Unspoken Rules In Nigeria... I'm Getting Tired

Hey Guys,
Hope you like my list of unspoken rules in Nigeria, let me know if you have anymore rules in the comment section below, or if you agree or disagree, lets debate lol xx
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[@abiodunalli2924]

Unspoken rule number 9 hold your belongings tight when in public

[@Contentlover1]

if you are a educated individual, you look educated, a nice shirt , a nice watch, well spoken and you know what you are talking, you are smart, then people will respect you, if you look like a rich prostitute , the money dose not hold much value, because you are like a empty good for nothing shell with money, and the money is the only thing holding you up, and is sad to see people coming from the uk , we expect univeristy educated well dressed people, but we get thugs and prostitutes, but you are the one coming from the first wqorld country, money is not everything

[@joey8033]

in Lagos***

[@gloryedet7734]

1. Always have cash 1:31 2. Avoid talking with cab drivers 3:17 3. Nigerians don’t like social media 3:48 4. Be mindful of how you say things 4:44 5. Have a car 5:45 6. Play silly games, win silly prizes 6:55 7. Men are superior 8:29 8. Eye service is everything 10:23

[@Sirironside938]

Nigeria is a super patriarchal society

[@faithruby9147]

I agree with all your points but at the same time this level of frustration comes with living in lagos, there are other states in Nigeria where you could live a relatively peaceful life even as an average person. The uncertainty of living in lagos makes people do all sorts of things.

[@enwongoudo3500]

i’ve literally become an activist, because the disrespect from the male folks is at it’s core

[@dubemellit2932]

Go back to wherever you are from , Nigeria is not Uk nor USA

[@wunmiabiola]

“Nigeria still makes sense even though things don’t make sense” 😅

[@izzy_fresh9054]

I'm a Latino living in Nigeria & a couple of things you said has happened to me 1- Random kids n people approaching my car for money. Normally I hold a sign that says " do 50 push-ups 2- Apparently I'm White n have millions of dollars. 3- Was almost scammed by 3 drivers 4- Was almost scammed by police 5- Was almost scammed out of $2000 by immigration officers. Let's just say my phone comes in handy lol. And yes I do speak Pidgin 🙏🏽

[@nyny_6901]

If you don’t mind me asking did you move there for work or just for leisure

[@gudeboindy6674]

Your problem starts when yo dont speak the local language.

[@izzy_fresh9054]

@@gudeboindy6674 That's definitely true but thank God I do 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. After everyone hear's me speaking Pidgin they leave me alone lol

[@izzy_fresh9054]

@@nyny_6901 Work/ business. Nigeria is definitely a beautiful country, once I overcame those small obstacles it was smooth sailing 🙏🏽

[@godsownson2469]

Latin countries are the same like Nigeria so I do not see what the you complaining about..Did you not grow up in Latin America? You should not be talking

[@Axel-dx1uh]

She looks like tiwa savage for real from Cameroon😂😂😂

[@TheWorldofSam]

This is so funny to watch, mainly cos I remember when you just moved and you were super excited about Nigeria… gassing up everything and the new type of convenience and comfort you could access. I was just yinmuing for you then. The horrors of Nigeria don dey show now and your eyes are clearing small small 🤣🤣🤣

[@mariamadeyemo8709]

This is more like unspoken rules in Lagos. There’re “some” of these things that hardly happen outside Lagos.

[@Ojuolape]

I was looking for this comment. My Abeokuta was pretty okay 😂

[@peaceoletu5700]

Fact is only Lagos you can find crazy things that doesnt exit in other state

[@vkvk1473]

What’s illogical somewhere else is very logical in Nigeria. 😂

[@beautyconsultant7228]

I don’t know what possessed you to go to Nigeria. But all the people I know who still live there A) have lots of money B) travel very often and C) rarely go out to nightclubs and stuff. Just occasional dinners. I haven’t been to Nigeria in years. But from what I’ve gathered from friends and family, you’ve got to keep yourself exclusive and keep a low profile in order to survive and live happily. If you decide to stay there, please don’t let them stress you. You don’t want gray hair and wrinkles before your time. You’re a determined lady, so I know you’ll make it in the end. All the best.

