Thank you to all who watch + support this video. I made this to vent about my current unrequited crush at that time... Feel free to rant about how you feel with someone who you know you can never be with. I know the feeling is painful.
@Fara-ja6 жыл бұрын
Hey... I really like the audio effects. How can I have them on my phone. Could you share?
@alexanicole95635 жыл бұрын
Hi! I struggle with this so much so I really appreciate this video. Every. Fucking. Time I put my heart out on the line, I am never liked back. I'm attracted to guys, and guys never, EVER, think of me the same way when I think of them in that way. It is so frustrating and painful to constantly go through. I wish more TV shows more accurately showed unrequited love. I totally think that people do fall in love, but to show real struggles is so important. So thanks for this. And remember that the self love and self sufficiency gained being single is so so important. THank you.
@syedtalha79725 жыл бұрын
@@alexanicole9563 can you please tell me the movie titles?
@1987ducanh5 жыл бұрын
I just broken up my girl friend about 4 months, I did everything I can to keep her around me, but can not change. Can not see her anymore, so much pain. Hope everything becomes better. @exhalence. I hope U keep stronger and can be happy in the future, I love your video.
@jamieochoa57735 жыл бұрын
so about two months ago my ex broke up with me, mind you this was my first "real" relationship, i didn't know how to love or i didn't know someone could love me in that way, we dated for two months and then broke up with me claiming there was too much problems going on and he wasn't healthy to be around which i understood because he was going through a lot. we decided to remain friends but it didn't really felt like it. after two weeks i swiped up in his story because he seemed like he was going through a hard time and i thought i could console him and maybe even help. and i did, i helped him a lot but after he told me that he was still in love with his ex and that she made him the happiest man alive and he loves her so so much. he met me after a month of breaking up with her(after 10 months with her) so i understood but i was so broken. because he lied about saying he loved me, even though he said it first and i would write about not being the one no matter how hard i tried. he claimed that he loved me too but i just didn't understand it. after that he swiped up in my story telling me he is still here for me if anything and send me a stranger things meme. after that i saw him while walking my dog and he freaked out in front of his friend so i just walked my dog the other way. i couldn't let go of him so i unadded him like 4 days ago. I'm doing better now. if anyone is going through a breakup just know that its going to be okay.
@gryffindorprincess40196 жыл бұрын
‘Those of us who fall in love alone.’ It’s just so sad, and so true.
@mayurnathreve46885 жыл бұрын
Ironically many of us fall in that category, thus we're not really "alone"
@gryffindorprincess40195 жыл бұрын
Mayurnath Reve I think feeling truly alone is usually an internal feeling, and when the person you want doesn’t want you - no number of people around you, even those who feel the same, can make you feel any less lonely.
@mayurnathreve46885 жыл бұрын
@@gryffindorprincess4019 I could not agree with you more 😎🙏🏻
@annc77395 жыл бұрын
That’s always been my case. 😢💔
@LimeMermaid5 жыл бұрын
@@gryffindorprincess4019 That is what I experience but I don't think many people understand. Its good to know I'm not the only one.
@liyahm99056 жыл бұрын
“Sometimes the people we like don’t like us back” so relatable unfortunately..
@junglethemednightclub8316 жыл бұрын
liyah m “most of the time”
@mohinic56 жыл бұрын
All the time***
@ashleymichelleperezrivera6866 жыл бұрын
liyah m true...💔
@arvinsim6 жыл бұрын
"Most of the time"
@lovelymurillo58556 жыл бұрын
what's the movie title?
@rhapsodydevil75005 жыл бұрын
“Romeo and Juliet are the exception not the rule”
@toomuchiridium5 жыл бұрын
rhapsody devil probably the only decent line in that show
@nathalie36014 жыл бұрын
that monologue from veronica are like the ONLY good lines in the entire show
@nathalie36014 жыл бұрын
@@mika-tw6sd yeah that's why I said only that monologue was good...? bc every other line including the daddy ones are trash lmao, and not just from veronica but like every character in the show
@nisshcooks994 жыл бұрын
☺️☺️☺️☺️
@iamb343 жыл бұрын
maybe that's why it hurts so much: their love corresponded, and they died.
@KIMKIM-op3dj5 жыл бұрын
"I TRIED SO HARD, BUT I'M NEVER THE ONE" this one felt like a slap on my face. Reality hit me hard
@ayushakhalid3 жыл бұрын
Same*
@lily-chan2 жыл бұрын
could not argue with that
@hero0fqower11 ай бұрын
IN THE END---IT DOESNT EVEN MATTERRR-EER ERR
@reese.mckayy5 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it crazy how we can fall in love with someone who doesn’t even notice that we are there
@bigboi69704 жыл бұрын
Ik this feeling I loved someone it was 6 years ago when i meet her and i didn't tell her about my feelings only met her in school for 2 year's things happened so i moved to other city but i didn't forget her i keept searching for her online and found her after 4 year's of locking that was 2 days ago.. I told her everything but ..it didn't go well for me she said there's already someone in her life when when i asked her if she had any feelings for me before and what she said hurst's me she said she don't want to hurt me but she 'never felt' anything for me ...all these years...i reject alot of girls just looking at other girls made me hate myself for being unloyal even tho she's not my gf or anything i still thought that she's the one but truns out she's not...i can't forget her idk if i can.....and sry about my shiity english not my language
@UNKNOWN-hf9mn4 жыл бұрын
Its like ur inlove with an idol...much worst,he Doesn't know u exist.
