Unmasking Betrayal: A Hidden Path to Recovery & Forgiveness

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[@MJA5]

If you don’t let it go then it gets to live with you rent-free

[@matthewbowers6178]

Exactly, and no one lives rent free in my home. Lol

[@TomNook.]

No need to forgive those who wronged you. See it as a life lesson well learnt.

[@JLM_79]

Focus on yourself, put yourself first before any woman.

[@ca9968]

After 7 years of being alone after "The love of my life" betrayed me i`ve learned that there is recovery, but very little forgiveness...once you`ve seen what lurks behind the mask, the true nature of the beast, there`s no going back... I have a great job that I really enjoy doing, a new house, a little turbo charged hot hatchback that i`ve wanted for years and a great dog, there`s no room in my life for a woman nor am I prepared to sacrifice anything I have or my mental wellbeing for a woman...they can all rot for all I care...

[@likearollingstone007]

Stay the course bruh 🚀

[@ShmoofWB]

You got this, friend. Keep on going!

[@vlajster]

Hehe good job,I'm still fighting off oneitis after 2 years but I won't give up

[@ca9968]

@@vlajster you`ll get there Bro! Around year 4 the lightbulb came on and I started really realizing what it was that I wanted and was prepared to do to get it, then I was a man on a mission and still am...when the loneliness fades the work begins...

[@clarino2]

A dog will always be loyal and doesn’t complain.

[@Great_Sandwich]

_"Behind every great man, there's a woman."_ Naturally. Because women don't stick around with a man who isn't at peak success.

[@MJA5]

have you seen “the wall”? If your success outlasts that, it might be you hitting the bricks

[@Great_Sandwich]

@@MJA5 Are you talking about a video, or just having been around long enough to see a woman hit the wall? (I've seen plenty hit the wall, alright.)

[@erwangaillard1637]

actually not that often

[@happysnapperman]

I'm a young 65-year-old grandfather who still enjoys dancing @ night clubs because I love music. Dance with girls aged closer to my grandkids as they sometimes orbit! Yeah, I still love to party! Very few women actually bring much to the table except drama and expect you to mind-read their mood. Got my own house, car, etc., and very happy without committing to the BS as I have too much to lose! Cycling and roller skating keep me sane and stress-free. Find your purpose and protect yourself I guess!

[@bigtreecombatacademy2927]

Grow up man that’s gross as hell

[@RittenhousesRifle]

Granted this is true that is pretty cool! I’ll definitely give you credit for that. But the majority of us men are looking for a decent woman to think about having a future with. It is certainly possible to find one of those types in a club setting but it is very very unlikely.

[@happysnapperman]

@@RittenhousesRifle I must be one of those anomalies. I met my wife of 40-plus years in a nightclub in Birmingham UK. She was sober as she didn't drink, hated the music and the pretentious people there. She was only there because her mate wanted someone to go with her. Her mate was known as the club bike so I always gave her a wide birth!

[@setokaibasbankaccount9109]

The biggest comforting lie is that life will stay the same forever. The core principle of this is to understand that nothing is permanent. Everything in existence is temporary and ever changing, you change, your friendships change, family passes, new people coming and going. Even your sense of self changes over time. This is a scary realization but it’s reality.

[@likearollingstone007]

Clear as water

[@malone4735]

“Men Cheat But Women Betray” 💯💊

[@cindybrown7527]

But to women when the man cheats it’s a betrayal of her. Maybe the man doesn’t feel that way but most women do.

[@gunsharck]

Yep, you wont see a man lying about the parentage of a child. It makes you wonder how many fellas are unknowingly raising children that ARENT their own

[@pattycakes5010]

Could you please explain the difference to me?

[@jchaudhry4456]

​@@pattycakes5010physical vs emotional

[@Pyrrhic537]

Because their needs weren't met.

[@esteban1487]

Learned all this the hard way. Once. I'll never marry again.