[@leggyReid4c]

Girl The get a car rule is soooo relatable to me right now as someone who just vacationed in Cameroon. Car rental is a scam in Cameroon. You pay the rental company plus the driver scams you too and any one who refered you to the car rental. Its ridiculous. Also the men are superior thing is so true in Cameroon too, sometimes when i would talk to them they would ignore me and start talking to my younger brother. This happened on countless occasions, i was just tired.

[@Robert-hl1hu]

😂😂. I'm glad you're seeing the "crazy" Nigerians experience every single day and you're not lying about it like other influencers out there.

[@enny_adams]

I Just think they're trying to avoid scaring people😂

[@iamfortifiedofficial]

😂😂😂😂😂 5:23 ehn ehn so my charga is fake! That response is so lagos. The paranoia is on a whole new level.

[@Cynthiasobservations]

Favorite comment: Nigeria still makes sense, even though things don't make sense!

[@ilovelove3621]

Look, every single point is 100% facts. I lived in Nigeria all my life until 2022 when I moved to the UK and saw how much we are suffering. That’s why I couldn’t understand why you were moving to Nigeria🥹 but I bet you have your reasons and I am sure you will do just fine. Rooting for you❤

[@fa9183]

Only the rich can enjoy Nigeria tbh

[@femilicious]

💯💯💯​@@fa9183

[@thesunnyshade1046]

This, the absolute truth

[@yourstruly256]

Nigeria is henjoyable - if youre rich

[@MrRoyck10]

You are just enjoying the UK as a newbie until you reach your limitations in terms of opportunities then you will fully understand why people get up and go back to Nigeria. Nigeria is the cesspit of hell and not for me but Africa is large enough to tick my boxes.

[@ladykade]

I've NEVER been to Nigeria and I'm not rushing to go anytime soon 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Listen I'm blunt ASF i can't go somewhere where freedom of speech for women is forbidden.

[@emmanuelstanley9153]

Forbidden is a stretch but there’s a lot of misogyny.

[@tryingmann3458]

Freedom of Speech isn't Forbidden, just learn to be a Lady and speak like one.

[@yemiosinubi4293]

@@tryingmann3458Exhibit 1🤣🤣

[@flowersgurl403]

loool no@@tryingmann3458

[@caesarx8139]

​@@tryingmann3458 Exactly, there's a big difference...

[@afolakejaiyesimi3518]

When my bestie and I used to go out we always asked our male Uber drivers to enter with us or else they won’t let us in 🙂 in Nigeria they automatically assume unaccompanied women are prostitutes 🧍🏽‍♀️

[@alexismum]

Factsssss!!!

[@deraeta2482]

Wow never heard of this except in Lagos,that’s crazy

[@Lovehillary]

Thissssss

[@duchessjireh5142]

i love the realization about clubbing,play silly games and you get serveed with silly results,be in where sensible people are,if we claim to be self aware and sensible...Can't remember clubbing in almost a year now,what i'm starting to realise is wejust want our own person and just stay aware from nuisance

[@Adewunmiodunmorayo]

If you are reading this comment and don’t live in Nigeria , everything she said is absolutely right !!! Especially the hard woman part , you either have to be overly hard as a woman or get disrespected

[@AishaOLewa]

My unspoken rule is even if you’re IJGB, don’t let people know that you don’t know the ways of the land. Don’t ask tooo many questions from strangers

[@dani45216]

Nigerian born in the UK here, lol anytime I visit Nigeria for an extended period of time eg 3-4 months the people just make me angry 😂 I can’t live there

[@trinaija]

I agree with getting your money up. Because Nigeria is not for the broke. It’s not for the “doing ok”. You need to be doing very well.

[@kaiserphemi]

_"Anything for the boys"_ _"Ehen, so my charger is fake?"_ 🤣🤣🤣 PSA: 3 out of every 2 Lagosian is frustrated and angry all the time so, move accordingly.

[@user-uh6jr5rf6f]

Oga stop talking nonsense, na you frustrate na

[@AishaOLewa]

LAGOSSS you always have to look good, it’s literally like Hollywood

[@Lovehillary]

Just look normalllll It’s just social media that makes it look like that bruh !