@sweta_barua3 жыл бұрын
And even if they know you exist, you will be always like the wind that touches them but they would just forget about it very soon..
@05videos63 жыл бұрын
@@bigboi6970 can relate to every point this is what exactly happend in life
@bigboi69703 жыл бұрын
@@05videos6 hope things get better for you my guy im already over it 👊 one day you gonna find your true soule mate
@bk79626 жыл бұрын
The “you don’t even know me” from paper towns RUINS me
@borkoforkocherry17425 жыл бұрын
I know right 😭😭
@renskemdb24425 жыл бұрын
I get you💔
@abbiegailwylie95045 жыл бұрын
I never found it sad at all it was a really bad film in my opinion
@christina_05 жыл бұрын
@@abbiegailwylie9504 have you ever been in love ?
@urbestamericanboy64574 жыл бұрын
@@christina_0 haven't watched it but isn't the point that it isn't love. You like the idea of the person not the person themselves(just like 500 days of summer). They like the idealised version of the person,something they've made up to fit a narrative. That isn't love.
@summerghost65516 жыл бұрын
This video is for the people who got frienzoned and received no love in return, not only the boys but the girls as well.
@elaine80136 жыл бұрын
25 years. Still in love with my best friend.
@mayurnathreve46885 жыл бұрын
Shocked to hear that girls get Friendzoned too 😮
@53bload535 жыл бұрын
@@elaine8013 25 years? I'm so sorry...
@summerghost65515 жыл бұрын
@@mayurnathreve4688 it's rare to know a girl does get friendzoned, and that's why it's embarrassing and more painful than when a boy gets Friendzoned
@lottaleben-p7x5 жыл бұрын
@@mayurnathreve4688 dude. all the fuxking time 😂
@xOnlymeMonax5 жыл бұрын
But the fact that caroline lowkey was talking about Stefan here and they end up marrying each other makes this kind of ironic and gives me false hope
@ymn52015 жыл бұрын
Caroline was only “the one” for Klaus. Her and Stefan were never an epic love
@aliciabea15984 жыл бұрын
You can marry someone without being inlove
@nisshcooks994 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊
@user.0044 жыл бұрын
@@aliciabea1598 He loved her but she wasn't his ultimate love. His true love.
@afnaankowsar3 жыл бұрын
Though she got married,she was widowed the same day that's even more cruel💔
@ashley72034 жыл бұрын
''Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other... what about those of us who fall in love alone?'' This is so accurate to me, I'm crying:(
@kwek22435 жыл бұрын
*my first love was the curse of a one sided love.*
@MaddySinead5 жыл бұрын
me too, that’s the one that stings the most 😔
@annc77395 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@takiyadoss9585 жыл бұрын
@@annc7739 same
@bean24674 жыл бұрын
Same
@kojikuza46614 жыл бұрын
i can almost taste it gonna be the curse for the rest of my life,
@samah68716 жыл бұрын
"I'm never the one "men that's my life in sentence
@mayurnathreve46885 жыл бұрын
Same here 😞
@aishwarya41574 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@justangel00004 жыл бұрын
Same
@ashleymariealcantara43704 жыл бұрын
Same
@annc77394 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@galacticwildfire6 жыл бұрын
It hurts most when you are completely in love with someone who loves you and one day they just stop loving you. A part of you always holds onto the hope they made a mistake, they needed space and they’ll come back. They get with someone else and it ruins you. They end and you hope he comes back. He was everything I ever wanted and now he’s gone. I see him almost every day but he won’t speak to me. And it kills me.
@ubaidrazaq88096 жыл бұрын
courtofangels yeeess...it hurts more than anything... More than unrequited love
@rymesweet90086 жыл бұрын
It hurts even more when he gives you mixed signals then suddenly stops caring about you. All the flirtateous messages suddenly come to an end before he stops contacting you altogether, and you're left wondering where it went wrong and if you just misinterpreted his words and actions, you think maybe there was nothing there in the first place.This state of confusion and all the things unsaid hurt like hell.
@samara61896 жыл бұрын
this just happened to me today.. he broke up with me, said he fell out of love and didn't see a future with me. Ive loved him every second and saw a future with him, but he didn't feel the same way. It sucks.
@layladuskstar78346 жыл бұрын
So relatable...