[@austin6174]

I realize this may get buried because this video is a few weeks old… But to the gentleman who sponsored the video… if you happen to see this. I can relate to what you went through. What I found is the emotional damage came back with a vengeance once I got into a serious LTR again…started having nightmares about my ex 10-15 times a month…couldn’t sleep etc. What started the healing process was me trying to figure out what was so wrong with me that 1. I didnt see it coming. I cant “let it go” as people say or “accept reality as it is” if I dont understand how I allowed myself to be so deceived. 2. What was it about “him”. I tried to figure out why I was her plan-b for so long that I lived inside her head. 3. I became intimate with the pain. I wrote down every nightmare I could for almost 3 years to try and get it to stop. Im still broken but a lot of healing has happened. The dreams stopped and things are much better now. The answers were 1. i did see it coming. I didnt want to believe it. I betrayed myself. When friends said I was being too controlling I should have told them to pound sand. I have learned to trust my intuition. 2. It had more to do with her than me. She could have broken it off like a mature adult but it was her own trauma and dysfunction. Thats not my problem… who it was she chose didnt matter because it was bound to be anyone. Nothing would have satisfied that broken soul. 3. The revenge I have now is in being happy and successful without her. The kids I raise and the family and life thats built has nothing to do with her. My happiness and sadness exist in a world she decided to leave. The pain was a good part of the process and it was needed for getting through to the other side. And let yourself grieve. Its okay to be broken. Just keep moving through it. *Edited for grammar *

[@brothergrimaldus3836]

Forgiveness requires repentance.

[@dingleberrypie6612]

Every person I have ever known has betrayed me. Friends, employees, women, business partners, everyone besides afew family members. My last friend is my dog. Out side of work I don't deal with Amy people. People suck.

[@teenindustry]

Maybe it’s you!!!!

[@freepatriot9629]

Hey man.. many of us have been where you now seem to be. Keep grinding. Sending good vibes your way.

[@HenrySomeone]

@@teenindustry Wrong, if everyone was looking hard enough, they would get to the same conclusions. You just have to learn not to be too affected by small betrayals (and avoid bigger ones as much as possible), because those happen ALL the time.

[@ypmm53]

You are not lying. I only tolerate people. I love animals!

[@PoyTroy]

Your analogies are top teir rich lol. "Its like leaving your ferrari unlocked in a bad neighborhood" big facts.

[@georgevue8175]

Had I spoken to my 2nd wife's 1st husband before getting serious with her I would have learned she has serious $$$ problems & she cheated on him with at least 4 different guys. Instead I learned things the hard way. But to my unfaithful/promiscuous 2nd wife's credit she came across being so sweet & virtuous an amazing actress she was.

[@PermanentHigh]

What signs did you miss?

[@RittenhousesRifle]

@PermanentHigh The important thing is buddy found out before he made a serious move.

[@HenrySomeone]

Precisely, there are no virtuous women, only good actresses.

[@randys967]

Accept that you’ll die alone, no matter what, and the rest comes easy.

[@HenrySomeone]

This is honestly the most important thing each man should do as soon as he reaches adulthood (and perhaps even sooner).

[@Son-of-Krypton]

Forgive but never forget 🤔

[@gunsharck]

Then why bother? Thats like holding a burning rock and expecting someone else to get burned

[@Son-of-Krypton]

@@gunsharcknot forget part is about not picking up burning rock again 🤔

[@likearollingstone007]

Resentment is poisonous

[@HenrySomeone]

The best path to recovery is ... not getting into (long-term) relationships in the first place. They are not worth it anymore.

[@kokolovitch56]

The best way to meet females is by accident. For decades, grocery stores have been a great place to meet women. Believe it or not, many will do their shopping right before closing. And also, it's easy to spot the ones hoping to meet a guy, they're dressed like they would when going on a date, not like most who dress extremely casual.

[@K4113B4113]

@@mattthx50 No, it's called talking to other humans. It's completely normal. If girls think you're harassing them you're probably doing something weird. Why don't you try saying something normal, and observing her reaction to see if she's receptive to getting to know you. If she's having a bad day or clearly doesn't like you, just move on.

[@FreedomRider-id6yv]

Clean up on isle 3 (wink, wink)

[@kokolovitch56]

@@mattthx50 Harrasment is what happens on the job.

[@gerardsloan1593]

The worst places to look are colleagues, bars and nightclubs, customer service reps, and anyone with baggage. I like that you suggest you meet them by accident, the worst thing to do is go out of your way and look for one, you risk disappointment and frustration and will likely lower your standards after a while (and risk disappointment frustration etc lol). Have a good day reader

[@HenrySomeone]

@@gerardsloan1593 Waiting for something to happen "by accident" will likely take you a loooong time though. But honestly, you shouldn't be looking in the first place, by accident or not, not worth it in the slightest.

