Such a humble cute father! ❤

Wajeeh thanks for this, I feel like you’ve put into words the heart of every first diaspora kid

This was one of the best episodes

Aww Ahmed! Hugs! 🤗🤗

I am watching this while running on the treadmill 😅 love it

This dude needs to start respecting his mom. You are so blessed to be where you are and if there are some things which you don’t agree with this is deffo not the way to address them.

No doubt we reach places or achieve things due to the way our parents said or did things but there are parents who have a different approach whose children also reach high and achieve things. Wajeeh is right that the things they say or the way they do things does affect us deeply and should have a more compromisable and positive approach which may support the child to achieve even better.

Bless Wajee, it's called discipline, son! I dont walk 3 miles to go get water, but our kids , neices, and nephews are disciplined. They help around the house, and they help their siblings. Before culture, we are following our Islam, serving your parents is the least we can do.

Wajeeh, I feel in this episode you were extremely rude and not welcoming any of her thoughts or ideas. You kept interrupting every time she said anything or kept talking over her. If she's saying she needs a little help around the house then doing the dishes or vacuuming the house isn't going to kill you. Do better.

Respect for Wajeeh! I truly appreciate his thoughts and values. But that guy Adamm... 😮

Imagine getting all this education and living the dream life and still disrespecting your own mom on camera. This guy really needs someone to tell him the truth. He acts like the world revolves around him. I can only imagine how disrespectful he is to his parents behind camera

I feel like Wajeeh was tired

Everyone in the comments must have super chill parents…that’s why yall disagree with him. I 100% agree

Wajeeh I normally agree with you, but in this you’re wrong 😂

Unpopular opinion: perhaps they both need therapy. I don't think they understand each other at all.

wajeeh at first I agreed w you regarding this topic, but now it feels like you’re very wrong on some points, the way you convey them even and it’s so wrong how you keep interrupting ur mom. respectfully, learn how to be patient and rmr your mom can make mistakes too it’s her first time living as well.

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Wajeeh might be onto something wallahi I never thought about that deeply but just on a surface level one of the reasons why as minorities we might be failing is because of the comments they constantly made about us like I’m African and I’ve heard the same comments and so many other minorities have heard these comments

How long are you going to blame your parents? Take accountability and understand you have your own autonomy i don’t understand why this is even a discussion. You’re a grown ass man, your parents only knew what they did and you cannot continue to blame them for their “shortcomings” move on dude

Wajeeh shut up you literally have always lived a privileged lifestyle it’s getting od

Let Mama Jee talk 😢😢😢

I feel bad for Mama Jee 😢❤❤❤

Wajeeh, you need to admit that you resent providing your parents with a home and then still expected to live with them. I think you hoped it might be your get of jail card and Mama jee would have said “go live on your own. We’ll manage from this point onwards.” You are building up resentment even though you want to be a good son. It’s time to set up boundaries and figure out plans to get your own place.

Wonderfully vlog ❤❤

Mama is right for real

Salam alaikum I agree with Mama jee when she talks about how parents struggle and give up and go without for there kids my husband Tunisian I'm American married 19 yrs lived here in Tunisia 6 yrs and I see this all the time my sister in law can barely pay rent can't afford meat for her family doesn't buy new clothes she spends everything on her son alhumdullah they live in a one room all together I see this all the time here parents give up all in hopes that there children will have a better life and yes my husband and me struggle but nothing like them may Allah grant these parents who struggle for the sake of Allah and there children what ever country they from be given jannah ameen

A lot of relationships started off as friends so no men and women cannot be friends

54:04 OK, that's good it's made you stronger. 😂😂😂😂 You got to love Mama jee❤

just ordered the sheets from Miracle!! thank u for the episodes and to giving us a coupon code :D

They don't expect anything from their kids because they kick them out when they grow up and if they stay with parents they have to contribute, they just don't keep them for free.

Tbh i am getting turned off from your behaviour towards your mother

desi parents always cover up, hide and its their way to manipulate. oh my god. this is why kids stay away of such feelings.... always us generation in our 20s and 30s dont have the mental capacity of our parents questions, this is a deficiency in magnesium needed in the brain, the tone always seems manipulated and attacking.... and our brains cant take such patience...its lack of such vitamins minerals in our lives.. families mein jo parents dont expect anything from their kids, see their kids will give back 10000% in return, this is in nature built from Allah subhanallah. but in desi cultures parents are just full of ego, dont believe in Allahs powers and dont have taqwa thats why they want to take control over everything, and end up using their bad tounge to spread negativity, and i am mentioning this in regards parents treatment towards their adult kids. the kids that are not adults need the parents and parents hav a duty to keep an eye on them, but when they are adults, they need to be out in the society and build their powers, Why dont desi parents understand that?! also when desi parents keep saying about struggles..... in the quran, there is a clear ayah saying, this world is for the disbelivers and not the believers, so why cant we have taqwah and accept the hardships that come to us before our blessings, and after the blessings we receive, like house and car, we keep bragging about the hardships instead of saying alhamdulila, and keeping ourselves grounded. AND THEN USING THE PAST to blackmail the kids, this is wrong and hinders the development of adults. astagfurullah , stop comparing to whitepeople, us pakistanis, why will we not give back to our parents, our parents are our crown, but why do our parents taunting with all of this, it makes me cry!!! finaly wajeeh really needs some brain minerals man, dude you have no tolerance !!! its 2024, do some research and sort out ur issues, if youre young, how will you get out there in the world and fight with outsiders and defend yourself man? that attitude aint taking you anywhere, you gotta work on urself, also , loved the episose as well, so thank you.. hehe

yesFirstsyesMashaAllahsyes

Wajeeh should do a masterclass on how to do a podcast and 100 episodes on the same topic in different ways.