@mohinic56 жыл бұрын
Been there
@cieldemeraude6 жыл бұрын
It’s shitty to love someone who doesn’t love you back, and it’s _always_ going to be shitty. But, as somewhat of a connoisseur of the subject, it’s never something you should let decide your life. If the one you want doesn’t see what an amazing, gorgeous person you are, then you don’t need their love. Truly, the only love you _need_ is your own. And if it takes you a while to find that, to become whole without them, then that’s okay. You take as much time as you need to become your own soulmate, because in the end, you should be. I know it’s silly, commenting on a KZbin video thinking it will reach anyone, but I wish someone had told me this when I was in pain over a person who wasn’t worth my effort. _You are wonderfully and lovingly crafted, full of light, and deserve to give yourself the love you think you have to give someone else._
@ulrohermit13696 жыл бұрын
It reached me at a difining moment of my life friend , thank you
@cieldemeraude6 жыл бұрын
mohamad hoseyn nadarlu You’re welcome, remember that you’re worth it
@saltytsukki42326 жыл бұрын
Thank you, it reached me too 💘
@cieldemeraude6 жыл бұрын
daegu panda ♥️
@laurahos20016 жыл бұрын
... Thank you
@hotarushulamite64615 жыл бұрын
You know that feeling when *you love him, but you're forced to let go* *you have to let go* *i have to let go*
@scottshenton6099 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@meowsan1274 жыл бұрын
loving someone who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus . the tighter you hold on the more it hurts😞😞
@oisinreilly26393 жыл бұрын
To be honest I'd laugh if someone told me they liked me back. I've been rejected several times that if someone told me they had feelings for me I wouldn't believe them 😂😂
@alicia43242 жыл бұрын
@@oisinreilly2639 🙋🤣🤣🤣
@hkaysyedhazique12912 жыл бұрын
@@oisinreilly2639 same😂
@Margaro-l5m Жыл бұрын
You are right it hurts so much.
@sarifahmahesti5408 Жыл бұрын
Its feel like you feeling down but only cactus can you taking.
@AmericaWest906 жыл бұрын
"i'm happy that you're happy, i am when i see everything that you have your boyfriend your home your kids your life it makes me feel so alone that I want to die" Sums up my life and the continuing direction I'm going
@Sunshine46 жыл бұрын
AmericaWest90 what program is that from?
@samaradauphine36806 жыл бұрын
@@Sunshine4 the vampire diaries
@ellalane5735 жыл бұрын
AmericaWest90 I’m in love with my guy best friend and I don’t how to tell him because he has a girlfriend
@r0ninh013 жыл бұрын
Mine too, it's how I feel literally all the time, my parents were already married and already had me when they were my age, I don't even have a girlfriend and it doesn't look like that's ever gonna change.
@mischiefmanaged15913 жыл бұрын
@@ellalane573 I hope uve told him by now
@Rose_16246 жыл бұрын
As someone who knows about this issue firsthand, I have to say there’s something more profound about looking at these stories from this angle. People usually don’t. You did a great job of connecting all of these into one great video putting out something that I’m sure many many people can identify with.
@exhalence6 жыл бұрын
thank you very much!
@user-jt3dw6vv4x Жыл бұрын
I agree, this video was everything. Watching the video and hearing the voices of the characters was so cathartic for me. You bring up an interesting point about exploring stories from this angle. For me, I wish there were more forms of music that focuses on unrequited love. Surely there are singers out there who have mostly ever experienced unrequited love, I wish they could sing for us - the unloved ones. I know if I was a singer, all of my songs would be about unrequited love, falling in love with someone you can't have, letting go of an unrequited love and about trying to persevere through unrequited love and finding the joy in being single.
@michellevv53525 жыл бұрын
He never gave me the chance to love him
@annc77395 жыл бұрын
My online crush didn’t give me a chance either since he was so in love with his on and off girlfriend
@AmalDuthe4 жыл бұрын
And for that, he'll be the one at loss.
@martinemaryhernandez7293 жыл бұрын
@@AmalDuthe Yeah Right... When the man your interested in is in love already it doesn’t matter what you do...it still won’t be you....
@tasneem64273 жыл бұрын
@@annc7739 same 😭
@reginamariano77275 жыл бұрын
I’m in love with my guy best friend - its painful, watching and listening to him talk about the girls that he falls for, especially when I’m the one that’s right in him. It’s just... painful.
@sharand30164 жыл бұрын
I know it's really late but how are you keeping this inside? It must be really painful. Do you see him everyday? I get to see him everyday and I can't quit it until the next two years complete
@tanaypandey17712 жыл бұрын
Oh I really like this one girl who is a friend of mine . But ofc she has a bf and they are happy together . Idk if I should talk to her or what now a days . It kinda kills me inside , none of options end up in a good thing for me :/
@euphorbia35654 жыл бұрын
Maybe the reason why we can't move on from what's making us sad is because it was the only thing that made us happy... Maybe the reason why we don't want to heal is because the pain is the last link to what we've lost.
@jatinsingh41934 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@alessiodelcastillo16132 жыл бұрын
@@jatinsingh4193 ye
@gringofett39442 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you hold on to it for so long that its just part of you and to let it go would be like losing ANOTHER piece of you. You already lost the piece you gave to them once.
@aileenabadingo32354 ай бұрын
I fell deeply in love with a college friend. I told him how I feel. He rejected me and said I'm just a sister to him. Fast forward to the present, he is now married with a kid. It still hurts all these years. I haven't gotten over it. I'm still single. I don't think I can ever love someone as I did with my first love.
@eveee11106 жыл бұрын
I praise you to god because you put the iconic greys anatomy quote into this video
@shasha36543 жыл бұрын
The worst Feeling is Feeling unwanted by the person you want the most.
@reneeshoregirl2 жыл бұрын
Omg my heart. There's a hole in my heart
@xelmers-marie61366 жыл бұрын
ughh, I know what unrequited love feels like.I, unfortunately, fell for my best friend, and he did not return the feelings.Infact, he admitted that he liked my other best friend.