[@AishaOLewa]

@@Lovehillary girl I live in lekki, it’s not just on social media

[@Lovehillary]

Oh lekki I get what you mean But really…Hollywood??

[@Xoxo_m7]

You’re actually hilarious! I love these ranting videos😂 I think because they hear your accent they’ll take the piss even more cus you’re a foreigner.

[@user-qs5gd6tb5z]

Only miss demz can pass a very strong message and still keep the vibe a 100 energy as always love u ❤

[@Osa-pf7qv]

I went to Nigeria this year and everthing that you mentioned really hits the nail on the head. Although I had some bad experiences in Lagos, it still was sweet and that place has a sweet spot in my heart.

[@itsxchristianahx]

This content is sooo helpful for someone like me who hasn’t been to Nigeria in yearsss. Thank youuu x

[@mrmanq9517]

Interesting video...looking to travel to NAija soon Love from SA 🙌

[@eneodu3755]

You're right on the money with the "men are superior" point - Nigeria will make you feel that way, it's so irritating

[@Naija4K]

This is false, they WORSHIP OYINBOS

[@tamiausten873]

One driver slapped my head because I don't have respect, I gave him money with my left hand. Apparently he has my size at home. Another time, I'm traveling outside Port Harcourt, other passengers were trying to pressure me to sit in the middle, the man has to close the door. They started claiming defense: in case robbers come or fire , bla bla bla😂😂😂 bloody liars, people that will sacrifice their wives and family expect me to believe that they'd save a random woman. I've been using that route and bus park for years, never heard that 😂😂😂 I thank God I'm stubborn sha. Even an okada rider will touch you, because you are eventually going to get married to a man 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Oga, I'm not marrying you na , ahn ahn.

[@eneodu3755]

@@tamiausten873 wow, sorry about all that. Some of them are actually sick in the head, just undiagnosed

[@tochukwunwokike6538]

😂😂@@tamiausten873

[@tclassic_baby9933]

always have your change , like the exact amount you have to pay when you want to enter public transportation

[@omgitsaishat]

Babes it’s a lawless country are you just realising 😂😂😂

[@AishaOLewa]

The poverty in Nigeria is hard to live with, seeing people beg and shit. But you have to firm it and not give in

[@KairoK]

The editing is immaculate

[@Stephan__ox.]

I’m surprised you didn’t mention anything about tailors they must be doing very good in Lagos. (Unrelated - but the next time I’m in Nigeria specifically Abuja I know the tailor I’m going to flog 😂)

[@teesmedia1]

So true those ones are very disappointing😂

[@antnam4406]

Nigeria is lawless, only serious crimes matters. Anything can be forgiven.

[@ntombimadu8437]

If you have to bribe your guard that’s a security issue!! If the ryt person comes along with the ryt fee he’ll let them in

[@komeomofuma2655]

Watching this at 6am and I shrieked with laughter 😂😂😂…this rant was necessary! Loved eeet! But the whole renting Prado, carrying Gucci that don’t fall into that rabbit hole…it’s just unnecessary pressure abeg…or better still for balance, visit neighbouring states…nobody has time for all that…rich people in Ib don’t even like showing off too much so they don’t get too much “attention” 😩😂.

[@encyclopaedia641]

Exactly! My dear please give yourself peace of mind and only go where you’re respected. Go to places that make sense go to places where you’re likely to meet the best of Nigerians and not the worst of Nigerians example night clubs, you can’t expect to meet the best there and expect the worst etc and just stay safe really and don’t pressure yourself unnecessarily. Don’t go and be doing hard babe oo if it’s too much for you please excuse yourself quickly so they don’t frustrate you. Lol

[@Temiigold]

All of these are so accurate, that's Naija for you. I was surprised when you relocated to Nigeria, but then I think you have a reason and also the money lol. Because, rich people are the ones that can enjoy Naija especially Lagos. There are no laws in this part of the world.

[@galliano100]

Writing this down for Detty Dec 2024

[@kehindeolatunji5626]

It's hell on earth.

[@iqra3713]

Please more story times again 😭 they popped off and so gooddd

[@queeniwearth]

Sis, you need security. My father has told me, don’t go to Nigeria by yourself. Always move with a guard.

