UNPOPULAR OPINION: Losing Actually Turns You into a WINNER | Brisbane 2019 Keynote

You will never get stronger if you are only reading about how to do push-ups. It may help you with your form and understanding of how to execute, but you need to actually put in the time and work to see the results. Learning from, and experiencing failure is the quickest road to success and reaching the goals you are striving for. The faster you learn what-not-to-do, then you can start executing on what you need to do.
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TIMESTAMPS: 11:42 Find What You're Comfortable With And Do It 13:02 Stop Thinking and Start Pushing Content 14:42 Stop Chasing 22:40 Tik Tok 26:48 Know Your Social Platform 35:28 Do It On Your Own Terms - Parenting 50:10 Tik Tok Strategy 1:00:50 Having Trouble Figuring out What Business To Start?

[@_kt100_]

LOVE YOU GARY! 💯💖💖💖💖

[@ImSEOKing]

Amazing value as always; inspirational and motivational ... yet another value bomb for the world of business! U inspire me to do more although my channel growth seems to be slow... I launched a new channel in seo and how to start an online business a month back and had only 140 subscribers... u inspire me although I wanted to give up! I think the start pushing content resonates with me and I hope one day to be half as inspirational as you sir! Thank u for making the world a better place with ya awesome information and video! Respect and hellos from Singapore!

[@kognitionwings4597]

Gary, i love your comment when you said about doing it for money VS. happiness: "It's easy to give yourself to your customers without thinking about it when you love your work". But not easy for those who only work for money." Much love!!!

[@rahulmahbubani1392]

Honestly terrible time stamps. So inaccurate! Same in the last video as well.

[@ImSEOKing]

rahul mahbubani help us do one heh heh

[@amberx6358]

"This is NOT your f*cking voice BRO" "IT IS!!! IT IS!!!" Had me crying xD

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me too!!!😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@AshwaniThakurEnglish]

Glad to know there are others too crying listening to his words :)

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[@dvanhorne]

I know... that dude had a crazy voice. He should just go voice bad guys in animated films. Crazy.

[@theofficelab]

It's easy: You never lose - either you win or you learn! 🔥 That attitude made me start my youtube channel and I have never regretted it one single day...

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[@thefamilypurposeshow3271]

Please tell me the Tip on how to grow my KZbin organically. Having over 100k is awesome

[@didarloghmani2034]

Literally couldn't watch the video till the end, cuz he put so much emphasis on CREATING CONTENT, that I felt the need to stop the video and GO CREATE CONTENT!!

[@arianabdolahy8276]

Wow! Your comment just inspired me to pause at 11:44 and do the same. Sacrifice. He don't want me to watch him. Create Content. Create something valuable. Live a meaningful life - share, contribute, grow together with the people that are most important to you, with the cause that's most important to you! Thanks for the inspiration! By the way: you're persian right? Haha

[@didarloghmani2034]

Yup! Persian and proud 🤪🙏🏻 I’m so happy u felt inspired!!

[@tama6666]

Wow thank you for this comment:) this has inspired me to also stop watching and to do the same thing:)

[@cadbeatz7189]

Hey Didar. You talked about making content, please share with me what you've made. 😉

[@UGAMAN]

You did the right thing

[@deniseaz7725]

Comparing entrepreneurship to getting fit was absolutely everything. So good.

[@Inspiredconvo]

It’s amazing how that illustration works with every aspect of life

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I did get

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@@Inspiredconvo good thanks

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Xander Stendrup The mere fact you're calling it a show says enough I guess.

[@pauls1883]

It’s a bit cringe actually.

[@ScottSwalwell]

People get stuck with confusion on what business to start and end up not taking action because of indecision. I loved Gary's advice on going deep on your interests and taste testing

[@charlesbeard9281]

Losing works as long as there is learning from the losses, which leads to winning!

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Geevee attraction to that dudes voice is everything.

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*_Laughy Guy got me laughing_*

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[@garyvveee1316]

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[@TheWealthPrince]

Man I just love the energy Gary brings, the amount of people he is inspiring through his enthusiasm and truth is unbelievable. Listening to him everyday keeps me on my grind and on the right path. Thanks for the motivation!

[@tactusmediacompany]

Was having a terrible day, getting down on myself. This talk completely turned things around. Every day can be a challenge as a business owner, digging deep, learning from and embracing failures is what I took away from this.

[@uvshealthandfitness3222]

Speaking the freaking truth!! I appreciate you so much Gary words will never express what you have done for me!!