@tejaswinibalaji61625 жыл бұрын
Sameeeeee
@sabinekim61595 жыл бұрын
same here but i’m not giving up hope
@Nadine100985 жыл бұрын
omg same here! I though I was the only one 💔🥺
@michaelc.58095 жыл бұрын
Massive F in the chat
@anandhu50825 жыл бұрын
How do u feel now? After 9months?
@rohitbhandwalkar2824 жыл бұрын
Feels so..... Less lonely to know there are others like you, those who share the same pain. It feels so relieved to know that there are more people who are victims of one-sided love, especially when everyone you know is getting on with whom they love
@musicalava42245 жыл бұрын
Don't you dare tell me it's just infatuation Don't you dare tell me it's not a real feeling Don't you dare tell me that what I feel for him is not real Don't you dare tell me that I don't know what love is. Because I know it what it is. I know that the love I have for this person is worth every ounce of pain behind it. But he doesn't know. And it hurts that he won't. So I will put on my smile. I will laugh at his jokes. I will support his choices Even if it hurts me to do so
@Zoogor955 жыл бұрын
The girl I'm in love is in love with my brother. And my brother likes her back. I feel happy for them but then some days it's just too much to bare. I never told her my feelings because I love them both and can't buy my happiness at the cost of theirs
@namka85885 жыл бұрын
💜
@kishan-lm4ef5 жыл бұрын
@@Zoogor95 u r a beautiful human.. God bless
@jeema90564 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what i feel
@qhasxismoua54974 жыл бұрын
Y is this so true, like I'm crying rn, it's so true! It's so cruel!
@renskemdb24425 жыл бұрын
One sided love There’s this other type of love that doesn’t come dressed in everything you’ve ever wanted. It isn’t every dream coming true. It isn’t waking up one day next to someone and realizing the only thing that matters is them. It’s opposite really. Yes, it’s everything you’ve ever wanted standing right in front of you but they aren’t yours to have. It’s every dream you thought of, imagining a life together but the closest you’ll ever get to it is when they meet you in your dreams. It’s waking up alone and looking over at a bed you wish they were in. It’s your heart breaking but you can’t even say anything because how do you explain or justify heartbreak when it’s someone you aren’t even with? But the pain is real. The love is deep. And it cuts you to a point where you’re on your knees crying alone because the only thing that hurts more than heartbreak is finding the right person when you or they aren’t ready for it. It’s hard to come to terms with love being both beautiful and heartbreaking. But that’s the reality of loving someone you can’t be with.
@laura23724 жыл бұрын
You said this very eloquently. I'm an older lady compared to the younger crowd here but being unloved can happen at any age. I'm proof of that. I have loved a gentleman from afar for some time now yet we have never met. What keeps me from introducing myself to him is that I love him so much that I have to leave him alone. I know, crazy talk, right? Well let me explain. He has a perfect life. Beautiful wife, sweet kids, lovely home, awesome career and many people around him that love him. He is out of my league on so many levels and I could never be good enough for him. He is intelligent-I'm average. He's gorgeous-I'm not. We would be considered an odd couple if we were ever to date. That will never happen but on a spiritual level I feel very attached to him. What I lack in beauty and intelligence I make up for in spiritual traits. What I'm trying to says is, sometimes no matter how connected we think we feel towards someone-we have to leave them be. He is so happy with his life that disturbing his perfect existence would be harmful to him and everyone around him. I adore him too much to interfere with that. He is precious to me and i will love him until my last day on earth but sometimes truly loving someone means leaving them alone to live their life and be happy. That's what I wish for him-true love and happiness. If he's happy-that makes me happy. Besides, when he's happy his smile is stunning! Blessings to all of you and good luck in love!💖😉
@taseennujaira57994 жыл бұрын
Beautifully written!❤️
@daksh_chouhan4 жыл бұрын
You sir have rendered me speechless❤️
@p_e_s44134 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ryt
@danielarodriguezoropeza90083 жыл бұрын
There's no better way to say it. Thank you for your words
@goldenpeach984 жыл бұрын
“Those of us who fall in love alone” wow that hit different
@bendy.symphony3 жыл бұрын
True
@joysbrightsmile41895 жыл бұрын
"Those who fall in love Alone" ~ "I’m never the one" ~ Describes my whole Heartbreak.
@raisaafra80034 жыл бұрын
As a past unrequited lover. I can say it's very difficult to watch that person (whom you're in love with) is already happy with another person but always remember nobody is alone in this world. God has also made someone for you who is gonna love you unconditionally despite all ur flaws.. She/He's gonna your knight in shining armor.... Nd ur gonna met that unexpected person at the most unexpected time... U all have to do is wait for that moment.... So guys be positive in your life. I hope we will all meet the unexpected person sooner or later
@aimannurh6 жыл бұрын
'Im never the one". This line is absolutely related with me.