[@tinman8972]

Get past the betrayal and in the harsh light of retrospect, recall the signs and red flags that SHOULD have warned you not to trust that individual. I assure you, they were there. Learn from it and make sure that the next time you decide to trust, it's mind-based as WELL as heart-based.

[@a1harrogate]

Your metaphors are simply superb.

[@juicearibe]

Bro I won't even lie you are valuable to men your advice is golden.

[@WayneTheWolf]

Hey man, just curious to know when did you officially unplug? I am 38 and newly divorced starting from zero actually -500,000+ and even though I’m in the red Gleason have to pay alimony and child support man did divorce suck but it is what it is and I will rebuild.

[@mikeodonnell6231]

People, places and things. Gotta Accept the things you cannot change and the wisdom to know the difference. Great video Rich ! Love the sound of that McLaren in the background 🔥💨

[@darkizofficial]

I have been trought bad relationships all the time, now im single. So since 2020 i play my game all the time, i let them fall inlove with me and then test them if they are gonna stay or not. There was 10 girls already in 2 years and all have failed the test. My tactic is: i let them fall in love with me, then act that i get some problems, i'm sad, depressed. None of these girls said, Do you need help? Do you wanna go on a coffee and talk it trough? NONE. They all went cold, so did i :) Please guys, listen to this guy. He knows what he's talking about.

[@esteban1487]

My ex lost her mind when our kids were little. Starting boinking the husbands of her friends. I hung on for awhile for the kids (she didn't work of course) then finally divorced her Took the financial hit, now solo and happy. I'll never marry again.

[@PermanentHigh]

How did you find out she was fucking her friend's husbands? And did she really "lose her mind" all of a sudden or did you simply wife a whore?

[@JM-my4sb]

Same here. Did you get over it?

[@HenrySomeone]

Are you sure the kids are even yours?

[@esteban1487]

@HenrySomeone I was discussing that with your wife when I was boinking her. Irony eh? Call me Dad. 🤣

[@PermanentHigh]

@@JM-my4sb Your ex was fucking her friends' husbands?? MULTIPLE???

[@realrural7876]

Rich, I think you hit on something that a lot (most) of people can't do....honest self analyzation. They cannot honestly judge or face the reality of who they are. They are not self-checkers!

[@nh--2022]

Appreciate your advice man! learned a lot after crazy breakup dig the cars too

[@sdmfp333]

Same goes with business partners

[@karaoke888]

The divorce rate in Orange County, California is 75%!

[@notall7994]

I just bought your audiobook, I look forward to listening to it.

[@30minutesLess]

I got on try at 28. I mean if your levels aren't good they aren't good. Sleep and diet go so far. My overall health is much better after having started therapy

[@nightrider4370]

I love your honesty. Thank you!

[@jacques42]

00:00 🤝 Betrayal can be a painful experience, and it's essential to recognize and accept that people, including partners, may betray you. 01:38 💍 Rushing into marriage without thoroughly knowing your partner can lead to problems. Take your time to understand your partner's true nature before committing. 03:18 🙅‍♂️ Trust issues can develop after betrayal. To overcome them, acknowledge the reality of human nature and understand that betrayals can happen. 05:50 🌟 Surrender to the fact that you can only control yourself and your actions. Accepting this reality can help you navigate life's challenges more effectively. 11:14 💼 Diversify your investments and assets to reduce risk. Avoid putting all your resources into a single venture, such as real estate, and educate yourself about different investment options.

[@samuraisaint2360]

The amount of the truth of god she abides in her life is the amount to what you can trust her.. also watch what she does not what she says .

[@MrBanana808]

I think it takes at least 3 years to really know someone. If you plan to marry, then wait 3 years. You have to ask the tough questions too. Many people maintain a facade, and you can't be afraid of radical honesty. Real relationships happen when people "get real" with each other. You can't be afraid of the darker aspects that all people have, love is accepting it.

[@MrBanana808]

@nkmensah Yeah, for many women the lesson is learning not to quit. Men usually learn this lesson in high school through sports.

[@dedeborya9015]

They all lie - expect the big lies, never tolerate the little ones. Asking a woman to be loyal, honest, respectful, have integrity, morality, chastity .... is like chasing the Unicorn. Play as you will.

