When RSJ quoted Proverbs, "Hope deferred makes the heart sick" I felt that. I've always wanted to be married and to be a mother myself, yet I'm still single and childless. It's hard to watch people (especially people way younger than you) get married and have the life you always wanted. You feel like God forgot about you. But I keep reminding myself that God knows what He's doing in my life. I trust Him.
@leadbyfaith77 ай бұрын
I’m right there with you sister. I’m single, almost 27, and some days are harder than others. I know God has it all in His hands, but sometimes doubt creeps in hardcore. I empathize and pray that the Lord would continue to give us strength and faith to trust Him.
@sheriemessier86707 ай бұрын
I feel this very deeply. My story is similar to Rebecca‘s. I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mom, since I was a kid. Out of all my siblings, I was the most nurturing and just a natural mom. I eventually got married 10 years after my closest friends. Especially being in a Christian world, people around you tend to get married in their early 20s and I didn’t get married until I was 34. I was actually engaged before and called off the wedding a month before. I thank God every day that he had a plan for me. My husband and I have such an ease and comfort and an amazing relationship. He truly is my best friend. And I’m glad I waited for God best for my life. God has a plan for you, keep holding on.
@leadbyfaith77 ай бұрын
@@sheriemessier8670 thank you for your encouragement, it means so so so much. What a testimony to His faithfulness. I am praying that He will show up for me in the same way He did for you. Did you meet your husband on a dating app or in person?
@amandac2987 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing that, and just to give a bit of hope I didn't have my first child until I was 36 and now have 3. It's hard to do at times but trust God through your journey and he'll give you just what you need. God bless you 🙏🏼😇
@OceanMomma137 ай бұрын
Yep, went through that. Was married 33, lost baby at 34, gave birth 36
@kjrussell88317 ай бұрын
I just got home from seeing UNSUNG HERO. Loved it and Praising the LORD for the miracles He provided for their needs.
@sca9657 ай бұрын
I still love Rebecca and still listen to a lot of her music (mostly on CDs I have). It's so cool that she mentions waiting for her spouse because she wrote a song about it - and praying for him too before she even met him (mentioned in the song). She is a really good definition of a Christian - meaning she really did and still does try hard to live it right. I am not saying she is perfect because no one is; however, she is what I personally consider to be close to it, and for that reason I have always appreciated, admired and respected her so much.
@PCKA19876 ай бұрын
When Rebecca talks about how her parents handled the teen years, that’s how we are handling them, that mindset of empowering them to choose and putting the ball in their court.
@beverlytellifero73536 ай бұрын
Wonderful encouragement for young Mamas! Be kind is a reminder for every woman. Do not criticize other women! Encourage , encourage, encourage!!!! Build each other up. For such a time as this!
@UncleCharlie111x27 ай бұрын
Candace being a promoter of Christ and family really makes her stand out in her field!
@cece80956 ай бұрын
I have to say, Candace is the real deal. While she was talking about something, i just thought to myself she really does live it out. Im sure shes not perfect lol, but she lives it out. I know this by her business decisions, her social media. Shes the real deal. Very vibrant. Very convicted. I have mad respect for her. ✊🏻
@CSTeears-686 ай бұрын
The anxiety part of her story reminded me of a part of Donny Osmond's story too. He had a time period that he had to take a break & process some things because of the anxiety that was brought on from stage performances. That's very interesting to me. I think part of it might also be from the amount of time that you as performers are being vulnerable & pouring into our lives - that Truly God says Hold up you guys need to take a break & let me just fill you for a little while 🫂 🤗
@terryglazier98027 ай бұрын
This is a fantastic movie. An amazing family that endured much disappointment and hardship. Much to learn from their story when you remain steadfast to believe in the faithful one-our redeemer and Lord!