@Jeng42805 жыл бұрын
My problem is getting too emotionally attached and letting it consume me internally. I shut down and only think of them and it can be very difficult to get over because of too much time invested. I’ve been practicing self love and since then I’ve felt a bit better about my situation. I honestly don’t think our paths will ever cross in this lifetime so I may have to move on from it and do other things to perk myself up. I’ve wasted too little sleep, too many tears and too much time on someone who doesn’t even care in that way about me. His heart belongs to someone else and it’ll never be me. But those looks he gave me...those looks of raw hunger and desire, is just all it is: looks. Nothing will ever come of it. I do slightly hope to at least see him once again when I go on vacation in two weeks time. I can only hope-but never expect.
@g.1260 Жыл бұрын
Not sure how your story ended...but hope that you have found the love and happiness you deserve. I am going through a very similar experience right now and feel very much alone. Describing your story here has been a comfort. Thank you!
@rahi12300Ай бұрын
going through the same heartbreak....one sided love sucks! its been 4 yrs now..and cant think of anyone other than him...even though i didnt get to see him from yrs
@No_name09-r1m3 жыл бұрын
"And I tried so hard and it was never me" that hits hard
@reneeshoregirl2 жыл бұрын
It hits me hard too
@adrijac5 жыл бұрын
Seems like us one-sided lovers should unite for a sad party 😅 P.S: Hoomahhgooddd I literally forgot that I had made this comment and now it has 1.5k likes. Thanks that ya'll agree too 😂
@gaurigarg86635 жыл бұрын
Sort of a crying session lol?🌚
@mistral92155 жыл бұрын
I'll come over just drop the sched. already
@makylee96965 жыл бұрын
lmao
@gaurigarg86635 жыл бұрын
@@mistral9215 Lmao really? I'm quite serious 🙂
@rimikasiangshai29625 жыл бұрын
Yes you're right 😂
@tahlia88175 жыл бұрын
*"I'm happy that you're happy, I am. But when I see everything that you have... It makes me feel so alone that I wanna die."* I felt that so strongly.
@kelanievassor42536 жыл бұрын
Meredith's speech always breaks me!!!!
@theQueen. Жыл бұрын
"Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? Those of us who fall in love alone?" This crushed me.
@LClark-xk5pe11 ай бұрын
The worst part is the hope I think. Knowing he doesn’t want me in that way, knowing he loves her not me, and that even if he didn’t love her, it still wouldn’t be me. But that tiny crack of hope when he smiles at me, when he laughs at my jokes, when he keeps walking the way I do instead of turning away. When he chooses me, just not in the way I wish he would.
@rakii52645 жыл бұрын
"I tried so hard but I'm not the one."
@nittoburn43 жыл бұрын
*"Those of us who fall in love alone."* gut wrenching
@vishakhagoel26036 жыл бұрын
'And then there is another kind of love, the cruellest kind; the one that always kills its victims. It's called unrequited love. Of that, I am an expert' Damn. Straight through the heart. 😔😔😔
@memechan8885 жыл бұрын
It sad that ppl that we fall in love never want us 🥺😭
@annc77395 жыл бұрын
That’s true...😔
@kojikuza46614 жыл бұрын
well i guess what else can we do, it sucks but love is a mutual feeling, if not all we can do is let it be,
@anethla77333 жыл бұрын
:(
@merakiiiii001399 ай бұрын
got rejected yesterday by my crush of 3 years. i didnt even talk to him for 2 years and mustered up the courage to talk to him this year, i even sorta thought he liked me back just a bit. my friends told me i should confess and i decided fuck it, and told him i liked him, he told me that he already knew :')... we havent talked since- what hurts more is that i recently found out that hes into someone else, and she's so much more prettier and better than me 💀i havent even told anyone that i got rejected :'D he was my first love and i know it sounds cringe but i really did like him, but the thing is i didnt even cry when he rejected me i just felt empty like "oh." i dont think its sunk in yet 😭
@fairyworld184919 күн бұрын
Same i mean not for years, I just knew him for some months and has crush so I confessed but got rejected but the thing was i didn't even cried not a single drop of tears came out...but when I see him with someone else, talking so affectionately, it hurts it hurts a lot;(
@idk-cs2vw3 жыл бұрын
i used to watch this video over and over again. heart broken over a man who no longer wanted me. i thought ill never be in love again, he’s all i want. he was my first attachment. but we live for such a short period of time that it doesn’t matter anymore. there are 7 billion people in this world. after 2 years of non stop crying, ive finally found a man who makes me smile a lot harder than my first relationship ever did. trust me, just please be patient. you will find the right person :) there is someone out there looking for you too
@1nsertusername2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this gives me hope. I've been trying my best to move on but its been difficult
@nadiangeno43654 жыл бұрын
“Why didn’t he go for me, the guys that I want never want me” really hit different
@raeanne92466 жыл бұрын
I was always falling for unrequited love. Both with good friends (so friendship love) and then... romantic love. which destroyed my heart more because well I thought that being his friend was enough. And yet... my heart began to hurt even more and i knew that i couldnt go on hiding. I decided i deserved a love that was given back to me in the tenfold. And so... I removed myself from the situation. And yeah, i lost a friend. and a love. but i would rather that then lose my heart to a life of pain while watching them be with someone else. when i know the green eyed monster is my only friend during then
@blank7896 жыл бұрын
Im failing to remove myself from the situation T.T I dunno what to do now
@trinalopez41986 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you. Way to take care of yourself!