[@HenrySomeone]

Even just one of those things is impossible to get for any length of time, all 6 though? Pure fantasy land.

[@plumSRT]

After 3 marriages, I have learned that jealously is a waste of time. That doesn't mean to let your girl do what she wants but spend zero energy worrying about it. If she cheats, kick her to the curb without batting an eye, forget about her and move on.

[@KINGSU2U]

His views on relationships is top tier. It would be nice if adults could be mature enough in relationships, and understand nothing is ever promised. Nor should another human being be capable of causing so much stress and damage to you. Self love really is the ONLY answer. Because kids need guidance, and last I checked that’s an Adults job. So can we all just be adults? Thanks in advance. . Side Note: That relationship wasn’t that important. If you’re living? Thank GOD, because it could’ve been worse

[@roywashington2642]

This reminder is freeing.

[@JLM_79]

They always come back.

[@chocolatesquirrel2002]

Lol

[@TILLEYJS]

They have in my case.... Except fatter, older, and kids. Next.

[@JLM_79]

@@TILLEYJS exactly

[@InvestgoldUK]

They actually really do

[@direwolf6234]

learn to accept the 'five givens' ... life's not fair / pain is a part of life / things don't always go according to plan / people aren't loyal and loving all of the time / everything changes and ends ...

[@williamfeldner9356]

Simple: Women want success, status and money……Men want beauty and fertility…. Really,Really Simple….

[@markwilliamson2795]

He said , When she shows you who she is you have to believe her......I might add then leave and move on with your heart and soul in tact....

[@kennyjames1829]

Great wise words as ever !!!❤💥👍

[@Tindel10]

Rich always the most real.

[@ironangel6610]

Yeah…. The more I find out, the more I realize that I just don’t want them in my life romantically. Not only that, but my own experience has confirmed this. If it were just me, I might take a harder look. However, I keep hearing about the same kind of aftermath from men when it comes to women.

[@rasch760]

4 words you never want to hear, "he's only a friend". ... once you hear this, its already over. Kick her out, hide your cash. Take care of yourself.

[@paulfisher3e]

When a post asks for 2 words of advice l say beware betrayal.

[@goldmanz4852]

Hey, have you had bicep surgery, both arms?.... I've had my left arm fixed... not a fun process. Thanks for the content...Ed...Australia

[@sethdunn96]

Hey man, do a video of how you maintain your beard. Really interested how you trim and frame your beard.

[@periclescimon9954]

I’m always dating the representative for the first 18 months. They are often different after that

[@Election-sv6ok]

😂Nice one.

[@briandavis1115]

Very true woman can act for a year or a year or a half. You'd have to be insane to marry a woman you've only dated for 6 months. Trust me I did it, 4.5 years into the "marriage" and divorced with one child and a 40k custody battle. Because she "A strong empowered woman who will never have a man tell her no again".

[@tomdoingfunstuff]

Sounds like you married a GirlBoss. Sorry 😞

[@maxcavalera9797]

Feminism got to her 😢

[@FirstName-qr2ke]

your beard looks better now bro, before it was a bit round

[@livestock9722]

LTR of 6 years, betrayed me by running into the arms of my supposed friend and business associate, because I didn't marry her and put a baby in her. If there is a god, I truly feel blessed with this bittersweet circumstance. They are both deader than dead to me.

[@likearollingstone007]

What a friend !!

[@vlajster]

Not dead yet. The moment you FORGET about them,they will be dead. You're still talking about them.

[@Tindel10]

There is a God his actual name is Jesus Christ.

[@livestock9722]

@@vlajster Similar to when your father dies - you never ever think, or even remember you had a father, right? Yeah, no... this vid just pulled up the past is all.

[@PermanentHigh]

How did you find out?

[@sleepytimeshecomes]

usually men say TRT when they really mean they're doing steroids. I'm late 40's and started doing test/deca and occasional orals. It's changed my life completely.