@PoemPictureDreamForest7 ай бұрын
RSJ has such a sweet spirit. I'm so thankful she is willing to be open about her struggles, because it helps others feel not so alone in it. May the LORD bless you both as you serve Him! ❤🙏😇
@danielletocci28377 ай бұрын
Oh, my heart goes out to Nadia! I too struggled with getting pregnant. I had "unexplained infertility", which was even more frustrating when there is nothing wrong they could find to fix! It was so hard watching what seemed like everyone else get pregnant but me. But I gave my desire to God and poured myself into throwing baby showers for those ladies and held on to the hope for my own some day. I would encourage you to be the awesome Auntie to your nieces and nephews. Show them all the things you want for your own child to come and wait for the desire of your heart to be fulfilled when and however God brings it to you!
@marijacolak34387 ай бұрын
I love the honesty in this and to see that our value is in Jesus and not in how much we can do...I also experienced the burn out in ministry and feel like God is leading me into the unknown.
@michelledschwab7 ай бұрын
Love Candace and Rebecca St. James. I have listened to Rebecca since I was a teenager. I love her faith and csn now say I am learning so much from both of you. Thank you to you both. Love your relationship with your mom and siblings. Love to you both! My faith has gotten stronger ❤
@karinagee20617 ай бұрын
Candace, what you said about teens being intentional about who they're influenced by is key. I don't think this could be emphasized enough. As parents, encouraging good Christian friends is vital for teens.
@stephenbarnes91967 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing and caring mommy Candace
@irisbyrnes44427 ай бұрын
So good. Valued just as we are. Praise The Lord. Accepted always. 😢
@rebeccawescoat4277 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed your podcast! I love Rebecca's music and can't wait to see "Unsung Hero!" May God bless both of you precious ladies and your ministries for Christ!
@danielleprince54097 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies for sharing your testimonies and life experiences. Although I feel alone during this season of motherhood, I know I can always count on you gals sharing insight and perspective to make me feel like I’m not alone and to equip me for this journey. I’m so excited to sing with Rebecca and her brothers in the First Baptist Dallas Choir this Sunday. And I pray all the ladies and families out there are able to come check out your film screening this Sunday in Dallas! God bless you all! Praying for lives to be touched with these podcasts, the music and the film. ❤
@donnanewsham47426 ай бұрын
I found with my child, grandchildren, or even my unruly high school students music to be a soother. Not just any music, but instrumental classical music (there are even Christian lullabies that might work, if words are not detracting) worked wonders. Not played loudly, but just loud enough it forces them to be quiet to hear it. It’s good for their brains and rest. Jesus Loves Me has been the lullabye in our family for a couple of generations. Babies WILL sleep if the routine becomes constant. Good luck to that sleep deprived mom.
@Bonnieuxful7 ай бұрын
My three little girls had to take a nap every day. I took a nap at the same time. I told them they had to stay in their rooms for an hour, even if they didn’t sleep❣️I also traded babysitting every week with my cousin who had 3 children❣️💕🥰💕
@counslr08627 ай бұрын
Such an awesome movie!!!
@JBIRDRN87 ай бұрын
I can’t wait to see the movie!!
@hayleydavis14497 ай бұрын
Really loved this ep! Thanks so much! You're both so beautiful inside and out! God bless you both ❤
@lynettefix53117 ай бұрын
Thank you!! ❤❤❤❤
@BriarRoseA7 ай бұрын
Candace, when you were able to set this up, were you geeking out? 😊 I saw Rebecca St. James once in concert and got to meet her. Her devotional was the first online purchase I ever made.
@jaynewilson50637 ай бұрын
Hope to see this movie, it Sounds Fabulous 👌 👏 ❤ Praying for its Success 🙌
@RichardJones-xg2ve2 ай бұрын
I do love your Christmas shows candace, I look forward to them every year.
@CSTeears-686 ай бұрын
I Love the talk about the kids. Sometimes I feel successful to some degree simply cause their all still alive & survived their childhood years lol 😅
@leeshc59527 ай бұрын
Looking forward to this movie when it comes to theaters! They played it at my church but I didn’t get a chance to see it.
@pastorjeffspeaks6 ай бұрын
Will there be any mention of Carman Licciardello, the singer, since he helped to sponsor them to the USA? I think it would be really cool if there were a short tribute in the movie about it! Congratulations on the movie!