@trinalopez41986 жыл бұрын
@@blank789 You can do it. Work on it for about 21 days, which is the time it take the human psyche to change a habit. Disgust is a powerful emotion that can change how you feel about someone. Think of the other person's disgusting features, beyond their imperfections.
@anethla77333 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🤧
@sedrahsubh19645 жыл бұрын
Caroline: I'm never the one Matt, Tyler, Klaus, and Stefan: aM I a jOkE tO yOu?!
@em78363 жыл бұрын
Gold.
@mjm89493 жыл бұрын
Literally 😂 but to be fair she said that before she got any of them and I think the writers cheated Caroline because why make her feel that way if she was going to end up with him anyway. They also let her have Stefan and then took him away again. They did her so dirty.
@calculateddisaster78035 жыл бұрын
»The ones that fall in love alone.« DANG that hit me RIGHT in the feels
@hunterwilliams19104 жыл бұрын
that pick me choose me love me scene gets me everytime. the emotion she displayed is outta this world. when she said "derek, i love you" that was so raw.
@rainbowsalt45683 жыл бұрын
‘problems can be fixed. but unrequited love is a tragedy.’ - suzanne harper
@bk79626 жыл бұрын
Man I hope Kenneth comes through
@exhalence6 жыл бұрын
ash kelly LMFAO THANK YOY
@mothman_kisser696 жыл бұрын
Dead ass that's my current crush's name
@handfulofbabycarrots93126 жыл бұрын
Good luck ✌ hopefully my Noah realizes how much I like him :)
@xfairy38004 жыл бұрын
Hopefully my Kenny knows how much I still love him ... ! 🖤🤞🏽
@justethan27314 жыл бұрын
1:48 wow. I can’t tell you how intense and passionate and beautiful this part was. The music getting louder and louder and the tears in her eyes it was magic.
@mufidafathinabila37902 жыл бұрын
What is the movie title? Thanks!
@jiminpov Жыл бұрын
@@mufidafathinabila3790 greys anatomy it’s a show
@hannahasencio43405 жыл бұрын
To be able to love, it's painful most of the time. But you can't choose who you are attracted to or who you love. The understanding when someone doesn't and will probably never feel the same way you do and you can't stop thinking about them, it hurts. The worst part is when you can't make them fall in love with no matter what you do/did. That is the the different definition of falling in love. Where in that case, the falling leads to collapsing and collapsing leads to breaking.
@johnnyw295 жыл бұрын
I come back to this video over and over again. I saved it in my “deep”-playlist and can’t get over how emotional and beautiful and fcking true it is. Thank you so much!
@bobbytables6583 жыл бұрын
the cruelest thing the universe is allowed to do is let us fall in love with someone that won't ever love us back.
@Ice.muffin Жыл бұрын
Truly.
@danielle42456 жыл бұрын
Also I needed this, I fall victim to this too
@spiderkumono4 жыл бұрын
This hit different. And I do have the cruelest kind of love “Unrequited Love”.
@shivasthong49244 жыл бұрын
This is our destiny. To grow old, fade away, and die never truly getting to experience love.
@ruthosunde23243 жыл бұрын
Some of us go through life loving so hard but being loved very little. It's not just the love you feel with people you're romantically in love with, it's your "friends" and your family. Constantly putting people first but not ever having anyone care for us the same way, trust me when I say we've tried to put ourselves first but it never works. So we're hurting while putting people first, loving them with our all but being in constant pain when there is no version of us for ourselves.
@realatta45243 жыл бұрын
This unrequited love can be dealt with by letting out your feelings almost immediately after you find out you like the person so the love wouldn't have enough time to grow into something strong, which could easily break you
@blakesilvermark13 жыл бұрын
Its hard when that's all you've experienced. And how long you've had the feeling for as well.
@kalai00724Ай бұрын
@@blakesilvermark1 i dont understand plz explain what is unrequited love
@halfdemon4lifeintime5 жыл бұрын
"I'm happy that you're happy, I am. When I see everything that you have: Your house, your boyfriend, your kids, your life. It makes me feel so alone that I want to die." That is so perfectly explained.
@Roshtheannah2 жыл бұрын
Its not just the ones who got rejected that feels devastated but the ones who rejects too .... Its never easy to reject a person who has genuine feelings for you ..... Its never easy
@hurusii90056 жыл бұрын
Feeling unwanted is very painful. Almost like a dagger to the chest
@aprilb25363 жыл бұрын
'It's called "UNREQUITED LOVE" and that I am an expert' killed my heart!
@bluevelvet14735 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with a person who doesn't even know I exist and it's painful but I'm still grateful for this love .This love made me get through alot .This love I have for him is the purest form of love ,it's the most profound and strong love you'll ever find .It has no guarantees it doesn't promise you a happy ending but you still choose this love over anything else.
@loredana_lovegood96 жыл бұрын
I find myseld in the exact same situation, this video is so beautiful and really speaks to me
@christinamitrovich75546 жыл бұрын
Find new love in order to move on and work on ourselves. We should be happy in our own company first.
@riddhidey86876 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments, I have come to know that there many people blighting inside due to unrequited love like me, and are very sad. What's sadder is I don't want to see so many people not get their love returned. I lose a little faith in love, universe and myself too. I pray with all my heart that all hearts with voids get filled up.