[@angusharley5947]

I (27M) dated a (25F) girl last year for 9 months. Started off brilliantly for the first 2 to 3 months, however arguments started to happen as she kept bailing on things at the last minute (she had a kid) often because she was tired or her kid was unwell. These got ironed out and then it was fun for a month or so but she got sick. She then got better and it was fine until I went on holiday, and I was away from her. We argued, and then the games started happening. She would always tell me how amazing I was, how handsome I was, how i was the "best thing since her child being born" and that she "loved me more than the father of her child" but she would still bail on dates, and if we met up she would be rude, she would be on her phone, and would generally ask for more than she gave. Eventually we just stopped hanging out and she used her illness as an excuse. I basically gave her an ultimatum and she said "I love you but I can't do the things I want to do with you because of other things going on" or words to that effect. The next week she then said she wanted to meet up, and on the day we were meant to meet up she said she had covid. However she posted her on Instagram dolled up with her girls. So I binned her on the spot. The whole thing has taken ages to process mentally. I'm 6 foot 1, tattooed, good looking and sporty. I have a good career in heslthcare and apart from losing a job because of feeling distracted by this situation, my peers respect me. I had no idea how somebody could act one way at the start but then change and be so cold later on. The worst thing is, the guy she's dating now is short, ugly and looks like he lives in a trailer. She told me we wouldn't be Facebook official but they are together on her Facebook, all dressed up looking good, a luxury I never had. I don't understand how that turd can get shown off to the world and I was by and large kept a secret for the entire relationship unless she wanted something physical, which really hurt me. Rich, as much as I watch your content, I have aspergers, and it makes it so hard to unplug and not be intensely angry at this situation. I know this person was bad news, but there's still part of me that doesn't understand why a guy who's less physically attractive and who looks fairly poor gets treated better than me, who has a decent job and looks good. I also have a wide circle of friends who respect and value my time, and a number of cool hobbies including skiing, mountain climbing and team sports. Sometimes I wonder where I'm going wrong

[@K4113B4113]

I know you asked Rich's advice, but getting an answer might be difficult, perhaps I can offer you an outside perspective. The truth is that the guy she's seeing right now is probably cooler than you. He might be able to make her feel things that you weren't able to at the time. Perhaps you were under the impression that the formula for attraction is just about looking good. This simply is just not true. Most guys seems to be completely unaware of this fact somehow. But if you want to confirm it to yourself just observe how women act around you depending on whether or not you're in "the zone". If you sometimes have days where you feel exceptionally confident, relaxed, charming, etc. you will notice how women find you more attractive, even you will find yourself more attractive if you look yourself in the mirror. Correct me if I'm wrong but to me it seems like you're a very easy-going guy, that may have trouble setting boundaries. If she was acting rude to you, and sitting with her phone an entire date, you probably let her do that without ending the date or reflecting that behavior. I.e. you might have continued to be nice, accommodating, easy-going and loving even when she did not show those behaviors towards you. That's like giving a dog a treat every time it bites you. You reinforce that behavior. Just yesterday, I was training my cat with treats, and she scratched my hand. I immediately got up and ended the session. That way she learns that poor behavior is equal to no treats. But as soon as she displays good behavior and does what I say, she gets immediate treats and praise. Human psychology isn't much different. But hey, I might be completely off here, in which case I apologize. Here's another example to illustrate the point: you know how children will test their parents to see how much they can get away with? Some women (don't wanna generalize everyone) have been known to test a man in a similar way, by acting rude, insulting or other undesirable behaviors. They want to see that they're with a strong man that will put her in her place, so to speak. If her man lets her act this way, she knows that he is a doormat, and she looses all attraction to him. You have to set boundaries for what is acceptable or not as well as provide consequences. You don't do this by being angry, emotional, or violent. For example, if she's on her phone the entire date you can tell her to put the phone down, or give it to you, and that you didn't come there to sit and look at her while she's on her phone, and the consequence of her not doing that is simply that you end the date, and walk out. She can take a taxi home or whatever. You're not being unreasonable, you're being fair. She will probably not listen the first couple of times, in order to test you to see if you will really stand by your word. But when she sees that she can't treat you any way and that she has to behave, she will respect you and be very attracted to you. And if she's acting rude or cold towards you, just mirror that behavior back to her without reacting to her or being emotional. I.e. if she's in a bad mood that's her problem, not yours. If her behavior continues or it's excessive, then set a boundary. Some emotional turbulence will always come. You have to understand that when she says those lovely things about you, they are probably true in that moment. But emotions are in a constant state of flux. There's also a possibility that she said those things in order to see which ones affected your pride, so she could later attack those points to hurt you. But if she never used those things that she complimented you on, against you later, then she probably meant them, in that moment.