[@udjd3j3kksk]

From the bottom of my hearth, Gary I love you and the fact that you are here on earth makes us all so so blessed. God bless you!

[@kartgal]

Entrepreneurship isn’t for everyone, in fact it’s not for most people!! We need to talk about that more to young people. I was convinced I wanted to start my own practice because that’s was what was best, but for me it wasn’t, and in much happier working for someone else and working on my own projects on the side 😃

[@mustafam2078]

Wow if this doesnt get me to do the work i have been delaying then nothing can.Full of energy and love Gary

[@realCatherinePerry]

I used to think losing or failing was awful! But now I thrive on it, I see so much potential for growth when that happens! Thanks for another great video!

[@shiningWiz4rd]

Hi! Do you post contents on almost every existing platforms?

[@realCatherinePerry]

@@shiningWiz4rd yeah pretty much lol

[@shiningWiz4rd]

@@realCatherinePerry Umm... where do you get ideas for your content? I find it very difficult to post regularly. I run out of ideas easily.

[@realCatherinePerry]

@@shiningWiz4rd I just do my research into my topic and then post on all social media platforms.

[@shiningWiz4rd]

@@realCatherinePerry thanks!

[@mustafam2078]

This is going like comedian gone raw.People know what they want to do but need to be reminded or guided though they see the road .

[@NARFALICIOUS]

"How can I help you?" - Perfect.

[@zephyrxcyrus]

This is one of the best talks uploaded. The questions, the answers, the people asking the questions... just so much gold here.

[@ImSEOKing]

I think the key that many do not realise is to continue to fall forward; do not stop to whine and cry; pick the ass up and just continue the walk and run to success... falling forward and knowing to pick up fast afterwards builds your tenancy that helps you prepare for the unknown! Thank u sir for yet another inspirational piece! Indeed u make the world closer with all that info value bombs on this channel! Hi from Singapore !

[@rrozellescreations]

ImSEOKing my saying is “Fail forward and Fail Hard”

[@ImSEOKing]

Ellyn Minas-Armenta Indeed mate! That’s why I took the deep plunge into KZbin and I still dun know wat I’m doing

[@oursimplesustainablelife8432]

Dude...your comments about accolades vs criticisms is so spot on. I'm 63, and I've been that way my whole life. I get so high from compliments, and I crash and burn from criticism. I even know psychologically where that comes from, but for the first time, it's sinking in. Thanks, bro.

[@brandonsun4909]

Thanks for sharing btw how does 63 feels like?

[@jonathansou1307]

Even after having watched hours of your content I still manage to fall into self doubt every now and then so I'm glad you are someone I can always come back to and regain my confidence! Thanks Gary :)

[@charumakum823]

Me too

[@artemchebotarov4227]

That's true🔥When you lose, it means you don't know somethings and this is a great opportunity to learn and come back to win!

[@celaizenloves]

"When am I wrong? Gary: When you're dead."

[@sujalmj4430]

watched the whole video like its my LIFE!! love you Gary

[@kieranlowrie]

Thank you Gary, been listening to you for a few years now. How time flies, yet I still feel you entirely when you preach conceptualising time and it’s longevity. Many thanks. I would love to meet you someday and give thanks personally, you’ve helped build me. 🙏 ~ 21 now and ready to embrace myself again

[@obwilly]

looks like I have some content to listen to for my flight tomorrow. Thanks Gary! BRB!

[@PositivelyMe]

I used to be someone who was afraid of losing. Now I am more focused on self-development and I understand that my experience is something that nobody can take away from me. I finally realized that speaking my truth and owning my past mistakes could empower me and could possibly help other people who may be struggling with things I have survived, I started to reach and experience new levels of living. Live and learn. As humans we have the ability to learn from our mistakes and we have the power of choice. Unfortunately so many people are so concerned with other people’s opinions that they hold themselves back from living life to the fullest. Nobody has this life shit all figured out. Do you best and learn from your past mistakes and experience. #Optimize #bekind #letgooffear #stepoutsideyourcomfortzone #changeyourthinking #changeyourlife Gary has some amazing advice that has truly helped me and I still deal with some people shitting on me for putting out content because they are too fearful to put out content themselves...

[@never2latep]

Day in and day out I listen to gary as im ubering… when im done with a ride. im DMing people... trying to add value. Im just starting however my community is growing well. Mostly on IG. Hopefully I can add value to you and to whoever is reading this. Blessings your way!

[@redfordreviews]

Gary Vee, I have been consuming your content like an all-you-can eat sushi bar. Can't get enough! Putting out content. Leveling up and loving spending time with my little man in the process. Thank you for crushing it for us!