@anandhu50825 жыл бұрын
How do u feel now? After 7months?
@omkarpatil325 жыл бұрын
How sad is that I come back here to listen and feel my own misery over and over again? I could never get tired of this video. ♥️
@jonpowell42464 жыл бұрын
2:29 to 2:35 is my daily life from this man's point of view, it's the reason I hate seeing happy couples when I go places, why I don't wanna leave my apartment and why I don't even wanna wake up to this living nightmare called reality because when I see those lucky jerks with their lover's their wives, their kids, their families and all the beautiful things they have that they take for granted it makes me feel so alone that I wanna die.
@Ice.muffin Жыл бұрын
Never, nothing more relatable in this catastrophe of an existence some have the audacity to call "life".
@jonpowell424611 ай бұрын
@@Ice.muffin amen to that friend, it's something people who have or have had someone in their lives will never understand from the perspective of someone who's had no one.
@summer-wq4gz6 жыл бұрын
i’ve watched this edit so many times. i always watch it every time i experience unrequited love, which is a lot. thank u for making this❤️
@AjayyHatake4 жыл бұрын
The saddest part was. At one point we were in love. We kissed, we held hands. We shared music and we would talk through the night. Then one day it just stopped. He lost interest and left me. Now two years later we’re strangers. He’s living his life whilst he’s still in every part of mine. I hate it..
@oisinreilly26393 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry.
@kiyeoow2 жыл бұрын
Same
@pathfinder58434 жыл бұрын
No matter how hard we try , Its useless🤦🏻. The more and more we love them, The more pain we have to bear. I feel empty. I am like a dying tree🍃.
@angelinaklein69304 жыл бұрын
It's so true, I'm sorry you have to experience unrequited love too
@piapond15313 жыл бұрын
This hurts so bad when you are in live with a clone friend for years with no chance of him feeling the same. But better having him as a friend in my life than not at all. He is just an amazing human being
@reneeshoregirl2 жыл бұрын
Same. :(
@abinnk15423 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is when you give all heart to that one girl and she doesn't even caresssss.
@lovemyself64414 жыл бұрын
Most saddest thing is A GAY falling in for a STRAIGHT He doesn't know I love him or the fact I am gay but I don't need him, to love him. It's beautiful and painful at the same time.
@oisinreilly26393 жыл бұрын
That's actually really upsetting. You probably feel like the gay crush you have on someone they don't feel the same way. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you could think the person is not in love with you but they still wanna be friends. Yeah I don't know what I'm trying to say, I'll shut up now 😂😂
@mjm89493 жыл бұрын
I love how you said “I don't need him to love him.” And I think that is so important because it shows that you really do love the person and not just want something from them whether it's love or attention. I think it's totally fine to love someone who doesn't love you back if they deserve it like if they are a good person and kind to you and they don't invalidate your feelings or make you feel small or stupid for loving them when they don't love you back.
@AMohamedAsif3 жыл бұрын
Same here also
@nobody-eu5kw5 жыл бұрын
It's almost been 3 years when I first lay my eyes on you and it may sounds cliche but when I first saw you, I knew that you were the only one who I would always, truly loved. I still held onto this love after all these years even though you are with someone else. But that's alright though, your happiness is my happiness and I wish you the best in life and I hope you will never feel this pain that i felt. I just hope that one day I would be courageous enough to tell you how I really feel before this unrequited love kills me inside.
@abhishekroy13393 жыл бұрын
You said it!!!.... Thank you 😭
@Thisissparta19724 жыл бұрын
when you love the wrong person so much imagine how you love the right person
@PelangiArumsari4 жыл бұрын
I always been in "unrequited love" situations and now I don't wanna fall in love again
@egutie215 жыл бұрын
It's nice they had Kate Winslet's monologue from The Holiday on there. It's pretty perfect.
@r0ninh013 жыл бұрын
It hurts so much, I never thought I could ever feel that kind of pain in my life, I just want it to end, but it doesn't, it's like I'm cursed, destined to suffer every day, the truth is some of us just don't find love, some of us just stay alone forever.
@Anonymous-gr1cu2 жыл бұрын
This might be another Long random message that someone might read but believe me ,exactly an year back I saw this video where a comment of a one-sided love striked my eye and had a screenshot of it during an era of my madness towards a person who just always considered me as an option and gave me the best reality check without a bare minimum respect. So plz never just have your own expectations and hopes coz it takes hell lot of pain that you can't explain to any other creature in this world and even if such storm breezes in your life build the strength to tackle your situation all by yourself !! Love you the most❤️ don't ever let someone decide your worth by your beauty , wealth or anyother stupid stuff! You are rare ✨ and you can be loved for the reason of just being you!!!
@syd97366 жыл бұрын
The Holiday is such a good movie and Its my go to comfort movie because me and my mom used to watch it literally every Christmas Eve
@NoelTúrann932 ай бұрын
This hits home, unrequited love is such a cruel bs thing
@patatasorigins93835 жыл бұрын
"I can't give you the answer you want" - that actually hurt. He once said to me "I don't have the answer that you're looking for". That was my breaking point.. That line managed to break me. That one fucking line.
@keithl24055 жыл бұрын
"Pick me. Choose me. Love me."