[@angusharley5947]

@@K4113B4113 this is an interesting perspective. I've seen plenty of cool smaller dudes do okay with girls. As Rich says the pocket hercules managed to clean up only being 5 foot 6 or whatever. Come to mention it I've had a few girls tell me I was good looking but there was no connection, so it's possibly once the initial "he's hot and good in bed" wears off, maybe I don't bring a lot to the table. If I'm honest I have no issues getting matches but I have an issue with conversations hence why I kind of latch onto whoever has a spark with me at the time. So maybe I pick the wrong people. And once I get them I have a problem setting boundaries through fear of losing them. I don't have a lot of time to spin plates as my job is time consuming and I'm always in the gym or out on a hike or playing sports so it does leave little time for dates. I know my worth physically and I get enough props from people but I think having aspergers means that I struggle to find that connection. Regarding what she said to me compliment wise, during the break up periods she never used them against me at all. She didn't even mention them. So I would say it all probably was genuine.

[@angusharley5947]

@@K4113B4113 and yeah, I also found with my ex that if I had a good day she mirrored it, sort of thing. However she was often in a bad mood about things so we would argue if I was happy and she was miserable. In those circumstances I probably should have just walked away and maybe she would have respected me more, but the fact that I couldn't set any boundaries was probably akin to the betatisation by 100 concessions Rich talks about a lot. Thanks for your help, Mr K4113B4113 💪

[@maxcavalera9797]

Probably along the way you failed some of her shit test. Shit test is constant and way for a women hypergamy to scale on your sexual market value. If you fail, they will start to disrespect you. Her attraction to you will quickly dissipate as well. The way most women behave is kinda similar actually. You can watch Casey Zander vids on how to handle relationship and keep a women. That is by far the most accurate and clearly explain from most of male relationship gurus advice I have seen. Ironically I behave exactly the same to my wife and we jave been together the past 13 years.

[@sebastianrubio928]

I got redpilled going through several who weren't faithful, I mean I walked into those traps myself, They either had a BF, still hooked up with me or I found out later they had a bf, stiff were together with me, all small fings with the bad boy, a couple of weeks max, went back to their business. Then my only longtherm gf ever, she just came out of a relationship, her mom cheater on her dad nonstop, she knew about it, I found out several things out going towards the end of the 3 year relationship, it was more than 1 accident, but eventually I knew something was completely off and she admitted to my face that she "loved" another guy (still continue sleeping with me for some time and that pussy was still very wet) , so yeah also had some trust issues, but now I know it's just female nature. I knew some of the redpill concepts, but these were confirmed when I found that rabbithole on youtube. Looking back what was my mistake? I didn't end it fast enough, which in my defence, I did do with other flings, 1 nighters and good fucking bye. Like Rich says, do not ignore red flags and do not overly complicate your life. Keep things simple and easy.

[@HenrySomeone]

None are faithful, some just hide it better than others.

[@sebastianrubio928]

@@HenrySomeoneI think women with more conservative value are more faithful, though yeah, I'll agree, nobody is 100% faithful. Bodycount is a good indicator, but they don't even have to give the number, their behaviour gives it away. Not all women are like that, if you go towards the 7-10 you go fish for pretty girls, then yeah chance are higher of cheating, you go lower in the scale and I would say there's less chance of cheating, but I'm not going lower, I know the game I'm playing, it's fine. Same for Rich, notice, not sure sure he's shown his ltr, but she's probably a very good looking woman, who is faithful, they're rare, but they do exist. I would say, depends on the country also really depends city vs smaller town? basically more conversative or not. I got female friends, I look at my own family, some of them cheat/are slutty, some of them just don't. I mean, if you wanna give us, that's your call, I just adapt to the game and fully accept the rules of the game.

[@HenrySomeone]

@@sebastianrubio928 Firstly, there really are no more conservative ones, just some who aren't completely, 100% morally bankrupt, but of course they will still cheat, just maybe not right from the get-go and all the time, but they will sooner or later. If you present yourself as non-judgemental and a good listener to women who are either your classmates or work colleagues and they therefore consider you a friend (which you shouldn't really be with women, but it was worth it for the sake of this eye-opening revelaion), they will open up to you and I haven't yet met a single one who hasn't cheated at least a couple times (most did much, much more though).

[@Dr-dikhead]

1:56 straight up million dollar advice for free.