[@peaceoletu5700]

Fake news. Need security when you get to Nigeria. Who have your time here in Nigeria. Many white people in Nigeria without security let alone you black asking for security. Continue fooling yourself there.

[@johnsonolushola5131]

No you don't

[@karinal75]

Demi. We need outfit and hair details. You look tf good 🔥

[@lilianugwuoke8983]

I’m glad you are being honest and saying things how it is babe, I know they are bribing you sis,

[@adeo506]

Could you do a video about the pros as well- you mentioned it still being worth it❤

[@cindderllr]

This video was hilarious, even though I have never been to Nigeria I know it’s all true! Head up Miss Demz ❤

[@olagokeolajide4375]

It went from I don’t want rant to a proper rant episode 😂😂

[@teesmedia1]

You are so on point with all this unspoken rules👍

[@Tolulope.555]

Jesus help Nigeria. Unless is this a joke? Lol I felt horrible for laughing. This is not ok, government needs fixing. Starts at the top & trickle down!

[@Lolami206]

Before government comes in I believe the people has to change first. Nigerians are the ones doing themselves.

[@Tolulope.555]

@@Lolami206 but if people have laws in place. That can put the fear of God in anyone. Then someone would think twice about doing wrong if they would be incarcerated or their life somehow affected.

[@antnam4406]

@@Tolulope.555Nigeria is lawless. Only serious crimes matter, anything can be forgiven.

[@owomaogbayibo]

Do you think the prisons are empty? No, fixing the social decadence in Nigeria is not a simple task. For me, it starts from the family. Anyway, she has just succeeded in describing Lagos. Some of these rules don't apply outside Lagos. As for having cash handy, it's good. Because it will make life easy, but if you can fit into the crowd, you can get things done with out tipping. But if you want to be treated as an odogwu, just keep tipping. ​@@Tolulope.555

[@TraiTravels]

The hot breath cloud took me out 😂😂

[@sylviavalente__]

11:12 - 11:25 sent me😂😂😂🔥 Love this video, simple and direct!

[@Jen-Inspired]

You said the whole truth and nothing but the truth! The one about men! See, I don't go anywhere without my driver, who's worked with my family for 20+ yrs...since I was 11! I know he loves and respects me enough to listen to me, but also defend me or call for backup 😂 I love when he tells the mad people of Lagos "My friend, will you shut that mouth!"😂😂

[@abdul-kabiralegbe5660]

As long as his salary is keeping up with the economy, you're good.

[@Jomiloju.]

A returning subscriber!!!😍😍😍😍😍

[@firdawsimusa5841]

I think you should specify ‘ Lagos Nigeria’ because Abuja is different from Lagos and you’re generalizing. Lagos is a whole different world and I don’t think you’ve explored the whole Nigeria . It’s just like living in London and saying the whole of uk is congested and noisy when Manchester is conservative and quiet, I hope you understand my point .

[@missdemz1]

I do hun. I’ll go to Abuja and see what it’s like over there x

[@eseojiekhudu6770]

That's true, people see the whole of Nigeria just from their experience in Lagos.Someone like me have stayed in Lagos before but I never for once love that city,I'm currently leaving in the south south part of Nigeria

[@mlove8158]

Wow Nigeria has you glowing differently 😍

[@pralinechocolates1]

I will tell you how i quickly figured out how not to be bothered nor harassed. 1st i pretended to be deaf towards EVERYBODY ie at the market with my husband, in a trike, at the grocery store, in a hired car and anywhere else we went. Bolagun Markt was a beast!! We were followed for over an hour, and I didn't mumur, not an iota of a word and guess what? It WORKED!! Married my handsome Yoruba husband in November 2023 and i learned to quickly talk the ears off of my in laws. Btw my new in-laws are all gems and i couldn't of asked for a better family.

[@MistyEE21]

@Miss Demz, first time watching, you are hilarious, very brilliant too. You earned a subscriber❤

[@Naija4K]

It’s not like dis! All dis wahala… one ting is the way they worship Oyinbos in Naija… it’s CRAZY

[@misfitdess3222]

I went there and stayed for almost 2 months and im glad that i went on my own and saw for myself. That place lowkey is too disorganized, dont get me wrong there are several parts that are just ok but overall it has dropped out of my top 10. I see why people japa from there...all of that hardship sha.