@JessAyu4 жыл бұрын
The worst part is, some of these people is not even a jerk...they even tried to let us in, they even apologize for not liking or loving us back....
@littlekiwi89644 жыл бұрын
I haven't yet fallen in love yet but this video just made me cry... because if being ignored can make me sad then I can't imagine how much a person suffers when she or he is not Loved.
@prisonmike98575 жыл бұрын
i didn’t know what unrequited love was until i searched it up a few minutes ago. i just cried 5 minutes straight bc i just realized, i fall into that category. i felt that, maybe he just doesn’t know what he wants. every time i see him, i can’t breathe. the butterflies in my stomach are way too much. i don’t even know him enough to say “i love you”. i saw him yesterday after 2 full months of not speaking. the whole summer, i thought about him. i wanted him. i still want him. now that i learned about unrequited love...i know he doesn’t feel the same way. actually kinda glad that i know that now lmfao. its been a year i’ll get over it one of these days
@vickieaf43803 жыл бұрын
That’s the thing about love - you can love somebody, but so can they.
@loomloom13774 жыл бұрын
I met him last June, to be precise June 1st. Then randomly, I’ve fallen for him, there’s no explanation, but I remember at 3 am in the second week of July, I just randomly fell for him. I regret it. But I don’t think I can truthfully say that, because at one point I was the happiest girl in the world. You know what’s so messed up? I fell for it. I fell in the trap and now I’m this puppy that keeps on wagging it’s tail each time he comes back into my life, when he hurt me. He lead me on, told me he loved me, I told him my insecurities, he told me his, but I have to be real here, I don’t know him. He doesn’t know me. Then boom. He just stopped. But like always I’m the puppy wagging it’s tail, so I kept on going back even when he told me off, I still loved him. Then he came back, told me the same old fricking lies. THE SAME LIES, the same old game, but I fell. Then again, he shoved me, so, June 1st was the anniversary of our meeting and it meant so much to me, but really it was my last hope. Because if he remembered then he cares, he still loves me. But no, he didn’t remember, he stomped on my heart and now nothing. You know, I seem to always remember, the only one remembering the dates, the birthdays, the everything about someone, the colors, the animals, the food, THE NAMES, everything, and yet me? I get a slap to my face. He didn’t even remember my birthday. I waited all day for him, just hoping, but nothing. I won’t lie, I still love him, I really still do, but I’m tired too. I get tired of trying, I get just tired, and I want to let go. So, Mr.H, I know you won’t see this, but I want you to know you killed my heart. And I’m hurt. I’m just hurt. The sad thing is, I’m here crying, and you’re there not even caring or thinking about me. All I want from you is to realize one day, that you hurt me. I want you to just realize what you’ve done to me and not always have me tell you what’s wrong. I just want YOU to know, to think what you’ve done. You were my first love. And I wanted you to be my last. But sometimes in this world, things don’t last very long. Goodbye.
@jatinsingh41934 жыл бұрын
Oh man exactly same story whenever she returns in my life it hurts more than even before i have learnt one fact that this fucking pain would never leave me because it's been a year now god-damnit and ig I don't want this pain ever to end bc it reminds me of her and I don't think this is normal but who cares
@bendy.symphony3 жыл бұрын
@loom loom, I hope you heal
@radhikakumari36454 жыл бұрын
I don't know... maybe it's a blessing that it was unrequited. Maybe being single is the best. But I love it this way. Figuring out self is best.
@kendraduli68062 жыл бұрын
“ we love someone but we are loved by someone else and we will end up with someone completely different” - my mom
@OneWayDesignsАй бұрын
"How is it that the one I like never likes me, I try so hard and it's never enough". So much truth in those words.
@Alisa-uu1ye2 жыл бұрын
You want to give them a beautiful world, but they have no time for that world. You’re not the one, yet you can’t give up your love for them because it’s so pure and real and you’ve never felt this way before.
@janetheresa87396 жыл бұрын
about 6 months ago me and this girl started to date and well we fell in love. we went through a lot together. but about 2 weeks ago, i started to fall out of love. and it wasn’t because of her, it was because of me. i realized that i couldn’t handle the relationship. so a couple days after we almost had sex, a couple days after homecoming, i broke up with her. and she was heartbroken. i was never able to explain to her how sorry i was and i don’t think i’ll ever be able to. she was one of the most important people in my life. she was honestly my best friend. and one minute she was in my life, the next she wasn’t. i just hope that she finds someone that can give her what i couldn’t. that can love her unconditionally. now, i’m happier and have realized that i can’t do relationships. i’m saying this for those that were on the other end, that it wasn’t your fault. sometimes people just fall out of love and there’s nothing you can do. and when you guys break up, it’s for the better.
@purnimadevilaishram80765 жыл бұрын
Comment section is more sad than the video itself 💔
@blakieu3 жыл бұрын
years later I still return to this because yet again I am unequited
@blakesilvermark13 жыл бұрын
Same
@alinasabarova5 жыл бұрын
oh that moment even when you get with this person in a relationship and you start to understand that still you are the one who loves between the two of you hurts
@apocalypsexx_ Жыл бұрын
it kills me to just be friends with you! your rant partner , your comfort person , your go to person but not your lover! but i can't let go of this friendship no matter how much i hate it but it's the only thing that keeps you close to me!