[@yankeecornbread8464]

“Til death do you part, forsaking all others” meant nothing to my wife.

[@gerardsloan1593]

Like countless others, I used to believe in all that junk i.e. work hard in school, play by the rules, treat others (esp girls) with utmost respect etc. I found all of that to be junk. I do treat others well (without being a "nice guy") but have found in the past that people took advantage of that and those good deeds got me nothing. Over the last while, I stopped caring, I focus on myself (not so much on others), don't compare myself to others, have lived life and seen what some people can be like i.e. colleagues, mentors, "friends" etc, the best lessons in life are the ones you learn yourself/the hard way. It is from "surrendering" (as Rich states) that I feel better/less stressed etc. A friend/colleague/partner is on your side until something "better" comes along (money, status, power etc) or they sense you are a threat/liability to their success. Focusing on yourself, accepting life for what it is, and even some degree of red pill awareness can help you live a better quality of life. Have a good day reader :)

[@vbboyv]

Don't get married guys, if you must, live with them for 2 years, to see their true self.

[@InvestgoldUK]

Just under 2 years, as 2 years seems to qualify the relationship as marriage, unfortunately

[@CarlosLemans]

You can be mongamous or not but your couple should know your position from the start and accept it, if it is not accepted and you still behaves in the unaccepted way you are doing a betray be male or female and this kind of toxic people should be avoided at all costs.

[@davedavester9060]

I'll just never understand why ppl get married. At no point in my life have I ever wanted to get married.

[@InvestgoldUK]

Ppl? You mean men, marriage is a gift to women

[@matthewzielinski6937]

Even as a young child I had this bad feeling about it for whatever reason. I had a very good upbringing. As I got older, I felt like I ought to feel like getting married but every girl I dated I knew I never would.

[@w4447]

I think as men we have a natural want to fix things. So we over analyze the situation and ourselves. Here's the facts. This guy did nothing wrong and it's all on her and his family. We as men have to learn to let it go. but we have been taught by society we are the fixers and white knights. From fairy tales to history. (Who was let off the Titanic first) We have to learn to give ourselves a break and some things are just not fixable. I have said it before and here it is again. A man has always got to have the ability, willingness and resources to walk away at anytime. This guy did the right thing from the time he heard it. What he didn't do was expose it to everyone.

[@rubezahlmountainworks7974]

I have never seen a ring plug a hole..

[@IndependentNewsMedia]

God bless.

[@jrb37300]

Women will be women 👍

[@6548ww]

I am new to this channel and I hope I can start seeing the reality of the world instead of how I think it should be I have two failed marriages my 2nd I am trying to save so far with no success I am exhausted and ready to give up hopefully I can learn something on this channel to help me? Maybe better prepare me to deal with this failing sexless marriage but I am physically and mentally drained by this my wife had an affair a few years ago and she is just now starting to reveal some of what happened what lead to it I am sure I have some part in it? Maybe she will tell me but she said she wanted to do this at her own pace I agreed to it so time will tell

[@antwan17]

What do y’all do to make 50k a year?

[@goldenremnant2610]

1:40 Seems to me like there is an opportunity in the Red Pill space to learn & teach men how to quickly draw out of women their true character, view of you, men in general and the world at large and also to discover what price tag she places on herself. Call it “expedited character vetting process.” Ain’t no body got time to waste 2-3 years for each prospect. Somebody start doing lessons on how to quickly discover what someone is truly about.

[@ztruth7792]

Very true

[@Ur2ez4me81]

I want to move on but the way she did it smh. Married almost 17 years & the way she betrayed me was like none of it ever happened. Feel like so a loser & the way the system is set up to fck men over.

[@robzombie5928]

It sounds like he jumped early with the 2nd because the 1st said he didnt act quick enough.

[@TheRealJuseBeats]

As far as the marriage stuff, don’t fall into the idea of marriage is a bad thing because other people couldn’t do it. The reality is you’re supposed to be loving if you’re not loving one another then of course is going to fall apart. Love is opposed to be implemented when things are not good not when things are great. The reason why marriages fails because you forgot to love. It’s work. Do the work. God created the institution of marriage, so it’s a good thing. We’re not meant to be with 1 million different people. We are meant to be with one person have a family with that person and continue our bloodline.

[@varunZinger]

The unplugged alpha book needs to become a man’s framework, see how the world transforms if that really happens ! Get your POWER back!!