Thanks for acknowledging my comment. I am fan of your lip shades.❤

Wajeeh get a wife and let Mama jee have her peace of mind. 😂

I feel like you are so wrong at some points that you mentioned. I dont agree with you brother. Mamajee thanks for sacrifices because ur kids are here what they are doing its all because of you❤️ sending love and positivity

Wajeeh, my bro. This episode was hard to watch. Although you had valid points, your delivery and discussion manners were poor. It was just plain rude. Moving forward you need to relax your tone, maintain composure, avoid constantly interupting your mother and taking unnecessary shots at her. I hope this was an out of character moment for you. I understand you might have built up frustration, but be a man, and stay composed. You've done injustice to your valid message. Think of it this way; your message was a $100 bill, but your delivery was dog sh*t. Would you pick up a $100 bill that is covered in dog sh*t? I wish you all the best. May Allah keep increasing your blessings. Aameen.

I’m sorry but watched the first 12 minutes and Wajeeh is so wrong in this. I’m sorry but saying you get irritated by your mother who is kind enough to cook for you everyday, raised you, birthed you when she asks you questions is SO rude and disrespectful. You would not say that even to a stranger so I cannot believe the audacity to say that to your mother! Clearly, she’s only asking about your like because she wants to make conversation with you so if you don’t want to talk about yourself then ask about her day!? Simple. Also saying that sharing your problems with your parents “doesn’t do anything for you” or doesn’t “add anything” is genuinely just so close minded, you are not better than your parents or smarter than your parents. That’s the vibe those kind of comments give. Your parents have years of life experience that you will never have and if you fail to appreciate and value that, that’s extremely sad. Acting like you are above their advice is genuinely laughable because they are the reason you are where you are in life today. I feel like as a grown adult this whining at brown parents for every small thing is getting so old. When you’re 15 it’s different. But in your 20s/30s you really need to approach parents with more compassion. I’m not saying parents are perfect but it’s disappointing to say the least to see you speaking and treating mamajee like an inconvenience to your life. You need to reevaluate your priorities in life if you feel that way.

Wajeeh the one thing I agree with is for the parents not to expect anything because they can get hurt when their kids fail them. You’re a saft shit. You’re mum did well your successful alhamdullilah. Mine did too & my parents are the best alhamdullilah but how you moan about not wanting to get pressured etc etc I wasn’t pressured as much and I’m in law enforcement. Alhamdullilah x100 but I wish my parents my parents threatened to beat my ass if I didn’t get good grades not because my parents aren’t the best but because I realise when my parents used to say “study son study for yourself so you can be successful & rich. We don’t need anything we just want you to be successful for yourself” now I know why. You’re just an ungrateful piece of shit. Oh I only clean my own bedroom. Mate all you do is count. I wish you all the best may allah grant all of our parents, brothers, sisters, relatives, health, happiness, forgiveness and jannah but mate shut up with your sob stories yaar. I’m getting tired of it. I’m your age & I agree with mamma jee. You’ll only appreciate what you had when you don’t have it mate. Take care brother.

Mama jee set wajeeh marriage ASAP he is not doing well. When he becomes a father only then he will understand.

Also petition to get mama jee a personal trainer or swim instructor. You can’t expect her to fox her mental state alone, you need to do you part and support.

Seems like mama jee has lost her spark and isn’t happy.. so it is the duty of her family to help her out of her depressive feelings. Husband and kids should be helping her.

You can accept that her best years were spent on you whilst also accepting that it’s not your fault.

Thank you mamaG happiest birthday to you, stay beautiful full of life and laughter iA thanks for bringing a smile to my face with every video ❤️ may Allah swt bless you for this!!!

Wajee don't cut off ur mother while she is talking at the end she was just wishing people zulhijja n u did not allow her to speak with out interruptions.

Wow baddie

Wajeeh I’ve watched you for a long time and always given you the benefit of the doubt but I don’t agree with you anymore. Hats off to mama jee, she speaks with such grace and patience. She is your backbone, don’t ever forget that or take it for granted. Providing for her shouldn’t feel like liability, you should feel blessed you can give back.

It’s a sad state to see you Wajeeh in this. I am really sad for your mom. Don’t say what white ppl allow their kids. Because they don’t care, they don’t spend on their kids and thus if you were born in that household you might not be well settled enough to say that oh you will provide for ur kids and not expect anything in return. Unfortunately you have just grown older in numbers but not in maturity. Plus how ungrateful you are, that’s sad to see

I don’t agree with the comments saying you repeat the same topics every episode and end up getting nowhere. I loved this conversation. Thank you for putting our frustrations as adult children of minorities into words!!! ❤