[@PatrickCogen]

Failures are parts of your journey and you have to embrace them! Great video Gary. Love from a small youtuber :)

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Guy: love you Garry: love you back bro Raspy voice guy: jksndksnsna Garry: OMG UR VOICE IS SO RAD. IM ATTRACTED TO U ❤️❤️ Hahahahaha

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Love that you were here in BRISBANE!!! Hopefully i'll be able to catch you next time you're here

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[@ImSEOKing]

Spencer D'Olive indeed!

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Have to watch this unbelievable keynote during dinner today!❤

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I've been watching your content for years...this has to be one of the best presentations I've ever seen you give Gary...thank you for what you do and what you share...:)

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I love these videos. Whenever I feel stuck even a little bit I just watch some of these and start having great ideas. :)

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I havent even started watching and im already hyped. Thank you Gary for your words of wisdom !

[@CousinBobbyNR]

Oh I really pray I stay sober that I can finally put in to practice everything I’ve learned from you since 09. God willing i will stay happy and sober first. And then hustle second. To just stand in my truth and let the world come to me

[@MGComics]

Starting to make Gary part of my morning routine while preparing to start work. Loving it so much. I feel good when he says we don’t take action because in a way that failure on not doing enough ...fires me up to work more intensely through the day. Thanks, Gary! :’)

[@dwillis2023]

When you replay this video 2 years later in 2022 & all of Gary’s observations were spot on. Impact 🙌🏽

[@SharifSourour]

So awesome and inspiring. More of us need to be making content along the lines of grounded reality, keeping it simple, managing your life and resources, doing what you love, etc... instead of doom and gloom or flashy nonsense

[@denise3432]

Gary you are very selfless!! Thank you for your willingness to serve others🙏🏾

[@youareme7424]

It means never,never, never give up!!! Thank you Gary!💡💡💡👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥

[@MikeThaInvestor]

I appreciate the TimeStamps! But I clicked on this video preparing to watch it in full. You have to make time for your Personal Development. I could have watched a little of it when it was first uploaded but since I waited till now. I have the luxury of watching it all the way through while taking notes. Awesome content GARYVEE!

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Your rant on fitness and wellness, is freaking what I've been saying for over 20 years to my clients and patients. People say I give too much, but there's no better feeling seeing someone change their life.

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Every time I watch GaryVee it’s like he articulates (better) what I have been thinking for ages! Self awareness is so key to everything. Go be you! X

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Oh man this is so good! Love you Gary!

[@mariancounsellor]

This was really powerful and so funny in parts too 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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Amazing truths straight from the LEGEND GARY VEE. The Truth will always set you free. Must watch =) So many great nuggets of information.... Awesome energy that really hits all the right notes! Educational, entertaining and so TRUE =)

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Oh and big up to u Gary. I love the vulnerability u give!!! I would like the interview you!!

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Such a loved human being, like Dr. Steven Green describing what is a multidimensional consciousness of love. Love from Italy.

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Amazing 🙌 guys it's worth watching!

[@jehriko7525]

it's actually insane, i'm finding more and more that every answer he gives seems so obvious, that, instead of learning it's more of a realization that "oh yeah- that makes sense, why didn't i think of that before?" Gary Vee you do absolute wonders for the people out here

[@tomcoleman-smma2725]

The more you lose the more you learn! Thank you for inspiring me to create my own channel and help others gary 🤟

[@melissazee7277]

I woke up a year ago. This year I consumed and learned. Now it is time for the tyre to hit the tar. Thank you for sharing. I am amazed and seriously geared for getting it out. Ego went bye bye. I want to serve xx

[@rrozellescreations]

I love the F BOMB!!! I use it all the time in my motivational speeches and it is so nice I’ve I found you!! People don’t like my way of saying things but I look at you and say EFF IT, I’m going to speak my mind and I do without thinking now! Such inspiration 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@rrozellescreations]

You’re absolutely amazing 💯💯💯 So real, so genius!!! I follow you now on everything!!! Geez!

[@jamessimonds2318]

Thank you Gary V you have changed my life!

[@annastayziaa]

I learned so much in this talk tysm❤️❤️❤️especially how to be more of a selfless content creator

[@kokodoug90]

so much value. Didn´t listen for a while, but I´m back @ dailyvee...