@OceanMomma137 ай бұрын
My 2,4,6 sat through it not one peep glued to this movie
@CSTeears-686 ай бұрын
I used to cry & sing with my babies when they weren't sleeping well. I also would sing Jesus Loves Me to them as well & make my own verses. I often would feel like I was singing the Jesus Loves Me more to myself than them, trying to reassure myself & rocking them & hoping I don't go crazy lol
@sherrylee10727 ай бұрын
I have got to go see this movie
@amytoon18157 ай бұрын
Same here. I actually got a picture with Rebecca in my scrapbook. Along with a couple of other performers. She was so sweet. Hi Rebecca. I saw you at the Vineyard book store years ago. Thanks for this enterview Candace
@BriarRoseA7 ай бұрын
@@amytoon1815I did meet her at the concert I went to. I totally forgot, cuz it was such a surprising moment.
@thatch7135 ай бұрын
Wow, this was such a good podcast. I came across it by accident but I’m so glad I did.
@carol-09-RLT6 ай бұрын
Must see movie!!!❤
@laurens86237 ай бұрын
Good advise candace not having experienced Nadia's pain. It's also hard to express the pain as you don't want others to feel guilty for having a family.
@mt18857 ай бұрын
hey girl- Ooh I really enjoyed this!😀😉 I have always liked Rebecca😁 The movie sounds really good😊
@NatashaDudderАй бұрын
😂I like the no..that's not real life...clean house kids dressed nicely..lol So true. Take a minute too.. time outs are ok. Definite nap when they do!! I didn't do that and I was exhausted 😢. U got this mama. My sister and bff would help too. Make a game of clean up time as well..like a race. Follow thru is SO hard😅 but again u got this!!
@wendyandino87186 ай бұрын
Hi Candance, will the movie be available at streaming?
@candacecbure6 ай бұрын
Yes it will once it leaves theaters - keep your eyes open for the streaming announcement when it comes!
@andreawatsonmusic7 ай бұрын
❤❤
@JFlower77 ай бұрын
As a teen all I remember about her was dating was bad.
@laurens86237 ай бұрын
Which state did they move to when they arrived? Was it Tennessee
@laurens86237 ай бұрын
Awesome ladies. I just missed how/if candace is involved in this film . Is she producer?
@SandieNunez7 ай бұрын
She’s the sweet wife of the church friend the music writer and they both financially helped them (she had brown curly hair and country southern accent) she the one who invited them for Thanksgiving dinner!
@PrinceJediMaster6 ай бұрын
And yes she is Producer.
@brendatupuola3827 ай бұрын
Such a random question: does anyone know the exact code for ranchers? I tried candy and no luck.
@kimhouchins11037 ай бұрын
Candy is what she said the code is
@margies59067 ай бұрын
It was about 25 min into the show😊
@KrishnaHarish7 ай бұрын
🤩😍❤
@heatherbowman94506 ай бұрын
975 likes!💖❣💛❤😻
@mistyanderson49107 ай бұрын
Is this movie appropriate for young kids-10 years old?
@OceanMomma137 ай бұрын
Yep, my 2,4 and 6 were glued to the screen. It's watching a normal 90s family love one another and work hard. It was a great influence on them
@kimhouchins11037 ай бұрын
Why did Rebecca change her name to St. James and the mom and siblings have their original name?
@lydiapostma63807 ай бұрын
If you watch the movie, you will learn why. It’s a great movie. if you get a chance, go see it.
@OceanMomma137 ай бұрын
The producer didn't like her last name. He wanted St. John. She decided on the James is part in honor of her grandma James her died near the time she started professionally sing
@kristawagneravidwriter47627 ай бұрын
Surprised no one commented on this. The quality coming from Rebekah’s audio is awful. There’s this harsh puff of air when she’s speaking 😞
@pika622215 ай бұрын
36:52
@laurens86237 ай бұрын
@ RSJ did you ever reset being 2nd mamma to your brothers.
@donmcc65736 ай бұрын
Was Eddie DeGarmo really that big of a jerk to you guys? I found that very disappointing.
@PrinceJediMaster6 ай бұрын
I did not find him to be a jerk. He was woken up from sleep. And was talking to a person who had no trust in them. At least in the movie. He was kind to them after.