[@FaveeThenewmeSW]

loved this video, you're so funny😂😂

[@edwardsgift1375]

"Play silly games and win silly prizes "😅😅😅 Girllll I love you but I am laughing soo hard😂😂😂😂😂😂.

[@benola5977]

Lol thank you I needed some of these Looool

[@DamolaKayode]

'I have something on my mind, I need to get off' 😂😂😂

[@sheriabdulkarim9080]

So my charger is fake 🤣🤣🫣🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️.. most listen to respond not to actually comprehend , in fact they are hearing you but not really listening Smdh.

[@estherelufowoju3166]

My Demz darling, i screamed when Manny played your message yestereday. I love you baby keeping doing you, never give up and you will see how far you gonna get. I will defo link up with you soon till then keep having fun and remain blessed baby😘😘😘😘

[@missdemz1]

Awww aunty, it was lovely hearing your voice 😘💕 thank you for watching xx

[@estherelufowoju3166]

You're welcome darling, I didn't even know Manny was recording, he just confessed to me. 😀. @@missdemz1

[@bigrich4116]

Miss Demz pls also talk about the good side of Nigeria Pls 😊

[@divanessak4]

😂😂 this was a funny watch. Honestly the classism in Lekki is crazy!! Iykyk

[@Cynthiasobservations]

Plus, dont speak as much when outside, I say this because of your accent. You would either meet people who would respect, admire, or take you for a fool just because of your accent.

[@solomongbemisola813]

I always love to hear you rant😂😂😂😂 Does that make sense???😂😂😂😂😂

[@ikejiakuchisom8596]

My dear you are 100 in percent correct 😢. God bless us ❤

[@tidespring6909]

You are such a sweetheart, I have subscribed. I wish you abundant success in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

[@adamafullah5001]

This video was so funny you are the only KZbinr that I go back and we play this video

[@abosedealabi2755]

You have spoken the truth

[@Fiyin1000]

No lies detected, reasons why I left over 21 years ago. I'm in my 50s and I will never go back except for visits.

[@1daneet]

😂😂😂 Was about getting upset that you were bashing Nigeria. But this is actually funny and true.

[@Milandiaz-f7c]

I feel Nigeria has become a materialistic country its even sad..That is why things happen there....materialism is leading there

[@Dimples240]

Demo we need more story time miss ya🎉

[@mikeo9163]

Definitely a lawless country 😂😂😂

[@chidera_xx]

omoo,u don see shege o😂

[@estherajayi8012]

Demz has been through a lot😂😂..... Pele dear

[@raina.9802]

Classism in Lagos icks me!!!

[@tobibello4765]

Everything said is facts💯💯

[@fataiadegbenro984]

Unspoken rules of lekki Nigeria please 🙏

[@shadenewell-beingexercise5042]

Boss Rich Babes is the way forward for you Demz🎉

[@joyJenkins-tc1lk]

Since I found miss demz, I have loved her

[@Only1Sosa.]

I got catching up to do, but can't believe that situation is still on going Smh 🤗🤗

[@antoniawilliams2627]

Omg I’m gonna show this to my Nigerian friend. He always says Nigeria is hard they are suffering.

[@londone989]

I loved everything about this video 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@berry123644]

All 100%, accurate FACTS!

[@ebierebere]

This video is cracking me up already 😂😂❤

[@sheriabdulkarim9080]

The government are ehhh, the people are ehhh , the workers are ehhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.. everybody ehhh

[@francisnwaobi]

😂😂😂😂😂 love the story time

[@dunketostevin5866]

😂😂 I looove this video! 😅😅😅🇳🇬

[@ayemad]

Never given the police money ever. I never have it. It helps now that you actually cant get cash from Lagos ATM’s 😂

[@fabianjoy12875]

A Nigeria has been arrested in Nairobi ritual killing

[@MakeMoneyOnline-AI-ChatGPT]

you are saviour...got me craked😀😃😄

[@iverenadeyongo7269]

So sad I can also relate to all the rules you mentioned 💔💔 its tiring