[@timothymccrary3485]

I do not agree with. We are not monogamous if you get the right person and you dial-in everything and then grow as 2 it’s the best thing ever I mean who wants to go dialing somebody all over again when you’ve already reached Many milestones and excitement in the relationship however, I know that’s hard to find but I found it fourth wife was a charm

[@Avicena-tf5uj]

We need to encourage the development of a new cultural norm, being single is chasing excellence. The marriage contract and idea of marriage itself should be completely removed from the minds of young western men today.

[@PermanentHigh]

It's not all that fulfilling

[@DevSharma-yg6jk]

He should think about how to get women to value him but also everybody can't value you he has to make sure he goes for women who can value the him and 5'9 girl wouldn't value a 6ft guy as much as 5'2 women Same with women who don't care for money and same for women who don't care for morals So he has to change his choices even though the other type of women may be easy to get or easy to find he has to go for women who are sensitive

[@Gheir-xe4mv]

Support mandatory dna test at birth and fault divorce. Lets make marriage honest.

[@lepointetlavirgule5946]

Ive surrender to the fact that wowen are candles until i get a passport and leave by 2024 back Africa till then i focus on myself and my purpose and business spinning platrs if i have a chance THAT'S IT!!

[@setha360]

Only thing that keeps women true is they know they can be replaced easily and you have your assets protected, the end.

[@vlajster]

I love these in car videos,do more of them

[@smartize]

this excuse is so common these days "You didnt ask me earlier the other guy did". FU betrayal is betrayal. at least have guts to say that you are a gold digger.

[@frankdavf4599]

just break with traditional thinking, it doesnt work for these times. That will unload a lot of burden and "guilt" of you. Rules of the game changed.

[@donjj8294]

The shorte beard suits you more ritch

[@paulmattox5630]

You have to make it a point to treat them like s*** every once in awhile at least,, we all know women love men that don't care and treat them like s***.. and it will make them appreciate you more when you are nice to them! Every once n a while, ur just gonna have to come home from work, and raise ur voice lil bit,, ish get n there do them gb dishes!!😂

[@justmarcin8555]

If you to know which gender is more naturaly narcissistic, ask yourself this question, which gender spends more time in a front of a mirror, and you got the answer.

[@johnfroelich8554]

Like the slot machine decal. women are "for entertainment purposes only."

[@kristinej.4182]

Probably the reason why he married her so fast was not bc he loved her but bc he wanted to get sex sooner than later. The fact that she’s had a notch count of zero means that she wanted to preserve her virginity until marriage. So it is what it is. He couldn’t keep his pants up so there… she betrayed him. Good for her. He deserved it!

[@salguodrolyat2594]

She claimed she was a virgin.🤣🤣

[@Edmond347]

So wait, surrender to betrayal. Wtf does that mean? Go through life accepting that women will lie and betray you? That’s your advice? That’s why men don’t trust these days and stopped dating. But that’s not the way out. I don’t understand your thinking.

[@BearBuilder89]

In order to forgive one not only do they have to show and prove they are sorry and trust thire actions not thire words words without actions behind them are truly meaning less

[@lukeskywalkerlucasfilm]

...if She's NOT a CHURCH Girl who fears God and Loves her Father, than don't bother wasting time...PERIOD...there's only one kind of good girl and thats still suspect at best....

[@elithewineguy]

Even if she goes to church, my ex was a church girl who talk to everyone

[@PermanentHigh]

​@@elithewineguyDid she cheat?

[@elithewineguy]

@@PermanentHigh I believe she did she went over a man house to give him therapy but never communicated to me about nothing

[@erikn54]

My ex gf cheated on me 25 years ago. I was really angry at the time. Later I realized it was totally logical. I was the good looking guy who did not commit to her. She wanted kids and saw no future with me.

[@allen0088]

Sprint users leave Tmobile. They stole from you

[@Luizgr75]

Mint mobile. One flat fee for the year…. Get the” fee “up front….Trust or Prenup

[@chriss9913]

your anti marriage stance is so beta. Everything else you say though is accurate

[@joshcarney9067]

Never do counseling. Walk

[@michaellamont2605]

It's for divorce. Counciling is for Lefties

[@joshcarney9067]

Just go fishing. You don't need women.

[@FirstName-qr2ke]

just smelly fish right haha