!!

[@90swasgud]

Bring on Harris it would be jokes

[@tayyabzn]

Wajeeh you sleeping on Houston

[@AK-zt7ii]

On the fact of why is there hate for pakistan. In short: You mention Pakistanis took them in - That was with a huge reward financially from the UN.. it was a lucrative business decision. Onto why they hate - so Pakistan gov have been meddling from both sides in Afghanistan for since post soviet era… Pakistan created taliban via the ISI in benazirs era. They propped them up, educated them in their madrassas etc… that pissed off a big chunk of the Afghans in itself. To make matters worse when america went against Taliban, and one would expect pakistan to show solidarity and support for the same Taliban they created… in actuality they decided to fully back the Americans and were the key ally in their war against the Taliban… so here they pissed off the more conservative afghans and those with the Taliban. On top of this the ammount of racism that afghans face in pakistan… you eluded to it yourself all the crimes etc gets blamed on them etc… So there is no suprise that there is hate.. what should have been a brotherly nation showed no support in tough times and played double games for its own interest…. No suprise as Pakistan did even worse with the people of Bangladesh in the 70s. Ps - I am Pakistani myself

[@nusratk9733]

I’m a Pakistani pashtoon and I don’t agree with the Pakistani government throwing out the afghani. So sad. 😢

[@samalv123]

Parents don’t want to parent anymore. They should entertain their kids. Play with them, distract their mind. Not sit on the phone themselves and say no to the kid. Monkey see. Monkey do. Don’t go on the phone urself. Especially mothers.

[@misbahailia3345]

Not especially mothers. Both parents are at fault.

[@samalv123]

@@misbahailia3345 I agree. Just in our traditional society men work. Leave house at 7/8 and come home late evening. Mostly kids are with their mothers. No offence intended. I’m a single mum of 3 myself. But I know if I’m home and husband is working and not at home. It’s my responsibility. When he is home shared responsibility.

[@huzaifasultani_20799]

fuckin vlogs man..... mama... is being missed brutally I can say....