[@jasonstallworth]

Dude, at around 0:25:20 ....that’s powerful and I find myself doing the same that make up that 100% and often (because I’ve always been afraid of losing!!) I fear giving up on what’s not working well. The grind...I love it dude! And yes, we have to be on ALL the time and it’s always our problem. But I absolutely love what I do 🤘

[@nikolasschefold8035]

Gary you are such a humble person and caring for people, wow, thanks for being the person you are!! love your content!

[@invi_carlos]

Like always, I am filled with that energy that helped me start my business and this helps me know I am in the right place. Love

[@formisfunction1861]

"How can I help you?" "'Cause I wanna help." = Brilliant and powerful!

[@RollingWithTheWizard]

I lost for 20 years. It taught me how to win. Appreciate your generosity as far as letting us in to see ✊

[@never2latep]

20 more to go!

[@seancole3343]

"When your framework is selfless, its easy. When your framework is selfish, its hard." "How can I help you?" I love it. We need more people going hard on the servant mindset. Everyone thinks its weak but only Strong men really do it.

[@cozz_raiser]

You make me to get up with your words really energetic🤝🔥

[@never2latep]

I agree

[@ManufactureBelief]

Gary, the odds of this message reaching you are slim at best ha. You have my gratitude. I'm giving back.. It's very relevant to this talk. It's all about intent. I recently stumbled upon an author named Etsko Schuitema. Specifically his Power and Maturity model. Genius and speaks to this video with even greater clarity. Thanks and keep crushing it you beast.

[@avinash_ingle]

You are awesome self awared Boss. Kudos to you .. keep crushing..it. 🏃

[@AnnieFarmerFarm]

I loved this video! Happiness is everything!

[@Itsopvious]

its truly is!

[@erezcohenmusic]

Gold gold gold. You’re the man GV

[@gasconblessedk2183]

Really needed to hear this. This guy is a legend !

[@JaredJacobsonLaw]

Keep pushing pulling and prodding Gary V! 👍👏🙏

[@andrewrichards1882]

If you never lose you will never gain. Thank you Gary for the inspiration and constant reminder that I am the Architect of my life and can create it to be as I wish❤️

[@andrewrichards1882]

100% true in everything he says!

[@guku28urmom]

Reptile Kingdoms very true thank you for this comment!

[@funkmanchu]

Man, I just wana say thanks.... for realising how people can and should be

[@MrAshay12]

the part about just trying a bunvh of stuff and not over judging yourself coz you are only wrong when you die is amazing

[@goinvest9772]

Great motivation and speech Gary Vee sir.Keep making more videos

[@never2latep]

Great motivation for generations to come!

[@goinvest9772]

@@never2latep well said

[@joshmatthew9319]

Your time is limited so don't put off sharing your passions and gifts with others. Stop thinking and start doing.

[@lily942]

24:03 Did no one else peep that subtle "yeah" when dude said Gary's name?? Lmaoo

[@hdwise1723]

hell yeah! Gary Lee on it again :)

[@chelseaschallenge7]

I love it! "It takes time and love this happy game " Let me keep doing :) Thanks Oppa🤟

[@itsny4365]

I like how hes picking his fingers on purpose. Its a nice message. Anxiety is taking over and its ok to live on

[@nystyle28FinancialKnowldege]

As always great advice, thanks Gary

[@storytime5964]

This video was amazing! So many feels

[@Riaanwest]

LOVE YOU GARY❤️💥😍👊YOU ARE SUCH A HUGE INSPIRATION ❤️😍😍👊👊🏄

[@victornuno1361]

Resonate with this 100%. Before I didn't like Gary. But now i see the incredible power of his attitude

[@thegabrieljulie]

This keynote was SO FUCKING AMAZING! I'm feeling like Q&A time is by far the most valuable. Hope it will help you Gary to do even better ❤❤❤

[@AActionHomeInspectionHouston]

Best Line = Watch who you are taking your advice from!

[@Haunted00Horse]

Love it all but always my favorite is when he takes selfies with people that ask. Awesome!

[@Haunted00Horse]

Rum and real-estate, Brilliant!

[@Haunted00Horse]

Fifty-two years old and I am just getting started. That 19 year old, got good advice from Gary.

[@beast5tr]

Wow 2 years ago but this helped me today , thanks OG V!

[@ThrottleGrotto]

I've done a whole ton of losing, and not much winning. I haven't felt like much of a winner so far. It's very hard to adopt a mindset of losing is winning.

[@KarolinaLym]

I mean! Gary you are better than any church I been too in my young years! I have learned more from you in hrs than years in school.

[@berthaeliascreative9178]

Gary I appreciate you man!!!